1. Don't beg persuade or pleed, don't interact or message first 2. Forgive, don't wait to live your life go out find your passions 3. Give gratitude for the good things you already have 4. Define exactly what you want (example to get married and have kids) 5. Find a living in the end technique (example visualize, affirm etc) 6. Change your reactions, if something you don't like happens in 3D you control your reactions 7. Self concept affirmations (embody the identity you want), and live by it
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public. I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on TH-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over. I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated! When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly. Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
This is great. Very profound and edifying.I love how direct you are and how you use the term "she" or for us women, "he" whereas other channels use "they"... I appreciate your videos.
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
i fw your words bro basically take accountability for who you are and become someone she will be energetically attracted to in order to get her back in your life. i appreciate this video, especially from the perspective of an intellectual black man
Just finding this video 10 months after you posted and the timing is perfect for me. I’m already married, but she wants out. The points you make still apply to me. I was down feeling hopeless, but I’m encouraged by this now. Thank you for your message my Brother! 🙏🏾
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: th-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
You're content is just great. There are many manifestation videos out there but no one really do it in step by step even tho they did it they were not as clear as you. Thank you posting this❤
wow! what a great video. Thank you for all of it. I've been binge watching manifestation videos for almost a month and that one hit home. Appreciate you.
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married. Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
My intention is to have him back and love each other better than we did before and I want to marry him. I have also changed my self concept. I know I'm beautiful and valuable! I live my life to the fullest without him. I'm actually experiencing what it feels to "be in love with myself "! ❤
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message. Thank you very much
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
Hi! I just started watching your channel and I must say this is top notch quality 😊 I wanted to ask tho, is it possible to manifest WHILE working on your selfconcept at the same time or should you do it one by one? Thank you! I hope you answer my question 🙋🏻♀️
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
Question? How long we do these techniques? Till the scene manifests? Just keep doing it and believing it will come? Love the channel bro! Amazing stuff. I subbed!
Thank you! You are only required to do it once. If it feels good? Do it as much as you want. If it feels like a burden, chore or difficult….or if you feel impatient….just do it 1-2x and let it grow 🌱
Agree with most of your content...however if a woman is forced to reach out, it puts her in a masculine energy and that is never good. A man should always be the one to contact first! Especially if he is the reason for the separation.
Im usually in agreement with the man doing the pursuing but in this case where she's the one that left the relationship, it would t be ok for him to pursue her. She doesn't want it, so she would need to be the one wanting to communicate with him
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Hi! Congratulations🎉. Quick question. What if the only group i hangout with includes my person? If i hangout with them i easily get triggered. So can i just stop hanging out them even tho only with them i hangout?
Q: What is the ideal way to respond when you are unexpectedly triggered by your 3D, especially what your SP is throwing at you (in a hurtful way) and understanding he's a reflection of you? How do you positively combat these triggers as you continue working on reprogramming your subconscious? Side note: My SP and I live in the same house. Thanks in advance for your feedback!
Change your reaction by changing yourself concept. Remove yourself from the situation as best as possible until then. This may cause for you to spend more time to yourself or away doing hobbies.
I am manifesting my ex back and I got triggered by seeing a picture on his social media. I got upset and now I can't get it out of my mind. It suddenly pops out.what should I do about this?
Take a break from social media. You don’t have to unfollow your ex or delete your profile, just take a break. Social media can ruin the perception of your manifestation. More often than not, it’s just triggering and knocks you out of the state of having. While you’re taking a break, focus ONLY on your self concept and all will turn out in your favor! 💯
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.@@kisararamudi6431
What if the affection or connection was never fully established? I saw potential for these things to manifest and I believe he was trying to program me into wanting to be his wife. He was showing me Nigerian weddings the second time we met. Lol. (He’s from Nigeria, I’m Afro American) When we met, I was experiencing the peak of “Daddy issues” and my self concept was lower than ever so I can see how he was trying to connect but I was open but super closed at the same time. I was too vulnerable and in a really dark chaotic time. I think things would have gone differently if I was grounded and in my confidence. And I pretty much did everything wrong. 😂 Do you think I can manifest a full connection and commitment even though there were only sparks but no fire?
