proposal + Q&A 💍🤍 he proposed after 2 months of dating, how we met, future kids, wedding plans

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    4:43 you don't show his face often, is it a personal choice of his?
    5:02 how did you two meet? how was your first date?
    6:47 do you both share the same faith?
    7:22 many people say it's too early, how do you feel about that?
    8:23 how/when did you know he was the one?
    11:18 was your proposal a surprise? how did he manage to arrange inside your apartment?
    13:31 are you going to the U.S. with your fiancé to see your parents before the wedding?
    13:48 how do your loved ones feel about you guys getting engaged early on in your relationship?
    14:05 do you plan on having kids in the future?
    14:42 what is your age gap?
    14:50 both of your heights?
    15:06 can we get a full wedding video?
    15:33 how often do you guys speak english vs. korean? did he spend time in the U.S. before?
    16:14 have you talked about where you'll be raising your future kids, whether in korea or U.S.?
    16:50 when did you meet each other's family?
    17:30 are you taking us with you in the preparations of your wedding?
    18:21 do you plan to stay in the penthouse after marriage?
    18:39 are you each other's ideal type that you imagined yourself being with?
    19:40 date night out or stay at home chill date?
    20:17 your proposal is much faster than your furniture
    20:37 where will the wedding be?
    21:24 honeymoon destinations?
    22:09 how does your dream wedding look like? and his dream wedding?
    22:48 why did you choose september as your wedding month?
    23:10 how do you feel about all the big changes coming?
    23:46 will you be doing pre-marital counseling?
    23:59 what you saved each other's name as on your phone?
    24:15 what are some healthy habits you're trying to cultivate in your relationship with your fiancé?
    24:55 how does he feel about your work as a youtube content creator?
    25:41 will you vlog the wedding dress try-on?
    26:14 what song reminds you of your relationship til this point?
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  • @storiesofmilo
    @storiesofmilo 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2068

    "Your proposal is much faster than the furniture" HAHAHA this table has to be at the wedding!! 😂❤

    • @rahaf3512
      @rahaf3512 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      😭😭😭

    • @chocl_8485
      @chocl_8485 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

      LOL this comment took me out. but you didn't even lie though!

    • @xbleu4286
      @xbleu4286 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +46

      She needs a prenup asap.

    • @lunanor
      @lunanor 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      It's a dreamer catch xD

    • @kerbysmith292
      @kerbysmith292 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      lmaooooooooooooooo

  • @sherrid5559
    @sherrid5559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +370

    My blind date proposed after a week, we married 6 months later. This October we celebrate 19 years of marriage ❤ God bless you both x

    • @haninkurdi450
      @haninkurdi450 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      but how?? did it not scare you! I mean this suddent change so quckly..

    • @sherrid5559
      @sherrid5559 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      @haninkurdi450 I know it sounds completely mad, but I just knew (and I don't believe in anything like that, if it were one of my friends I'd have been red flagging them!) I rang my closest family member to tell them I'd met my soul mate the next day. He says he knew too... I still don't quite believe it tbh! 🤣

    • @beramyers8873
      @beramyers8873 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Beautiful. I got proposes to two weeks after our first date. It's been 28 years now for us ❤❤.

  • @cwang3388
    @cwang3388 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +855

    As a fellow 30 year old- Christian also dating a Korean Christian whose father is a missionary (with the intent to marry after dating 1 year), her story resonated with me. I am personally happy to hear that they chose to be responsible and do pre-marital counseling given the really short courting period. I understand but do caution and hope they stick to “dating” and getting to know one another, as people bring a lot of trauma/baggage and it takes time to understand who you are in a relationship and what you are setting yourself up for when seeking a partner. Marriage is a serious life commitment and should not be taken lightly or “glorified” especially during the ‘honeymoon’ phase of a relationship. Remember to always keep God at the center and may He bless your marriage!

    • @Pookipak
      @Pookipak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

      Well said!

    • @Vminkook2seokjoongi
      @Vminkook2seokjoongi 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +64

      You said a mouthful and I agree 100%. Not that my opinion matters but I think people show wait to really see if they want to get married after the honeymoon phase of dating wears off a bit

    • @alelc7429
      @alelc7429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +39

      You said what most of us are thinking in the nicest way possible! But, ultimately they’re old enough to know what they want in life. Wishing them the best.

