I disagree I think the hosts made it painful to listen to because they aren’t able to elaborate intellectually. That’s why they started shouting. In my opinion.
For a therapist, this woman is pretty bad at listening - and communicating in general. She sounds like a text book narcissist. The whole conversation is painful to watch and listen to.
Nikki’s radar is whack lol she has good friends but her intimate relationships are toxic. She had a therapist in the past tell her “nobody loves you I’m the only one who loves you”. Granted she dropped that therapist but still
I just upvoted this video because of Moshe bringing some sense into that crazy discussion. Nikki and Anya, stop doing this to yourselves. Dr. Allen's advices are terrible, plain and simple.
As a guy, my issue with this philosophy is that one, I need to know if we are sexually compatible BEFORE we get married. Sex provides an important pillar of a relationship and those oxytocin bonding chemicals are a deliberate part of that. What if the significant other is into water sports and you're not? Are you going to be fully satisfied in your sexual relationship? Don't they deserve to live out their fantasies rather than just talk about them? Second, It would be a HUGE red flag (thanks Whitney Cummings) to me if a woman held sex in exchange for marriage like that. I don't want my marriage to be a transaction I make in exchange for sex and if that is the best thing a woman feels like they have to offer me, then I'm out. I want to marry a woman because we both commit to the relationship we've been having, including sex. Even if the reason is that she would feel too attached to me if we have sex, then I'd feel like she is holding back to reserve the ability to be done with our relationship at any point. Either take the risk and go 100% into the relationship, risking heartbreak, or leave me alone. I think there is a 3rd option that Nikki and Dr. Pat are both missing. The guy that is okay with boundaries like no sex on the first night, but doesn't want to wait for marriage either. Men shouldn't be reduced, as Moshe was saying, to either sex-hungry dogs or decent humans who are willing to wait for after marriage to have sex. You do you Nikki, but know that you may miss out on some good guys who live in the middle of that spectrum because you're afraid to get hurt. Also...the part about men getting to know women by sniffing their vaginas... What was that?? I love this show lol!
this makes me feel like nikki is projecting her attachment issues around casual sex on every single female and is looking to whatever "experts" validate that. this was not it girl
It's actually so bizarre to me that Nikki insists it is this way and there is no other explanation. Just completely ignores all the women who don't get attached to every guy they bang.
Not the case at all. It was just awkward trying to do it over the phone because the woman is elderly at this point. All Nikki was looking for was confirmation that it's a mistake to sleep with someone first & then try to back into a relationship afterwards, and that's pretty much what the doctor was preaching.
@@steveknick1978 Yeah, but the context of the other stuff she was saying matters. Despite painting herself as a nerd, the woman seemed like she was pushing a mix a psuedo-science and archaic gender roles. She also straight up redefined monogamy/polygamy to suit her own agenda. Also I really can't get over her advocating "intercourse" with people you've been in a previous relationship in stead of someone new. It had a very "I believe this so it's science" feel to it. And all of her advice seems hetero-normative. How do you apply this stuff in LGBTQ relationships?
I have to say with everything on my plate n the sadness I’ve been feeling lately this show has been one of the only things making me smile n laugh and I can’t tell you how much I need n appreciate that right now 🙏🏼
This was the longest word salad that I've ever sat through. Lol. Nikki seemed to recognize that this woman made no sense most of the time, so why does she still swear by her principles? Lol.
I'm just tourist here but I think obvious, it's about the book .. and I think they'd already found out the author was a but crazy in person. .. but it supposedly she can write a coherent book. Shame for Nikki if it is a good book that this interview would definitely put people off.
Paying this lady for a therapy session must be like flushing money down the toilet. She barely listens and goes off on pointless tangents constantly. Sucks that the bit with Moshe was so short.
I LOVE that Nikki brought up the correlation between drug addiction and sex. My behaviors and feelings really do mimic those of when I'm using. I'm actually addressing this issue currently with my substance abuse treatment center. I say this all the time but Nicki really is so introspective and it's refreshing to feel represented. So thank you, Nikki, for being unapologetically you. ❤️
Also this is totally just my opinion and I could be entirely wrong but to me it sounded like the reason Moeshe and Natashas relationship ended up being so successful (despite the fact that they had slept with each other before being committed) was probably because they were friends and had a mutual respect for one another before they engaged in intercourse.
i get everything this lady is saying but ive gotten over the attachment problem after the 5th guy ive had sex with because im not a baboon and my character is not defined by my instincts. i wouldnt have made good partners for raising children with any of the guys ive had sex with, therefore im not hung up on them not being my partner. child rearing is not as simple as sex binding you together, it lasts an hour max dude!! this is hogwash!!
