Big facts. I had my family members disrespect me where it even led to a physical fight where I had to hurt my own nephew. It’s to the point now where I don’t even speak to them. Now they looking crazy because I’m doing me and they gossip behind my back. It’s all well and good because nobody has the guts to speak to me face to face. It hurts because it’s your family. But it hurts a lot worse trying to make others happy who don’t give a shit about you. Be at peace and leave! ✌🏾
I just had to pop my baby sister in her mouth yesterday. We only 3-4 years apart however she still my younger sister she wonders why we dont respect each other is because shes never willing to concede her attitude and have proper respect for elders. My mother grew too old for her and now her mouths a riot. So I popped her in the mouth and our two elder brothers rushed me to beat me down as if I beat the living heck out of her. Idc whether its my mother, auntie, elder sister, younger sister, grandma, etc. I don’t respond kindly to being talked to like that. My father wasnt in my life a lot but there are some things I picked up from him despite his egregious behavior to my mothers side of the family #1 is you don’t let women speak ill in front of you. Let her blast you when you out of the vicinity and you don’t hear such utter filth. If she doesn’t listen the first time, get up and leave. My dad was too far in to “just leave” so he had no other way to garner respect from my mother so he got physical. The most I’ll do is use 5 fingers and a palm to swipe that nasty mouth off your face but I WILL NEVER ball my fists. It aint right but being spoken to like that is akin to pissing on a man’s leg.
Big Facts! I got married. My wife said some wild shit to me on the second week. I was divorced by the third week. I left immediately. Want to know the warning sign I missed? Before we got married we went out to dinner, and her mother disrespected her step father. Where there is smoke, there is fire.
Disrespect is almost always intentional - if it is truly on accident, most people feel a sense of guilt and/or embarrassment & sincerely apologize as quickly as possible.
I know a guy like that. He lives a sad life so I see how its the only thing he has left😂 I don't feel bad for him because he's such a karmic person. He always treated everyone around him like shit when I was a kid and in return he got a shit life.
Main reason women like older men is that maturity thing. Lot of men after 30 don't deal with disrespect. They'll just walk away. You gotta be always learning always expanding. I know men who make less money than their wives, have been happily married for multiple years. And their wives respect them Main thing is these men never got complacent spiritually, physically and mentally. Lot of men think they can just rest on their laurels. Theyre bringing in a paycheck so they deserve respect. The 3 selfs-elf esteem, self love, and self respect.
Once her respect for you is truly gone, the only way to get her respect back is to leave. Easier said than done-especially if she's gorgeous-but if you stay, you'll eventually lose all respect for yourself. That's a terrible feeling. No woman is worth that, no matter how good she looks.
Absolute facts. My last ex before agreeing to be in a relationship with her I specifically told her "no guy friends", she agreed to the condition. After 6 months she gave her number to a guy at the gym right in front of me claiming "he seemed so nice with no bad intentions", I told her she was out of line and ignored her for 3 days after that. She pleaded, cried, kept apologizing so I gave her another chance. Couple months go by and I find out she went out to lunch with a male co worker outside of work, that was the final straw for me. She was a dime man in looks and the bedroom but I refuse to be disrespected, I walked away from that relationship. I know I made the right choice because she actually never put up a fight in keeping me when I walked, she instead blocked me and went right back on dating apps immediately.
You did the right thing… a lot times when women are disrespectful, it’s usually in a passive way such as you described. Then, they’ll try to convince you that they wasn’t disrespectful even though they knew they were.. If she’s a dime like you say, then she’s going to be choosing until she’s way past her prime.. Dudes are a dime a dozen to them…females like her are the kind you just vibe with & never take serious. You have to have an abundance mind set with them cause they definitely have it with you…
@@Escobardiablo She had way too many options to settle for me, I think she used me for a relationship so she didn't feel like a 304 but deep down wanted to sleep around. I was her best option at the time cause I never simped for her which she really liked, but eventually got bored. When I first met her she was using several men for different things while I was the one smashing. Who knows bro but I caught on to her game and I was the one who walked, she's some beta male's problem now
@@Michael-z1u She blocked me on socials it's not hard to notice since I didn't remove her. I only knew because I got curious and looked and that's when I noticed, who wouldn't get curious? I never once tried contacting her, if anything seeing that I was blocked confirmed my suspicions that she wasn't genuine
I've let a lot of shit slide with these women when I was younger, letting them talk to me any ol kind of way. I also used to argue with them. But those days are long gone. Once she out of pocket and disrespectful, that's it. No second chances.
@@mcfrisko834 she has to know & feel your strength. Not physical but If she does something, she has to know there’s a consequence. If she doesn’t, her respect is gone and attraction always follow right behind it.
@@kvon_rashad I see what you mean brother. My question really is about the last part tho. In my experience a woman’s lust is often increased by her respect for you. I’m probably misreading it but are you saying that she can only lust or love you because she does not have respect for you?
I agree 💯, the moment I notice disrespect from a woman it's a instant turn off. Disrespect is a perfect recipe for her to be dismissed, no matter what she looks like or who she is. If you have to tell a woman something more than once, thats a sign of her not showing respect. If a woman is not behaving how shes supposed to, she definitely has to go.
