Married at First Sight, Season 12 Episode 7 Review "How Do You Know if You're In Love"

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  • @meaganrgarrett
    @meaganrgarrett 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Eric in the studio singing 🎶 My girl loves to party all the time! Party all the time ! Party all the tiiiiime!! 🎶

    • @dmp04
      @dmp04 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Love it.

  • @dmoney8890
    @dmoney8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I believe this is for someone: I was Paige until the age of 43. I am a man, so although most followers here
    are female, this is not always a male abusing female dynamic. It is not always a romantic relationship dynamic.
    It is Co-dependency, something I was introduced to when my ex-wife walked away from marriage counseling
    and I continued individually. I was introduced to a book/workbook called Codependent No More, by Melody Beattie.
    Something else I was introduced to from Ross Rosenberg was how the dynamics of codependency and narcissism
    play out and the Karpman Drama Triangle. Also the difference in covert and overt narcissism. Any good-hearted person
    would benefit from studying these things and doing some self reflection - as Iyanla says "Do your Work!"
    Melody Beattie explains how low self-esteem can be a root of codependency. But sometimes, trying to be a good Christian,
    Mother, Father, Husband, or friend can be the root. The Bible teaches "Love they neighbor as thyself" and many of
    us were groomed to understand that as "Love thy neighbor BETTER than thyself", ie "He's a great guy, will give you the
    shirt off his back." We learn about sacrifice, but do we really learn how to love OURSELVES? For many, not until it is out of
    necessity borne from a codependent past. In my case, I put EVERYONE before myself: kids, parents, siblings, wives, girlfriends.
    My counselor called it being "less than honest" which she explained as not asking for what YOU truly want and need.
    In some cases being a people pleaser, enabler, codependent may be a conscious choice. But I have come to believe that for many,it is
    a deeply self-conscious choice. So people like Paige, although on the surface she know red flags, she knows something is
    not right, but some events in her life led to her deep-rooted codependency. Mine I attribute mostly to many people in my
    life experiencing some type of sexual abuse: siblings, girlfriends, male childhood friends, although I was spared. I think I felt some type of
    survivor's remorse and wanted everyone to feel safe and happy. This led to (subconscious) choices that left me unsafe and
    unhappy in romantic, familial relationships and friendships by prioritizing their needs above mine. So unless and until Paige gets
    the proper help she needs, I believe she will continue to make these choices. But hopefully not for as long as I did. Please give her grace you would want shown to you.

    • @madiaautrey5899
      @madiaautrey5899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Well said, thanks for sharing your situation. Reading your message made it easier to understand why she's behaving like this. I'm glad to got out and hopefully recognize the signs early in the rest of your life experiences.

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      "Love thy neighbor better than thyself" That is an entire word that people buy into without even realizing that they are doing it. Self included. Thank you for sharing.

    • @dmoney8890
      @dmoney8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@AugustLoveStory my pleasure-hope it helps someone 👍🏽

    • @dmoney8890
      @dmoney8890 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@madiaautrey5899 absolutely-thanks!

  • @misstillman79
    @misstillman79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    You are so right about Rodney. I saw one episode and was like why does she think he wants her. 🤣🤣

    • @godlovescouture8605
      @godlovescouture8605 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I had to stop watching. Couldn’t understand why nobody has addressed the pink elephant

    • @raneslowly
      @raneslowly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      😅👍🏾💯

    • @madiaautrey5899
      @madiaautrey5899 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I wish someone was reviewing that show.. cause the nonsense of it all. desiry's friend has to beat some sense into her. When he went back to eating his steak after the ring toss... I was like wth are y'all doing??

    • @IsisBlu
      @IsisBlu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Rodney needs publicity for his wine brand. The only reason he is pretending to be straight. He had to hire Desiree to play this part. Trust. All the beautiful women in DC. Accomplished women in DC and you supposedly want to be with this bad wig wearing silly unrefined twice married woman. Please he is GAY.

    • @misstillman79
      @misstillman79 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@IsisBlu all that. Perfect breakdown of the situation.

  • @tblub.9270
    @tblub.9270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I'm coming over from the Little Black Book live. I really enjoyed y'all appearance and insight there and knew I wanted to check out your channel.

