That applies to women across the world but is gets worse with women from poor countries. You will share almost no common ground & cultural differences can be vast. They will give you sex & you will end up paying for it one way or another. When the cash dries up they move on. That's the law of the jungle! Buyer beware!
Age don’t matter in this case. They are only interested in what they want to know, not what you want to talk about. In my experience with a 48 yr old woman
I recently broke up with my Filipina GF after giving her more money than I care to admit after we transitioned from face-to-face fantasy vacation to LDR. Suddenly, she can’t live without me. Time to block. 🤷🏻♂️ I’m going to stay in the U.S. It’s not a perfect country, but there is a sense of order, and we have oxygen in ambulances. Your channel helped me a lot, John. I thank you for that.
having worked in the oxygen for patients business, let me assure you, there are very very little benefits to oxygen, apart from making you "think" that its helping.
@jimw7916 Oxygen is essential for patients experiencing hypoxia (low blood oxygen levels) due to conditions like heart attacks, strokes, severe asthma, pneumonia, or trauma. Without timely oxygen therapy, organ damage or failure (e.g., brain, heart) can occur within minutes.
@@AZ_Bill the ONLY reason that we age is because of oxygen in the air. When I put someone permanently on oxygen, I come back 3 months later and they have aged 10 or more years!
True. I get talked over half way thru my sentence. She can’t recall what I just said when I say sorry, what was I talking about ? 😂 totally disrespectful
@@thejoe4000 I get talked over by many Filipinos in general conversation, I just let them get on with it. I wondered if it was a language barrier think.
@blackwoodrichmore4531 please share more so I understand the hell my brother is suffering... he just married a pretty but dumb as brick philpina nurse.....she waiting to force an ultimatum of marriage when he inherited money.
You always generalize too much because of your own situation. There are a lot of good Filipinas but avoid red flags like large age gaps, children out of previous relationships, very poor backgrounds, golddiggers... . Use your brain when you look for one.
The question should be - ARE THEY INTERESTED IN YOU AND ABOUT YOUR LIFE - and the short answer is no, not the in depth interest that a new lady friend would have back home. It can be a real downer at the beginning when you want to tell her all about your Mum and Dad or your siblings….even about crazy old Uncle Jack(made up). The interest peaks after five minutes of chat leaving you thinking why the hell did I bother. Does she really care about us is a different question that can seriously turn a relationship on its head. Without that, any relationship is not what you imagined it to be. I’m sure all of us guys have attempted to talk about our country in some way - only to get a very cold response, preferring to look at their phone or anything but listen to you. So be it - don’t waste your breath unless they directly ask you…..and if that happens you will know that pension day is due - 😅
I’ve said it in numerous comments and even to OFW’s, to never share your bank balance or income. In fact, I advise to lie. Sad, but true. In my experiences, a good Filipina will tell people “no budget” and that her foreigner only gives her a basic allowance. It helps a lot to take the pressure off, but doesn’t make her immune to it. Saying “no” is a tough lesson for both sides and you have to be mentally tough and follow through. Ignore the gas lighting, the tampo, the manipulation and her need to try and save face. It’s not always about her, as much as many Filipinas seem to think it is. Either she accepts it, or not, but being on sound financial ground and prepared for a medical drama etc is your key to survival here.
You just explained why 36 years olds act 13 I assume it was just lack of maturity or education but your information on aggregate I Q answered this question
I’m getting used to my peace these days. Been almost 2 years now since she died. They’re the same everywhere they go in the world John. Special to me. But your channel actually helps me. She belongs to another man’s wallet now. Jesus hopefully. And has all the rice she wants in heaven hopefully. They do get dinged young … all a little too tight for me but I can say the squeeze was worth the lemon.
My brother married one as his high-school sweetheart she was as westernized philpina and shes so shalow and vapid 3 weeks before our mom died she dragged by stupid brother on vacation because " our grandma died last year and she didnt get her vacation" Held up a newspaper in my face when i asked her would she be going on vacation if it was your mom dying and not your husbands? To leave all thw responsibility on your sister ?
they want to know if you make enough money to provide well for your future kids. if i was a filipina it would be irresponsible of me to marry a guy who im not even sure if he is prepared to send our future kids to school. they dont want their future kids to grow up poor like they did
@boyscout-p3u They grew up poor because their country is 80 iq and doesn't cooperate like white European people. They come over here and ruin everything we've built and it's all paid for by old money and big business to cut labor costs and create competition among workers.
