Taking It All Back
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 15 ก.ย. 2024
- The plaintiff says the defendant, her foster and godparent, gave her an iPhone 6 and laptop as gifts, but after a disagreement, he stole them out of her bag and won’t give them back. Now she’s suing for the cost of the items. The defendant argues once the plaintiff treated him with disrespect, he took them back. He initially paid for them, so he shouldn’t have to pay her anything.
Case #25325
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Shout out to the defendant and his partner for stepping up to help raise children.
She really doesn't get how insanely lucky she was to be in the foster care system with someone as decent as him smh.
Yessssss. Could have been in a very bad home. Hopefully she gets it together mentally as she matures. 18 is pretty young.
I'm trying to tell you because some of these foster parent's are trash
Exactly my adopted mother broke a wooden cane on my shoulder when I was the plaintiff age she should be grateful to the highest degree but she's young and thinks she knows it all nd following ppl who agrees with her or doing what most young adults do in that age
Dame sucks to be you
I didn’t go there to air dirty laundry I went because I wanted the hard drive to my laptop so I could hand in my college midterms
Even as the judge was giving the plaintiff her final lecture, you could see on her face that she wasn't listening and she couldn't have cared less...
Exactly! She snickered and turned her head @11:00 mark.
At the same time you can see the defendant felt really bad listening to the judge give the lecture he even got teary-eyed
Silly Girl...she got an attitude just hearing the word listen !!!!! Can't nobody tell her s**t...she wants to learn the hard way!!
I think it really wasn’t about the phone or laptop. Kids are unreasonable and irrational, especially around her age and they want to hang out with their friends, go on dates, go shopping etc…the last thing they’re thinking about is calling their parents and in this case foster parents. Let’s be real, the foster father is a bit of a weirdo, what grown man gives a child candy then asks the mom if she can have sleepovers? Why is he trying to keep her tethered to him by buying her a phone and paying the bill but only if she calls him every day, and when she doesn’t he takes the phone and the laptop he gave her as a gift while throwing all her belongings out of the house? This guy seems sus.
@@mohammedkhaliq1475 That’s what I was thinking.
Bottom line, she’s ungrateful and will have a hard life with that type of mentality. Such a shame. Let her learn the hard way.
STRAIGHT FACTS THOUGH 👌🏾💪🏾💯💯💯
TRUTH
Next time she needs help, tell her to fend for herself. The plaintiff needs a really harsh life lesson, only then will she adjust that sense of entitlement she has.
lol, only if she's actually gonna learn the lesson. She could easily move on to the next sucker and have them take care of it for her......I don't think she's caught on to how lucky she was......hope the dad keeps up the good work and stand up for their rules and expectations!
@@EasyGrilling101 She's 18, she thinks she's the center of the universe, what a surprise. I hope she grows up a bit and learns to appreciate when people are helping her.
Blame him and his bad parenting giving kids iphones he trying to be there friend . He was the parent so she is who she is because of him and her mom
@@toyiadecorcreations He didn’t have to be there for her at all. It was only because he’s a freaking awesome, kind person that he took her in. Don’t criticize her for probably giving her the only stable environment she ever had.
@@toyiadecorcreationsthat’s horse$hit! He treated her like a daughter and most kids by the age of 18 have those things…it’s not like he bought them for a 13 yo 🙄
Um.. I know she is young, but she is not the sharpest knife in the drawer. She is ungrateful!
I understand how she feels. You’re 18 and you think you know everything. She’ll learn. She’ll probably even come crawling back to him. She’ll realize that she messed up. The real world is not easy
Sometimes the biggest hurt comes when you're not able to say "I'm sorry" or "I love you" in time.
she wont go crawling back to them.
She’s an ingrate and if she hasn’t learned by now she never will…18 is when most already have their ‘aha’ moment.
@@hottuna2006y’all both preaching cause wooooooooo
Whew the audacity 😮💨. You have someone that is not related to you in any capacity that takes you in & raises you. “My mother doesn’t even put her hands on me”. Well why didn’t your mother solely raise you?! Be grateful.
exactly
It’s not a four year olds fault that she doesn’t have a good and loving father in her life and a mother who hands her off into another man’s house. It’s not her fault that she then spends years going back and forth between two households with possibly different partners. He’s not related, and he didn’t answer when asked when he became a foster parent. He was angry with her for behaving badly, and took back his gifts when she was leaving. However, I don’t think she should have sued him and she did have a snarky attitude.
