"Love is our birthright. Love is the fundamental necessity of our life. Do not go seeking for that which you are." ~Neville Goddard Thank you for joining me on this path of self discovery. I intend that my knowledge and experience resonates with you in your own reality. I greatly appreciate your support, so kindly keep in mind to share, like, comment, subscribe, and activate the notifications bell. This will help us stay connected, ensuring that you never miss any of my upcoming videos. 👇🏾Follow Here Nor There👇🏾 @TikTok → www.tiktok.com/@heren0rthere @Instagram → instagram.com/heren0rthere/ @Facebook → facebook.com/groups/355701380571120/
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
5 months of no contact. However, I truly believe that she's still obsessed with me. Whatever shes doing, wherever she is, whoever she is with, I know I'm still the one she wants. I feel her longing in my bones. She knows that I'm the best thing that happened to her, because I'm the best.She's mine and she knows it.
I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public. I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on TH-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over. I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated! When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly. Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
Like what you said on your other video, talk to the person who you wanted to be. And i realized why she love me. Bro i just watched a couple of your vids but damn you helping me fast and making me learn fast. Just damn bro you a God sent person. Self-Concept is really a must
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married. Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
Yo I needed this . I love this channel and I can’t wait to come back with my success story. I’m gonna fly you to Florida for the wedding. #livinginthewishfulfilled. Living in the end result
@@Here-Nor-There didn’t in one of your other videos you talked about how you scripted for your sp as well? I only ask because I plan on visualizing and affirming and I’d like to add scripting to my manifestation journey as well.
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: th-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
Will your "sp" always come back after you've done the self concept work? What if you've done so much to push them away with your behavior and it seems like things will never be the same or better. Do you still persist and know they will return?
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
I am manifesting my ex back and I got triggered by seeing a picture on his social media. I got upset and now I can't get it out of my mind. It suddenly pops out.what should I do about this?
Take a break from social media. You don’t have to unfollow your ex or delete your profile, just take a break. Social media can ruin the perception of your manifestation. More often than not, it’s just triggering and knocks you out of the state of having. While you’re taking a break, focus ONLY on your self concept and all will turn out in your favor! 💯
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.@@kisararamudi6431
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message. Thank you very much
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Hey Bro! Awesome channel, you have a very clear no nonsense approach to the subject you are explaining. I just have a quick question. Im in NC, working hard on me. It is her birthday in a few days, and Im in 2 minds over whether I should reach out and send a happy birthday text, or should I just rest in my power and wait for her to reach out to me? Im guessing by the way Im asking the question, I know the answer is the latter, but I'd be most grateful for a quick line on your thoughts. Thanks, and 'grats on reaching the 1k sub mark!
What’s up bro! This is a frequent question: the birthday call//text. If you’re questioning it, it means you’re not living in the end. You shouldn’t reach out (as you already said). In my experience, when you’re manifesting someone, they will come when they are ready and that will happen when YOU are ready. Which means you won’t be questioning yourself, trying to force action or anything of that nature. Just relax, continue to work on yourself and she will move mountains to get to you if that’s your desire.
@@Here-Nor-There Excellent, yes, that is just where my mind was headed on this one, If in doubt, do without, fix self and wait for her to move that mountain! Thank you so much, I will carry on watching and liking your great videos with much interest. Thanks from the UK! :) :)
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
Hi, I really need help. Where I am stuck is wanting the full truth from my SP so I can finally fully heal and forgive, so I can move forward. What holds me back is feeling like I have not been given the full truth, therefore I cant rest my mind and get back to a healthy mental state. I used to be AMAZING at manifesting. I have literally manifested things like apartments and cars. And then tons of small things. But my ex has me soooo hung up on the truth or more so in his kies, that I am stunted. How do I affirm getting the truth from him so I can put my mind to rest, and decide if I want to manifest him back or just call in someone new? Should I affirm that my sp is always honest and open with me? Or should I make it more self concept and affirm that everyone is always honest with me and comfortable with telling me their truths?
You're wasting your time manifesting the truth when what you really want is commitment. Go to the end and imagine what it would be like to have all of this past you and that you're in a trusting, loyal relationship. I do not teach affirming on this channel because I don't believe that it works when you have resistance against something. I teach visualization as the main way to manifest and using subliminals or scripting to help facilitate that. You need to visualize the end, not vainly affirm for it :-)
Heyy! I have been focusing on my self concept for a month or two now and I surely feel changes in myself and how I react to circumstances but how can I know for sure whether I’ve changed or if there is something more unresolved feelings in me which is obstructing him coming back?
Hi! (1) Your reactions and (2) how much are you enjoying life. When you’re not looking for it, meaning you’re enjoying life as is, that’s the key indicator
@@Here-Nor-There thank you so much for the instant reply! Already subscribed for the detailed explanations and making it so easy! Yeah I think that’s the part im missing out on. I’m constantly searching for results. But no worries! He’ll come on his own😁
I have been manifesting my SP for more than a year. I had a similar story like yours. But what if I have a good SC (how do I know I have to change it) ? All that have happened is the opposite and the No Contact made him moved on (this is what he has been telling me the times he reached out and that he wants his stuff from the apartment). I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I am living my life with friends and family. Doing things I love. So I have done every method and advices. I really want to experience have a life with him and being married.
