ALWAYS be under the radar , ie... accumulate wealth quietly , don't drive an expensive new car, buy real estate, index funds or ETFs , NEVER allow a female or friends or family to know your net worth. NEVER brag about money or women....become wealthy the same way I did ....QUIETLY.
I stop counting after 50 in my mid 20s when I realize it’s not a competition because for some dudes it’s about bragging rights. What they not telling you is the ones they had to pay for and the ones who wouldn’t give it up a second time.
Pure facts, homie. The real players never HAVE to mention how many women they've been with. Other women talk about it amongst themselves; this info trickles out somehow and then ppl find out. Meanwhile, the women want the man--and the men hate on the man.
So, so, so, so true. Once again Rom has hit it on the head. The Real Player doesn't approach women, women approach the Real Player. When women are approaching you, of course, it's very easy to rack up a high notch count. And it's not like the player is doing anything special. He's just being himself. And women are attracted to that “self”, or aura as Rom calls it. I think there is also a “subculture” of real players and their “groupies”. The groupies immediately recognize the player and approach him, they talk briefly, and then they move to the bathroom or the back bedroom or some other location and have sex. The player and the groupie recognize each other immediately, and the sex occurs almost like a handshake. It's just something they do. So I think that is another aspect of the real player’s life -- groupies. One way that you can tell a player in a social situation is that he will be laughing and joking, and women are giggling at what he says, but their boyfriends or husbands are not smiling. That's the time to head for the exit. I think that Pickup Artists can rack up a high Notch count, but women are not approaching them, they are approaching women . Perhaps their aura is not strong enough to attract women, but their techniques can cause women to give them their phone number, date them and sleep with them. So, hooray for pickup artistry. But one thing that confused me about Pua articles was they never talked about “the look”. And that's how you can tell that you're talking to someone that has at least some aura about them. They will talk about “the look”. That's the look that women give them across a room that tells them that the woman is interested in them. In fact that's the primary thing I think that a true player relies upon. He either simply waits for a woman to approach him, or he will look around the room and wait for “the look” from one or a few women, and then approach them. The real players do not approach women. Women approach them. The real Pick Up Artists approach women, and sleep with them. So, kudos to the pickup artists. But they're not the real players. In my opinion Rom does not teach pick up. Rom teaches aura.
Yes, my education about the underworld began as a freshman in college. I was sitting at a table in the cafeteria with some upperclassmen, when a good-looking guy came up, set down and apologized for not being able to watch the football game with them that afternoon. He said the girls called him up and ask him to come over and “play with their t*tties”, so he couldn't make it. I thought he was kidding, and I laughed and asked how many were there? He just looked at me and said three. That's when my education began. I had already learned in high school that the nice girls were actually sl*ts for the right guy, but this was definitely higher education.
Rom I gotta keep it 💯 I quit my part time job and got back in the gym. You said some shit in a past video that stuck with me, I want go into details but keep grinding, just know you reaching people.
A player goes everwhere but a badboy like myself we choose with how we sleep but don't get it twisted sex is just sex. I love to make love with a women but only with someone i really feel. Not a lot i guess.
Real game. Truth. Bang 100 you approach 200. Alot of guys claim buying and or sex groups make them players. Wrong. Good game Rom. Players have an aura. Understood
A man can't deal with that many women without some type of drama. You notice these cats who brag about being with so many women never have any crazy stories. It's like they smashed and the women just disappeared. Yeah right.
There is very few real playas, most men settle for the first women that give them sex. After High School and College a lot of things change for women and men. Most men and women discuss what they did before the age of 25.
I had tons of female friends from all backgrounds, If a man's sleeping with 100 women in 2017/2018 in a short time span most are probably single moms. The rest are mostly likely chicks who already been ran-through with high body counts....And when I hear men talking about the 100 women they had, I always think she must not have been that hot or "fine" if he couldn't wait to replace her.
