"Endless effort: Butterfly and engineer in search of a way to happiness and marriage"

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  • เผยแพร่เมื่อ 18 เม.ย. 2024
  • In this exciting and shocking TH-cam video: the devoted engineer, with excitement and joy in his heart, finally receives the answer to the test, the answer that removes all the problems and obstacles that existed to marry Maryam. With a smile from ear to ear, he expresses his gratitude to the doctor and walks home with light and happy steps. He gives the good news to Maryam's family and after that, they both leave for their neighborhood.
    Inside the house, the engineer, with energy and enthusiasm, tears the wedding items that his father had prepared for him and turns them into old and worthless things. This action shows that he no longer needs his father's approval and his decision is to achieve happiness and true love. Then, with a small flower that he bought in the city, he goes to the butterfly house. The engineer wishes to make the butterfly happy with this flower and show that his love and loyalty are still constant.
    But Parvaneh has no more feelings for the engineer and pulls him out of his house with an upset eyebrow. This tension and inconsistency at the heart of the story continues to make the story exciting and full of ambiguity, and indicates the continuation of the dangerous and complicated story that takes place between these two lovers.
    #Laboratory love
    #barrier_destiny
    #dream_of_happiness
    #contradiction_of_feelings
    #Decided_on_love
    #non-stop_effort
    #Marz_Partgah
    #freedom_of_love
    #borderless_love:
    #desire_search:
    #complicated_destiny:
    #strong_days:
    #hidden_story:
    #love_code:
    #master_of_love
    #Eternal_Link:

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  • @annewallis5728
    @annewallis5728 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    You have done the right thi g Mrs Parvena. Don’t doubt yourself for one minute. You have been gracious and kept your dignity.

  • @Z9MOketZ
    @Z9MOketZ หลายเดือนก่อน +24

    I’m fully respect Miss Parvena!!! She’s respectful, smart and independent woman . She’s also very intelligent. She know that she can’t trust engineer. Engineer is trying to impress her but she knows and that turns her off.

  • @user-qd3iw6dc8b
    @user-qd3iw6dc8b หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    У инженера чистое сердце, за это АЛЛАХ ему помог.Салам из Дагестана. ❤

  • @kaytate7572
    @kaytate7572 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So proud of you Mrs Butterfly. Never be second in Engineer life. Whether it be his parents or Maryann. Im afraid Engineer will always put his father first. Im sad all this happened, but you are correct. Grown men need to make their own decisions, you made yours without your family. Thank you for showing women of that country they do have a voice and they are not servants 😊

    • @wilsom.barbosagomesgomes1029
      @wilsom.barbosagomesgomes1029 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Ela nunca iria ser a segunda pois ele pediu ela para fugir e ja tinha dito que qieria casar com ela bando de idiotas que não entendem neh a historia

  • @laurabobay5607
    @laurabobay5607 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Parvenah, You were NEVER his second choice. You were always his first choice. The sad thing is that he is not a grown man enough to fight for you. He is a coward, hiding behind a piece of paper to show he should not marry his cousin. And now you know where you stand...he will choose his father's wishes first. It is good to know where you stand before you commit to someone. I am glad you are wise enough to know that. I am sorry that it has come to this. I know that you and the children love him very much and that he loves all of you too. God Bless you all. Stay strong, you are doing a great job.

    • @rosariamarino4592
      @rosariamarino4592 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      She is wonderful lady and smart !
      Stay strong 💪

  • @erlindahow7361
    @erlindahow7361 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Kneel down and beg Engineer,let her know she is the one you really love and care 😢!

  • @theresa.leriaalexander5680
    @theresa.leriaalexander5680 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Congrats to you Ms Butterfly, you prove too me & all the youn girls in your country you was born with your own brain, ❤❤❤❤😊😊😊🎉🎉

  • @ClaudiaMora-lp9lj
    @ClaudiaMora-lp9lj หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Beautiful lady and a smart even a like the engineer, but he needs to put his belt tie in his stand for what he wants not by what other ones for him💐

  • @fidelcrichlow3442
    @fidelcrichlow3442 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    She is right you need to make your own choice

  • @candyrieschel9386
    @candyrieschel9386 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I understand him wanting to honor his father , but he is a grown man and this is his life you only get one . I understand why butterfly's upset she feels like second place , he should have just left home and married butterfly .

  • @ildikomeszaros4847
    @ildikomeszaros4847 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Kedves Mérnök úr! Nagyon nagy hibát követtél el! Apád döntését elfogadtad, de ezzel megsértetted kedvesedet. Nem harcoltál érte, ő lett a 2. számú kedves. Egy kész, felnőtt, szerelmes férfi ilyet nem csinál. Ha valóban szereted, akkor harcolj érte, tégy meg érte mindent. Nem lesz könnyű, az biztos, mert Ő egy önálló nő, saját gondolkodásmóddal. Értékes nő, aki nem fogad el alamizsnát és jól teszi. Ha majd úgy érzi, hogy Ő lesz az 1. számú kedves, akkor lesz minden rendben. De ehhez neked dolgoznod kell minden nap, minden percében.! De ha csak valóban mély érzelmeket táplálsz iránta, akkor harcolj érte tűzön-vizen át!

