Sigma Male as a Dad! Cool or Distant

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  • @SamuelKiriama
    @SamuelKiriama 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I now know my dad was truly a sigma especially in teaching me how to read people, leading by example and many other crucial things brought about by this video.

  • @_solodrums
    @_solodrums 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    That's made me cry.
    That's me and my daughter
    I love her so much.
    Thanks 🙏

  • @christupper0
    @christupper0 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    When I got told by a random stranger that I was the best dad she’s ever seen 😢 that meant the world to me. Being a dad is the greatest blessing the universe has to offer. Great video guys 😎

    • @Welder19
      @Welder19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      🔥🔥🔥

    • @fredhubbard7210
      @fredhubbard7210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Same here. People say parenting is so hard... I say it is the most delightful thing I have ever done. No conflict on this path, just the miracle unfolding.

    • @Romans-10-9-13
      @Romans-10-9-13 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      The universe doesn’t offer anything. God is your Maker, He can be found in the Bible.

    • @christupper0
      @christupper0 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Romans-10-9-13 God is bigger than a book 📖

  • @Michael_Arguello
    @Michael_Arguello 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +68

    Finally a family sigma video. Yes. All this is true. My sons are their own sigma beasts in the making.

    • @Wise.Thinker
      @Wise.Thinker  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      So glad to hear it!

    • @aintnuthinbuta63
      @aintnuthinbuta63 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Teach them discipline self control martial arts silent but deadly

    • @QuiDuong-x2l
      @QuiDuong-x2l 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👉🧠🔐😇🫀💣🥹🤝🗣️👍🔮😊

    • @Welder19
      @Welder19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      🔥🔥👑

    • @eight2one
      @eight2one 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      well groomed.. proud for you

  • @MarkBrown-gw4wl
    @MarkBrown-gw4wl 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

    I’m realizing I can check off almost every box of these videos defining sigma males. It’s beginning to make sense why I studied six sigma to the black belt level.

  • @keithfrederick877
    @keithfrederick877 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Lead by example until you need to exercise your authority for bad behaviour.

  • @kjata77
    @kjata77 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Echoing others, spot on about every point. Be warned, guys, if you are married or paired to a woman who doesn't "get you" before kids, you will have much difficulty raising kids with her, trust me.

  • @davevail4138
    @davevail4138 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Never had a playbook but amazing how spot on this is. I did all this just because it’s how I think. My three adult children now are the most amazing humans , polite, independent, don’t whine, caring etc… we’ve always had an amazing relationship and still do.

  • @barryjones4973
    @barryjones4973 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My Father had so many of these attributes & I know they have rubbed off on my son. Proud of who he is & his achievements.

  • @glundgren2097
    @glundgren2097 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Telling kids that everyone is an expert at something and in that they can learn from everyone. Also, teach them that ego is a handicap that should be overcome, not fed.

  • @StoicSoulCommunity
    @StoicSoulCommunity 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    One day, my daughter told me that I was her superhero. It caught me off guard but made me realize how our kids see us in such a magical light. Being a dad isn't just about providing; it's about being there to inspire and nurture their dreams. Great video guys

  • @mahmoudmoru5565
    @mahmoudmoru5565 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    What amazes me is how well you have a deep understanding of the sigma personality inside out

  • @SamuelKiriama
    @SamuelKiriama 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Thanks Wise-thinker! You're the best! My prayers answered

  • @padmac8176
    @padmac8176 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Sigma Dad sounds like the ultimate father anyone could ever wish for.

  • @donaldfaris4798
    @donaldfaris4798 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    My 2 son's are in there late 20's and are always involved in family time without me ever pushing them and they are well equipped to deal with todays world . I am always proud and amazed at both of them in the way they deal with todays problems.

    • @dieharder2k
      @dieharder2k 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I think people wont actually truly reach sigma until age 30+ because that's your self believe and confidence improves enough by then to stop caring about other people opinions or their validation. After this happens you end up doing what you want the way you want when you want. Then Sigma becomes truly unique and authentic and does things the way he thinks is best. Even if nobody else does it that way.

