You're an ENTP and You Feel Like Sh*t
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 5 ก.พ. 2025
- Entps are said to be very socially competent but despite this many Entps feel lonely, why?
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as a 27m ENTP myself I can def relate to this.
for me a big change was when I stopped caring about what people thought about me and accepted myself and became proud of the weird unique person I am today. but the extreme rationality is noticeable compared to people who aren't. and sometimes it does feel lonely or scary. I recommend also looking at how highly gifted people cope with life. there are lots of similarities since they are most of the time extreme rationalists As well.
being lonely in my opinion is a symptom of the time we live in and finding a way to not feel this way isn't easy but by no means impossible.
I think the most valuable lesson we need to learn as ENTPs is to learn how to transform loneliness into solitude. And caring less about other people's opinion about us is a huge part of that.
Looking at wildly successful people could become a trap though since we are dangerously perfectionistic and might fall into putting unrealistic expectations on ourselves leading us into action paralysis.
I think instead we should look at people like the ISFJ's and INFP's who are completely happy and content with themselves and their lives even though it might seem ordinary, boring and tedious from our point of view.
I think we need to learn how to love ourselves and our lives not -for the extraordinary things we can do and have done in our past- but instead accepting our flawed selves fully for *simply being* and *feeling* life's ordinary moments to their infinate emotional depths, opening up to that deep rest we have been running away from since we stopped being kids.
Thanks Adam. I was hitting some low points today and I decided to watch you again and you helped me figure out why my thinking mind is trapping me again. I really have never heard anyone describe how I think and perceive things better than you, buddy. Not to tell you what to do, even though that’s kinda easy for us, but hopefully you’ll keep doing these videos. Once in a while soon we can figure out how to deal with all the other folks and not totally condemn ourselves in the process . 😅
Awww shucks... Ty very much Dusty ❤ Let me know if there is something you would like me to talk about!
Thank you for the video Adam, i think you should make some more Entp videos it's quite helpful for your fellow entp like myself I can 100% relate to what you're saying.
@@dbridgecfc9494 Awesome! I will 😇
I’ve found you on Reddit and here I’m now walking in the little park under my house listening to what you have to say (btw you have a very calming voice and it makes it easier even for me not native speaker to understand fluently)
I really resonate with what you just said, I think we Entp are people pleaser not like an isfj would do but in a more egoistic way just to get the feeling of being liked.
For example I recently had a love affair with a girl I met on a dating app, I don’t fall in love easly but she was different to my eyes, her way to communicate and express herself was mesmerising to me (she was an Infp btw).
I’ve spent a month pursuing her trying to obtain her attention and interest in me, and in the end I managed to succeed. Until when we decided to meet each other in person and well she found out that she wasn’t feeling a romantic interest in me.
Why I typed all of that, just to say that it’s been two weeks now and even if my emotions have found some sort of peace my brain didn’t, I still get rush of overthinking time to time during the day wondering what I could have done differently in order to make her likes me like I did on phone call and chat during the previous month. 🥲
So yeah fellow entp you’re not alone in this, I’m still mastering my character too, trying to focus more on myself and the present, and accepting me for what I’ve reached so far and who I am now.
Thanks for the video brother, I will definitively join the discord group, I was exactly thinking about it and the second later you mentioned it, I guess entp intuition super power. XD
Thank you, I really appreciate that.
I can relate to your story, very- very much. What I can say is that I'm lucky she didn't love me back. Infp's value authenticity the most and having logical conversations is very draining for them. Entp's being so theoretical and emotionally detached does get on their nerves when they're in a bad mood. Misunderstandings happen all the time. Both type's capacity for transformation does allow for very deep friendships to form, but a romantic relationship seems like a very high maintenance task. Fi being our most unconcious function means that in Jungian terms, our "Anima" would be an Ixfp archetype- so it's very understandable we fall for them so easily. When I realized this I started modelling my life after this woman and her way of living and have seen great success in my personal betterment.
