No good person should ever have to go through this. Hope anyone who has experienced trauma gets better and is in a better place. This is so well done, you really nailed the emotions. Just want to give the speaker the biggest hug and comfort. 💚💕🥺
@@karnetsnk8376 I wish this was true. Going through abuse only made me a worse person. What made me a better person after being abused was the resolve to improve that I already had.
@@QueenFondue I feel the same way, I feel like I've had the chance of being a good person eroded away because of bad experiences that imprinted habits in my behavior.
This is such a great depiction of this topic. You handled it in a realistic way that didn't make the dialogue come across as forced. It's crazy how much your channel has evolved along with your skills as a VA over the last few years. Honestly, you more than deserve a role on a large project at this point. Looking forward to seeing the heights you'll reach!
As someone who very much went through the same exact thing as described, thank you for this video 🩵 You managed to take many of the thoughts and emotions right out of my head. It feels nice to be “heard” since family trauma is so rarely done. Wonderful job Bethy
Its genuinely so sad how much this hits home. After listening to this all the way through i just kinda sat in the darkness of my room and just processed. Since i myself am a huge people pleaser and dont have the best relationship with my mother. That stuff aside You reading this, take care of yourself :)
i hope that if this was how u felt personally and truly in ur life that making something like this may have helped externalize it and give an outlet…i have things similar to this i’ve got to work through myself
Hug and protect her at all costs! I know this story because it was *my* story in a bunch of ways. I'm a lot better now, but there are still bad days, and definitely lots of teeth-gritting. Thanks for the audio, Bethy. And much appreciated on the advance warning. 👌
I've been trapped in an enmeshed family for so long and i only recently opened my eyes to how much of my emotional baggage comes from exactly what this audio describes. I don't think I've ever felt so heard and I'm terrified I'll never find anyone as supportive as "listener" for me. Sorry if this sounds like I'm begging for attention or something, I just needed to say how much I appreciate hearing this. Thank you!
Beautiful work Bethy! It really sad that she had to go through that her whole life to he point she thought it was normal. It really made you want to comfort her. I'm glad that that being with us made her life better and it was sweet that we worried about her and when she was with she finally can relax and let her exhaustion go. Thank you Bethy for a emotional and sweet audio!
Thank you for bringing attention to issues like this in such a well thought-out and genuine manner. Like she said, she didn't initially realize what her abusers did to her and that's a position many who suffer from trauma can find themselves stuck in. Sometimes it just takes realizing you aren't alone to help someone start bettering themselves.
this is really well done, i really appreciate reverse comfort audios like this one just because of how much i love the idea of being able to comfort and provide for someone. i would like to see more like this in the future 💜
I listen to Bethy and sora and mommy asmr and they actually help me to sleep and I’m grateful for all of them even tho i should actually be trying to get a girlfriend but I’m not healed enough to do a move or anything like that so I’m grateful for all 3 of them
I was the same way (except with my dad, and instead of a significant other, my friend group) as after my parents divorced (2016 I was 11) all I wanted to do was please my dad, make him happy so he wouldn’t yell at me and get mad at me in the morning because I’m slow. I resented my mom at that time thinking it was mostly her fault because I blindly subscribed to my dads ideals and beliefs. However I never felt like he was approving of me or changing/improving on his anger. There were good moments but the bad ones overdid them by a lot. It wasn’t until I had a falling out with my friends (resolved now) and sought therapy that I realized, I can’t change him, and it’s only detrimental to my life trying to have a relationship with him. After that, the past few months have been the first time I’ve actually felt consistently happy and not living it fear. TLDR just because they’re family doesn’t mean you have to have a relationship with them, sometimes they’re just too toxic for your life.
I can somewhat understand how you feel. I went through something similar except it was more drug out over the course of my life and only about a month or 2 ago I realized what was going on. So I completely understand your battle and I hope you may find peace.
Diamondkirbo2809 Glad to hear you are doing well and, I hope you will continue to prosper. I recently realized that no matter how hard I tried I could not help my biological father and that I was not the problem. Apparently my mom and stepdad made bets on how long it would take for me to realize. I am unaware of the bet pot amount or the time they both betted on.
