My Job Sucks The Life Out of Me!
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- My Job Sucks The Life Out of Me!
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You can get depressed and have a nervous breakdown forcing yourself to do a job you don't like. Start making the change now if you feel unhappy.
Easier said than done.
@@EmilyGloeggler7984 So is literally everything.
Start making the change…blah blah blah, you going to pay my bills? Didn’t think so, so stfu!
Bills
@@rickwithckthat’s a fuckin lie
Calm down everybody she is talking on behalf of us.
Not me...
You don't need these two men to give you advice just put your foot down
Some jobs I've had (including my current one) felt like a 40-hour-a-week prison sentence.
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Sometimes it is not about the money. If u hate the job, u hate the job.
It’s okay to want more in life and at the same time be grateful for what you have. If it is time to move forward to the next chapter, it is time!
That's what I needed to hear
Amen
How is it possible to want more but be grateful? If people want more that they are already not grateful. They are exclusive!!!
We spend so much time at work; its wasting your life to do something you hate for such a long time.
problem is most factory work sucks.... and they make you work tonnes of overtime
Yeah. She makes good money but it seems like a big sacrifice.
Just quit then
I guess it’s not always easy depending on your situation-like if you have a few kids.
@@cathyosullivan718 Or even if you're single and have rent to pay.
100k is very good without a college degree
True but if she's miserable... money doesn't matter.
I’m a high school drop out and make way north of $100k
@@MountainRancher doing what?
@@MountainRancher what do you do though?
@@scottwhinstin2741 Probably ranching
My old job I worked at for 10 years got me so close to me commiting suicide. No job is worth your mental health. Try something new!
Glad you made it through.
+Johnny Five - Retail management
+CC - Me too. Thank you !
How?
I'm glad you got through that.
Sorry to hear that, glad you got tho
After 23 years and at age 56, I did some math and decided it was time to retire. My lifestyle had to be paired down dramaticlly but freedom from a job I hated from day one was worth everything.
Good for you ... You actually have one of the top comments on this issue, however people are too scared to applaud your decision. So I am, congratulations 🎊🎈🍾🎉
Wow that's awesome!! Congratulations 👏
You're 56 not 59 or 60 you can't retire
@@blacklyfe5543 Lmao do you know his finances?? Guy might have a few million to his name.
I like Ken Coleman. I think he adds a lot of value to the Ramsey team.
Unlike john
@@dashmow9809 what's wrong with John
DR
@@dashmow9809 I think John adds value too especially with personal advice. He isn't a finance person like DR is. He was brought on for his counseling expertise and I think he does that very well.
One problem is the fear of the unknown. People are happier in their prison than in the open world because they know the prison. They want to get out, they want to be free, but they are also scared of what will happen or they are scared of rejection. That is what keeps people stuck...at least for me it is.
The body is a prison, the mind is his executioner.
That’s not always the case. I have a wonderful pension waiting for me in 7.5 years. I’ll retire with full pension at the age at 53. I’d love to be able to walk away but I have debt that I need to payoff. I can’t pull out my 401k without penalty and don’t have enough cash on hand and other investments to walk away from my job that sucks the life out of me. I’m the meantime, I pray everyday that I get though another day and doing what I can keep my sanity and eat healthy. Kudos to anyone who can walk away but it’s just not feasible and practical for many of us
@@RetirementbyDesign26 you spoke to me. It will be well for us sooner rather than later
I 100% felt this
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If this woman despises her job, she definitely needs to find a new career. We spend too much time at work not to be happy and feeling like we despise our work.
Easier said than done?? You know most careers want some education or certifications to go with them. Like you can't just change from Finance to Nursing in a month? You go to college for years to even get to that point. It is not easy unless you take a huge pay cut in some other field that is bottom of the barrel.
Out of high school “It’s just a job for now”
40 miserable years later you’re like “WTF just happened”?
@@ReveredDeadOf course it’s not easy but it’s better than staying at job you despise and making your depression worst. Do you want to move on or be sad for the rest of your life?
It isn't my job that I dislike. I love my job, I just hate dealing with some of my coworkers. They make it so I don't want to go into work.
Same
I can't relate I don't like my job
Literally SAME! I work in education, it’s not the kids, it’s the “Adults” for me! 😑
So true.
I work at a grocery store... not bad.... i hate the worker I'm paired up with.... he doesn't work...lazy, he puts work on me.. I hate micromanaging... I've been there a year and I'm tired of it.. Just lost interest... I wanna quit but my mom tells me not to... its a union job.. I'm willing to give that up if they don't make my work partner work like I do
Make way less and I get sick to my stomach every time I have to go to work. Feel like blowing my brains out just to get free.