Didn't think about a discord group! I like the idea, I would need a moderator though because I'm terrible with engaging in group chats. Feel free to contact me on discord if you want @adampratar
@@AdamPratar I will for sure! Thank you for sharing your experience apparently it’s the entp burden to fall in love with infp.
Your logical explanation was exactly what I was looking for I will definitively gobble up more information about this specific topic.
As you suggested in the video talking with a friends can be helpful but my “greenish” friends couldn’t help with that sadly XD
Maybe we shouldn't hide who we really are because we love them
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find an INxJ and you'll never have to change who you are
@@acelnut INTJs, I like them. They can do the math, and they are willing to work towards a cooperative relationship that is mutually beneficial. However, INFJs cannot it. They hold back on things they normally can't say, so they try to get us to say them instead. Furthermore, if they have goals and dreams, they unintentionally sacrifice us.
The high skillcap but OP character once you master it was an amazing analogy, appreciate the humor. Also less applicable right now but I had flashbacks watching the second part of the video to being younger and trying to rationally justify my self worth “what do you mean I just have value as a person, where?? that makes no sense? How can something come from nothing?”
It's important to cultivate valuable friendships with people who are intuitive and not easily offended and make you feel emotionallyat ease.. Entps find joy through arguments. And it's important to find people you can cathartically and platonically argue with without and express your more controversial opinions without people holding it against you.
Hi! It's greet to see ur next video . I wonder if u could do some kind of tier list where u could share your opinion about each of the 16 types and how you get along with them as an ENTP. That video would be interesting and might get much views . I have noticed that such videos are prefered by algorythms
@@cypekcypek338 Alright! I'll give it a shot, it sounds fun!
@@AdamPratarhow did you learn to know yourself?? it’s really hard as a entp I don’t even know what I like and what drives me .
@@dbridgecfc9494 A life with lots and lots of trauma. What drives you is social validation and curiousity. Follow your feelings where they lead you. If you don't feel driven right now, accept it- it means it's time to relax, meditate and go into our bodily feelings and let them communicate to us. Calling someone like your best friend or a family member can be a great bonus if you have that. Be kind to yourself first and then be amitious later when it comes to you, like a gift from the cosmos 🌌
@@dbridgecfc9494 I can relate to what Adam says about trauma , validation , curiosity. The feeling part I do best through touch (oxytocin) and moving (dopamine and endorphins) or I could meditate or do yoga.. but smoking weed and going for a walk in the forest is way easier (serotonin) , I mostly am not aware of what I feel, especially in a group setting. I'm new to personality types but entp seems to resonate with me, I have only tested myself once though. I'm curious to know what other entps think of my comment and if it resonates with you??????????. If I'm connecting with a woman, working out or tripping in nature on cannabis or shrooms, I suddenly feel whole. But sober with my thoughts, I cant stop thinking....... and my self and everything else seems like a mystery. I don't think that you can know your self, understanding or as you put it ''to know yourself'' is not something you can grasp since you and everything and everyone else are changing all the time. We can categorize and speculate but in the end only god knows... xD jk, we are all just part of this changing universe and if god knows, he is not good, he is just the creator, but if he is good, than he is subjective and is not good for everything or everyone. Yes, I'm rambling, but i think you know what i mean. Create a system for connection, working out and meditation and you will be less confused about your human experience and you will also feel less lonely. If you do you will probably create a path to become one of the better subtypes preferably you can find some kind of ''harmony'' and become the harmonizing subtype by including all aspects into your life. Maybe the entp experience is rare but we are not alone even though it might seem and feel like it. Truth, understanding and wisdom is my goal, but i understand that it can not be reached. What is a life? If not a story? And who can tell it but you once it is over? Good or bad, Im not in a hurry to die, death will take us all eventually and our experience might suck at times and be meaningless in the end. But what else is there to do but to make the best of it? If you read this, thank you and I would like to hear your thoughts, glhf.