This one hit really close to home, My Wife's Mother is just like this and if not worse. She often breaks down whenever I tell her how proud I am of her/How much I make sure she eats/She even cries when I do things that to me seem so simple but to her it means the world. It hurts to see that such a sweet person was hurt so much by her own mother, She fears becoming just like her mother but each day I remind her she'll never be like that and goodness all I can say is parents do not always deserve their children.
This reminded me of some some old times where I was living with my grandma and she was like as abusive as my father and then for 3 years after secretly moving to Germany with a friend I meet online and still have contact to, they were sending like cops and private detectives even though I was at legal age back then and it was so stressful that it kinda broke me to this very day where I sometimes have trust issues and seasonal passive depression. But at least I cut contact with them and at that point I don't even remember how they looked like and I don't mind that at all. I left the past behind, Im mostly doing fine and I don't miss them at all.
💚Communication, there's always someone out there willing to listen and help out if one happens to spiral down. Especially after falling into a mindset that seems to be more harming than helping. It's never easy to open up, but it's to try before the bottle bursts.💚
Mom that is constantly disappointed at you. Girl you and I we're on the same boat. This mom only told the girl "you're not enough" my mom gave me a burn mark on my arm so that I won't forget what would happen if I disappoint her.
Gonna listen to this while trying to defeat Malenia Well this didn’t help me defeat her. But usually when I listen to these types of rp’s I don’t feel much emotion, but damn I felt this one. The script and voice acting, perfect.
I just wanna say... I know what that feels like, I've been there. I'm a very cynical person and not the best to be around but still I hope for others who are going through these things to find someone who loves them as tenderly and as sweet as the listener here.
I dont think ive ever hear someone else describe living a life like mine, Got called out bigtime here. Well I always say, The violence ends with me, Ill bring love and peace to everywhere i go
If this is a true story, I feel very sorry for you love. My parents are the opposite of that. Last year was the worst year by far in my 18 years. I lost my father and I'm still going through shit. I see myself as a failure because I'm giving my mum and step father a hard time. I hope this year will be great for everyone. I hope I get a girlfriend. I wouldn't mind in they were in their 20’s.
My best friend just permanently ghosted me after trying to off herself due to a few mental health issues and my roommate being a pos bf for 2 years lol. Perfect time for an audio like this 😅😂
No good person should ever have to go through this. Hope anyone who has experienced trauma gets better and is in a better place. This is so well done, you really nailed the emotions. Just want to give the speaker the biggest hug and comfort. 💚💕🥺
i dissagree with you. i believe thats the exact reason they are good people. because they know how it feels when someone acts improper towards you.
@@karnetsnk8376 I wish this was true. Going through abuse only made me a worse person. What made me a better person after being abused was the resolve to improve that I already had.
@@QueenFondue maybe its not for everyone idk. i am an evil person myself so doesnt matter for me. i hate everyone equally
@@QueenFondue I feel the same way, I feel like I've had the chance of being a good person eroded away because of bad experiences that imprinted habits in my behavior.
This is such a great depiction of this topic. You handled it in a realistic way that didn't make the dialogue come across as forced. It's crazy how much your channel has evolved along with your skills as a VA over the last few years. Honestly, you more than deserve a role on a large project at this point. Looking forward to seeing the heights you'll reach!
For all the people out there, you are loved and appreciated! ❤❤
As someone who very much went through the same exact thing as described, thank you for this video 🩵 You managed to take many of the thoughts and emotions right out of my head. It feels nice to be “heard” since family trauma is so rarely done. Wonderful job Bethy
Its genuinely so sad how much this hits home. After listening to this all the way through i just kinda sat in the darkness of my room and just processed. Since i myself am a huge people pleaser and dont have the best relationship with my mother.
That stuff aside
You reading this, take care of yourself :)
i hope that if this was how u felt personally and truly in ur life that making something like this may have helped externalize it and give an outlet…i have things similar to this i’ve got to work through myself
Hug and protect her at all costs!