Ofc you can! You answered your own question in this entire post! 😂 🙏🏾 Your self concept was lower than it ever had been. When you fix your SC, everything falls into place afterward. Focus on how you want to feel instead of who. Your subconscious knows who you want, so you have to trust it and focus on the feeling of having it and the feeling of a strong SC! 💪🏽
@@she-surrendered1234 The conscious is masculine and the subconscious is feminine. Together in cohesion, is how we manifest our dreams. I say that to say, trust your subconscious as a man should trust this beloved wife. She knows who you want but she'll abide by seeking the feeling first.
Ok l know that l sound too desperate, but l wondering can l manifest back my ex, who doesn’t love me anymore, doesn’t want to have anything with me becouse he is mad almost a year now, we been in no contact 10 months and l reached out before couple days and he ignored me..? Becouse of all circumstances l lose hope.. l really love this person, before l always moved on but now l can’t..l just love him.. it’s hard to belive with all these circumstances..
@@Here-Nor-There i have a question I don't understand where I did wrong ... I am manifesting my university..but I failed to manifesting...I am living in the end also I don't have any fear ...can u please tell me about my mistake?
Yo I needed this . I love this channel and I can’t wait to come back with my success story. I’m gonna fly you to Florida for the wedding. #livinginthewishfulfilled. Living in the end result
@@Here-Nor-There didn’t in one of your other videos you talked about how you scripted for your sp as well? I only ask because I plan on visualizing and affirming and I’d like to add scripting to my manifestation journey as well.
Just found this video. She betrayed me and lied to me. My love goes beyond that, we had something beautiful for 5 years and it was my third big relationship. Not sure if I have to focus on finding a new better partner or have her back the way we were. How do I understand what's right?
Forgive yourself first, then forgive her. Your subconscious mind will guide you to the right answer and the right person once you release the pain and resentment.
@Here-Nor-There it felt so magical and right, even through hard times he had so much fun together, it was mutual and unconditional. We had the longest honeymoon I've ever heard of. There was something there and we both know it. I can't understand how she could treat me this way, we were watching life through the same pair of eyes. I'm not inexperienced, crazy or something. It just doesn't make any sense
She’s 20 and i am 28 … we’ve been 3 months NC. Part of me feels like the thoughts about the age difference is blocking me from assuming that we can workout a second time around. I want her back because i know we can cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Bur again the different life paths is whats keeping me from fully assuming we can work out
@@Here-Nor-There i appreciate the reply! I think i just need self-concept work and to leave the old story behind/keep on visualizing the wish fulfilled. Thank you for this, I definitely believe her and I can make it work the second time around. Definitely don’t think i should be breaking no contact though. I believe i can attract her back.
Heyy! I have been focusing on my self concept for a month or two now and I surely feel changes in myself and how I react to circumstances but how can I know for sure whether I’ve changed or if there is something more unresolved feelings in me which is obstructing him coming back?
Hi! (1) Your reactions and (2) how much are you enjoying life. When you’re not looking for it, meaning you’re enjoying life as is, that’s the key indicator
@@Here-Nor-There thank you so much for the instant reply! Already subscribed for the detailed explanations and making it so easy! Yeah I think that’s the part im missing out on. I’m constantly searching for results. But no worries! He’ll come on his own😁
I have been manifesting my SP for more than a year. I had a similar story like yours. But what if I have a good SC (how do I know I have to change it) ? All that have happened is the opposite and the No Contact made him moved on (this is what he has been telling me the times he reached out and that he wants his stuff from the apartment). I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I am living my life with friends and family. Doing things I love. So I have done every method and advices. I really want to experience have a life with him and being married.
You know your SC has changed based off of your choices and that you're not still wondering if it's changed. You will feel it without having to validate it!
coach I was the in who broke up with him, we decided to stay friends and during that time i begged him a lot to fix everything but he just gave up on us so few days after i inciated no contact and blocked him on text and unfollowed him on socials..its been almost 2 months and the relationship was short termed and we're quite young too.. (20yrs) but i just feel like he's the one..is there any hope coach? can I get him back? Its his bday soon too..what should I do coach?
Will your "sp" always come back after you've done the self concept work? What if you've done so much to push them away with your behavior and it seems like things will never be the same or better. Do you still persist and know they will return?
@Here-Nor-There I wish we could, but he is harboring a ton of resentment and anger. He chooses not to forgive and would rather be passive-aggressive. Idk what to do. There is no peace.
