A DAY IN MY LIFE | WORKING MUM OF THREE | WHY I'M LEAVING SOCIAL MEDIA
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ส.ค. 2024
- This is my last TH-cam video as I'm leaving social media- thank you all for being amazing!
A typical day in my life as a working mum of three. It covers everything from what I get up to at work, to how I stay on the Slimming World plan, my evening routine and how I manage time across all three kids.
Follow my journey on Instagram: / ayeshahak
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I found u when u r leaving social media but it is inspiring to see Muslim women who is not allowing Socail media to control u but instead u control it
👌🏻❤️😍 a lots of love ❤️
Hi I love your videos 💗😍
Same here and whatever she does in life may allah bless her and her family inshallah
Ur very pretty MashAllah
Mohammed Ali Ameen pls capitalize Allah
This is the first video I've seen of yours and it's your last video! I'll just have to go back and watch all the rest lol
Me too! Lol
Same
Same here!!! XD
Same
Me too 🤨
I don’t blame you. You’re intelligent, motivated and an insipration. Life is all about balance and you’re an example that you can have it all, obviously it’s not easy. But social media has taken over most people’s lives and good on you for seeing that family and your career are more important. I will miss your posts on Instagram and your recipe videos. I pray everything goes well with your promotion and Allah makes it all easy for you. Ameen. Wassalam x
Thank you so much. I love social media but it really does take over and something has to give with me going back full time. So much as I’ll miss it, I’m also really looking forward to focusing on family and career xx
Good for you! You basically have 3 full time jobs, a content creator, your career and a mother and wife at home. Good on you for keeping it up for so long! All the best! X
@@AyeshaHak Wonderful family. But your eldest son (Erfan), seem so well-mannered, what a gem. May Allah continue to bless you all💕💕💕💕
Amiin
*As a Muslim father I would like to see your husband help you in kitchen. I am a physician & my wife an active lady like you demanded that I help at home. it made sense. Now my three sons help their wives without being asked & my wife is so proud of it!*
Pho E he does help I see on her Instagram. But when he is working late it is very hard to.
I believe at the end of the video she mentions her husband helps clean the kitchen and makes a evening snack for them to enjoy together when he comes home from work.
ماشاءالله
Very inspriing im raising 2 young biys by myself im w single mom and im also teaching them that they are supposed to help in the home i dont want them to grow up like those people who think evey chore is a womans job
May Allah make it easy on all mothers
Ameen!
Aameen
@Gerrit Smith your a waste of oxygen with those type of views! Go educate yourself.
@Gerrit Smith women actually worked at the time of the prophet pbuh, not necessarily outside the home(sewing threading even trading with a representative) but some did work outside.
@Gerrit Smith thats not true woman are allowed to go out but i agree with marrying and staying at home with kids is easier while husband is working.
Thank Allah he gives this opportunity to women.
Really admire how you use your day wisely and remember to remember Allah during your day!
Phew I don't know how you do this everyday it wore me out just watching it, but good luck sorry you are leaving xx
Me too and like women really do a lot wow
so sad you're leaving only discovered your channel today!! I am sure you're doing this for good reasons God bless you and your family 🤗
I am always in awe of how much you accomplish every day so can appreciate that a promotion and going back full time means something has to give 💕 but I’m genuinely going to miss you and the family x
Ah Trudi- have loved getting to know you and wish we had the chance to meet. Much love xx
AyeshaHak that would have been lovely, perhaps one day our paths will still cross 💕Thank you for taking the time to share your life, thank you for po-gate and for the day we were all guessing the random lunch Iman had! And grown up adventures with Irfan my two are older so it’s been nice to see time with teens.
Everyone has their capacity... I'm so down these days just because I also want to do something but just can't do it...watching you doing such a brilliant job has actually motivated me.
Alhamdulillah.
Inshallah allah gives you the strength to accomplish your goals in life ameen
Looks like hard work thank allah for giving mothers to this world
So sad your disconnecting. Really felt you were one influencer who I could really connect with and relate to. Wishing you all the best in your new role x
I pray Allah blesses you and your family. You're inspiring, and as I've mentioned before your kids are too cute Allahumma barek. Insha'Allah we'll see you when the time is right. Take care sis xxx
Thank you for the beautiful message ❤️
What a busy yet fulfilling schedule! Congrats on the new role at work. I’ll miss the videos but totally get it 👍🏼
See you at group x
Thank you! I’m SO back on SW - see you on Sat xx
Oh wow! Ma'sha'Allah. You make me appreciate how much easier my life is lol. I am a newish mum. Daughter just turned one and I am a primary school teacher. Life is a big juggle at the moment but insha'Allah will all pay off. Ameen. Jzk for the video x
It will inshaaAllah💕
Beautiful mommy and beautiful kids...masha allah u are very hard working sis... all the best for the future
Thank you so much xx
Got a little emotional watching! May Allah grant you your heart’s desires & protect your beautiful family! Lots of love!! Xxx
Tami K desires are bad you donkey
What a busy bee ! You definitely need the time off of social media. I wish you all the best for the future. Will miss your videos💜
Masha Allah, found you in youtube recommendation and I am glad I did. It is not easy to be active when we are busy with our own tiny world. Gradually I feel into depression and when I realised I had to shut down too. See your vlog today reminded of myself few months back. Terrible days... not easy with 3 young kids. It shows that we need to take control of social media & don't let social media control you. Insha Allah will see you back soon as I have added you. Take care
I loved this video so much!! I’m a mama of 6 and watching your routine and family time and work...everything was just so special!! Thanks so much for making this!