I know this story because it was *my* story in a bunch of ways. I'm a lot better now, but there are still bad days, and definitely lots of teeth-gritting.
Thanks for the audio, Bethy. And much appreciated on the advance warning. 👌
I've been trapped in an enmeshed family for so long and i only recently opened my eyes to how much of my emotional baggage comes from exactly what this audio describes. I don't think I've ever felt so heard and I'm terrified I'll never find anyone as supportive as "listener" for me.
Sorry if this sounds like I'm begging for attention or something, I just needed to say how much I appreciate hearing this. Thank you!
Beautiful work Bethy! It really sad that she had to go through that her whole life to he point she thought it was normal. It really made you want to comfort her. I'm glad that that being with us made her life better and it was sweet that we worried about her and when she was with she finally can relax and let her exhaustion go. Thank you Bethy for a emotional and sweet audio!
Thank you for bringing attention to issues like this in such a well thought-out and genuine manner. Like she said, she didn't initially realize what her abusers did to her and that's a position many who suffer from trauma can find themselves stuck in. Sometimes it just takes realizing you aren't alone to help someone start bettering themselves.
Goodness. So real that this js giving me flashbacks to some of the talks I've had and currently have.
Fantastic job Bethy ❤
this is really well done, i really appreciate reverse comfort audios like this one just because of how much i love the idea of being able to comfort and provide for someone. i would like to see more like this in the future 💜
Jesus this got so real and i just needed a moment. I hope you're doing ok love
GOOD JOB BETHY👩🦯👩🦯
Thank you bethy for this sweet audio! I’ve been a comforting person so this is perfect for me! And also hopes no one goes through this too
I've had to go through a lot of the same stuff. So this one hit home in a lot of ways. And it was kind of healing to hear this. Thank you.
"Like anytime I come over, I just knock out."
Always try and be the type of person others are comfortable enough to fall asleep around you.
This was a lovely audio. I wouldn’t even hesitate to comfort and give her a hug. Thank you Bethy for the audio. ❤😊🤗
I listen to Bethy and sora and mommy asmr and they actually help me to sleep and I’m grateful for all of them even tho i should actually be trying to get a girlfriend but I’m not healed enough to do a move or anything like that so I’m grateful for all 3 of them
Trauma can be a pain in the head
Just Bethy to make me special to someone.
Obrigado pelo video, Bethy ❤
I swear I'm not crying! MY EYES ARE JUST SWEATING A LOT!!
This is so sad.😢 Wonderful audio
I was the same way (except with my dad, and instead of a significant other, my friend group) as after my parents divorced (2016 I was 11) all I wanted to do was please my dad, make him happy so he wouldn’t yell at me and get mad at me in the morning because I’m slow. I resented my mom at that time thinking it was mostly her fault because I blindly subscribed to my dads ideals and beliefs. However I never felt like he was approving of me or changing/improving on his anger. There were good moments but the bad ones overdid them by a lot. It wasn’t until I had a falling out with my friends (resolved now) and sought therapy that I realized, I can’t change him, and it’s only detrimental to my life trying to have a relationship with him. After that, the past few months have been the first time I’ve actually felt consistently happy and not living it fear.
TLDR just because they’re family doesn’t mean you have to have a relationship with them, sometimes they’re just too toxic for your life.
I can somewhat understand how you feel. I went through something similar except it was more drug out over the course of my life and only about a month or 2 ago I realized what was going on. So I completely understand your battle and I hope you may find peace.
@@galladegamer6950 yeah I’ve been living really good for the past few months it just took a long ass time (18 years)
Diamondkirbo2809 Glad to hear you are doing well and, I hope you will continue to prosper. I recently realized that no matter how hard I tried I could not help my biological father and that I was not the problem. Apparently my mom and stepdad made bets on how long it would take for me to realize. I am unaware of the bet pot amount or the time they both betted on.
Very well thought out. Good job Bethy.
