If you’re undecided on whether charisma is a learnable skill, go watch any TH-camr with a highly energetic or captivating persona that’s been doing their thing for several years and compare how they are now to where they were at the start; even those that began with an advantage usually find a way to improve, consciously or unconsciously, which totally disproves the idea of it being a God-given ability you either have or you don’t. Immersion and repetition is key, be actively working on yourself until it becomes a natural part of your identity.
I'm not undecided. I said in the video that it's learnable and it's not an either *_you have it or you don't_* quality. Both the "born with it" and "it can be learned" schools of thought can be true at the same time. The same could be said for musicians (or any talent). Some people are born with an innate musical ability but others can practice and learn and be just as good. But, I think where we may see things differently is that just because *_some_* people can learn it, that does not mean that other people aren't born with it. Learnability doesn't disprove the natural gifts of others. I don't think you're saying that but I just wanted to be clear. And, of course, like you said, people born with an advantage can cultivate it further. It sounds like we may ultimately be saying the same thing. I give most of my view on this toward the very end of the video.
In my opinion, Steve Jobs is one of the most charismatic people ever. His attitude is embodied in the Apple products ie iPhone, iPod, Mac. Very curious and playful but proper.
About your last point on playing the part of a charasmatic leader and still being unsuccessful, I think that has a lot to do with the increase in how much authenticity is valued and how easily most of us can see through someone faking the funk nowadays.
6:36 right here, this is the reason why this society is in. Well, maybe not the entire reason, but you hit the nail on the head with this point. Basically, it used to be called hypocrisy, or being a flake, but now we have more politically correct term for us.
Love that you brought in WTC! In my research as well (in language acquisition), this is a huge predictor of linguistic success, especially for students who are abroad. Thanks for another great video!
I'm glad you noticed WTC. To me, that's the easiest way for people to start developing their leadership and coming across as almost instantly more charismatic. They just have to put themselves out there more, speak up a bit more, and start engaging others.
Please, if possible increase the the numbers of the videos that you have sent,please send all leaderships visionaries not merely visions,therefore make sure that it will not be just watching the videos, but to have identification tomorrow that will show your mercy as a world's most visionaries. God bless.
Would love a Christopher Hitchens breakdown, such a unique speaker. For research I would recommend his Intelligence Squared debate on the Catholic Church alongside Stephen Fry.
He has come to mind. We'll see. I think I may shy away from debate-type formats. I'm more drawn to inspirational and uplifting messages. I have watched a handful of videos from Hitchens, however. I don't agree with his atheistic position. I'm a serious Christian. But, there's no doubt that he's an extremely sharp thinker and skilled speaker. Either way, you've given me something to think about. Thanks for the suggestion.
I work in a plant where the manager has the position of authority, but almost zero management and people skills. It is difficult to be positive and productive when goals and details are so poorly shared. I don't think charisma would be very helpful, so the development of some basic management and communication style is perhaps even more vital.
I don't own that book but I'm guessing it's available for purchase online through Amazon or another book seller. It's possible college libraries also have it available.
Alex, what do you think about asking others how they're doing? I've always felt awkward about both asking and aswering this question, except when I have a close enough relationship with the other person. The question is almost always asked loosely and answered dishonestly, with a quick "I'm good."
Hi Abner. Yes, I'm 100% in support of asking people questions. It shows an interest in other people, it gets them talking, it helps us practice our listening skills. They are old videos now but I have a whole bunch about how to ask good questions, how to have a dialogue vs a monologue, and a few videos on listening skills that all talk about the kinds of questions we can ask to spark an interesting conversation. Research (and practical experience) shows that making small talk and asking good questions with new people (and existing friends) lays down an important connection and foundation for the relationship. As far as answering dishonestly, that's not so much an issue about the question but our own mindset and approach to conversations.
Clearly, Max Weber not only defined charisma, he also had loads of it himself, continuing to influence people from the other side of the grave (given he died in 1920 and you quote him from 1922). Spooky...
What comes to my mind when charisma is mentioned is its relationship to extraversion. Will smith appears to revel in the spotlight, being the center of attention and surrounded by admirers. In this video you mention Elon musk, who's nothing like that, talking more thoughtfully with frequent pauses, not looking as cheered up. Maybe extroverts and introverts can be both a charismatic leader?