Soooooo going to miss you your such a genuine person may your journey be successful in shaa Allah....
Good luck for the future! Going to miss you on social media. Takecare sis
Thank you so much c
Dude I can so relate I’m a working mum of three my boys are 7&8 and my daughter is 3.! I do have lotsa help from my wonderful husband but trust me the struggle is real.! You go girl.!
Beautiful ..praying on time,working, cooking, being amazing to you family..
So inspiring..stay blessed.
I never came across your channel until now. You were in my recommended. Ironically, it’s your last video! Anyways, all the best ❤️
Awww I will really miss your videos and seeing your adorable little ones. I wish you all the best with your new journey. You're so busy so I completely get that you need to focus on priorities. Hopefully we get to see you all again in the future. Much love and best wishes 💕
Thank you so much! It means a lot that people understand and can relate xx
This is beautiful to see how hard moms work without much notice. Thankfully my husband has been a big supporter and very helpful in every step.
9:14
Totaly cute .. U have to hear this🤗🎀
You were in my recommended videos today and I enjoyed it a lot. I love the way how you multitask ماشاالله with family, home, work and looking after your own health by eating super healthy and running during your break at work.
Wish you weren’t leaving but I guess everybody knows their own priorities according to their own lives.
Wish you all the best sis
Love your beautiful kids and the fact that you’re giving them good tarbiyah ( Irfan serving you hot chocolate ). Always good to involve the children in little jobs around the house.
I can go on but need to pray Maghreb. Tc. 💕
From Pakistan
Your such a great mom you make sure your kids are safe well clothed and happy if only my parents were like you
Thank you for showing real life with toddlers. American youtubers will honestly say they dont want to show the tantrums-so all their videos look like perfect little families. It makes me feel less alone knowing you go through the combing struggles too and early morning routines.
You're really inspiring subhan'Allaah. I'm a single mum, about to begin Slimming World and a new full time job after raising my daughter for almost 4 years. You've made me realise it is possible to be a Muslimah and able to juggle life, work and children. I wish I found your page earlier. May Allaah bless and protect you and your family. Ameen x
Omg sis you’re the real inspiration! I have so much respect and love for single mums xxx
Allahuma barik wow at your day sis, that’s really good that you finish in time to collect the kids. Your video was super inspirational! Made me emosh a bit I dunno why but I’ve just came across you and you’re taking a leave which I think I’d absolutely amazing and much needed for us all. I hope your break goes well for you!
This is really inspirational plus it demonstrates how hard it could be for being a mum
You’re amazing dear 😘wish you best for 2020😘😘
Awww congratulations on your promotion! What a lovely way to say goodbye; I’m sure you will be making a massive impact in everything else you do just as you’ve done within the social medias. God bless you and your family ♥️
I've just found you now you aren't on TH-cam anymore! You are inspiring!😊
Mashallah your family is so beautiful. My mom had three children and she used to work full time, when we were growing up all three of us used to have long curly hair and we hated having to get it brushed. Some tricks my mom did helped a lot though. She would normally sit behind us on our couch with her legs on either side so if we tried to run she could kind of trap us. She would also try to give us something to distract us with like a book or a toy. Then she would spray our hair down with a children's knot-free spray and brush like you do with your own hair, from the bottom up. But would put her hand on the hair or the scalp just above where she was brushing so it would pull on the hair and not the scalp. Braids were a must because as kids we hated anything tight or pulling on our hair, she would brush it, braid it, then throw in a clip or head band for any baby hairs that were coming out. Anyway I hope that helps. keep doing what you are doing you are awesome!
This is so inspiring 😍! I can’t wait to move back to the UK and start my career. Well done you’re doing a great job !
The kids are so adorable! 😁
Today first time came across your TH-cam to see u r leaving but I guess it’s in shaa allah for something better and I am sure u will continue making everyone proud and also u can post time to time some updates and also how u r doing and we all would love to hear from you am sure those that follows you for a long time! Your kids are beautiful masha’allah and so are you and all the very best xx
she said no !
