@@amirahkukan782 Yes because he IS A MAN therefore he can relate more to men's issues. Also if a guy finds a good relationship the other is also benefiting, so he is not only helping men.
Dude this is so much better than the regular staged stuff. This show is great and actually teaching guys to be not seduction artists but just good guys. Keep up the good work!
@E KL I agree. I will say, though, that whenever I've gotten a number, I have always waited at the least until the following night, or the following day. I've had a few women specifically say they were nervous after not immediately hearing from me...I prefer to keep the ball in my side of the court
I mean it would make sense for you to get her number and give her a call at the same moment, so she could save ur number and name but saying "just wanted to see if the number is real or not" is definitely a disrespectful and awkward imo
8:15 is so accurate. The pause of looking someone in the eye and giving a reassuring “you have something good to say” “there’s greatness in you” just works.
You really nailed it as 6:00. As a woman, its always confusing why men get annoyed about getting friendzoned, when the ONLY way they’ve ever interacted is being friendly. In the past, there have been a bunch of times where I figured out that a guy liked me and that’s the first time I considered an attraction to them. Dont go up to a girl and instantly use a pickup line and think that will work. Be conversational and friendly, but also its good to be flirty and funny, so the girl starts understanding you’re attracted to them and they consider that possibility.
I think the problem for men is they don’t want to come across as creepy by being flirty. Say a girl has a bf and they don’t know and they’re trying to flirt some men will see that as being a bad person even if they didn’t know the girl had a bf. Also, you’re talking too a complete stranger it’s a bit weird to be trying to flirt when you have no idea who they are. So by being friendly to start with I think some men see it as, I’ll show how I’m a nice person and then that person will see that, then I’ll start to give them compliments later on etc. Usually the men who will be flirty straight away are a lot more confident tho and will probably come across better to women on a first interaction
Her: Why are those people filming us Him: umm... there is like a idk thing, yeah *awkward silence* yeah, yeah. but ummm. nice talking to you Her: alright Me: DEAD
This is such a great show! And it feels very natural! As a girl (20yo) , some apperance tips I would have for Mark is to 1. stand up straight and confident, pull your shoulders back, hold your head high (that immediately appears more manly and attractive) 2. get better fitting glasses he's so nice and I love how smiley and engaged in a conversation he is, he carries a talk very well!
Honestly surprised at how good Anthony is when it comes to what “women” want. I thought it was just me that liked for guys to be forward but I guess it does apply to everyone. loved this. Poor guy he seemed soooo nervous talking to the girl aw his nervous laugh haha
I’m going on a binge of these videos they are hella interesting. I think what I’m learning is that you should strike up conversations when you feel like it instead of chickening out. Normalize meeting people. I feel bad thinking back on past experiences where I was too anxious to talk to guys that approached me. Oops ya live and learn
I saw one of your videos and I’m already obsessed with this, you’re so fun to watch and at the same time I’m learning so much. I NEED SOME TIPS FOR GIRLS THO.
Great, just great. I think that a lot of guys, myself included, struggle with the leading part, for various reasons. Even if I`m not being coached directly, I feel like I can relate a lot and learn a lot with this videos. If I didn`t know this channel, and this was the first video that I saw, I would be rushing to get that notification bell on :D There is only one problem: this series it`s not a two hours documentary on Netflix (yet). It could be really huge for us young people to learn, on a larger platform, to be ourselves more, without being douchey, and also to see that there is hope even if you are not the best looking dude. I`m really looking forward to the next episode.
I've been through countless pick up artists for the last 2 years, which made me fall in a deep, ugly state of depression. Those 2 years, all I accomplished was develop a sense of insecurity and, honestly, a deep seeded hatred towards women, then I found your channel. I'm still growing and sheding all the negative things I got out of those 2 years, it's still hard, but now most of those insecurities and hatred are slowly going away, thank you man.
This is exactly what I’m striving for. Pickup artists did 100x times more damage than never existing in the first place. I’m trying to bring people to the opposite side of the spectrum. Happy and successful. Keep going bud I’m here for you.
I like your other videos (they've popped up on my feed here and there) but this is the first one that got me to sub to you. Understanding what makes celebrities attractive or charming only goes so far, it doesn't feel relatable or practical to do what celebrities do. Even if the advice is the same, seeing it applied to a regular person makes a huge difference. Thank you, please make more of these so I can be ready for the post-quarantine world!
