This is so timely, my son and I are fighting depression and PTSD. I sleep most of the time to escape reality and my son turned to substance abuse to cope. He returned home yesterday from rehab. I'm lost and confused but I pray God brings us out of this so we can know how it feels to live without having to fight the voices in our heads daily. You are so lucky to have such a loving and supportive family, God bless you for sharing. You've given me hope. Anyone reading this, please say a little prayer for us.. thank you.
I pray Holy Spirit to rest in your mind and your son’s mind, grant you peace. I declare spirit power, love and a sound mind for your family in Jesus name amen
Maureen, so heartbreaking reading your story. Do you have family around supporting you? I want to have a better understanding of individuals who hear voices. Are you able to tell us what exactly are you experiencing? And how do the voices appear and what are they telling you? I am so sorry that you and your son are experiencing this. Hold on tight. Things will get better.
May Nella’s mum rest in eternal and perfect peace. What a beautiful soul she was. When I learned her mum died I cried, but when only her dad was wishing her a happy birthday I cried harder. I’m so sorry for your loss. Noella, if you’re reading this, I love you and I support you. Keep going on, love, and may you heal properly 🤍.
I have no words for Noella, Nick and their families. I have walked this journey as a caregiver for the last 16 years and I know this journey too well. The day we overcome stigma, that is when 80% of the work will have been done. STIGMA is the monster when it comes to mental illnessnes. Power to Noella and Nick and all mental health warriors.
This is such an important film/documentary for Africa. As someone that's a Christian and has suffered from depression and anxiety it's important that it's treated with both medication and faith. I can say that I took medication for so long but when I gave my life to Christ there was a shift, when you understand the ways in which the devil plays with the mind, you can truly begin to fight it. Although bipolar is completely different. I'm so grateful for her vulnerability, this will truly have such a huge impact. To all these suffering from mental illness, you're not alone. God loves you, keep fighting and get help where it's possible. 🙏🏽❤️
BBC (Broadcasting British Colonialism) has completed its metamorphosis from a cruel Colonialist Channel to a jihadi Channel. The mouth piece of a thieving robber of a country which oppressed and killed millions over the centuries is now lecturing other countries on human rights. The colonial white man arrogance on full display
Jeff, just go easy on yourself, you are not alone that is what almost all of us thought until we came face to face with mental illness. As a caregiver, I know how hard the struggle is, if we can overcome the stigma, the work will be 80% done. Bipolar Disorder and all other mental illnesses requires a wholesome approach from psychiatric care, psychotherapy, family support and even spiritual support.
Thanks for sharing this. We need more awareness in the African/black community that mental illnesses is real. It's sad enough that we're struggling to solve our economic issues, now our citizens have to deal with mental health issues that are perceived as a myth here. Please don't lose hope if you're dealing with something this severe. You're not alone
I really needed to see this.I was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few years ago and the journey has not been easy, even loosing jobs because of my diagnosis.And the side effects of the drugs - I can totally relate. Noela you are a true inspiration.Keep telling your story.
Noella's mum reminds me of my mum. She supported all of us no matter what we were going through. Personally she helped me through my depressed state. It was tough losing the one person who holds all of you together.
I do hope and pray that Africans would not just watch this documentary but would open their minds to see mental illness as a disease that also needs doctor's consultation, medication, and the love of family members like yours and Nic's grandmother. Thank you for such a labour of love. I am saddened by the unexpected passing of your mother. May she rest in peace. Amen.
That was courageous of Noella to share her story, may it be an eye opener to those stigmatizing those suffering from mental illness. Educative documentary!
Hugs Noella🤗🤗. Thank you for sharing your story. My teenager has ADHD and CD. There is no shame in seeking help for mental health issues. And this documentary will go along way in lifting the stigma.
So courageous of you Noella. Speaking up about your journey with mental health and putting a face to it. May your voice be heard. So sorry for the loss of your mom
It is comforting to realize that individuals have similar problems and that they are the same no matter where they are. I am really sorry about her mother , she was a great vibrant woman who never stopped advocating for her daughter during the entire process. I am sure that throughout her life everything was the same. Rest in peace Nella's mum. These documentaries brodan end expand my perspective on people and the world. Respects and heratfelt affections ....
I learnt something and I will be supporting people with mental illness,my cousin committed suicide and we had no idea of what she must have been going through 😭😭,keep going guys you are in our prayers
Noela, thanks for sharing your story with the world. I laughed, cried and celebrated your wins. I pray many more people with mental health illnesses can be inspired and get the help they need
I'd love to be interviewed on mental health too. I battle bipolar, Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and ADHD. Life is not easy, but am resilient. Not giving up on myself. Sending love to you Noela
I KNOW HOW YOU CAN BEGIN YOUR HEALING JOURNEY- SEND ME YOUR CONTACT. MENTAL ILLNESS ROOTS FROM A SPIRITUAL TRAUMA, that stemmed from 'Religion' - you saw the young man being Chained??? ITS deeper
Check out the work of dr Joe dispenza and dr Bruce Lipton. They have helped many people heal from mental and physical illness. Also, cold showers or ice baths are great for mental health! Wim hof gives great guidance on cold exposure benefits. Pls do not take cold showers or ice cold baths until you learn the breathing technique required
There is something bout this documentary that quickly brings you to the reality of mental challenges. I have a friend who continues to struggle with it. The agony and pain they go through and still manage to work, to love, to care for others and to look forward to better days is a story of resilience in its rawest form. Ohh and that old school Toyota DX station wagon is so cool.!
