@@MsMedford While he was wrong in his phrase.... I can tell you... for men it is not worth it to step up for another persons child... I'll tell you why... Women will never know the feeling of having a child ripped away from you... you give birth you know that child is yours... for men it is not the same..anyone woman can sleep with a guy and get pregnant and then claim another guy is the father... you do not know how much emotional damage that causes a man... to bond with a child only to have that child ripped away. Take a knife and cut your heart out.. and that might be a fraction of the pain. I stepped up for two...I raised them from babies to adults...Only tobe hurt once they were teens by have the fact that I was not thier father by blood thrown in my face every single time they misbehaved...only to have them sneak behind my back trying to find thier biological fathers... only to be betrayed time and again after being the only father figure in thier lives for 18 years.all the while the mother did the typical mother thing... tried to be thier bestie... and leave me to be the bad guy every single time. Now that they are 21 and out on thier own... I see only one of them about once a week... he has never said a sorry or anything but still expects me to step up, and the mother refuses to acknowledge the wrongs she has done for his and mine's relationship. I still love him even after all he has put me thru and I love my wife after all she has done...that is what a real man is...not some pretend to be daddy like you want to praise.. so get your values checked...cause a real man steps up even when it will hurt him the most. Unlike women.. who will lay with deadbeats and then trick a good man because they are selfish and greedy and don't really care... which I suspect you are that type of woman.
She stop being another mans child when that man stepped up it became there child when that other man no longer decided to be a man and take care of his responsibilities that little girl lost a dead beat and gained a full fledge man as a daddy and a father
@@Shocke89 I'm sorry that you're so hurt. It's just a terrible situation. I hope you find some peace. Ppl don't realize the hurt they put out, and most likely don't know how the are behaving.
But his bitch gave that pussy up to a “worthless man” raw no protection now he gotta take care of that little bastard. He’ll be fuckin that little girl before long #respectfully
I'm 63 and this brought tears to my eyes. Love conquers all. Tired of seeing hate all the time. Show things like this. Much respect for that gentleman. Seeing smiles on both of them definitely made my day. God Bless your whole family 💕🙏🏾
I totally agree with you. Too much bad news and hatred sometimes overwhelm me but this type of videos tell me there's so many good, decent and amazing people out there.
There is no such thing as step dad. You took care of your family. You are no step. You are DAD. And I feel happy for you and your awesome family.... I am not religious but God bless you and your wonderful family..
Im a black man and i love this white man for stepping up. so happy for her she looks so happy and that's what it all about making kids happy and giving them a better life then u had
@@kramerfamily9040 That was so beautiful and you have an amazing little lady there. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful post. You remind us all that family is what you make it and your family is perfect. Happy Holidays! ❣️🎄🎁
@@kramerfamily9040 you’re a slimy little tramp I’m sure you have great sex and can suck a grapefruit through a water hose that’s how you tricked that wigger into adopting that little girl of yours. Don’t be surprised when you come home and their both trying to pull their pants up real fast ❤️
I’m sorry 😢 I too was abandoned but at 5 years old and I remember it. it sucks and I wondered how my life would have been like, but he was worthless. So I was better off without him!! All I wanted was a Good Father / Dad for my kids and I got that!!!!
Wow, I never expected anyone to reply or acknowledge my little comment, I despised what I thought was overly strict enforcement of the new rules I had to learn and adapt too with my twin brother and my new environment, after I grew up and had my first child, I had Chiari Malformation Decompression surgery and I realized after a few years what our gaurdians had done, they did everything they could to make sure our lives would be drastically different than what we experienced, I broke down and tears and deeply apologized for not being a better person, i am who I am today, a better man, than I would have been, left in the situation my twin and 3 sisters all being adopted out were in. My most favorite person in the world, my Granny, tried to take care of us but unbenoumced to anyone, she was eatup with cancer and could no longer do it, fortunately our Aunts and Uncles (whom had no children of their own) stepped up to the plate to take us in and we are all better off for it. I'm blessed and fortunate, even though life is extremely difficult at time Living With Chiari, I look forward to every day and they to be the best person I can be to all people.
That's the medias agenda, to convince us all that we hate each other because of skin color. This just shows us that real life has a different message and hate isn't a part of it. The thing that makes me happiest about this video is that she will grow up without racism in her heart.
I can relate to him I have a daughter who is now 18 I been her dad since she was 13 months old. In 2019 inwas diagnosis with lung cancer, and I thought I might break the promise I made to her and her sister and brothers by leaving her them if I died. Thank the lord and the doctors saved me and I made it to see her graduate and start college it was one of the best days ever. This man is strong it takes a lot to do this, but it is so so worth it. Kids need a father and a mother. Thank you for sharing.
Awww, and who wouldn’t love to adopt that precious little girl? There’s something about her… she literally seems to exude sweetness and goodness. I’m so happy for her and her permanent family! 🥰😍❤
@@ServantOfTheSouth it’s not a dumb question. Color isn’t relevant to this video. They’re different colors, anyone with adequate eyes can see that. Please explain why it’s necessary to bring up societal issues in the comment section of a wonderful story?
Brought tears to my eyes. That's a real man right there. And to his daughter, that was beautifully written. You're a very articulate and intelligent young lady. I wish you all happiness.
Awesome!!! I'm black/ Puerto Rican and my wife is Mexican American we couldn't get couldn't have a baby so we adopted a baby girl from Detroit, and she is now five years old, what a blessing she is to us and me at God bless you guys.
