What to Do When Your Ex Contacts You During No Contact

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  • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
    @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว +1

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    • @crystalclimenhage7159
      @crystalclimenhage7159 ปีที่แล้ว

      What if you respond and then they don't respond to check if they have access to you? I did that once and he uses me to get over me and saw another woman

  • @karolkozak64
    @karolkozak64 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    So many of us are heartbroken here looking for an end to our suffering. I am thankful for this channel. It's been 2 days since i last spoke to my ex. I had a bad reaction because literally 2 days after she moved out I bumped into her and her instagram fanboy who had been feeding her ego since january. After 3 years of our relationship... yeah it must have been 'love' if you can move on this quickly. This is someone who kept saying 'i am so emotionally tired, i dont want any relationship with anyone, i have no feelings i am empty'. What an act. Why do women do this? She literally took the will to live from me through her actions since january till now.

    • @BelleHealingMusic
      @BelleHealingMusic 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Men do the same more. Just dishonest people

  • @sirg-had8821
    @sirg-had8821 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Block, delete, and never respond to calls or texts from unfamiliar numbers.
    Give them nothing.

  • @iiidandaniii1
    @iiidandaniii1 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi Guys! You two have been my saviour. Thank you so much for your vids. I was pleading til I was blue in the face with my partner of 4 years but the more I begged, the more I pushed him away. I'm now on day 4 of no contact and its only your vids that are getting me through. At this point, I just feel like he hates me and wants nothing more to do with me but I love him so dearly and want him back. One thing you guys haven't got a vid on which would be very helpful in my case, is what to do during a breakup and no contact whilst 17 weeks pregnant. I'm in England so we have free abortions up until 24 weeks but baby is fully formed now, not to mention, i dont believe in abortions but I don't want to be a single parent.This is one of the biggest decisions I've ever had to make in my entire life. Unfortunately I cannot afford to pay for one of your sessions at the moment but a video on my situation would be so appreciated. Keep posting, you're both helping so many people across the world. Thank you ❤

    • @joewk2660
      @joewk2660 ปีที่แล้ว

      I am really sorry to hear about your break up while expecting a baby. I would advise you keep the baby. Your man will definitely come back. Maintain NC rule. I kept no contact and my ex came back and I left the rebound for her.

  • @vatsal2189
    @vatsal2189 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I am not sure if I want my ex back or not. I am trying to do no contact and she messaged me and I replied back something short. I kinda want to reset our relationship into something new and not sure how to do it.

  • @MrTheomighty1
    @MrTheomighty1 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had to go into No Contact with my beautiful lady and as you can see I still love her and I didn’t want this, I’d prefer to work through things with her but she’s decided to call it a day. I wasn’t needy, clingy, I never begged or pleaded or chased. I went straight into No Contact and I went nearly 1 month and she reached out, I replied and I’ve not heard from her as she’s not carried on with the communication so I’m back into No Contact until she reaches out again. It was a lovely text from her and I replied back in a loving way but I never asked to met up or wanted to talk about our connection.

  • @MariaGonzalez-nf6qo
    @MariaGonzalez-nf6qo ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Lol I hate that I’m smiling so much after they texted me. Fuck!!!!!! I was just doing pretty good

  • @teabiscuits1611
    @teabiscuits1611 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Broke up about 3 weeks ago. Been in no contact for 11 days. I posted a photo of my grandad as he died 4 days ago. My ex has texted me 3 times and called me 4 times within the last hour.
    I’m not sure what to do. I feel too anxious to talk to him.
    I don’t know if it’s an excuse to make contact or just checking in.
    4 calls in an hour seems excessive.
    He never met my grandad.
    I don’t want a sympathy call and have to start from scratch. It’s taken a lot to get to where I am now.

  • @missmariiiii
    @missmariiiii ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Sooo… I went NC from a situationship ex 8 years ago. He’s tried contacting me before. Each time, I’ve ignored it bc I wasn’t willing to have a conversation. He JUST reached out again apologizing to me all these years later, I finally replied this time telling him that I DID forgive him years ago and moved on.
    And he ignored my message lol. Like… he hasn’t even OPENED the message. But simultaneously… he sent me a friend request that’s currently just sitting there.
    What is that about? Especially when he’s been the one constantly trying to talk to me? I just wanted to respond to give him some grace. But now I’m confused. I’m basically leaving the situation alone now.

  • @fatz1410
    @fatz1410 9 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Never respond. Especially if they're in a new relationship.

  • @marcellaquihuis1037
    @marcellaquihuis1037 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hello love advisor's I'm glad I found you all here it has helped me. My ex just dropped off my storage key in my mailbox. He texted me and I wanted to respond but I didnt. I know I just started no contact. I would of ruin it since I'm trying to do what u guys have said. So I can make a change if we ever happen to get back n the future.

  • @RoseMoke
    @RoseMoke 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Normal because I think I have been patients for longtime

  • @simonngwira8824
    @simonngwira8824 18 วันที่ผ่านมา

    After 23 days of no contact she's been texting and calling from time to time

  • @santahelenmanukyan
    @santahelenmanukyan ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why getting your ex back in the first place? he/she is an ex for a reason, right?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you Elena for the feedback
      Coach Adrian

    • @moparmtb360
      @moparmtb360 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Depends if you have children with them.

