FYI: In Marine Corps boot camp, we were not allowed to use the personal pronoun "I." Instead, we had to refer to ourselves as "this recruit." If anyone dared used the word "I," the drill instructors would swarm us, pointing at their eyes and yelling, "This is an EYE, this is an EYE!!" 😜 You're correct-it really does dissolve the sense of duality because you lose a sense of your individuality... Great lecture.
There was a time I was referring to myself by using "This person" instead of "I", the problem was when talking to somebody I wouldn't do it, bc they would think I'm insane or an egomaniac and tbh, desolation of the self can drive you insane.
My gosh, as a bartender I HATE when people ask about "me". I am a character that is best-suited to be your bartender, an artificial persona, and PLEASE don't break it for your curiosity edit: meaning while I am at work, obviously
One of the best things I got out of our conversation Lyam, was how stuck in the mindset of against-ism I was! Hard to realise when one is deep in it, that all the mind and energy is focussed on is how wrong everything/certain things are and indeed one might consider in reality this is feeding energy into the very thing that one is against! As we progress through the Great Work we change ourselves and in turn I believe we change the world. Thanks for your energy Lyam.
Regarding middle pillar being the only active one: When a pendulum is in motion, it seems like something is pushing it left, then right, then left, etc. But the only force being applied is the gravity pushing down.
Very interesting so far, thanks Lyam! One hack that I've found for affirmations is to record them, and then use audio editing software to make them inaudible & create your own subliminal message tracks. Playing them overnight while sleeping, or throughout the day has proven very effective for me.
Everyone is already creating their reality with their words, they just aren't always aware that there are lots of words and emotional thought patterns going on in the background/subconscious that keep creating the patterns they were conditioned to create.
So, not "same shit, different day" but "same pattern, new chance to deal with it in a better way", and I'm a poet and didn't know it... Thank you for revealing a better approach by which to play. 😜
Thank you for another amazing lesson. This person will try these exercises on their kids because they know that kids keep parents accountable more so than their own habitual minds.
50:49 my parents were given the no judgement exercise in the Sufi order they were attending, my ma told me that it made her go nearly insane, ofc there were other ones also such as not talking for a while and meditations, they quit after a while
The e-prime exercise could also be used to create more mindfulness in communication in everyday speech. What I notice all the time is the overwhelming use of filling words like "like", "I mean", "you know" or in your case "okay" which most of the time is a sign of speaking before thinking. Of course, filling words can create a flow in which it seems to become easier to get to the point, but it tends to weaken the awareness of the power of words (especially in a magic sense). I think the use of filling words got worse, because of a smaller vocabulary (compare the use of specific words and a general bigger variety of terms in older times than todays multipurpose-words)
I talk to myself a lot (lol) and one of these days when introspecting I notice something when affirming, there's this feeling that ALWAYS disagrees, that I believe is a part of my ego (Instinctual Ego) that takes info from my senses and keeps me grounded i. e. keeps me in the illusion.
Talking to oneself is not a problem when one can see through the duality. Kind of like going to play and appreciating the actors because you know that the play is just a play, and that the whole production is showing us something important, beyond itself.
by far this is my favorite video of yours. It needs more views for sure. New age thinking has hindered the learning of many people. the way one address themselves is everything. I will start the training with this one. I also wanted to thank you for the witchy breath, it's been a game changer for me before CQC training. cheers and looking forward for the next one!
Good to hear. I know people who suffer terribly from insomnia. I have told them about the blue-light fix, but I guess it sounds too weird or too good to be true. They continue to suffer.