Wow…. Your 100000% correct. Entitled ! Selfish! and devoid of any empathy. Forget any form of deep conversations . They don’t care about your problems but expect you to care about theirs and their families.
international relationships simply , if there is no common ground I guess you can forget it , I used to have a Korean gf 30 ys ago she way more educated way more money but poor english, no french, am German , we could not have deep conversations on any topic we did 50 :50 on our expenses maybe I even paid a bit more but could afford it since most of my life been single, women hate to pay for men , we all know that, you could have found a good mature filipina but you put the wrong horse unfortunately
You are forgetting that they are not native speakers. Could you imagine having in depth conversations in another language. Sensitive people should never marry into another culture. Stay single if you want such deep conversations. Personally I have never really needed it. I am happy with a shallow relationship. She is thin , good looking, is a good mother and obeys me, it is enough and much more than I would get in the west.
@@paul8612exactly lol you could adopt if you just wanted kids he legit doesn't want a relationship but the idea of being a father and having kids that don't look like him or connect with them
@@PeevyMctweevyit’s true. They need to be a citizen & contributed enough NI credits to have their own. May get a widows pension but that’s only a one off payment of 3500pounds
Let me put it this way , if you were 22/25 would you want to walk down the main street
hand in hand with a 62/65 year old girlfriend ?
Lol.
the answer to that would be yes if they had the brains to think about it.
In my experience, if there is a large age gap, the majority of them could not care less.
That applies to women across the world but is gets worse with women from poor countries. You will share almost no common ground & cultural differences can be vast. They will give you sex & you will end up paying for it one way or another. When the cash dries up they move on. That's the law of the jungle! Buyer beware!
They care about one thing for sure , how much money they can get out of you.
Age don’t matter in this case. They are only interested in what they want to know, not what you want to talk about. In my experience with a 48 yr old woman
They "dont care less" regardless of age. It just takes time for you to realize this..... and you will realize it eventually.
I recently broke up with my Filipina GF after giving her more money than I care to admit after we transitioned from face-to-face fantasy vacation to LDR. Suddenly, she can’t live without me. Time to block. 🤷🏻♂️
I’m going to stay in the U.S. It’s not a perfect country, but there is a sense of order, and we have oxygen in ambulances.
Your channel helped me a lot, John. I thank you for that.
Lmao oxygen in ambulances no doubt and we don't have pag pag
having worked in the oxygen for patients business, let me assure you, there are very very little benefits to oxygen, apart from making you "think" that its helping.
@jimw7916 Oxygen is essential for patients experiencing hypoxia (low blood oxygen levels) due to conditions like heart attacks, strokes, severe asthma, pneumonia, or trauma. Without timely oxygen therapy, organ damage or failure (e.g., brain, heart) can occur within minutes.
@@AZ_Bill the ONLY reason that we age is because of oxygen in the air. When I put someone permanently on oxygen, I come back 3 months later and they have aged 10 or more years!
Don’t think you are grumpy, just a wise Gentleman 👍
No he’s definitely grumpy. As most of us over 65 are 🤷♂️
i absolutely agree with everything you said.
True. I get talked over half way thru my sentence. She can’t recall what I just said when I say sorry, what was I talking about ? 😂 totally disrespectful
Boy you are spot on about that.
@@thejoe4000 I get talked over by many Filipinos in general conversation, I just let them get on with it. I wondered if it was a language barrier think.
Its so true when you mentioned that the filippina is only interested in your wallet🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣. Very hilirious but true!
When I was married to a filipina, our lives were all about her. So I agree with you!. If I say anymore about it, I may get eaten by a Wak Wak. 🤕
They take so many pics. Of self. I feel embarrassed for them.
@blackwoodrichmore4531 please share more so I understand the hell my brother is suffering... he just married a pretty but dumb as brick philpina nurse.....she waiting to force an ultimatum of marriage when he inherited money.
@@blackwoodrichmore4531 the mood swings and "tampo"? As they call it?
@@RustyShakleford1 Yes! Beware the dragon!!! 😐
@@RustyShakleford1 She's gonna drain him, dump him & go to the next guy
You always generalize too much because of your own situation. There are a lot of good Filipinas but avoid red flags like large age gaps, children out of previous relationships, very poor backgrounds, golddiggers... . Use your brain when you look for one.
EVERYONE thinks their Filipina is different. They AINT!
@@jimw7916Men with western women that make poor choices sound exactly the same.
The question should be - ARE THEY INTERESTED IN YOU AND ABOUT YOUR LIFE - and the short answer is no, not the in depth interest that a new lady friend would have back home. It can be a real downer at the beginning when you want to tell her all about your Mum and Dad or your siblings….even about crazy old Uncle Jack(made up). The interest peaks after five minutes of chat leaving you thinking why the hell did I bother.
Does she really care about us is a different question that can seriously turn a relationship on its head. Without that, any relationship is not what you imagined it to be.