    • @LindaMoroun
      @LindaMoroun 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I agree wholeheartedly, I got proposed to and married within 2 months. We had to get to know each other within the marriage which was difficult and draining. It 6 years later, still here by the grace of God. But not the same. 2 months is not enough time to learn his true nature and intentions. Mens true nature comes out the moment you say yes. Really ask yourself if you can trust this man with your entire life, spiritual, mental, physical, financial...As in you can close your eyes and let him live or make decisions for you until death do you part. As christian once we women say yes. Your vowels hold you are giving up the most. So on top of premarital counseling study the wedding vows as well an consider a really long engagement. I know my opinion doesn't matter, but i know i would've loved to see a note to make me think like this prior to saying yes & marrying within 2 months.

    • @loveforgood7520
      @loveforgood7520 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Yes, but also keep in mind that wether a Christian or not people can make some changes in life later on in life (not that marriage when that happens should end), changes can happen and you both grow within marriage. It's a serious and enjoyable serious relationship sacred union of two people one man and one woman where there can and usually will be changes like growth and ect. You live life together while having Christ as your foundation and pray together and whenever separately and read and study God's word together and also whenever separately and follow Christ on a daily dying to your flesh and living how Christ wants you to live. More to say, but hopefully many get the idea.

  • @joyce10309
    @joyce10309 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +469

    Dry the flowers out from the proposal and then put them in a vase later as dried flower arrangement. That way you can save them forever. Thats what i did with my wedding bouqet and i treasure it 😊. Congratulations!

    • @alc9224
      @alc9224 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      I think you can also try to look for resin preserved dry flowers. Air can damage flowers but in resin they should last longer. You can have even a necklace made from it. 🌹

    • @paulamelo34
      @paulamelo34 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      I did the same thing!! I dried up my bouquet, framed it and it's been on our living room wall for the past 3 years :) So beautiful 🥰 Congratulations, Kieun!

    • @tatacolica
      @tatacolica 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I did the same! It’s really worth it

    • @tatacolica
      @tatacolica 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@alc9224oh such a great idea

  • @adara4635
    @adara4635 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +233

    2 months seem fast, but for some people it’s all that’s needed to know it’s the right person! Congratulations, I’m very happy for you.

    • @hojuandrea
      @hojuandrea 22 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thats what I think too and he seems great

  • @shadesofvintageblue
    @shadesofvintageblue 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +315

    I’m so proud of you. Many don’t talk about this but when a man and woman know what they want this is the result. I’m 47, black and educated and met my husband when I was 18 years old. First year in college and he proposed to me 4 months after dating and married 9 months later right before my sophomore year in college. We’re celebrating our 29th anniversary this year and still love being with one another. It’s all about priorities and learning how to adjust and grow as time go. We all change but it’s up to you to change with it.
    Congratulations to you both and enjoy one another.

    • @TerryAnnOnline
      @TerryAnnOnline 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      That’s awesome

    • @user-qu8zs7vs1x
      @user-qu8zs7vs1x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +26

      Or, you know, they'll just realize they don't know each other and divorce 8 months after marrying like most of these quick couples do. Crazy.

    • @TheTamago
      @TheTamago 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      ​@@user-qu8zs7vs1xor, you can keep your negative energy to yourself

    • @bokuroo703
      @bokuroo703 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-qu8zs7vs1x or you can date 10 years and get married for 3 years only to know your partner is not the one for you. When you see someone share a good news, just be happy and wish them the best. Dont rain on someone’s parade.

    • @Nikku_GyuGyu
      @Nikku_GyuGyu 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-qu8zs7vs1x😂😂

  • @binesait
    @binesait 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +87

    It is impossible to know how's a person in only 2 months. I deserve you all the best and hope it will last forever.

  • @user-vd2fb3nh4x
    @user-vd2fb3nh4x 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    It is different as you are both a bit older, financially stable, life is on track, communicating etc. I knew my husband was the one the first time I saw him, he said he knew as well and that first time literally was us passing on the stairs. By the way it was leap year so I asked him out😂 and he said yes. We were together just short of 50 years. ❤ Congratulations, can’t wait to see the wedding arrangements.

  • @emmaogilvie8679
    @emmaogilvie8679 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +217

    Have you had a major disagreement/fight yet? Personally, I feel like it's necessary to really butt heads on a subject at least once before getting married. I think it's important to know how you and your partner handle disagreements. Just my opinion. Good luck!

