One time I won $800 at the casino. I knew I should go home. However I told myself " hey let me play just $100 of this. Who knows, maybe I'll turn a good night into a great night. If I lose, who cares, I can then leave with a really good $700. However after losing the $100, now I say to myself " ehhh I couldddd try just $100 more. If I lose that I'll leave with that remaining $600. Still a heckuva day right? " Well next thing I know I'm down to $300 and my thought process changes to " omg I can't leave with a measley $300 when I had a really nice $800 three hours ago!!! I absolutely HAVE to get that $500 back!!! Then I'll be back to $800 and THIS TIME I'll leave ( supposedly ) " Down to $200, down to $100, down to $20. Need gas but say screw it, down to $0. Now I want to puke and/or kick myself in the nuts. Mentally exhausted, stressed out, sickening feeling as I have a walk of shame to my car 😢😭😡🤬🤮
I have done exactly what you did . And then if the slot machines don't take 1 dollar bills and I have 1 or 2 I look for scratch card vending machines and spend my last bill . Then I scrounge for coins in my pocket and car and stop at a gas station or convenience store to purchase a 1 or 2$ scratch ticket . Thanks for sharing .
I have lost hundreds of thousands- maybe millions since 1999 Casino but been shooting dice since 1991 and I’m 45 now! I need help and am hurting! Please pray for me!
You don’t need prayer. You need to change yourself. Find a hobby, exercise, spend time at work that you like, find a hobby, learn to meditate and know that you are already enough and find gratefulness to have what you have. You have your health and since you’re using TH-cam. You are in the highest 10 % of the human population.
Such a horrible feeling to blow your paycheck within 2 - 3 hours of getting it. Driving home with tears in your eyes and wondering how in the hell am I gonna pay for gas/groceries the next 13 days? Loans? Credit cards? Pawn shop? All terrible choices 😢
@@nolantanaka565 I'm sorry man. It's terrible, I'm sure. Just plain disgusting and you feel like you have absolutely no control over the situation. A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness. I know how incredibly rough this illness can be. I've been doing good. I just prayed really hard, over and over. He answered my prayers. Now I'm finishing up day 65 since I've gambled a penny 🙌🙏 I'll add you to my prayers, Nolan.
I worked with a guy for 35 years and he hooked up with a Gal at our work and she got him into "Slots" he quit work and decided his 401K of $ 400,000 was plenty to retire on ( at 53 ) Well, They both retired and blew through that money in no time, they got married and now live in a shitty trailer in Delaware, we no longer speak, he is a different person now.
Im 43 years old . I started gambling at 16 years and im still chasing my loses . I work 250 hours a months and so far i made over 5 millions dollars working hard . I had lost every penny . All i want is half of my loses and im still losing
@@dppro7506 No matter the amount you lost and want to get back it doesn’t really matter even if you guys hit the lottery for millions you still will gamble that off! Your not chasing what you lost your chasing that feeling you get while gambling and winning or losing.
i lost my house the car our savings and the kids savings embezzled money from work got £80.000 ln dept got 18 months in prison can you believe it the wife left me unbelievable of all the cheek what happened to in sickness and health
You know, a gambling addict would never realize WHY a casino can stay in business. They don’t draw money up out of thin air… it’s made from the blood sweat and tears of addicts. And a true addict does not realize that the longer you stay in a casino, the more you will lose over time.
I love gambling and have a brand new casino 10 mins from my house! I just know how addictive it is and I know how easy I get addicted to bad things. I just can’t risk it, i might go once a year if that. Haven’t been in a casino for about 3 years now. I watched friends get hooked and they’re probably there as we speak. I swear the worst gamblers are always the one to get hooked! I’ve seen people who are just horrible in poker but they’ll go play every night lol.
I lost my mother and father to cancer, had my woman of 13 years walk out on me and I ran to the casino to escape my life and troubles. I feel so bad because no one will ever love me again. All I have is gambling and its ruining my life financially.