  • @estherperri4818
    @estherperri4818 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Ms. Butterfly is an independent, intelligent woman ! She’s had to many problems with her ex husband, she doesn’t need any more with Mr. Engineer!! Take time , don’t rush into anything!! ❤

  • @michellecousinohettrick2077
    @michellecousinohettrick2077 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Parvena is a mature, wise woman, and experienced with people. After her first marriage, she’s far wiser and aware of what’s not good. Because of the entire situation with John’s father, she now sees a side to him that wasn’t apparent before. He has a lot of growing up to do to be a proper, strong man. Anyone can help the poor but not anyone can be the right spouse.

  • @CarolWilliams-zd1lq
    @CarolWilliams-zd1lq หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Just take parvena and go and get married from her fathers house if your father doesn't want to go thats his hard luck just be happy

  • @marycoleman9273
    @marycoleman9273 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I hope the butterfly finds someone who is not afraid to stand up for her and the children and really love her and them. She deserves better than this weak man!!!😢

  • @oliviapizana1022
    @oliviapizana1022 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Mrs. Parvena don't take this man child. You deserve a man who will fight for you. Please start a TH-cam channel Mrs. Butterfly

  • @user-zb8hc7tq6q
    @user-zb8hc7tq6q หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I'm praying for. You my new friend. Our creator is merciful ❤❤❤❤❤

  • @annewallis5728
    @annewallis5728 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mr Engineer your father doesn’t care bout your happiness he only cares about what’s right for himself. If he was your real father YOUR feelings would be more important.

  • @marilynrosado2905
    @marilynrosado2905 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Miss butterfly he never wanted to marry his sister he did the blood test on purpose that was the only way out of the marriage to prove to his father. Yes, he could have stood up to his father. I agree, but you were always his first. Please marry him😢

  • @theresa.leriaalexander5680
    @theresa.leriaalexander5680 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You are a your lady after my heart you wants his love not his world's goods,you are not for sale,let that be know period,understand sir, you need too be a man not a boy, not a yes dad no dad you not negotiating business,.it's your feature. Good luck.❤❤😊😊

  • @absaroka5123
    @absaroka5123 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Ms Butterfly will not take you back because you didn’t stand up for what you believe in your heart and soul. You gave in to your father’s demand to marry your cousin when you did take a blood test. Whatever the test result was it only show that you don’t have the back bones to make a hard decisions for yourself. It proves that you’re a push over when it comes to your father. You are not the right man for Ms Butterfly. She’s looking for a man who is independent, loving, generous, kind, hard working, honest with a strong conviction of what he believes in life. I admire her for standing up for what she believes in her heart. Her conviction is very strong and unshakable.

  • @barbaramartin9264
    @barbaramartin9264 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I AGREE WITH BUTTERFLY!!!

  • @user-uy9xd8rm3u
    @user-uy9xd8rm3u หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Как я рада за тебя сынок, будь счастлив !❤😅

  • @DeloiseJonesXES51
    @DeloiseJonesXES51 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Miss Butterfly 🦋 I am so glad you informed him how you feel , he is not the man I thought he was ? He is a little boy in a man body who let's his father make life changing decisions for him , he is not a man nor did he ever love you ? REAL 100% LOVE ❤️ No parents , no religious, no one can detect how and whom you fall in love with and no one can change your mind to the point of marriage ? He live at home , he never dated a women, he don't no anything except throwing $$$$$ Around to show ppls that he is well off ? Don't married him , cut off all communication with him , go on with your life and you do not need him if you have a desire to help the underprivileged children's learn how to read , you can do that on your own , He is not the man for you...he can't deal with life situations nor can he decide decisions for his self and he is a spoiled cry baby...LET HIM GO...if you want peace in your life...he is not for you...thank GOD you found out this now .....

  • @Antonia.torres
    @Antonia.torres หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Yo tampoco hubiese aceptado, de buenas a primeras, así que aplaudo a la señora parvane, ella no quería un papel solo quería las flores a su hombre amado, si esa prueba sale positiva, no lo hubiese vuelto a ver, porque el se hubiese casado con su prima, no decidió por el mismo, fue gracias a que ese análisis salió negativo. Bravo bravo por ella, es una mujer que sabe lo que quiere, que tiene personalidad y decisión propia, ella a sido honesta y transparente, lo a puesto en su lugar, aunque ella también esta enamorada de el, ahora le toca a el esperar la respuesta de ella

  • @kameliacuisine
    @kameliacuisine หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Je la comprends tellement. Si le test était positif, vous auriez épousé votre cousine... pour plaire à votre père et donc, cela signifie que les anciennes coutumes continueront d'exister malheureusement! Vous auriez dû prendre votre décision vous-même et ne pas attendre après une prise de sang. Vous êtes en âge de choisir pour vous-même. Ne laissez personne choisir à votre place!