Sex without attachments are called one night stands. It is possible when neither person is wanting a relationship, but if one or both are looking for more they become attached. If you enter the sexual situation without an expectation of it being nothing more than sex, you won't become attached.
I like how Moshe has checked outta this conversation. I feel like this woman has a brilliant education and can dread good news. But I would have hung up after the 8th “I got news for you” 🙄🔫
Almost every guy I know has wanted a relationship after sex. She spends too much time thinking about stereotypes and not enough talking to real people.
Nicki, I'm with you. I've decided to not have sex with guys too soon because of a lot of what you're talking about. It's harder to walk away from a guy showing red flags if I'd already put myself out there and got emotionally attached.
I get the whole “why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free” argument, but at least finding out “if you and the cow mutually get along in the exchange” before you get too involved. Man or woman, ensuring compatibility applies to every part of seeking a long term relationship/marriage
I'm super feminine and also submissive, I like a dominant manly guy. But I don't necessarily feel more attached to guys I have sex with, it's usually the opposite, guys get more attached. I've also never been in love, though have had long term relationships (most was 9 years), supposedly I'm fearful/avoidant. I try to put off sex because I'm worried about the guys feelings, and my f buddy moved away, it's been a crappy couple of months.
lmao I'm addicted to this trainwreck of a person for some reason. this girl is straight up crazy and full of herself and mostly clueless about real life so it's always a wild ride. can't believe that author is the one she couldn't shut up about lol. somehow it makes perfect sense.
Love Nikki's show, but this was a very cringe episode, especially when that old lady started bringing God into it. The only episode I haven't liked so far. I guess you can't win 'em all.
xhandhele Ya but I stuck around and Moshe made it worth it. I always thought he was the luckiest guy for getting Natasha but I think Natasha may be even luckier.
love how nikki is opening up! these are some unconvntional ideas for a buisness woman that knows her audience (that is not conservetive in any way) so keep going im so fascinated where life takes u! u r definetly more fierce and fearless for going after whats working for u and sharing it even when it aint easy. big hug
I'm so glad Nikki said not really when dr pat asked her if she understood what she's talking about!! I had a very hard time making sense of what she was saying most of the time.
I love this show but I don't think bringing her into the show was a good decision. I am not saying she is bad, I would like to give her that there was no face to face interaction and maybe there was some delay so things might have gotten messy because of that, but in my opinion that whole phone call interaction was painful and kind of a ''laugh-not-to-cry'' type of situation. She reminded me of Trump when he answers stuff that is totally unrelated to what he was asked, or when he won't even finish listening because he is so into himself he already knows what he WANTS to say regardless of what is happening outside of his bubble. Take care and keep it up! :)
You were worried and scared about money when I told you that I loved you, and was in love with you. Then you left me... I am thankful, you helped me grow, and build within and without. Freedom, fate and free will. Nature vs. Nurture? Want to go on a coffee ☕ break? I believe in forgiveness. God taught me through you. I am 🛐
She had me at hello...she lost me at "a man can go down on a woman pre-marriage, but a woman can't go down on a man"....ok let's talk about your childhood, what went wrong and why you feel that way Dr. Lol
That thing about gaining consent about things before having intercourse? It's called communication, which should always be there. Whether or not you pledge eternal fealty or not is secondary to being open with each other!
i think what it is with nickki is that she got a certain message out of the authors book and wanted the author so badly to validate it for her to which the author didn’t. i can get nikki’s explanation, but however the author didn’t quite get it.
Painful, Frustrating and Disempowering and Infuriating to hear this conversation. Women should date a group of men and take the sexual pace that feels good to them not to men for real (obviously understanding and taking into account how women and sex view differently) Women should come from the position of choosing the best partner for them and not settle for a guy just because he gives her any kind of commitment. This Therapist woman is insane and delusional and a narcissist for sure. As long as a man bonds emotionally and intelectually with you first and then sexually a man will become your boyfriend. Women should just understand that men need to bond in other ways first.
It's a shame that Moshe can't take the time to listen and process how Nikki and Anya - two extremely intelligent women - feel about how intercourse affects them. It is so important for a man to get out of his skin and listen. I love being a man, who believes in nonviolence in all its forms - physical, emotional, and spiritual. I am reverential of a women's ability to have a child. For me it's the most meaningful part of humanity. It's not reductive for a man to acknowledge a woman's gift and miracle of birth - including women holding that gift as a precious part of their lives. It's reductive not to acknowledge this fact. Lastly, for context, I am a liberal yet nonreligious person which does not conflict with my outlook on this issue.