This is so touching. Having lost my sister to cancer and no longer in touch with my best friend due to bipolar - her mom and partner weren't supportive in following up on treatments - I relate. Sometimes faith is just the only thing that keeps one and one's family members hoping, going and strong to some very complicated diagnosis. It is not a replacement for other care and must always be compassionate. I would love to see more of your work and wish you peace.
This is so inspiring yet heartbreaking. May the soul of your beautiful mum rest in eternal peace. Sending you, nick and both of your families light, prayers and hope. You guys are very courageous !
The reality of mental health issues is too real. I lost my mother to mental illness. I was diagnosed with ADHD and High ASD at 35years. I have been a doctor for 9 years and just joined my masters to be a psychiatrist. I don’t think we are anywhere helping our people. The healthcare system especially mental health needs a lot of help and awareness. One thing I have learnt is that in Kenya, people run mainly to religion or alcohol and toxic relationships. That’s how I survived for so long and that’s how most of my patients survive for so long. Thanks for creating awareness
The ANSWERS will NEVER BE FOUND IN SO CALLED HEALTHCARE INDUSTRIES thar intentionally want you DEPENDENT ON DRUG USE. THIS IS A SPIRITUAL WAR, WHOMEVER WANTS THE TRUTH SEND ME YOUR CONTACT
Fighting tears as I watch this.. this is truly touching and informative. I pray for strength, health, and resilience to everyone going through or dealing with mental health issues. 🙏🙏🙏
Wow! I'm proud of you Noella. You've done a fantastic job of raising awareness and understanding of mental illness. The personal stories shared in this documentary are moving. My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your mom.
Same thing happened to me when I moved to America. It really damaged my mental health and that in turn affected my physical health. The best decision I made was leaving America. A big waste of money but a great decision
Great docu Noella There are a lot of us here who are going through mental health issues abroad und we have nobody to return to😢 coz the family dont want to accept… “jikaze mama ufanye kazi..”that what they always say… i feel so alone in my beautiful apartment in one of the biggest city in europe, its hard to come out of this being alone. am so happy for you darling that your family is supporting you. sending you much love
@@annwangari6118 yes, i have the medical support , in and out of hospitals no friends or family support.. there is still big stima here , same motherland people are the one stamping me””” yule dame wazimu”! it’s lonely to be in hospital for months without even one visit. everyone is tooo busy… but anyway i don’t want to complain God is faithful that we are still here
As a Psychiatric nurse, this breaks my heart into pieces. I have been asking myself how I can be of help to the people back home, still do not have an answer. To even know that managing a Psychiatric condition is hit or miss, in other words, just trying different combinations of medications until an ideal one is found for the specific person for a while adds to my frustration. And just for a while before a readjustment of medications have to be done, again. Then, the costs of medications and the lack of the health insurance system....
BBC (Broadcasting British Colonialism) has completed its metamorphosis from a cruel Colonialist Channel to a jihadi Channel. The mouth piece of a thieving robber of a country which oppressed and killed millions over the centuries is now lecturing other countries on human rights. The colonial white man arrogance on full display
@SEEK THE TRUTH! Jesus Christ is the way the truth, the truth and the life John 14:6// John 3:16For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Look into cognitive therapy DBT and others, many people find help, success and sometimes healing from these therapies. A pill is not necessarily the answer for everyone
Mental health is not a Joke when you hear some naive people out there say there is no Mental Health its Just on the Brain unfortunately its like telling those peoples with Asma that its all in thier Lungs more Education surely needed whicg can atleast lower that Stigma which comes with Mental Health .
I feel Soo heart broken 💔 from this story,it is Soo sad but also hopefull the way Noel is resilient and supportive of Nick despite her own struggles. Mental illness is no joke, having been depressed before and had anxiety....we keep praying and hoping for the best. Life has it's ups and downs but we move. Hugs to noella,thanks for sharing
Wow!! Thank you for sharing your world with us, Noella. I am so sorry about your mom’s passing and your struggles. You’re in my prayers. God bless you!
Noella , Nick and your wonderful supportive families thank you for sharing something so personal with us your stories moved me to tears , I pray you stay well and happy all the days of your lives ❤️
Each brake down is an opportunity to grow stronger and heal another layer of what's been hurt. The healing that occurs isn't just self healing, but generational healing. Thankyou for sharing your story..🙏🤍🤍
You have a strong spirit Noella. This is for a reason, as you are and will touch many lives, by sharing your story very intelligently - clearly your mind despite the challenge is very beautiful and focused. Thank you.
I thought the mum got healed. My heart sunk when I saw the coffin. Mental illness is even harder on those that love the infected. They are the most affected, I have two close family members suffering from bipolar disorder and multipersonalities. I am glad that Noella and David have families that have their backs. My prayer to you is that you continue seeing the light at the end of the tunnel especially on the darker days. Sending virtual hugs🫂🫂🫂🫂 RIP mama Noella, you are appreciated!🕊🕊🕊🕊
Such a beautiful story of hope, lets all stand up and speak about mental health, tying people with chains is not the solution. Good job Noella,Keep checking on Nick ,he is such a gentleman who deserves the best.