  • @dmp04
    @dmp04 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Vincent has left the building!

  • @y.m.6667
    @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Brianna was not joking. She says smart underhanded stuff and then TRIES to make it come off as "joking." It's the way she says things , like Vincent said. Also, it's just like her friend says, that she is "very particular" about things.

    • @sirenaisthename4913
      @sirenaisthename4913 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      i agree. only certain people are cool with that kind of joking. some are more sensitive and too much of those jabs and pokes can be hurtful. vincent needs to communicate his feelings better.

  • @catherinepratt8721
    @catherinepratt8721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    I believe, with everything in me, that he's bringing the ex-fiancé to show Paige why he doesn't like her. Look at her, and look at you. I despise him!

    • @sks7438
      @sks7438 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Paige is dumb for agreeing to meet the ex. If you're done you're done.

    • @glynnismckenzie1930
      @glynnismckenzie1930 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Exactly, why would she agree to meet with them? It’s a flex by Chris and the ex! They wouldn’t have anything to say to me.

  • @keely5120
    @keely5120 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I’m with you Artieka. It didn’t make sense to me either that Chris was allowed to tell production not to film and cut mics off etc. I remember Brandon (I think that was his name?) from a few seasons ago having issues with production and not wanting to film things, but they still kept the cameras rolling then. Seems like production should be able to film what they want and that it’s all in the contracts and that he’d be fined for violating them at least. Ugh. The mess of it all 🙄

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes, Brandon did try that mess and it did not work. I wonder how the "ex" feels as the show is now airing and her friends and family are seeing this unfold.

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I seriously think that Chris AND Paige are playin' everybody

  • @sirbluey5776
    @sirbluey5776 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Nobody's gonna know me two weeks and say, "that's classic you!" and not irritate my nerves. You don't know what is classic about him, child. You. Do. Not.

  • @dmp04
    @dmp04 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chris is lying about being afraid to fall in love with Paige. That was his parting shot to manipulate her. She laps that stuff up. He has no scruples.

  • @katgelinas27
    @katgelinas27 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't watch marrying millions either, but agree about Rodney.
    I agree with your point of view on the show.

  • @raneslowly
    @raneslowly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great Review.. as usual.

  • @dmp04
    @dmp04 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I tried to hang my tv on the wall, and all I ended up with were 4 holes in the wall.

  • @CreativeDaze
    @CreativeDaze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Vincent seems to struggle with his insecurities and has a very low tolerance for the sarcastic quick wit that Brianna has. Brianna definitely needs to be aware of this and curb her words. And I think she cares enough about Vincent to really try.
    At the same time, Vincent needs to do his own work around his issues from the past and then build his communication skills so he can articulate his feelings like an adult. His reaction was over the top and frankly immature.
    It’s only been 2 weeks, I’m still rooting for them. I think they’ll make it.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Growing pains. Even people who have dated will bump heads once they are married and live together.

  • @dtayism
    @dtayism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Brie is smart but sarcastic. Ginny dont play like that because people say what they are really thinking and call it a joke. I’m not sensitive but I don’t put up with passive aggressive. No one has time for that.

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Agreed.

    • @sirenaisthename4913
      @sirenaisthename4913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      yes! it comes off pretty passive-aggressive and not a playful joke.

  • @marvinabigby5509
    @marvinabigby5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Eric needs to call it a wrap.Virginia is not ready to be a wife to anyone..

  • @marvinabigby5509
    @marvinabigby5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I knew when Bri said something about him spilling the Champagne it was not going over well.I was shocked she told him about his beard that way.

  • @marquesnorton2554
    @marquesnorton2554 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Chris act like he runs the show

  • @Kareyn2
    @Kareyn2 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    He whispers and cuts off the mics and does all these theatrics because of the ex, IMO.

  • @fedorah8315
    @fedorah8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I think Vincent reacted that way with Brianna with the champagne because she was already getting on his nerves so he saw everything as a jab

    • @KCohere33
      @KCohere33 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His feelings are so raw. I wonder if his last relationship really did a number on him. It makes me very concerned about their relationship.

    • @fedorah8315
      @fedorah8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      KCohere33 he’s definitely projecting!!