I loved the concept. I love studying communication and this will help him not only in his dating life but also in self development. By the way, I would like to give you a suggestion for a classic charm research. I think it would be brilliant if you made a video of Zayn Malik. I guess you'll find some aspects very similars to Johnny Depp's. Keep the awesome content!
Can't wait to see more even though the secondhand discomfort is excruciating lol It's true that being still and attentive while someone is talking is respectful, but saying that someone should do it for that reason makes it sound obligatory. Being silent and focused should be a spontaneous outward manifestation of your sincere interest in what someone's saying. Submissive smiling and jittery interjections are an unintentional signal that someone's nervous and concerned about how they're appearing instead of fully attending to the person in front of them. A person feels seen when being quietly listened to, and if that's made the primary motivation in an interaction, people (women) notice the difference and react positively.
Anthony, dude that was a really great video! It was nice to see something real with all the natural awkwardness in the conversation and very practical advice. Keep em coming man! Just subscribed.
These are great! As a shy person myself , I have anxiety with meeting people. But Im also just shy and find myself super unattractive to the average person. I need to seriously watch more of your videos and learn how to say hello😂
this channel will defenitly grown but i believe it will get at first a lot of resistence because he clearly will put a lot of guru pick up artists out of business, love your channel please keep up the authentic good work i will be watching every video thank you👌
Great production already, love the layout of the show. Having the women share what worked and what didn’t after the conversation is great. Look forward to the next one!
I am a little late to the party but 7:55 is so true. So many people don't actually listen; they are just thinking about the next thing they want to say. And you can always tell.
The intro had me feeling like I was watching the show “Arrow” and some sh*t was about to go down! Good video man. Having him wait longer to respond put *me* at more ease just listening to the conversation. Great advice. Like you said he’s clearly a good guy with good intentions, get him some longer glasses and he will be killing it with the ladies in no time! P.S. How did you get so close to the second girl without her noticing the camera???
Hey Anthony, besides your audiobook, what books would you recommend people read about becoming more authentic and removing layers of bs we build around ourselves
@@AnthonyRecenello no, but I collect quotes and it happened to be in my notes. Actually, I've been working with a few boys from college on their fear of approaching girls. It started off with some pretty bad advice, stuff my pick up artist friend would tell me. It's only when I started following people like you and reading up on this that I changed my whole approach and tell them (and myself) to do the hard work on becoming more authentic and learning to handle uncertainty. You and many others are who I have to thank for this change in perspective.
This was really wholesome. Love your positive/honest attitude and towards being real. pls more of this! I'm kind of a type like Mark myself. PS: Smashing Pumpkins Shirt... great! And it's true that anxiety goes away best way by repitition and our body language can change how we feel inside. A psycho Doc gave me the advice to smile at me (in an honest, not over the top, way) in the mirror a few a times a day. This was exactly his approach, and he (kind of a professor type) said there are numerous new studies from neurology that prove that. Inside and outside is connected and vice versa. If we feel bad inside we can use our body (language), like smiling, activating the face muscles for smiling, to change a little how we feel inside. But altogether in a natural way of a newly gained integrity. Not as an artificial performance.
Just watching this tonight gives me motivation and confidence approaching people. I’m going to watch this again tomorrow morning and head outside to talk to some people, approach em
I 19 year old girl, have a tomboyish style, and both of my best friends are guys. I have never been in a real relationship with anybody, to the point where now I don't even understand if I want one. I live in a country where people speak a different language than mine. I like both guys and girls. And, strangely, at least I can talk to girls in a romantic way. With guys, I get kind of weird, because I am used to being friends with them. The idea of approaching guys first is exciting to me, but where do I start? My social anxiety is pretty high. Could you, please, give me some first steps and your perspective on that?
