Why do we fear public speaking? | Dave Guin | TEDxCPP

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  • @mrskncts
    @mrskncts 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is not a talk, this is performance at its best! I feel deep admiration. So glad TH-cam led me here.

  • @Vectrex4Life
    @Vectrex4Life 8 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    My left ear really enjoyed this video.

    • @saintdawar1206
      @saintdawar1206 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      haha same here

    • @Anekinzz
      @Anekinzz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      thank god, i thought it was my headphones lol

    • @aboumarryam9967
      @aboumarryam9967 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Annie Wilson
      i do not think so Annie ,,,
      what is wrong with this video guys ?
      :)

    • @Vectrex4Life
      @Vectrex4Life 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yhia Essa Is your world in monophonic?

    • @aboumarryam9967
      @aboumarryam9967 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      mmmm
      i dont know

  • @doniajjm273
    @doniajjm273 8 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    a master in telling stories, i love his voice

  • @TheFreshspidey
    @TheFreshspidey 9 ปีที่แล้ว +126

    Some serious audio issues. Please reupload with clear audio if possible. Also with my headphones I noticed the audio plays on one ear.

    • @stanley1757
      @stanley1757 9 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      i literaly thought my speaker was broken, before read ur commend

    • @MLVProds
      @MLVProds 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Spent 10 minutes trying different things until I saw this comment...

    • @imdguin
      @imdguin 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +LifesRecycled Yeah. I was the first speaker for these tech's at this event. We worked out some "bugs" At least y'all don't have to endure the "buzzes" and "pops" that I did ;)

    • @UniversalMysticsOfChrist
      @UniversalMysticsOfChrist 9 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +LifesRecycled Oh... I thought he was dropping "F" bombs and they were just censoring. Lol!

    • @EnverCanyurt
      @EnverCanyurt 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +LifesRecycled The left and right channels arent adjusted and the volume of the video is also a bit too quiet.

  • @jdean2131
    @jdean2131 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    What an OUTSTANDING presentation and incredible human being…this guy is really cool! I’m a big fan!!! This is gent knows who he is . He’s not one bit self-conscious about anything. He’s the real deal!
    Nicely Done ✅

  • @BLAZINHOT
    @BLAZINHOT 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Fighting a bear - you
    Public speaking - fear
    = Fear to the dark = you overcoming the fear to the dark = self confidence

  • @Sevenxsnroses
    @Sevenxsnroses 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Great stuff well put together and entertaining. Ad an audio engineer myself yes, the audio was a distraction. But when you're doing live audio for a living you deal with it stuff happens. I still got a lot out of this TED Talk. Thank you

  • @cseeger1
    @cseeger1 9 ปีที่แล้ว +40

    For me public speaking is just acting. When put in that frame, it's far easier to do as it's not me speaking, but a character, another persona. Same goes for doing Karaoke, a job interview, telling a story, robbing banks, ya know...doing stuff in public.

    • @roseawen5961
      @roseawen5961 8 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      +cseeger1 I feel like you do. It feels similarly to acting for me. I just get out there and do it, and it comes naturally for me. I've been doing a shit ton of work on killing my ego though, and I think the less I care what others think of me the easier it becomes for me to speak in front of groups of people.

    • @cseeger1
      @cseeger1 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +Rose Awen -- You are spot on. >>>>>> EGO

    • @Anekinzz
      @Anekinzz 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Rose Awen what a great insight👍

    • @Dooger111
      @Dooger111 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      This actually helps a lot

    • @sygb.550
      @sygb.550 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      Am listening
      Tell me more

  • @corndog984
    @corndog984 9 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    I thought that he was cursing alot lol it was just bad audio

    • @hibatabaaa1969
      @hibatabaaa1969 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +corndog984 ME TOO

    • @justasgriskevicius3492
      @justasgriskevicius3492 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +corndog984 yeah at 1:40 it sounds like "magic moments, like the little p*ssy", which, coincidentally, makes sense.

    • @0089-f2u
      @0089-f2u 6 ปีที่แล้ว

      lol same

    • @monicacabrera8714
      @monicacabrera8714 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Me too.