    • @loveforgood7520
      @loveforgood7520 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Its a different look at that from a Christian perspective.

    • @emz5356
      @emz5356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      how so?@@loveforgood7520

  • @munenyasha4691
    @munenyasha4691 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    He seems so intentional in his actions (just like you), from a good, loving and welcoming family. This will be an awesome and blessed marriage

  • @erinhorn2599
    @erinhorn2599 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    My husband and I were married 3months, 2weeks & 3 days from the day we met! We just celebrated our 20th Year Anniversary!!! When you know you know. Our faith has been the foundation of our relationship and it has only grown stronger over these 20 years. Wishing you both the very best! So happy for you! ❤❤

  • @madlena1990
    @madlena1990 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +182

    Come on...everyone is thinking it...but this is just soo sooo fast..of course eveyone wants her happiness but this is just sooo weird. How can u know a person in just 2 months

    • @user-bh7mv3rn5l
      @user-bh7mv3rn5l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +65

      You can't. This is ridiculous.

    • @deergreentea2847
      @deergreentea2847 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

      I know I thought I was crazy

    • @Favs649
      @Favs649 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      When something is not common people are quick to judge

    • @racheldsouza8895
      @racheldsouza8895 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@Favs649 So true. It's unconventional today but a few decades ago this wasn't out of the ordinary.

  • @saranonymous91
    @saranonymous91 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    I’m not religious/woman of faith at all, but a lot of the Christian comments resonate with me. I feel that if both parties know what they want and why they’re in a relationship and approach it with a certain maturity, knowing each other for only a short time can be enough to evaluate you want to build a lifetime commitment with each other. Congratulations - I’m so happy for you both 🎉❤

  • @Solip_i
    @Solip_i 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Girl, you looks so happy, you re living your best life 🥹❤️
    Congratulations, I hope you’ll be forever happy Kieun !

  • @christina8418
    @christina8418 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    This is amazing. I just started watching your videos and I saw one yesterday that you mentioned how you haven’t been to church since college because you just haven’t felt the calling yet and now you’re going to church since you’ve met him. ❤ he has obviously been a piece of you that you have been missing. Yay!

  • @pixiedust4548
    @pixiedust4548 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    It is indeed that waiting season is preparing you for something you'll never expected. And you know, when the right person loves you in the right time, everything will run so smoothly. God bless you two, darling! Congratulations 🎉

  • @uhhvee
    @uhhvee 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    I’ve been watching you and your channel grow on TH-cam for the past 4-5 years and this made me so emotional im so happy for you Kieun I can’t wait to see you guys embark on this new chapter together 🥹 Congratulations I cannot wait to see where the future takes you and thank you for trusting us and sharing these moments with us! 🖤

  • @charmainewaterson1117
    @charmainewaterson1117 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You know when it’s “The One” embrace it? You have been blessed!!!

  • @lieues
    @lieues 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Omg the story of how you caught him trying to arrange the proposal is too cute, that will forever be a funny memorable moment for you guys. Congrats to both of you can't wait to see you guys get married! 🥰

  • @madisoncaruthers5005
    @madisoncaruthers5005 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You are amazing. I love how despite the negative comments you are confident in your relationship and your love story.

  • @mszsh96
    @mszsh96 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Proposal video we’ve been waiting for! Congratulations 🎉

  • @PRODUSORN
    @PRODUSORN 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +97

    OH MA GERDDDDDDD CONGRATULATIONS!! I’m so so so so happy for both of you ❤

  • @noybuchman
    @noybuchman 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +58

    omg i’m so happy for you i might actually cry 🥺 congratulations angel. you deserve the most genuine, pure love, and i see the word “happiness” shines so brightly on both of your eyes (even tho his face is always blurred lol) when you’re together. i love you so much honestly

  • @melissadeponte6516
    @melissadeponte6516 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Congratulations!! This is so amazing! I also met my husband and just knew we got engaged 5 months after and married 4 months after that. We have been happily married for 11 years now and have 3 beautiful kids. May you be so blessed in your marriage!