When you said behind every apparent wish there is another "hidden" wish which is the true thing you want. Very very true. A few days ago I have realised how much the planetary system helped me discover these "hidden" things I wanted/felt lacking in my life, as every planet is a representation of these things "in the background". Like, if you really want a castle for example, what exactly you want? Is it the Venusian beauty of the castle with the big garden? Or is it the feeling of a king, the feeling of "power" that it gives you? Both of these are two different things, because truthfully you don't literally desire the amalgamation of rocks that make up the castle. And the planetary system helps us with that. I rarely describe my desires or "preferences" to myself in a literal way now, I feel like the planetary system gets much more "to the core" of it and unmasks what I really mean or how I really feel
As a teenager I used to draw myself as a faceless angel chained go earth. Sometimes crucified with a red drape. I had a nickname related to that at the time. Started romanticizing everything aboit my life. I was like a tragic hero.and its at this time I became aware that there was a differecence between me, the ego and who I was truely. I would want to do something that would be really easy for me to do, but I would be able to do anything. As if my subconscious mind was not allowing to access skills that were really nature to me for some reason. I later started learning about meditation and creative visualisation bc I was trying to manifest the things i wanted from life but felt like something, someone, somewhere was prevebting me to have that. Funny enough, even tho i gave up on this part of my like years ago, I still struggle to manifest things I want from life.
A smoker can do/see everything in his life including washing dishes as a way to create "non smoker" by simply connecting with the energy required for new creation. Even he could smoke as if to create non-smoker and the activity can become chiseling away of "smoker" because mostly we are not open to new creation possibility but just repeats. Creation is the key. Say 'I create big huge body' or whatever that opens up creation for me and not fall into mechanical sleep or fate. :)
@@Livfree33 yes mere mechanical habit changes may help initially to stay distant from heavy destructive habits such as smoking cigarettes (as if an infant sucking breast milk aggressively) or looking into phone untill 4:00 AM in the morning or any such :) Though creation has not entered ones life.
The power of positive thinking is in not thinking. Thinking attempts to describe feeling. If one hones in on feeling and ceases the internal babble and need for definition the mind becomes free.
There is a certain magician here on YT, (who I am sure you know of because he is very well known), who says to disclude the "NOT" factor, or "negatives". I always felt like that was a sort of denial and makes your higher Self out to be stupid.
Haha! Good insight. The reason for not including "not" mainly has to do with the againstism. Every scenario with a "not" involves that duality, and that duality, when taken seriously, is what keeps us stuck and struggling. When one learns to see through the duality, then it's no longer an issue. One will still avoid "not" because that word is often unskillful, but any scenario involving a "not"--instead of creating a stuck situation--can still point to a reality beyond itself that is free of nots/knots/naughts.
This video.... eye opening i did the practices all day its like the three stages of imagination it lead to a feeling of disappearing fading the more the I slipped into E-prime and also u mentioned boxers being more calculated in fights is it possibly that a panoramic perception / feeling leads to a more caculated ability to respond appropriately to a possible threat? Also I don't get startled very much it appears The more the identity dissappear the less startled I get ... I'm barely bothered
Good insight. However, the word "calculated" can be misleading. Calculated often means contrived. Artificial. Calculation is necessary when there is a problem taken seriously. A martial arts master has no problems.
@lyamchristopher2393 yea your right I had to contemplate abit! If I'm caculated it implies a plan another form of againstisim Also may I ask do u grow plants? I grow carnivorous ones
47:04 genuine question, dont expect a definitive answer, but maybe youd know a thing or two here. if consciousness is eternal, is it possible that every moment is entirely new, isnt there a chance that everything repeats eventually? Or do you think novelty truly fractals out forever, how/why is that?
Like reality itself, these interpretations of what reality "is" are arising all the time. Like photos of a spring head that's constantly gushing, swirling, and changing. Observe the snapshots as they arise, and let them go. Let them arise, show themselves off, and then drop away. In that observation--beyond any answer to your question--is the answer to your question.
Dear lyam your videos seems to have changed this person’s life. Thank you very much. This person got introduced to reprograming the mind through affirmation in deep meditation some years ago and as you said there seemed a lot of backfiring happening to this person. This person read your book. Would you say what other resources or books on this topic ,this person can look for? Thanks in advance ❤️
Helooo Lyam! Gratefull for your work! Helps a lots. Can you share whit me a resource (a book, a web, TH-cam chanel, etc) to learn the meainings of the Tarots cards for the neophite fase. Or its better just use intuition for the dayle reading? Send you love from argentina (if thats its something that one can do 😅).