  • @dave3130
    @dave3130 8 ปีที่แล้ว +49

    My left ear is confident

    • @parealicollectionwitheduca3079
      @parealicollectionwitheduca3079 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      same here ...
      i tried another video for the clearance if my headphones are doing fine with me .. yeah they were...

  • @BLAZINHOT
    @BLAZINHOT 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Dave guin, your totally right, in fact I hope every single that read this comment might agree it. But what you said about the hunters sample just fit to the fear of public speaking as self-confidence

    • @imdguin
      @imdguin 9 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Pedro Gonzaga Systematic desensitization can be used to overcome many of life's obstacles :)

  • @hlchopra8060
    @hlchopra8060 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    An amazing, charismatic, and actor par excellence. We rarely find such performance on social network. Thanks TED talks for such shows.

  • @grahamt19781
    @grahamt19781 5 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Basically just DO IT or forever be held back from achieving your full potential.

    • @konyvnyelv.
      @konyvnyelv. ปีที่แล้ว

      You can achieve your full potential even without doing it

  • @adelam4903
    @adelam4903 6 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Why does the audio keep cutting off? AND only works in the left ear?

  • @RaferJeffersonIII
    @RaferJeffersonIII ปีที่แล้ว +6

    I have to do it in my job. It will dominate my mind for 3 weeks before. It will crescendo in the week before. I can’t sleep properly. Usually on the day it’s terrible. Once up, I can do it provided I’ve massively over prepared. Yesterday, I was fine until the CEO walked into the room - he’s a great guy; not intimidating; but his badge made me stumble my words. It didn’t help having a senior employee who kept looking at me checking his watch and rolling his eyes. Now I feel like I’ve been hit by a train. I’ve had CBT and hypnosis. Others I see can just rock up and speak. I am so nervous my brain just can’t work. It’s a shame as my career would take off if I could do it. I usually have propropanol but I was out of it.
    I feel like an imposter and I don’t belong there.
    If only I was privately educated as I think it breeds a sense of self worth and trains you to do this. My education set me up to be a compliant worker.

    • @brianbachinger6357
      @brianbachinger6357 ปีที่แล้ว

      Be careful of the story you tell yourself. It reinforces bad thinking.

    • @konyvnyelv.
      @konyvnyelv. ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Why just not choose a job without it

    • @RaferJeffersonIII
      @RaferJeffersonIII ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@konyvnyelv. my pay goes down about 50%

  • @epicshawn8811
    @epicshawn8811 6 ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Why we fear public speaking sometimes: *audio/microphone problems*

  • @katrhodes2310
    @katrhodes2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I really enjoyed the presentation and the humor that was added to capture the attention of the audience. speaking in public can be hard but he made it look easy. Also the examples were true and on spot. Good Job.

  • @Roberto-cc7rt
    @Roberto-cc7rt 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    THANK you for THIS.

  • @amalkrishnakg4488
    @amalkrishnakg4488 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This guy is a gem 💎

  • @jandejohn5775
    @jandejohn5775 9 ปีที่แล้ว +19

    Secret = Just do it
    This talk annoyed me because he could have shortened this talk to like 5 minutes.

  • @naomibrock4769
    @naomibrock4769 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Geez I've never seen a drier audience. Guy had genuinely funny moments and it's just dead silence.

  • @curiousgeorge555
    @curiousgeorge555 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    1:36 is it just me or is his voice really trembling at that point?
    He says we are all afraid of public speaking. Seems he hasn't overcome the fear entirely.
    Nonetheless he's a very good public speaker. Way better than I am.

  • @Arcticninja123
    @Arcticninja123 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    take care of yourselves people. Eat healthy clean we all wana be with you longer dont let us miss you

  • @hottiemchot2998
    @hottiemchot2998 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Why is it so choppy? Chunks of time are missing from the vid.