    • @fredhubbard7210
      @fredhubbard7210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm 66yo, and my daughter and I go hiking together most weekends, overnights and even long 100mile back country trips when our schedules permit.

  • @FedericoValenzuela-t7s
    @FedericoValenzuela-t7s 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Thank you for this great video and information... finally i understand the connection i have with my son

  • @patbird9694
    @patbird9694 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Its amazing how you make these videos with accurate information

    • @ramschristopher5345
      @ramschristopher5345 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think he himself is a sigma. 😉 Any sigma can articulate their thoughts and decision-making process, and it will likely resonate with most sigmas."

  • @Cheecher421
    @Cheecher421 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Spot on great video. No lone wolf marching to his own drum stereotype making my brain throw up. Good job.

    • @Welder19
      @Welder19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂

  • @marecare77
    @marecare77 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Nr. 2 so very true...

  • @quantumechoes991
    @quantumechoes991 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Accurate.. Children are the future, and if we want to change the world for the betterment of everyone, we should start with giving our children the tools and advice they need to be great humans.. I'm very proud of my little boy and confident he will be a good man wise beyond his years..

  • @debonairdevil1523
    @debonairdevil1523 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Also teach your kids to not seek validation or attention, but to be an asset to the team no matter where they go, and to be authentic to themselves instead of being something they're not, just to fit in.

  • @elonmusk4490
    @elonmusk4490 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Great, accurate video. I really appreciate it!

  • @sed.aba01
    @sed.aba01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Excellent topic!

  • @budbas
    @budbas 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My regret is unaware of your content. I grown up that way, and I teach my kids the same way as I was.

  • @winstonwolfwhiteshoes
    @winstonwolfwhiteshoes 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Great video, makes a lot of sense.

  • @jaytan915
    @jaytan915 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This content is so instructive, thanks.

  • @deemoe5215
    @deemoe5215 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    100 % accurate. 🎯 This me with my kids.

  • @vjbond3945
    @vjbond3945 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm 36. Car painter down in NZ. Never met my dad, mother was a druggie. My boys 7 and he has seen and done what most 10-15 year olds. Physics, Intellect, sarcastic joke mid conversation and physical abilities on point. I'm so proud but I know I could spend more downtime with him. Shits hard but I could never be like my parents, a bad day doesn't last long. It's how we deal with them is the key to life

    • @gregstuart9783
      @gregstuart9783 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      ❤from OZ…

    • @Welder19
      @Welder19 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      ❤❤

  • @CrashLarue
    @CrashLarue 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Lovely.

  • @hammer48ful
    @hammer48ful หลายเดือนก่อน

    I did most of the things in this video when bringing up my kids. I took my kids to work with me. They learned how hard I had to work to get the things we had. I had to do my own thing in life and I told them to do that too. Both are sigma's. I'm having fun watching them do their own thing in life.

  • @Justin-ts2dw
    @Justin-ts2dw 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Critical thinking is what is being taught.

  • @knightatthecrossroads222
    @knightatthecrossroads222 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Therefore I am hated but in the deepest part of my heart I believe my kids love me. Just need time to understand.....

  • @robertmayfield8746
    @robertmayfield8746 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I can relate to that. That's wise parenting.

  • @AshishPatidar999
    @AshishPatidar999 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Very beautifully made.very very thanks for your hard work not only sigma every other person helped here

  • @_solodrums
    @_solodrums 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Where do you stem this knowledge from?
    This is so accurate.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @cantrecall5633
    @cantrecall5633 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    The answer in my case with our (5) children, it does make my life more difficult but it will serve our kids best IMHO; and very much so with hobbies and connecting, in our case it's surfing, pool time, fishing, work around the house, and gardening/yard maintenance.