@@lyamchristopher2393 Jesusss!! Well let's pretend I didn't look up the meaning of each card I drew. And also just pretend I didn't write a song saying that I wanna date the High Priestess and I don't care about the empress.
Jokes aside I gonna stop doing that. Happens that in the paragrah of the tarot exercise dont say explicit that I cannot search. So I thought I could. Thanks for the help :D
"Tries to go with it to try to create something desirable". I keep going back to this question: Is true magic supposed to enable our persona (aka ego) to create its desires ? or is it supposed to fully align the persona with true will (aka elightenment), dissolving its desires for the sake of true will in the process ?
You might want to consider the persona to be like a magnifying glass and the divine to be like a light bulb. You might want to try that right now: get a magnifying glass and go some place where there's a single light source. Use the magnifying glass to project an image of the light source upon a sheet of white paper. You've got to adjust the distance of the lens from the paper until you get a clear, in-focus image. The persona that is well-trained and free of compulsions is able to keep the image of the light source in focus almost all the time. Creating a reality below which resembles the light source above. "As above, so below." The ego is the collection of unconscious compulsions that try to create images of things other than the light source. Or its compulsions include wrong ideas of what the light source is. It's important not to take these little analogies too seriously. They are merely pointers.
So those critters on the floor i mentioned a while back. I noticed that some of them have the same kind of eyes that the ancient sumarian deities have in their stone carving. Kinda alien looking. Has this happened before?
@lyamchristopher2393 When I started doing the lbrp, I started seeing these cartoon characters on the floor, some look pleasant, others look like monsters, I sometimes feel strong emotions when I see them, and other times when I overcome obstacles, they bring me gifts.
It seems a bit inauthentic/contrived to avoid using "I" at times there is a stronger identification with the person. Then, affirming I am not the mind might seem to help.
Good insight. All of these things are contrivances. That’s why they are all subject to being used wrongly: to perpetuate our unenlightened state. The most subtle contrivance is the “pure” meditation-only spiritual practice.
Hi - Have you explained your take on the Ouroboros and enhancing the spiritual body (merkaba) in order to obtain spiritual immortality (disabling the reincarnation process)? If not a video/response would be highly appreciated. Thanks for your time and teachings ❤
This is excellent since I’ve Been haphazardly practicing these methods for the last 12 months. But now I’ve really started to notice my wife’s negativity and it’s starting to get to me . Obviously writing this doesn’t help but any suggestions?
Watch these videos with her and pause and talk about what different concepts mean to each of you - by doing this you will identify the problem in the definitions you both give to things and view it at a third angle/perspective
"Negativity" in regard to the wife's behavior is a convenient self-serving label for what's happening. What's actually happening? Really look. Not need to discuss it with her (yet). Just look. Understand how those behaviors have evolved.
Practice thinking positively through all the ups and downs, the “positive and negative” emotions. Lyam recounted in this video paying a jar every time a negative judgement was passed. You’re allowed to feel any number of ways for a situation, but you have control over how you think of it.
@@lyamchristopher2393Thank you!!! I will rewatch it 😄 Also a thought from today: Many people complain about the Golden Dawn's need for visualisation. They say...well, the old grimoires never specifically asked for visualisation! The people of the old were doing magic without ever being instructed or instructing others specifically to visualise! After observing both magical currents I think well, maybe the people of the old never needed specifically to be instructed to "visualise". They were doing it all the time. What is visualisation? Isn't it, in a way, letting the border between the "fantasy" and "material" fade away, and let them unite? Well, the people of the old, I think, didn't need this instruction because the border between these two things appears much more solid today. Today we swear that one of these is real and one is false which is why we need to be instructed to "visualise" so that we make (or realise) these two as one, and not two completely different and separated. So yes, the instruction for "visualisation" doesn't simply throw out the magic system like some claim because we (very easily know) that our perspective on reality changed over the years.
I think I heard Krishnamurti once say that mantra recitation was completely useless for those who are just speaking "vain repetitions" as the bible calls it. Just saying and thinking isn't enough.