  • @JoshuaMorgan-c6j
    @JoshuaMorgan-c6j 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    She reached out to me after four days and said how are you? I replied being warm and welcoming. I'm good thanks and you? And she said I'm well thank you and just sent a smile emoji , I left the conversation open, does she want me to take the lead again or is she just slowly trying to engage with me?

  • @DianaVanessaful
    @DianaVanessaful ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Last night my ex reached out and i decided to answer in the morning, but he ended up deleting the message. Should i say something or let it be? Please i need advice on this

  • @danini102
    @danini102 8 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Hello sir we separated 2 September the problem is financial , we plan our future together she want my salary every month too keep it , I ask her what but my account , she start too arguing with a bad word this is hurt me a lot I leave her , 2 September I start to do no contact until 25 th December sometime during no contact she post in social media too get my attention I just ignore her

  • @johelka7901
    @johelka7901 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love to see you both!! 🙏💕

  • @minis_world
    @minis_world 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    What happens in a situation were i went into a 30 day no contact after initiating breaking up. I was doing ok until last week when we met and he told me that he is sleeping around. I told him i want to get back together.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      If you initiated the breakup you should wait for him to change and prove you that he deserves another chance. If you want to get him back just because he sleeps around it's too needy.

  • @AniiBel20
    @AniiBel20 ปีที่แล้ว

    Does this work even if he left by cheating on me with another girl and is now dating her ?(he left a month ago) and he is still liking all of my posts, seeing all of my stories, tweets and so on. And he has told me im gonna be the love of his life forever and he loves me and will love me forever, i dont text him but he always ends up doing it after a few days but he is still with her and starting to upload pics with her to social media so its confusing..will it work?

  • @hanifaesmati6325
    @hanifaesmati6325 ปีที่แล้ว

    We did not break up but we had i fight last night and after that ị decided to get distance for few days but he text me today how should I treat him?

  • @nastassjaselow4344
    @nastassjaselow4344 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hiya. Thanks for the video. Can you do a video on what to do if your ex says they 'can't see you together for their entire life' or they 'can't see a future with you' ?
    I assume they mean that they think you are incompatible and feel like you can't build a life and future together.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you for the feedback, we will take back to the team!
      Coach Adrian

  • @JM-bv2mo
    @JM-bv2mo 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    My ex contacted me last week after 4 months of NC. He said he was thinking of me. I later responded very politely that I have no hard feelings towards him and I’m open to friendship and he said ty for building up my confidence. He hasn’t spoken to me since a week. What does this mean? I’m so confused. I didn’t initiate again.

    • @Messyhead9teen
      @Messyhead9teen หลายเดือนก่อน

      He wanted your validation. You responded and it relieved his anxiety. He needed that boost from you to know you are still there. Let him miss you

  • @sharonnialarkins9205
    @sharonnialarkins9205 ปีที่แล้ว

    I NEED ALL OF THIS! ☹️😞

  • @sherecevasquez2841
    @sherecevasquez2841 ปีที่แล้ว

    But should I answer after 2 days ? He ask how are things? Should I answer or it's to early?

  • @jereemmakratika686
    @jereemmakratika686 ปีที่แล้ว

    We broke up the second time,he claims to be dating someone else,is there a possibility of him coming back

  • @luwiz4168
    @luwiz4168 ปีที่แล้ว

    Coach, we broke up the second time Jan 3. She texted me once about getting the gifts she got me back, how to reset the watch, if I can take her shift (since we work together) and she has called me to tell me she's frustrated with me (about my new changes and about our past relationship). What should I do?

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you Luwiz
      We understand this is challenging, and we are familiar withy your situation.
      I think you need to consider booking 1:1 session because we need to engage with you personally
      Thank you
      Coach Adrian

  • @OsTheMonst
    @OsTheMonst ปีที่แล้ว

    I love you guys

  • @syngkharupa5498
    @syngkharupa5498 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I had been blocked from all social media and cant reach him.

  • @sdivya10
    @sdivya10 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Day 15 of NC today😢😢

  • @t.k.bowden152
    @t.k.bowden152 ปีที่แล้ว

    She dm'd me while i was dating another so i didnt respond! Havent heard from her since.

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for the comment!
      Are you still interested in getting her back
      Coach Adrian

    • @t.k.bowden152
      @t.k.bowden152 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity yes

  • @prernasharma7516
    @prernasharma7516 ปีที่แล้ว

    My ex texted
    I replied
    He deleted the chat
    Weird

    • @LoveAdviceTVCommunity
      @LoveAdviceTVCommunity  ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Thank you
      He might be checking to see if you respond
      We would need to know more of the dynamics of your relationship
      Thanks
      Coach Adrian

    • @prernasharma7516
      @prernasharma7516 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@LoveAdviceTVCommunity ir lasted for 2.5 yrs