Nikki should have been more receptive to what Moshe was saying because it definitely holds water. I think just by virtue of reading that book you are a certain type of girl with particular interests and goals and to try to apply that to every woman - especially while drawing these bizarre lines between what is sex and what don’t - is borderline disrespectful. Even with the scientific fact that oxytocin does flood the female brain during sex, to blanketly disapprove of all sexual contact besides hand jobs and oral is FUCKING LUDICROUS
So if I get laid from now on I have to recognize that im not relationship material, or vice versa? I agree with Moshe man. You ladies have a confirmation bias respectfully
Completely agree with Moshe here. What Nikki seems to be describing here is more of a Gen X/Boomer paradigm. Millenials/Gen Z don't really think that way anymore about relationships. Many guys I know get super attached after sex and many women don't at all. It's just your personality
@Youupwithnikkiglaser It's def very very hard to have sex without getting attached if you feel attracted to the person or if you come in already liking the person even if its clearly just a one night stand.
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Older people talking on the phone gives me anxiety
She's really loud and preachy.
my parents answer their phones and immediately put it on speaker phone, so if you're in the room, you're automatically included in the call.
I discovered something new about myself just now. Thanks Chase.
And they say we have problems talking on the phone 😂
Take a benzo
Why pay $250/hour to have some angry old lady yell at me about what I'm doing wrong in my love life, when I can get my mom to do it for free?
This ^
The people who didn't have responsible parents pay her for it!
*VIDEO STARTS AT* 32:00
MVP right here
Nice
thank you
Bless you, friend
Thank you that was getting rough
Jesus christ. Listening to that old woman babble was almost physically painful
Yeah she's pretty nuts but she's right about that one point
I disagree I think the hosts made it painful to listen to because they aren’t able to elaborate intellectually. That’s why they started shouting. In my opinion.
Moshe Kasher once again being the biggest feminist in the room. love that guy
nikki needs..help to say the least
Ew thats not a good thing
@Corpsefoot Gaming not even close
For a therapist, this woman is pretty bad at listening - and communicating in general. She sounds like a text book narcissist.
The whole conversation is painful to watch and listen to.
She also sounds like a total SWERF. I can't stand her
Nikki’s radar is whack lol she has good friends but her intimate relationships are toxic. She had a therapist in the past tell her “nobody loves you I’m the only one who loves you”. Granted she dropped that therapist but still
@@JelenK She needs to drop this one, too. But I have a feeling she was as appalled by this conversation as everyone else, so it should be fine.
Jim Button I agree based on Nikki’s face I think we can all agree she’s too old to be talking anymore
On another episode they said this lady is 84 years old so I guess that would explain a lot of things.
Nikki: Says anything
Dr. Pat Allen ”I’VE GOT NEWS FOR YOU”
lmao
this made my day
Literally Rofl'd thanks
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
INTERCOURSE!!!
I just upvoted this video because of Moshe bringing some sense into that crazy discussion.
Nikki and Anya, stop doing this to yourselves. Dr. Allen's advices are terrible, plain and simple.
Word! Like, wtf?
Exactly
As a guy, my issue with this philosophy is that one, I need to know if we are sexually compatible BEFORE we get married. Sex provides an important pillar of a relationship and those oxytocin bonding chemicals are a deliberate part of that. What if the significant other is into water sports and you're not? Are you going to be fully satisfied in your sexual relationship? Don't they deserve to live out their fantasies rather than just talk about them?
Second, It would be a HUGE red flag (thanks Whitney Cummings) to me if a woman held sex in exchange for marriage like that. I don't want my marriage to be a transaction I make in exchange for sex and if that is the best thing a woman feels like they have to offer me, then I'm out. I want to marry a woman because we both commit to the relationship we've been having, including sex. Even if the reason is that she would feel too attached to me if we have sex, then I'd feel like she is holding back to reserve the ability to be done with our relationship at any point. Either take the risk and go 100% into the relationship, risking heartbreak, or leave me alone.
I think there is a 3rd option that Nikki and Dr. Pat are both missing. The guy that is okay with boundaries like no sex on the first night, but doesn't want to wait for marriage either. Men shouldn't be reduced, as Moshe was saying, to either sex-hungry dogs or decent humans who are willing to wait for after marriage to have sex. You do you Nikki, but know that you may miss out on some good guys who live in the middle of that spectrum because you're afraid to get hurt.