This video is the story of my life at least this vid broke it down for me appreciate it - talking to people was the easy part but conveying romantic intention/interest without seeming weird or awkward
Hey Anthony, great video! Its reallt good advice to be yourself no matter what, and you do that in this video, the one thing I disagree its when you start to tell the guy what to do... Be more serious, let her talk more, etc... By doing that you are already teaching him some techniques although it doesnt sound like it he is "performing" and doing something he wouldnt normally do. Just by seeing the video I can tell he is not the guy to approach women randomly in the streets. He will find someone that connects on that level without any change or character
Hi Rafael. Thanks for your point. I disagree with you. Men come to me to find out where they are being insecure and anxious, and to help them become less anxious. Good social skills is simply the result of a happy, comfortable person. Teaching social skills is simply teaching positivity and a relaxed headspace. For instance, telling him to shut up and allow her to talk is really telling him to quiet his mind and respect the person in front of him. I certainly hope his respect towards her was not a performance. It better not be or I’d not done my job right. You mention that he’ll find someone without changing his character. You’re right, eventually he will. It’s my belief that you are most fulfilled in a relationship when both parties are at peace from within. Otherwise, the relationship can be unstable. This is what we’ve seen from the boomer generation. If Mark continued to meet women with his anxiety, he will meet only anxious women. And that just doesn’t make for a healthy relationship. Mark doesn’t want that. It had been years since Mark had actually dated someone. And if he was happy with that situation, he wouldn’t be here. Again, social skills are just the result of a happy, relaxed, loving person. That is all I aim to teach. Anything further would be inauthentic.
@@AnthonyRecenello totally right, thanks for response... How can someone improve their social skills by him self? Approaching and talking to women help to get over it but do u reccomend any books or something... By the way, glad to see some actually good content and talent on youtube besides these yt gurus. Keep it up 🙌
First of all great video by the way Anthony and I can't wait to see the second part. I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on the current situation I am in? I like my sister's best friend and she and I have been friends for over 4 years. Recently I've seen something in her and I would like to pursue her as a possible partner. It's cool if you don't respond just keep up the good vids man
Eheh perfect sweater weather eheh, it's not too cold eheh, it's not, I guess, eheh too cold eheh.. No but really, this guy is so genuine. Can't wait for an update on this dude.
I see you finally have reached a little more recognition Glad to see your is channel growing, Anthony Excited for your future uploads, great valuable content without the silly BS. Only the weird attractive soul being a charming and fun person.
Honestly the best way to approach a woman is to just come over, chat, be friendly and not expect anything. Stop with the cheesy lines or with the weird "wanting to get a gf" sht. Once a guy approached me and commented on the coat I was wearing which he found rlly nice and then we just casually talked- it was short but I felt that he didn't have any other intentions because he didn't force anything and honestly I wished we could've talked more and the guy is still in my head, so if yall men want to make an impression try not to force anything and be nice
Hey! Can you do a video reacting to the show Love is Blind on Netflix? I think that would be sooo helpful bc I couldn’t understand why Barnett is so attractive 🤣
Anthony Recenello I think Episode 1 really shows his personality the best. Of course it’s a reality dating show, so the interactions might not be fully authentic, but I just wanted to see what you thought of him!! Thanks
I'm a bit confused Anthony. You said on another video that the best way to approach the opposite sex is to visit places and go to meetups of things you like, this way you can actually relate with the person without any sort of intentions, which I agree. This seems like regular pickup
this guy is every girls dream. Rich, clean looking, gentle and would be a total pushover for them. He needs to learn game quick or he will be snagged by some beta hunter
Could you react to tiktokers Charli d’Amelio and Chase Hudson? they’ve been dating for 6 months but they are not officially together despite acting like it.. its a weird situation
The main reason why he gets in the friend zoned so often, is because he doesn't have a very masculine appearance, and doesn't style that well either. If he lost the glasses, bulked up 20 pounds and had a well groomed beard, the reactions he get would be entirely different. Focusing on game and personality, especially for a guy who is already pretty well socially adjusted, isn't the best bang for his buck imo. Entertaining video and good dating mindset tips, however.
Hi there, interesting vid! As a side not to something you said, I do appreciate a man to openly express their interest, but wouldn't subscribe to liking for them to 'lead', personally. I appreciate a balanced back and forth. :) Also, I'd be interested to hear more tips for people that are not straight men. Last but not least, it'd be cool to have a bit more diversity/awareness with lgbtq+, the way I've seen you divide the dating portion of humanity into 'men' and 'women' seems a bit too binary sometimes. Apart from that, I've heard and seen some good stuff in your vids and I appreciate the work you do and the way you try to Foster understanding instead a 'battle of the sexes', so thank you!
i dunno, imagine if every dude was going up to these women in the park, they'd never get anything done of whatever they're trying to do. i feel like people don't go to a park looking for romantic partners, it's not like a bar or something... this feels weird to me, like infringing on someone's space also, to the "who is more of an asshole" q, i feel like the person being an asshole is the one who makes the woman more uncomfortable/fearful, and usually that's the guy telegraphing his sexual intentions more than the guy hiding them, even if the guy hiding them is lying. it's about the impact of behavior, not the intent of it
You need to get my free audiobook I explain it in there. Basically looks really just means health. Get fit. Women don’t care beyond that. In fact I think I have the looks advantage over pretty boys.