  • @vickinoeske1154
    @vickinoeske1154 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    My feeling is, if you know, you know. You are two mature, responsible adults, and I'm sure you feel secure in your decision. So, congratulations and God bless you both.❤❤❤

  • @SunnydahyeIn
    @SunnydahyeIn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +136

    Omg congrats!!! ❤❤❤

  • @casalvafam
    @casalvafam 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I didn’t want this video to end! You both radiate so much love. May God bless your union, keep Him at the center always. Can’t wait to see more! 🤍

  • @hopemasetlha4452
    @hopemasetlha4452 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    Wow! This makes me so emotional😭❤️I remember how in one of your videos you shared some fears about getting older and not being where you thought you should have been. This is a perfect example of how God is always ALWAYS on time. Congratulations!😊

  • @withhelenblog
    @withhelenblog 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    so happy for you, Kieun! you deserve all the happiness in the world! 💕

  • @epellegrini
    @epellegrini 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    So happy for you!!!
    When you know you know. I got engaged after 6 months of dating but we both knew after 1-2 month this was it. Now 5 years later and with a beautiful 1 year old going strong!

  • @angelinafelan3149
    @angelinafelan3149 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Stop!!! I’ve been watching you for a minute but I’m so happy for you! Honestly even from the times you show you two together in the videos you both seem extremely happy just in each others company. Time doesn’t always matter

  • @JezzTeo-de4wp
    @JezzTeo-de4wp 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations!!! I was not surprised cause you guys spent a lot of time together. And whenever you were together, you looked so happy- a glow.

  • @eeelizabethh95
    @eeelizabethh95 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I’ve been watching you for years. I won’t lie, I am shocked and a bit taken back. But at the same time happy for you! Love is beautiful and I wish you nothing but love and care ❤ congrats girly!💕

  • @shasisstuff
    @shasisstuff 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +107

    Of course your happiness matters the most but giirlllieee I am scared😹😹 wishing you all the blessings and happiness

    • @deergreentea2847
      @deergreentea2847 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      Girl same

    • @neemalore7967
      @neemalore7967 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      Same but i hope it ends well

  • @heybasha
    @heybasha 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You deserve all the love! You look so so happy! He's so supportive of your vlogs, always game being on the camera

  • @lifewithaiko
    @lifewithaiko 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +165

    Okay, I was all giddy throughout the Q&A and could see how much you guys like each other even though I still think 2 months is way too fast 😭 I guess we’re all just protective of you. It would have been nice to at least go through 2 fights/stressful situation just to see how you guys would react in that moment. I feel like the first few months of dating you’re ofc gonna show your best attributes because you’re trying to win over the other person.
    We love to see you happy, but it’s still hard to shake off my skepticism 🥲

    • @pomegranategirl07
      @pomegranategirl07 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      THISSSS

    • @RusherAndLovatic
      @RusherAndLovatic 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      Yes 👏🏼 this

    • @cinamongirl2495
      @cinamongirl2495 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

      fr, I don't want to offend her but 2 months? That's way too fast

    • @emilyyyyyy420
      @emilyyyyyy420 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

      That's exactly how I feel!! I love that they both went into it with this intention, but you really don't know someone until you've spent at LEAST a year with them going through different circumstances... They haven't even experienced more than one season it's literally still winter lol

    • @hmwj
      @hmwj 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @emilyyyyyy420 i'm totally on board about experiencing more and learning about the other person, but how do u know they haven't had conflict / were about to work it out or already discussed things that took other people much longer to figure out
      sure you need time to know someone, but i don't think that we as third parties should impose these kind of regulatory perceptions on how other people manage their relationships. also, they already did it anyways, nothing we say is going to undo her very intentional decisions. people can disagree with her choices without judgement

  • @cindyfinnell-vaughn6890
    @cindyfinnell-vaughn6890 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Oh and the flowers you got are beautiful and how you decorated for the proposal were awesome!! Looking forward to following your life as a married couple!!

  • @laurahimesekai
    @laurahimesekai 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +37

    I think as 30 years old couple ppl usually know what they want to find in someone. So its pretty normal time to have engaged! ❤ Im so happy for you! ❤🎉

    • @Sarah-gz4no
      @Sarah-gz4no 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      My thoughts! They have a home, job, financial stability, and now each other 💜 the perfect fit for their life

  • @ireneladies
    @ireneladies 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    congrats kieun, i'm so happy for you! 🥰 hope everything goes well with your wedding preparation

  • @justtee1259
    @justtee1259 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    This makes my heart happy Kieun ❤ I love to see others celebrate love - congratulations to you both on your engagement.