Babe if you went in knowing what the video was going to be about anyways why waste your time. Not quite the smart cookie you assume you are! Placebos still WORK, positive thinking moulds reality as much as a damaged mind corrodes it. You went in knowing the title of the video, the subject matter, and came out with nothing but harsh words when you can just admit you needed something more from this channel. Try selecting videos better instead of criticising the very material for what it’s intended on being about.
FYI: In Marine Corps boot camp, we were not allowed to use the personal pronoun "I." Instead, we had to refer to ourselves as "this recruit." If anyone dared used the word "I," the drill instructors would swarm us, pointing at their eyes and yelling, "This is an EYE, this is an EYE!!" 😜 You're correct-it really does dissolve the sense of duality because you lose a sense of your individuality... Great lecture.
There was a time I was referring to myself by using "This person" instead of "I", the problem was when talking to somebody I wouldn't do it, bc they would think I'm insane or an egomaniac and tbh, desolation of the self can drive you insane.
Woah 😮
My gosh, as a bartender I HATE when people ask about "me". I am a character that is best-suited to be your bartender, an artificial persona, and PLEASE don't break it for your curiosity
edit: meaning while I am at work, obviously
One of the best things I got out of our conversation Lyam, was how stuck in the mindset of against-ism I was! Hard to realise when one is deep in it, that all the mind and energy is focussed on is how wrong everything/certain things are and indeed one might consider in reality this is feeding energy into the very thing that one is against!
As we progress through the Great Work we change ourselves and in turn I believe we change the world. Thanks for your energy Lyam.
Well said! Yes, the world is something other than what the stress response says it is.
Regarding middle pillar being the only active one:
When a pendulum is in motion, it seems like something is pushing it left, then right, then left, etc. But the only force being applied is the gravity pushing down.
This subscriber , just learned stronger manifesting skills.
Very interesting so far, thanks Lyam! One hack that I've found for affirmations is to record them, and then use audio editing software to make them inaudible & create your own subliminal message tracks. Playing them overnight while sleeping, or throughout the day has proven very effective for me.
Everyone is already creating their reality with their words, they just aren't always aware that there are lots of words and emotional thought patterns going on in the background/subconscious that keep creating the patterns they were conditioned to create.
Well said!
So, not "same shit, different day"
but "same pattern, new chance to deal with it in a better way", and I'm a poet and didn't know it...
Thank you for revealing a better approach by which to play. 😜
Thank you for another amazing lesson. This person will try these exercises on their kids because they know that kids keep parents accountable more so than their own habitual minds.
The topics you choose to bring up rarely ceases to amaze me, gratitude 🎉
Being Curious definitely led my growth in major ways in my eyes
50:49 my parents were given the no judgement exercise in the Sufi order they were attending, my ma told me that it made her go nearly insane, ofc there were other ones also such as not talking for a while and meditations, they quit after a while
Language is such a powerful tool for an adept.
That's why it's called a "spell".
After watching this, reality feels more like gazing into a 360 degree mirror. 😊
The e-prime exercise could also be used to create more mindfulness in communication in everyday speech. What I notice all the time is the overwhelming use of filling words like "like", "I mean", "you know" or in your case "okay" which most of the time is a sign of speaking before thinking. Of course, filling words can create a flow in which it seems to become easier to get to the point, but it tends to weaken the awareness of the power of words (especially in a magic sense). I think the use of filling words got worse, because of a smaller vocabulary (compare the use of specific words and a general bigger variety of terms in older times than todays multipurpose-words)
I talk to myself a lot (lol) and one of these days when introspecting I notice something when affirming, there's this feeling that ALWAYS disagrees, that I believe is a part of my ego (Instinctual Ego) that takes info from my senses and keeps me grounded i. e. keeps me in the illusion.
Talking to oneself is not a problem when one can see through the duality. Kind of like going to play and appreciating the actors because you know that the play is just a play, and that the whole production is showing us something important, beyond itself.
Hyped to listen to this
This video came exactly at the right time I've been struggling with manifestion for so long
Thank you a lot
I think you just explained Therevada Buddhism better than most Buddhists I've listened to.
by far this is my favorite video of yours. It needs more views for sure. New age thinking has hindered the learning of many people.
the way one address themselves is everything.