You know your SC has changed based off of your choices and that you're not still wondering if it's changed. You will feel it without having to validate it!
Should someone delete their SP's number to stay in power and increase self concept? Or is it fine to not delete. Or is it that worrying whether to delete or keep itself is an issue.
What if the affection or connection was never fully established? I saw potential for these things to manifest and I believe he was trying to program me into wanting to be his wife. He was showing me Nigerian weddings the second time we met. Lol. (He’s from Nigeria, I’m Afro American) When we met, I was experiencing the peak of “Daddy issues” and my self concept was lower than ever so I can see how he was trying to connect but I was open but super closed at the same time. I was too vulnerable and in a really dark chaotic time. I think things would have gone differently if I was grounded and in my confidence. And I pretty much did everything wrong. 😂 Do you think I can manifest a full connection and commitment even though there were only sparks but no fire?
Ofc you can! You answered your own question in this entire post! 😂 🙏🏾 Your self concept was lower than it ever had been. When you fix your SC, everything falls into place afterward. Focus on how you want to feel instead of who. Your subconscious knows who you want, so you have to trust it and focus on the feeling of having it and the feeling of a strong SC! 💪🏽
@@she-surrendered1234 The conscious is masculine and the subconscious is feminine. Together in cohesion, is how we manifest our dreams. I say that to say, trust your subconscious as a man should trust this beloved wife. She knows who you want but she'll abide by seeking the feeling first.
@@Here-Nor-There thanks.. what if nagged during the relationship? I felt like I was always trying to control things I was worried simply because he cheated before.. due to that he said I don’t give him peace and he don’t love me anymore.. is it still possible? Can u change so someone mind if they say the don’t love you?
We have broken up multiple times she has always been the one to leave me and come back, I always accept her back we are back broken up again sence Dec of 2023 I am hurting it’s very painful I am trying very hard to improve myself but I pray all is not lost I really do love her just don’t know if she feels the same for me
We’ve all been there my friend. As difficult as it feels, you have to focus on your self concept. She will feel for you what you feel about yourself. 💯
I always wondered, what if i break up, and i want another person, but my ex does all the manifesting techniques to get me back? Many people on YT say you can manifest an SP, he will start thinking about you, and like you, etc, but no one talks about what this SP wants? What if i break up, and my SP is someone else, but my ex does all the things to manifest me back? So do i get what i want or does she gets what she wants? Would she manifest me back even if i wanted to break up? Would she manifest me and i would somehow like her more now? What about the SP that i wanted and tried to manifest? Can someone explain? Thanks :)
Ofc. Valid questions. The long explanation: this is why you’re not supposed to worry about the HOW. Your questions are focusing on how it happens. That’s not under your control nor can anyone explain how it works. You leave that up to your subconscious just like you’re not worried about HOW you’re breathing, blinking, and digesting food. If you don’t need answers about that, you don’t need answers about how manifestation works. The process of how it all works out is beyond our comprehension. So, we just focus on the WHAT and allow the rest of the factors play out themselves. The short explanation: parallel dimensions.
Q: What is the ideal way to respond when you are unexpectedly triggered by your 3D, especially what your SP is throwing at you (in a hurtful way) and understanding he's a reflection of you? How do you positively combat these triggers as you continue working on reprogramming your subconscious? Side note: My SP and I live in the same house. Thanks in advance for your feedback!
Change your reaction by changing yourself concept. Remove yourself from the situation as best as possible until then. This may cause for you to spend more time to yourself or away doing hobbies.
Im just curious should we visualize everyday or just once in a while because if we visualize everyday how do we detach from their thought? Could you please clarify and help out
@@Here-Nor-There Appreciate the response😀 Sorry I'm just a bit new to this but just one more question, if my sp has currently broken up with me and doesn't feel in love with me, if I manifest marriage wouldn't that delay the manifestation as currently we weren't planning on getting married, it was to happen after a few years but I do want him back in my life as my boyfriend again. So what would you suggest to visualize? Please help out.Thanks!
If marriage is the end goal, I would visualize what your life would be like with him after you two are happily married and living together. The focus should be on the end, after it is done. Try not to focus on what the 3D world is showing you, and live in the assumption that you are already together. If believing you two will get married is too difficult or too far away from what you feel now, you can become the vibration of getting back together in love, and be careful not to go back to the past self concept once you start being in a relationship again. It can be easy to fall into old habits after something shifts to what you want. Everything changes. What the 3D may look like now can and will change, and if you focus on loving yourself as much as possible, and focus on the belief that your ex loves you and wants to be back in your life, that is what will be created. Loving yourself is one of the most beneficial things you can do in life. Of course he and many other people want to be with you, because you're amazing. Calmly persist, and remember that his love is no more important than the love you emanate towards yourself and your world, sweetheart.