I raised 2 boys that were not mine for 10 years I lost one when he was only 19 but his brother still comes and visits me all the time and calls me dad to this day he was 5 and now he’s 37. I have 2 boys of my own and now I have a beautiful stepdaughter that was only 4 and now she’s 14 and I’ve been the only dad she’s had I love her just like all my other kids. And just today she told me I was the best dad ever ❤
I'm adopted and so is my son. This is so beautiful. Any young girl who loves you this much brother......it shows what type of Man You are. Amazing and it made my day today. God Bless you and your family.
This is how powerful a dad in a home is, it transcends all barriers and makes a family complete even tho they’re not his kids, strong men do these things! Respect
@@tonyghee0124 He seems like a good father. His step daughter needed to complete her childhood by having this man as her father. It seems that the mother of the girls is also a very good woman. In this loving family, neither the man nor his wife will think about finances because they are focused on loving one another. The laws in this country is what seprated the man and woman and made everything translate into dollars and rights and responsibilities. That's what happens when government takes over and puts the church on the edge of society. Recipe for disaster
My next-door neighbor married a girl and had a baby with her. She had a three year old daughter, who she pressured him to adopt. Less than two years later, she was cheating on him and divorced him. He paid child support on that girl till she was 18 even he calls himself a chump. He said he loves the girl, but if he knew then what he knows now he would’ve never adopted her.
We just keep brushing things like this under the rug. The mother is the blame for having a baby by a guy who didn’t care about her but she kept giving up that swamp box to try to get him to like her. Let’s us some logic here Sally with your super cuts do
As a man who was raised by my stepfather, who i called dad,, this brought tears to my eyes. My dad came into my life when I was 2. He passed away recently at the age of 78. I was blessed to have him in my life for 48 years. Kudos bro for loving this child like your own.
The kid is so called black. The dad& majority of family is so called white ! The cruelty this kids gonna face by these so called white devil's( edomites/esau's descendants/ Gen25:25)is beyond horrific ! Double cursed is this child , and you crooked devil's know it ! The Lord's gonna make you wicked so called white devil's pay(big time!) for your oppression,deception & beguilement.............you crooked btchs
@@abtribeofjudah5794 you apparently accept the OT but reject the NT, especially the apostle Paul’s letters where you would find how wrong you are. I am sorry for you & for all the children who you believe God would rather have cast off than given the loving care of an adoptive parent.
@@acricucci9760 100%Truth 1611kjv all-day aireeday. This devil esau is the wicked(Mal1:4) of the scriptures , old & new. "For it is written, Jacob have I loved but esau I have hated"(Rom9:13)
@A҉M҉E҉R҉I҉C҉A҉N҉ L҉I҉O҉N҉I was thinking the same thing. It takes time for any relationship. I remember meeting my dad and thinking why is he here but it takes a lot of a person to raise kids that are not his own. He taught me to drive, to believe in myself, and etc. We both have 2 dads that loves us dearly.
@A҉M҉E҉R҉I҉C҉A҉N҉ L҉I҉O҉N҉ awwww. Its amazing that she didn't stop after the relationship. Love is so good especially when a person really means it. Much love to you and your family.
I adopted my oldest daughter when she was 6. One of the best feelings of my life ❤️ Family are those who are present in each other’s lives on a daily basis
I’m 6’2” tall, weigh 230 pounds, I’ve been a soldier, police officer and a firefighter/EMT... not much can rattle my psyche. I’ve seen a lot of bad in this world and nothing warms my heart, and soul, more than these types of videos. I become a weeping slobbering blob of goo when I see this kind of love. Children deserve unconditional love all the time.
That was an amazing story. My stepdad came into my life when I was 7. And I'm 36 and he is still there being grandpa to my kids. There are men like this everywhere in the world. Good story. Should be more emphasis on men who step up.
Oh my GOD thank you!!! That baby has grown up a little more now😍I’m a black lady, first time seeing this video and it’s absolutely AMAZING, she a beautiful girl!!! My children-now grown didn’t even have this from their own biological dad. Just a good Man!! Please tell him he is unique and the world is grateful to have a soul like him! God bless you and your family in an abundance!!! I’m crying happy tears-this is just amazing and has made my day!!
I really needed this -- after three months of a worldwide pandemic, presidential politics, racial killings, protests, riots and ignorance, you start to wonder if we're all just being swallowed up in a storm of hate, racial animosity, greed and fear. Then you watch something like this and you think, well, maybe all hope isn't lost.
Beautiful!! So happy for your family. Reminds me of the best definition of a stepfather that I've heard - a man who has stepped up and stepped in. All the best! ❤
@@user-qp5xj8qi4x I'm Guessing he's not in her life! If he was I doubt she'd ask this man to be her dad! But if he's been there why not ask him to be her dad! Why because he's white he can't be her dad! GTFO
Thats just beautiful, 54 yr old Dad and Step dad in tears here! 😭 Lovin the feels, its moments like this that give you hope for this world, and that it wont be populated solely by A-holes one day! Spread the love 💖💖
@KyleMTC22 maybe the biological father doesn't know because the mother is a _itch or maybe the biological father died again. we don't have all the information on what happened to the biological father
@@foreversavedEzequiel it’s pretty obvious what we’re talking about is fathers who leave by choice. Passing away is an outlier, that’s not what we’re talking about
I never knew a dad, but I still feel this is such a great story. Kudos to that father for not just stepping up, but doing a great job! Her testimony is proof that he succeeded.