  • @reyazhussain3152
    @reyazhussain3152 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you 🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @ghostofvalor4349
    @ghostofvalor4349 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Damn CPP, invest in some audio quality control! I need this video and I can't hear all of what the presenter is saying!! For shamsies

  • @jesusarmas9054
    @jesusarmas9054 6 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    My professor 👨‍🏫

  • @OGSuki.
    @OGSuki. 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    What is wrong with the audio? I'd like to use a clip from this talk as a visual aid for my Public Speaking 😭 class but the audio is wonky. lol

  • @duckthishandle
    @duckthishandle 7 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    this guy is one of the biker dudes straight outta GTA IV

  • @lesjardinsdelumiere8530
    @lesjardinsdelumiere8530 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That was an awesome presentation. Kudos Mr. Guin!

  • @katrhodes2310
    @katrhodes2310 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This video is funny but true we often fear what we can't control. But the point made make sense practice do make better.

  • @justexpressingmyself397
    @justexpressingmyself397 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Great story teller
    I don't care about audio,i get it anyway

  • @popnavarro6896
    @popnavarro6896 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    It all make sense now. Thank you!

  • @meowow2693
    @meowow2693 ปีที่แล้ว

    thank you for this:)

  • @vilhelmvonbraun3093
    @vilhelmvonbraun3093 9 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Impossible to watch with all the audio issues. Too bad :(

  • @ManishSingh-eu4kz
    @ManishSingh-eu4kz 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    how to control coverting into hindi in english and i speak so fast many people do not understand my words.

  • @Oniku-niginigi
    @Oniku-niginigi 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    10:56
    12:27
    12:47

  • @aneesurrehman7405
    @aneesurrehman7405 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    what the heck is wrong with sound

  • @उत्तमश्लोक
    @उत्तमश्लोक 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    Bad audio mono plays only in left side.

  • @BluezFan91
    @BluezFan91 8 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    This guy really fell off the wagon when his Jurassic Park was shut down.

    • @juanperez-ni2iw
      @juanperez-ni2iw 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      bro.. i was thinking the same thing

  • @DanielPSurman
    @DanielPSurman 6 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Public speaking is having a conversation with your audience

  • @draft1643
    @draft1643 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Does he mean Tears for Fears because what Rush song is he referring to?

    • @whitedude11
      @whitedude11 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      He does mean TFF

  • @Mr_Davis573
    @Mr_Davis573 4 ปีที่แล้ว

    Blessed

  • @TicketAirline
    @TicketAirline 3 ปีที่แล้ว

    i needed to hear this in 2015

  • @autumnbronze7
    @autumnbronze7 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    needs better audio

  • @mohammedsaleem529
    @mohammedsaleem529 8 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    How can we conquer the fear withouth Audio in this video lol

  • @nmbilq
    @nmbilq 6 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I got about 8 mins in, quite enjoying the bits I could hear but the audio issues make this unwatchable. Shame.

    • @Gravitating
      @Gravitating 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      Yes. Awful shame.. Sounds like a wonderful speech, But i could't get past the audio quality.. Ironically I'm doing a Sound Engineering/audio/visual course that requires public presentations..

  • @bang_arhinelo
    @bang_arhinelo 9 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    the real viking guy

  • @Indrajeetkumar-xi7cg
    @Indrajeetkumar-xi7cg 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    great explanation dave

  • @FazuEli361
    @FazuEli361 8 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Dave looks like the writer of games of thrones

  • @TorongTong
    @TorongTong 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Funny and good trainer

  • @nikhilthakare3533
    @nikhilthakare3533 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Pls improve voice quality

  • @belalnoor9686
    @belalnoor9686 7 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Do not watch the whole video: The real message is to just do it.

  • @himanshugadari8946
    @himanshugadari8946 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    What an insight!

  • @MaryJane-fx5of
    @MaryJane-fx5of 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very nice... Great points dave!

  • @bhavaniseetal3381
    @bhavaniseetal3381 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    Awesome Sir!!!!