  • @user-rp6wp6bi8e
    @user-rp6wp6bi8e หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Парвене, ты права. Если бы тест был положительным, он бы женился. Он просто трус, побоялся остаться без денег отца

    • @teresalau86
      @teresalau86 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes he did not stand up as a man forget him cut off the relationship a man like that who knows even if after you too get married who knows maybe he's force to take a second wife 😮

    • @vikakett1999
      @vikakett1999 28 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Трус он или нет ,а вот кто она?белая и пушистая? Идеальная ? Каждый в своей шкуре,важен результат,он верующий,и конечно надежда на бога,и вуаля ,он свободен,не надо искать в нем трусы,он почитает отца ,мать ,и попав между 2х огней не нашёл выход,все у них будет хорошо,

  • @mirisdunje
    @mirisdunje หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    E neka ti je rekla 😂 pametna žena, a ti nedoraslo stvorenje, navikao da dobijes sve što hoćeš i kad hoćeš..da je test bio pozitivan, ti bi se oženio radi oca, ne razmisljajući o Leptiru...moraš se naučiti nositi s problemima i sam donositi odluke, bez da ti se itko miješa u život, i utječe na odluke, konačno odrasti i budi muško

  • @_Dina.6193
    @_Dina.6193 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Cómo cres que se siente ella de saber que aceptaste casarte con otra mujer ,ella esta dolida y decepcionada de ti ,no eres un niño para hacer lo que tu padre te dice por favor !!!!Me rompiste el corazón dice , tú de lo rompiste el corazón a ella primero al aceptar casarte con otra ...

    • @user-gk5ir6uo5n
      @user-gk5ir6uo5n หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Да. Согласна с вами. Ему надо было против отца идти. Не соглашаться на женитьбу с Марией. И я бы так себя почувствовала, сам не принял решения. А если бы был тест положительным? Женился бы...

  • @katerinasdaraki5802
    @katerinasdaraki5802 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Unbelievable that girl he didn’t want her and she was crying how ashamed!
    How desperate a girl can be !
    Mrs Butterfly good for you. Youhave a lot of dignity!

    • @cheryldrake2108
      @cheryldrake2108 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Father went to bank and put a bank card in her name, $$ she almost had money. That changed things with her I say I say that is not good!!

  • @teresalau86
    @teresalau86 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    You did not stand up as a man to defend your true love therefore you do not deserve her love, too bad you did it to yourself not only you don't deserve to marry her maybe you will be cut off from visiting the little boy too😢😢😢

  • @BlumarSanchez
    @BlumarSanchez หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Que mujer tan inteligente ..tan i dependiente que bueno que todas las mujeres iranies tibieran esa decicion ...te felicito mujer eres digna de ser una supermujer ,, que Dios te bendiga gerrera verraca mucha salud

  • @dianareedy7213
    @dianareedy7213 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    Mr Engineer don't you realize you wounded Miss Butterfly's heart when you agreed to marry your cousin. You gave in to your father's demand. You were giving false hope to your cousin too. You still don't have your father's blessing and this will cause family problems towards Miss Butterfly with your dad. She is correct to really think about your character and ability to stand up for her and the children. You could lose her by agreeing to the marriage. 😢

    • @user-nb3sj6qe3f
      @user-nb3sj6qe3f หลายเดือนก่อน +18

      Not his dad! It's his UNCLE that married his Mother after his Real Dad passed away.!! These countries that allow this kind of marriages are sure to have high rate mentally illnesses a d deformaties in children ..One does not marry the same blood..It is called incest....But I do understand it is thier old culture, they really should think about all those children that it hurts....

    • @liberadellamalva4036
      @liberadellamalva4036 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      1😅a

    • @margaretcoyle4224
      @margaretcoyle4224 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      He should follow his heart his step father won’t live forever an mr engineer will be bitter and miserable what parent wants that ?

    • @janethasler1217
      @janethasler1217 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      What a carryon , he dodged a bullet ! Why is she upset ? She knew they should not marry when they had blood 🩸 tests .

    • @estherhle1
      @estherhle1 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Too bad

  • @elidiacarranza7153
    @elidiacarranza7153 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Good for you, Mrs Parvaneh.He only went to look for you because the blood test came negative, and they were not comparable, and I highly admire you for being a highly principled lady.

  • @melrosefalconer2235
    @melrosefalconer2235 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Mother you should be ashamed too because u help your conniving husband decorate for wedding

  • @SarahNicoleL2024
    @SarahNicoleL2024 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ok Mr. Engineer this is what your going to do. Pull yourself up by your boot straps, dust yourself off and move on. Looks like the butterfly might fly away. Get back to what you do best, helping those in need. Go back and get to know the single girl raising her sister's kids. She was charming or just take time for yourself. I realize it hurts, I lost a love when I was younger. I have been married many years now but still remember how sad and lonely it was. You'll find someone, you respect women and love children. Stay positive. God Bless! ❤

    • @celinemalili1784
      @celinemalili1784 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yeeeeeeeeeesssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssssstessssyessssssssssssyessssssssss
      That’s right
      That
      Girl
      Is
      Better
      Mr Engineer❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️yes
      I
      Know
      He’s
      Father
      Will
      Like
      That
      Single
      Girl
      That’s
      The
      One
      MtEngineer ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