  • @julyfirst0701nct
    @julyfirst0701nct 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    Omg congratulations big sis 🥺🥺💖💖💖 we’re all so so happy for you both

  • @amouunet
    @amouunet 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    OMG CONGRATS YOU DESERVE ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD 😭💗💗💗

  • @Min_injae17
    @Min_injae17 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    THE WAY I GASPED AFTER READING THE TITTLE!!!! IM SO HAPPY FOR YOU GUYS MAY YOU HAVE A REALLY REALLY HAPPY AND BLESSED WEDDING LIFE AND MAY GOD SUPPORT U ALL THE WAYYYYYYY

  • @teetheintroverttt
    @teetheintroverttt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    the way he spoke about you 🥹 I can’t wait for this new chapter of yours Kieun!!! 🤍 love from Melbourne, Au xxx

  • @Idkwhattocallmyselfonhere
    @Idkwhattocallmyselfonhere 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    This genuinely feels like my big sister getting married I'm so happy for youuuu

  • @mayastudios_08
    @mayastudios_08 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    i am sooo happy for you kieun congratulations🎉you deserve all the happiness in the world ♥️

  • @leighgm
    @leighgm 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    AHH yay! So so so happy for you! 💙💙💙🥹🥹 may your love bloom and rejoice! Been watching you for years now and it feels so wholesome

  • @gabbiebobbs3543
    @gabbiebobbs3543 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congratulations!!! Please don’t worry about anyone Judging you, you’re fabulous! When men know, they KNOW! They don’t wait 5-6 years!!!!! Finding love in your late 20s-30s is a blessing! And you’re so deserving!! And I can’t wait to see your wedding!!

  • @alaizzaquiozon
    @alaizzaquiozon 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    “you know what, yeah… I think this is what I want” GIRL WHY AM I CRYING I AM SO HAPPY FOR YOU 😭😭😭

  • @tabiluh
    @tabiluh 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Congratulations Kieun!!! I'm encouraged by the intentional dating season! May the Lord bless you two with many precious years together❤️

  • @sw33tm3
    @sw33tm3 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I just love how you both appreciate small little things together ❤ congratulations!!!!

  • @caml90
    @caml90 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +62

    Congratulations, Kieun!
    Please take care of yourself, get to know each-other better and never forget yourself.

  • @iawhe
    @iawhe 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +102

    I don't believe you should be judged for your choices or "early" proposal. when you are at this age, you know what you want, you know what you don't like, and sometimes everything falls perfectly into place for you. wishing you and fiancé a happy life and marriage! you've been through a lot...and you absolutely deserve this happiness.

    • @bokuroo703
      @bokuroo703 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

      This!! People act like she’s just fresh out of high school when she’s old enough to make her own decission.

    • @Wordy95
      @Wordy95 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Old enough, yes! Unfortunately, just saw another Christian TH-camr date/marry within few months. Divorce a year later she’s in her 30s with a teen. We’re too old to be making rash decisions like a young 18-21 yr old

    • @bokuroo703
      @bokuroo703 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@Wordy95 yes, but it is her life choice. We have no say in whatever decision she made. Just respect her decision

  • @herspace08
    @herspace08 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations, Girl! So so so happy to see your wide smile from the bottom of your hear. It was really amazing to get to know your story. Looking forward to the wedding prep vlogs. Wishing you both lots of love and happiness❤❤

  • @maxeyman01
    @maxeyman01 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    I know you thing what I am about to say is being judging, or raining on your happiness but honestly what I am about to say is more of wisdom. Please wait a year before you go threw with your marriage. You really don't know him or weather or not you are truly compatible. Love in the beginning is wonderful and full of warmth and happiness but after 2 years that is when the true test of compatibly shows.

  • @zandriventer2816
    @zandriventer2816 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    How I knew my husband was The One, was realizing that he had attributes I didn't realize I wanted and needed on my list.
    We ended up getting married in Seoul last year August. The best parts of our relationship lie in the imperfect moments, that made everything perfect for us.

  • @momar8279
    @momar8279 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg kieun!! I’m sooooo happy for you 🤍🤍 I feel like I’ve been watching you grow and moving forward in life through this journey and this is incredible, I’m truly truly so happy ❤

  • @dorseymycatagaylo7067
    @dorseymycatagaylo7067 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    While watching this video i noticed that I kept on smiling i am truly happy for you girl 😊 i can feel the love that you two have for each other a genuine love short or long time being together is never a measure of time to tell what’s mean and whose meant to be

  • @emet17s
    @emet17s 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +38

    God as the foundation opens pathways to boundless possibilities. Congratulations on this new chapter!