It’s not everyone that rises above their circumstances and has a healthy, understanding and a determination to be independent.
@JasmineTiya it's funny that she said that being that her mom didn't even bother to raise her.
@@tessforbes8687the judge should've dismissed the case. This selfish and ungrateful young lady needs to find out how good she had it at his home. She needs a tremendous attitude adjustment. I was completely disgusted with her attitude.
One word.....UNGRATEFUL
Very ungrateful 😒 and she still doesn't get it.
This is kinda sad. That girl is blinded. JM is right, hopefully one day she will realize her mistake and her foster family will forgive her.
Not blinded, spoiled and spoiled by the foster father. Someday she will be crawling back for forgiveness, and in trouble in the baby way. Sad but it happens very often.
You can forgive but that doesn't mean you have to have someone back in your life that is a choice. A person doesn't have to let you back in. Forgiveness is not do what you want and think you can come back later. It's a person right and choice to let someone back in. It's not owed to no one to come back
That smirk on her face at the end even as the judge is talking to her is disgusting. She just threw away one of the best things for a mere $480.
That smirk angered me so much too. Ugh. I'd love to be a fly on that wall when she realizes that she screwed herself over.
I was a foster child, in thec70s, my parents died. I went through hell, but my last foster home were a loving couple. She will have a hrs road ahead of her cause she is a bitch, her personality said it all.
He sounds like a pretty decent guy (even though he’s misinformed about how gifts work) and she’s foolish for burning this bridge. Especially over $400 😳 All she had to do was offer respect and follow the house rules. I’m so grateful my kids are in their 30’s 😂
She burned the bridge down. Her own parents didn’t even want her she’s lucky to have him
I agree. JM told the plaintiff she wouldn’t get the words said to her and JM was right and it’s a shame.
She was holding back a young BS youth rage
He sounds like my Dad. He was a wonderful and generous Father, but he put up with no nonsense. She needs to listen to this man. 👍🏻❤️
@@SL-rh9og 'her own parents were unable to parent her' is all that we know from the PC video
Terrible I see this all the time. I bet the biological parent is in the picture influencing all this... they always are, jealous someone did their job better than them...
Being a foster parent is hard, especially with teenagers. My neighbor is a foster parent, I would watch her foster kids, most of those kids are a mess. Most also as soon as they turn 18, or leave the foster home, run back to the bio parents, or turn into even bigger messes. You can't really discipline these kids. Even raising your voice at them, can get you investigated by the state. I give major props to the good foster parents that take in other people's children that are messed up for many reasons and treat them as their own.
I couldn't imagine being a Foster parent is hard enough but being a Foster parent to a teenager you can't discipline would be horrible
That’s not necessarily true. I do believe some teens are blinded by trauma and gets caught up in feeling that what they experienced is permanent instead of temporary. Some seem beyond repair but really just need the right help. Now if it’s refused than you just gotta let them fall but when they do fall they’ll see the error in their ways. Even if it has to be rock bottom
@@alyssahamlett imagine being a foster child. 🙄
People need to stop procreating when they can't take care of themselves never mind pooping out a kid to dump them into foster care.
I had way more compassion and gratitude when I was 18. She is not a child but an adult and she has probably lost the only person who is ever going to really care for her.
18 may technically be an adult but not really
i had been paying bills for four years by the time that I was 18. i had almost full charge of my then five siblings and four cousins. Plus I walked them with any of the little neighborhood kids to the Watts branch library with the ten of us.
You are amazing, may God bless you for your beautiful and compassionate soul.
The young lady just doesn't get it. She's going to have to go to the school of hard knocks..
My aunt became my legal guardian @ 2 because my mom was killed. My biggest lesson in that was appreciating that she didn’t have to do that so I will always be grateful. Hopefully, she’ll wake up. You can’t burn those bridges babygirl…
So sorry for your loss. I’m glad you had someone to step in to continue to love and care for you ❤
@@Author_DeQuindra_Renea Thank you 😊
God bless your aunt and God bless you…I’m sure your Mom was overseeing your upbringing from her place in Heaven 💔💔😢😢🙏🏻🙏🏻
Spoiled entitled plaintiff. That's all.
She’s privileged and doesn’t even know it
But yet I'm sure she calls herself oppressed.
she did not stay long enough to benefit from what these people could teach her. She did not get any real privileges. She didn’t even benefit by learning how blessed she really is.