These are just words. I’ve experience the same. If you want a relationship, you should most certainly not agree to a friendship. However, keep your reactions to a minimum. Try your best not to respond or bargain. Work on your self concept, and only your SC, through affirmations for the time being. You got this!
Manifest your ex back? This seems very odd to me. You cannot control ppl. I loved all your videos but this one. these laws are not witch craft. We have no authority over other ppl. If someone chooses to not be with you. Heal and move on.
I didn't mentioning anything about controlling anyone outside of YOURSELF. EIYPO is about changing what is within you and reality will reflect that change. That concept is the exact opposite of what you interpreted it to be, but regardless, thank you for watching!
She’s 20 and i am 28 … we’ve been 3 months NC. Part of me feels like the thoughts about the age difference is blocking me from assuming that we can workout a second time around. I want her back because i know we can cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Bur again the different life paths is whats keeping me from fully assuming we can work out
@@Here-Nor-There i appreciate the reply! I think i just need self-concept work and to leave the old story behind/keep on visualizing the wish fulfilled. Thank you for this, I definitely believe her and I can make it work the second time around. Definitely don’t think i should be breaking no contact though. I believe i can attract her back.
Yes. I was dating my ass off 😂 It’s a slippery slope when trying to explain it. However, I’d never recommend waiting on a desire. You should be enjoying life. Don’t date as a distraction! Date because you genuinely want to experience love and adoration. That will cause you to shift into the state of someone who’s loved and adored then SP will be around the corner when you’re already feeling that way. Remember, you’re not manifesting a SP. You’re manifesting love/marriage/commitment but choosing SP as the vessel to experience it with. Which means you should be feeling loved every day no matter if they are around or not. Some people can do it without dating, others cannot. If you’re asking this question, that means you probably fall in the latter category. Gone out there and let these folks treat you like a Queen! 👑 😉
I would really appreciate a vídeo explaining what we should be doing during the no-contact and how to shift… i mean, putting all the information together. Love ❤❤❤
Hello sir can i ask a question If a man addicted to porn and masturbation and this man have not masculine energy at all Can this man still manifest his sp??
Hi, I am wondering how do you let her know that you have changed, do you post on social media or just let it be? Or you just let the universe work on the process and you live in the result, feel in the result and believe in the result. I broke up with her for 5 months and nc for 2 months. She got someone new but I don't feel sad or bad, coz I know I live in the result, I just recently started law of assumption, I want to live a life with her. All your pov are valid and similar to what I have learned from law of assumption. All I need to do is live my own life with my highest potential.
Question? How long we do these techniques? Till the scene manifests? Just keep doing it and believing it will come? Love the channel bro! Amazing stuff. I subbed!
Thank you! You are only required to do it once. If it feels good? Do it as much as you want. If it feels like a burden, chore or difficult….or if you feel impatient….just do it 1-2x and let it grow 🌱
@@Here-Nor-There thank you! Btw i left a comment on another video saying you should never stop doing what you do. Within days you completely changed my mindset, i guess i manifested you into my life somehow😅 stay blessed and keep blessing us with content❤️
Sure! First, you should stop affirming that you have ANY blocks. Instead of manifesting smaller things that you’re indifferent about, visualize your ex one last time then let it go. Focus on manifesting things that are entirely about you and no one else. Manifest a compliment, a free meal or a reduction in a bill that you have to pay. Work on your SC. The entire time in the background, your initial ex manifestation is working.
@@smcc77 I've been there. You have to forgive yourself for what you did to cause the break. Then you have to forgive her if there's any resentment you have for her not taking you back or if she contributed it to the break itself. Neville speaks about forgiveness A LOT in his writings but I rarely hear this mentioned in the LOASS community. I believe writing things down and meditation helps with this. Write down what you feel guilty of. Meditate on it then forgive yourself. Burn the piece of paper you wrote it down on. It's not magic, but it sends a strong signal to your subconscious that you're ready to see past this pain.
I hear a lot that we should go to the end for example (marriage) but if iam in no contact there is so much resistance to visualize marriage while i know iam in no contact sometimes it’s makes me triggered and sad but maybe visualize a text would be less resistance to my mind i think it’s called manifesting in steps
I would highly recommend that you do NOT manifest in steps. If you manifest a text, it will be JUST a text. The circumstances will not change afterward. I speak from experience. However, if you’re having trouble visualizing a marriage scene, then I’d recommend you do NOT envision a marriage scene! Instead, visualize something that implies that you’re already married. Try this: visualize driving down the street in your car and feeling your wedding ring around your finger. Leave the SP out of it. Visualize that sort of scene then allow your subconscious to deliver it to you through the bridge of incidents. I was in NC this time last year with my SP and now we’re engaged. This is how I did it. You can do it too! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There i have a question I don't understand where I did wrong ... I am manifesting my university..but I failed to manifesting...I am living in the end also I don't have any fear ...can u please tell me about my mistake?
Just FYI he is not manifesting me back by doing all of that shit with another girl. Its making me hate him for not considering the after effects of those actions on me later. He is intentionally misbehaving because we wouldnt be allowed to bring it up later.