What a documentary. So sorry for your lose Noella if you are reading this. Amazing how you've kept your smile. You and Nick are such inspiring people. May God heal the wounds of your souls and grant you peace.
To imagine the pain your mum must have felt to know that she will not be present to see you thro the healing process. RIP mum. God be always present in your life Noella. #Hugs
Wow, so moving, noella , my heart goes out to you, half the time i was holding back my tears seeing what you were going through, your dad and your late are true heroes for standing by you and remaining all the same, kudos to your brother as well, I believe their strength and encouragement helps you encourage others like nick , God bless you, with people like you sharing your story half the battle is won , thank you and God bless
Noella,when you see this, thank you for letting us into your life. You are an amazing soul and thank you for the noble work that you are doing. Please share your socials, I would like to follow you!
Thank you Noella for sharing. I shed tears about losing your mum. She loved you so much and believed in you. May her soul Rest In Peace. Thank you Nick for sharing your story as well. Thank you for being there for each other even when the world seemed so dark. I hope one day all these will be a testimony of how and where God brought you from.
I love this , as an Africa I can say mental illness is not taken seriously. I personally struggle with something but have no idea what exactly it is and I’d be lying if I said I’ll get help any time soon . I’ve learnt to live with myself but it hurts sometimes thinking your brain is broken in some way and not being able to get the help you needs because people don’t take mental health seriously.
@@timothywanjohi2604 very very true , I just hope one day a lot of people will be able to get the help that they need without having to worry about expenses
This is unfortunately true. I will admit that even as medic who is in the mental health area, it’s failing a lot of people. I discovered my own mental health late despite being a doctor. PTSD is real. Trauma and mental health issues is real. Being diagnosed with ADHD at 33 years and high functioning autism at 35 years . The stigma and confusion that comes with all this in a country like Kenya is heartbreaking to say the list. Am training to be a psychiatrist, but I honestly don’t think we are anywhere close to helping Kenyans the way we should. Most of us survive through alcohol and cycles of abuse and toxic relationships. It’s the only thing available to us. For those of us who go for religion, we find it’s comforting but we still have to face the reality of mental health. My mum was so religious but still died secondary to mental health problems after her retirement. So as a person on the forefront I understand the frustrations of Kenyans. Even when you listen to citizens of US, their mental health care system ain’t better.
@@shikukimani4443 very true and normally when you exhibit any symptoms of mental illness most Africans jump to the conclusion that you must be bewitched thus the church will save , it’s harmful and has really messed up a lot of people.
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing so vulnerably, so sorry for the loss of your mother. You are a hero in opening up this much needed conversation. How can we help?
This is the same in the Caribbean. My aunt is schizophrenic and my mom once told me that there is nothing wrong with my aunt. My mom is very religious and does not understand mental illnesses. Not only my mom. Mental illness in the Caribbean is a taboo.
I am bipolar 1 and raptured my own tendon at Mathari. I hate being manic I hate being depressed.i hate the relationship I have lost . Mental health stigma in Kenya is real
I've watched the Instagram 5mins snippet and had to watch the whole documentary. Thank you Noella for telling your story. My condolences my mum keep shining with the angels 🕊
What an inspiring, touching, informative and enlightening documentary! Unfortunately, I know only too well the devastating effects of mental illness on a family such as mine. I lost my dear beloved first born daughter to bipolar disorder (May she rest in eternal peace). Thank you very much, Noella, for your heartfelt work and selflessness. You and Nick are an inspiration. Good luck to both of you and all those who are struggling with metal illnesses. May there be a cure soon. Also, may your mother rest in eternal peace and continue to guide and watch over you. I know she must be proud of you still. I send you and Nick lots of love, big virtue hugs and wishes for continued healing. Keep up the good work! Thank you, also, to BBC News Africa for this timely episode. I see you have another documentary on suicide in Kenya, another extremely important subject that needs high lighting. Mental illness and suicide (AND addiction) often go hand in hand. For the sake of the horrible suffering of the victims and their families, we need to seek and implement solutions.
this is the first video on TH-cam made me shade tears ..thanks for sharing your story it will really help someone ,and one thing you forgot to inform people where to find you on social media
This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for such a documentary, when you mentioned seeking help requires vulnerability, I felt that. I wish every one who is going through it a lot of love, you are brave for choosing to get help. So sorry for your loss. Wish you all the best in life.
The biggest blessing that you deserve to thank God for is your mother's voice at home . My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was young❤ We Love You NOELLA
Very touching, story at many levels! Noella and Nick you might want to explore the possibility that you both could possibly be Neuro divergent and hard wired like that,? As many adults who did not have a diagnosis of ADHD or Autism spectrum disorder in the younger growing up years, are later diagnosed as having bipolar or other mental diagonsis? if you know what type of 'hard wiring 'you are, you get to understand better the triggers of mania and how to emotionally self regulate and get to access other non medical interventions along side medication if need be so that the challenges are mitigated and you get to 'function' and live a near enough fulfilling life. Keep those conversations going!