    • @2243cbl2
      @2243cbl2 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Amen 😊

  • @hananech.1011
    @hananech.1011 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congratulations! The way you talk about your relationship is very mature. I have been married for over 10 years and only 34 years old. Listening to you was a very pleasant. So dating for 2 month only and getting married is not something someone should ever judge you. They are people who date longer and aren’t as mature as you are.
    3 Keys to successful marriage:
    1. Communication
    2. Trust
    3. Laugher

  • @yoonie8912
    @yoonie8912 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kieun, I’m so proud of you and so happy for you! It’s so amazing how everything turned out.

  • @coolbeanz359
    @coolbeanz359 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Kieun, you’re literally glowing in this video! So pretty 🥰

  • @evitaevelynmuller1426
    @evitaevelynmuller1426 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    A christian here myself! Just wanna say how wonderful it is that the Lord brought you two together! Was so so happy to see your recent videos Kieun and so happy to know you're both being so intentional about dating and pursuing Christ together too!

  • @MissSeaworld8
    @MissSeaworld8 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I personally think it's way too soon to get enganged. But I don't try to be mean. I just think that it can always feel like you have met the right person that earily in the relationship. I have been in love with 3 different guys in my life (I'm 33 now) and it has felt that way in the beginning every time. It can fade pretty quick. But it's absolutely your life and I wish you the best :) If it doesn't work out, it can still be a good ride and a memory for life. So everyone to each taste. We only live once so if it feels right, it can be worth it either way :)

  • @kimgirl702
    @kimgirl702 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I'm so happy for you! You have so many things working in your favor: you are old enough to know who you are and what you want in life, you have similar upbringing/culture, and the most important thing: faith. You will be amazing! I'm so excited!

  • @cherrylsevillejo8772
    @cherrylsevillejo8772 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I was literally smiling from ear to ear listening to your Q and A. You are my fave vlogger and Im so happy for you Kieun!

  • @dianamcgurk3890
    @dianamcgurk3890 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    some people date forever and divorce right after the wedding and others marry right away and last a life time. I met my husband and we married in less than a year. Here we are 12 years married

    • @Nini00000
      @Nini00000 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I know so many couples that dated over 10 years before marrying and divorced within a year after the wedding. Honestly I feel like waiting for so long might rather be a bad sign for a couple. Kinda means that you're never sure and could potentially still be looking out for someone else.. 😅

    • @felic86kaufmann57
      @felic86kaufmann57 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      my parents... they married in less than 6 months (courthouse) and are now 48 years married. I think this Dating-Culture is wierd as hell... some date for 2-5 years... i mean, i you dont know after 1 year if you want to marry this person, than there is a reason for that so dont waste your own time and their time! 🤣

  • @cynthiabutler3363
    @cynthiabutler3363 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Had to stop the video to say, My husband and I got married after only dating for less then a year of knowing each other and now we are getting ready to celebrate our 30th wedding anniversary. Just make to say I love you daily and always stand together thru everything good or bad you will get thru it.

  • @giuliastivani3542
    @giuliastivani3542 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CONGRATULATIONS!! 🎉🎉
    I was also feeling he's the one, you look so happy with him and you've been having this kind of special glow since meeting him ❤

  • @susanspence3029
    @susanspence3029 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    A heartfelt congratulations to you both! I think when you know someone is "the one", the length of time does not matter.

  • @user-bv1eq4xk1q
    @user-bv1eq4xk1q 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    I knew the proposal was coming I actually saw her ring in the picture she post before the engagement. I also got proposed after 2 months of dating we’ve married for 5 years now. I’m so happy for her

  • @weiisan3468
    @weiisan3468 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Only 2 months, hope you watched who TF did I marry, he might be trying to mega trap you. I wish you happiness but please be safe first. You don't have to rush, you shouldn't be pressured to rush into marriage. Please get to know yourself and get to know him beyond his words and the actions he presents to you.

    • @Luxefacile
      @Luxefacile 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      I am sure she's aware of the dangers, I think in one video she mentioned that she dated a narcissist for 3 years. So we can trust her instincts. Also being a Christian, you can trust you're om the right path because God directs you and he's gracious enough to make things obvious for you. and family is one thing that plays into it, unless the whole family including hers is love bombing her she'll be fine.