  • @nitindua86
    @nitindua86 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    thanks Dave, that was very helpful

  • @fosforlukalem9429
    @fosforlukalem9429 8 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    So he just connected the fear of public speaking to theory of evolution because he thinks fear of public speaking might be coming from fear of unknown and again he thought evolution is origin of the fear of unknown so fear of unknown equals the fear of public speaking ?... there is a lot of reasoning going on here and i never saw a man who would believe neither 2+2=4 or 2+2=5 without you to tell him logic behind it with a proof.

  • @newbreed1199
    @newbreed1199 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Beautiful

  • @prashantkaushik5390
    @prashantkaushik5390 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    yeah very good

  • @lildevil7907
    @lildevil7907 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I have a speech on the 29th in front of my class I'm in 6th grade

  • @danjosephmusic
    @danjosephmusic 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    His microphone socket in the radio pack was faulty, so the audience was distracted by the technical issues. Hi I'm Dave! Lol :)

  • @nystagmussumgatsyn15
    @nystagmussumgatsyn15 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    i can get over the nerves such as sweating and increased heart rate. There is no way i can get over the irritable bowel syndrome. fuck it i lose

  • @NewSchoolCrap
    @NewSchoolCrap 9 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    LOL this guys fucking hilarious wtf is wrong with that audience..

    • @aDotFromTheFuture
      @aDotFromTheFuture 9 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      +Big L Fear of public laughing?

    • @H2Raby
      @H2Raby 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I'm trying to like him, really, but I can't laugh at anything he says. I'm just glad he's doing public speaking instead of being in a biker gang.

  • @smug8567
    @smug8567 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't believe that I have the capability of being able to couch anything in a vernacular that's going to be understood by the people that you want me to talk to.

  • @Broadway1982
    @Broadway1982 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I want to punch my fear of public speaking in the face.

    • @konyvnyelv.
      @konyvnyelv. ปีที่แล้ว

      No. Just accept it. You can decide not to fight it if it is not necessary for your job

  • @florian0100
    @florian0100 9 ปีที่แล้ว

    awesome guy

  • @animeshwarkaur
    @animeshwarkaur 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Very infornative video

  • @owendeboer2991
    @owendeboer2991 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    That audience did not pass the vibe check at all

    • @sbrave6572
      @sbrave6572 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      😄 so true!

  • @johnny5039
    @johnny5039 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'll just write the script and let the pro's do it.

  • @bryanbariza
    @bryanbariza 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    PLEASE SUBTITLE IN SPANISH TO THIS CONFERENCE. PLEASE.

  • @ccc6007
    @ccc6007 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    12:48 Fear public speaking is simply fear of unknown.
    The story he told is too too too too long

  • @leighbloomfield9458
    @leighbloomfield9458 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Shams the audio for this talk is so bad.

  • @lordgains3317
    @lordgains3317 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    why the fuck does the video keep jumping!?

  • @jellyrolle95
    @jellyrolle95 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    No sound in the right ear bud.

  • @zoomzoom530
    @zoomzoom530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Childish... (no really)... The evolutionary explanation is incorrect and confused. But, it was a nice and simple demonstration of how natural selection works..., which is not the topic of the presentation, nor does it explain why most people are afraid of public speaking.

  • @matthewwhite6314
    @matthewwhite6314 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hey, that’s Tears for Fears, not Rush.

  • @thekeypresser
    @thekeypresser 9 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    sadly unwatchable, even if the melodramatic 'hunter gatherer' skit were good, the audio issues are a barrier

  • @prankstergangsterreloadedt6767
    @prankstergangsterreloadedt6767 5 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I know him

  • @BharatRumble
    @BharatRumble 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    The guy is a rockstar

  • @Lamine_yaml
    @Lamine_yaml 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Fortunately, my right earphone does not work.

  • @RefreshDamage
    @RefreshDamage 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    that's my uncle dave

  • @thegraciefighter102
    @thegraciefighter102 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    mad as a box of frogs

  • @thetoughones
    @thetoughones 9 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Wow, he curses a lot.