I will start the training with this one.
I also wanted to thank you for the witchy breath, it's been a game changer for me before CQC training.
cheers and looking forward for the next one!
You had a video a long time ago on blue light. I recently bought full UV blocked glasses and light bulbs. I sleep very well now.
Good to hear. I know people who suffer terribly from insomnia. I have told them about the blue-light fix, but I guess it sounds too weird or too good to be true. They continue to suffer.
When you said behind every apparent wish there is another "hidden" wish which is the true thing you want. Very very true. A few days ago I have realised how much the planetary system helped me discover these "hidden" things I wanted/felt lacking in my life, as every planet is a representation of these things "in the background". Like, if you really want a castle for example, what exactly you want? Is it the Venusian beauty of the castle with the big garden? Or is it the feeling of a king, the feeling of "power" that it gives you? Both of these are two different things, because truthfully you don't literally desire the amalgamation of rocks that make up the castle. And the planetary system helps us with that. I rarely describe my desires or "preferences" to myself in a literal way now, I feel like the planetary system gets much more "to the core" of it and unmasks what I really mean or how I really feel
Well said!
Love this , Lyam maybe my spiritual animal
E-prime + no "I" exercises, render saying EHEIEH impossible 😂
Haha. 😂 I love the logical mind.
Very good teaching. Thank you so much
So with right view, relax into what is. Then the magic happens.
Thanks man, I love your videos. You help keep me firmly in reality sometimes
Thank you
pure gold
Recently found your channel. Your insights have been wonderful. I would love to hear about ancient perspectives on the concept of "specialness".
As a teenager I used to draw myself as a faceless angel chained go earth. Sometimes crucified with a red drape. I had a nickname related to that at the time. Started romanticizing everything aboit my life. I was like a tragic hero.and its at this time I became aware that there was a differecence between me, the ego and who I was truely. I would want to do something that would be really easy for me to do, but I would be able to do anything. As if my subconscious mind was not allowing to access skills that were really nature to me for some reason. I later started learning about meditation and creative visualisation bc I was trying to manifest the things i wanted from life but felt like something, someone, somewhere was prevebting me to have that. Funny enough, even tho i gave up on this part of my like years ago, I still struggle to manifest things I want from life.
The last word in your paragraph. The way you use "life" there. That "life" does not exist.
@lyamchristopher2393 what should be done then?
A smoker can do/see everything in his life including washing dishes as a way to create "non smoker" by simply connecting with the energy required for new creation.
Even he could smoke as if to create non-smoker and the activity can become chiseling away of "smoker" because mostly we are not open to new creation possibility but just repeats.
Creation is the key.
Say 'I create big huge body' or whatever that opens up creation for me and not fall into mechanical sleep or fate. :)
When quitting smoking replacement behaviors might help. Ate raspberries during the commute for a while 😂
@@Livfree33 yes mere mechanical habit changes may help initially to stay distant from heavy destructive habits such as smoking cigarettes (as if an infant sucking breast milk aggressively) or looking into phone untill 4:00 AM in the morning or any such :) Though creation has not entered ones life.
Positive thinking!? Preposterous! My head would fall off….😂
Thoughts on neville's teachigns , ive heard hes recognised even in occult communties as a valid mystic as well as a new thought pioneer :)
Loved the part where you reminded us not to mistake relief for actual happiness, when it’s not? 🙃
The power of positive thinking is in not thinking. Thinking attempts to describe feeling. If one hones in on feeling and ceases the internal babble and need for definition the mind becomes free.
Strong urge to re read zen mind beginners mind arising
Matthew 6:22
Thanks for making this content, ahem... It appears as though gavin liddle maybe possibly truly grateful 😂 genuinely though
There is a certain magician here on YT, (who I am sure you know of because he is very well known), who says to disclude the "NOT" factor, or "negatives". I always felt like that was a sort of denial and makes your higher Self out to be stupid.