Damn im not usually an emotional person but this hit close to home.
yayyy bethy uploaded!!
This one hit really close to home, My Wife's Mother is just like this and if not worse. She often breaks down whenever I tell her how proud I am of her/How much I make sure she eats/She even cries when I do things that to me seem so simple but to her it means the world.
It hurts to see that such a sweet person was hurt so much by her own mother, She fears becoming just like her mother but each day I remind her she'll never be like that and goodness all I can say is parents do not always deserve their children.
Such an amazing depiction and performance this is such a great audio keep up the good work :)
This video was an incredible depiction of the subject matter and a wonderful performance! Outstanding work, Bethy!
Yes. I am always here if you need someone to talk to. I gotchu. 💪❤️
Thank you for the New ASMR video Bethy ❤😊
I'm experienced in trauma, I can certainly help someone with coping with it even if I can't myself.
Great audio, have a wonderful day Bethy 💚
This reminded me of some some old times where I was living with my grandma and she was like as abusive as my father and then for 3 years after secretly moving to Germany with a friend I meet online and still have contact to, they were sending like cops and private detectives even though I was at legal age back then and it was so stressful that it kinda broke me to this very day where I sometimes have trust issues and seasonal passive depression. But at least I cut contact with them and at that point I don't even remember how they looked like and I don't mind that at all. I left the past behind, Im mostly doing fine and I don't miss them at all.
I’m always here to listen to you little froggy, rather I comment or not. Full Circle-Support
💚Communication, there's always someone out there willing to listen and help out if one happens to spiral down. Especially after falling into a mindset that seems to be more harming than helping. It's never easy to open up, but it's to try before the bottle bursts.💚
Well i want to sleep with this asmr..
The trauma asmr :
Common Bethy W
I want to hug her, So Bad.
Mom that is constantly disappointed at you. Girl you and I we're on the same boat. This mom only told the girl "you're not enough" my mom gave me a burn mark on my arm so that I won't forget what would happen if I disappoint her.
I had a trauma once, but I can't even pass it.
We got a banger yalll
I'm crying 😢
That made my eyes water
Gonna listen to this while trying to defeat Malenia
Well this didn’t help me defeat her. But usually when I listen to these types of rp’s I don’t feel much emotion, but damn I felt this one. The script and voice acting, perfect.
15:30
😢my ahh ain’t gonna experience this ever 😔
I just wanna say... I know what that feels like, I've been there. I'm a very cynical person and not the best to be around but still I hope for others who are going through these things to find someone who loves them as tenderly and as sweet as the listener here.
i realize this this the same woman in the john roblox vid
BarthalamewBethy why did you cause a mass power outage as soon as i clicked on this? 🐢
my bad g
Traumatic experience can be a serious problem
I dont think ive ever hear someone else describe living a life like mine, Got called out bigtime here. Well I always say, The violence ends with me, Ill bring love and peace to everywhere i go
i got serious amount of anxity and issues that i can't list down thats why therapy 😅
*Friendly hugs n kisses missile inbound*
If this is a true story, I feel very sorry for you love. My parents are the opposite of that. Last year was the worst year by far in my 18 years. I lost my father and I'm still going through shit. I see myself as a failure because I'm giving my mum and step father a hard time. I hope this year will be great for everyone.
I hope I get a girlfriend. I wouldn't mind in they were in their 20’s.
Don't worry I'll keep you safe!
They need to cut that out, I’m moving like Son Goku
My best friend just permanently ghosted me after trying to off herself due to a few mental health issues and my roommate being a pos bf for 2 years lol. Perfect time for an audio like this 😅😂
The only reason why I shouldn't listen to these kind of audios is because they make me want to hug the speaker, but I can't.
Bruh my empathy played against me and I feel stressed now
❤❤
Opphh
😢 Hello there 🫂
It's like looking in a mirror.
God,thouched pls have a big boggest hug and comfort
🤗❤☺️
this video hits a bit too close oh no
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Strict and demanding parents are a recurring theme in your videos. Are you OK?