You should continue to study quantum physics in relation to the law. We’re dealing with multiple realities just like we’re dealing with multiple frequencies when it comes to radio stations.
Loved it man. I made my own notes. Just wanted to know - Do we visualize everyday before going to bed? What's your take on affirmation of getting her back? I know you said the affirmations need to be about your ownself but I wanted to know your take on this. Keep up the good work man. Have been following your content lately and loved it.
Yo! I wouldn’t affirm for her. Affirm for yourself and she will see you as that. So, if you want to marry her, affirm that you’re an amazing husband. Your subconscious will do the rest 💯
Shaun 🥹 or Sean, im so sorry. So i been watching your vids, cz for me, manifesting sounds interesting when YOU the one who explain it. I have a question, i been in 2 months of no contact. He was the one who initiated the breakup. I keep praying for him idk why. Is this okay while you improving your SC? I thought I supposed to just visualize him once and that’s it. But i found myself keep pray for him. Is that ok? And please share your SP journey to us ❤️ some of us like to hear it. Thankyou so much!
Stop praying. You must act as if you already have it and you wouldn’t be praying every night if you did. You’ve been heard already! Focus on SC only from here out!
Hey Bro! Awesome channel, you have a very clear no nonsense approach to the subject you are explaining. I just have a quick question. Im in NC, working hard on me. It is her birthday in a few days, and Im in 2 minds over whether I should reach out and send a happy birthday text, or should I just rest in my power and wait for her to reach out to me? Im guessing by the way Im asking the question, I know the answer is the latter, but I'd be most grateful for a quick line on your thoughts. Thanks, and 'grats on reaching the 1k sub mark!
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You could also visualize a person close to you telling you congratulations on the new wedding …it makes it easier to believe
There you go! Exactly. It is much easier to visualize moments that confirm what you have rather than the actual moment (i.e. the wedding).
You're really good. Channel will blow up, same old info of course but so well put/ formatted. Amazing work.
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
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5 months of no contact. However, I truly believe that she's still obsessed with me. Whatever shes doing, wherever she is, whoever she is with, I know I'm still the one she wants. I feel her longing in my bones. She knows that I'm the best thing that happened to her, because I'm the best.She's mine and she knows it.
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I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public.
I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
Goodness me! This channel is awesome, he’s talking like he’s coaching us my goodness I’m subscribing now
Welcome aboard! 🫶🏾
Wow! Where were you all this time?? You’re very good.
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
I love this comment! Thank you for leaving this wonderful insight and wifey and I thank you for the well wishes ❤️
You really reverse-engineered tffff outta this! 🔧 I enjoy how you structure your thoughts & teachings. Thank you for sharing!
🤣 💀 That’s what I do! I’m just grateful that I’m finally putting it to good use. Thank you!
Aww, the doggy in the back is so cute.
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on TH-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over.
I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated!
When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly.
Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
@@Here-Nor-There the info for you 1on1 isn’t on TH-cam?
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
You are so welcome
Like what you said on your other video, talk to the person who you wanted to be. And i realized why she love me. Bro i just watched a couple of your vids but damn you helping me fast and making me learn fast. Just damn bro you a God sent person. Self-Concept is really a must
You have such a calm and reasurring voice. I was feeling anxious before watching your video and now I feel at ease. Thank you 🙏🏼
yo - this channel is awesome. thank you so much for sharing
Thank you! 🙏🏾
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
You are a solid dude. You have a new follower.
🫡 I appreciate you
Love your work, brother
Grateful for You!
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this channel is gold
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married.
Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
Thank you!
Watching this video after 3 months is hitting different
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Yo I needed this . I love this channel and I can’t wait to come back with my success story. I’m gonna fly you to Florida for the wedding. #livinginthewishfulfilled. Living in the end result
Yessir!!! You got this king! ✈️ 🌴
@@Here-Nor-There didn’t in one of your other videos you talked about how you scripted for your sp as well? I only ask because I plan on visualizing and affirming and I’d like to add scripting to my manifestation journey as well.
Yes, I believe that was in the Get Your Ex back video. I'm going to be offering a scripting course very soon though. @@talesis1
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
Even though your audience seems to be men, this resonated! The best explanation I’ve come across
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: th-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
@@Here-Nor-There ohh okay 😅 thanks for the link too!
What if your blocked, chased for a year, and was threatened with a restraining order, and now it’s been a year of no contact lol
Let’s start with making sure you didn’t manifest yourself onto a restraining order first 😂 then we can proceed
You’re right. There’s only love & fear ✨
you’re fkn incredible. absolute mastermind delivery and coherent storytelling. THANK YOU
Thank you for this structured information! 99% of LOA ex back videos are just scattered ramblings.
Thank you! I lived it so it’s much easier to speak on
Did it in first place ( all those miserable begging) . Am i still in a position to get him back😞
I love my SP.. I want my SP...Only my SP... Thank you so much for your help.. Really appreciate your video's.. Thank you..