I hear a lot that we should go to the end for example (marriage) but if iam in no contact there is so much resistance to visualize marriage while i know iam in no contact sometimes it’s makes me triggered and sad but maybe visualize a text would be less resistance to my mind i think it’s called manifesting in steps
I would highly recommend that you do NOT manifest in steps. If you manifest a text, it will be JUST a text. The circumstances will not change afterward. I speak from experience. However, if you’re having trouble visualizing a marriage scene, then I’d recommend you do NOT envision a marriage scene! Instead, visualize something that implies that you’re already married. Try this: visualize driving down the street in your car and feeling your wedding ring around your finger. Leave the SP out of it. Visualize that sort of scene then allow your subconscious to deliver it to you through the bridge of incidents. I was in NC this time last year with my SP and now we’re engaged. This is how I did it. You can do it too! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There thanks.. what if nagged during the relationship? I felt like I was always trying to control things I was worried simply because he cheated before.. due to that he said I don’t give him peace and he don’t love me anymore.. is it still possible? Can u change so someone mind if they say the don’t love you?
We have broken up multiple times she has always been the one to leave me and come back, I always accept her back we are back broken up again sence Dec of 2023 I am hurting it’s very painful I am trying very hard to improve myself but I pray all is not lost I really do love her just don’t know if she feels the same for me
We’ve all been there my friend. As difficult as it feels, you have to focus on your self concept. She will feel for you what you feel about yourself. 💯
Sure! First, you should stop affirming that you have ANY blocks. Instead of manifesting smaller things that you’re indifferent about, visualize your ex one last time then let it go. Focus on manifesting things that are entirely about you and no one else. Manifest a compliment, a free meal or a reduction in a bill that you have to pay. Work on your SC. The entire time in the background, your initial ex manifestation is working.
@@smcc77 I've been there. You have to forgive yourself for what you did to cause the break. Then you have to forgive her if there's any resentment you have for her not taking you back or if she contributed it to the break itself. Neville speaks about forgiveness A LOT in his writings but I rarely hear this mentioned in the LOASS community. I believe writing things down and meditation helps with this. Write down what you feel guilty of. Meditate on it then forgive yourself. Burn the piece of paper you wrote it down on. It's not magic, but it sends a strong signal to your subconscious that you're ready to see past this pain.
Should someone delete their SP's number to stay in power and increase self concept? Or is it fine to not delete. Or is it that worrying whether to delete or keep itself is an issue.
Only think and focus on the outcome you want. Don't focus on how and why? Just persist that you guys are already together. Keep persisting. No going back
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1. Don't beg persuade or pleed, don't interact or message first
2. Forgive, don't wait to live your life go out find your passions
3. Give gratitude for the good things you already have
4. Define exactly what you want (example to get married and have kids)
5. Find a living in the end technique (example visualize, affirm etc)
6. Change your reactions, if something you don't like happens in 3D you control your reactions
7. Self concept affirmations (embody the identity you want), and live by it
You could also visualize a person close to you telling you congratulations on the new wedding …it makes it easier to believe
There you go! Exactly. It is much easier to visualize moments that confirm what you have rather than the actual moment (i.e. the wedding).
You're really good. Channel will blow up, same old info of course but so well put/ formatted. Amazing work.
Thank you! 🙏🏾 There’s nothing new under the sun but it’s my intention to bring a different approach to it. I appreciate you taking the time to leave your thoughts.
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agreed!!
I have reached out many times through phone calls, texts, emails, and running into her in public.
I’m working on forgiving myself for doing all of that. My end is I am in a healthier, stronger, loving and committed marriage with her.
Goodness me! This channel is awesome, he’s talking like he’s coaching us my goodness I’m subscribing now
Welcome aboard! 🫶🏾
He's mine, he can't stop thinking of me, he belong to me hes obsessed even if he hide it. He's coming back for sure
Wow! Where were you all this time?? You’re very good.
You really reverse-engineered tffff outta this! 🔧 I enjoy how you structure your thoughts & teachings. Thank you for sharing!
🤣 💀 That’s what I do! I’m just grateful that I’m finally putting it to good use. Thank you!
Your channel is one of the best I’ve encountered here on TH-cam. You’re very reassuring. Especially since people who search for LOA are people who are looking for solutions to their problems that seems impossible (but I know it’s not) to fix. I just keep repeating your videos over and over.
I keep hearing about fixing your SELF CONCEPT, how do you really do it when you’re feeling so miserable though? When you sob every after word you utter? And what if you’ve already “begged,” will you still be able to redeem yourself?