Thank you Noella and family, Nick and his grandma are an inspiration too. I hope you get better every day. Keep the appointment dates,visit the doctor when you feel unwell. Have the members of the support group close,they mean a lot to everyone. Will keep you in prayer 🙏
Wow Noella, such a bold move to give the world your story. Just as mum said, your dream will be valid. May mum Rest in peace. She was a darling. Good job, keep soaring girl, proud of you.
18:59 I would love to be part of the community!! I am also based in Nairobi and was diagnosed with major depressive disorder (MDD), generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) and PTSD. i was on psych medication for 2 years before I quit last month. Whatsoever crazy is I was also admitted in a psych ward TWICE in NORTH CAROLINA! and I moved back home immediately after being discharged from UNC!!
Noella, thank you for this inspiring story. Thanks to Nick too. You have given many the chance to have a glimpse of the amazing life of people with mental illness. Thank you for your service. May the almighty reward you.
Noella you’re brave and what you’re doing it’s actually been one of the innovative changes in MH here abroad. Involving people with lived experience as employees or volunteers in crisis support centres. So well done!! And my condolences about your mum. We had a glimpse of the wonderful woman she was🙏
Life is hard in US. It can be even harder when your family and friends back home have set standards and expectations for you. Alot of students end up in dorms lonely and isolated from Kenyan communities that could be a support system. If you're in Kenya STOP asking your friends living or studying abroad for money, phones, laptops or other favors just STOP 🛑 not unless they offer them instead check on them regularly.Thank you.
I have cried multiple times. Thank you for sharing this story. Thank you Noella for your existence, your creative prowess for coming up with this project, for the courage to push it, and have it here for us to see. Thank you to your family for standing by you and setting an example and an appreciation to all the supporting families. They are full of life, And thank you to your parents for bringing you all to these world. May your Mother, Cecilia, Rest In Eternal Peace.🙏 Thank you Nick for allowing to be an integral part of this film. I appreciate you all. We journey on.🙌
What a great documentary and an eye opener filled with emotions. thanks for allowing yourself to be vulnerable as many kenyans can now relate to mental Health issues.Keep the good fight girl and keep your faith
God rest her mother's soul........ She was very supportive........ It really broke my heart when she died! May God continue to bless our mothers....... They sacrifice alot
Thank you for sharing a part of your life, I have learned a lot in this video and I pray for anyone fighting mental illnesses. You’ll see so strong. I’ve been holding my tears but tonight I go to bed feeling sad because there are people out there fighting so much.
This is so timely, my son and I are fighting depression and PTSD. I sleep most of the time to escape reality and my son turned to substance abuse to cope. He returned home yesterday from rehab. I'm lost and confused but I pray God brings us out of this so we can know how it feels to live without having to fight the voices in our heads daily. You are so lucky to have such a loving and supportive family, God bless you for sharing. You've given me hope. Anyone reading this, please say a little prayer for us.. thank you.
Will be praying. Hugz
Count on my prayer. Behold nothing is too hard for our God. May God turn round your story for his Glory 🙏
Where are you based Maureen?
I pray Holy Spirit to rest in your mind and your son’s mind, grant you peace. I declare spirit power, love and a sound mind for your family in Jesus name amen
Maureen, so heartbreaking reading your story. Do you have family around supporting you? I want to have a better understanding of individuals who hear voices. Are you able to tell us what exactly are you experiencing? And how do the voices appear and what are they telling you?
I am so sorry that you and your son are experiencing this. Hold on tight. Things will get better.
May Nella’s mum rest in eternal and perfect peace. What a beautiful soul she was. When I learned her mum died I cried, but when only her dad was wishing her a happy birthday I cried harder. I’m so sorry for your loss. Noella, if you’re reading this, I love you and I support you. Keep going on, love, and may you heal properly 🤍.
Shemu
@@dorothymate3755 Pardon me?
Noella is the epitome of courage and resilience,an inspiration for anyone going through a health issue .
Her parents are amazing people.
I have no words for Noella, Nick and their families. I have walked this journey as a caregiver for the last 16 years and I know this journey too well. The day we overcome stigma, that is when 80% of the work will have been done. STIGMA is the monster when it comes to mental illnessnes. Power to Noella and Nick and all mental health warriors.
What a supportive family. Mental health is real. Africa needs more mental help professionals. Good luck Noella ❤
@@justnje thanks for sharing. I wish you and your family amazing grace
This is such an important film/documentary for Africa. As someone that's a Christian and has suffered from depression and anxiety it's important that it's treated with both medication and faith. I can say that I took medication for so long but when I gave my life to Christ there was a shift, when you understand the ways in which the devil plays with the mind, you can truly begin to fight it. Although bipolar is completely different.
I'm so grateful for her vulnerability, this will truly have such a huge impact.
To all these suffering from mental illness, you're not alone. God loves you, keep fighting and get help where it's possible. 🙏🏽❤️
Heyyy hope u r fine. Which medication helped? Please
Wow. You are write sis love from Ethiopia
I understand that mental health is not something the Devil causes but just how our minds navigate this world
BBC (Broadcasting British Colonialism) has completed its metamorphosis from a cruel Colonialist Channel to a jihadi Channel. The mouth piece of a thieving robber of a country which oppressed and killed millions over the centuries is now lecturing other countries on human rights. The colonial white man arrogance on full display
Amen 🙏 what u said is so important!