No. It’s definitely not worth it. Look into being a loan signing agent.
@@TheRealCcE or a loan shark 🦈
You're worth finding something better. Just like a relationship. Even if it's something that pays the same amount but is just DIFFERENT than what you're doing. Lots of job experiences make you better too.
If you truly feel this way, seek professional help. Please do not hurt yourself.
@@susanmarie2231 he shouldn't hurt himself or anyone else!
She should take a 2 week vacation at least because she’s so stressed she can’t think straight.
How
I am just like this woman! Except I’m only 27. I’m kinda going through the same thing though..
When you invest you work less. Nice Investment makes you financially independent.
@@KelonHendersonTV invest in what?
I’m exactly like both and I’m also 27! I recently put my two weeks in. I feel so much better even though I was scared at first, But I know it’s not worth being miserable somewhere where the work place is toxic.
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Well, get ready for your 30s when you can't get jobs as easily.
My job is stressful so I paid off all debt and invest most of my check. Stress should create passive income.
Fear of change is a prison all its own...
but change to what? she doesn't even know. that has always been my problem.
Oh man is it ever!!!
@@jones2277 change towards what makes you free...but it will have a cost.
@@jones2277 lifestyle
Sometimes its the devil you know, than the devil you dont
I REALLY needed to hear this today
Yeah. Me also.
Diddo.. there has to be more to life-and I make half of what she makes
I'm an office drone and decided to go back to school for nursing. My fiance is a nurse and while it's tough she feels fulfilled taking care of others and that's something I want out of my work. Hope you all find what you're looking for. Life is too short to feel this miserable at a job
Me too. I am so tired of customer service work and dealing with verbally abusive customers.
No we don't!!! Grace sounds like a typical lazy whiny unmotivated snowflake with all this "I hate my job". Yet Grace replies "I don't know to every question. As for enjoyment, that's not what a job is for. She's just salty cause she has to do a day's work for a day's pay.
No degree and making between 70 and 100?? Wow! Money ain't everything though. Can't put a price tag on a piece of mind
This is so me. I am about to quit my job , i am 45 and have no idea what will next job be. I am so lost.😢
Me too
I live in the suburbs of Detroit. Assembly line work in the auto industry is traditional around here and it is tough work. Good luck and best wishes.
I’ve been hating my job ever since we got a new supervisor that is unprofessional and shows favoritism. (Yes, I have talked to HR about it. Nothing has changed. Only gotten worse.) Now that I’m 31 weeks pregnant I think it’s best for me to leave. On top of the stress and drama the hours are crappy and I barely get to spend anytime with the child I already have. I’m running for the hills.
You only have one life time .Doing some thing that gives you zero work satisfaction or sense of self worth must be soul destroying.
With all the money in the world you can not buy time or your HEALTH🙏
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The alternative is making considerably less money and downgrading your lifestyle. If you are ok with less income and don’t have the pressure of continuing to provide that level of lifestyle for your family then that is the best option.
God sent me this video! Thank you lord!
@AggiePride4life
Same here.
God doesn't exist
@@hoiendehe The bible says "the fool hath said in his heart their is no God"
@@goldeneye6651 that's like someone who operates a pyramid scheme saying that it isn't a pyramid scheme
@@goldeneye6651 preach 💯
I hate spending hours working at Walmart, literally all of my days are wasted there.
I love Walmart.
My brother in law has been working at Wally world for a decade, he doesn't have the urge to do more and Walmart doesn't seem to offer much. It's his life but he spends allllll his time there. After a while IMO you gotta ask your current company what can I do that is additional that would allow more to grow and develop (and earn more)?
@@mattesser5027 yeah, but it’s an alright job for me as a sophomore in college, I don’t expect to work here for the rest of my life There are some pros to working here such as the pay, it is way better to any of the stores around me.
@@Eccentric-YURR calls like this make me feel better as a student working in retail knowing that it’s temporary. Us young people disliking our boring temporary jobs is pretty different from problems that callers like this have
Most jobs become a boring routine after a few years.
Few weeks
Not nursing.
@@kjthomas4553 True.
@@porcelaindolli3 Yeah, one day you get peed on, one day pooped on, and another day vomited on. I guess health care is never dull. My cousin is a PT and even she said she has had poop running down her legs before. I never thought physical therapists dealt with yucky stuff.