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Ok guys this is the first episode so you need to tell me ALL your feedback! Put it in the comments! 👇🏻
Im binging ur videos...this is great idea.. good quality content!
You’re a cool dude with great advice 🤙🏻 keep pushing through
Had no idea you only help men?
Amirah Kukan I help everyone now. I was small minded.
@@amirahkukan782 Yes because he IS A MAN therefore he can relate more to men's issues. Also if a guy finds a good relationship the other is also benefiting, so he is not only helping men.
Dude this is so much better than the regular staged stuff. This show is great and actually teaching guys to be not seduction artists but just good guys. Keep up the good work!
William you couldn’t have given me a better compliment! Thanks so much bud hope to see more of you around here 👍🏻
never call a woman after getting her number and then follow up with "just making sure it's a real number"....we don't like that.
i appreciate your perspective mocca! hope to keep seeing more feedback it really helps guys
@E KL I've never thought about that, thank you for the advice!
@E KL I agree. I will say, though, that whenever I've gotten a number, I have always waited at the least until the following night, or the following day. I've had a few women specifically say they were nervous after not immediately hearing from me...I prefer to keep the ball in my side of the court
I 100% agree. Just accept the number she gave you. If it's a fake or random number just accept that she wasn't really that into you and move on.
I mean it would make sense for you to get her number and give her a call at the same moment, so she could save ur number and name but saying "just wanted to see if the number is real or not" is definitely a disrespectful and awkward imo
8:15 is so accurate. The pause of looking someone in the eye and giving a reassuring “you have something good to say” “there’s greatness in you” just works.
Wow thank you Serex. You said it perfectly.
How adorable is Mark! He’s so cute! What a sweet personality how does he have issues finding woman?! Ladies this dude is a gem!
I agree !!
Agree!
YOU are sweet, Nelly. I hope Mark reads this and feels better about himself. It's a long process where every little helps.
Agreed, what mark need is someone to push him do something he doesnt usually do
You really nailed it as 6:00. As a woman, its always confusing why men get annoyed about getting friendzoned, when the ONLY way they’ve ever interacted is being friendly. In the past, there have been a bunch of times where I figured out that a guy liked me and that’s the first time I considered an attraction to them. Dont go up to a girl and instantly use a pickup line and think that will work. Be conversational and friendly, but also its good to be flirty and funny, so the girl starts understanding you’re attracted to them and they consider that possibility.
Thank you so much Sana. Your words are inspiring! See you soon.
I think the problem for men is they don’t want to come across as creepy by being flirty. Say a girl has a bf and they don’t know and they’re trying to flirt some men will see that as being a bad person even if they didn’t know the girl had a bf. Also, you’re talking too a complete stranger it’s a bit weird to be trying to flirt when you have no idea who they are. So by being friendly to start with I think some men see it as, I’ll show how I’m a nice person and then that person will see that, then I’ll start to give them compliments later on etc. Usually the men who will be flirty straight away are a lot more confident tho and will probably come across better to women on a first interaction
This is my favorite thing on the internet now
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@@AnthonyRecenello just like I share every single video of yours DONE
Himanshu Sharma hahah yayyy
Her: Why are those people filming us
Him: umm... there is like a idk thing, yeah
*awkward silence*
yeah, yeah. but ummm. nice talking to you
Her: alright
Me: DEAD
This is such a great show! And it feels very natural!
As a girl (20yo) , some apperance tips I would have for Mark is to 1. stand up straight and confident, pull your shoulders back, hold your head high (that immediately appears more manly and attractive) 2. get better fitting glasses
he's so nice and I love how smiley and engaged in a conversation he is, he carries a talk very well!
Thanks so much HP. And yes after the show I told him to buy new glasses ASAP 🤣.