Wow, the plaintiff sounds so ungrateful. The defendants seem like decent people and wanted to help her. She most likely burned that bridge and cannot reach out for help in the future. What a shame!
What a cute man and clueless child.
Because he’s short lol
I see the heart unlike many others anymore.
She wants the perks of being treated like one of their own biological children, but when it's more convenient, she wants to play 'the foster child card.' ...Here she is suing this couple[LITERALLY] for MINDING when she disobeys and disrespects them, and two months from now, she's going to be bad mouthing them to someone for not cosigning for her to get a brand new car.
He has no kids of his own so what perks where you talking about 🧐
BINGO
This young woman is disrespectful and ungrateful. She is INCREDIBLY fortunate to have had a loving, supportive foster family, but it seems that she’s taken that for granted. I hope that some day she realizes the value of the love and care these people gave her- and in turn, she treats them with more respect.
Just bc your 18 doesn't mean your an adult! Your still immature 🙄.. one day she will regret this.
It does mean that actually. It just means she has to fend for herself.
STRAIGHT FACTS THOUGH 🤦🏾♀️🤷🏽♀️👌🏾💪🏾💯💯💯
I know Marlow and he’s such a caring person. I’m so sad she did this to him
I give my kids gifts but if they misbehave or need to be grounded, guess what, I'm taking those things back. They may or may not get those things back. SMH. That's just parenting.
Can't believe she really proved the judge right. OMFG! I had so much hopes for her.
I can tell by the way they talk they from NY , I’m from NY too and I didn’t have not one person to take me in I slept on the cold, dirty, train I WISH someone took me in and bought me a iPhone frfr but like the judge said one day she will see how cold the world really is and she will see that these people were really nice and loving to her and that’s IRREPLACEABLE !!❤️
🤣🤣 not the dirty train 🤣
Well said Judge!
She’s ungrateful she lucky they treated her like a real chld. Either one shouldn’t be putting hands on each other. A man that took you in when your own father wouldn’t or your other family members.
She is 18, no longer a minor. But she should not picking fights she cannot win. But if she thinks that she can run to CPS now, wrong, you are now aged out.
That hallway segment at the end with her was pointless. She’s going to have a child and she will get it back 10 times worse.
Not being funny, but she doesn't seem too bright.
You saying that makes you worse than her, she's 18 and learning her lessons. What's your excuse???
Unfortunately, this is how it goes. I support the parents decision. It hurts them to see all they did for the child to keep them from the "evils" of this world. She punched him in the face??? Lawd, I would've turned in my license amd got at her since she's grown
This is horrible. He stepped up as a father figure and she mistreats him. So many families, especially black families split up and there is no more structure. He did everything for her in hopes she has a father figure and this is how she repaid him? Disgusting!
My grandmother raised me and she was old fashioned on top of being a parent when she didn't have to be. I use to think she was being mean with her rules and things she would and wouldn't let me do etc. When I got older I thanked her time and time again because I understood why she did what she did. I hope this lady realizes it as well. I think they really care for her.
One, One day this young lady is going to look back and say what have I done? These good people took you into their home and you have the the audacity to be disrespectful and on top of that.....SUE THEM????
I cannot believe how angry this young lady has made me. Without him she would never have graduated high school... would probably have 2 kids, and be hooked up with some random baby daddy.
She’s young, when you’re that age you don’t see the bigger picture. She’ll realize it one day. We all have been through this stage
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I mean how you know all that 🙄
@@jasthemua5365 exactly!! I was wondering if she thinks all young black women are destined for the same misfortunes in life. SMFH!!
@@MBCrusin lord knows I put my parents through hell as a teenager. I’ve definitely been through it.
Good 4 u sir, she was disrespectful & ungrateful
Some people really don't understand how lucky they are to have the parents they have....I had a traumatic childhood but I'm still thankful my parents weren't any worse.
I admire the Judge for the wisdom she gave at the end. I felt that
The young lady is headed for disaster. She talking about what her mom will or won’t do, we’ll she ain’t taking care of you and neither am I lol
What a Amazing MAN to be more than just a Foster parent. That young girl is just like a movie I watched years ago called “Clueless”. Smh 🙏🏽💙
I used to really want children, but after dealing with my hubby's kids and seeing how these kids act now, I'm passing on that dream.