For me, the definition of a Real Player, Select Man, Classic Man, Alpha Male is a man whose presence (or aura in Rom's terminology) creates deep sexual arousal in most straight women. The breadth and depth of sexual arousal in a group of straight women is the only measure of a Real Player. Various factors such as height, golden-ratio face, and others may contribute to the depth of sexual arousal among straight women, but a man’s measurements alone are not a true measure of a Real Player. The only true measure of a Real Player is the depth of sexual arousal that his presence creates in most straight women. As Rom says, it's the women who do the selecting. Therefore, the definition of a real player can only be determined by a woman's reaction to him. Sexual arousal is not the same thing as attraction. A woman may be attracted to a rich well-dressed man, but aroused by poor, poorly dressed man. Therefore, a man making himself more attractive will not necessarily make him more arousing to women. Many married women have been with men before or even during their marriage whom they find more arousing, but who are unable or unwilling to provide them with the Financial Security they need for their children. The sex that they give to their husbands is nothing like the sex that they've given to the men who have truly aroused them. Therefore, men should be careful about spending time and money making themselves more “attractive”. If they have the opportunity to make themselves more arousing, they should go in that direction. Much of Rom’s advice is directed toward making men more arousing to women. It has taken me a lifetime to come up with this definition for my own clarification. It's a definition with which I'm currently comfortable, but completely willing to change in the future.
Long long time ago I was at a bar with my then boyfriend. This guy came in with about four women and sat in a booth behind us. The man was beautiful. I mean simply stunning. I'm trying not to pay any attention but before you know it I had turned my bar stool around and was grinning at him and he's grinning back along with all the other women with him. Next thing I know my boyfriend is snatching my chair back around. I wanted to go over there so bad. It's like I was under a spell. To this day I remember tha t man's face clear as a bell. It was like he was a Warloc of love. Thank God I wasn't alone I probably would have ended up in a sex coven. I swear it was something about that man, you inhaled him.
Real talk fam! Truth for real! See that's exactly why I still put you at the top when it comes to men doing videos on women, relationships and sexuality. Even if guys have more subscribers than you, you're still the grandmaster in my book! It's not always about the amount of subscribers you have, it's about the impact you truly have on your followers. Like you've said, you'll have guys that can make good content that sounds good and be on point and real but these can do quite a bit of embellishing! So that's why their number of subscribers will surpass yours but I always respect 100% pure real content! I believe I know the person you're talking about online that's doing videos who talks about being a real alpha and how to deal with women and sleep with multiple of them. The good thing is that you didn't mention his name which I know how you get down and I don't expect that from you at all. I strongly believe that I know the person you're talking about, I'm not going to say his name either but I subscribed to this guy and I'll admit, I do like a lot of his content! My thing is this, it's truly impossible for you to sleep with multiple women on a consistent basis throughout the year and they're all bad/stars. Some of them are just probably nice looking enough to turn you on and give you an erection! Also like you've mentioned, when you're considered select and turn a lot of women on sexually, a lot of women do come on to you even though some will send choosing signals and you have to make the first move,I can personally tell you from experience. Another thing too, if you're so focus on your finances and taking care of of your business, it's impossible and hard for me to believe that your dealing with multiple women when your time is very limited especially when you only have weekends available. You can't work all of those hours during the week, be able to juggle all of those women and make videos on a consistent basis, no way in the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know the person you're talking about and this isn't about him. Someone had come in my comments on an older video talking about how many women they slept and the comment inspired me to do this video. I'm just saying how I know who the real players are.
Yo Rom, I swear my workplace is training ground for game. There is this sista who I thought for months didn't like me is now talking to me. She must've been scoping me cause I overheard her talking bout her break up sometime ago. Best I can describe her is a "Queen" personality. She's very outspoken and can be bossy. Very pretty tho. Her features are like Janelle Monae. She can be professional model if she wanted. She has me on lockdown at the lunch breaks. LOL! I guess I am becoming a playa.
Chris T. Farr Nah, I am not over excited. Just telling my progression in the game to Rom and you guys. I am a novice, but when I get advanced, there'll be no bragging from me.
Man Unc, I dunno what it is I'm 35. Just this week a 18yo gave me her number. We were talking and she straight up told me she thought I was a playa. That it was "my vibe." Now I'm not complaining but I can't help but wonder if she thinks I'm a playa, why even give me her number to begin with? She's not wrong lol. But damn
Less but quality feminine women everyday; when you have this cred the rest keep coming at you. But it gets to a point you would rather stay indoors and read a book than hookup with a new chic - you become choosy about protecting your energy.