Your channel is going to blow up! I just found your channel today and you explain things so very well! Thank you Shawn!!
Thank you for the much appreciated prediction! I’m glad we’ve found each other! More to come! 👏🏾
Will your "sp" always come back after you've done the self concept work? What if you've done so much to push them away with your behavior and it seems like things will never be the same or better. Do you still persist and know they will return?
I have everything I desire.
Isn't it wonderful.
I am grateful.
Thank you. 🙏🙏
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
Sometimes its best to take a break from them (if you can) so it can allow your mind to view them (and yourself) differently.
Implementing these starting now 🙏🏾
You got this 💪🏽
I am manifesting my ex back and I got triggered by seeing a picture on his social media. I got upset and now I can't get it out of my mind. It suddenly pops out.what should I do about this?
Take a break from social media. You don’t have to unfollow your ex or delete your profile, just take a break. Social media can ruin the perception of your manifestation. More often than not, it’s just triggering and knocks you out of the state of having. While you’re taking a break, focus ONLY on your self concept and all will turn out in your favor! 💯
Yes I got it, Thank you ✨
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.@@kisararamudi6431
circumstances don't matter
This was a really succinct, but and exactly what I needed. Thank you, sir.
Thank you 🙏🏾
Well spoken buddy, keep it up
Much appreciated! 🫡
Very good video my friend i appreciate it! Keep it going!!
Yessir! 💯
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message.
Thank you very much
Curious as to how you reconnected with your fiancé? How did you initiate that?
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Yes, I'm sure!! You said her name in one video ( all the proof i needed)
Hey Bro!
Awesome channel, you have a very clear no nonsense approach to the subject you are explaining.
I just have a quick question. Im in NC, working hard on me.
It is her birthday in a few days, and Im in 2 minds over whether I should reach out and send a happy birthday text, or should I just rest in my power and wait for her to reach out to me?
Im guessing by the way Im asking the question, I know the answer is the latter, but I'd be most grateful for a quick line on your thoughts.
Thanks, and 'grats on reaching the 1k sub mark!
What’s up bro! This is a frequent question: the birthday call//text. If you’re questioning it, it means you’re not living in the end. You shouldn’t reach out (as you already said). In my experience, when you’re manifesting someone, they will come when they are ready and that will happen when YOU are ready. Which means you won’t be questioning yourself, trying to force action or anything of that nature. Just relax, continue to work on yourself and she will move mountains to get to you if that’s your desire.
@@Here-Nor-There Excellent, yes, that is just where my mind was headed on this one, If in doubt, do without, fix self and wait for her to move that mountain!
Thank you so much, I will carry on watching and liking your great videos with much interest.
Thanks from the UK! :) :)
I used to say that master Oogway quote all the time… synchronicity.
And it actually worked thank you!
Congrats! Would love to hear your story on our next livestream
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
@@Here-Nor-There Yes Sir, so true. Thank you!!
@@Here-Nor-There and congratulations on the engagement!!!!
This was a great video. Very clear and to the point. So glad I found your channel!
Sending love and peace from Barbados💪🏾💯🇧🇧
Hi, I really need help. Where I am stuck is wanting the full truth from my SP so I can finally fully heal and forgive, so I can move forward. What holds me back is feeling like I have not been given the full truth, therefore I cant rest my mind and get back to a healthy mental state.
I used to be AMAZING at manifesting. I have literally manifested things like apartments and cars. And then tons of small things.
But my ex has me soooo hung up on the truth or more so in his kies, that I am stunted.
How do I affirm getting the truth from him so I can put my mind to rest, and decide if I want to manifest him back or just call in someone new?
Should I affirm that my sp is always honest and open with me? Or should I make it more self concept and affirm that everyone is always honest with me and comfortable with telling me their truths?
You're wasting your time manifesting the truth when what you really want is commitment. Go to the end and imagine what it would be like to have all of this past you and that you're in a trusting, loyal relationship. I do not teach affirming on this channel because I don't believe that it works when you have resistance against something. I teach visualization as the main way to manifest and using subliminals or scripting to help facilitate that. You need to visualize the end, not vainly affirm for it :-)
masterpiece, nothing to say about, perfect speak ! thanks bro
Thank you brother! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤ BEST ON YT THUS FAR!!!!
Heyy! I have been focusing on my self concept for a month or two now and I surely feel changes in myself and how I react to circumstances but how can I know for sure whether I’ve changed or if there is something more unresolved feelings in me which is obstructing him coming back?
Hi! (1) Your reactions and (2) how much are you enjoying life. When you’re not looking for it, meaning you’re enjoying life as is, that’s the key indicator
@@Here-Nor-There thank you so much for the instant reply! Already subscribed for the detailed explanations and making it so easy! Yeah I think that’s the part im missing out on. I’m constantly searching for results. But no worries! He’ll come on his own😁
This is such awesome advice 🔥
🙏🏾
Great vidéo bro
Any help if I cannot visualise? As in physically cannot , with any thing.