Yeah, true. And Hitler and Charles Manson too. I address that issue in the video, charisma (as it is define in the video) does not mean good. Many charismatic leaders in history have led their followers down the wrong path.
The people you mention might be good examples of charismatic leaders. I'll give you that. But, it sounds like you only watched the beginning because I do specifically mention JFK and quote him (though you say I didn't mention him). I bring up Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson, Osama Bin Laden, etc. These are far from "nobodies." I only mentioned *_one_* actor-only example, Will Smith. I did also mention Arnold Schwarzenegger but he was also the two-time governor of California and is widely regarded as charismatic and far from a "nobody". And, as the title says, this video is about *_ charismatic leadership theory_* . It's meant to explain the theory. I never say anywhere that I'll be doing a profile of the top historical figures who were charismatic leaders. I used some examples to illustrate the concepts but this is a video about a theory.
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If you’re undecided on whether charisma is a learnable skill, go watch any TH-camr with a highly energetic or captivating persona that’s been doing their thing for several years and compare how they are now to where they were at the start; even those that began with an advantage usually find a way to improve, consciously or unconsciously, which totally disproves the idea of it being a God-given ability you either have or you don’t.
Immersion and repetition is key, be actively working on yourself until it becomes a natural part of your identity.
I'm not undecided. I said in the video that it's learnable and it's not an either *_you have it or you don't_* quality. Both the "born with it" and "it can be learned" schools of thought can be true at the same time. The same could be said for musicians (or any talent). Some people are born with an innate musical ability but others can practice and learn and be just as good. But, I think where we may see things differently is that just because *_some_* people can learn it, that does not mean that other people aren't born with it. Learnability doesn't disprove the natural gifts of others. I don't think you're saying that but I just wanted to be clear. And, of course, like you said, people born with an advantage can cultivate it further. It sounds like we may ultimately be saying the same thing. I give most of my view on this toward the very end of the video.
In my opinion, Steve Jobs is one of the most charismatic people ever. His attitude is embodied in the Apple products ie iPhone, iPod, Mac. Very curious and playful but proper.
I don't agree that Princess Diana could be categorised as a 'leader; of any kind. She spent most of her life being led by others.
She still had a huge loyal following and significant influence, given her natural charisma
About your last point on playing the part of a charasmatic leader and still being unsuccessful, I think that has a lot to do with the increase in how much authenticity is valued and how easily most of us can see through someone faking the funk nowadays.
6:36 right here, this is the reason why this society is in. Well, maybe not the entire reason, but you hit the nail on the head with this point. Basically, it used to be called hypocrisy, or being a flake, but now we have more politically correct term for us.
Almost there Alex, final push!!!!
Thanks, Brenden. I appreciate your encouragement.
I liked that you spoke to both the positives and negatives. I look forward to your next video! :)
I appreciate that! Next week's video will be a reaction video that looks at an _Ashton Kutcher_ award acceptance speech. I was super impressed.
Love that you brought in WTC! In my research as well (in language acquisition), this is a huge predictor of linguistic success, especially for students who are abroad.
Thanks for another great video!
I'm glad you noticed WTC. To me, that's the easiest way for people to start developing their leadership and coming across as almost instantly more charismatic. They just have to put themselves out there more, speak up a bit more, and start engaging others.
Please, if possible increase the the numbers of the videos that you have sent,please send all leaderships visionaries not merely visions,therefore make sure that it will not be just watching the videos, but to have identification tomorrow that will show your mercy as a world's most visionaries. God bless.
I think Im gonna learn right now to be a leader.
You can do it! These are learnable skills.
Would love a Christopher Hitchens breakdown, such a unique speaker. For research I would recommend his Intelligence Squared debate on the Catholic Church alongside Stephen Fry.
He has come to mind. We'll see. I think I may shy away from debate-type formats. I'm more drawn to inspirational and uplifting messages. I have watched a handful of videos from Hitchens, however. I don't agree with his atheistic position. I'm a serious Christian. But, there's no doubt that he's an extremely sharp thinker and skilled speaker. Either way, you've given me something to think about. Thanks for the suggestion.