Haha! Good insight. The reason for not including "not" mainly has to do with the againstism. Every scenario with a "not" involves that duality, and that duality, when taken seriously, is what keeps us stuck and struggling. When one learns to see through the duality, then it's no longer an issue. One will still avoid "not" because that word is often unskillful, but any scenario involving a "not"--instead of creating a stuck situation--can still point to a reality beyond itself that is free of nots/knots/naughts.
This video.... eye opening i did the practices all day its like the three stages of imagination
it lead to a feeling of disappearing fading the more the I slipped into E-prime
and also u mentioned boxers being more calculated in fights is it possibly that a panoramic perception / feeling leads to a more caculated ability to respond appropriately to a possible threat? Also I don't get startled very much it appears
The more the identity dissappear the less startled I get ... I'm barely bothered
Good insight. However, the word "calculated" can be misleading. Calculated often means contrived. Artificial. Calculation is necessary when there is a problem taken seriously. A martial arts master has no problems.
@lyamchristopher2393 yea your right I had to contemplate abit! If I'm caculated it implies a plan another form of againstisim Also may I ask do u grow plants? I grow carnivorous ones
47:04 genuine question, dont expect a definitive answer, but maybe youd know a thing or two here. if consciousness is eternal, is it possible that every moment is entirely new, isnt there a chance that everything repeats eventually? Or do you think novelty truly fractals out forever, how/why is that?
Like reality itself, these interpretations of what reality "is" are arising all the time. Like photos of a spring head that's constantly gushing, swirling, and changing. Observe the snapshots as they arise, and let them go. Let them arise, show themselves off, and then drop away. In that observation--beyond any answer to your question--is the answer to your question.
Dear lyam your videos seems to have changed this person’s life. Thank you very much. This person got introduced to reprograming the mind through affirmation in deep meditation some years ago and as you said there seemed a lot of backfiring happening to this person. This person read your book. Would you say what other resources or books on this topic ,this person can look for? Thanks in advance ❤️
See if you can find Robert Anton Wilson's book *Quantum Psychology*.
@@lyamchristopher2393found the book. Thanks🙏. Don’t know how but even reading this book seems calming to the nerves system.
"We suffer more in imagination than in reality "_ Seneca
Thank you for the comment, my good friend. (I need to pay more attention to the profile names.)
@lyamchristopher2393 just like the Sun, I'm always there, even if you don't see me 🙃
did you ever or would you ever make a video about balancing the 4 elements as the very base for further magic work?
Noted. :)
Helooo Lyam! Gratefull for your work! Helps a lots. Can you share whit me a resource (a book, a web, TH-cam chanel, etc) to learn the meainings of the Tarots cards for the neophite fase. Or its better just use intuition for the dayle reading? Send you love from argentina (if thats its something that one can do 😅).
The directions say not to learn the "meanings," for now.
@@lyamchristopher2393 Jesusss!! Well let's pretend I didn't look up the meaning of each card I drew. And also just pretend I didn't write a song saying that I wanna date the High Priestess and I don't care about the empress.
Jokes aside I gonna stop doing that. Happens that in the paragrah of the tarot exercise dont say explicit that I cannot search. So I thought I could. Thanks for the help :D
"Tries to go with it to try to create something desirable". I keep going back to this question: Is true magic supposed to enable our persona (aka ego) to create its desires ? or is it supposed to fully align the persona with true will (aka elightenment), dissolving its desires for the sake of true will in the process ?
Maybe Lyam can do a video explaining the Ego for us both 😅 I’d like to know too
You might want to consider the persona to be like a magnifying glass and the divine to be like a light bulb. You might want to try that right now: get a magnifying glass and go some place where there's a single light source. Use the magnifying glass to project an image of the light source upon a sheet of white paper. You've got to adjust the distance of the lens from the paper until you get a clear, in-focus image. The persona that is well-trained and free of compulsions is able to keep the image of the light source in focus almost all the time. Creating a reality below which resembles the light source above. "As above, so below."
The ego is the collection of unconscious compulsions that try to create images of things other than the light source. Or its compulsions include wrong ideas of what the light source is.