    • @karimahlloydbey5156
      @karimahlloydbey5156 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I was curious what she meant by it was a very Vinny thing to do as if he’s always having these type of incidents. He said it’s the first time this has happened so how is it a Vinny thing to do.

    • @Brandi_Alicia
      @Brandi_Alicia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@karimahlloydbey5156 Exactly. To me it implied he makes mistakes often or is careless. It definitely wasn't a compliment.

    • @fedorah8315
      @fedorah8315 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Brandi Alicia exactly. Like a passive aggressive comment disguised in a “joke”. I’m like Vincent, if you got something to say, say it straight - this whole going around, on top and under what you actually mean is childish.

  • @dtayism
    @dtayism 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Paige doesn’t need manipulation. She does whatever he says with no resistance.

  • @alainahouser8715
    @alainahouser8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    How does Chris complain about folks being in his business but then brings the ex-fiancé for a sit down? Go be with that chick and leave Paige alone.

    • @ShaShaVirgo
      @ShaShaVirgo 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Wouldn't it be funny if Paige told Chris & Mercedes that she was pregnant??😜

  • @ka8204
    @ka8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I agree with your husband. Brianna was completely JOKING and Vincent got extremely angry so much so that he had to leave the house. 0 to 100.He needs HELP mentally and emotionally. He’s only known her for about a week. That was not about her but his issues. Just like his family said he has anger issues.

  • @jackiedoright8313
    @jackiedoright8313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Sis you right about cats getting angry and doing Vile things. I had one take a crap in the middle of my bed once and another time took a crap in my shoe. Then had the nerve to sit at my bedroom door to watch my reaction when I came home. The cats (3) belonged to my roommate. 😾

  • @tarasimpkins
    @tarasimpkins 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I would've left my mic on!! Or recorded it on my phone. By now production should know Chris' schemes. They should've had hidden mics.

  • @lindalnd90
    @lindalnd90 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Yess, the Paige on the phone is the real Paige. Once I heard that call I knew that was her true self.

  • @anyascales4302
    @anyascales4302 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I decided this week I am done I will not watch the Chris and page show is stresses me out
    And can we all agree that Chris is Broke Broke and he did not want her to see his apartment cause it would not live up to the hype
    And the answer to why she kept sleeping with him was well he wanted a honeymoon baby giggle Girl
    I can’t watch this any more

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I really thought we were in the clear of them after this week's episode. I was ready for the normal crazy ride that #mafs is. They're making this draining.

  • @krystalw.374
    @krystalw.374 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    At this point Paige has to look herself in the mirror and realize that she owes Chris NOTHING and that she is better than this situation. I don't understand why she keeps falling for his tactics only to get her heartbroken again. The experts and the producers are doing her a disservice and should probably have asked Chris to leave the show because he lied, but I get it, they need the ratings 🤷🏾‍♀️

  • @mohamedaboalkasem3522
    @mohamedaboalkasem3522 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sweet

  • @mari.n.w155
    @mari.n.w155 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    😂😂😂agree 1 million percent about Rodney!!!!!
    Agree with everything else, especially about paoge being fake. However, she is
    still sleeping with him. She needs intense therapy NOT MARRAIGE!!!!!

    • @greta8746
      @greta8746 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      You know I was watching Nikki Star TV and she said she thinks Paige is in love with Chris. All this time I thought she was a victim of misguided religious beliefs, but no, she is in love with him and she wants to be with him.
      And yes, Rodney is so gay. How could anyone not see that. :)

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      They are playing us. This is just tooo crazy. It's all about the $$$

  • @bjones3655
    @bjones3655 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    You're both wrong. Vinny was justified. Its disrespectful to joke about significant other being clumsy or unintelligent especially when you've only known each other for 5-6 days. It was too soon. She doesn't know him like that. So obviously her early perception him is that he's clumsy.

  • @IsisBlu
    @IsisBlu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    When Paige proudly said I’m NOT NEW TO THIS I’M TRUE TO THIS, I was done with having any sympathy for her. She is well aware of what she is doing. She is a willing fool so go for gusto Fool and take this all the way. Meet the Fiancée and be belittled even more. Let him do you however he wants cause you ain’t new to this foolishness, you are a TRUE FOOL.