Please get help. You may have lost the people who you love the most but you can't give up on life Make better choices and positive activities and you'll see that you're heart will heal but you have to be strong and throw away bad vibes.
Watch tv and/or play video games without in-game purchasing. Streaming video works great as you can binge watch programs that give you pleasure without the risk of losing money.
Gambling starts like most minor bad habits. Its severity happens slow. Like just drinking beers with friends and then someday find yourself drinking alone one time and you just dont take much notice. Months years later you drinking regularly byyourself to cope with things like anxiety and looneliness. Gambling seems harmless first and for most it is. But I wanted to find a system rhat works in time. I was after getting an edge and winning longterm. There is so many videos and forums about different systems and those with gambling problems surely already now. THERE IS NO LONGTERM UNBREAKABLE SYSTEM THAT GIVES YOU WINNING FOREVER. The games are created to make gamblers loose. The deeper you dig into this and the more experience and knowledge you get the more dangerous it can be when you think you are UNIQUE and can get an edge. THERE IS NO SYSTEM THAT WORKS FOREVER. Forget about an lasting edge.
Wow I just became aware of drinking by myself alot lately, I have yet to start shaking for a drink, I know all about that because my step dad died of alcohol, he was in bed shaking every day needing alcohol and throwing up alot.. was not fun to watch but now that I am aware of this problem developing maybe time to quit before it becomes a lifelong issue
When I was a child, my dad ( gambling addict ) took me and my brothers to casinos, bingo halls, etc. We had to stand outside of the rope, where the gambling machines were. At bingo, he even let me dob the cards as a 10 - 11 year old. It was a different time back then and I think he knew the owner. So they let me do that. Anyway, putting a naive, impressionable, easily manipulated child in that environment is hideous. Two of us three brothers became massive gambling addicts, as soon as we were of age. Not a coincidence obviously. I have a ton of debt right now and it makes me sick. Wish he had waited for mom to come home from work, then go gamble by himself. Leave us kids out of it. What a horrible addiction. Absolutely financial obliterating, stressful, depressing, life destroying illness 😭
@@tikoakinney6644 Thank you. I'm actually 78 days sober right now, thank God! What a relief to not be participating in that horrible, financial destroying, life ruining crap. Such a Blessing.
Gambling is the problem. The reason many gamblers keep doing it is to chase their lost however if they luckily recover it they would do gambling still.
I’m here to learn why people gamble. And is it wrong if the spouse decided to call it quit, pack her bag & walk away about putting up with it for 18 yrs? At what point does the gambler wake up & say enough is enough… I quit! Is there anything a spouse can do to encourage a gambler to quit? Asking for a friend.
Quitting gambling is hard. I’d say the gambling addict needs to have all access to money taken away Indefinitely. And given a small allowance every week or month to spend on necessities. They can slowly over the years be given more access to their money, but supervised to make sure they don’t gamble it. At the first sight of them gambling it you start from square one of no access. This only works if they want to do it. If they don’t then they don’t want to quit gambling and you should leave them. I don’t think a gambling addiction can be cured. Just like I don’t think a drug addiction can be cured. Just controlled. This is an extreme solution. But you need an extreme solution for an extreme addiction.
gambling oppresses yourself and your family, gambling should be banned throughout the world, gambling is pure poison which is very destructive and poisons the mind, destroys happiness, spirit, and everything, you will feel very worthless and useless when you lose, but if you don't let it go, it will make you even more devastated, let's close the book and start a new life, just think of it as money to throw away bad luck
I was about to gamble today but this lady was at the scratch off machine taking forever so I decided not to do it.. first day I followed my intuition, usually I just wait it out for a loss
Left my future wife because she could not stop! The turning point was waiting all day for her to come home and eat dinner with her. Instead i received a phone call asking me if i minded if she went to the Casino! THAT WAS THE END!