  • @tellytruth8554
    @tellytruth8554 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My father took me with him, talked to me, taught me, and I realize today that I would not have the street smarts if it wasn't for him. Ironically, I have done the same in raising my son and we are best of friends. He tells me I am his hero who has always been there for him and taught him so much. I am blessed knowing he will be okay in life. I am blessed knowing I had a father who gave me wisdom beyond the ordinary. Proud to be Sigma generational!

  • @DLAXTOX
    @DLAXTOX 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This are what any good dad does

  • @samkarani7392
    @samkarani7392 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That sounded the description of myself

  • @riftshredder5438
    @riftshredder5438 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    My father is an alpha, and he absolutely hates it whenever I question him, I am so thankful I'm not like that

  • @user-dg7gn4qk1y
    @user-dg7gn4qk1y 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    wonderful

  • @slaaneshhedonite7068
    @slaaneshhedonite7068 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just sent this to my youngest.
    Made me giggle because damn near everything said (save the bits my crippled arse can’t do) was dead on.

  • @Stanpede1948
    @Stanpede1948 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Rings true.

  • @nonyabusiness1126
    @nonyabusiness1126 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One case I'd be HIGHLY proactive...

  • @RadicalNuance
    @RadicalNuance 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Vote up if this is how you parent

  • @michaelhall8373
    @michaelhall8373 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I have three sons. I didn't baby them, any decent parent knows the cry of I need attention or I'm hurt. I would tell them it will quit hurting when the pain goes away, then they run off to play again.
    I taught gun safety and to shoot very young like I was taught.
    They would watch violent movies with me and play violent video games while teaching them restraint and self control. Taught them to make spring traps at 3, 4 & 6, I came home from work the next day and they set one up and were throwing their teddy bears in it laughing when the bear would fly into the air.
    I learned to play Pokemon when they wanted the card game, went to tournaments weekly for about two years. When the zombie apocalypse was just becoming a thing we sat around making elaborate survival plans. I told them the why's of everything and the laws to make it work. I used most of anything as a teachable moment, my youngest at 16 wanted a six pack, like the wise father I bought it and advised him not to drink it all that night knowing he wouldn't listen. He puked his guts out and had a really hard hangover, again being the wise father I showed no pity. He never touched it again until after his 21st birthday.
    I raised them on the feral side and they became great men in their own rights.

  • @merbal3966
    @merbal3966 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    very good

  • @tonytoob4123
    @tonytoob4123 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Way before I first watched this, I have always advocated to my kids to "Question EVERTHING."
    Kids: Even you, Dad?
    Me: Especially me. 🙃

  • @Retired_Grunt
    @Retired_Grunt 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Facts!

  • @normancoleman2751
    @normancoleman2751 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Truth !!!!!

  • @IslamTahoun-Tutorial
    @IslamTahoun-Tutorial 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I will be a father for the first time in two months,I will have a girl.
    I am just wondering how I will raise a girl when I don't deal with them that often!

    • @SamuelKiriama
      @SamuelKiriama 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      You now have some tips

    • @brunod269
      @brunod269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Be honest, allways answer all of her questions, admit when you don't know, teach her how to learn and follow her step rate, not too fast, but not childish neither. Congratulations for being dad.

    • @danielkaiser8971
      @danielkaiser8971 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Your love for her will guide the way. Then one day she will marry a man just like you.

    • @budbas
      @budbas 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Exactly the same as I was. Kids are kids. Nurture them with love and plenty of physical activity.

    • @jaytan915
      @jaytan915 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I have 2 grownup daughters and I raised them like I would boys but slightly more protective. They have turned out awesome and sailed through every life milestone. You still have to set the example in your own life whether your kids are boys or girls. Congrats and good luck

  • @swedishwilderness
    @swedishwilderness 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I learn the kids to survive and thrive in the wilderness
    I learn them to invest and what real money is
    I learn them selfdefence
    And i learn them what love is and to take care of their soul.