Thank you for supporting my content. It’s much appreciated!
When your feeling miserable, you have to shift your attention to things that do not make you feel miserable. You’re feeling miserable because you’re hyper focusing on the 1-2 things that aren’t going the way you want them to while ignoring the dozens of things that are going your way. The way out is gratitude, everyday for everything that IS going correctly.
Begging is not irreversible. This is something I’d have to walk through on a 1on1 session though.
@@Here-Nor-There the info for you 1on1 isn’t on TH-cam?
Amazing, i was actually thinking this today cos i was affirming for him for months and nothing. So decided to affirm for me and then your video pops up..thank you so much..love from Dubai
You are so welcome
I love that you say No Contact is important when manifesting an Ex back because YOU will need the space to grow and fulfill yourself. Again, your SP won't fulfill you. They will only be a reflection of your already fulfilled being
I love this comment! Thank you for leaving this wonderful insight and wifey and I thank you for the well wishes ❤️
yo - this channel is awesome. thank you so much for sharing
Thank you! 🙏🏾
This is great. Very profound and edifying.I love how direct you are and how you use the term "she" or for us women, "he" whereas other channels use "they"... I appreciate your videos.
Great video! Sadly, my two-year relationship ended a month ago. The person I thought was the love of my life decided to leave, and I’m still deeply in love with him. I can’t stop thinking about him, and despite all my efforts to win him back, nothing has worked. I feel so frustrated and can’t imagine being with anyone else. No matter what I do, he’s always on my mind, and I miss him terribly.
Letting go of someone you love is incredibly hard. I went through a similar experience when my twelve-year relationship ended. I couldn't bear to lose him, so I did everything I could to rekindle our relationship. Eventually, I sought the help of a spiritual counselor, who guided us back together.
Wow, that’s incredible! How did you find a spiritual counselor, and how can I get in touch with him?
His name is Father Abulu and he’s an amazing spiritual counselor who specializes in helping people reconnect with their ex.
Thank you so much for the suggestion you have no idea how much this means to me.
i fw your words bro basically take accountability for who you are and become someone she will be energetically attracted to in order to get her back in your life. i appreciate this video, especially from the perspective of an intellectual black man
I am glad it resonated with you!
Just finding this video 10 months after you posted and the timing is perfect for me. I’m already married, but she wants out. The points you make still apply to me. I was down feeling hopeless, but I’m encouraged by this now. Thank you for your message my Brother! 🙏🏾
You’re welcome! It’s never too late for transformation! 🙏🏾
You are a solid dude. You have a new follower.
🫡 I appreciate you
this channel is gold
Love your work, brother
Grateful for You!
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Even though your audience seems to be men, this resonated! The best explanation I’ve come across
Thank you! This video was for the men but my audience is majority female 😄 There’s an equivalent video for the ladies: th-cam.com/video/7PF_kRksji0/w-d-xo.htmlsi=8SpJFWn4Uzd-K3Lu
@@Here-Nor-There ohh okay 😅 thanks for the link too!
You have such a calm and reasurring voice. I was feeling anxious before watching your video and now I feel at ease. Thank you 🙏🏼
Hi Shawn, damn i was blown away by explanation. This is the first channel that actually breaks it down step by step, trust me I've watched alot and they've left me feeling more confused. Thank you, i just subscribed. God bless 🙏🏼
Aww, the doggy in the back is so cute.
And it actually worked thank you!
Congrats! Would love to hear your story on our next livestream
@Here-Nor-There bro you cant beleive how it happened. 6 months aho i texted her i miss you then she blocked me after that i compeletly gave up on it until i found you I exactly followed your steps. I did gratitude everyday i was enjoying myself meanwhile i was feelng like sh... but i forced myself to enjoy and mind my buisiness. I can say one night i was walking home i was damn hopeless about her comeback i checked her profile pictures meanwhile i was feeling like nothing but sh... i still owned my business. Bro 10 mins later i heard a notification and when i opened it up that was her... i was like wtf?! Am i dreaming or what. She texted me like hey long time no see cutie. So i set up a date with her. Yeaterday i met her. God bless you bro...
@@white_heaven9372how's things now
You're content is just great. There are many manifestation videos out there but no one really do it in step by step even tho they did it they were not as clear as you. Thank you posting this❤
I'm so glad it resonated with you! 🙌🏾
So incredibly good I had to rewatch it right after I finished
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wow! what a great video. Thank you for all of it. I've been binge watching manifestation videos for almost a month and that one hit home. Appreciate you.