Why not just watch TV for your entertainment? You can’t lose any money or get emotional pain from it. You can get a thrill and dopamine release by watching programs you like. Fast paced game shows can replicate gambling thrill without financial or emotional ruin. I think getting more interesting with TV has lessened my urges to gamble. Have harmless and carefree fun! Gambling is very dangerous. I wish casinos were banned. There are much better ways to get entertained that won’t cause you to lose money.
It's never addiction It's a created mind reaction from the many muscle memory of many reminders of many we put in the mind subconsciously to create the many higher energy functioning mind reactions of muscle memory for whenever the higher energy sources are at the moments in the many experiences in the many environments at the many times subconsciously obsorbtions to then create our many minds reminders of many mind programs of many put subconsciously obsorbtions into our many minds to always perditions bur we to many unrecognize our perditions because of our many higher energy sources produced energys Nicholas c seccia
So it's a many of the minds higher energy functioning mind created many higher mind reactions from the many programs of many we put into minds subconsciously to create the many muscle memory mind creations of higher energy functioning minds reactions from our many power of the mind programs and many reminders to then always perditions and we to many unrecognize our perditions because of our many higher energy functioning minds creations from the higher energy sources produced energys Nicholas c seccia
Never such thing as addiction it's a created many unrecognizing minds automatically from the triggered many program muscle memory of the minds that we put in the many subconsciously obsorbtions and to many of the minds reactions to many higher energy of many unrecognizing automatically from our many minds reactions of programs and reminders that we put into many subconsciously and the minds reactions of many muscle memory reactions of many minds programs and reminders of minds many reminders and programs of many of the minds of unrecognizing automatically
When you lose you lose countless times even if I'm up huge if my buddy's lose it all i make us leave don't give them a choice to take out more it's let's go
Become a professional poker star: 1) You control the outcome. Because the outcome is 60% luck and 40% skill. 2) The more you do it the better you get. 3) There are "professional" poker players.If you do it enough and study enough then it will no longer be gambling. OR you can see poker for what it is. One of the greatest scams on earth. Happy gambling.😥😥😥😥
Who created Poker . We know it started in the Criminal and Mob Section and now Combines to the Semi new Normal entertainment that can suck and keep one Stuck.
@@trafficjon400 I think gambling addiction is one of the worst addictions there is. But I guess that depends on the person who is affected by whatever the addiction is, drug addiction often kills people. Pornstars die at like 25. "Stuck" sounds like a church of scientology terminology. Cults that's another trap you want to avoid.
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One time I won $800 at the casino. I knew I should go home. However I told myself " hey let me play just $100 of this. Who knows, maybe I'll turn a good night into a great night. If I lose, who cares, I can then leave with a really good $700. However after losing the $100, now I say to myself " ehhh I couldddd try just $100 more. If I lose that I'll leave with that remaining $600. Still a heckuva day right? " Well next thing I know I'm down to $300 and my thought process changes to " omg I can't leave with a measley $300 when I had a really nice $800 three hours ago!!! I absolutely HAVE to get that $500 back!!! Then I'll be back to $800 and THIS TIME I'll leave ( supposedly ) " Down to $200, down to $100, down to $20. Need gas but say screw it, down to $0. Now I want to puke and/or kick myself in the nuts. Mentally exhausted, stressed out, sickening feeling as I have a walk of shame to my car 😢😭😡🤬🤮
ive felt this too many times
@@gisape5733 Yep, it's awful.
I have done exactly what you did . And then if the slot machines don't take 1 dollar bills and I have 1 or 2 I look for scratch card vending machines and spend my last bill .
Then I scrounge for coins in my pocket and car and stop at a gas station or convenience store to purchase a 1 or 2$ scratch ticket .
Thanks for sharing .
FACTS 💯
I did that several times.
15k loss
In 3 months
I have lost hundreds of thousands- maybe millions since 1999 Casino but been shooting dice since 1991 and I’m 45 now! I need help and am hurting! Please pray for me!