Honestly surprised at how good Anthony is when it comes to what “women” want. I thought it was just me that liked for guys to be forward but I guess it does apply to everyone. loved this. Poor guy he seemed soooo nervous talking to the girl aw his nervous laugh haha
It ain't easy to approach a complete stranger, at least for me it's always challenging
free tv show let’s goo
Lollllll yessssssssss
hey, react to nicole kidman admitting she had a crush on jimmy fallon. that one is a classic.
Definitely gonna do that one
@@AnthonyRecenello yesss
I second this!
1:18 Anthony, you should teach that squirrel how to overcome his fear of cameras.
I’m going on a binge of these videos they are hella interesting. I think what I’m learning is that you should strike up conversations when you feel like it instead of chickening out. Normalize meeting people. I feel bad thinking back on past experiences where I was too anxious to talk to guys that approached me. Oops ya live and learn
Hell yeah
I saw one of your videos and I’m already obsessed with this, you’re so fun to watch and at the same time I’m learning so much. I NEED SOME TIPS FOR GIRLS THO.
Bro this is sick to watch during this time of staying indoors thanks
Zen just wait til the next episode. Thanks so much bud hope to see more of ya. 👌🏻
Great, just great. I think that a lot of guys, myself included, struggle with the leading part, for various reasons. Even if I`m not being coached directly, I feel like I can relate a lot and learn a lot with this videos. If I didn`t know this channel, and this was the first video that I saw, I would be rushing to get that notification bell on :D
There is only one problem: this series it`s not a two hours documentary on Netflix (yet).
It could be really huge for us young people to learn, on a larger platform, to be ourselves more, without being douchey, and also to see that there is hope even if you are not the best looking dude.
I`m really looking forward to the next episode.
Hell yes Giuseppe! I love hearing this from you. Hopefully Netflix will pick it up based on the response here.
I've been through countless pick up artists for the last 2 years, which made me fall in a deep, ugly state of depression.
Those 2 years, all I accomplished was develop a sense of insecurity and, honestly, a deep seeded hatred towards women, then I found your channel.
I'm still growing and sheding all the negative things I got out of those 2 years, it's still hard, but now most of those insecurities and hatred are slowly going away, thank you man.
This is exactly what I’m striving for. Pickup artists did 100x times more damage than never existing in the first place. I’m trying to bring people to the opposite side of the spectrum. Happy and successful. Keep going bud I’m here for you.
I like your other videos (they've popped up on my feed here and there) but this is the first one that got me to sub to you. Understanding what makes celebrities attractive or charming only goes so far, it doesn't feel relatable or practical to do what celebrities do. Even if the advice is the same, seeing it applied to a regular person makes a huge difference. Thank you, please make more of these so I can be ready for the post-quarantine world!
Yes dude. Thank you Amit. I plan I’m doing ALOT more of these. If you live in the LA area I’d be happy to coach you too. 😘
I loved the concept. I love studying communication and this will help him not only in his dating life but also in self development. By the way, I would like to give you a suggestion for a classic charm research. I think it would be brilliant if you made a video of Zayn Malik. I guess you'll find some aspects very similars to Johnny Depp's. Keep the awesome content!
Ok I’ll check out zayn more. Thanks for the great comment Diogo!
About to head put and put it to the test... After the whole pandemic is over lol. Great show Anthony! Can't wait for more!
Woot woot! Thanks Sebastian keep me updated :-)
Engineers are seriously some of the sweetest, smartest, and most honest people you could date.
Can't wait to see more even though the secondhand discomfort is excruciating lol
It's true that being still and attentive while someone is talking is respectful, but saying that someone should do it for that reason makes it sound obligatory. Being silent and focused should be a spontaneous outward manifestation of your sincere interest in what someone's saying. Submissive smiling and jittery interjections are an unintentional signal that someone's nervous and concerned about how they're appearing instead of fully attending to the person in front of them. A person feels seen when being quietly listened to, and if that's made the primary motivation in an interaction, people (women) notice the difference and react positively.
Yes 100%. This is everything I teach. I never want anyone to fake it. The reason for interactions should always be genuine.
Anthony, dude that was a really great video! It was nice to see something real with all the natural awkwardness in the conversation and very practical advice. Keep em coming man! Just subscribed.
Luv ya
"the quality of your life is the quality of your communication, the quality of your life is the quality of your relationships"
You're literally the best
Thanks 👍🏻
These are great!