Congratulations on your promotion. I hope you keep us up to date occasionally! Your channel is one of my favorites.
Aww once I secure a house upgrade I’ll be back- hopefully in a year or so xx
I hope you can finish that year soon. I pray that you can be a mum working from home because my heart aches knowing that you are missing out on the children's lives. Before we know it the kids are all grown up and on their own, involved in their own lives. Best luck
I loved seeing a peak into your daily life! I hope you have much success at your job, and I can't wait to see your videos after you return to social media. Love from the USA!
Hello beautiful family. One tip for your daughter hair, that may be helpful. create a hair care box (only be taken out when your doing her hair) inside will be cool things for her to play with while you do her hair along with her special hair products. The box can be decorated with her favour stickers and coloring items. This box will only be taken out when your doing her hair. In morning since your in a rush she can take one item from the box to hold on too longer. Sorry hope that helps. Key is to make her hair routine special fun time
Oh I truly appreciate and love every bit of this video. Why did TH-cam just recommend this to me now
You are amazing and and inspiring. I am single and a working woman, wishing to have a work & life balance like you too. I will try to improve better. Plus, performing prayer 5 times a day in your busy days. May Allah bless you sister. :)
Gonna miss you hun, the best of luck in your new role, know it sounds weird but am proud of you. Being a working mum is one hell of a job, you've inspired me to keep going and strive to fulfil my career aspirations too. You've really been a great support, while I understand your reasons for leaving I have to admit I do look forward to seeing you again, when/if you ever decide to come back in the future. Take care and dua's for you and the fam xxxx
Salam just found your channel sad to hear you will not be making anymore videos u seem like a great role model
I just got this by chance it was suggested but just as ur title says.. As a mother myself I don't understand how people can dedicate time for social media although they might be helping others but maaaan family comes first hugs and kisses family quality time is sooooo important... U can go back to it when they r all grown up if u are all alive and in good health and u have enough time. Take care
All the best in your career and future Ayesha! You will be missed xx
Thank you so much cc
Gutted you are leaving TH-cam. You was a breath of fresh air from all the other hijabs youtubers. As a Muslim working mum myself , there wasn't many muslimahs on TH-cam I could relate too,As you never compromised who you was in terms of roles modesty. BUT Watching your day in a life reminded me of the struggles of balancing family and simple everyday life when you work. Especially as the children get older the extra clubs madrassa all take so much of your time and energy . Wish you all the best and success . I'm sure you know the key is planning and organising beforehand if you are a working mum. You did a great job of organising events so don't be hard on yourself about being organise at home for your family, you have the ability . Gonna miss your hauls 😥xx salaams
Please continue making this type of videos it's so inspiring ❤️
I just found you..and you're going.Salaam from Bosnia.You're beautiful soul.❤
Oh sis- from Bosnia, so beautiful MashaAllah! Love and duas x
I happened to see your video today and was so inspired Ma sha Allah! Here I am, no children and working full time. I thought my life was super hectic. I have just realised while I have my own challenges, you are super busy and yet you seem to cope pretty well alhamdulilah.
I am also sad to see that this is your last video! I can totally understand though. It is about priorities. All the best! X
Alhamdulilah TH-cam recommended this video to me. I'm a single mother and I deleted my fb account just 3 days ago. I'm also trying to find a routine for my children. This is the motivation I needed. May Allah continue to reward you in sha Allah sis. Ameen
OMG you’re married with 3 kids !! That’s so cool I thought you’re 23 - 24 yo like me when did you do all that😂😂❤️ you look so beautiful mshaAllah 🙈
Oh, how sad to hear you’re going off here, and I sure hope it’s not for too long ... hopefully this year will fly by and you’re back soon. But in the mean time, I wish you and your family the very best! You are a fantastic role model to what a woman can achieve in life! I’ve thoroughly enjoyed and will continue enjoying your videos (I’ll just have to watch them over again😆). Will miss you and your family ... those kids are sooo darn CUTE! 😍
What a beautiful message! For some reason I always remember your comments so thank you for always being so supportive x
Sweet mom and sweet children. May Allah make it easier on you ❤️
I can’t imagine being a mom and do full time job at the same time 🤯
Yeah exactly!!!
👍Allahumma Barek
You are just amazing Machallah. I am working in a full time job from 8 to 6 and still not have children, I can not imagine how hard and courageous it can be with 3 one. May Allah protect them. Such an inspiration you are
This is my first time watching your video and I'm actually sad that it's your last video 😔 I hope at some point you'll be back in shaa Allah xx
Tuff life really .lot of time spend outside than work at home.kids.Allah bless you
I've just stumbled upon this video and it's a shame that it is your last if it is! I've subscribed to your channel in the hope that you will upload more videos 🤞🏾. We just started our channel @we are N&M and hope to achieve at least half of what you have!