You don’t need prayer. You need to change yourself. Find a hobby, exercise, spend time at work that you like, find a hobby, learn to meditate and know that you are already enough and find gratefulness to have what you have. You have your health and since you’re using TH-cam. You are in the highest 10 % of the human population.
🙏🙏🙏
Casinos are a parasite in the community!!
Such a horrible feeling to blow your paycheck within 2 - 3 hours of getting it. Driving home with tears in your eyes and wondering how in the hell am I gonna pay for gas/groceries the next 13 days? Loans? Credit cards? Pawn shop? All terrible choices 😢
I paid fist all my billing and them I took money 💰 but it’s hard to put in the savings account for me . Too sad 😞
I blew my paychecks before I even got them by online gambling… just imagine the morale at work knowing my checks are going straight to the house
@@nolantanaka565 I'm sorry man. It's terrible, I'm sure. Just plain disgusting and you feel like you have absolutely no control over the situation. A feeling of helplessness and hopelessness. I know how incredibly rough this illness can be. I've been doing good. I just prayed really hard, over and over. He answered my prayers. Now I'm finishing up day 65 since I've gambled a penny 🙌🙏 I'll add you to my prayers, Nolan.
I know your feelings . I use chime to get paid early so I lose my money 2 days before .
@@motoforce7978 😢
I worked with a guy for 35 years and he hooked up with a Gal at our work and she got him into "Slots" he quit work and decided his 401K of $ 400,000 was plenty to retire on ( at 53 ) Well, They both retired and blew through that money in no time, they got married and now live in a shitty trailer in Delaware, we no longer speak, he is a different person now.
Im 43 years old . I started gambling at 16 years and im still chasing my loses . I work 250 hours a months and so far i made over 5 millions dollars working hard . I had lost every penny . All i want is half of my loses and im still losing
Whattt, that's pretty rt@rded bro...Just stop already man, just do it....your flushing money away. Never makin your loses back, just give it up...
You have to stop chasing your losses that’s my problem! I have to let that $15K go
wish mine was only 15k times that by 10 or 20
@@dppro7506 wow 😭
@@dppro7506 No matter the amount you lost and want to get back it doesn’t really matter even if you guys hit the lottery for millions you still will gamble that off! Your not chasing what you lost your chasing that feeling you get while gambling and winning or losing.
@@jonw6224 yeah like a drug.. chasing the dragon as they say 😂
@@dppro7506 Whoa. You owe between $150,000 - $300,000?
i lost my house the car our savings and the kids savings embezzled money from work got £80.000 ln dept got 18 months in prison can you believe it the wife left me unbelievable of all the cheek what happened to in sickness and health
Your maaaaangled bro...Just stop already man
You know, a gambling addict would never realize WHY a casino can stay in business. They don’t draw money up out of thin air… it’s made from the blood sweat and tears of addicts. And a true addict does not realize that the longer you stay in a casino, the more you will lose over time.
Help me! I’m so tired of this torture
This addition is killing me and I don’t know how to stop it😢😭 my life looks so messed up and I don’t know how long I am going to continue
Same here
Same here
I love gambling and have a brand new casino 10 mins from my house! I just know how addictive it is and I know how easy I get addicted to bad things. I just can’t risk it, i might go once a year if that. Haven’t been in a casino for about 3 years now. I watched friends get hooked and they’re probably there as we speak. I swear the worst gamblers are always the one to get hooked! I’ve seen people who are just horrible in poker but they’ll go play every night lol.
I used to go to the casino a couple times a year. Now I just ask myself, " Do I really want to make a donation today?" and the answer is always, "NO."
🤣🤣🤣🤣
I lost my mother and father to cancer, had my woman of 13 years walk out on me and I ran to the casino to escape my life and troubles. I feel so bad because no one will ever love me again. All I have is gambling and its ruining my life financially.
It ruined mines also! God loves us all !
