When she says she is dating to marry, laugh internally and remember that men are the gate keepers of a relationship. We determine if SHE is worthy of marriage. Her dating to marry is like a job seeker presenting themselves as only working for benefits. Get better at finding more applicants, because hiring on the demands of the job seeker is a ludicrously weak position to be in as an employer
That all sounds very comforting. Yes you have the choice to NOT date or marry whoever you like. But men are the gatekeepers of shit all after that. Men do not get to pick and choose whoever they want (on average, beyond a certain standard or threshold) Unfortunately for men, it’s women who have the vast majority of the freedom of choice in the dating market. Just look at how many matches the average man has vs the average woman on Tinder. Men are not as picky as women. They don’t need to be. Women do, and are. This is a known biological, psychological, sociological fact.
I did a few approaches today in London in the UK where I am from as Im trying to put myself out there after 3 years of being single after my ex broke up with me. The imposter syndrome I felt when going up and talking to women was horrible, and although Im no Brad Pitt, Im not physically repulsive either, im 6ft, low body fat with decent muscle mass and am not ugly and dress pretty fashionably, but I have always struggled feeling worthy of love, connection and acceptance from women, and because I rarely if ever get approached, I feel a deep sense that the women are covertly communicating to me that I am not worthy, as if I should just subconsciously already know that. I am trying to get out of this isolation and pain, but it is very hard. I was very lonely as a child and as a teen and was skinny and awkward, thise subconscious beliefs of my unworthiness are still there as a result. I see couples walking by and it makes me feel as though they have some innate value that I dont. But in 2025, I will not allow myself to have another year with no dates, no intimacy and love from women, I have just turned 38 and Im not living the next 2 years of my thirties on my own.
Btw: your feelings of unworthiness are all in your mind. You are as worthy as anyone else of a good woman. If you can find one. Listen to the paraliminal recordings I mentioned and your mind will be transformed.
If a woman says this to you on a date just ask about her past relationships, she won’t be able to keep it to herself. If the answer is anything other than “Ive never had a boyfriend” then she’s most certainly not a V and doesn’t even have negotiating power.
While that's true, let's be realistic: you are unlikely to find a V above the age of 21 these days in most western countries. Most of us do not want to marry a girl of 19 or 20. And most women at that age do not want to marry. So a man in his late twenties or early thirties is going to have to accept a woman with some body-count.
I agree it’s a game in a sense, but it’s also very much not a game, in that It’s not something one person can win. You either both win or you both lose in a relationship.
It's simple to navigate this: 1. Always verify her sexual history That's it. If it's clear, then proceed with r/ship or marriage If she has ANY sexual history, then do NOT proceed with r/ship & definitely not marriage.
There is not a single reason to believe what women declare about dating, for example why, according to them, they they are dating. In my opinion these words will be (in majority) lies. They have their reasons to date and they have their reasons to declare things. As you correctly notice, it is all about putting themselves in a good light ; )
There will be more passport bros. And at least they will lose less in the end because they had to invest less. ( as most passport bros are quite broke as a whole ) and they at least got a woman decades younger then their punching weight back at home
When she says she is dating to marry, laugh internally and remember that men are the gate keepers of a relationship. We determine if SHE is worthy of marriage. Her dating to marry is like a job seeker presenting themselves as only working for benefits. Get better at finding more applicants, because hiring on the demands of the job seeker is a ludicrously weak position to be in as an employer
Highly underrated comment.
Then why do men keep getting left so frequently?
@@marcusmcgraw3519 Because on the whole, we need to seriously raise our standards.
That all sounds very comforting. Yes you have the choice to NOT date or marry whoever you like. But men are the gatekeepers of shit all after that. Men do not get to pick and choose whoever they want (on average, beyond a certain standard or threshold) Unfortunately for men, it’s women who have the vast majority of the freedom of choice in the dating market. Just look at how many matches the average man has vs the average woman on Tinder. Men are not as picky as women. They don’t need to be. Women do, and are. This is a known biological, psychological, sociological fact.
I did a few approaches today in London in the UK where I am from as Im trying to put myself out there after 3 years of being single after my ex broke up with me. The imposter syndrome I felt when going up and talking to women was horrible, and although Im no Brad Pitt, Im not physically repulsive either, im 6ft, low body fat with decent muscle mass and am not ugly and dress pretty fashionably, but I have always struggled feeling worthy of love, connection and acceptance from women, and because I rarely if ever get approached, I feel a deep sense that the women are covertly communicating to me that I am not worthy, as if I should just subconsciously already know that. I am trying to get out of this isolation and pain, but it is very hard. I was very lonely as a child and as a teen and was skinny and awkward, thise subconscious beliefs of my unworthiness are still there as a result. I see couples walking by and it makes me feel as though they have some innate value that I dont. But in 2025, I will not allow myself to have another year with no dates, no intimacy and love from women, I have just turned 38 and Im not living the next 2 years of my thirties on my own.
Btw: your feelings of unworthiness are all in your mind. You are as worthy as anyone else of a good woman. If you can find one. Listen to the paraliminal recordings I mentioned and your mind will be transformed.
I dealt with a girl like this recently. Of course, her mask dropped after a few months. Do not be fooled.
If a woman says this to you on a date just ask about her past relationships, she won’t be able to keep it to herself.
If the answer is anything other than “Ive never had a boyfriend” then she’s most certainly not a V and doesn’t even have negotiating power.
While that's true, let's be realistic: you are unlikely to find a V above the age of 21 these days in most western countries. Most of us do not want to marry a girl of 19 or 20. And most women at that age do not want to marry. So a man in his late twenties or early thirties is going to have to accept a woman with some body-count.
@ you don’t have to accept anything from modern women
Vet vet vet, that's the name of the game
I agree it’s a game in a sense, but it’s also very much not a game, in that It’s not something one person can win. You either both win or you both lose in a relationship.
Yup, there are a lot of girls playing this game for content as well. You are ahead of the game.
Pierre what's with the Bad hair day? However your insights are the best I've ever heard
Very interesting points bro, thanks as always.
Thank you Pierre
It's simple to navigate this:
1. Always verify her sexual history
That's it.
If it's clear, then proceed with r/ship or marriage
If she has ANY sexual history, then do NOT proceed with r/ship & definitely not marriage.
Is this something out of Disney? Good luck! 😅
5:25 As Orion Taraban uses to say: "The cat decides what milk is good."
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There is not a single reason to believe what women declare about dating, for example why, according to them, they they are dating. In my opinion these words will be (in majority) lies. They have their reasons to date and they have their reasons to declare things. As you correctly notice, it is all about putting themselves in a good light ; )
Opt out 😂
The one who is masculine is the leader. Ponder on that for a moment. 😮
Proven by the greatest and richest men in history Morality is mandatory for success.
Yeah the game is going to change because I'm out and can't be assed playing.
There will be more passport bros. And at least they will lose less in the end because they had to invest less. ( as most passport bros are quite broke as a whole ) and they at least got a woman decades younger then their punching weight back at home
Fake tradcons . Dont get fooled guys
The juice isn't worth the squeeze. There will continue to be more "pay for play" in 2025. Men are tired of the BS.
If she don’t sleep with you on the first date then she don’t like you 💯💯
Take your time Vetting and relax. It takes a few months but the mask always falls