  • @melissalevesque3677
    @melissalevesque3677 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I hope she can forgive the engineer after all she was the one he wanted to marry all this time and i pray they are able to work this out

  • @carmenrocha1115
    @carmenrocha1115 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Creo que Paravena es una mujer madura y correcta, si ella sufre como puedo ser feliz a costa del dolor de otro, segundo y si hubiese Sido positivo que desiciob hubiera tomado .tres un hombre que más allá de decirse enamorado debe también demostrar madurez y jugarsela.Dele el tiempo ingeniero a qué ella cubra su dolor y vea claramente no la hunille diciéndole que va a comprar la casa , ella es independiente y letrada no necesita que le compren nada es inteligente , hermosa y sobre todo madre y mujer .téngalo presente defienda su amor no se haga el ofendido ❤

    • @user-gk5ir6uo5n
      @user-gk5ir6uo5n หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Надо Марьям замуж выдать. Бабочка сказала ему, я не могу радоваться, если Марьям плачет

    • @mariadelaluzhernandez5246
      @mariadelaluzhernandez5246 หลายเดือนก่อน

      👏👏👏👏👏👏👏

  • @iyamanchannel
    @iyamanchannel หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Much respect to this teacher lady parvaneh .She talks a lot with sense that seems the engineer simply cannot understand. He always talk about the result of the test is negative. what will he do if the result is positive?

  • @rosariogarza6339
    @rosariogarza6339 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    No se desespere ingeniero Dios lo va rencompensar tanta buena obra que
    Echo usted merece lo mejor tenga paciencia❤❤❤❤😂❤❤❤

  • @therealpollyanna5846
    @therealpollyanna5846 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I completely understand the butterfly's reasoning and she is asking for days to think about things. That is not asking too much. If those test had gone a different way, he would be marrying his cousin and not her, to appease his father. He came to her saying, I can't marry my cousin, so now I can marry you. That is second choice. He is a grown man, being controlled by his uncle/father, even that situation is weird. The second biggest killer of babies in Iran is birth defects. But the older generation still keep planning these marriages and interbreeding. The engineer did not fight for what he believed in and loved. Instead, he allowed himself to be locked up and badgered into accepting his cousin. Science got him out of that proposed marriage, not the love of the butterfly. It reminds me of some words I once read, "It is better to die on your feet, than live on your knees". He should have stood up and fought for what he wanted, regardless of the outcome.

  • @ouardakheddouci8873
    @ouardakheddouci8873 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Madame bravo à toi pour t décision puisque ce genre d’homme est soumis et restera soumis au détriment de son père sans personnalité sans autonomie au courant de tte sa vie. Bien parlé t’es une femme compréhensive cultivée réfléchie à ttes tes décision Tu as bcp de dignité bravo pour ton courage

  • @user-jq1mo9bj1k
    @user-jq1mo9bj1k หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Как базарная баба, сам собой любуется, сам себя хвалит. Он если любил эту женщину, не должен был согласиться на брак, сестрой😮😮😮

  • @davidecuscito5033
    @davidecuscito5033 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Il comportamento di questo uomo non mi piace è un bambino non è un uomo la signora parvena è una donna bellissima e intelligente

  • @goricamilosavljevic7367
    @goricamilosavljevic7367 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I mi smo srecni zbog tebe sto nisi ozenio devojku koju ne volis❤❤👍👍👍👍👍👋👋👋👋👋😘😘😘🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀🍀💖💙🩵❤️🙏🎈💜🇷🇸

  • @ivonetecastrolima2745
    @ivonetecastrolima2745 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Borboleta parabéns por você ser essa pessoa racional , não enxerga as coisas com o coração e sim com a razão, as pessoas daí tem tradição,acho lindo um filho abedecer os pais,mas a atitude do engenheiro foi covarde se ele sabia que teria que ser assim porque e tradição,porque envolveu você nisso , brincando com os sentimentos alheia tanto com seu como o da prima ,ele tá perdido não sabe o que realmente quer 🤷

  • @EliseDefer
    @EliseDefer หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    La falta de empatia por parte este hombre, su nivel de manipulación y caracter caprichoso, que las cosas deben siempre ser como el quiere y cuando quiere, su egoismo, sin importarle los sentimientos de los demás, etc...Ella se ha dado cuenta hace dias que el no es hombre para ella. Me parece increible lo que voy a decir, pero he entendido al padre: Su padre conoce a su hijo mejor que nadie, y sabe como es, y también sabe que solo una mujer joven e inexperta (y de la familia) podrá aguantar las actitudes inmaduras y egoistas de su hijo. Es como si ella lo estuviera viendo todo desde una distancia fria emocionalmente hablando. Por fin estamos viendo como es este hombre.

  • @jorgelarzabal
    @jorgelarzabal หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    you see sis the honor does not have anything to do with happiness or love now you have lost someone you love cause of the decisions you made. I don't blame her for her decision you made her feel like second best.