Dang. Sorry man. I would be the same in that sy
Please get help. You may have lost the people who you love the most but you can't give up on life Make better choices and positive activities and you'll see that you're heart will heal but you have to be strong and throw away bad vibes.
Watch tv and/or play video games without in-game purchasing. Streaming video works great as you can binge watch programs that give you pleasure without the risk of losing money.
Gambling starts like most minor bad habits. Its severity happens slow. Like just drinking beers with friends and then someday find yourself drinking alone one time and you just dont take much notice. Months years later you drinking regularly byyourself to cope with things like anxiety and looneliness. Gambling seems harmless first and for most it is. But I wanted to find a system rhat works in time. I was after getting an edge and winning longterm. There is so many videos and forums about different systems and those with gambling problems surely already now. THERE IS NO LONGTERM UNBREAKABLE SYSTEM THAT GIVES YOU WINNING FOREVER. The games are created to make gamblers loose. The deeper you dig into this and the more experience and knowledge you get the more dangerous it can be when you think you are UNIQUE and can get an edge. THERE IS NO SYSTEM THAT WORKS FOREVER. Forget about an lasting edge.
I am unique and can get an edge.
Double down
Wow I just became aware of drinking by myself alot lately, I have yet to start shaking for a drink, I know all about that because my step dad died of alcohol, he was in bed shaking every day needing alcohol and throwing up alot.. was not fun to watch but now that I am aware of this problem developing maybe time to quit before it becomes a lifelong issue
I wish Mr Brownstone would leave that guy alone, he's bloody irritating with his interruptions.
Very true
When I was a child, my dad ( gambling addict ) took me and my brothers to casinos, bingo halls, etc. We had to stand outside of the rope, where the gambling machines were. At bingo, he even let me dob the cards as a 10 - 11 year old. It was a different time back then and I think he knew the owner. So they let me do that. Anyway, putting a naive, impressionable, easily manipulated child in that environment is hideous. Two of us three brothers became massive gambling addicts, as soon as we were of age. Not a coincidence obviously. I have a ton of debt right now and it makes me sick. Wish he had waited for mom to come home from work, then go gamble by himself. Leave us kids out of it. What a horrible addiction. Absolutely financial obliterating, stressful, depressing, life destroying illness 😭
Wow that awful. I recently joined GA and it is helping me tremendously. They have virtual meetings as well
🙏
@@tikoakinney6644 Thank you. I'm actually 78 days sober right now, thank God! What a relief to not be participating in that horrible, financial destroying, life ruining crap. Such a Blessing.
@@MountainsArePretty1234 keep it up positive energy
@@tikoakinney6644 Thanks
Gambling is the problem. The reason many gamblers keep doing it is to chase their lost however if they luckily recover it they would do gambling still.
I’m here to learn why people gamble. And is it wrong if the spouse decided to call it quit, pack her bag & walk away about putting up with it for 18 yrs? At what point does the gambler wake up & say enough is enough… I quit! Is there anything a spouse can do to encourage a gambler to quit? Asking for a friend.
The Gambling is The What, to answer that you need to unearth The Why
Quitting gambling is hard. I’d say the gambling addict needs to have all access to money taken away Indefinitely. And given a small allowance every week or month to spend on necessities. They can slowly over the years be given more access to their money, but supervised to make sure they don’t gamble it. At the first sight of them gambling it you start from square one of no access. This only works if they want to do it. If they don’t then they don’t want to quit gambling and you should leave them. I don’t think a gambling addiction can be cured. Just like I don’t think a drug addiction can be cured. Just controlled. This is an extreme solution. But you need an extreme solution for an extreme addiction.
Asking for a friend 😅
gambling oppresses yourself and your family, gambling should be banned throughout the world, gambling is pure poison which is very destructive and poisons the mind, destroys happiness, spirit, and everything, you will feel very worthless and useless when you lose, but if you don't let it go, it will make you even more devastated, let's close the book and start a new life, just think of it as money to throw away bad luck
I was about to gamble today but this lady was at the scratch off machine taking forever so I decided not to do it.. first day I followed my intuition, usually I just wait it out for a loss
This interviewer needs to let the guest speak. Stop answering your own questions and interjecting.