Her mum was so loving this documentary was hard to watch. I feel so sad that she lost the battle. Keep going Noella God is with you.
I cried so hard omg. May she rest in eternal peace and may Nella heal and keep going on 🤍
You may not know it but it’s people like you who will save this world. Your a wonderful human being.
I'm sorry to everyone whose mental health struggle I undermined. This thing is serious, often assumed it's a millennial way of attention seeking.
Jeff, just go easy on yourself, you are not alone that is what almost all of us thought until we came face to face with mental illness. As a caregiver, I know how hard the struggle is, if we can overcome the stigma, the work will be 80% done. Bipolar Disorder and all other mental illnesses requires a wholesome approach from psychiatric care, psychotherapy, family support and even spiritual support.
I have just watched it for the first time today it's disturbing and inspiring at the same, you soldered on Noella
Thanks for sharing this. We need more awareness in the African/black community that mental illnesses is real. It's sad enough that we're struggling to solve our economic issues, now our citizens have to deal with mental health issues that are perceived as a myth here. Please don't lose hope if you're dealing with something this severe. You're not alone
This is one of the best BBC Africa Documentary I have ever watched.
I really needed to see this.I was diagnosed with schizophrenia a few years ago and the journey has not been easy, even loosing jobs because of my diagnosis.And the side effects of the drugs - I can totally relate.
Noela you are a true inspiration.Keep telling your story.
This is brave.. schizophrenia is so stigmatized
Noella's mum reminds me of my mum. She supported all of us no matter what we were going through. Personally she helped me through my depressed state. It was tough losing the one person who holds all of you together.
I do hope and pray that Africans would not just watch this documentary but would open their minds to see mental illness as a disease that also needs doctor's consultation, medication, and the love of family members like yours and Nic's grandmother. Thank you for such a labour of love. I am saddened by the unexpected passing of your mother. May she rest in peace. Amen.
That was courageous of Noella to share her story, may it be an eye opener to those stigmatizing those suffering from mental illness. Educative documentary!
Hugs Noella🤗🤗. Thank you for sharing your story. My teenager has ADHD and CD. There is no shame in seeking help for mental health issues. And this documentary will go along way in lifting the stigma.
A highly-educative, timely, concise, sympathy-inducing, and professionally documented Documentary. Well done.
So courageous of you Noella. Speaking up about your journey with mental health and putting a face to it. May your voice be heard. So sorry for the loss of your mom
Noella I went to school with you, i would love to reconnect if you will ever read this. You are amazing and a bright light shining.
It is comforting to realize that individuals have similar problems and that they are the same no matter where they are. I am really sorry about her mother , she was a great vibrant woman who never stopped advocating for her daughter during the entire process. I am sure that throughout her life everything was the same. Rest in peace Nella's mum. These documentaries brodan end expand my perspective on people and the world. Respects and heratfelt affections ....
Alot of people suffer from this but never Express themselves
You are Brave
Noella and everyone else who is fighting and surviving mental health issues, you are all together beautiful.❤
I learnt something and I will be supporting people with mental illness,my cousin committed suicide and we had no idea of what she must have been going through 😭😭,keep going guys you are in our prayers
I've watched this documentary on KTN today and all I can say is that Noella is very strong. All the best to her. She is an iron lady.
Noela, thanks for sharing your story with the world. I laughed, cried and celebrated your wins. I pray many more people with mental health illnesses can be inspired and get the help they need
I'd love to be interviewed on mental health too. I battle bipolar, Complex Post Traumatic Stress Disorder and ADHD. Life is not easy, but am resilient. Not giving up on myself. Sending love to you Noela
I KNOW HOW YOU CAN BEGIN YOUR HEALING JOURNEY- SEND ME YOUR CONTACT. MENTAL ILLNESS ROOTS FROM A SPIRITUAL TRAUMA, that stemmed from 'Religion' - you saw the young man being Chained??? ITS deeper
Check out the work of dr Joe dispenza and dr Bruce Lipton. They have helped many people heal from mental and physical illness. Also, cold showers or ice baths are great for mental health! Wim hof gives great guidance on cold exposure benefits. Pls do not take cold showers or ice cold baths until you learn the breathing technique required
There is something bout this documentary that quickly brings you to the reality of mental challenges. I have a friend who continues to struggle with it. The agony and pain they go through and still manage to work, to love, to care for others and to look forward to better days is a story of resilience in its rawest form. Ohh and that old school Toyota DX station wagon is so cool.!
Oh Nick 💔he's had it worse.
BBC we need a follow up on this wonderful piece by Noella
This is so touching.
Having lost my sister to cancer and no longer in touch with my best friend due to bipolar - her mom and partner weren't supportive in following up on treatments - I relate.
Sometimes faith is just the only thing that keeps one and one's family members hoping, going and strong to some very complicated diagnosis. It is not a replacement for other care and must always be compassionate.
I would love to see more of your work and wish you peace.