Also...the part about men getting to know women by sniffing their vaginas... What was that?? I love this show lol!
I think the therapist was referring to waiting until you're in a committed relationship, not marriage specifically.
@@jkinder1982 If that's the case despite the book title, that's totally fine. I get that.
Agree 100%
this makes me feel like nikki is projecting her attachment issues around casual sex on every single female and is looking to whatever "experts" validate that. this was not it girl
Kristina i don’t think so, if you look into it I think you’ll get what they’re talking about
@@hotchacolate2 No it isn't. I love Moshe for so nicely calling out how bullshit it all is.
It's actually so bizarre to me that Nikki insists it is this way and there is no other explanation. Just completely ignores all the women who don't get attached to every guy they bang.
Facts
The therapist at the beginning is INSANE 😂😂😂😂
This was so painful to watch/listen.
Bittersweet for me...I find her hilarious, but hate her worldview...
I feel like this call had the opposite effect of what Nikki wanted to happen. Why would you then put it up on youtube?
Not the case at all. It was just awkward trying to do it over the phone because the woman is elderly at this point. All Nikki was looking for was confirmation that it's a mistake to sleep with someone first & then try to back into a relationship afterwards, and that's pretty much what the doctor was preaching.
@@steveknick1978 Yeah, but the context of the other stuff she was saying matters. Despite painting herself as a nerd, the woman seemed like she was pushing a mix a psuedo-science and archaic gender roles. She also straight up redefined monogamy/polygamy to suit her own agenda. Also I really can't get over her advocating "intercourse" with people you've been in a previous relationship in stead of someone new. It had a very "I believe this so it's science" feel to it. And all of her advice seems hetero-normative. How do you apply this stuff in LGBTQ relationships?
She's like a Deepak Chopra random comment generator.
I have to say with everything on my plate n the sadness I’ve been feeling lately this show has been one of the only things making me smile n laugh and I can’t tell you how much I need n appreciate that right now 🙏🏼
Things in the past, never last...
Forgiveness is warranted...
Of course I have class...
Call me. Date?
Moshe Kasher has the best voice.
This was the longest word salad that I've ever sat through. Lol. Nikki seemed to recognize that this woman made no sense most of the time, so why does she still swear by her principles? Lol.
word salad!!!! im dying lol
I'm just tourist here but I think obvious, it's about the book .. and I think they'd already found out the author was a but crazy in person. .. but it supposedly she can write a coherent book. Shame for Nikki if it is a good book that this interview would definitely put people off.
It's easier to listen after the doctor leaves.
I'm loving the crackhead energy in this one
riiiight
The doctor talked all the viewers out of buying her book all by herself.
Paying this lady for a therapy session must be like flushing money down the toilet. She barely listens and goes off on pointless tangents constantly. Sucks that the bit with Moshe was so short.
I LOVE that Nikki brought up the correlation between drug addiction and sex. My behaviors and feelings really do mimic those of when I'm using. I'm actually addressing this issue currently with my substance abuse treatment center. I say this all the time but Nicki really is so introspective and it's refreshing to feel represented. So thank you, Nikki, for being unapologetically you. ❤️
Also this is totally just my opinion and I could be entirely wrong but to me it sounded like the reason Moeshe and Natashas relationship ended up being so successful (despite the fact that they had slept with each other before being committed) was probably because they were friends and had a mutual respect for one another before they engaged in intercourse.
Lol Moshe the only one making sense here
nope!
Listening to Pat talk is shockingly similar to listening to a Trump interview
LOL I thought the same thing while listening!!
This is the best You Up interview ever. I love the frustration and consternation
I literally laughed so effing hard at this, just not for the reasons I would have thought.
i get everything this lady is saying but ive gotten over the attachment problem after the 5th guy ive had sex with because im not a baboon and my character is not defined by my instincts. i wouldnt have made good partners for raising children with any of the guys ive had sex with, therefore im not hung up on them not being my partner. child rearing is not as simple as sex binding you together, it lasts an hour max dude!! this is hogwash!!
Well said...
preech!
A masterclass on what never to do again on a podcast.
Hilarious. This thing went off the rails so fast it made my head spin. Lesson learned qualify your guests before an interview.
16:38 Nikki's face sums up how I felt about everything Dr. Pat Allen said lol
LOL. Who is going to spend $250 for an hour of being interrupted by this therapist after this show? LOL.