  • @chocl_8485
    @chocl_8485 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I saw the caption on the video and stared with my mouth for a minute before I smiled with teary eyes. Congratulations on your engagement! Wishing you all the best and God's richest blessing for your future. 💞

  • @kasellen6526
    @kasellen6526 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Congratulations! Also that dress was EVERYTHING 🎉🎉🎉🎉 this is so fun!

  • @Look36966
    @Look36966 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I always see you as very careful person I never thought you would say yes only after 2 month

  • @fwz223
    @fwz223 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congratulations!!! 🎉 the timeline doesn’t matter as long as you guys move in faith and have God as your foundation you will be fine xx

  • @rashidashaida
    @rashidashaida 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so happy for y’all. When it’s the right person the timeline doesn’t matter. Congrats on your engagement 🥳❤️❤️❤️

  • @sisselab
    @sisselab 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m so happy for you Kieun! You deserve the best, huge congrats 💚

  • @valerietan6066
    @valerietan6066 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

    While I am really happy for you, I hope you also do remember that marriage is also about loving and choosing each other when you both are at your worst. Marriage is never going to be sunshine and rainbow all the time - it’s about how you get through serious hardships together and still choose one another above all else. And there is no such thing as ideal types - everyone has flaws.
    I hope you are getting married with these in mind as well.

  • @jb-vs2ck
    @jb-vs2ck 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +89

    after only 2 months of dating...

    • @lizbaker7527
      @lizbaker7527 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

      Tbh our society has messed up the way people look at marriage. People used to get married right away because love was real. Now that love seems to be fake people just say “let’s live together but never get married.” The beauty about marriage is that you can grow together during the marriage and if you’re in love with that person marrying quickly shouldn’t be judged or looked down upon. It’s each persons preference but it’s beautiful that they fell in love quickly.

    • @jb-vs2ck
      @jb-vs2ck 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      that's nice, very idealistic... I'm rooting for them to grow old together, as you say!

    • @elizewyn
      @elizewyn 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lizbaker7527 marriage is a huge commitment, you have to be sure. Good on her if it feels right, but i wouldn't make a big commitment like this with someone i barely know, and it has nothing to do with love being real or not.

    • @aquagamer1212
      @aquagamer1212 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      You don’t NEED to be married to prove your love, it’s just a (legally binding) piece of paper. And this is coming from someone who wants to be married.

    • @lizbaker7527
      @lizbaker7527 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      @@aquagamer1212 and that’s your own opinion… that piece of paper doesn’t prove your love but the marriage can. Because the man and the woman are making a promise to be with each other and no one else. A common relationship doesn’t make those boundaries. That’s why our society is so jacked up right now. Everybody wants to have sex with everybody but not just love one person. People are scared of “marriage” because they’re scared of “commitment.” So my point in commenting that was saying to let them be even if they want to get married fast. No one should judge them for that just because our society thinks “marriage” is dumb.

  • @0910ruffy
    @0910ruffy 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Awww. *teary eyes*. Honestly, love really finds you, that's what I realize more while watching this. So happy when I found out you started dating then super shocked about the proposal but all in all sooooooooooooo sooooooooooooo happy for the both of you.

  • @emilbusyram
    @emilbusyram 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I feel like you can tell how well you two mesh just watching this.❤

  • @michaelaeriksson
    @michaelaeriksson 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +23

    I have mixed feelings about this but, just two months after becoming an official couple and not knowing each other before that? that is so quick. I hope you stay together for a long time I truly wish you both the best of luck, please be happy and safe. 🥰

  • @o0DeadlySin0o
    @o0DeadlySin0o 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    When you fall in love, dopamine is secreted from the brain’s nucleus, and you feel much joy and happiness. Naturally, there will be liveliness and more smiles on your face and the world looks bright and beautiful. As you feel good, you will become generous even with the matters you usually got annoyed or irritated with. You do not see the disadvantages of the loved one but see only good things.
    This phenomenon is called the pink lens effect in psychology. Just like you wear pink glasses, the person you love looks adorable no matter what he or she does.
    How good would it be if the glasses were not taken off forever? The validity period of the pink lens effect is three years at most. There must be difference among people, but you gradually come to see the weakness of the other person over time, and what you regarded as strong points of the other person begins to look like disadvantage. In actuality, the other person is the same as he or she was, but your mind has changed.
    But real love develops from the moment on. If the two accept each other as he or she is and cover their weakness and are considerate of each other, the love and trust that have been firm in them won’t expire.