This is so inspiring yet heartbreaking. May the soul of your beautiful mum rest in eternal peace. Sending you, nick and both of your families light, prayers and hope. You guys are very courageous !
Her family really stood with her and she has an amazing heart
The reality of mental health issues is too real. I lost my mother to mental illness. I was diagnosed with ADHD and High ASD at 35years. I have been a doctor for 9 years and just joined my masters to be a psychiatrist. I don’t think we are anywhere helping our people. The healthcare system especially mental health needs a lot of help and awareness. One thing I have learnt is that in Kenya, people run mainly to religion or alcohol and toxic relationships. That’s how I survived for so long and that’s how most of my patients survive for so long. Thanks for creating awareness
Thank you so much for sharing!
The ANSWERS will NEVER BE FOUND IN SO CALLED HEALTHCARE INDUSTRIES thar intentionally want you DEPENDENT ON DRUG USE. THIS IS A SPIRITUAL WAR, WHOMEVER WANTS THE TRUTH SEND ME YOUR CONTACT
Thank you for sharing your story❤️ I also have bipolar, diagnosed last year. I'm really struggling. May Allah make it easier for us all. Ameen.
Aameen Yaa Rabb!
Having such a supportive family who wants to see you get well is such a blessing
Fighting tears as I watch this.. this is truly touching and informative. I pray for strength, health, and resilience to everyone going through or dealing with mental health issues. 🙏🙏🙏
Wow! I'm proud of you Noella. You've done a fantastic job of raising awareness and understanding of mental illness. The personal stories shared in this documentary are moving. My heart goes out to you and your family for the loss of your mom.
Same thing happened to me when I moved to America. It really damaged my mental health and that in turn affected my physical health. The best decision I made was leaving America. A big waste of money but a great decision
"I'm glad you came"
Ah my heart🥺🥺🥺
Great docu Noella
There are a lot of us here who are going through mental health issues abroad und we have nobody to return to😢 coz the family dont want to accept…
“jikaze mama ufanye kazi..”that what they always say…
i feel so alone in my beautiful apartment in one of the biggest city in europe,
its hard to come out of this being alone.
am so happy for you darling that your family is supporting you.
sending you much love
Are you in contact with Mental Health Team?
@@annwangari6118 yes, i have the medical support , in and out of hospitals
no friends or family support.. there is still big stima here , same motherland people are the one stamping me””” yule dame wazimu”! it’s lonely to be in hospital for months without even one visit.
everyone is tooo busy…
but anyway i don’t want to complain
God is faithful that we are still here
@@eebonyannajonesf8367 could I ask which country you are in please? If you are in London, we could arrange a visit.
@@annwangari6118 Thanks for your love gal,unfortunately i am in Germany
Sending you lot's of love,may it carry you through the pain and struggle.
Seeing her mum dead just broke me completely.. Praying for love and light to this family💖
As a Psychiatric nurse, this breaks my heart into pieces. I have been asking myself how I can be of help to the people back home, still do not have an answer. To even know that managing a Psychiatric condition is hit or miss, in other words, just trying different combinations of medications until an ideal one is found for the specific person for a while adds to my frustration. And just for a while before a readjustment of medications have to be done, again. Then, the costs of medications and the lack of the health insurance system....
I want to help my people as well but I don't know where to start.2 minds put together we can hack this
@SEEK THE TRUTH! no! Islam is toxic, we don't need more division. Africa must unite. Religion is not the answer
BBC (Broadcasting British Colonialism) has completed its metamorphosis from a cruel Colonialist Channel to a jihadi Channel. The mouth piece of a thieving robber of a country which oppressed and killed millions over the centuries is now lecturing other countries on human rights. The colonial white man arrogance on full display
@SEEK THE TRUTH! Jesus Christ is the way the truth, the truth and the life John 14:6// John 3:16For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life.
Look into cognitive therapy DBT and others, many people find help, success and sometimes healing from these therapies. A pill is not necessarily the answer for everyone
So inspiring. Mental health is real, we need to start talking about it then eventually people will understand
Mental health is not a Joke when you hear some naive people out there say there is no Mental Health its Just on the Brain unfortunately its like telling those peoples with Asma that its all in thier Lungs more Education surely needed whicg can atleast lower that Stigma which comes with Mental Health .
We also have a big community in Rwanda that has the same issues,MAY THE LORD HEAL AFRICA
I was in the Seminary with Nick sad to see his dreams of being a priest shuttered hope he can one day live his dreams.
This was everything 😭 I’m so sorry for the loss of your mother. I hope you can find a way to cope better going forward. And Nick too
I feel Soo heart broken 💔 from this story,it is Soo sad but also hopefull the way Noel is resilient and supportive of Nick despite her own struggles. Mental illness is no joke, having been depressed before and had anxiety....we keep praying and hoping for the best. Life has it's ups and downs but we move. Hugs to noella,thanks for sharing
The story is so touching ,I love the courage in her to tell her story and her supportive family 🌺🌺😍😍😍😍
Wow!! Thank you for sharing your world with us, Noella. I am so sorry about your mom’s passing and your struggles. You’re in my prayers. God bless you!
This is really good to share, lots of people have lost loved ones because of mental health illness.
