My 7 years of childhood sexual abuse story

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  • Every victim and survivor has a different story, this one is mine. No names are dropped in the making of this video. Please be considerate in the comment section as I am still going through the road to recovery. I am sharing my story to help survivors, victims and people who want to help a friend or family going through a similar experience. This video shares life during and after childhood sexual abuse. Life circumstances can go south or north. Please remember that there is help out there and to surround yourself with positive people who lift you up, not break you down. It takes time to recover. Patience is the key. Your life is valuable and you're put on this Earth for a special reason. Explore options and seek help for someone you may know that suffers from anxiety, depression and/or PTSD. Please don't give up on them or yourself. Treat people with kindness.
    All the love, Shomal

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  • @brianclark3054
    @brianclark3054 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Even after watching probably dozens of these horrific stories in an attempt to heal from my own abuse, listening to these accounts is still extremely disturbing and shocking. We must accept that these evil people walk among us, and to be vigilante to protect ourselves and those we love.

  • @annastandard1257
    @annastandard1257 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    You are so brave to tell your story. I am a survivor as well. I am here to say that I believe you fully. You are a beautiful person who deserves to be happy and treated well. I have told my story to only a few people. Nobody in my family knows. I truly admire how brave you are to speak out. You have given me hope. Thank you

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Thank you so much for your kind words 💗 Speaking out about my traumatic years is my first major step to a long recovery. Inspiring people along the way to build their hope and to seek justice warms my heart. I'm always here for every victim and survivor, so if you ever need a talk or advice I'm here for you.

    • @annastandard1257
      @annastandard1257 2 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Marco Capello somewhere between 6 and 9. The timeline is a bit foggy because I didn’t tell anyone for a while and it happened multiple times sometime around those years

    • @annastandard1257
      @annastandard1257 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Marco Capello yes I do. He’s the man of my dreams and we are extremely happy together

  • @Sheniquaaaa
    @Sheniquaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Oh my😭😭
    You're so strong to talk about this..💔
    I'm literally 10 minutes into this video and i don't think i could continue it literally hurting my heart like this is heartbreaking...
    I hope you're okay now and doing better i hope you live a happy life and i hope you get everything you wish for because god knows you deserve to live a happy life💚
    You didn't deserve any of those thing that happened to you and it hurts because that's so unfair💔💔
    But i just wanna say you're truly beautiful and i hope you continue to stay strong...💚
    (I'm a girl, please don't feel any weird way..)

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Thank you for watching it through and listening to my story. I appreciate your kind words and support 💜🦋

  • @Sheniquaaaa
    @Sheniquaaaa 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    21:00 thank god I'm relieved😩😩
    Thank god you found somebody
    God bless you💚

  • @toshapatterson4909
    @toshapatterson4909 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Awww I'm so sorry sweetie 🥺😞☹️😭

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  3 ปีที่แล้ว

      No worries, I've been trying to heal the best I can 💜

  • @lizalov
    @lizalov ปีที่แล้ว +1

    WOW, Thank you for sharing your story, you literally brought tears out of me. I Just want to let you know that you are so beautiful inside and out .
    God bless you

  • @passaggioalivello
    @passaggioalivello 2 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you, really, thank you. This video is helping me.

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I’m glad I can help by sharing my story.

  • @lorizuniga8718
    @lorizuniga8718 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Stay strong. You are so brave and beautiful.

  • @gachagirl9465
    @gachagirl9465 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi, The book is also available on Amazon. All the best.

  • @SharmaAaron
    @SharmaAaron 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Your video came to my attention and I just want you to know how amazing you are. From one survivor to the next If you ever need any advice, please reach out and I will do everything in my power to assist you. You take care and just know you are not alone. All the power to you. You are the finest example of resiliency, bravery and courage and you are helping give voice to countless people who haven't found it within themselves to speak their truth. Stay blessed!🙏

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  4 ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi Aaron, thank you for reaching out. I appreciate your support and kind words 💜🦋 it's a long road to recovery. I hope to inspire victims and survivors to stay strong and seek help. Breaking my silence was a big decision and I'm coping with different responses. Unfortunately some of my relatives chose to make my story into a joke and trying to put me to shame. In the end, I will be alright with the support system I'm surrounded by ✨

  • @petewithacat
    @petewithacat 23 วันที่ผ่านมา

    you are so brave

  • @jamesdarnell1944
    @jamesdarnell1944 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for sharing

  • @marksmanpope5376
    @marksmanpope5376 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wow girl God is good

  • @katanne7382
    @katanne7382 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Get rid of the sound track.

  • @stephenfiore9960
    @stephenfiore9960 ปีที่แล้ว

    Sorry. May God Bless you through the Lord Jesus Christ

  • @darleneriffle2151
    @darleneriffle2151 ปีที่แล้ว

    That is terrible what he done to you when you was little wasn't your fault somebody should have done something

  • @nnl2652
    @nnl2652 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Omg are you talking about dipesh your uncle/mama. And your step dad omg so sad

  • @Carl-mc9he
    @Carl-mc9he 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    S0 sorry younlady

  • @nathanielpeeples1950
    @nathanielpeeples1950 ปีที่แล้ว

    Hi

  • @WSLineberger
    @WSLineberger 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    You are incredibly brave and stronger than you even know. It's a powerful video and I know it has helped many people. I believe you are beautiful inside and out. Don't let anyone convince you otherwise.

  • @riddles4237
    @riddles4237 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    You have a crazy look in your eyes… I hope you’re doing better these days ❤️

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  ปีที่แล้ว

      Hi! Yeah those are grey contacts. I was crying a lot during that week and before filming this video so I looked dead with puffy eyes. I put coloured contacts in to look more alive but I see now they look strange.

    • @riddles4237
      @riddles4237 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Shomalchand Oh I see what you mean. Well I hope you continue staying strong ❤️ I used to think I was the only one going through that while I was growing up. I had one uncle who used to do the same thing to me when I was 6 years old. My mom worked a lot and he would take care of my while she was at work. It started when I would take a shower and when I got out and went to my room is when he would touch me down there and after a while of that happening one day he put his tongue on my vagina and it went on for years and years. I never knew how handle that situation but he would always tell me it’s how he shows love. I was very confused during that time because my mind didn’t know if this was right or wrong. It just felt weird for me having to go through that on a regular basis and not knowing if this was supposed to be happening or not

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  ปีที่แล้ว

      @@riddles4237 I’m sorry that happened to you. There’s a special place in hell for your uncle just like there is for my uncle and former step dad. They will suffer tremendously on judgement day. And they will receive their karma along the way in this life.
      It’s unfortunate for us to experience this type of trauma at such a young age because most of the time we don’t know what’s going on and then later in life we realize we’re being victimized.
      I pray for your strength and wish you better years ahead. I hope you have built a support system now. You deserve a life of happiness, prosperity and beautiful adventures.

  • @sarap1266
    @sarap1266 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    ugh, the same thing happened to me 😣🌸

    • @Shomalchand
      @Shomalchand  3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I'm sorry you had to go through this as well in your past 💔 Cruel people out there. I hope you have a support system of people you can talk to and that are there for you. Reach out to me anytime in my dm's if you ever need a chat💜 know that you are strong!

    • @sarap1266
      @sarap1266 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Shomalchand ty so much. it feels so good when i hear stories of other women who were molested & trained at a very young age. ty for ur support! ✨🌺💗🕊️🌈