  • @tayalt2406
    @tayalt2406 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I'm so happy for you guys. I've noticed since you started dating how happy you were, and now knowing that you will be getting married is just so amazing. Girl you look stunning wearing a wedding dress. Congratulations on your engagement!!

  • @issapaguidopon2411
    @issapaguidopon2411 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    all of this is a fulfilment of your manifestations. congratulations again!!

  • @user-bh7mv3rn5l
    @user-bh7mv3rn5l 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    Calculate the number of hours you have spent together and think about it that way. It's not enough time to get to know someone that you intend to spend the rest of your life with.

  • @Blue-xk8vq
    @Blue-xk8vq 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +40

    2 months? Girl.. he's a stranger to you. Uh oh. Good luck with that.

    • @binesait
      @binesait 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I am thinking ... and if all this story it's only for engagement?

  • @fionazimba9695
    @fionazimba9695 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I just came from watching your previous vlog and i was telling myself how i love your relationship and i would not be surprised if you get married and surprise surprise. CONGRATULATIONS, I WISH YOU ALL THE HAPPINESS IN THE WORLD. May God bless your union!!!!🥰🥰🥰❤

  • @astridf5429
    @astridf5429 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    CONGRATS ON THE PROPOSAL!!!!! I've been watching you ever since your first videos and I remember you talking about meeting someone, getting married and starting a family!!! so for you to be proposed to just warms my heart! hugs and love from Germany 💖💘👩‍❤‍👨

  • @carok3777
    @carok3777 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    It's absolutely not the same whether you know someone for 2 months or several months/years 😅2 months for an engagement is crazy

  • @bunnybutcher
    @bunnybutcher 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    wtf? That’s a huge red flag after 2 months of dating!

  • @patriciateague8677
    @patriciateague8677 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Congratulations to you both! Not surprised as you clearly seemed to both be very happy together. Meeting parents is also a big step.

  • @JESSS22
    @JESSS22 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    So excited for the wedding vlogs!! Can’t wait 🥰🩵💍

  • @sittieomaimahbalt4236
    @sittieomaimahbalt4236 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    bro--in our religion, we got married even before knowing each other deeply, y'all so shocked about this T_T can't you just be happy for her? gosh these comments are so sad...

    • @olukiyesimi
      @olukiyesimi 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      i know right!

    • @emz5356
      @emz5356 2 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      good for you? it mightve worked for you but marrying someone is a big commitment, rushing it is not good

  • @PineApple508
    @PineApple508 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +113

    Christians are wild. y'all started dating immediately after meeting each other on a blind date and now engagement after 2 months. he wasn't even your friend before do y'all even know each other😅

    • @brooksbrooks-pi2mt
      @brooksbrooks-pi2mt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

      my exact thoughts , she often said she thought she’d be married by now because she was in her 30s. kinda seems like they both rushed but at the same time they probably clicked together extremely fast because i’ve seen that happened in real life

    • @th2030
      @th2030 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +14

      If you know you know…. You don’t need to wait for ages.

    • @Zoe-qd6vt
      @Zoe-qd6vt 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I’m scared for her. My fingers are crossed and I’m stressing

    • @omelett150
      @omelett150 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      So what 😂 rather date 10 years and then still be left? Yall have a sad life

    • @llisek
      @llisek 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      I'm wondering if only Christians from Korea are like that, cuz I'm from a country with 90% of Christians and it usually takes much longer to engage

  • @agathabeatriceb
    @agathabeatriceb 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    i started watching your vlogs when you moved to Seoul and you were saying how you wanted to have restart and such and im so happy that you're engaged!!!!! this has been such a wonderful journey and im so happy for you. can't wait to experience more of your beautiful life through your vlogs

  • @azilizc
    @azilizc 3 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What a lovely video and funny proposal story! You both seem so genuine and aligned with each other. Wishing you both the best in these upcoming (somewhat stressful) wedding prep months!

  • @debrafirestone861
    @debrafirestone861 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +36

    I’m sorry but get engaged after only 2 months is insane that’s only 8 weeks thsts not enough time to get to know someone

    • @ray_di5267
      @ray_di5267 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Remember some muslims gets married without knowing or seeing their partner. 😁

    • @debrafirestone861
      @debrafirestone861 10 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@ray_di5267 not good

  • @Pookipak
    @Pookipak 3 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Have you even had your first fight? 😅