Sorry any damn fool can write a book and this proves it
Moshe the voice of reason.. If it works for Nikki "its science" lol
A half hour into interview...
Dr Pat: Who's This? Lol
I can feel Anya silently eye-rolling through this old lady's rant.LOL. Also, I love Moshe
Sex without attachments are called one night stands. It is possible when neither person is wanting a relationship, but if one or both are looking for more they become attached. If you enter the sexual situation without an expectation of it being nothing more than sex, you won't become attached.
Ok...no offense but I have ALWAYS had sex before becoming committed with guys and they usually want a commitment way more than I do 🤷♀️
Moshe trying to use logic with women
Women: that's not how any of this works
LOL
Yep, women like that pat themselves on the back for some reason, while being clueless on men...
I like how Moshe has checked outta this conversation. I feel like this woman has a brilliant education and can dread good news. But I would have hung up after the 8th “I got news for you” 🙄🔫
nikki getting heated with this old woman is comedy gold
I feel like this is how my grandma is when she yells at me about everything.
Oh. I can’t believe I sat all the way through. Sending love, Nikki. I feel like you need it after this one ❤️
Almost every guy I know has wanted a relationship after sex. She spends too much time thinking about stereotypes and not enough talking to real people.
yup
that is because she is too busy listening to the sound of her own voice.
Nicki, I'm with you. I've decided to not have sex with guys too soon because of a lot of what you're talking about. It's harder to walk away from a guy showing red flags if I'd already put myself out there and got emotionally attached.
I get the whole “why buy the cow if you can get the milk for free” argument, but at least finding out “if you and the cow mutually get along in the exchange” before you get too involved. Man or woman, ensuring compatibility applies to every part of seeking a long term relationship/marriage
I'm super feminine and also submissive, I like a dominant manly guy. But I don't necessarily feel more attached to guys I have sex with, it's usually the opposite, guys get more attached. I've also never been in love, though have had long term relationships (most was 9 years), supposedly I'm fearful/avoidant. I try to put off sex because I'm worried about the guys feelings, and my f buddy moved away, it's been a crappy couple of months.
"It's a waltz," what a great line from the good doctor (no relation) and so very true. Great show Nikki.
Imagine over thinking to this extent. Seems like an exhausting way to live.
I need an Anya Marina in my life
lmao I'm addicted to this trainwreck of a person for some reason. this girl is straight up crazy and full of herself and mostly clueless about real life so it's always a wild ride. can't believe that author is the one she couldn't shut up about lol. somehow it makes perfect sense.
I loved this podcast! I’ve been waiting for her to get on here!
Love Nikki's show, but this was a very cringe episode, especially when that old lady started bringing God into it. The only episode I haven't liked so far. I guess you can't win 'em all.
xhandhele Ya but I stuck around and Moshe made it worth it. I always thought he was the luckiest guy for getting Natasha but I think Natasha may be even luckier.
I agree with Moshe's stance
Oh man, poor Nikki - she had so much patience!
Why did you cut it off just as uou were asking Moshe an interesting question???
Whitney Cummings recommends this book to her and now she can't stop parroting it on EVERY SINGLE SHOW including her own.
Okay...Dr Pat Allen is nuts... I love the face Moshe pulls when she claims, "the biggest killer on our planet is the misuse of sexuality"
This therapist is fabulous!
I’m with nikki! Most ppl wanna say they can detach sex from romantic intimacy but it’s really hard!
These conversations are amazing and fascinating!!! Especially the one between the three in the studio!
love how nikki is opening up! these are some unconvntional ideas for a buisness woman that knows her audience (that is not conservetive in any way) so keep going im so fascinated where life takes u! u r definetly more fierce and fearless for going after whats working for u and sharing it even when it aint easy. big hug
Moeshe is so freaking great lol
For a therapist, she's not a very good listener...
I'm so glad Nikki said not really when dr pat asked her if she understood what she's talking about!! I had a very hard time making sense of what she was saying most of the time.
I love this show but I don't think bringing her into the show was a good decision. I am not saying she is bad, I would like to give her that there was no face to face interaction and maybe there was some delay so things might have gotten messy because of that, but in my opinion that whole phone call interaction was painful and kind of a ''laugh-not-to-cry'' type of situation. She reminded me of Trump when he answers stuff that is totally unrelated to what he was asked, or when he won't even finish listening because he is so into himself he already knows what he WANTS to say regardless of what is happening outside of his bubble. Take care and keep it up! :)
Moshe being a ladies man is funny to me
Yeah, I’m not buying that one.