  • @jenniferruiz249
    @jenniferruiz249 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Megusta está señora es muy respetuosa y moderna ojalá i se casé con el ingeniero😊

  • @luminitapaduraru7218
    @luminitapaduraru7218 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Ma bucur pentru fericirea îngerului ❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @user-mm8xc7oj4j
    @user-mm8xc7oj4j หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Очень мудрая женщина молодец

  • @andreag.3845
    @andreag.3845 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    He has a fiery temper. Not good at his age. A good marriage is permanent work, respect , forgiveness, tolerance, Gods blessing ( on earth, the blessing from father and mother ) and dont loss your humor. God bless you, specially today.

  • @belneluxlg3649
    @belneluxlg3649 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    BONJOUR Mr.Ingénieur ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @mariadelaluzhernandez5246
    @mariadelaluzhernandez5246 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Un abrazo con mucho cariño a la Señora Mariposa, súper culta, educada, respetuosa e inteligente!!! Mi apoyo desde México 🇲🇽

  • @ayseakcay1657
    @ayseakcay1657 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Öğretmen hanım %100 haklı testin sonucu pozitif çıksaydı evlenecekti babasının sözünden çıkamıyor hangi yüzden çıktı öğretmen kanımın karşısına çocuk gibi çok ayıp Türkiye'den selamlar öğretmen hanım çok akıllı biri

    • @matildakallay8528
      @matildakallay8528 หลายเดือนก่อน

      What are you talking about? She agrees that he listened to his father. God turns everything around because it's ungodly for him to sleep his cousin. Nonsense. Why is she acting to be hard to get. If this misses help God send through his son ,she will never get a man to marry her to their ungodly culture. Infact she wanted him so bad. She should know their culture, this man tries to respect his father , give his father condition, look you forcing to marry Maryam, let blood and even if it positive he will not child with her. Now what else can a man do. After all in their beliefs culture, they practice or allowed polygamy having multiple wife's.

  • @abdelhalimstaifi9846
    @abdelhalimstaifi9846 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mme parvaneh a raison de réfléchir avant de donner suite pour se marier avec l' ingénieur.

  • @user-hg2oe3xb2w
    @user-hg2oe3xb2w หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    祝你永遠快樂幸福

  • @lorettaconte
    @lorettaconte หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Caro Ingegnere, sei molto spontaneo e buono nel dire subito la verità alla tua amata ma dovevi riflettere prima di compiere i gesti spontanei.Dovevi fare un poco di discernimento sulla tua relazione con l'altra persona.Ci si sposa solo per Amore 💘 e non per alternativa!Dio ti benedica ora lascia che lei rifletta un poco e piano piano le cose si sistemeranno se Dio vorrà.Un caro saluto affettuoso da nonna Loretta (Napoli) Italia e tanti auguri.

  • @markcousino2519
    @markcousino2519 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He's weak and deserves no woman. He dug himself a deeper hole everytime he opened his mouth. She's too strong and independent for him. All he was saying was he would have married his cousin if the blood test came back different

  • @lupitadominguez2187
    @lupitadominguez2187 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    Tiene toda la razón la sra Paraven ,el ingeniero no tuvo voluntad propia e hizo lo que el padre le dijo ,eso demuestra que no es tanto el amor por la sra Paraven porque se dejó manipular por el padre y la prima que horror ya sé veía casada con el ingeniero si ella es joven y estudiada ella sabía que eso no podía ser es contra Dios y lo peor la prima sabía que no la quería y que está enamorado de otra mujer y aún así siguió con los planes del tío entonces ahora que hace llorando la ridícula y muy bien hecho por la sra Paraven no debe de casarse con una persona que no tiene voluntad propia ,es muy buena persona el ingeniero , pero le falta mucho madurar y darse cuenta de que ya es un hombre no un niño

    • @andrewleo9820
      @andrewleo9820 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Muy de acuerdo el ing estaba disfrutando de su paseo con la familia comprando anillo y vestidos. El no aceptaba esa boda porque la veía como una hermana y después lo pronto que cambió de opinión al decir que se casaba pero no quería tener hijos es decor que si pensó tener relaciones con su prima ingeniero leas los mensajes

  • @emaarnaizjara7864
    @emaarnaizjara7864 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Ingeniero, ella quería que tomaras tu la decisión de casarte con ella,no porque el resultado dio negativo.
    No entiendes eso.

  • @mariadelaluzhernandez5246
    @mariadelaluzhernandez5246 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Tu error, desde mi punto de vista es seguir hablando de Maryam y lo que hubiera pasado si no hubiera salido negativo los resultados de los análisis. Eso significa para Mariposa, que terminarías dándole gusto a tu padre. Por tal de no hacerlo enojar terminarías casándote con esa tonta a la que también le falta carácter, de pronto parece entender el problema, pero luego llora y se enoja porque en el fondo también quería casarse contigo. La Señora Mariposa es muy inteligente mi querido Ingeniero, creo que te supera en mucho porque tiene y manifiesta muy claro su manera tan madura de pensar. Sí en verdad la amas, no te hagas el sentido, acepta lo que ella te hace ver y partan de cero pero elige: tu padre o ELLA. Entiende Ingeniero!!!