  • @mapex1976
    @mapex1976 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Very hard to put this in place when we have every second weekend together, my 2 and me, I try and try though💚

  • @ianpeter4121
    @ianpeter4121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just noticed that everything said in these video is engraved at the core of my personality naturally except I don’t have a kid

  • @castlebravocrypto1615
    @castlebravocrypto1615 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I have to admit, fatherhood has softened my edges

  • @ssemombweandrew
    @ssemombweandrew หลายเดือนก่อน

    Present 😊

  • @HateDietPepsi
    @HateDietPepsi 25 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I don't personally have any kids, but that is how I treat my women, and most can't handle it. I give them their independence and they think it means I don't care. For an example, my girl and I were at a pool party. She wanted to socialize, I just wanted to observe, so we found ourselves separated. She was on the other side of the pool in conversation with a couple of guys about 40 feet away. I had noticed that she started to look uncomfortable, so within a few seconds I was by her side. Turns out these guys were threatening to throw her in the pool, and she didn't want to be thrown in the pool. I told the guys they were making her uncomfortable, and they apologized.

  • @remingtontucker9364
    @remingtontucker9364 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm a sigma uncle so true

  • @mokka41999
    @mokka41999 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Partially true, yet many of the kids are in constant conflict with their parents, some kids are not "normal". It really depends on the kids/teenagers individual character. This clip portrays an idealistic father character, somewhat unreal. Not all Sigma fathers are so educational and patient.

  • @dlbutler
    @dlbutler 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Your children will much more readily follow your example than your advice. Live the life you want your children to have.

  • @mexdrago3009
    @mexdrago3009 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I always give better advice than most dads, and my nephews ask me more serious questions. My girlfriends nephew wanted me to teach him how to shave his face, but I couldn't. I felt that little event was actually an important event that his father should show him. Theres a lot of men showing the sons anything. The children are just part of the keeping with jones Act for some, and it's sad. Sigmas can be a great dad or uncle.

  • @TchakuntepatrickMonchow
    @TchakuntepatrickMonchow 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    U are right bro am sigma male

  • @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht
    @JoshuaAnzalone-zk5ht 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Im pretty sure my son respects how i have my own beliefs. He doesnt agree with me on a lot but i know he admires how i dont think like so many others.

  • @fredhubbard7210
    @fredhubbard7210 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I remember when my daughter was about 3yo in the playground, some Karen showed up demanding that I force my daughter to apologize for some perceived slight that her child received from my daughter. Karen went on and on. The two of us just stood and listened. When the Karen finally ran out of steam, I bent down and asked my daughter if she wanted to apologize. She shook her head. I looked up at Karen, shrugged, and politely said "I guess this is not your day."
    I really tried not to smirk. Karen was furious. She then turned on me for being a terrible father. To this day, I am so proud of my little girl.
    This parenting style is a high-risk. Most people feel they must be controlling. My controlling ex was deeply jealous of my daughter's trust, and obedience to me. She went to the police and claimed not to "feel safe," and implied I was sexually abusive. I faced multiple very serious legal charges (all later withdrawn in court) and I was out of contact with her for over a year.
    Though... I am not "cool" as a parent. I would say I was "warm."

  • @oy6332
    @oy6332 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    🔥💯💖

  • @Bruce-z6m
    @Bruce-z6m 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My dad was my superhero when I was a kid,but be became my superhero when I be e is American adult.