    • @ththumblebee
      @ththumblebee 3 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I literally said the same thing when I watched it! She’s completely aware of what she’s doing! Where was the outrage when red flags first started popping up?? She waits until she feels like she’s losing to get angry? Sick! Don’t get me wrong, Chris is still trash, but he hasn’t hidden it. She THOUGHT she could paint the victim picture and control the narrative with Pastor Cal, but still looked a fool through it all🙄 over them both!

    • @carolyn.lambert8123
      @carolyn.lambert8123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I agree and I also don’t think Paige is insecure , I think just the opposite! She doesn’t see herself as being unattractive just not his type. And truth is she is very attractive he just isn’t interested in her, maybe he’s color struck. You can tell she’s run into that before but to reject her sexually is new to Paige & she thought her sex game was soo good it was gonna win Chris over.& You can tell she’s shocked it’s not working like she expected but she’s still confident that sex is her major weapon with Chris ! !

    • @IsisBlu
      @IsisBlu 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@carolyn.lambert8123 That is definitely a possibility but I just don’t see how that fits into her history she has shared with us (not new to this true to this but none of them choose her over their kids) or how she described her sexual encounters all being her just being pressured into doing her wifely duties. She doesn’t come off as sexually confident to me. She has never mentioned being sexually attracted to him. I think of Armani and Woody and Armani gave off that energy that she could definitely satisfy her man. Paige has no weapons. Her special talent is being able to juggle two sets of luggage at the airport and navigating said luggage into her car trunk all by herself.

  • @jackiedoright8313
    @jackiedoright8313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Shaking my head concerning Chris and Paige. They both need some serious counseling. Chris is just a sick individual, and Paige, she needs help getting over some things that's went wrong in her life because she can't be that....😩

    • @raneslowly
      @raneslowly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      👍🏾💯

  • @catherinepratt8721
    @catherinepratt8721 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Yeah...he doesn't like her, he allegedly has a baby on the way, and she's willing to keep "doing him." Sickening!

  • @LBarbados
    @LBarbados 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Chris has the characteristics of, The Strange Case of Dr Jekyll and Mr Hyde.

  • @The-Mediator
    @The-Mediator 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Paige has obviously been groomed for this type of relationship.

  • @Brandi_Alicia
    @Brandi_Alicia 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I think Vinny got so upset because he reached his boiling point. Her constant comments and being bossy just became too much. I think he tried to suppress it initially.

    • @ka8204
      @ka8204 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Are you kidding me? She was joking. He actually left the house. That’s very irrational. He needs help

    • @LifeofBoj
      @LifeofBoj 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      His reaction was definitely an accumulation of things. He’s just not explaining it well. Joke or not if you keep making smart comments like that I’m going to think that’s what you think of me.

  • @Quoteablemoments
    @Quoteablemoments 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Hailey and Jacob, it’s over- Jacob is quirky and that’s ok for some, but not everyone
    Vincent and ole girl... I think Vincent came off as being sensitive, but I think it had been building up. They have to learn what’s triggering the communication
    Virginia is immature.(period)...Eric has no charisma
    I feel bad for Paige, but not so much...Paige has a father and male friends, why does she not understand that some men only want sex. She is in a soul tie with him
    I was glad Pastor Cal came and talked to each couple, it was much needed.
    I don’t watch marrying millions, but I don’t understand how that lady don’t see that Rodney is gay

    • @MsMockingbird06
      @MsMockingbird06 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m wondering what Paige witnessed between her parents and other marriages in her family growing up. I was concerned when she said that she didn’t want to disappoint her husband regarding sex. She didn’t and doesn’t think about her needs, desires, nor protecting herself (physically and emotionally). It sounds like she has an unhealthy view of marriage. Neither her or Chris are ready for marriage and both need to work on themselves before having a healthy relationship with anyone.

