Why Am I A Narcissist MAGNET??

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  • @Shadowman...
    @Shadowman... 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +26

    A big part of what we do as humans is subconscious ~ I still believe aggressive people are drawn to people who have an overly kind look to there face. Their predators and can see a caring or sensitive person in a crowd.

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 13 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      yes, i think you're right. (they're, not their)

    • @BryanClark-gk6ie
      @BryanClark-gk6ie 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Exactly right' I've been a clown 🤡 most of my adult life' people are always coming up to me busting my balloons 🎈 🎈 🎈.

    • @ceciliamac4283
      @ceciliamac4283 8 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Can’t agree more. Too often, people talk about how we attract them but so little is said about how they are attracted to us.

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +12

    True. We must run away from abusers. There is no excuse for abuse, no matter who the abuser is : your parent, sibling, family member or anybody else!

  • @Shadowman...
    @Shadowman... 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    In Africa the Gazelles don't apologies to the Lions for running away for fear they may appear rude. Stop being so nice and know your worth people

  • @hcmangs3634
    @hcmangs3634 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Still have the mean & difficult people from childhood in my life… brother & parents. Working through how to manage, feel so much sadness

    • @funky_monk_9796
      @funky_monk_9796 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      @@hcmangs3634 All power to you as you work through this very difficult situation 💪🏼

  • @funky_monk_9796
    @funky_monk_9796 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This video should be prescribed viewing for everyone on Earth 🌍❤🌎❤🌏 imagine how many people would be healed if we all followed this advice...!! Thank you, Michele, you're one of the very best practitioners this field ✨️💯

  • @infantrycaptain9224
    @infantrycaptain9224 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi,you are absolutely beautiful.Avoid people that don't complement your life and goals.

  • @n888-y4z
    @n888-y4z 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Thank you so much for these insights. Anything that triggered her guilt or shame was dangerous...even a shift in my facial expressions or mood after I'd been verbally abused and berated would trigger worse abuse. My fear turned inward, fear of doing or saying the wrong thing. And especially fear of any act or expression of self-protection. I attract mean and selfish people because feeling hurt or angry in response to abuse had become unavailable to me. You had to stoically and even thankfully take it. It's just so confusing. I keep touching the flame, because there is no pain only shame and self blame. Crazy how we are molded to become complicant victims. 😢

    • @Lyrielonwind
      @Lyrielonwind 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Beware of the videos about stoicism that pops out like mushrooms on TH-cam. They are not really stoic and can lead people to think complaining or not sharing others opinions are wrong. They can also isolate you and shut you down.
      Even psychologists have been complaining about how distorted they are.

    • @muma6559
      @muma6559 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Try to remember, it's just bad parenting

  • @reneeoaniayt
    @reneeoaniayt 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +5

    Good morning. A friend shared this video with me. Thank you Michele! God bless!

  • @Truthteller1s
    @Truthteller1s 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    This is so good. Describes my condition perfectly. ❤

  • @hermajesty00
    @hermajesty00 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    Lack of boundaries

    • @Ballpython77
      @Ballpython77 15 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Me for 46 years.

  • @CraftyRecycler
    @CraftyRecycler 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you, Michelle. This makes so much sense.

  • @danitaoliver264
    @danitaoliver264 19 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    ❤ I Love You Michelle, we're a Good Fit, I've got to find a way to join your School!!!!❤

  • @RavnThor
    @RavnThor 17 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thank you, Michelle ❤

  • @muma6559
    @muma6559 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ohh, my brain did go there as a child. @11:11

  • @ChildofGod98765
    @ChildofGod98765 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +10

    Please pray for me prayers are all we need! I’m trying to balance everything on my own, but Lord JESUS I need your help because I’m failing miserably providing for my sons as a single mother. Both my boys are special needs. I’m so overwhelmed trying to support them. I’m constantly struggling to make ends meet, to pay my bills, and to put food on the table. I’m ashamed and I’m mocked because of my situation. Jesus guide me and give me strength.💕❤️

    • @LOVEISTRUTH300
      @LOVEISTRUTH300 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

      I'm sorry you're going through that. Sending LOVE to you💖💖💖

  • @ebasika
    @ebasika 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are an angel 🙏🏼 this is an eye opener 👍🏼 Thanks a ton

  • @uniquelybeyou
    @uniquelybeyou 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for sharing this chat❤so helpful 🙏

  • @brianjanderson6361
    @brianjanderson6361 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    In my experience, and I have a lot, a narcissist will use pity (their stories) to determine if you are empathetic even if they just met you, spend 95% of the time they interact with you talking about themselves and watch for your reactions, and if they want something from you, they will gove you the narcissist stare.

  • @Mikejmcgro
    @Mikejmcgro 8 วันที่ผ่านมา

    This channel is exactly what I needed... thanks

  • @jgannon1637
    @jgannon1637 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    perfect zeitgeist. perfect beauty. Thanks. Love.

  • @tallguy527
    @tallguy527 14 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you - great info! BTW: I like your glasses!

  • @Paul723
    @Paul723 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wonderful.

  • @rocmiller3
    @rocmiller3 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Wayne Dyer once said we teach people how to treat us it's also a personality trait that we're very familiar with

  • @wallymarcel1
    @wallymarcel1 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Great video!

  • @MartinVoois-b6i
    @MartinVoois-b6i 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Thank you. 🤠👍👌🌞🍀❤🦋🙏

  • @ninafrederick6048
    @ninafrederick6048 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jus in time

  • @annastone5624
    @annastone5624 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Trust that people are kind? ..but that's not the true-baseline of human beings - the most primary baseline is survival and competition.
    Most people prioritise their own self interest. Just like animals in the wild. That's not coming from a fear-perspective, it's simply realistic.
    Yes there are people who won't go out of their way to hurt us.. but the number of people that will actually 'support and protect' us, are very, very ,very, very small.
    Love your explanation with the Moth and Flame, totally resonates..

    • @flemutter7211
      @flemutter7211 18 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Absolute spot on!

  • @tomorrowwestport2620
    @tomorrowwestport2620 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Maybe because the clinical concept of narcissism is at odd with your personal opinion of what a narcissist is