Really nice to see how you are such a go getter while being a mom of 3. Seeing you as an over achiever then I believe you can manage to do your prayer on time rather than combining asar and magrib. As we are not allowed to combine except when we travel. May Allah make it possible for you and you go girl for all that you do.
Omg it made me teary sis...Im really gonna miss your stories,they had been daily dose of sweetness to me.i hope whenever you come back u have achieved your goals and i also have something good to share with you
Love to u & family ❤️
Aww thank you so so much sis- love and duas x
MashaaAllah beautiful kids sister. Now your motivating me to return to work with one for full time. I've started doing my prayers too Alhamdullilah.
Of course good ol' TH-cam recommends you to me as you're leaving! 😑 Well at least I can go back and watch all your old videos! Stay strong and kudos to you for looking out for your family first! 👍🏻❤ Love from the states!
So the algorithm works just when you're Leaving TH-cam
Awwwww iA you have a productive time away! Not going to lie, really going to miss the hauls and new slimming world recipes! Will me in my prayers! Xx
Awww allahuma barik you are so hardworking! What a productive day. Your kids are absolutely beautiful too ma sha Allah!
You're very inspirational. I don't think Ii could leave my children for so long but you make it seem effortless and Masha ALLAH you're children all are happy and healthy too. All the best.
I’m gonna miss you and your videos.. wishing you all the best insha allah ❤️
Thank you so much Salma- stay in touch xx
I love this...you are so real...i noticed a huge gap between your eldest son and your other kids. But your eldest son is so helpful with managing your little ones...lovely family
Salam my sister! Oh I'm so sad...I've been following you on TH-cam for a few days, I was so glad to finally find vlogs from a working mom like me...but I totally understand your decision.
I wish you and your family the best, may God protect you 😘
Your sister from Belgium ❤
Choosing ur career is a wise decision over social media..im glad u got courage to do that however people on social media can do anything to get the views and sub..
You re a great women..
MashaAllah
I also just started my channel on youtube just because i want to do something and i cant go out for jobs leaving my kids at home ..
Wish me good luck dear
We will miss u alot sis and ur lovely kids. Wich you all best xx
Best vlog ever i watched calm and beautiful😍😍
Awwww....absolutely loved this video. Just stumbled across this for the first time. All the best in the new role. 😍😍😍😍
I wish you don't leave TH-cam. You are a strong mom
MashaAllah congratulation on the new promotion - what an accomplishment! I will really miss these videos and seeing a successful, working Muslim woman and Mother living her best life, a real inspiration to me. Take care and God Bless xx
Thank you so much sis- much love to you xx
Mashallah your kids are so cute, inshallah they will be so successful in the future
Your young ones are just adorable
You are leaving but I just found you. Glad to have found you !
Isn't it funny she got the most views on her 'last video'?Masha Allah, beautiful family. Hopefully she gets more subscribers.
Ma shaa Allah. What a mom! So inspiring. May Allah bless your family. Will really miss you and your kids. Lots of Love.
Such a huge shame you are leaving. I so wish you would reconsider but appreciate the decision you have made for your family
Your kids are so sweet . May god keep them healthy and happy for u . ❤️
At 1.32 it's so so adorable. Beautiful, affectionate children and hardworking parents.
wow, I can not deal with that much work that your dealing with. MashaAllah you are the perfect example of a good mom, worker and wife.
You made me sad. 😔
All the best. Will miss your channel. X
Thanks !!! it is just perfect to work on the topic of "Family" with my ESL pupils . Thanks again.
You seem super set on leaving social media and you will be missed so much but as long as you know that if you ever change your mind, you will be welcomed with open arms ♥️ sending you lots of luck for your future x
MashaAllah you're an inspiring woman you work really hard both inside and outside. I bet you men wont be able to do what you do daily. But the fact that your husband does a bit of the housework is a blessing. May Allah protect your family ameen❤
Hope my son is well mannered like your son.. Mashallah
You go mom, thumbs up for life to you, your family is your world. God will bless you! 👍🙏💖
Honestly this is the first video of yours I'm seeing but you have definitely inspired me so much. May God bless your journey 🥰
Much love from India phenomenally you are role model of every working women
Well that sucks cuz I just saw my very first video which happens to be ur last. Come back super fast. Loads of love and duaas
Thank you for doing this farewell vlog. Congratulations on your promotion. You sound so intelligent and must be with the job that you do. I can’t believe how much you do in the day and how much energy you have. You are a motivation to fellow Muslim women.
Going to miss you! see you soon in sha allah and all the best :)
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