ALWAYS be under the radar , ie... accumulate wealth quietly , don't drive an expensive new car, buy real estate, index funds or ETFs , NEVER allow a female or friends or family to know your net worth. NEVER brag about money or women....become wealthy the same way I did ....QUIETLY.
That's how you do it.
philosopher king what type of properties you typically deal with?
Real men move in silence
@ 2:30 real talk. That is so true. Its the same concept as killers move in silence. One of my uncles always use to say "A king can't crown himself".
Real players are just like killers in a way.
True Players never kiss a& tell
Truth.
I stop counting after 50 in my mid 20s when I realize it’s not a competition because for some dudes it’s about bragging rights. What they not telling you is the ones they had to pay for and the ones who wouldn’t give it up a second time.
There's always more to it. I stopped counting for the same reason. I wasn't getting paid for it.
Pure facts, homie.
The real players never HAVE to mention how many women they've been with. Other women talk about it amongst themselves; this info trickles out somehow and then ppl find out. Meanwhile, the women want the man--and the men hate on the man.
Truth.
Just lay back and be yourself it ain't all about being in these chicks faces let em wonder about you. Peace family another good one.
That's the most game. Be a mystery to women.
So, so, so, so true. Once again Rom has hit it on the head. The Real Player doesn't approach women, women approach the Real Player. When women are approaching you, of course, it's very easy to rack up a high notch count. And it's not like the player is doing anything special. He's just being himself. And women are attracted to that “self”, or aura as Rom calls it.
I think there is also a “subculture” of real players and their “groupies”. The groupies immediately recognize the player and approach him, they talk briefly, and then they move to the bathroom or the back bedroom or some other location and have sex. The player and the groupie recognize each other immediately, and the sex occurs almost like a handshake. It's just something they do. So I think that is another aspect of the real player’s life -- groupies.
One way that you can tell a player in a social situation is that he will be laughing and joking, and women are giggling at what he says, but their boyfriends or husbands are not smiling. That's the time to head for the exit.
I think that Pickup Artists can rack up a high Notch count, but women are not approaching them, they are approaching women . Perhaps their aura is not strong enough to attract women, but their techniques can cause women to give them their phone number, date them and sleep with them. So, hooray for pickup artistry.
But one thing that confused me about Pua articles was they never talked about “the look”. And that's how you can tell that you're talking to someone that has at least some aura about them. They will talk about “the look”. That's the look that women give them across a room that tells them that the woman is interested in them. In fact that's the primary thing I think that a true player relies upon. He either simply waits for a woman to approach him, or he will look around the room and wait for “the look” from one or a few women, and then approach them.
The real players do not approach women. Women approach them. The real Pick Up Artists approach women, and sleep with them. So, kudos to the pickup artists. But they're not the real players.
In my opinion Rom does not teach pick up. Rom teaches aura.
I've told people about that sexual underworld. Women control the entry and quite frankly most men won't make it in.
Yes, my education about the underworld began as a freshman in college. I was sitting at a table in the cafeteria with some upperclassmen, when a good-looking guy came up, set down and apologized for not being able to watch the football game with them that afternoon. He said the girls called him up and ask him to come over and “play with their t*tties”, so he couldn't make it. I thought he was kidding, and I laughed and asked how many were there? He just looked at me and said three. That's when my education began. I had already learned in high school that the nice girls were actually sl*ts for the right guy, but this was definitely higher education.
Rom I gotta keep it 💯 I quit my part time job and got back in the gym. You said some shit in a past video that stuck with me, I want go into details but keep grinding, just know you reaching people.
SupremeVision I’m actually thinking about doing the same thing lol
Chris Hansen if you think to much you’ll talk yourself out of it, I just saw what was best for me and went with it
Glad to hear it fam.
SupremeVision Facts
You can be a player and be humble about it. I call it the "silent players".
Truth.
The secret is to FALL BACK / BE COOL/DONT CHASE ,am i right Rom?
Truth.
A player goes everwhere but a badboy like myself we choose with how we sleep but don't get it twisted sex is just sex. I love to make love with a women but only with someone i really feel. Not a lot i guess.
Sniper 11 N.D. U can’t call ur self “bad boy” tf
Real game. Truth. Bang 100 you approach 200. Alot of guys claim buying and or sex groups make them players. Wrong. Good game Rom. Players have an aura. Understood
People inflate their numbers but then when a woman is right in front of them them don't have any convo for her.