I am so glad you resonate with it! 🙌🏾
Perfect. Thanks 👐
You're welcome!
Absolutely, 100% described my situation.... And I absolutely 𝘬𝘯𝘰𝘸 - it's not thay we "get back" - but we actually start new, amazing, fulfilling love and build a family and get married.
Thank you SO much for putting up this video. You're fantastic!
Thank you!
Implementing these starting now 🙏🏾
You got this 💪🏽
You’re right. There’s only love & fear ✨
Your channel is going to blow up! I just found your channel today and you explain things so very well! Thank you Shawn!!
Thank you for the much appreciated prediction! I’m glad we’ve found each other! More to come! 👏🏾
This video is sooooo awesoooomeee! Thank you!
Glad it helped!
Yes, I'm sure!! You said her name in one video ( all the proof i needed)
you’re fkn incredible. absolute mastermind delivery and coherent storytelling. THANK YOU
Well spoken buddy, keep it up
Much appreciated! 🫡
My intention is to have him back and love each other better than we did before and I want to marry him. I have also changed my self concept. I know I'm beautiful and valuable! I live my life to the fullest without him. I'm actually experiencing what it feels to "be in love with myself "! ❤
I'd love to hear your success story when it happens!
Amazing video! Wow simple and easy. I’ll be back 😉
Very good video my friend i appreciate it! Keep it going!!
Yessir! 💯
This was such a fantastic summary
So glad I found you
Me too!
New subscriber!
Welcome aboard! 🙏🏾
Loved it. This applies to any desire one may have which is easy to see because of how well you explained it. Love your channel my dude, keep disciplining. Much love and respect from California.
Yes, this applies to all desires but creators tend to think it’s different when it comes to love. I appreciate you stopping by and giving such great feedback! 🫡💯
@@Here-Nor-There Yes Sir, so true. Thank you!!
@@Here-Nor-There and congratulations on the engagement!!!!
This was a really succinct, but and exactly what I needed. Thank you, sir.
Thank you 🙏🏾
This was awesome. Thank you! 🙏
You’re welcome!
Amazing .. Have really come to enjoy your videos. Very informative. The tone of your voice is also soothing, makes it easy to focus on the message.
Thank you very much
Great vidéo bro
This was a great video. Very clear and to the point. So glad I found your channel!
So for me to get the deposits of my inheritances I first need to change my self concept: from needy desperate to Creator confident I get what I choose.
I have everything I desire.
Isn't it wonderful.
I am grateful.
Thank you. 🙏🙏
masterpiece, nothing to say about, perfect speak ! thanks bro
Thank you brother! 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾
This is such awesome advice 🔥
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Hi! I just started watching your channel and I must say this is top notch quality 😊 I wanted to ask tho, is it possible to manifest WHILE working on your selfconcept at the same time or should you do it one by one? Thank you! I hope you answer my question 🙋🏻♀️
Yes of course! In fact, things will start to happen automatically as your concept of self improves. Be sure not to accidentally ignore it!
Thank u! U got my subscription
Glad to have it! 🙏🏾
Ok. I’ve been watching your videos so sorry to flood you with questions. Your content is so clear and gives me hope. How do we go about when ur with ur SP but their behavior sometimes is upsetting and triggering. Those habits that bothered you before how do u not let it cause conflict and trigger you. I’ve been meditating affirmations for some time now.
Sometimes its best to take a break from them (if you can) so it can allow your mind to view them (and yourself) differently.
Thank you 🙏🏽 ❤ BEST ON YT THUS FAR!!!!
Wow thank you!!
You're welcome!!
Question? How long we do these techniques? Till the scene manifests? Just keep doing it and believing it will come? Love the channel bro! Amazing stuff. I subbed!
Thank you! You are only required to do it once. If it feels good? Do it as much as you want. If it feels like a burden, chore or difficult….or if you feel impatient….just do it 1-2x and let it grow 🌱
Excellent! Just Excellent 👌
Thanks a lot for your good videos❤
Glad you like them!
I love this! Thank you ❤
You're so welcome!
Your voice is so soothing and hypnotic 🫶🏼
Haaaa! Thank you 😊 🙏🏾
Thank you for this structured information! 99% of LOA ex back videos are just scattered ramblings.