Ungrateful immature young lady. The audacity of this child- the reality will hit her with so cold world. God Bless this Godfather /foster who open his home . Next time say no
Shots fired at METROPCS lol
I’ll tell you defendant seems like a good person. Shaniqua needs to be taught a life lesson. Ridiculous 😒
U r good spelling her name! 😣 😁
This is just disrespectful borderline racist
@@secretlyamazing no it isn’t. You’re racist
And it’s shanequa
Weirdo
She couldn’t even finish the question before he said NO!!!!!!
So many children would have appreciated these parents. Sad situation.
09:52
Judge: So if she calls you in 6 months and said I need a pl...
Defendant: NO! Nooooo! Absolutely Not!
Me: LMAO I know that's right
😂😂 he’s sick of her shii
@@bigplanner I’m sick of her😂😂😂
The "I dunno" and raise of the shoulders at the end from the plaintiff is so disappointing.
Why doesn’t he just quit paying her phone bill?? She’s 18, she can easily find a job! She sounds like she thinks she’s entitled.
To this man I say, 'I am so very sorry that you did something so great and got paid back with such ingratitude. And you did nothing wrong.'
Well said! Hear! Hear! Kudos to you.
I laughed so hard when she said "I dont know" hahaha she doesn't care at 18
There has to be a reason, one that JM did not get into, that the plaintiff is not with her mother, but my suspicion is her life would not have been at the same level as it was with the defendant and his family.
She is ungrateful and full of attitude. I truly hope that she has gotten her act together, because if she does ever need arms to run back to, she may not find them!
Poor girl, she’s doomed
JM is such a great judge. You can tell she cares about the people in her court. This is what sets her apart from some of the other TV judges.
I wish I had a dad like this that girl is so ungrateful she spoke like it was ntn she will regret it 1 day
I was a rebellious teen so I get that its usually par for the course. But my GAWD I'm so grateful for my quiet, straight A homebody teenagers that i am so fortunate to have. I just cant imagine dealing with that kind of drama for long periods of time.
Look out! Vengeance is coming!
I hope they don't help her with nothing else until she's mature enough to realize what she had versus what she lost. They are owed a MAJOR apology!!
Absolutely not
She's entitled. She will regret this decision. Next time she needs help she betta go to her mother.
We have the same name though I spell my first slightly different.
@@LeolaGlamour lol hey twin 👯♀️
I adopted my son from the foster care system when he was 12. There were years of fear, anger, rejection and heartache.
He is now 25, and, fortunately, he still lives with me. He's a great person and easy to live with...now. I'm so glad he stayed with us and he has grown up and out of those really tough phases.
He's also forgiven me for the times when I didn't handle his bad emotions very well. He has such a huge heart❤!
Kids who come from hard places, and who have lived through abuse and neglect for most of their lives, come in with LOTS of emotional baggage.
It's HARD to be their caregiver, but it's not their fault. They are 100% the victims of the terrible adults who came before you.
They can't trust anyone for years!
Remember these words if ever want to foster or adopt an older child. It's not like "The Blindside" movie. It's not for the faint of heart.
The kids DESERVE a permanent home, but if you're unprepared, your adoption will likely disrupt, and the child will have one more huge rejection in their life.
We saw this happen in our adoption support group. Most of the adoptions disrupted. Maybe 3 out of 10 stayed together.
I'm sorry to be a downer but people need the know the truth to be able to stick it out and give your adopted child a permanent home.
She literally heard nothing smh so sad
Such a ungrateful brat and that man is a good person it's hard to find men like him nowadays
Her life is going to get tough and I’m sad to say I hope they wish her the best and send her on her way. Watch how her sister flourishes with this family and I bet she’ll regret lot
She's the type of person that will hate the sister later and say she was favoured more than her.
I have a great bond with my sister 💞 y’all are sick in these comments
Girl, that ain’t your stuff. Why be rebellious and defiant to those nice ppl? Just do what you’re told, or get a job and get your own things.
Quadasia? who comes up with a name like that.
Don’t worry about it. A name is a name.
I remember being 18. I remember not getting it. I remember not knowing everything even though I thought I did. I am hoping time and life experience matures her and I hope one day they can forgive one another.
Preach
I was confused by the dad feelings at first until the judge gave her speech and seen the child reaction during and after. Dad is not wrong at all.