As a shy person myself , I have anxiety with meeting people. But Im also just shy and find myself super unattractive to the average person.
I need to seriously watch more of your videos and learn how to say hello😂
this channel will defenitly grown but i believe it will get at first a lot of resistence because he clearly will put a lot of guru pick up artists out of business, love your channel please keep up the authentic good work i will be watching every video thank you👌
Wow thank you Tiago you’re amazing
What if she belong to the streets how do you get that
LOL
This is awesome! You should do a video on being ghosted
Glad you liked it jon. Yeah I’ll be doing 4 vids a week so I’ll make one on that soon. 🙏🏻
Great production already, love the layout of the show. Having the women share what worked and what didn’t after the conversation is great. Look forward to the next one!
I am a little late to the party but 7:55 is so true. So many people don't actually listen; they are just thinking about the next thing they want to say. And you can always tell.
I watched many dating coach videos but Anthony bruh you are One of the best
Love you man ❤️
Thanks bud but you should just say BEST cuz it’s true. 😘
This coach is the real hitch. He knows how make real opportunities. Great coaching.
Dude you are legit so underrated its crazy. Hope you get a bazilion subs!
Thanks Naomi!
The intro had me feeling like I was watching the show “Arrow” and some sh*t was about to go down!
Good video man. Having him wait longer to respond put *me* at more ease just listening to the conversation. Great advice.
Like you said he’s clearly a good guy with good intentions, get him some longer glasses and he will be killing it with the ladies in no time!
P.S. How did you get so close to the second girl without her noticing the camera???
wow, yesterday your sub count was 13.6 and today it's at 14K!! Well done!
Thanks I’m trying! I need all the help I can get 🤣
Lol look now 🙈
@@AnthonyRecenello duuuuuuuuude!!!! That is CRAZY!!!
Its working 187k now
That's legen
Wait for it
Dary
You’re the best.
We have to wait a whole week??! manneee..
it’s okay though great video man
Dude trust me it’ll fly by
Hey Anthony, besides your audiobook, what books would you recommend people read about becoming more authentic and removing layers of bs we build around ourselves
Your Erroneous Zones by Wayne Dyer is THE book that changed my life.
@@AnthonyRecenello "How people treat you is their karma; how you react is yours"!! Thanks!
Talha Muhammad you read it before?
@@AnthonyRecenello no, but I collect quotes and it happened to be in my notes.
Actually, I've been working with a few boys from college on their fear of approaching girls. It started off with some pretty bad advice, stuff my pick up artist friend would tell me. It's only when I started following people like you and reading up on this that I changed my whole approach and tell them (and myself) to do the hard work on becoming more authentic and learning to handle uncertainty. You and many others are who I have to thank for this change in perspective.
Talha Muhammad thanks so much talha it really means a lot.
This was really wholesome. Love your positive/honest attitude and towards being real. pls more of this! I'm kind of a type like Mark myself. PS: Smashing Pumpkins Shirt... great! And it's true that anxiety goes away best way by repitition and our body language can change how we feel inside. A psycho Doc gave me the advice to smile at me (in an honest, not over the top, way) in the mirror a few a times a day. This was exactly his approach, and he (kind of a professor type) said there are numerous new studies from neurology that prove that. Inside and outside is connected and vice versa. If we feel bad inside we can use our body (language), like smiling, activating the face muscles for smiling, to change a little how we feel inside. But altogether in a natural way of a newly gained integrity. Not as an artificial performance.
love it man. Just found your channel. Kinda bummed episode 2 isnt out yet :/ Cant wait til sunday! Subscribed!
Just watching this tonight gives me motivation and confidence approaching people. I’m going to watch this again tomorrow morning and head outside to talk to some people, approach em
I 19 year old girl, have a tomboyish style, and both of my best friends are guys. I have never been in a real relationship with anybody, to the point where now I don't even understand if I want one. I live in a country where people speak a different language than mine. I like both guys and girls. And, strangely, at least I can talk to girls in a romantic way. With guys, I get kind of weird, because I am used to being friends with them. The idea of approaching guys first is exciting to me, but where do I start? My social anxiety is pretty high. Could you, please, give me some first steps and your perspective on that?