A father of the fatherless and a judge for the widows, Is God in His holy habitation. Psalms 68:5 I don’t mean to come across disrespectful but if you don’t know Jesus, He can bring you into the family & His Father will be yours too ❤
Thay was beautiful... This is what a real man and father is.... Not any macho BS.... Its about love and support... I wish you and your family every happiness.....thank you for sharing
I’ve got 3 plus our 2, which are the last of the set Total of 5 4 girls , 1 boy Raised my wife’s which were at the time 18 months (son) 4 and a half going on 5 and 8 Now I’ve got 23 oldest daughter 20 second daughter Son 18 2 youngest 12 and 13, wouldn’t change a thing Much Respect ✊
Congratulations! This is really awesome, and I can totally relate to this moment. I adopted my stepdaughter when she was a little over a year old. My daughter will be 30 years old in April. She has turned into an amazing young lady, and we have a great relationship to this day. My daughter also made me a grandfather 16 months ago, and I am loving every minute of it. This video just goes to show that there still are some great people in this world. 🙂
It's still some real Men out there this is beautiful got me crying Congratulations sweetie He seems like hes the perfect Father for you God bless you both🙏😍❤❤🙏
When a child asks that its because he earned it, kids know especially her the way she expressed herself on that not, congratulations, n God bless you all
I feel you I got a white one I raised!!! Ppl look at me crazy AF when he calls me dad. Plus he's taller than me and he's only a freshmen lol. His dad signed over his rights tho, I love to see ppl come together like this!!!!! Just a good ole boi doing real man shit
That's awesome! You're a great man for stepping up when his father stepped down. I'm the mother and your comment means so much to me. I was just about to delete the video cause I'm tired of all the name calling and absolute nastiness that I'm getting from black "men".
@@kramerfamily9040 nah let em hate!!!!! This is beautiful if it reaches out to one person tha job was done. Yall reached many!!! Thank yall and my Lord bless yall family
That was amazing. From man to man you are a great man I wish their was more in the world just like you. Y'all have inspired me to and gave me a better look at life. I just wanna thank y'all for sharing this with the world. May God bless your whole family
I had a rough day. Busy at work, nothing but bad news on the television, and wasn't feeling so great. Watched this video and it was magic. I teared up, let out some emotional vent lol, got instantly hopeful and relieved to see genuine love and goodness. Congratulations to this amazing dad and amazing young lady, blessed family for sure! Happy Father's Day to this real man who stepped up!
AMEN, this is absolutely precious & I’m finding it difficult to hold back the tears. May God bless you, your daughter & family all the days of your lives. Thank you for the blessing of being able to see this special moment in your life.
This would be the most priceless and greatest gift one man could ever receive 🙌!!!!!! Gave me tears of joy 😊 LOVE is REAL and makes no difference of the color of one's skin love breaks down all barriers!!!! Thank you for your story 🙏 ❤️ 🙏
I will say this as a blk dude I started crying hearing this because it was very touching. Although my pops is my bestfriend, and we have the most wonderful relationship and still till this day we can fuss each other out and crack on one another and have a good ole time. I can't say that for my moms but most of her friends claim me as their child. And they say they don't understand why she has hate in her heart towards me nor love me as much as she should. Although it does hurt I don't get support from my moms real talk I don't really have a mother figure in my life all we are is enemies towards each other. I maybe 37 but our relationship now and forever will be down the drain. Yea moms abusive to me but it's ok I have God in me. I've always called my pops my moms because it's how much I love him and he support me for being a college student and she doesn't. I really applaud this this man right here because it's a dead beat fathers in this world just as mothers.
All you need is the people who are gonna be there for you bro. Keep doing your best and show your mom that you're worth it and that you got this shit all on your own. Idk you man, but I'm proud of you. I may be only 28, but I definitely am proud of what's you've accomplished man. Have a blessed day
I wish my dad was my best friend. I still have both of my parents but they were too busy handeling their own bussiness and left me to make my own choises i did things way back i'm not proud of but getting myself out the pit made me a better stronger man now i have a daughter and i will always be there for her cause i know how dark and cruel life can be without guidence or someone showing you rhe right way. I also had a tough time with my mom. She hated me i don't know why she always made me think i did something wrong or that i'm crazy called me names like i'm the devil or crazy she also told me one day she wished she was not my mother. I grew up believing that but sadly she was the only one making me believe that about my self everyone else liked me till now i still can't figgure out why she hates me and my dad was never the man i could talk to never had my back always yelled i came from a rough family never went a day by without them fighting or throwing plates and breqking stuff
I'm sooo sorry you had to go through that. No one should have to go through life without a parent. I'm glad that you had your Dad there for you and congrats on school!! Huge accomplishment
@@ibj3 I'm proud of you for getting yourself out of whatever you were into! Ppl don't really understand how hard it is to have be there for yourself and lift yourself up and pull yourself out! Your daughter growing up knowing that you were always there for her will be priceless.. Keep it up!
Update: Our adoption has been finalized and my husband is now LEGALLY out daughter's FATHER!!
Congratulations ❤ All the happiness
@@lastofusdead thank you!!
Awesome!
Fantastic!! So happy for you all!
It's time for another celebration party.
It takes a REAL man to raise another mans child as his own. Congrats sweetheart.
If he adopts her, she's not another man's child. She's his.
@@MsMedford While he was wrong in his phrase.... I can tell you... for men it is not worth it to step up for another persons child... I'll tell you why... Women will never know the feeling of having a child ripped away from you... you give birth you know that child is yours... for men it is not the same..anyone woman can sleep with a guy and get pregnant and then claim another guy is the father... you do not know how much emotional damage that causes a man... to bond with a child only to have that child ripped away. Take a knife and cut your heart out.. and that might be a fraction of the pain.