Thank you! I lived it so it’s much easier to speak on
Agree with most of your content...however if a woman is forced to reach out, it puts her in a masculine energy and that is never good. A man should always be the one to contact first! Especially if he is the reason for the separation.
Disagree. Have a nice day!
Partially agree but there could also be circumstances where u end up reaching her or vice vera. But what happens will be the best for u.
@@Here-Nor-Thereit is masculine for a woman to do that, I’ve felt horribly masculine every time I was forced to
Im usually in agreement with the man doing the pursuing but in this case where she's the one that left the relationship, it would t be ok for him to pursue her. She doesn't want it, so she would need to be the one wanting to communicate with him
Curious as to how you reconnected with your fiancé? How did you initiate that?
I didn’t. I did the steps I outlined and she reached out to me once I reached my authentic self - which was already being happy, fulfilled and satisfied with my life before she reached out.
Watching this video after 3 months is hitting different
Oh!?
What if your blocked, chased for a year, and was threatened with a restraining order, and now it’s been a year of no contact lol
Let’s start with making sure you didn’t manifest yourself onto a restraining order first 😂 then we can proceed
Phenomenal
Hi! Congratulations🎉. Quick question. What if the only group i hangout with includes my person? If i hangout with them i easily get triggered. So can i just stop hanging out them even tho only with them i hangout?
Yes you can!
Sending love and peace from Barbados💪🏾💯🇧🇧
I love my SP.. I want my SP...Only my SP... Thank you so much for your help.. Really appreciate your video's.. Thank you..
Q: What is the ideal way to respond when you are unexpectedly triggered by your 3D, especially what your SP is throwing at you (in a hurtful way) and understanding he's a reflection of you? How do you positively combat these triggers as you continue working on reprogramming your subconscious? Side note: My SP and I live in the same house. Thanks in advance for your feedback!
Change your reaction by changing yourself concept. Remove yourself from the situation as best as possible until then. This may cause for you to spend more time to yourself or away doing hobbies.
@@Here-Nor-There Thank you!
I am manifesting my ex back and I got triggered by seeing a picture on his social media. I got upset and now I can't get it out of my mind. It suddenly pops out.what should I do about this?
Take a break from social media. You don’t have to unfollow your ex or delete your profile, just take a break. Social media can ruin the perception of your manifestation. More often than not, it’s just triggering and knocks you out of the state of having. While you’re taking a break, focus ONLY on your self concept and all will turn out in your favor! 💯
Yes I got it, Thank you ✨
I have been in such a situation. My relationship ended about three years ago, but i could not let him go. So i had to do all i could to get him back, i had to seek the help of a spiritual adviser who helped me bring him back. We are back together, and i must say i am enjoying every moment.@@kisararamudi6431
circumstances don't matter
I used to say that master Oogway quote all the time… synchronicity.
Does this works for someone who is not willing to commit?
Beautiful
Thank you
What if the affection or connection was never fully established? I saw potential for these things to manifest and I believe he was trying to program me into wanting to be his wife. He was showing me Nigerian weddings the second time we met. Lol. (He’s from Nigeria, I’m Afro American) When we met, I was experiencing the peak of “Daddy issues” and my self concept was lower than ever so I can see how he was trying to connect but I was open but super closed at the same time. I was too vulnerable and in a really dark chaotic time. I think things would have gone differently if I was grounded and in my confidence. And I pretty much did everything wrong. 😂 Do you think I can manifest a full connection and commitment even though there were only sparks but no fire?
Ofc you can! You answered your own question in this entire post! 😂 🙏🏾 Your self concept was lower than it ever had been. When you fix your SC, everything falls into place afterward. Focus on how you want to feel instead of who. Your subconscious knows who you want, so you have to trust it and focus on the feeling of having it and the feeling of a strong SC! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There Hm! "Focus on the feeling, not the who." 🗝 TYSM! ❤🙏
@@she-surrendered1234 The conscious is masculine and the subconscious is feminine. Together in cohesion, is how we manifest our dreams. I say that to say, trust your subconscious as a man should trust this beloved wife. She knows who you want but she'll abide by seeking the feeling first.