Not teaching
I walked out of my job mid shift on Monday. Interview set up for Wednesday. If they don’t treat you fairly then dip out it’s that simple. Always another job
Not always the case for professional jobs
Wise words I once heard- “I was looking for a job when I found this one.”
While I 100% agree this should only be done in extreme cases of employer disrespect or dishonesty. Doing this in an actual career field could taint your record IE engineer or accountant.
I agree you shouldn't stay in a place your miserable, however, its not always "that simple", a lot of us wouldn't ever be able walk out without a new job lined up because we depend on the income 🤷♀️
If work doesn’t treat you well, you can leave. But I recommend, have another job before jump ship. There are always good/bad in anything. This job she hate, it might have something that she want. Maybe flexibility hours to help with the kids? Maybe some fear of not being marketable? Some changes like new education required time and being parents have lack of time.
I would like to train horses. I'm 59, and don't own a horse. This is a leap for me. 😂.
@Heavyify 😂 yes
Go find a horse barn and start learning!
Maybe more like a gallop. *boom tsh*
I’m a horse
Start with tiny plastic ones and work your way up.
Looking like a crazy woman will be plenty of motivation to get yourself up to a point where you can train real ones
I have a stable income for now, but hate my job and also might be getting to end of my career in tech. I am mid age and I am main income for my family. So, I can’t just quit to try something else.
What do you do in tech?
Rare to see someone who hates working in tech
I've been at my job about 20 years and I hate it. It's not so much the job but the people and the management are running it into the ground. It's easy to make that decision when your spouse is making $110k+. When I'm making $40-$45k and my wife is making $15k with no college degree, and we both have excellent benefits, it gets a little complicated. Anywhere around here I'd have to take a $5-$6k pay cut and lose my benefits
Thank you for this. I’m here on my break and can’t even eat, just calling my eyes out. I haven’t felt so devalued like today at work. Going to pick myself up but this really helped.
I hope you prayed and God showed you how much He values and loves you.
These guys have an amazing ability to listen - something to aspire to.
The problem is that America sucks. You're a battery for the system.. there is no life outside work. This country will work you to no end.. then you come home and do nothing cuz there's nothing to do. And you ask for more.
I remember getting off work everyday exhausted and I was to tired to do anything. Enjoy life? Nope.
@@RangerRickTV I'm glad you found your way out. I'm working on my escape too.
That is your personal issue.
Being an adult sucks, and adult life is no fun in The US I agree. Do you have more flexibility and options in countries like Canada, Iceland and Norway?
@Johnny Five Yeah there's always worse.. but there's also always better. So you can stay put if you want.
When you realize you're in a dead end role and there's people around you flaunting they've been stuck making cap of 24/h for over 10 years and that means they get the preferred holiday dates.. Made me leave so fast
Break free from those chains. Your family and self will thank you
money is one aspect of wealth... but it isn't the only one
working a job you don't like will never give you "spiritual wealth" that your soul yearns for
All jobs suck to one degree or another. That's why they pay you to be there.
Start your own company, I did and now I make bank selling drugs
🤣🤣
ONLY IN AMERICA!
If you end up in prison, Bubba is going to make bank selling you
Gang
@@HamiltonRb 😂 dam!... I like the way you think!
I wonder if the advice for Grace would be the same if she didn’t have her husband’s solid income or if she were a single parent.
I think it would probably be same. She can take some part of her income to learn the skills she is is passionate about and move into that career. I think she gave also invested money in some index funds (I assume she didn't) so it would have compounded now so that she can quit without much fear of risk.
Good question
I can totally identify with this lady. I don't feel like i could enjoy doing anything anymore. I'm just tired of it all after over 27 years. It's not my company nor my coworkers. They are great. I'm just tired of missing out on life because i have to prioritize work. I can't get it all done without putting in many nights and weekends. After doing that off and on for over 27 years in various IT jobs, it just gets old.
At least she has a husband making a good salary to pay the bills. It's not all on her shoulders. She could work part time or take off to "find herself". Single women never have that freedom. I feel worse because I've saved, but I've recently had so many expensive emergencies that deleted my entire emergency fund plus more. I'll never get to retire, but i really need to.
Sometimes, the best thing to do is to take a break from work and, during that break, figure out what to do.
Sell the Rice and beans
Buy a new car. Deliver pizzas on a bicycle.
😂
I like my school bus driver job. Yet I want to really make music. I write my own music.
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Thank freaking God I'm single with no kids for I also HATE my job hence the reason I'm cheap therefore I don't have to work 80hrs a week....could care less about the joneses
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Thousands of us needed to hear this video.