I stepped up for two...I raised them from babies to adults...Only tobe hurt once they were teens by have the fact that I was not thier father by blood thrown in my face every single time they misbehaved...only to have them sneak behind my back trying to find thier biological fathers... only to be betrayed time and again after being the only father figure in thier lives for 18 years.all the while the mother did the typical mother thing... tried to be thier bestie... and leave me to be the bad guy every single time. Now that they are 21 and out on thier own... I see only one of them about once a week... he has never said a sorry or anything but still expects me to step up, and the mother refuses to acknowledge the wrongs she has done for his and mine's relationship. I still love him even after all he has put me thru and I love my wife after all she has done...that is what a real man is...not some pretend to be daddy like you want to praise.. so get your values checked...cause a real man steps up even when it will hurt him the most. Unlike women.. who will lay with deadbeats and then trick a good man because they are selfish and greedy and don't really care... which I suspect you are that type of woman.
She stop being another mans child when that man stepped up it became there child when that other man no longer decided to be a man and take care of his responsibilities that little girl lost a dead beat and gained a full fledge man as a daddy and a father
@@Shocke89 I'm sorry that you're so hurt. It's just a terrible situation. I hope you find some peace. Ppl don't realize the hurt they put out, and most likely don't know how the are behaving.
True, I totally agree with you
He's not a Stepdad, he's the Dad that step up....
Wow.. I love that ❤
Facts
That's great 😊
mike black ... well said!!!❣️
Damm great Quote
He’s not just a dad, he’s a the proper father figure all children deserve
YESSS💝
But his bitch gave that pussy up to a “worthless man” raw no protection now he gotta take care of that little bastard. He’ll be fuckin that little girl before long #respectfully
Daddy?
I'm 63 and this brought tears to my eyes. Love conquers all. Tired of seeing hate all the time. Show things like this. Much respect for that gentleman. Seeing smiles on both of them definitely made my day. God Bless your whole family 💕🙏🏾
Amen Kitty
Man I'm with you on that one. 62yrs old and crying like a child after watching that.
I am too 😢❤
Again. Thank you for saying that.😢❤
I totally agree with you. Too much bad news and hatred sometimes overwhelm me but this type of videos tell me there's so many good, decent and amazing people out there.
_"You've attended all my performances in school"_ the kid said. Real stuff beyond just words
❤
That meant so much to me to see my Dad in the audience as a a kid.
@@shellybee9322 ❤❤
Vincent Vermeer you just fly in from stupid town🤔🤔🤔🤔
@Vincent Vermeer I can't believe someone commented that, you're a reason why some people think we're all racist.🙄
So good to see love over hate in today's America.
@Electric It surely is. ❤😊
AMEN SIS OR BRO
So true 💖 love will win
True
I concur!🤗
As a stepfather, I can’t watch videos like this and NOT sob like a baby. Your family makes me so happy and reminds me to be so thankful for mine.
There is no such thing as step dad. You took care of your family. You are no step. You are DAD. And I feel happy for you and your awesome family....
I am not religious but God bless you and your wonderful family..
@@kaycey7361 Your comment made my day. Thank you. ❤️
I know the feeling. I raised my wifes grandson. He is like blood to me.
You’re a bitch let’s call a spade a spade brother
Step dad is just another way of saying you just holding a spot lol
Beautiful family. He is your dad don't doubt it for a second!
Im a black man and i love this white man for stepping up. so happy for her she looks so happy and that's what it all about making kids happy and giving them a better life then u had
Thank you so much!!
I'm with you Frank White, dudes a GREAT DAD, much love and happiness to yall
@ Frank White, thank u well said
I’m a step dad and this is making me proud and a little emotional lol
Thats real love right there! Taking on the responsibility of someone else's child!!!💯👍
That man is a good father with a loving family. God bless them.
One of the most beautiful things about this world is love doesn't discriminate it just loves! Well done father and daughter!
She wrote all that. That's a strong loving letter. Step dad is the real deal. Big up to him for showing unconditional love to his now daughter.
She wrote the 1st half the last part was a poem we found
@@kramerfamily9040 beautiful poem still! She did a real good job expression how she feels about her dad.
I said the same thing while he was reading. She's very articulate
@@kramerfamily9040 That was so beautiful and you have an amazing little lady there. Thank you for sharing such a beautiful post. You remind us all that family is what you make it and your family is perfect. Happy Holidays! ❣️🎄🎁
@@fallbackbee9170 thank you so much! Happy holidays
Watching her rocking back against the wall with anticipation. That's a girl who's found her dad.
❤❤
So damn beautiful god bless them all
@@kramerfamily9040 you’re a slimy little tramp I’m sure you have great sex and can suck a grapefruit through a water hose that’s how you tricked that wigger into adopting that little girl of yours. Don’t be surprised when you come home and their both trying to pull their pants up real fast ❤️
What a sweet, intelligent and appreciative daughter. Too wholesome.
He was ALREADY being a great dad to her. The nite waa very touching and demonstrated hiw she felt about him. This is PRICELESS!
A child knows when someone is genuine. She was proud while he was reading. Kudos to this dad that stepped in👏😍
Yes!! Thank you!
@Mika Mac So true. He's an awesome dad. One can see that by that sweet child's genuine love towards him. ❤😊
@Zekzek Zek how you know that she looks like a 11 or 10 year old obviously she knows something to write him such a genuine letter.stop hatin
Tracipppppplll
Kpll
@Zekzek Zek exactly know you are silent.Pay attention before you comment.
This is the real America and what this country built on.
💯
Realest statement I’ve heard all year
It’s not but it’s definitely what it should be!
Not factual, but carry on
Terrance Williams u first random comment guy!
Now that is a dad!!!! That young lady poured out how she felt from the bottom of her heart ❤️.
No it isn’t her pops is a long dick bother out here knocking lonely women down
As someone who was adopted at 9 years old, this melted my heart
I’m sorry 😢
I too was abandoned but at 5 years old and I remember it. it sucks and I wondered how my life would have been like, but he was worthless. So I was better off without him!! All I wanted was a Good Father / Dad for my kids and I got that!!!!