BTW, join our facebook group! facebook.com/groups/355701380571120/@@she-surrendered1234
@@Here-Nor-There Brilliantly explained!… just joined under the name Harmony Sanaa. 🙂
Ok l know that l sound too desperate, but l wondering can l manifest back my ex, who doesn’t love me anymore, doesn’t want to have anything with me becouse he is mad almost a year now, we been in no contact 10 months and l reached out before couple days and he ignored me..? Becouse of all circumstances l lose hope.. l really love this person, before l always moved on but now l can’t..l just love him.. it’s hard to belive with all these circumstances..
Circumstances don't matter unless you believe they do!
Can u make a video of manifest money?
I can and will. It will be up next week!
@@Here-Nor-There Thank u so much
@@Here-Nor-There i have a question I don't understand where I did wrong ... I am manifesting my university..but I failed to manifesting...I am living in the end also I don't have any fear ...can u please tell me about my mistake?
Yo I needed this . I love this channel and I can’t wait to come back with my success story. I’m gonna fly you to Florida for the wedding. #livinginthewishfulfilled. Living in the end result
Yessir!!! You got this king! ✈️ 🌴
@@Here-Nor-There didn’t in one of your other videos you talked about how you scripted for your sp as well? I only ask because I plan on visualizing and affirming and I’d like to add scripting to my manifestation journey as well.
Yes, I believe that was in the Get Your Ex back video. I'm going to be offering a scripting course very soon though. @@talesis1
Did it in first place ( all those miserable begging) . Am i still in a position to get him back😞
Just found this video. She betrayed me and lied to me. My love goes beyond that, we had something beautiful for 5 years and it was my third big relationship. Not sure if I have to focus on finding a new better partner or have her back the way we were. How do I understand what's right?
Forgive yourself first, then forgive her. Your subconscious mind will guide you to the right answer and the right person once you release the pain and resentment.
@Here-Nor-There thank you for your response. I'm trying to, I'll find the way.
@Here-Nor-There it felt so magical and right, even through hard times he had so much fun together, it was mutual and unconditional. We had the longest honeymoon I've ever heard of. There was something there and we both know it. I can't understand how she could treat me this way, we were watching life through the same pair of eyes. I'm not inexperienced, crazy or something. It just doesn't make any sense
She’s 20 and i am 28 … we’ve been 3 months NC. Part of me feels like the thoughts about the age difference is blocking me from assuming that we can workout a second time around. I want her back because i know we can cultivate a healthy and fulfilling relationship. Bur again the different life paths is whats keeping me from fully assuming we can work out
I am 10+ years older than my lady and we are of different races/culture. Nothing is impossible my friend.
@@Here-Nor-There i appreciate the reply! I think i just need self-concept work and to leave the old story behind/keep on visualizing the wish fulfilled. Thank you for this, I definitely believe her and I can make it work the second time around. Definitely don’t think i should be breaking no contact though. I believe i can attract her back.
Heyy! I have been focusing on my self concept for a month or two now and I surely feel changes in myself and how I react to circumstances but how can I know for sure whether I’ve changed or if there is something more unresolved feelings in me which is obstructing him coming back?
Hi! (1) Your reactions and (2) how much are you enjoying life. When you’re not looking for it, meaning you’re enjoying life as is, that’s the key indicator
@@Here-Nor-There thank you so much for the instant reply! Already subscribed for the detailed explanations and making it so easy! Yeah I think that’s the part im missing out on. I’m constantly searching for results. But no worries! He’ll come on his own😁
Does it matter how many affirmations there is? And how many times a day we should say it or visualize them?
Affirmations don’t manifest it, state of being does. Less focus on the affirmations and more focus on actually being what you’re affirming you are!
@ understood! I will have my success story on manifesting my fiancé back and I will stay persistent
@@Here-Nor-There My SP did reach out to me! We aren’t back together yet but it’s motion!
Affirmations puts you in the state, so they are the key. Saturate your f mind by repetition. Its not for the laziest ones tho.
I don't want him back 😅😂🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉 I'm here alllllllllllll for me
I have been manifesting my SP for more than a year. I had a similar story like yours. But what if I have a good SC (how do I know I have to change it) ? All that have happened is the opposite and the No Contact made him moved on (this is what he has been telling me the times he reached out and that he wants his stuff from the apartment). I don’t know what I am doing wrong. I am living my life with friends and family. Doing things I love. So I have done every method and advices. I really want to experience have a life with him and being married.