This absolutely gonna help me through Quarantine
He laughs every time he talks, which is the same thing I do when I’m nervous
I love this show already, I know so many men (and women too) that need your advice in their lives. Immediately sending this to my brother
This video is the story of my life at least this vid broke it down for me appreciate it - talking to people was the easy part but conveying romantic intention/interest without seeming weird or awkward
When is the 'Beetlejuice Classic Charm' coming? Let me tell you, this guy have an unstoppable confidence
Lollllll so true hahaha
love your content. really authentic, thank you
Hey Anthony, great video! Its reallt good advice to be yourself no matter what, and you do that in this video, the one thing I disagree its when you start to tell the guy what to do... Be more serious, let her talk more, etc... By doing that you are already teaching him some techniques although it doesnt sound like it he is "performing" and doing something he wouldnt normally do.
Just by seeing the video I can tell he is not the guy to approach women randomly in the streets. He will find someone that connects on that level without any change or character
Hi Rafael. Thanks for your point. I disagree with you. Men come to me to find out where they are being insecure and anxious, and to help them become less anxious.
Good social skills is simply the result of a happy, comfortable person. Teaching social skills is simply teaching positivity and a relaxed headspace.
For instance, telling him to shut up and allow her to talk is really telling him to quiet his mind and respect the person in front of him.
I certainly hope his respect towards her was not a performance. It better not be or I’d not done my job right.
You mention that he’ll find someone without changing his character. You’re right, eventually he will. It’s my belief that you are most fulfilled in a relationship when both parties are at peace from within. Otherwise, the relationship can be unstable. This is what we’ve seen from the boomer generation.
If Mark continued to meet women with his anxiety, he will meet only anxious women. And that just doesn’t make for a healthy relationship. Mark doesn’t want that.
It had been years since Mark had actually dated someone. And if he was happy with that situation, he wouldn’t be here.
Again, social skills are just the result of a happy, relaxed, loving person. That is all I aim to teach. Anything further would be inauthentic.
@@AnthonyRecenello totally right, thanks for response... How can someone improve their social skills by him self? Approaching and talking to women help to get over it but do u reccomend any books or something...
By the way, glad to see some actually good content and talent on youtube besides these yt gurus. Keep it up 🙌
Im so happy i found this channel🙏 awesome content
Pls do a series on getting bacl out there after surfing a toxic/ abusive relationship xx
This video makes me so anxious
That’s the point
@@AnthonyRecenello such good advice though, and encouraging to see someone do it and succeed 😊😊
First of all great video by the way Anthony and I can't wait to see the second part. I was just wondering if you could give me some advice on the current situation I am in? I like my sister's best friend and she and I have been friends for over 4 years. Recently I've seen something in her and I would like to pursue her as a possible partner. It's cool if you don't respond just keep up the good vids man
Wow Julio thanks so much for the comment. So my advice for you is the exact advice I’m giving Mark in episode 2. You’ll see it on Sunday.
@@AnthonyRecenello Oh awsome thanks man I'll be on the lookout.
Omg this is my new favorite show. I love it!
you should do some more calssic charm episodes ..plz and this very cool to keep the helping up
Nobody watches them 🤣
Just grateful for this content, AMAZING lessons.
thank u surr murr
Eheh perfect sweater weather eheh, it's not too cold eheh, it's not, I guess, eheh too cold eheh.. No but really, this guy is so genuine. Can't wait for an update on this dude.
I see you finally have reached a little more recognition
Glad to see your is channel growing, Anthony
Excited for your future uploads, great valuable content
without the silly BS. Only the weird attractive soul being a charming and fun person.
You da bomb Matt. I need all the feedback i can get. thank you for that.
I love the storytelling and the content is great. But pls improve the technical side of Series (Focus) haha. Much fan of the show
Did u see the new iteration First Date?
Wow this is interesting
I’d love to know your thoughts Carolina. I haven’t showed this to anyone yet.
can i just say he has such a beautiful smile
He does!
he is not just a man, he is a life changer
Honestly the best way to approach a woman is to just come over, chat, be friendly and not expect anything. Stop with the cheesy lines or with the weird "wanting to get a gf" sht.
Once a guy approached me and commented on the coat I was wearing which he found rlly nice and then we just casually talked- it was short but I felt that he didn't have any other intentions because he didn't force anything and honestly I wished we could've talked more and the guy is still in my head, so if yall men want to make an impression try not to force anything and be nice
Of course whatever you do is excellent. This is excellent!!
THANKS SO MUCH patrick. means alot. as this show took a bunch of work! comment on the next episode so i know u found it 👍🏻
He's a giggler!