God bless you ❤️🙏🏽
Wow, I never expected anyone to reply or acknowledge my little comment, I despised what I thought was overly strict enforcement of the new rules I had to learn and adapt too with my twin brother and my new environment, after I grew up and had my first child, I had Chiari Malformation Decompression surgery and I realized after a few years what our gaurdians had done, they did everything they could to make sure our lives would be drastically different than what we experienced, I broke down and tears and deeply apologized for not being a better person, i am who I am today, a better man, than I would have been, left in the situation my twin and 3 sisters all being adopted out were in. My most favorite person in the world, my Granny, tried to take care of us but unbenoumced to anyone, she was eatup with cancer and could no longer do it, fortunately our Aunts and Uncles (whom had no children of their own) stepped up to the plate to take us in and we are all better off for it.
I'm blessed and fortunate, even though life is extremely difficult at time Living With Chiari, I look forward to every day and they to be the best person I can be to all people.
@Kristie Lael The person that brought you into the world is worthless?
@@dudewoods1885 pretty much. All he did was give me life! So he didn’t have much of a job. That was EASY for him. He had the FUN part.
I could feel her love and gratitude towards him. What a wonderful little girl.
Wonderful lil girl and ONE GREAT FATHER/MAN🙌🙌🙌🙌🙌
@@beard7172 absolutely
Thanks!!
What a great man as well
I just don’t understand why we ALL can not live like this as intended . This is very comforting and refreshing,instead of spreading hate.
L Cam I believe you .
Bcus no people dont no Jesus
I agree. (OUT OF THE MOUTH OF BABES)!!!!!! THEY HAVE MORE SENSE THAN ALOT OF GROWN PEOPLE.!!!!!!!!!
L Cam if I see that nigga I’m gonna slap the shit out of him 🙁
That's the medias agenda, to convince us all that we hate each other because of skin color. This just shows us that real life has a different message and hate isn't a part of it.
The thing that makes me happiest about this video is that she will grow up without racism in her heart.
I can relate to him I have a daughter who is now 18 I been her dad since she was 13 months old. In 2019 inwas diagnosis with lung cancer, and I thought I might break the promise I made to her and her sister and brothers by leaving her them if I died. Thank the lord and the doctors saved me and I made it to see her graduate and start college it was one of the best days ever. This man is strong it takes a lot to do this, but it is so so worth it. Kids need a father and a mother. Thank you for sharing.
That's awesome, May Almighty Bless you all with good health and good memories with your family.
Awww, and who wouldn’t love to adopt that precious little girl? There’s something about her… she literally seems to exude sweetness and goodness. I’m so happy for her and her permanent family! 🥰😍❤
My step father raised me since I was 5. I am 39 now. I love him with all my heart. RIP DAD
Same here. I lost him in 2020. Still trying to get through it all.
You are so lucky ,my father never care for me. And I never had a Step Dad .
Best wishes ❤
Mines too!
Lol
😔
Black or white doesnt even matter
The daughter needs a father and
Hes there to be with her
If it doesn't matter why bring it up?
Why bring race up it's just a word that people always cry over. Stop talking of race
@@thundinarora7131 you're right read my comment what I said is a lot of people say white and black all I see is a beautiful family
it doesnt matter yet..................................................................................................
u brought it up
aren't we all fking homo sapiens at the end of the day!!?
Damnit!
She really put him on the spot, how could he not say no with all those people there lol
He looks so happy to have been asked that. Good luck dad, you are the man.
Color don’t matter. Salute to the family. This is beautiful. Congratulations. He’s a man that stepped up. Made me tear up.
Well why even mention color if it doesn’t matter?
@@noneyabizness because this country and world consist of people that view color as a difference. Dumb question.
So why bring it up? The people in this video are different heights too. Nobody mentioned it because it doesn't matter. Why mention color??
@@ServantOfTheSouth it’s not a dumb question. Color isn’t relevant to this video. They’re different colors, anyone with adequate eyes can see that. Please explain why it’s necessary to bring up societal issues in the comment section of a wonderful story?
Brought tears to my eyes. That's a real man right there. And to his daughter, that was beautifully written. You're a very articulate and intelligent young lady. I wish you all happiness.
@Van DAMAGE i can tell by your previous comments you're a bitter black man with no Dad.
Awesome!!! I'm black/ Puerto Rican and my wife is Mexican American we couldn't get couldn't have a baby so we adopted a baby girl from Detroit, and she is now five years old, what a blessing she is to us and me at God bless you guys.
Yes, I cried!! What a beautiful letter, and a beautiful child!
I raised 2 boys that were not mine for 10 years I lost one when he was only 19 but his brother still comes and visits me all the time and calls me dad to this day he was 5 and now he’s 37. I have 2 boys of my own and now I have a beautiful stepdaughter that was only 4 and now she’s 14 and I’ve been the only dad she’s had I love her just like all my other kids. And just today she told me I was the best dad ever ❤
That's what real men are made of! Thank you for being there for them. ❤
You're a real one. May all that love you give keep coming back to you manyfold.
May God bless you and I’m sorry for the loss of your other son
I'm adopted and so is my son. This is so beautiful. Any young girl who loves you this much brother......it shows what type of Man You are. Amazing and it made my day today. God Bless you and your family.
Very moving, nice to see that guy stepping up to the mark and making that little girl so happy. 😇
That’s what a real man does. Very heartwarming moment and congratulations!!!!
This is how powerful a dad in a home is, it transcends all barriers and makes a family complete even tho they’re not his kids, strong men do these things! Respect
Strong men don't take of another man's child then be dumb enough to adopt that child for the woman's financial gain
@@tonyghee0124 Weak men look at every situation and treat it the same way.