Manifest that you can visualize
Your voice is so soothing and hypnotic 🫶🏼
Haaaa! Thank you 😊 🙏🏾
I have been manifesting my SP for more than a year. I had a similar story like yours. But what if I have a good SC (how do I know I have to change it) ? All that have happened is the opposite and the No Contact made him moved on (this is what he has been telling me the times he reached out and that he wants his stuff from the apartment). I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I am living my life with friends and family. Doing things I love. So I have done every method and advices. I really want to experience have a life with him and being married.
You know your SC has changed based off of your choices and that you're not still wondering if it's changed. You will feel it without having to validate it!
I just came across law of assumption. I know you said dont beg. Does it matter? I begged for 3 months. Law of assumption just fell on my lap
Nope. It doesn’t matter.
Should someone delete their SP's number to stay in power and increase self concept? Or is it fine to not delete. Or is it that worrying whether to delete or keep itself is an issue.
It's definitely the latter option you gave
What if the affection or connection was never fully established? I saw potential for these things to manifest and I believe he was trying to program me into wanting to be his wife. He was showing me Nigerian weddings the second time we met. Lol. (He’s from Nigeria, I’m Afro American) When we met, I was experiencing the peak of “Daddy issues” and my self concept was lower than ever so I can see how he was trying to connect but I was open but super closed at the same time. I was too vulnerable and in a really dark chaotic time. I think things would have gone differently if I was grounded and in my confidence. And I pretty much did everything wrong. 😂 Do you think I can manifest a full connection and commitment even though there were only sparks but no fire?
Ofc you can! You answered your own question in this entire post! 😂 🙏🏾 Your self concept was lower than it ever had been. When you fix your SC, everything falls into place afterward. Focus on how you want to feel instead of who. Your subconscious knows who you want, so you have to trust it and focus on the feeling of having it and the feeling of a strong SC! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There Hm! "Focus on the feeling, not the who." 🗝 TYSM! ❤🙏
@@she-surrendered1234 The conscious is masculine and the subconscious is feminine. Together in cohesion, is how we manifest our dreams. I say that to say, trust your subconscious as a man should trust this beloved wife. She knows who you want but she'll abide by seeking the feeling first.
BTW, join our facebook group! facebook.com/groups/355701380571120/@@she-surrendered1234
@@Here-Nor-There Brilliantly explained!… just joined under the name Harmony Sanaa. 🙂
What if u begged , and did all the crazy, is manifesting them still possible?
Circumstances don’t matter. I made all of those mistakes and manifested my SP. It’s still possible ✨ but you have to 110% focus on self concept.
@@Here-Nor-There thanks.. what if nagged during the relationship? I felt like I was always trying to control things I was worried simply because he cheated before.. due to that he said I don’t give him peace and he don’t love me anymore.. is it still possible? Can u change so someone mind if they say the don’t love you?
Excellent! Just Excellent 👌
We have broken up multiple times she has always been the one to leave me and come back, I always accept her back we are back broken up again sence Dec of 2023 I am hurting it’s very painful I am trying very hard to improve myself but I pray all is not lost I really do love her just don’t know if she feels the same for me
We’ve all been there my friend. As difficult as it feels, you have to focus on your self concept. She will feel for you what you feel about yourself. 💯
Thanks a lot for your good videos❤
Glad you like them!
I always wondered, what if i break up, and i want another person, but my ex does all the manifesting techniques to get me back? Many people on YT say you can manifest an SP, he will start thinking about you, and like you, etc, but no one talks about what this SP wants? What if i break up, and my SP is someone else, but my ex does all the things to manifest me back? So do i get what i want or does she gets what she wants? Would she manifest me back even if i wanted to break up? Would she manifest me and i would somehow like her more now? What about the SP that i wanted and tried to manifest? Can someone explain? Thanks :)
Ofc. Valid questions.
The long explanation: this is why you’re not supposed to worry about the HOW. Your questions are focusing on how it happens. That’s not under your control nor can anyone explain how it works. You leave that up to your subconscious just like you’re not worried about HOW you’re breathing, blinking, and digesting food. If you don’t need answers about that, you don’t need answers about how manifestation works. The process of how it all works out is beyond our comprehension. So, we just focus on the WHAT and allow the rest of the factors play out themselves.
The short explanation: parallel dimensions.
@@Here-Nor-Thereliterally the best answer ever!!
Q: What is the ideal way to respond when you are unexpectedly triggered by your 3D, especially what your SP is throwing at you (in a hurtful way) and understanding he's a reflection of you? How do you positively combat these triggers as you continue working on reprogramming your subconscious? Side note: My SP and I live in the same house. Thanks in advance for your feedback!
Change your reaction by changing yourself concept. Remove yourself from the situation as best as possible until then. This may cause for you to spend more time to yourself or away doing hobbies.
@@Here-Nor-There Thank you!