@@alexanderlyon Yeah any video will do really, the great thing about Hitch is that he was diverse.
Hi Alex, love your communication videos. Do you have any online communication courses? I would love to improve my communication skills.
Yes, I do. There are links to classes in the description below the video. Some classes are free.
Very useful stuff. God bless!
Couldn't agree more, Alex is doing such a great job!
Man, you're too kind.
Ur videos are very helpful .thanku so much for posting these kind of videos
So nice of you. Thank you. I'm glad they are helpful.
I work in a plant where the manager has the position of authority, but almost zero management and people skills.
It is difficult to be positive and productive when goals and details are so poorly shared.
I don't think charisma would be very helpful, so the development of some basic management and communication style is perhaps even more vital.
Great example. Charisma is often not going to help if fundamental skills are missing.
Thanks for sharing
Totally moot, but just wanted to say your video gave me unintentional ASMR xx
Thanks
Hello sir. How can I get Conger and Kanungo's "Bahavioral dimensions of Charismatic Leadership" book?
I don't own that book but I'm guessing it's available for purchase online through Amazon or another book seller. It's possible college libraries also have it available.
Any leader seeking attention is not a leader that’s a distraction that monopolizes time and attention.
Good point. When a leader makes it all about them, that's a really bad sign.
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Alex is doing such an incredible job, proud!!!!
Alex, what do you think about asking others how they're doing? I've always felt awkward about both asking and aswering this question, except when I have a close enough relationship with the other person. The question is almost always asked loosely and answered dishonestly, with a quick "I'm good."
Hi Abner. Yes, I'm 100% in support of asking people questions. It shows an interest in other people, it gets them talking, it helps us practice our listening skills. They are old videos now but I have a whole bunch about how to ask good questions, how to have a dialogue vs a monologue, and a few videos on listening skills that all talk about the kinds of questions we can ask to spark an interesting conversation. Research (and practical experience) shows that making small talk and asking good questions with new people (and existing friends) lays down an important connection and foundation for the relationship. As far as answering dishonestly, that's not so much an issue about the question but our own mindset and approach to conversations.
Clearly, Max Weber not only defined charisma, he also had loads of it himself, continuing to influence people from the other side of the grave (given he died in 1920 and you quote him from 1922). Spooky...
Almost at 100K!
Almost. I hope it does somehow crash before then! Ha.
Just wait for me and I will be with those examples...give me 18 years
What comes to my mind when charisma is mentioned is its relationship to extraversion. Will smith appears to revel in the spotlight, being the center of attention and surrounded by admirers. In this video you mention Elon musk, who's nothing like that, talking more thoughtfully with frequent pauses, not looking as cheered up. Maybe extroverts and introverts can be both a charismatic leader?
Yes, that's true. Personal style varies widely.
depends if they attarct the same people for example elon uses memes to gain more popularity he knows the studf
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Um magical powers?
If you teach charisma then why are you so boring?
I am here when I see Osama bin laden in thumbnail 😂
Yeah, true. And Hitler and Charles Manson too. I address that issue in the video, charisma (as it is define in the video) does not mean good. Many charismatic leaders in history have led their followers down the wrong path.
You named nobodies as charismatic leaders. Not an Alexander, not a Napoleon, not a JFK, not an FDR but movie actors. What a joke.
The people you mention might be good examples of charismatic leaders. I'll give you that. But, it sounds like you only watched the beginning because I do specifically mention JFK and quote him (though you say I didn't mention him). I bring up Martin Luther King Jr., Gandhi, Hitler, Charles Manson, Osama Bin Laden, etc. These are far from "nobodies." I only mentioned *_one_* actor-only example, Will Smith. I did also mention Arnold Schwarzenegger but he was also the two-time governor of California and is widely regarded as charismatic and far from a "nobody". And, as the title says, this video is about *_ charismatic leadership theory_* . It's meant to explain the theory. I never say anywhere that I'll be doing a profile of the top historical figures who were charismatic leaders. I used some examples to illustrate the concepts but this is a video about a theory.