  • @carmenmartucci4429
    @carmenmartucci4429 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Signora Pervaneh
    E stata sempre esemplare e aperta al dialogo dimostrando di essere una giovane Donna e mamma aperta e un modello per sua figlia e tante altre Donne.
    Ha accettato le parole dello zio anche quando l'ha offesa con le sue parole ,e li ha contrabattuto una donna divorziata non ha il diritto di rifarsi una vita ?
    Lei 🧕 meglio di me sà che questo pensiero viene da un uomo che ha avuto dei valori umani immensi di un altra epoca ,che lei sa bene anche il come maestra perché questo succedeva .
    Oggi l'evoluzione della vita ci da una finestra temporale più realistica e più elastica , e in questo senso ci muoviamo e coltiviamo la nostra vita.
    Mettiamo un punto fermo e un tassello importante e che lei 🧕 Signora Parvaneh non è la seconda scelta no cara lei è la prima scelta del Signore Ingegnere.
    Il Signore ingegnere è una persona estremamente onestà corretta con un grande cuore generoso inoltre è un Uomo di Dio 🤲
    Lei 🧕 ora è ferita ha il suo orgoglio deluso per quello che è successo.
    Mà la causa non è l'ingegnere lui ha sempre detto nò ...
    Non ha mai nemmeno un secondo ignorato il suo grande amore per lei🧕 e i suoi figli .
    Mi creda onestamente .
    Con il test, lui ha usato questo test per fare capire allo zio e ad altre persone che non si può decidere per altri sarebbero infelici .
    Lui avrebbe detto nò e sarebbe venuto da lei 🧕
    Lui sapeva questo da sempre dall'inizio .
    Quindi lui ha rimproverato lo zio di avere detto quelle parole a lei e di averle spezzato il cuore 💔
    E anche ha sgridato il cameraman di avere dato l'indirizzo di casa sua .
    Signora Parvaneh si prenda il suo tempo e decida per lei e per i suoi figli .
    Mà , si chieda perché e venuto da lei con fiori bianchi e pasticceria con il cuore ❤️ in mano ...
    La carta era un esito autentico certificato leale fedele verso di lei Signora Parvaneh gli ha sempre detto la verità .
    Questo e il Signore Ingegnere.
    Le auguro di prendere una saggia decisione 🤲
    Dio vi benedica siate felici l'amore vince su tutto 🩵💙💝🩷

  • @user-pn9zq6jo6v
    @user-pn9zq6jo6v หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Да Славо Богу,молодец Инженер,Бог есть и будет всегда тебя спасать,благослави ❤с ❤❤❤❤с Богом,молодец я рада прелесть,победа твоя❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤

  • @vivfortier2071
    @vivfortier2071 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    What a drama queen this guy is😮

    • @JennyThomas-nv8zh
      @JennyThomas-nv8zh หลายเดือนก่อน

      He never wants to take the Blame for anything . Always puts it off on other People.

  • @liannacrazyhead5591
    @liannacrazyhead5591 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Sí está molesta por lo que le hizo su papá usted luche por su amor

  • @patriciagoodman937
    @patriciagoodman937 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    He dosen,t understand ,that he didn,t fight for Butterfly ,he was obeying his dads wishes an he would have married the other woman ,if the test went the other way . Butterfly is a lovely lady an he should have fought for her . an she tried to explain that to him ,but he still didn,t get what she was saying that she was his second choice

  • @jenniferevans2046
    @jenniferevans2046 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Mrs Butterfly is a highly intelligent and independent woman. She is far removed from the very old customs and all she wanted from him was to stand on his word ‘NO’ to marrying Maryham and not stand on a stupid blood test. I can see her point. He did not make a 100% decision to marry her by going along with Maryham and a test.l. His behaviour to Maryham was bad, and for her mother and his own family. He should have loved Madam Buttefly more than he loved his uncle’s old customs and stood his ground. But he didnt. He passes everything onto the test, or God - but took no real courage and responsibility to stand up for himself. She would be mad to marry what seems to be a grown up child who is quite manic and over stimulated about everything - he does not come across as emotionally balanced. What would he have done if the test had been positive? He would have married Maryham, right? Or would he have had the courage to stand his own ground - that way, he would have proved to Butterly that he was totally sincere and had the courage of HIS OWN convictions.

    • @annewallis5728
      @annewallis5728 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Totally agree with you!

    • @tootsiepop5532
      @tootsiepop5532 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      I couldn't agree with you more. Very well said.

  • @lauracarrillo5343
    @lauracarrillo5343 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm so happy you went to the Dr's It is Not Right To Marrie YOUR COUSIN

  • @JeaninePourquie
    @JeaninePourquie หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Vous avez raison M Papillon si le test avait été positif il aurait fait abstraction de vous ,c'est un peut lache de ça part il ne sait pas prendre une décision tout seul. Je suis de tout coeur avec toi ❤❤❤😅😅😅

  • @marionszabo7588
    @marionszabo7588 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Bravo lovely teacher ask Jim if test was positive what he would marry cousin I respect you lovely teacher

  • @beverlygillenwater8537
    @beverlygillenwater8537 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Mrs Butterfly did exactly what she should do.
    Would he have married if positive. Be a man. Make your own decisions. What will happen if she marries him later with major decisions.