Truthfully getting burnt, pregnancy scares, busted women bodies, stalkers will slow down that body count create selectiveness and silence
A man can't deal with that many women without some type of drama. You notice these cats who brag about being with so many women never have any crazy stories. It's like they smashed and the women just disappeared. Yeah right.
There is very few real playas, most men settle for the first women that give them sex. After High School and College a lot of things change for women and men. Most men and women discuss what they did before the age of 25.
I had tons of female friends from all backgrounds, If a man's sleeping with 100 women in 2017/2018 in a short time span most are probably single moms. The rest are mostly likely chicks who already been ran-through with high body counts....And when I hear men talking about the 100 women they had, I always think she must not have been that hot or "fine" if he couldn't wait to replace her.
Oh snap! I love when women give some game. If a woman fine a dude ain't trying to move on to the next right away.
A real player never brags about the women he been with most of the time he's in denial.
Real players going through that back door and taping somebody's wife or girlfriend. The game is ruthless and lawless.
Rom Wills when you right you right
For me, the definition of a Real Player, Select Man, Classic Man, Alpha Male is a man whose presence (or aura in Rom's terminology) creates deep sexual arousal in most straight women. The breadth and depth of sexual arousal in a group of straight women is the only measure of a Real Player. Various factors such as height, golden-ratio face, and others may contribute to the depth of sexual arousal among straight women, but a man’s measurements alone are not a true measure of a Real Player. The only true measure of a Real Player is the depth of sexual arousal that his presence creates in most straight women. As Rom says, it's the women who do the selecting. Therefore, the definition of a real player can only be determined by a woman's reaction to him.
Sexual arousal is not the same thing as attraction. A woman may be attracted to a rich well-dressed man, but aroused by poor, poorly dressed man. Therefore, a man making himself more attractive will not necessarily make him more arousing to women.
Many married women have been with men before or even during their marriage whom they find more arousing, but who are unable or unwilling to provide them with the Financial Security they need for their children. The sex that they give to their husbands is nothing like the sex that they've given to the men who have truly aroused them.
Therefore, men should be careful about spending time and money making themselves more “attractive”. If they have the opportunity to make themselves more arousing, they should go in that direction. Much of Rom’s advice is directed toward making men more arousing to women.
It has taken me a lifetime to come up with this definition for my own clarification. It's a definition with which I'm currently comfortable, but completely willing to change in the future.
Very good points. I have heard women call a man attractive which means he looks good but is turned on by another man because he makes them feel good.
The True Players choose Quality over Quantity 800 Women is just a hard Life.
Exactly.
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They increase their sexual aura by doing self improvement in their appearance and body am I right ?
Also getting their mind right.
I totally agree with you
Thank you.
Long long time ago I was at a bar with my then boyfriend. This guy came in with about four women and sat in a booth behind us. The man was beautiful. I mean simply stunning. I'm trying not to pay any attention but before you know it I had turned my bar stool around and was grinning at him and he's grinning back along with all the other women with him. Next thing I know my boyfriend is snatching my chair back around. I wanted to go over there so bad. It's like I was under a spell. To this day I remember tha t man's face clear as a bell. It was like he was a Warloc of love. Thank God I wasn't alone I probably would have ended up in a sex coven. I swear it was something about that man, you inhaled him.
Yeah it's like that.
Real talk fam! Truth for real! See that's exactly why I still put you at the top when it comes to men doing videos on women, relationships and sexuality. Even if guys have more subscribers than you, you're still the grandmaster in my book! It's not always about the amount of subscribers you have, it's about the impact you truly have on your followers. Like you've said, you'll have guys that can make good content that sounds good and be on point and real but these can do quite a bit of embellishing! So that's why their number of subscribers will surpass yours but I always respect 100% pure real content! I believe I know the person you're talking about online that's doing videos who talks about being a real alpha and how to deal with women and sleep with multiple of them. The good thing is that you didn't mention his name which I know how you get down and I don't expect that from you at all. I strongly believe that I know the person you're talking about, I'm not going to say his name either but I subscribed to this guy and I'll admit, I do like a lot of his content! My thing is this, it's truly impossible for you to sleep with multiple women on a consistent basis throughout the year and they're all bad/stars. Some of them are just probably nice looking enough to turn you on and give you an erection! Also like you've mentioned, when you're considered select and turn a lot of women on sexually, a lot of women do come on to you even though some will send choosing signals and you have to make the first move,I can personally tell you from experience. Another thing too, if you're so focus on your finances and taking care of of your business, it's impossible and hard for me to believe that your dealing with multiple women when your time is very limited especially when you only have weekends available. You can't work all of those hours during the week, be able to juggle all of those women and make videos on a consistent basis, no way in the hell!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
I know the person you're talking about and this isn't about him. Someone had come in my comments on an older video talking about how many women they slept and the comment inspired me to do this video. I'm just saying how I know who the real players are.