It’s true we lie
Same Here but not recovered 😢
Left my future wife because she could not stop! The turning point was waiting all day for her to come home and eat dinner with her. Instead i received a phone call asking me if i minded if she went to the Casino! THAT WAS THE END!
It is always be last tym but count less.
Why not just watch TV for your entertainment? You can’t lose any money or get emotional pain from it. You can get a thrill and dopamine release by watching programs you like. Fast paced game shows can replicate gambling thrill without financial or emotional ruin. I think getting more interesting with TV has lessened my urges to gamble. Have harmless and carefree fun! Gambling is very dangerous. I wish casinos were banned. There are much better ways to get entertained that won’t cause you to lose money.
I knows that feelings
Great topic but the host needs to cut the psychiatrist off less. Terrible job on the host
this host is clueless
Yesssss he’s so right!!!!!!!
Stimulating??
Right!!!!
Gamblers anonymous works. In person or virtual meetings
It’s not a gambling problem….it’s a losing problem…..AL PACINO
Wish I had money management 😅😅😅 or more self control 😅😅😅
Chris 🫡
Victoria Starr 15:30
Bollox, when you lose your in the height of it.... Losing stimulates you, again bollox
I won with 20 dos , 578 dls and I couldn’t stop. I lost my 130 also. It’s terrible
Was it at a casino?
@@shelbyheather9694 si Slot machine 🎰
Do you still gamble?
@@shelbyheather9694 yes but no everyday and you ?
I play,but have a booker who tells me when to play.
It's never addiction It's a created mind reaction from the many muscle memory of many reminders of many we put in the mind subconsciously to create the many higher energy functioning mind reactions of muscle memory for whenever the higher energy sources are at the moments in the many experiences in the many environments at the many times subconsciously obsorbtions to then create our many minds reminders of many mind programs of many put subconsciously obsorbtions into our many minds to always perditions bur we to many unrecognize our perditions because of our many higher energy sources produced energys Nicholas c seccia
So it's a many of the minds higher energy functioning mind created many higher mind reactions from the many programs of many we put into minds subconsciously to create the many muscle memory mind creations of higher energy functioning minds reactions from our many power of the mind programs and many reminders to then always perditions and we to many unrecognize our perditions because of our many higher energy functioning minds creations from the higher energy sources produced energys Nicholas c seccia
Never such thing as addiction it's a created many unrecognizing minds automatically from the triggered many program muscle memory of the minds that we put in the many subconsciously obsorbtions and to many of the minds reactions to many higher energy of many unrecognizing automatically from our many minds reactions of programs and reminders that we put into many subconsciously and the minds reactions of many muscle memory reactions of many minds programs and reminders of minds many reminders and programs of many of the minds of unrecognizing automatically
That is addiction
Wth did they just say 😂
When you lose you lose countless times even if I'm up huge if my buddy's lose it all i make us leave don't give them a choice to take out more it's let's go
Yes always quit while you are ahead. GREED is the problem.
Become a professional poker star:
1) You control the outcome. Because the outcome is 60% luck and 40% skill.
2) The more you do it the better you get.
3) There are "professional" poker players.If you do it enough and study enough then it will no longer be gambling.
OR you can see poker for what it is. One of the greatest scams on earth. Happy gambling.😥😥😥😥
Who created Poker . We know it started in the Criminal and Mob Section and now Combines to the Semi new Normal entertainment that can suck and keep one Stuck.
@@trafficjon400 I think gambling addiction is one of the worst addictions there is. But I guess that depends on the person who is affected by whatever the addiction is, drug addiction often kills people. Pornstars die at like 25.
"Stuck" sounds like a church of scientology terminology. Cults that's another trap you want to avoid.
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