@@strangelet4588 you make no sense just look at the marriage, child support climate for men
@@tonyghee0124 Ok, so for closure, you feel strength in your willingness to rubber stamp conclusions onto situations.
@@tonyghee0124 He seems like a good father. His step daughter needed to complete her childhood by having this man as her father. It seems that the mother of the girls is also a very good woman. In this loving family, neither the man nor his wife will think about finances because they are focused on loving one another. The laws in this country is what seprated the man and woman and made everything translate into dollars and rights and responsibilities. That's what happens when government takes over and puts the church on the edge of society. Recipe for disaster
He is not a step dad he is a real dad a man that's loved by his family this man is a great role model to his family to his friends to everybody
This guy is not a " good" role model for this so called black girl . She's black........he's not! Nothing but deception & trickery = keep it real
Agree 💯
My next-door neighbor married a girl and had a baby with her. She had a three year old daughter, who she pressured him to adopt. Less than two years later, she was cheating on him and divorced him. He paid child support on that girl till she was 18 even he calls himself a chump. He said he loves the girl, but if he knew then what he knows now he would’ve never adopted her.
How sweet! It takes a real man to be a dad especially with no conditions. Way to go baby girl! ❤❤🎉🎉
We just keep brushing things like this under the rug. The mother is the blame for having a baby by a guy who didn’t care about her but she kept giving up that swamp box to try to get him to like her. Let’s us some logic here Sally with your super cuts do
This is beautiful. He is her father. Her love for him,his love for her is exactly like the love I have for my son.
Love has no color, race, religion or a specific gender
If you love You know God
Amen
You said it all the most important
Facts🙌🏾💯
Amen
Same God, who allows so much shit to happen day in day out....Time to realise the whole God thing is bullshit ffs!
As a man who was raised by my stepfather, who i called dad,, this brought tears to my eyes. My dad came into my life when I was 2. He passed away recently at the age of 78. I was blessed to have him in my life for 48 years. Kudos bro for loving this child like your own.
The kid is so called black. The dad& majority of family is so called white ! The cruelty this kids gonna face by these so called white devil's( edomites/esau's descendants/ Gen25:25)is beyond horrific ! Double cursed is this child , and you crooked devil's know it ! The Lord's gonna make you wicked so called white devil's pay(big time!) for your oppression,deception & beguilement.............you crooked btchs
Beautiful. Their love and devotion is a GOD thing. Blessings ❤
@@bebrown7280 no it isn't. The Lords not happy at all w/ these wicked devil's raising His seed
@@abtribeofjudah5794 you apparently accept the OT but reject the NT, especially the apostle Paul’s letters where you would find how wrong you are. I am sorry for you & for all the children who you believe God would rather have cast off than given the loving care of an adoptive parent.
@@acricucci9760 100%Truth 1611kjv all-day aireeday. This devil esau is the wicked(Mal1:4) of the scriptures , old & new. "For it is written, Jacob have I loved but esau I have hated"(Rom9:13)
She's a beautiful caring young lady, it takes a a good man to become a loved daddy
That was beautiful!! That girl can write!! I'm so happy for her!!!
Awwww. Tears are rolling. My daddy is my stepfather. He helped raise me since I was 13 and I'm 40. For me he will always be daddy.
I feel the same way about mine. Been in my life since I was 10 and am now 42.
@@SeansModelBuilds give him a hug for me. It means a lot when they love you for who you are.
@A҉M҉E҉R҉I҉C҉A҉N҉ L҉I҉O҉N҉ that is awesome. They all have a good relationship. Some people are the opposite. I hope they all remain that way.
@A҉M҉E҉R҉I҉C҉A҉N҉ L҉I҉O҉N҉I was thinking the same thing. It takes time for any relationship. I remember meeting my dad and thinking why is he here but it takes a lot of a person to raise kids that are not his own. He taught me to drive, to believe in myself, and etc. We both have 2 dads that loves us dearly.
@A҉M҉E҉R҉I҉C҉A҉N҉ L҉I҉O҉N҉ awwww. Its amazing that she didn't stop after the relationship. Love is so good especially when a person really means it. Much love to you and your family.
To love anothers child like your own is a powerful gesture.👍
I adopted my oldest daughter when she was 6. One of the best feelings of my life ❤️ Family are those who are present in each other’s lives on a daily basis
Same here Philip it’s a great feeling !
Awe made me cry, precious. What a tribute to daddy-daughter relationships!
Hello Karen
How are you doing today?
That her daddy!! Daddy girl. Perfect. God bless your family. Amen.
how did he read that without busting out in tears! beautiful.
When he stopped and took his deep breaths he said he was trying to keep the tears in.
Its easy to hold in your tears, when you feel no emotion towards adopting.
@@eljefe9158 or when you're just an ass.
I’m 6’2” tall, weigh 230 pounds, I’ve been a soldier, police officer and a firefighter/EMT... not much can rattle my psyche. I’ve seen a lot of bad in this world and nothing warms my heart, and soul, more than these types of videos. I become a weeping slobbering blob of goo when I see this kind of love. Children deserve unconditional love all the time.
@@dereklea1183 thank you for all of your service! And yes I completely agree children deserve all of the love! I'm very blessed to have this man
Love is what we are ALL about. This is the real stuff. Beautiful to share.
Beautiful he is the real dad and she is such an amazing girl. Loving Family who could ask for anything more but the love.
I don’t know how he read it without tearing up. He has a heart of steel.
If it was less ppl yea
They had like 45 people there
He was holding it in so hard
His heart is full of love. He’ll cry in private. 😊
Lovely man. Beautiful family.