Pls do Jordan B Peterson and/or Will Smith next.
This depends on the country you life in.
If you do this in my country this wouldn't work.
11:30 isn't this Jordan Peterson? lol
Lol omg
Wow
7:17 😂😂
Hey! Can you do a video reacting to the show Love is Blind on Netflix? I think that would be sooo helpful bc I couldn’t understand why Barnett is so attractive 🤣
Ok give me an episode to react to
Anthony Recenello I think Episode 1 really shows his personality the best. Of course it’s a reality dating show, so the interactions might not be fully authentic, but I just wanted to see what you thought of him!! Thanks
Mary Kate Meade 100% Mary Kate!
I'm a bit confused Anthony. You said on another video that the best way to approach the opposite sex is to visit places and go to meetups of things you like, this way you can actually relate with the person without any sort of intentions, which I agree. This seems like regular pickup
thanks
PePe Frog yasssss Pepe anything for you
PREACH!!!!!!!!!! 🙌
He’s kindda cute though 👉👈
Look for his insta!
Anthony how can you be so likable? Lol
this guy is every girls dream. Rich, clean looking, gentle and would be a total pushover for them. He needs to learn game quick or he will be snagged by some beta hunter
Could you react to tiktokers Charli d’Amelio and Chase Hudson? they’ve been dating for 6 months but they are not officially together despite acting like it.. its a weird situation
Yeah it’s a very weird situation. They don’t even look right for each other if you ask me
Anthony, you should read Models by Mark Manson. It's pretty interesting
They're just all actors
Lolllll
my first reactions: oof he's smart and tall
10:05 ---SQUIRREL!
Can you do a reaction to Russell Brand interviews?
Sahil, look in my channel. I have a full vid on Russell Brand. Please go comment over there so I know you found it :-)
mark is so handsome
The main reason why he gets in the friend zoned so often, is because he doesn't have a very masculine appearance, and doesn't style that well either. If he lost the glasses, bulked up 20 pounds and had a well groomed beard, the reactions he get would be entirely different.
Focusing on game and personality, especially for a guy who is already pretty well socially adjusted, isn't the best bang for his buck imo. Entertaining video and good dating mindset tips, however.
No. That’s cheesy red pill teachings for high schoolers. Also, he’s been in a relationship for years soon after this video.
Can't help but think those glasses irritates his ear soo much. He should get new ones imo
Holy shit, I'm planning to study computer science, should I drop out now ? 😂
Absolutely not. No woman is worth throwing away your career. Women wouldn't even think twice and keep on with their career choice.
Hi there, interesting vid! As a side not to something you said, I do appreciate a man to openly express their interest, but wouldn't subscribe to liking for them to 'lead', personally. I appreciate a balanced back and forth. :) Also, I'd be interested to hear more tips for people that are not straight men. Last but not least, it'd be cool to have a bit more diversity/awareness with lgbtq+, the way I've seen you divide the dating portion of humanity into 'men' and 'women' seems a bit too binary sometimes. Apart from that, I've heard and seen some good stuff in your vids and I appreciate the work you do and the way you try to Foster understanding instead a 'battle of the sexes', so thank you!
one more suggestion: please invest in some new glasses
SMASHING PUMPKINS!! ^_^
i dunno, imagine if every dude was going up to these women in the park, they'd never get anything done of whatever they're trying to do. i feel like people don't go to a park looking for romantic partners, it's not like a bar or something... this feels weird to me, like infringing on someone's space
also, to the "who is more of an asshole" q, i feel like the person being an asshole is the one who makes the woman more uncomfortable/fearful, and usually that's the guy telegraphing his sexual intentions more than the guy hiding them, even if the guy hiding them is lying. it's about the impact of behavior, not the intent of it
I want to see this guy pick up a girl
are these videos filmed pre pandemic?
Yes when I was realllly fat
@@AnthonyRecenello do a Muhammad ali classic charm vid!
Dont you belive in the importance of looks or do you think its all about game?
You need to get my free audiobook I explain it in there. Basically looks really just means health. Get fit. Women don’t care beyond that. In fact I think I have the looks advantage over pretty boys.
He sounds like Elon Musk
LOL good point sam
He's cute tho
0 dislikes deserved
Thank you man.
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Good show, but what on earth are you wearing?