You know your SC has changed based off of your choices and that you're not still wondering if it's changed. You will feel it without having to validate it!
coach I was the in who broke up with him, we decided to stay friends and during that time i begged him a lot to fix everything but he just gave up on us so few days after i inciated no contact and blocked him on text and unfollowed him on socials..its been almost 2 months and the relationship was short termed and we're quite young too.. (20yrs) but i just feel like he's the one..is there any hope coach? can I get him back? Its his bday soon too..what should I do coach?
Focus on yourself and he will focus on you. Focus on him and he will focus on himself.
Is this applies to a new person too? I mean he is not entirely new but we arent a couple back then.
Yes
Will your "sp" always come back after you've done the self concept work? What if you've done so much to push them away with your behavior and it seems like things will never be the same or better. Do you still persist and know they will return?
Shawn ı have a question. Is it right to flirt with others while manifest sp ?
Ofc. Your SP is just a person, he’s not Zues 😂 ⚡️
My ex & I broke up, but we still live together due to an unavoidable financial situation. How do you go no contact when you live together?
This is when you forgive and learn to communicate better.
@Here-Nor-There I wish we could, but he is harboring a ton of resentment and anger. He chooses not to forgive and would rather be passive-aggressive. Idk what to do. There is no peace.
I hear a lot that we should go to the end for example (marriage) but if iam in no contact there is so much resistance to visualize marriage while i know iam in no contact sometimes it’s makes me triggered and sad but maybe visualize a text would be less resistance to my mind i think it’s called manifesting in steps
I would highly recommend that you do NOT manifest in steps. If you manifest a text, it will be JUST a text. The circumstances will not change afterward. I speak from experience. However, if you’re having trouble visualizing a marriage scene, then I’d recommend you do NOT envision a marriage scene! Instead, visualize something that implies that you’re already married. Try this: visualize driving down the street in your car and feeling your wedding ring around your finger. Leave the SP out of it. Visualize that sort of scene then allow your subconscious to deliver it to you through the bridge of incidents. I was in NC this time last year with my SP and now we’re engaged. This is how I did it. You can do it too! 💪🏽
@@Here-Nor-There that was really helpful thank you so much ❤️
Any help if I cannot visualise? As in physically cannot , with any thing.
Manifest that you can visualize
What if u begged , and did all the crazy, is manifesting them still possible?
Circumstances don’t matter. I made all of those mistakes and manifested my SP. It’s still possible ✨ but you have to 110% focus on self concept.
@@Here-Nor-There thanks.. what if nagged during the relationship? I felt like I was always trying to control things I was worried simply because he cheated before.. due to that he said I don’t give him peace and he don’t love me anymore.. is it still possible? Can u change so someone mind if they say the don’t love you?
We have broken up multiple times she has always been the one to leave me and come back, I always accept her back we are back broken up again sence Dec of 2023 I am hurting it’s very painful I am trying very hard to improve myself but I pray all is not lost I really do love her just don’t know if she feels the same for me
We’ve all been there my friend. As difficult as it feels, you have to focus on your self concept. She will feel for you what you feel about yourself. 💯
Can you give smaller assignments " Manifesting that Ex " for me has blocks
Sure! First, you should stop affirming that you have ANY blocks. Instead of manifesting smaller things that you’re indifferent about, visualize your ex one last time then let it go. Focus on manifesting things that are entirely about you and no one else. Manifest a compliment, a free meal or a reduction in a bill that you have to pay. Work on your SC. The entire time in the background, your initial ex manifestation is working.
@@Here-Nor-There / ok thanks
But how do you maintain a high self concept if you’re guilty of causing the break?
@@smcc77 I've been there. You have to forgive yourself for what you did to cause the break. Then you have to forgive her if there's any resentment you have for her not taking you back or if she contributed it to the break itself. Neville speaks about forgiveness A LOT in his writings but I rarely hear this mentioned in the LOASS community. I believe writing things down and meditation helps with this. Write down what you feel guilty of. Meditate on it then forgive yourself. Burn the piece of paper you wrote it down on. It's not magic, but it sends a strong signal to your subconscious that you're ready to see past this pain.
Should someone delete their SP's number to stay in power and increase self concept? Or is it fine to not delete. Or is it that worrying whether to delete or keep itself is an issue.
It's definitely the latter option you gave
Hey, my ex is texting me but does not want to comeback . And he is in another country . What should i do ? :(
Only think and focus on the outcome you want. Don't focus on how and why? Just persist that you guys are already together. Keep persisting. No going back
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