I know right! ❤😭
He probably already thought of you as his daughter
❤❤
Yea he def does
ShoNuff
I am sure he did so sweet
That was so sweet! He didnt even want to let her go to show the picture. I love this. That's definitely his baby girl. God bless your family.
From the eloquent writing of the letter, I think maybe the Father won two gifts this day !
GOD BLESS YOU BOTH !
👍🥰
Anyone can be a father, not everyone can be a dad. RESPECT ❤❤❤❤
That was an amazing story. My stepdad came into my life when I was 7. And I'm 36 and he is still there being grandpa to my kids. There are men like this everywhere in the world. Good story. Should be more emphasis on men who step up.
Oh my GOD thank you!!! That baby has grown up a little more now😍I’m a black lady, first time seeing this video and it’s absolutely AMAZING, she a beautiful girl!!! My children-now grown didn’t even have this from their own biological dad. Just a good Man!! Please tell him he is unique and the world is grateful to have a soul like him! God bless you and your family in an abundance!!! I’m crying happy tears-this is just amazing and has made my day!!
He has such a cool,proud pose and she is such a beautiful young lady...you can see the love in that family.💜💜💜
I really needed this -- after three months of a worldwide pandemic, presidential politics, racial killings, protests, riots and ignorance, you start to wonder if we're all just being swallowed up in a storm of hate, racial animosity, greed and fear. Then you watch something like this and you think, well, maybe all hope isn't lost.
Exactly! 😍😍
nice comment lad
I wish my husband stepped up for my autistic special needs daughter, but shame not in her destiny to be loved
This video needs to be shared far and wide ! This is how HUMANS should be !!! Nothing more to say ❤️
Yes!!! The World would be a better place.😇
You are right about that
Love this 😀 ❤️ 😍 💖 🙌
Beautiful!! So happy for your family. Reminds me of the best definition of a stepfather that I've heard - a man who has stepped up and stepped in. All the best! ❤
Very beautiful to see,God bless you all,so nice to see other men stepping up and being men we need more of this,many other kids out there
When the world is in chaos God shows he's real through people like this.
I'm overjoyed and happy for the both of them. She found a great father and he gained a beautiful daughter!❤️
@Bill Clinton in the red shirt and red hat
@@user-qp5xj8qi4x I'm Guessing he's not in her life! If he was I doubt she'd ask this man to be her dad! But if he's been there why not ask him to be her dad! Why because he's white he can't be her dad! GTFO
what an incredible young woman. she will make enormous successes in her future. terrific parenting. God bless this family
So the moms not a reformed snore lax whore?
Thats just beautiful, 54 yr old Dad and Step dad in tears here! 😭
Lovin the feels, its moments like this that give you hope for this world, and that it wont be populated solely by A-holes one day! Spread the love 💖💖
This is beautiful. Doesn’t matter if you’re living in a tent or a mansion just be there for your kids.
No we don't have all the information and don't know why her biological father isn't in her life
@@derrickm2416 there’s no excuse for a father to not be in their child’s life. If your not ready for a kid, don’t spread your seed
@KyleMTC22 maybe the biological father doesn't know because the mother is a _itch or maybe the biological father died again. we don't have all the information on what happened to the biological father
@@kylemtc2280 I mean what if her father past away or something we don’t know what happened so just leave it as that
@@foreversavedEzequiel it’s pretty obvious what we’re talking about is fathers who leave by choice. Passing away is an outlier, that’s not what we’re talking about
I never knew a dad, but I still feel this is such a great story. Kudos to that father for not just stepping up, but doing a great job! Her testimony is proof that he succeeded.
A father of the fatherless and a judge for the widows, Is God in His holy habitation. Psalms 68:5
I don’t mean to come across disrespectful but if you don’t know Jesus, He can bring you into the family & His Father will be yours too ❤
@C J I definitely have that Father!
@@roadrunner123 that’s awesome my brother!! ❤️
See you soon! 🌤
That is so beautiful. It doesn't matter about the color of people. What matters is the love. Congratulations to this beautiful family.
Thay was beautiful... This is what a real man and father is.... Not any macho BS.... Its about love and support... I wish you and your family every happiness.....thank you for sharing
Much RESPECT ✊ Bro from ANOTHER STEP DAD to another but in the END, We’re just plain old DAD......
I’ve got 3 plus our 2, which are the last of the set
Total of 5
4 girls , 1 boy
Raised my wife’s which were at the time
18 months (son)
4 and a half going on 5 and 8
Now I’ve got
23 oldest daughter
20 second daughter
Son 18
2 youngest
12 and 13, wouldn’t change a thing
Much Respect ✊
@@antonyjackson602 damn how many times did- nvm let me shut up
Preach brotha!
Letrano lol some tells me you’re not as happy as you should be m8, sucks i know
We are the best dads. 👍
Shout out to my Caucasian brother
That made my day!!
Genuine love
Wonderful example of the effect a real Dad has on children. Beautiful family much love ❤❤❤❤❤
The pose at the end says it all ! Love truly makes the world go around 🙏
How can you dislike this..shame on you.this is what love looks like folks.
Bc thats not a present its a request lol
These vids are like soldiers
coming home, will never get old and will always induce tears.
Congratulations! This is really awesome, and I can totally relate to this moment. I adopted my stepdaughter when she was a little over a year old. My daughter will be 30 years old in April. She has turned into an amazing young lady, and we have a great relationship to this day. My daughter also made me a grandfather 16 months ago, and I am loving every minute of it. This video just goes to show that there still are some great people in this world. 🙂
So you knocked that little bitch up congrats bro
My grandfather always reminds me that there are still good people in the world. Thank you Lord.
Salute to this white dude. He's a real G! Need more men like him. I hope their families live in peace and love for a long time!!!!