It's important not to take these little analogies too seriously. They are merely pointers.
So those critters on the floor i mentioned a while back.
I noticed that some of them have the same kind of eyes that the ancient sumarian deities have in their stone carving.
Kinda alien looking.
Has this happened before?
What critters are you talking about?
@lyamchristopher2393
When I started doing the lbrp, I started seeing these cartoon characters on the floor, some look pleasant, others look like monsters, I sometimes feel strong emotions when I see them, and other times when I overcome obstacles, they bring me gifts.
It seems a bit inauthentic/contrived to avoid using "I" at times there is a stronger identification with the person. Then, affirming I am not the mind might seem to help.
Good insight. All of these things are contrivances. That’s why they are all subject to being used wrongly: to perpetuate our unenlightened state. The most subtle contrivance is the “pure” meditation-only spiritual practice.
@lyamchristopher2393 that and the premise of your video are a relief to hear.
🎶
Hi -
Have you explained your take on the Ouroboros and enhancing the spiritual body (merkaba) in order to obtain spiritual immortality (disabling the reincarnation process)?
If not a video/response would be highly appreciated.
Thanks for your time and teachings ❤
Sounds like a good idea.
This is excellent since I’ve Been haphazardly practicing these methods for the last 12 months. But now I’ve really started to notice my wife’s negativity and it’s starting to get to me . Obviously writing this doesn’t help but any suggestions?
Watch these videos with her and pause and talk about what different concepts mean to each of you - by doing this you will identify the problem in the definitions you both give to things and view it at a third angle/perspective
"Negativity" in regard to the wife's behavior is a convenient self-serving label for what's happening. What's actually happening? Really look. Not need to discuss it with her (yet). Just look. Understand how those behaviors have evolved.
Can you please tell me what your zodiac sign is
Would be interesting indeed
He is geminis :D
Whats yours? Im a piscis :D
"Im" xd
If I feel negative should I force myself to think positive?
Practice thinking positively through all the ups and downs, the “positive and negative” emotions. Lyam recounted in this video paying a jar every time a negative judgement was passed. You’re allowed to feel any number of ways for a situation, but you have control over how you think of it.
I think the video actually answers this question.
Hey Lyam! I have a question! Not a joke I'm actually asking. How do we feel after we die? Not the ego death, the material death 😅
I've been dead before, and it apparently wasn't that much of a problem, but I don't remember. 😁 See the video about the Four Worlds of Kabbalah.
@@lyamchristopher2393Thank you!!! I will rewatch it 😄 Also a thought from today:
Many people complain about the Golden Dawn's need for visualisation. They say...well, the old grimoires never specifically asked for visualisation! The people of the old were doing magic without ever being instructed or instructing others specifically to visualise!
After observing both magical currents I think well, maybe the people of the old never needed specifically to be instructed to "visualise". They were doing it all the time.
What is visualisation? Isn't it, in a way, letting the border between the "fantasy" and "material" fade away, and let them unite? Well, the people of the old, I think, didn't need this instruction because the border between these two things appears much more solid today. Today we swear that one of these is real and one is false which is why we need to be instructed to "visualise" so that we make (or realise) these two as one, and not two completely different and separated.
So yes, the instruction for "visualisation" doesn't simply throw out the magic system like some claim because we (very easily know) that our perspective on reality changed over the years.
I think I heard Krishnamurti once say that mantra recitation was completely useless for those who are just speaking "vain repetitions" as the bible calls it. Just saying and thinking isn't enough.
Mantras have to be used in the service of right view, otherwise, yes, they are quite silly.
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Nope, no we are Not
pseudoscience and toxic positivity as per useg
Babe if you went in knowing what the video was going to be about anyways why waste your time. Not quite the smart cookie you assume you are! Placebos still WORK, positive thinking moulds reality as much as a damaged mind corrodes it. You went in knowing the title of the video, the subject matter, and came out with nothing but harsh words when you can just admit you needed something more from this channel. Try selecting videos better instead of criticising the very material for what it’s intended on being about.
What does "useg" mean?
23:45 Yes, also known as the "mini mansion" 🤌