Salaam brother Rom. Is that a Kufi?I might start rocking one again.I had custom made jawns back in the day.
Naw it's just one of those sports beanies.
I never paid for no sex!
They probably paying you. I refuse to pay for sex myself.
As much as I say I am solidly in the Non-Select category I have to admit I have had a few women make the moves on me.
That's all a man needs because you know they feel you.
My issue is it don't be the ones I want 😅
I know a woman who told me she slept with over 800 men. She told me this in 2009
thats fuckin nasty.....blown out roast beef sandwich
Now with a woman always add to her count. They under count.
Yo Rom, I swear my workplace is training ground for game.
There is this sista who I thought for months didn't like me is now talking to me. She must've been scoping me cause I overheard her talking bout her break up sometime ago.
Best I can describe her is a "Queen" personality. She's very outspoken and can be bossy. Very pretty tho. Her features are like Janelle Monae. She can be professional model if she wanted. She has me on lockdown at the lunch breaks. LOL! I guess I am becoming a playa.
You might be. Watch women who all of sudden get friendly.
Rom Wills Oh yeah, I am gonna play it cool. Especially after what happened with the "Angela Simmons" looking chick who is gone now.
Andrew Johnson Yea my nigga, u sounding real “happy” right now lol calm down.....see wassup wit it first
Chris T. Farr Nah, I am not over excited. Just telling my progression in the game to Rom and you guys. I am a novice, but when I get advanced, there'll be no bragging from me.
Andrew Johnson There you go!!! Do ya thang brah....Slowly but surely.
What about the friend who begs to sleep with a woman after they know you got the number?
That's trifling.
Like the character Greer? , from “ She’s gotta have it “?
Though the Greer's persona was distasteful to me he was on some player ish.
Facts. Pregnancy scares and actual pregnancies. And a numerous "softballs" along the way.
Man Unc, I dunno what it is
I'm 35. Just this week a 18yo gave me her number. We were talking and she straight up told me she thought I was a playa. That it was "my vibe."
Now I'm not complaining but I can't help but wonder if she thinks I'm a playa, why even give me her number to begin with?
She's not wrong lol. But damn
Less but quality feminine women everyday; when you have this cred the rest keep coming at you. But it gets to a point you would rather stay indoors and read a book than hookup with a new chic - you become choosy about protecting your energy.
uncle Rom a good guy
Thank you.
Stay stealth with body counts
Hey Uncle i don't know if someone told you this but you got a dope delievery i like it alot
Thanks fam.
That makes sense Uncle Rom!
You could put me in the Sahara Desert
Players have women chasing them
...good lookin' out.
Thank you.
Real shit
Just read Nice Guys and Players.
Powerful.
I say it's going down in history... a la "The Joy of Sex"...
What say you Rom Wills? Lol
It's been my best-seller for 18 years now.
Rom, random question, do you think women have became very masculine these days?
Yeah. Look up my videos on the "Amazon Woman."
Rom Wills okay I will. Do you have a group stuff or mail questions deemed private can be asked on?
Leo men
LOL!
Today you Rom "the bullshit breaker" Wills 😂😂😂. Exposing the game one day at a time - this should be on a t-shirt
That would be a great T-Shirt.
First!!! Who’s quicker than me 😉😉😉
LOL!
Im quicker, but i give you this one!
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great video
Thank you.
ugly or paid for...
I've know cats who counted feeling up a woman as sex.
@@RomWills 🤔😆🤣
3rd-_-
Yep.