Don't you mean. He's a real D.
Why do have to mention he's white lol
@@SoumilSahu right?! thats part of why racism is still lingering. Racism isnt as prominent as the fake news wants you to believe.
@@MisterDevos FACTS!!!!! A lot of the media is a big problem in the world today, printing lies.
@ronnie yates Just because yours left you or the father of your kids left them to be little bastards. I'm sorry... And Happy new year LMAO
It's still some real Men out there this is beautiful got me crying Congratulations sweetie He seems like hes the perfect Father for you God bless you both🙏😍❤❤🙏
Thank you!
Ur welcome
I CRIED! I LOVE THIS! YES! HE IS REAL DAD FOR LIFE!💪💪💯💯💯THANK YOU! THIS IS SO POWERFUL AND BEAUTIFUL!!💯💯💯
That’s real! Real love from the heart! All the best to a beautiful family with the love we should all have towards each other!
Awesome! This is the real America! Congrats to you both!
Thank you!!
When a child asks that its because he earned it, kids know especially her the way she expressed herself on that not, congratulations, n God bless you all
I don't know what is more impressive- the job he's doing as a dad, or the wisdom of the daughter.
Brought Tears to my Eyes!!! Just BEAUTIFUL🙏🙏🙏❤
He was always her daddy.
It’s now just official on paper💙
I feel you I got a white one I raised!!! Ppl look at me crazy AF when he calls me dad. Plus he's taller than me and he's only a freshmen lol. His dad signed over his rights tho, I love to see ppl come together like this!!!!! Just a good ole boi doing real man shit
That's awesome! You're a great man for stepping up when his father stepped down. I'm the mother and your comment means so much to me. I was just about to delete the video cause I'm tired of all the name calling and absolute nastiness that I'm getting from black "men".
@@kramerfamily9040 nah let em hate!!!!! This is beautiful if it reaches out to one person tha job was done. Yall reached many!!! Thank yall and my Lord bless yall family
Thank you!! And you're absolutely right! God bless you and your beautiful blended family as well
@#TikTok Hall Of Fame ❤❤
That was amazing. From man to man you are a great man I wish their was more in the world just like you. Y'all have inspired me to and gave me a better look at life. I just wanna thank y'all for sharing this with the world. May God bless your whole family
Congrats man. You earned the love of that child.
For a man to raise another man's child! Is the most beautiful thing! Love it! Congratulations! 👍👍
I had a rough day. Busy at work, nothing but bad news on the television, and wasn't feeling so great. Watched this video and it was magic. I teared up, let out some emotional vent lol, got instantly hopeful and relieved to see genuine love and goodness. Congratulations to this amazing dad and amazing young lady, blessed family for sure! Happy Father's Day to this real man who stepped up!
Busy at work is good
AMEN, this is absolutely precious & I’m finding it difficult to hold back the tears. May God bless you, your daughter & family all the days of your lives.
Thank you for the blessing of being able to see this special moment in your life.
Beyond heartwarming. These people make this a better world. May God bless their entire family.
she is a very lucky and blessed girl to a man like him around,god bless.
Damn I'm a grown man and I am not afraid to say that video had me 😭
Me too
Same. 36.
I had tears in my eyes... allergies
Just seen it. In tears as well
Lol facts
This would be the most priceless and greatest gift one man could ever receive 🙌!!!!!! Gave me tears of joy 😊 LOVE is REAL and makes no difference of the color of one's skin love breaks down all barriers!!!! Thank you for your story 🙏 ❤️ 🙏
More REAL fathers are needed today. I was cutting onions while i watched this. 😢
I will say this as a blk dude I started crying hearing this because it was very touching. Although my pops is my bestfriend, and we have the most wonderful relationship and still till this day we can fuss each other out and crack on one another and have a good ole time. I can't say that for my moms but most of her friends claim me as their child. And they say they don't understand why she has hate in her heart towards me nor love me as much as she should. Although it does hurt I don't get support from my moms real talk I don't really have a mother figure in my life all we are is enemies towards each other. I maybe 37 but our relationship now and forever will be down the drain. Yea moms abusive to me but it's ok I have God in me. I've always called my pops my moms because it's how much I love him and he support me for being a college student and she doesn't. I really applaud this this man right here because it's a dead beat fathers in this world just as mothers.
All you need is the people who are gonna be there for you bro. Keep doing your best and show your mom that you're worth it and that you got this shit all on your own. Idk you man, but I'm proud of you. I may be only 28, but I definitely am proud of what's you've accomplished man. Have a blessed day
I wish my dad was my best friend. I still have both of my parents but they were too busy handeling their own bussiness and left me to make my own choises i did things way back i'm not proud of but getting myself out the pit made me a better stronger man now i have a daughter and i will always be there for her cause i know how dark and cruel life can be without guidence or someone showing you rhe right way. I also had a tough time with my mom. She hated me i don't know why she always made me think i did something wrong or that i'm crazy called me names like i'm the devil or crazy she also told me one day she wished she was not my mother. I grew up believing that but sadly she was the only one making me believe that about my self everyone else liked me till now i still can't figgure out why she hates me and my dad was never the man i could talk to never had my back always yelled i came from a rough family never went a day by without them fighting or throwing plates and breqking stuff
I'm sooo sorry you had to go through that. No one should have to go through life without a parent. I'm glad that you had your Dad there for you and congrats on school!! Huge accomplishment
@@abyss_trinity0014 I love this comment so much!! We need more of this uplifting at all times!
@@ibj3 I'm proud of you for getting yourself out of whatever you were into! Ppl don't really understand how hard it is to have be there for yourself and lift yourself up and pull yourself out! Your daughter growing up knowing that you were always there for her will be priceless.. Keep it up!