  • @SamuelKiriama
    @SamuelKiriama 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I also hope more similar videos will be made in the future

    • @ryanmccluan7467
      @ryanmccluan7467 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Theyer all the same video 😂😂😂😂😂😂

  • @frankcensored1186
    @frankcensored1186 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    🚨 haha, I don’t have children but this is likely how I’d raise them if I did 😂😂😂😂🤪

  • @marksanders8700
    @marksanders8700 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yep

  • @zakariamosah3607
    @zakariamosah3607 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for reall 😂😂😂😂

  • @stuartdann1261
    @stuartdann1261 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is absolutely mad. I've heard about the whole sigma thing from being a dodgy supply teacher (I couldn't be a real teacher plus other projects). Children use the word a lot. I had a weird upbringing with epic parents and I'm the same. This has literally just painted the whole picture.
    I'm not sure whether it's a strictly male thing, but it's most certainly a thing. It's also the way I'm raising my children. I split up with mother as we were on different pages and didn't relate, following the death of both of my parents. My daughter is already a chip off the old block. I'm so proud of her. Decent, lovely and independent

  • @Sigma77-n2u
    @Sigma77-n2u 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m a family guy it’s everything

  • @clodismccuien8082
    @clodismccuien8082 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I just realized my dad was a sigma.. 🤔 now my life choices make sense.hmmm

    • @clodismccuien8082
      @clodismccuien8082 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      That "adults in training" was my dad

  • @vioransoldier9868
    @vioransoldier9868 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Family seems non sequitur, tho mine won't push away siblings or their children. Mine just have different priorites...

  • @zepolkram
    @zepolkram 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My five sons are well on their way

  • @marcin3136
    @marcin3136 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Yeap, children are an interesting "project" :)))
    Sigma will raise extremely smart/ valuable-good/ critical-thinking /happy people who will most likely be extremely successful in their talents/ interests.
    Sigma Empath will do it even better/ wiser than you said (the most important- a "talents assesment center" for a small child and holistic development of the nervous system).

  • @Nocturnal2010
    @Nocturnal2010 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What? I have a furniture shop and one of my daughters loves it. Im also about to build my youngest son his first gaming PC cause im a gamer when i have time 🤣

  • @Dopamine239
    @Dopamine239 หลายเดือนก่อน

    ☺️

  • @wsldanny7172
    @wsldanny7172 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Sigma make his son alpha. This tells being sigma is pain.

  • @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503
    @thetrumpnewsnetwork7503 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I'm an old man now and I'm not so sure raising the children the way we do is necessarily the best way to raise them. There is a lot I didn't understand when I was at the stage of having kids. I think we tend to be too friendly with them especially if the children also are sigmas (extremely rare though normal children can learn sigma traits from their fathers). I think when children become teenagers you have to let them despise you. It's a trick really. It makes them want to strike out on their own as soon as they can and start building whatever life they are going to have. That's a good thing for them. The faster they start their lives the sooner their lives will blossom into something worth living.

  • @opelusasbilly7076
    @opelusasbilly7076 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    1995 1996 yeah that's Kool eat well then probably understandable because first got to teddy blue hop hello treasure goes fed though Tommaso is

  • @Turtti781
    @Turtti781 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    well 7 months and let see :D i will teach what money is and how it works.

  • @Exile-exe
    @Exile-exe 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    So sigma makes do what parents are supposed to do…
    Stand by, but stand back…seems like common sense to me…

  • @ianpeter4121
    @ianpeter4121 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I wonder if women know that there are 3 types of men Alphas, Betas and Sigmas
    If a smart woman tries to understand these she’ll be a wiser picker when it comes to men

  • @SamuelKiriama
    @SamuelKiriama 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    How about we do sigma males and religion

    • @brunod269
      @brunod269 4 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Easy : religion is something personal like sex and politics. None of other's business.

    • @troymacneil5766
      @troymacneil5766 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I think he realizes religion is false and the Gospel of Christ is true.

  • @Hogglife87
    @Hogglife87 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This isn't fully true...

  • @bryanfaucett
    @bryanfaucett 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This sigma male thing is a psychological operation designed to socially engineer you. Dont buy into all the hype.

  • @withasideofdoodles-326
    @withasideofdoodles-326 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    🫡

  • @dannyke01
    @dannyke01 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Awesome video ❤

  • @pops444_
    @pops444_ 17 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯💯💯 True