I’m sure all of us guys have attempted to talk about our country in some way - only to get a very cold response, preferring to look at their phone or anything but listen to you. So be it - don’t waste your breath unless they directly ask you…..and if that happens you will know that pension day is due - 😅
I they definitely aren't interested
Pension day due😅😅😅 honey how's tour son. Mom. Etc
Most important is not building a house for her😂😂😂😂😂
The average Pi. IQ is 81. Meaning 50% are below that ? 🤔
Scary Stuff , we have so many Nurses in Australia that are Philipino.
@@JMgmkh no way I had no idea thays brutal
@@RustyShakleford1 🤷♂ 81.64 to be exact.
Why are the numbers so different? 😮
Hope everyone here has someone who cares about them. ❤
I’ve said it in numerous comments and even to OFW’s, to never share your bank balance or income. In fact, I advise to lie. Sad, but true. In my experiences, a good Filipina will tell people “no budget” and that her foreigner only gives her a basic allowance. It helps a lot to take the pressure off, but doesn’t make her immune to it. Saying “no” is a tough lesson for both sides and you have to be mentally tough and follow through. Ignore the gas lighting, the tampo, the manipulation and her need to try and save face. It’s not always about her, as much as many Filipinas seem to think it is. Either she accepts it, or not, but being on sound financial ground and prepared for a medical drama etc is your key to survival here.
Good evening from the States, sir John, have a good day. Thank you for all your input.
Thanks, you too!🤗🤔❤️
They need resources. That is their main concern and care .
You just explained why 36 years olds act 13 I assume it was just lack of maturity or education but your information on aggregate I Q answered this question
Yup. You pretty much said it.
She is only interested in How Much Money you Have , and How Much she can get out of you !
Great point thank you
As a grown man, are you really surprised?
Shallow as a rule
I’m getting used to my peace these days. Been almost 2 years now since she died. They’re the same everywhere they go in the world John. Special to me. But your channel actually helps me. She belongs to another man’s wallet now. Jesus hopefully. And has all the rice she wants in heaven hopefully. They do get dinged young … all a little too tight for me but I can say the squeeze was worth the lemon.
My brother married one as his high-school sweetheart she was as westernized philpina and shes so shalow and vapid 3 weeks before our mom died she dragged by stupid brother on vacation because " our grandma died last year and she didnt get her vacation"
Held up a newspaper in my face when i asked her would she be going on vacation if it was your mom dying and not your husbands? To leave all thw responsibility on your sister ?
they want to know if you make enough money to provide well for your future kids. if i was a filipina it would be irresponsible of me to marry a guy who im not even sure if he is prepared to send our future kids to school. they dont want their future kids to grow up poor like they did
@boyscout-p3u They grew up poor because their country is 80 iq and doesn't cooperate like white European people. They come over here and ruin everything we've built and it's all paid for by old money and big business to cut labor costs and create competition among workers.
why make excuses for them? Do they deserve that?
@@jimw7916 you are free to raise your daughter to believe that its totally ok to marry a bum and not care about how much her man makes
Money money money
Wow…. Your 100000% correct. Entitled ! Selfish! and devoid of any empathy. Forget any form of deep conversations . They don’t care about your problems but expect you to care about theirs and their families.
international relationships simply ,
if there is no common ground I guess you can forget it , I used to have a Korean gf 30 ys ago she way more educated way more money but poor english, no french, am German , we could not have deep conversations on any topic we did 50 :50 on our expenses maybe I even paid a bit more but could afford it since most of my life been single, women hate to pay for men , we all know that, you could have found a good mature filipina but you put the wrong horse unfortunately
in the end (and I mean the end), very very few will think that his wife is innocent.
Thailand is quite similar imo.
You are forgetting that they are not native speakers. Could you imagine having in depth conversations in another language. Sensitive people should never marry into another culture. Stay single if you want such deep conversations. Personally I have never really needed it. I am happy with a shallow relationship. She is thin , good looking, is a good mother and obeys me, it is enough and much more than I would get in the west.
Obeys you...really 🤔
That's great, you found yourself a robot.
@@paul8612exactly lol you could adopt if you just wanted kids he legit doesn't want a relationship but the idea of being a father and having kids that don't look like him or connect with them
Obeys you … you sound like a proper Gentleman 🤡
people's respect for other people, has NOTHING to do with language!
cares about the pension
As of April 2013 Filipina's are no longer entitled to a percentage of the UK state pension..
@@PeevyMctweevy which law? Uk or Philipines. I'm British myself. It be interesting to learn
@@PeevyMctweevyit’s true. They need to be a citizen & contributed enough NI credits to have their own. May get a widows pension but that’s only a one off payment of 3500pounds
Why are you telling the truth 😅.. it has nothing to do with money 😅..