  • @jankanator1138
    @jankanator1138 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    konecne aspon jedna zena u vas v tyhle klipech co uvazuje racionalne! dala muspravnou otazku co by udelal kdyby test nebyl negativni a on ani nedokazal odpovedet a aj v tom ma pravdu ze je obezretna protoze jeho otec ji urazil a on nebojoval za svoji lasku ale se podvolil otci a proto zekla ze se nerozhoduje sam ale jeho otec zanho. ma pravo byt obezretna protoze by se mohlo stat ze po case jeho otec nebo nekdo jiny mu neco namluvy a on to udela pak by mnela pani parvena problemy a ty ona jako rozumna zenanechce mit . liby se my jeji mysleni a ma pravdu taky bych o nem pochybovala po tom vsem co jsem vydela jak se choval. do ted jsem mu fandila za to ze pomaha lidem v tisni ale ted uz tak nadsena nejsem taky pochybuji o jeho pravomocech o vlastni osobe.

    • @anna_marie77
      @anna_marie77 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Perfectly said!👍💯

  • @yeseniamontano2789
    @yeseniamontano2789 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Ingeniero fallaste que hubiera pasado si el examen daba positivo para que se casaran un matrimonio, no depende de los resultados de un examen sino del verdadero amor

  • @margarettesimon1110
    @margarettesimon1110 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Butterfly you made my day. You are so poised and smart, and patient. I would have discussed him a long time ago. This is very smart the way you handle him. Bravo. Engineer admit it you are a Mommy’s boy, you need to grow up.

  • @user-nd3jd3uk5g
    @user-nd3jd3uk5g 5 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Превильно все говорит и делает умная женщина с двумя детьми! Она грамотная,образована, ей вот такой шубутной ,гиперактивный мужчина не нужен! Женщина самодостаточная, все у нее хорошо,она справляется со всеми жизненными обстоятельствами сама. А у этого инженера в голове - Хаос! Нужно уже в таком возрасте быть поспокойней ,а не метаться,как рыбка в аквариуме! Желаем ему ,все таки ,найти себе девушку по любви,по чувствам, но только не родственницу! Удачи! ❤❤❤

    • @user-pt1wz2ff2k
      @user-pt1wz2ff2k วันที่ผ่านมา

      Очень плохой обычай у них, женится, на родственников

  • @fidelcrichlow3442
    @fidelcrichlow3442 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    It is not about the test result it is about you not standing up to make your own choice

  • @gracielabrown8466
    @gracielabrown8466 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You are right lady . Let him suffer just a little bit because he needs to be more thoughtful and be a man. It’s obvious that he really loves you, but he needs to learn how to treat you and how to talk to you.

    • @dorothyclarke588
      @dorothyclarke588 หลายเดือนก่อน

      from day one she led the Engineer on...now she say, "i think about it" !!

  • @alinata9941
    @alinata9941 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    ❤инжинер Порвани,она вас тоже любит. Пусть немножко все успокоется и вы будете вместе

  • @catalina9468
    @catalina9468 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    أنا سعيد جدًا بالمهندس 😊

  • @user-jy5gy9gg2e
    @user-jy5gy9gg2e หลายเดือนก่อน +13

    God already gave you the answer by putting the love for ms butterfly in your heart and you ruined it.

  • @user-jn8cc7gv3c
    @user-jn8cc7gv3c หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Сынок бог помог тебе избежать неприятности.Радуюсь за тебя.

  • @MirtaSabatini
    @MirtaSabatini หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Este ingeniero es un caso de escopeta!!!!!!!!!como decimos en Uruguay.,al final debo reconocer que hizo las cosas bién,y por el bién de todos.Desppués que me enojé,me decepcioné,me entristecí,hizo las cosas de la mejor manera.,pido perdón al ingeniero,lo llamé flojo etc etc ,pero realmente es muy astuto.,el padre muy triste,la chica llora pero ya se conformará,y ojalá cada quién aprenda la lección.Yo aprendí la mía también.Felicidades!!!!!!!!!!

  • @viloliv3446
    @viloliv3446 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Magoou uma mulhet por causa de um pai que não pensa em sua felicidade. Agora aguenta as consequências. Borboleta é uma mulher inteligente, sábia e digna. Precisa lutar para merecer. Seja homem de decisão e não um que não tem atitude. Fraco!!

  • @jorgelarzabal
    @jorgelarzabal หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    wow there is a god so happy for you God bless.

  • @user-fg7ll7oi2c
    @user-fg7ll7oi2c หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I understand both sides. She thought he made her a second choice but he thought proving his point about genetic problems would change his father’s understanding why this was worse than wrong. This was a way to have harmony with his choice of who he wants to marry. Without that blood test, he would loose his family. Now he has a way to have both. He knew that test would release him from “ tradition”. It’s fact. She was never a second choice.