I love this! Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
Im just curious should we visualize everyday or just once in a while because if we visualize everyday how do we detach from their thought? Could you please clarify and help out
Once, as you fall asleep! Especially if detachment is the goal before it arrives
@@Here-Nor-There Appreciate the response😀
Sorry I'm just a bit new to this but just one more question, if my sp has currently broken up with me and doesn't feel in love with me, if I manifest marriage wouldn't that delay the manifestation as currently we weren't planning on getting married, it was to happen after a few years but I do want him back in my life as my boyfriend again. So what would you suggest to visualize? Please help out.Thanks!
If marriage is the end goal, I would visualize what your life would be like with him after you two are happily married and living together. The focus should be on the end, after it is done. Try not to focus on what the 3D world is showing you, and live in the assumption that you are already together. If believing you two will get married is too difficult or too far away from what you feel now, you can become the vibration of getting back together in love, and be careful not to go back to the past self concept once you start being in a relationship again. It can be easy to fall into old habits after something shifts to what you want. Everything changes. What the 3D may look like now can and will change, and if you focus on loving yourself as much as possible, and focus on the belief that your ex loves you and wants to be back in your life, that is what will be created. Loving yourself is one of the most beneficial things you can do in life. Of course he and many other people want to be with you, because you're amazing. Calmly persist, and remember that his love is no more important than the love you emanate towards yourself and your world, sweetheart.
What a lovely and clear explanation, thank you so much!!This really helps me stay motivated!☺️🤗
he breakup with me 2 days ago. .he said he don't want relationship....he wants friendship to continue but i refuse....i want him
These are just words. I’ve experience the same. If you want a relationship, you should most certainly not agree to a friendship. However, keep your reactions to a minimum. Try your best not to respond or bargain. Work on your self concept, and only your SC, through affirmations for the time being. You got this!
Manifest your ex back? This seems very odd to me. You cannot control ppl. I loved all your videos but this one. these laws are not witch craft. We have no authority over other ppl. If someone chooses to not be with you. Heal and move on.
I didn't mentioning anything about controlling anyone outside of YOURSELF. EIYPO is about changing what is within you and reality will reflect that change. That concept is the exact opposite of what you interpreted it to be, but regardless, thank you for watching!
@@iworkforme Perfectly said.
She’s 20 and i am 28 … we’ve been 3 months NC. Part of me feels like the thoughts about the age difference is blocking me from assuming that we can workout a second time around. I want her back because i know we can cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Bur again the different life paths is whats keeping me from fully assuming we can work out
I am 10+ years older than my lady and we are of different races/culture. Nothing is impossible my friend.
@@Here-Nor-There i appreciate the reply! I think i just need self-concept work and to leave the old story behind/keep on visualizing the wish fulfilled. Thank you for this, I definitely believe her and I can make it work the second time around. Definitely don’t think i should be breaking no contact though. I believe i can attract her back.
Wow thank you!!
You're welcome!!
While you are waiting for your sp to come back, is it okay to date for companionship or should you wait? Still doing all steps
Yes. I was dating my ass off 😂 It’s a slippery slope when trying to explain it. However, I’d never recommend waiting on a desire. You should be enjoying life. Don’t date as a distraction! Date because you genuinely want to experience love and adoration. That will cause you to shift into the state of someone who’s loved and adored then SP will be around the corner when you’re already feeling that way. Remember, you’re not manifesting a SP. You’re manifesting love/marriage/commitment but choosing SP as the vessel to experience it with. Which means you should be feeling loved every day no matter if they are around or not. Some people can do it without dating, others cannot. If you’re asking this question, that means you probably fall in the latter category. Gone out there and let these folks treat you like a Queen! 👑 😉
@@Here-Nor-There Thank you sooo very much for taking the time to respond. Yes I am usually the latter lol.
We've all been there! lol@@scripturallove8567
I would really appreciate a vídeo explaining what we should be doing during the no-contact and how to shift… i mean, putting all the information together. Love ❤❤❤
Hello sir can i ask a question
If a man addicted to porn and masturbation and this man have not masculine energy at all
Can this man still manifest his sp??
Yeah, stop jacking off tho lol.
Is this applies to a new person too? I mean he is not entirely new but we arent a couple back then.
Yes
Phenomenal
Hi, I am wondering how do you let her know that you have changed, do you post on social media or just let it be? Or you just let the universe work on the process and you live in the result, feel in the result and believe in the result.
I broke up with her for 5 months and nc for 2 months. She got someone new but I don't feel sad or bad, coz I know I live in the result, I just recently started law of assumption, I want to live a life with her. All your pov are valid and similar to what I have learned from law of assumption. All I need to do is live my own life with my highest potential.
You don’t inform anyone of change. Just change and the world will reflect back to you. No effort involved.
@@Here-Nor-There Could you explain how can I improve my self-concept?
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Are you also on instagram Sean?
instagram.com/heren0rthere?igsh=MTN1YWg4YnBqYmJ4dQ%3D%3D&
I need to manifest 2 breakups first.
Word?
Question? How long we do these techniques? Till the scene manifests? Just keep doing it and believing it will come? Love the channel bro! Amazing stuff. I subbed!