God bless you Noella, Nick and the entire team for this.
Noella , Nick and your wonderful supportive families thank you for sharing something so personal with us your stories moved me to tears , I pray you stay well and happy all the days of your lives ❤️
A supportive family is everything!!. You're blessed to have one Noella..
May you find the help that you need in the midst of all these crisis....
Each brake down is an opportunity to grow stronger and heal another layer of what's been hurt. The healing that occurs isn't just self healing, but generational healing. Thankyou for sharing your story..🙏🤍🤍
*KENYA WE PROUD OF YOU GIRL* 🇰🇪🇰🇪🇰🇪
You have a strong spirit Noella. This is for a reason, as you are and will touch many lives, by sharing your story very intelligently - clearly your mind despite the challenge is very beautiful and focused. Thank you.
I wish I could get in contact with Noella - such an important documentry!! Thank God shes blessed with such loving family❤️
I thought the mum got healed. My heart sunk when I saw the coffin. Mental illness is even harder on those that love the infected. They are the most affected, I have two close family members suffering from bipolar disorder and multipersonalities. I am glad that Noella and David have families that have their backs. My prayer to you is that you continue seeing the light at the end of the tunnel especially on the darker days. Sending virtual hugs🫂🫂🫂🫂 RIP mama Noella, you are appreciated!🕊🕊🕊🕊
Such a beautiful story of hope, lets all stand up and speak about mental health, tying people with chains is not the solution. Good job Noella,Keep checking on Nick ,he is such a gentleman who deserves the best.
As an advocate I am happy to see a coverage of how our voice can make a big difference
What a documentary. So sorry for your lose Noella if you are reading this. Amazing how you've kept your smile. You and Nick are such inspiring people. May God heal the wounds of your souls and grant you peace.
To imagine the pain your mum must have felt to know that she will not be present to see you thro the healing process. RIP mum. God be always present in your life Noella. #Hugs
Oh Noella I hope you are doing much better now.
just cried my eyes out.... I don't know how people are surviving this world. So much pain and struggle. God is our anchor in EVERYTHING
Wow, so moving, noella , my heart goes out to you, half the time i was holding back my tears seeing what you were going through, your dad and your late are true heroes for standing by you and remaining all the same, kudos to your brother as well, I believe their strength and encouragement helps you encourage others like nick , God bless you, with people like you sharing your story half the battle is won , thank you and God bless
Noella,when you see this, thank you for letting us into your life. You are an amazing soul and thank you for the noble work that you are doing. Please share your socials, I would like to follow you!
Thank you Noella for sharing. I shed tears about losing your mum. She loved you so much and believed in you. May her soul Rest In Peace. Thank you Nick for sharing your story as well. Thank you for being there for each other even when the world seemed so dark. I hope one day all these will be a testimony of how and where God brought you from.
Such an important story. Grateful to Noella for making and sharing this!
Noella and Nick the duo, I love you guys. I understand your situation better because i am currently at that point in my life.
One of the most brilliant documentaries on BBC. Congratulations Noella.. keep moving forward ⏩
I love this , as an Africa I can say mental illness is not taken seriously. I personally struggle with something but have no idea what exactly it is and I’d be lying if I said I’ll get help any time soon . I’ve learnt to live with myself but it hurts sometimes thinking your brain is broken in some way and not being able to get the help you needs because people don’t take mental health seriously.
Plus it's very very expensive to get treatment in Kenya. Good treatment.
@@timothywanjohi2604 very very true , I just hope one day a lot of people will be able to get the help that they need without having to worry about expenses
@@virtu_ri my hope also
This is unfortunately true. I will admit that even as medic who is in the mental health area, it’s failing a lot of people. I discovered my own mental health late despite being a doctor. PTSD is real. Trauma and mental health issues is real. Being diagnosed with ADHD at 33 years and high functioning autism at 35 years . The stigma and confusion that comes with all this in a country like Kenya is heartbreaking to say the list. Am training to be a psychiatrist, but I honestly don’t think we are anywhere close to helping Kenyans the way we should. Most of us survive through alcohol and cycles of abuse and toxic relationships. It’s the only thing available to us. For those of us who go for religion, we find it’s comforting but we still have to face the reality of mental health. My mum was so religious but still died secondary to mental health problems after her retirement. So as a person on the forefront I understand the frustrations of Kenyans. Even when you listen to citizens of US, their mental health care system ain’t better.
@@shikukimani4443 very true and normally when you exhibit any symptoms of mental illness most Africans jump to the conclusion that you must be bewitched thus the church will save , it’s harmful and has really messed up a lot of people.
What a beautiful story. Thank you for sharing so vulnerably, so sorry for the loss of your mother. You are a hero in opening up this much needed conversation. How can we help?
This is the same in the Caribbean. My aunt is schizophrenic and my mom once told me that there is nothing wrong with my aunt. My mom is very religious and does not understand mental illnesses. Not only my mom. Mental illness in the Caribbean is a taboo.
I am bipolar 1 and raptured my own tendon at Mathari.
I hate being manic I hate being depressed.i hate the relationship I have lost .
Mental health stigma in Kenya is real
I know how you can begin to heal IF you have a contact I can reach you.