I know Ken means well but he doesn’t realize that not all dreams come true. Sometimes you throw your heart and soul into something and you fail to the point where you would be 100% better off if you had never even started chasing the dream. I am living proof of that. How I wish I could turn back time and never have tried.
I’ve spent my whole life, pleasing other people in an attempt to gain favor with most of them. My job hasn’t been much different frankly speaking. I feel like I’d be letting them down if I leave but deep down inside I know I should.
In my opinion, "going back to school" is never the answer.
Worked for me twice
Depends on your field, and especially your motivation and skill level.
So what do you suggest instead ?
@@fitnessd8402 I would rather just find work. Going back to school typically costs money, and if you're already in dire straits or have debt, then an income would be the most important thing in my perspective. School also tends to take a lot of time and doesn't guarantee a job.
@@bebop504 what if you don’t have qualifications to get a high paying job ?
This came at just the right time!
Yeah I know how she feels I feel comfortable where I'm at I have no degree what if I take a pay cut what if I end up somewhere I hate more. I would love to move out of NY and I've been about to pull the trigger and I just never do it. Cowardly of me
@soapfanaddict I will thank you.
Just further proof you don’t have to do what you are good at, if you hate it. I hated doing some things of what I learned to be good doing and I thought I should do it but I have since learned the hard truth that honestly, that doing what your good at but hate is BS. Find another job.
I love my new job. But I’m not getting any faster at it, and that’s a problem for my employer. I need help.
Thank you Grace❤❤
I was thinking she must be an ER Registered Nurse until she said no college degree.
That’s huge if your into details, many people are not into that. Plus you sound healthy and speak in a friendly way.
Whatever you do don't waste any more time with degrees or "certifications", mostly gatekeeping nonsense
BS platitude answer. An organizing business? Might as well have told her to sell candles or essential oils!
THat's it... Fire all the other hosts and just have Ken and Dave!
Dang I’d love to take some notes from Grace as a 18 y/o Detroit resident my self
This is so me I hate my job been their for so.long I needed to here this
Is she working in a vehicle factory? They have EXCELLENT pay, benefits & retirement.
You can be hired with even a GDE.
Imagine doing school and working at chick fil a that’s me
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@@theramseyhow2044 no I said it as a joke it’s called life people I’m fine
First of all where is that job at that we don't need college to do it and make 70K a year
Electrician
My guess is the auto manufacturing industry. She lives in Detroit and the title says I hate working the the assembly line.
Skilled trades (Plumber, electrician, HVAC, construction)
Sales will put you past six figures
I'm a paramedic in NYC at 110k a year and it's a certification, no degree.
Quit. Take some time off and travel and see the world 🌎. Oh wait!
factory line is tough work... they work you like a dog and you have no free time. you can't be a minute late. We need to stop working more than 40 hours a week and find a balance
Stop working more than. Even in a big city like Chicago, you can live pretty easily for around 25k. So working a simple job for 20 an hour you can easily live on that
Start investing and be financially independent.
@@ambulantgaming8483 simple job for $20 an hour?
@@ambulantgaming8483 a "20 $ an hour simple job" is simply not a thing
Practice downsizing minimalism downshifting non consuming in all areas .stick to time with nature family friends and always look for new experiences and interesting hobbies in time it frees up .no pockets in your shroud .gone from a 60 he week nursing job to 24 hrs with plan to escape fully real soon
SHE HAS ALOT OF DEBT AND CANT LEAVE
A lot of companies are happy finding people where the lights are on and someone is home! Just showing up and not being a dolt is enough. When I was young, I used a shotgun approach, knock on 20 doors and at least one will answer. I always got hired and I worked for some very interesting companies I never knew existed. It was interesting and usually a happy and lucrative surprise. You bring it and the rest will follow. Don't underestimate yourself.
I felt the spark ⚡️ after listening to this! Thank you for asking the question caller and for I instilling hope Mr. Ramsey and Coleman! 💕
I would do what I love (music) if rent wasn't a billion dollars a month and healthcare wasn't held captive to employment (USA). The game is rigged.
Same great pay but been stuck on 3rd shift that few extra dollars a hour isn’t worth my happiness and having time
I've been thinking of applying at the local factory. It's 12 hour shifts, but you get 15 days off a month. Sadly, I have a choice between this and becoming a CNA. They're the only full time jobs with benefits. I'm at my parents house and need money after my job abroad shut down on a 1 day notice. Otherwise, I will have to take part time/no benefits work at a restaurant and save money to move out, which will be too long for comfort. Not much of a choice. if you do night shift they pay just $1 more an hour. I would do day shift, but I am pretty sure I'd be exhausted.