I love this show but the author is too hard to listen to for this episode
Caricature
I’m literally crying laughing listening to the therapist at the beginning
All these PhDs in the comments. Very enlightening.
You were worried and scared about money when I told you that I loved you, and was in love with you.
Then you left me... I am thankful, you helped me grow, and build within and without.
Freedom, fate and free will. Nature vs. Nurture? Want to go on a coffee ☕ break?
I believe in forgiveness. God taught me through you. I am 🛐
I don't understand, why all the videos of you up end so abruptly, it feels like the convo did not end there
Nikki has WAYYYY more patience than I do.
She had me at hello...she lost me at "a man can go down on a woman pre-marriage, but a woman can't go down on a man"....ok let's talk about your childhood, what went wrong and why you feel that way Dr. Lol
This doctor sound like my great great great aunt and Thanksgiving.
That was painful. I guess the moral of the story is that justification can be found everywhere.
That thing about gaining consent about things before having intercourse? It's called communication, which should always be there. Whether or not you pledge eternal fealty or not is secondary to being open with each other!
i think what it is with nickki is that she got a certain message out of the authors book and wanted the author so badly to validate it for her to which the author didn’t. i can get nikki’s explanation, but however the author didn’t quite get it.
How do I see/hear full episodes?
Painful, Frustrating and Disempowering and Infuriating to hear this conversation. Women should date a group of men and take the sexual pace that feels good to them not to men for real (obviously understanding and taking into account how women and sex view differently) Women should come from the position of choosing the best partner for them and not settle for a guy just because he gives her any kind of commitment. This Therapist woman is insane and delusional and a narcissist for sure. As long as a man bonds emotionally and intelectually with you first and then sexually a man will become your boyfriend. Women should just understand that men need to bond in other ways first.
This was hilarious! 😂
"Women don't want polygamy unless they're a prostitute" is wildly incorrect and delusional lmao
I really liked this episode really made me laugh, this lady (Patricia Allen) is a genius hahahahaha! She talks like my grandmother
That author is speaking some truth🙏🏼
It's a shame that Moshe can't take the time to listen and process how Nikki and Anya - two extremely intelligent women - feel about how intercourse affects them. It is so important for a man to get out of his skin and listen. I love being a man, who believes in nonviolence in all its forms - physical, emotional, and spiritual. I am reverential of a women's ability to have a child. For me it's the most meaningful part of humanity. It's not reductive for a man to acknowledge a woman's gift and miracle of birth - including women holding that gift as a precious part of their lives. It's reductive not to acknowledge this fact. Lastly, for context, I am a liberal yet nonreligious person which does not conflict with my outlook on this issue.
Nikki should have been more receptive to what Moshe was saying because it definitely holds water. I think just by virtue of reading that book you are a certain type of girl with particular interests and goals and to try to apply that to every woman - especially while drawing these bizarre lines between what is sex and what don’t - is borderline disrespectful. Even with the scientific fact that oxytocin does flood the female brain during sex, to blanketly disapprove of all sexual contact besides hand jobs and oral is FUCKING LUDICROUS
And what isn’t*
She also said it starts happening within three seconds of sitting by someone at church...but not when they go down on you??
They say you should never meet your heros...
How have I not noticed the crippling self-confidence issues in Nikki before this video?
Made it to 3:45 before I went “oh wait, these people are all cranks”
So if I get laid from now on I have to recognize that im not relationship material, or vice versa?
I agree with Moshe man. You ladies have a confirmation bias respectfully
Dr Pat Allen's ideas are all over the place. She veers from 'psychological Christianity' to 'open marriage is monogamous'
in the blink of an eye.
Wow....great advertisement for her books... lmaooooo top notch doc
Completely agree with Moshe here. What Nikki seems to be describing here is more of a Gen X/Boomer paradigm. Millenials/Gen Z don't really think that way anymore about relationships. Many guys I know get super attached after sex and many women don't at all. It's just your personality
Doctor Pat is insane.
NICKI IS 100% CORRECT
32:30 thank you!!!!!!!
@Youupwithnikkiglaser It's def very very hard to have sex without getting attached if you feel attracted to the person or if you come in already liking the person even if its clearly just a one night stand.
Nikki getting pissed is a raging sensation
Seriously watching you stay calm is just the best. Also, Moshe-Dog with that 'hmm... ' is hilarious
this doctor is fucking incredible
This woman is the pat robertson of therapists