    • @Quoteablemoments
      @Quoteablemoments 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@MsMockingbird06 I was yelling at the TV when she said she had sex so she wouldn’t disappoint her husband. She needs to gain self love and know that she has a voice.... Chris🙄 is just a mess he needs deep physiological counseling and truth telling lessons

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      EXACTLY!! I don't watch that show either, but saw a few clips and immediately thought that.🤦🏽‍♀️

  • @marvinabigby5509
    @marvinabigby5509 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Jacob lives in the 89s.I love antiques but I dont live in the victorian times.He needs to progress.4 dogs is too much.That dog trying to attack hers was another problem.

    • @y.m.6667
      @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Haley needs to have some compromise with Jacob and his 80s stuff. She seems a little rigid.

  • @beverlyneal3208
    @beverlyneal3208 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Why would MAFS allow the ex to get camera time? Chris, want to focus on looks, I think he looks like JJ on good times that went to glamour shots. And why did Paige have his luggage? Couldn't have been me! I would have said gotcha, I would take his luggage and put it on another belt and take off the tags. And when he returned I'll give him the tags so he can try to pick up his luggage. Yeah, good luck with that!

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yeah, his luggage definitely wouldn't have made it to Atlanta in my possession. It would still be at the Airport.

  • @tblub.9270
    @tblub.9270 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think Vinny is insecure especially because he knows how intelligent she is. He feels her intent is to put him down when she was really saying it in jest. When you mentioned MWM and Rodney, I almost choked on my ice...lol. That lady who is trying to marry him is the only one who doesn't know...lol. Right! I would've told ole boy to say less. We can get that taken care of stat, but for some strange reason, Paige has convinced herself that God wants her in this foolishness. Not a fan of Ryan and Clara though. Clara is delusional and Ryan is boring. New subbie.

    • @RDCFemmes
      @RDCFemmes 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      I think if Paige was she right complexion (Creoles are colorist), she might actually work out with Ryan.

  • @sirenaisthename4913
    @sirenaisthename4913 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    paige is willing to do whatever it takes to say she's married. she keeps mentioning God as if Chris is this wonderful man He intended her to be with. this ain't some dude you've known for years and actually love. she needs to quit holding on to scraps.

  • @CreativeDaze
    @CreativeDaze 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Jacob is another one who would benefit from some therapy as well. Haley’s behavior put him on the defensive- BUT dude went back to his past relationship pain *quick*!! He was up there looking crazy accusing her of having a boyfriend! 🙄 Sir. You’re out in left field and just giving this woman more reason not to like you.

  • @Akilahh
    @Akilahh 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    My boyfriend cat would sh*t in his clothes when she got mad 😫

  • @y.m.6667
    @y.m.6667 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    At this point in time, I believe Chris and Paige are carrying on with this charade for ratings. I think they are playing us.

  • @rosemaryking2372
    @rosemaryking2372 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    I so agree that I belive Rodney is gay.

  • @Honey-qj9yz
    @Honey-qj9yz 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Chris smirked through that whole interview. I want to just smack him. Paige seem to want to go along with this charade. She definitely have low self-esteem. I think her previously relationship treated her bad and she think it acceptable. Vincent need to lighten up. I think his family were right. He definitely have a temper.Brianna need to curve her comments.

  • @michelletrice8734
    @michelletrice8734 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Twiddling toes is stimulating?😂

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      🤣🤣🤣 idk because Ryan gave us nothing in that exchange lol

    • @michelletrice8734
      @michelletrice8734 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Right...Ryan is on the verge of boring.

  • @shirleyjones6296
    @shirleyjones6296 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I agree with you 100% Artieka where Paige is concerned that play for the camera. Tommy that un protected sex comment and the bother me to my core. This couple is too much period. He a game player and she needs to be slapped back to reality.

  • @alainahouser8715
    @alainahouser8715 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Lol, this cat hate. What cats hurt y’all?

  • @raneslowly
    @raneslowly 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Gurl... Cats are a hot mean mess.... me and my ex had two....well... she did.👀👀🌈

  • @TheFairyBabe
    @TheFairyBabe 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    Cats do not do that. I’ve had my cat for four years and she’s never done anything spiteful. Tf! More than one dog I know has shit in their owners shoes though. Don’t come for cats like that.

  • @jackiedoright8313
    @jackiedoright8313 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Mutual Apartment.

    • @AugustLoveStory
      @AugustLoveStory  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you! It just was not coming to me!