Thank you! You are only required to do it once. If it feels good? Do it as much as you want. If it feels like a burden, chore or difficult….or if you feel impatient….just do it 1-2x and let it grow 🌱
Will it work for someone who I never dated but I really want to show me interest
Of course!
@@Here-Nor-There thank you! Btw i left a comment on another video saying you should never stop doing what you do. Within days you completely changed my mindset, i guess i manifested you into my life somehow😅 stay blessed and keep blessing us with content❤️
Can you give smaller assignments " Manifesting that Ex " for me has blocks
Sure! First, you should stop affirming that you have ANY blocks. Instead of manifesting smaller things that you’re indifferent about, visualize your ex one last time then let it go. Focus on manifesting things that are entirely about you and no one else. Manifest a compliment, a free meal or a reduction in a bill that you have to pay. Work on your SC. The entire time in the background, your initial ex manifestation is working.
@@Here-Nor-There / ok thanks
But how do you maintain a high self concept if you’re guilty of causing the break?
@@smcc77 I've been there. You have to forgive yourself for what you did to cause the break. Then you have to forgive her if there's any resentment you have for her not taking you back or if she contributed it to the break itself. Neville speaks about forgiveness A LOT in his writings but I rarely hear this mentioned in the LOASS community. I believe writing things down and meditation helps with this. Write down what you feel guilty of. Meditate on it then forgive yourself. Burn the piece of paper you wrote it down on. It's not magic, but it sends a strong signal to your subconscious that you're ready to see past this pain.
Can we manifest an ex for the second time?
I did it, so yes, you can too.
Does this work for situationships
Nah.
I hear a lot that we should go to the end for example (marriage) but if iam in no contact there is so much resistance to visualize marriage while i know iam in no contact sometimes it’s makes me triggered and sad but maybe visualize a text would be less resistance to my mind i think it’s called manifesting in steps
I would highly recommend that you do NOT manifest in steps. If you manifest a text, it will be JUST a text. The circumstances will not change afterward. I speak from experience. However, if you’re having trouble visualizing a marriage scene, then I’d recommend you do NOT envision a marriage scene! Instead, visualize something that implies that you’re already married. Try this: visualize driving down the street in your car and feeling your wedding ring around your finger. Leave the SP out of it. Visualize that sort of scene then allow your subconscious to deliver it to you through the bridge of incidents. I was in NC this time last year with my SP and now we’re engaged. This is how I did it. You can do it too! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There that was really helpful thank you so much ❤️
Can u make a video of manifest money?
I can and will. It will be up next week!
@@Here-Nor-There Thank u so much
@@Here-Nor-There i have a question I don't understand where I did wrong ... I am manifesting my university..but I failed to manifesting...I am living in the end also I don't have any fear ...can u please tell me about my mistake?
My friend, your background mirrors mine EXACTLY
wow, I knew theres a reason I'm here
Yes it is! We have great taste my friend! 🤌🏾
Just FYI he is not manifesting me back by doing all of that shit with another girl. Its making me hate him for not considering the after effects of those actions on me later. He is intentionally misbehaving because we wouldnt be allowed to bring it up later.
Nobody is manifesting in your reality but you.
I am unsure if it's right for me to want a man I feel doesn't want him.
You should continue to study quantum physics in relation to the law. We’re dealing with multiple realities just like we’re dealing with multiple frequencies when it comes to radio stations.
@Here-Nor-There hmmn. So much I need to let go off.
Doggo in the back 🤩
Doing jumping jacks 😂
@@Here-Nor-There lol
Loved it man. I made my own notes. Just wanted to know - Do we visualize everyday before going to bed?
What's your take on affirmation of getting her back? I know you said the affirmations need to be about your ownself but I wanted to know your take on this.
Keep up the good work man. Have been following your content lately and loved it.
Yo! I wouldn’t affirm for her. Affirm for yourself and she will see you as that. So, if you want to marry her, affirm that you’re an amazing husband. Your subconscious will do the rest 💯
Shaun 🥹 or Sean, im so sorry.
So i been watching your vids, cz for me, manifesting sounds interesting when YOU the one who explain it.
I have a question, i been in 2 months of no contact. He was the one who initiated the breakup. I keep praying for him idk why. Is this okay while you improving your SC? I thought I supposed to just visualize him once and that’s it. But i found myself keep pray for him. Is that ok? And please share your SP journey to us ❤️ some of us like to hear it. Thankyou so much!
Stop praying. You must act as if you already have it and you wouldn’t be praying every night if you did. You’ve been heard already! Focus on SC only from here out!
Hey Bro!
Awesome channel, you have a very clear no nonsense approach to the subject you are explaining.
I just have a quick question. Im in NC, working hard on me.
It is her birthday in a few days, and Im in 2 minds over whether I should reach out and send a happy birthday text, or should I just rest in my power and wait for her to reach out to me?
Im guessing by the way Im asking the question, I know the answer is the latter, but I'd be most grateful for a quick line on your thoughts.
Thanks, and 'grats on reaching the 1k sub mark!
And thank you so much for the congrats! 🙏🏾
@@Here-Nor-There No problem, credit where it is due!