Ps, alcohol makes me stuck in thinking and intuition mode which makes me an asshole by my conviction of truth, and lack of care of what others think of me. Some people does not want to hear it, seems weird right? Im young and I feel like I am switching between the subtypes depending on circumstances. If you drink, understand that you will probably become more of the dominant subtype by the lack of care alcohol poisoning creates, if you are like me and than allot of people might categorize you as an asshole or a dickhead. Stay humble and take care of your relations and your self. Wubbalubba dub dub...
I'll try to listen to my emotions and do what I feel like doing and overshare in the comment section lol (OK this might be a complete misunderstanding of the message but anyway)
Another ENTP in their 20s here!! I'm able to talk to anyone but sometimes feel like I'm missing something that everyone else is aware of. And this video made me notice that part of it might be attention to one's own emotions... We're Fi blind after all.
I came to notice how much I actually care about other people's opinions through this year. Attempting to grow my art account was the thing that made me pay attention to this, actually. Makes you think... Have I been trying to impress another algorhytm which is more on the organic side through all my life? (Not usually, but I was highly aware of it)
I've been realizing some emotions and wants but I don't know what to do with them. People ended up reacting negatively, I acted in ways that didn't reflect my intentions... It hurt to be shut down when I tried to communicate things that bothered me, which wasn't cool since it isn't a very easy thing to do.
The real me? That feels like a reductive concept at first... But I won't get philosophical here to make my comment stay coherent. The things you said about being nice, I've been able to live up to those standarts in recent years so I end up feeling disrespected when someone I care about doesn't. I'm not expecting perfection, but I think that a lot people just don't care much about others? Maybe they just don't show their real feelings out of fear, I'm not a mind reader.
Not necessarily an ENTP thing, but when you realize what you want from your many types of relationships with other people, it's very hard to find people who align with your values. Does anyone have any advice about this?
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I see what you mean but don't fall into this trap of belittling yourself like many Introverted Thinking users tend to do. That's a logical reasoning you have but even then, I respectfully think that you're wrong on saying the Ti-Fe axis controlling their emotions live backward when it comes to living a happy life ultimately. You forget the Extroverted Feeling aspect in this equation to see the full picture. If everyone lives without controlling their emotions, they'll step on everything and everyone else so nobody will live a happy life paradoxically. Restraining our own emotions is what creates harmony and allows to everyone to still live a happy life to some degree. That's what the Fi-Te axis doesn't realize most of the time. They're not always consciously selfish but their behavior can be selfish and destructive in application if they don't find balance. This is why the cruel people and hearless businessmen exist in this world. They're not purely evil but just think about their own happiness and nothing else. That's simply what makes a bad guy really. Maybe people from the Fe-Ti axis will be less happy yes, but at least they can realistically create a respectful environement where anyone can be happy and safe from the emotions of others, including themselves. The people from the Ti-Fe axis, they're the ones who can effectively achieve world peace and who realistically want to live a happy life. That's why when it comes to happiness, the Extroverted Feeling way is the way for survival. Introverted Thinkers instinctively work this way because they're profoundly logical in their mind.
Well said! :0
I notice whenever there are entp videos, there will always be INFJ watching. 🤔 Interesting.
Wdym where are those people?
If you are ENTP for real, you know someone will watching. Just be excited. As ne dominant, you can do many things. If you like mbti, try find more topics related to this. There is so many possibilities.
As infp, I always reading what entp write online. It's randomness, weirdness, logical, long pages. That's interesting. Same with enfp. But mostly entp will say it based on facts and logic.
Gather ideas, find interesting topic, seeking other channel. Maybe you can see other mbti creator talking. Just look at that infj guy. You know as Ne dominant, I believe in ENTP. Prove it that you are ENTP. So many break and inhaling. You just starting so it's fine. Maybe you need a friend for this channel like intj or intp. Planning and make interesting videos. There is so many things ENTP can do. Enlightenment is what I need from ne dom.
Well I have a friend who's ENTP and I just want to know them in that aspect to have a better grasp of who they are, it helps solidify the impressions I make, it's then easier to think about and break down logically.
I'm 27 intp and i feel like shit, hi
Hi there!
ENTp? Sure? 🤔
100% :)
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