    • @sygb.550
      @sygb.550 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Lol..at first i thought he was cursing every time his voice go mute, then i realized it's just audio problems xD

    • @imdguin
      @imdguin 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      +thetoughones IRL I actually curse. I was a construction worker for 18 years before I returned to school. :O
      I just don't curse during formal presentation ;) The "audio drops" in this were technical problems for the sound tech's

    • @imdguin
      @imdguin 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +VeteranCape LOL! Reductio ad absurdum much?

    • @wildfirez5764
      @wildfirez5764 5 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@imdguin That was an amazing speech.

  • @BrianDornTFP
    @BrianDornTFP 8 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I'm tired of being a scaredy cat.

  • @jakemcgeough3396
    @jakemcgeough3396 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Tldr: practice

  • @stueydoubleyou
    @stueydoubleyou 8 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    The evolution hypothesis of mans history is so sad and bankrupt.

    • @nr655321
      @nr655321 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      +Stuart Wright Yep: it lacks the dialectics between freedom and outside conditions.

    • @konyvnyelv.
      @konyvnyelv. ปีที่แล้ว

      Nope it's true

  • @tangotanjomusic
    @tangotanjomusic 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Earth is only 6,000 years old.

  • @ghostofvalor4349
    @ghostofvalor4349 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    Wtf is up with this video's audio?

  • @schitlipz
    @schitlipz 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    For some reason I feel like going to a steak house.

  • @victorb21000
    @victorb21000 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    He looks nervous lol, how ironic.

    • @imdguin
      @imdguin 9 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      +Victor Beltran Parkour I test out "very high" on communication apprehension ;) It is one of the reasons I spend so much time thinking about it :P

    • @bronsonperich9430
      @bronsonperich9430 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Fresh Vic He said he has a fear of Public Speaking... so what's your point?

    • @englishlovers7261
      @englishlovers7261 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Bronson Perich I didn't think he looked that nervous anyway. The crowd was a bit tough, but I don't know how many speeches they'd already watched. Gets boring after a while.

    • @bronsonperich9430
      @bronsonperich9430 8 ปีที่แล้ว

      It can be hard. It's like going to a fight night...

  • @alexomondi2708
    @alexomondi2708 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    Almost every speaker carries a gadget???

  • @silentlessons4221
    @silentlessons4221 6 ปีที่แล้ว

    not serious really.

  • @Brotonik
    @Brotonik 5 ปีที่แล้ว

    He's a genius btw

  • @winnywagtail3988
    @winnywagtail3988 8 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is the the worst argument I've ever heard in my life.

  • @DrWhom
    @DrWhom 8 ปีที่แล้ว

    I don't. It's shit easy. I don't believe that famous statistic.

  • @Giannantonio83
    @Giannantonio83 9 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    fat and smart like me =D

    • @jeffron7
      @jeffron7 9 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      +Gianni Orsini It however is not smart to be fat!

    • @Giannantonio83
      @Giannantonio83 9 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      +jeff0516161 But in some cases the extreme amount of intelligence that permeates one's brain can overload one's feelings and throw one's life into an unending spiral of abusing the pleasures of life.

  • @victoza9232
    @victoza9232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Public speaking? Pffft. No, what I fear is a full-bearded, Hyundai-size dude with wrists that have the same circumference of a Thermos.

    • @ashleyjordan4390
      @ashleyjordan4390 7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Vic toza. You should really re-read what you write before you post it. You're mean and weird and no one thinks you're funny!!!!:P

    • @victoza9232
      @victoza9232 7 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Ashley Jordan I don't need to re-read anything. My comment was not meant to be mean--he's a big dude. Stop being a hypersensitive snowflake. And no one thinks I'm funny? Really? Are you so arrogant as to feel that you speak for everyone? The fact you don't find me funny doesn't mean that no one finds me funny. I'm actually known to have an excellent sense of humor and I do make a lot of people laugh. You need to lighten up. There are truly mean comments all over TH-cam. Mine are not among them.

  • @WichoNkimmy
    @WichoNkimmy 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Dave your cute asfk

  • @ishanmadhav2471
    @ishanmadhav2471 7 ปีที่แล้ว

    So accurate hahahahaha EPIC EPIC