A gift is a gift and she had the right to get it back however the whole situation is sad. Its so hard to find a reliable support system as an adult. People who will really be there for you mentally and financially. I hope she matures in a way that will show her that she had a great thing going and she learns gratitude. I remember at 18 i wanted everyone to let me make my
Own decisions and leave me alone. But now at 25 im so grateful for the support my family gives me even when it feels overbearing.
"when you're 18 you think you know everything but you don't"
Facts!
What a good father! She was lucky to have him, he didn't have to do what he did.... and he did it well. She will come to regret her actions.
little girls face is the "in one ear and out one ear" look.
WOW !!!!!!!! This is one of the most ungrateful children I've ever seen. She thinks she has all of the world's answers but she's goin to learn real quik that she doesn't know sh!t.
As the old people say, "Once you tear your draws with me, you can't sew them back up"
Did yall see the attitude that she gave the judge when she told her that she couldn't speak?
Some people just so ungrateful. They will never understand just how good they have it until they have burned those bridges and are at rock bottom with no one to help. You can only hope ungrateful teenagers learn before it’s too late.
Judge was right. When I was 18, I thought I was so mature and smart. I was an idiot.
I finally graduated from idiot to dummy, but it took a long time. Hopefully some day the plaintiff will learn appreciation and gratitude.
I was such a good wholesome teenager. I lived to please my parents.
Smh. So she's going to sue the man who raised her, over a phone he gave her? Not sure it's worth the relationship.
What a step up man!! There needs to be more men like this.
She's going to definitely have to learn the hard way
How new was the laptop? Lets get that used value as a judgement please!!
Wow, always good to see a real man doing what's right!! Hope I have an easier time with my teens, lol!
This is one of the cases were I wish we got a follow up on. I truly wonder where that young lady is in life now after burning a bridge like that.
I like this couple. Seem like decent people - the kid is going to have a real shock. Hope it’s not too late
I love when Judge Milian speaks her wisdom at the end of theses cases… she sees so many relationships die because of small arguments that grow too big. But the big picture of what she says in all these moments is that life is way too short for long term grudges….😔
The defendant thinks because she hit the "magic number 18" she's grown. It's sad because 18 (even 21) is too young to consider these young people adults. They don't have the life experiences, intelligence, or biology/maturity to make decisions out of logic as opposed to emotion. I'm sure the defendants weren't perfect but no parent is. Her mother obviously had troubles of her own if all her children were raised by kind neighbors. I have teenagers and this has been the most difficult experience during parenting. Judge Milan said it perfectly...they're stupid. Stupid because they think they know better and think their birthday coming around for the 18th time changes anything. Any parent knows most people under 25 are just grown children, not responsible adults.
My mom always said being grown covers a lot of ground.
"so if she calls you in 6 months a-" NO!!!!
that girl has no idea.
I love how amazing judge Milian is! Fair, smart, beautiful!
When she turned 18 she was no longer covered as a foster child.
21
Yikes, the look she shot the judge at the end was very telling
That's why alot of people don't do foster care and adoption sometimes these kids grow up to be very ungrateful..
He kind of looks like Kevin Hart too with the same humor lol
Thank you that's who he sounds like 😭
If she calls u and says she need another,,,,,
“NOOOOOOOOOO” 😂😂😂😂
I'm really surprised the girl didn't just scream Talk to the hand and fart on her way out.
Yes, everyone is giving the plaintiff life lessons that she needs and so.
However... the "Godfather" has a schtick for a houseful of obedient, young female dependents. And I've seen a couple of red flags there. "NO! NO! IT'S MY HOUSE, I make sure that these young women are indebted to ME!"
King Baby vibes for sure, though he's made sure to keep it half legal.
Why is she so rebellious and defiant?
There might be a whole, unspoken reason there, Judge. And this young lady knows how to keep secrets. Ask me how I can tell.
I 100% agree with Judge Milian on the finding.
Though he took care of her but it seems like it was no bonding between them.
for her to have a foster parent says a lot already
What now Judge,I have a Metro PCS🤣🤣
Lol he said NO so quick and JM didn't even complain about how she didn't get to finish her question 😂 I totally understand the defendants. Hopefully the plaintiff wakes up and wise's up soon and humbles herself.
The little girl is ungrateful! She’s going to regret this one day! Sad
I would really like to know why people can be this ungrateful. Everybody knows how house rules work. Their home, their rules. All she had to do is appreciate what she had... A family
Being young is never an excuse for being a jerk.
Those that do not hear will feel. I just hope life isn't too rough on this young lady.