    • @dianareedy7213
      @dianareedy7213 หลายเดือนก่อน

      She told Mr. Engineer she wanted step-dad's blessing. Step-dad has not given it. Step-dad chose niece over Ms. Parvani. 😢 His choice was cowardly for a family you supposedly love for life. 😢

  • @jessesherryl
    @jessesherryl หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You blew it John, she just wanted to see you stand up for yourself, put her first,😢

  • @user-hx2ku5db9p
    @user-hx2ku5db9p หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    УРАААААА!!! Я радуюсь, подписываюсь обратно!!! Напомни своему дяде, что он женился на твоей маме и взял ее с детьми. Парване, что ты переживаешь за Марьям, она о тебе не думала, кода напялив белую тряпку, бежала сломя голову, выйти замуж за своего брата...

  • @hebaalturky1545
    @hebaalturky1545 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    الف مبروك مهندس بهمن يااااللفرحة

  • @irmafernandez7280
    @irmafernandez7280 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Que alegria claro que Dios uiere la felicidad de sus hijos sr ingeniero auque estoy un poco desepcionada de ust ,tendria que aber rechado rotundamente a su padre, pero no importa doy gracias a Dios por no permitir ese matrimonio, casarse entre familia es un inceto..

  • @ouardakheddouci8873
    @ouardakheddouci8873 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Il me semble que cet ingénieur n’a pas pris sa décision ou il n’est pas déterminé avec son père Il aurait dû se montrer qu’il est ferme que sa parole qui passe non celle de son père. C’est sa vie privée elle ne concerne pas son père ou les autres sois disant que le test est positif là donc le mariage aurait lieu. Pour moi un vrai homme il faut qu’il soit catégorique carrément sans commentaire sans justificatif de quoi que ce soit. La fermeté ds sa décision c’est ça qu’on appelle un vrai homme adulte mûr.

    • @andrewleo9820
      @andrewleo9820 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      A si es. El no lo quiso entender ninguna mujer que se respete no acepta ser la segunda opción de nadie

  • @cheryljones7066
    @cheryljones7066 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    She is right no woman wants to be second and you aren't man enough to make your own decisions. She want a grown man not a boy.. never choose second place. She is good for him to make a man of

  • @soniapaz8057
    @soniapaz8057 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    la verdad la señora tiene razon si la prueba hubiese sido positiva para complacer a tu padre la boda se hubiese celebrado tienes que tomar decisiones x ti mismo no x tu padre se hombre lucha x lo que quieres

  • @tatjanafunkner1550
    @tatjanafunkner1550 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Женщина , что ты делаешь с мужчиной , который тебя любит и твоих детей, подумай хорошо и не пожалей потом об этом, верни инженера и будьте счастливы.

    • @user-ul9iu4hr4w
      @user-ul9iu4hr4w หลายเดือนก่อน

      она себя не на помойке нашла... получается что запасной аэродром.....

    • @tatjanafunkner1550
      @tatjanafunkner1550 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@user-ul9iu4hr4w Причем здесь помойка, ничего, что у нее двое детей и он не посмотрев на это решил жениться, любые родители будут против этого для своего ребенка и правильно сделал, что тест на кровь , она должна понять и его и подумать , прежде чем делать выводы, она знает их порядки. Инженер сразу не воспринимал , что задумал его отец и еще отец увидел тест отрицательный и спросил, что ты ничего не сделал, чтобы такой тест был и это разве нормально? И вообще, у арабов должен всегда делаться тест на совместимость по крови, только тогда можно жениться, поэтому отец и не сопротивлялся на него. Еще папаша приходил к учительницы и там ей наговорил , то что решил сам женить его на кузине, это вообще маразм.Теперь он опять куда нибудь исчезнет и отец придет к учительнице и вместе по горам будут бегать искать, так задумал оператор и так почти во всех каналах, которые идут, если вы смотрите еще что-нибудь.Я думаю, что скоро у них все будет хорошо.

  • @user-wz9hd7ts7e
    @user-wz9hd7ts7e หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Надо было Парвене хоть забрать цветы и сладости,а то ещё и этим его обидела до глубины души. А вроде такая рассудительная,но тут гордыня взяла верх

  • @user-wn5zu1tk4x
    @user-wn5zu1tk4x หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Тебе Аллах помог ты хороший желаю счастье огромное!

  • @angiekrajewski6419
    @angiekrajewski6419 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Why not have two cars one for you personally !! At your age you should have a car if your own and not depend on your uncle’s car!!!

  • @user-dt5xj5ji5z
    @user-dt5xj5ji5z หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Художница очень красивая и модная дама и культурная вы пара ❤

  • @ankagajdosova8066
    @ankagajdosova8066 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Inzinier mal bojovat o svoju lasku a nepostupovat žiadne testy ,a bojovat proti tymto zastaralym zvykom

  • @vikakett1999
    @vikakett1999 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Он такой простой искренний,добрый,наивный,всем хочет и отцу и бабочке и 2 ой сестре угодить ,НО так не бывает,учителка принципиальная и не любит его по настоящему как он .Да он ей симпатичен,с детьми хорошо ладится,