These calls are so painful to listen to. What do you like, what do you want to do, what are your skills?
"I don't know, I don't know, I don't know"
I thought I was the only one. These types of calls make me cringe
Ken always does that... he drills into people who have no idea what to answer. Makes me want to hide, when I listen to it.
@@madelyndorr9597 I feel like they needed to spend a bit more time working out what's holding her back, instead of what job she would rather do
She doesn't want to work, but knows they need the income.
Me too
She makes $70-100K, her husband makes $100K, and she's complaining?? I'd be thrilled!!
With how high the cost of living is in a major city, no its not as great as it sounds. So much of the income goes to the mortgage
She lives in the Detroit area. It’s not that expensive.
What if my idea if a dream job changes every couple weeks? Adhd brain.... As soon as i start my dream job, the novelty wears and i want something completely different.
I didn’t realize I needed this today. Thank you for sharing.
The working person is Not Free. Plain and simple.
I would like that job rn. My job currently on a stop with overtime because production is low.
That would be nice to have the option to not go to work. Would they say the same thing to the husband? He gets to keep the stressful hi paying job but I bet he would want to take a less paying low stress job.
you are right. they're very traditional.
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This episode reminds me of one of those psychic readers that repeat back to you everything that you are telling them and they think you are reading their minds
Yes. It's easy. Anyone can be a motivator. Anyone has self help someone other than themselves. Actually it's easier if your rich and famous like these people
I’d like to become the Emperor of all Earth, have a base in the center of the Earth, and make February 30th a global holiday where all the good-looking ladies will worship me.
For some reason, I don’t think that will happen, no matter the amount of training. lol
Start working on your military buddy
hehehe Nice one.
Even your mom ? 😉
First thing I'd do is quit, If you're not happy there I'd just leave and work the rest out after, Or take a week off and just think about what you really want and remember what you're working for.
Easily said than done. Most people are dissatisfied with their jobs and want to leave, but quitting is not an option. Take time and plan your escape and then make your move.
@@jtugg7341 Quitting is always an option
Never quit before you have an exit strategy to another job.
My biggest mistake in my 20s.
@@rexcatston8412 Exactly, it's irresponsible.
@@rexcatston8412 Yeah Fair enough, I've always had emergency money and places to go to work temporarily so it's never been an issue for me
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Nobody should ever be forced to do overtime. Overtime should be voluntary and paid accordingly.
Try telling that to my employer.
I did as well. I just received my first pay at my new job and I worked 84 hours and hate it and got paid under a thousand dollars.
Dave and Ken doll don't care whether the job takes the life out of you or not. They just want you to work. There's no problem in the world that could interfere w that.
where is she working getting 80k-100k without a degree?? that’s amazing :))
New York i bet
Most of the time, it is not the job that is the problem. But the bossess are
She needs some time off from work, so she can rest, think and make a plan.
Don't we all!!!
I wish to hire someone to declutter for me.
Today I got up at 9 am. Then I went for a walk, it's a nice summer day, why not? Now I'm fixing lunch. Then I might take a nap. It's Monday. I'm NOT playing nice with people and bottling up my frustration. I say whatever I want to whoever. Yep, I'm retired! And the best part is you're not :)
People dont know its better to be a boss than a worker? Shes just scary to old to not wanna take risk.
It’s actually not better.
My boss could not take 3-4 months off work each year without pay on top of six weeks paid vacation or retire before 50 like myself.
He also could not make more than me.
@@blackworldtraveler3711 how
I been in her position. I know what it feels like to work at a job you hate that’s why you gotta make a change in your life or else you’ll be sad and miserable forever
Live on less and at least don't work the overtime. 40 hours is enough for a working mother.
This was the best episode I've seen so far. It really speaks to me. There are things that I'm interested in doing but I know it won't replace my income, at least not at the start. However, I should try to do it to see if it can at least supplement my income, plus it will be more enjoyable.
Guys dont have the luxury to always do a job they like. They have to provide for the family.
What decade are you living in? Men stopped being sole providers ages ago!
My Job Sucks The Life Out of Me!
Not worth it. High blood pressure. Ulcers. Headaches. Irritably. Alcohol abuse. Stomach ulcers. Take money for a job that will shorten my life expectancy? No me.
I would rather be homeless and happy than rich and miserable.