I've watched the Instagram 5mins snippet and had to watch the whole documentary. Thank you Noella for telling your story. My condolences my mum keep shining with the angels 🕊
What an inspiring, touching, informative and enlightening documentary! Unfortunately, I know only too well the devastating effects of mental illness on a family such as mine. I lost my dear beloved first born daughter to bipolar disorder (May she rest in eternal peace). Thank you very much, Noella, for your heartfelt work and selflessness. You and Nick are an inspiration. Good luck to both of you and all those who are struggling with metal illnesses. May there be a cure soon. Also, may your mother rest in eternal peace and continue to guide and watch over you. I know she must be proud of you still. I send you and Nick lots of love, big virtue hugs and wishes for continued healing. Keep up the good work! Thank you, also, to BBC News Africa for this timely episode. I see you have another documentary on suicide in Kenya, another extremely important subject that needs high lighting. Mental illness and suicide (AND addiction) often go hand in hand. For the sake of the horrible suffering of the victims and their families, we need to seek and implement solutions.
Thank you so much for sharing and taking the time to watch our documentaries. ❤
this is the first video on TH-cam made me shade tears ..thanks for sharing your story it will really help someone ,and one thing you forgot to inform people where to find you on social media
This brought tears to my eyes. Thank you for such a documentary, when you mentioned seeking help requires vulnerability, I felt that. I wish every one who is going through it a lot of love, you are brave for choosing to get help. So sorry for your loss. Wish you all the best in life.
Keep driving the conversation Noella, watching your film has been inspirational.
Damn! This is well documented may her mum RIP.
My takeaway quote.
"Suppress the negative, uplift the positive."
This is really touching...I have shed a tear. May God uphold you Noella
The biggest blessing that you deserve to thank God for is your mother's voice at home . My Lord, have mercy on them as they raised me when I was young❤ We Love You NOELLA
Very touching, story at many levels! Noella and Nick you might want to explore the possibility that you both could possibly be Neuro divergent and hard wired like that,? As many adults who did not have a diagnosis of ADHD or Autism spectrum disorder in the younger growing up years, are later diagnosed as having bipolar or other mental diagonsis? if you know what type of 'hard wiring 'you are, you get to understand better the triggers of mania and how to emotionally self regulate and get to access other non medical interventions along side medication if need be so that the challenges are mitigated and you get to
'function' and live a near enough fulfilling life. Keep those conversations going!
Thank you Noella and family, Nick and his grandma are an inspiration too.
I hope you get better every day.
Keep the appointment dates,visit the doctor when you feel unwell. Have the members of the support group close,they mean a lot to everyone.
Will keep you in prayer 🙏
Wow Noella, such a bold move to give the world your story. Just as mum said, your dream will be valid. May mum Rest in peace. She was a darling. Good job, keep soaring girl, proud of you.
This one for the books!! Such an amazing piece. I love it.
18:59 I would love to be part of the community!! I am also based in Nairobi and was diagnosed with major depressive disorder (MDD), generalized anxiety disorder (GAD) and PTSD. i was on psych medication for 2 years before I quit last month.
Whatsoever crazy is I was also admitted in a psych ward TWICE in NORTH CAROLINA! and I moved back home immediately after being discharged from UNC!!
Noella, thank you for this inspiring story. Thanks to Nick too. You have given many the chance to have a glimpse of the amazing life of people with mental illness. Thank you for your service. May the almighty reward you.
Noella you’re brave and what you’re doing it’s actually been one of the innovative changes in MH here abroad. Involving people with lived experience as employees or volunteers in crisis support centres. So well done!! And my condolences about your mum. We had a glimpse of the wonderful woman she was🙏
Life is hard in US. It can be even harder when your family and friends back home have set standards and expectations for you. Alot of students end up in dorms lonely and isolated from Kenyan communities that could be a support system. If you're in Kenya STOP asking your friends living or studying abroad for money, phones, laptops or other favors just STOP 🛑 not unless they offer them instead check on them regularly.Thank you.
I have cried multiple times. Thank you for sharing this story. Thank you Noella for your existence, your creative prowess for coming up with this project, for the courage to push it, and have it here for us to see. Thank you to your family for standing by you and setting an example and an appreciation to all the supporting families. They are full of life, And thank you to your parents for bringing you all to these world. May your Mother, Cecilia, Rest In Eternal Peace.🙏 Thank you Nick for allowing to be an integral part of this film. I appreciate you all. We journey on.🙌
“It’s all the people around you “. Beautifully said.
Big shout-out to all participants in this.
Y'all Amazing
Noella thank you so much for this documentary... I really hope it will change a lot of people's mentality on mental illness
What a great documentary and an eye opener filled with emotions. thanks for allowing yourself to be vulnerable as many kenyans can now relate to mental Health issues.Keep the good fight girl and keep your faith
God rest her mother's soul........ She was very supportive........ It really broke my heart when she died! May God continue to bless our mothers....... They sacrifice alot
Noelle has just become one of my favorite people in the world. ❤
Thank you for sharing a part of your life, I have learned a lot in this video and I pray for anyone fighting mental illnesses. You’ll see so strong. I’ve been holding my tears but tonight I go to bed feeling sad because there are people out there fighting so much.