This is a fact for any young men out there thinking about getting married. If she does it ONCE consider the degree of the disrespect as a serious warning flag. If you want, you can observe, and give her one more try but do not communicate to her that you are observing for another incident. If it happens again regardless of the degree of the disrespect end the relationship IMMEDIATELY and do not communicate the reason why. JUST END IT
Also sometimes you can have a woman that respects you but. Some people around her might disrespect you. You have to see how that woman reacts to someone disrespecting you
100% agree that a woman should NEVER disrespect you but the right woman would never do that. If she does then…she’s not the right woman and she has to go. That should never be tolerated. PERIOD!
This is facts, I went on a brunch date with this girl and we ended up getting into a pretty heated argument. She started to get very disrespectful and I just walked away. She had tried texting and calling but I refused to respond. That was the only time I’ve “ghosted” someone. Don’t ever allow someone to disrespect you.
You are 100 percent correct. I tried telling a guy this: Once a woman disrespects you, and you stay with her, she is going to continue to disrespect you. It doesn't matter how much she begs for your forgiveness and to not leave. A woman will boo-hoo and grin inside when she knows that he has fallen for the manipulation. So, once a woman disrespects a man, he might as well end the relationship because he will NEVER regain her respect by staying in the relationship. You're only showing her that she can make a fool of you.
My father said to me ..(you have to talk plain to a fool) ...my words to my own sons are (when people tell you who they are ...believe them) ...when we catch up ( talk ) they say thank you Dad ..you were right. ..as I thanked my Dad . ...younger men keep benefitting from OG's calming wisdom ..like Rom !
You were right it reveals the woman’s character in the end, no matter what happens, but the truth always comes out. What kind of person you were dating is. Was.
The hardest part about walking away is for me is confronting my own fears and attachments, but it is very empowering when we do it for the right reasons IMHO. I need to continue to get better at this, not just with respect to women. Some times when we say no to others, we say yes to ourselves!
A man attachment should also be to GOD not woman love that woman and treat her nice and protect her. But never get too attached to humans or material things
Best advice ever! Walk away at least, and they might never tell you, but deep down inside, they will respect you, and your integrity will be intact. Rom, keep it up. You're back in the saddle God bless
There is a difference between a woman liking you and a woman respecting you. -Alan Roger Currie. Hearing those words for the first was mind blowing to me.
one of the positive things about having a rotation is typically these women treat you with respect. so when looking for a relationship, you can always use these women, or that one fwb as a guideline to say, if these women treat me with respect and we’re just fwb, why in the HELL would i put up with a woman who wants so much more out of me and talks to me sideways? bump that i’ll just keep having fun with these ladies while they buy me wingstop and we watch netflix; not worth the drama nor stress.
@@CharlesBukowski-m1o all she needs to know is that she isn’t the only one. if putting them in her face makes her act right, she ain’t right for you. she’d create a stressful triangulation situation and you will lose both. cut the toxic female out, keep the good one.
People disrespect you. Its a part of life. Look at them with pity. Theyl get whats coming. Sometimes it will take a long time and you may never see it yourself. But everyone has a date with the most high.
I'm glad you mentioned that walk infront of the man, Unc. I always pay attention to that. I will even slow my pace to see where the woman is gonna walk. And I'm talking all the women I deal with, work, church etc.
Dating is one thing…It’s different if you take a vow…once you’re married, it’s a contract …you have to be the man and the man is the stronger vessel according to thousands of years of wisdom of the past and of course scripture. Can’t let anyone …even her get you down. Disrespect is a weakness. A real man will endure precisely because he loves himself , who he is, and is strong and knows he can rise above not run away. Integrity is the key. If you’re married give her space to be weak…if you’re dating …then get the heck out like he says here, however you must know that nobody is perfect and we all are pretty stupid most of the time so lighten up and be forgiving. Ego is a con! Ego will lead you to ruin. We are all just minor creatures in the spectrum of time so don’t take yourself or others so seriously! But if a spouse cheats…you can leave with a clean conscience that is biblical. Thanks for the vid
The woman is still to *RESPECT* her husband. That is a Biblical command to wives. --> Ephesians 5:33 ~ *_"...the wife MUST RESPECT her husband."_* -- So stop making allowances and excuses for wives to disrespect their husbands, and falsely implying that a husband is not a "real man" unless he accepts the wife's disrespect. - Your comment is simply part of the problem.
@@VAIO294 you misunderstand…a man has to be strong and see that disrespect by her is simply weakness…unless of course the man is a sloth a scumbag or a tyrant in which case he is not worthy of respect and deserves such a treatment…otherwise she needs forgiveness and help to see her folly…a man does not have to accept any persons actions but rather always strive to improve while looking to be positive and a leader by example and to endure but not accept…Check out the story of Job if your into the Bible. He shows us how to endure…Disrespect comes from the weak minded so just smile and endure with a heart of strength and joy…let the fools be fools. Show me a man with a big ego and I show you a fool ! Letting a woman’s disrespect ruffle his precious little feathers 😂 weak sauce…weak man he
This is decent advice, but I've found that the other half of the puzzle is to look inward and reflect on why she's disrespecting you. Otherwise you carry the same problems into your next relationship and the same thing is going to happen.
my step mom badmouthed by dads best friend in front of everyone. she thinks its ok to buy a new car after not working for years. imo shes worn out her usefulness.
2:00 "When a woman walks in front of a man, she disrespects him!" To make things worse, she tried speeding up ahead ahead of me. I made the mistake of sporadically date her 6 months afterwards. Listen to this dude... He is completely right on this one!
One thing I noticed from studying alot of these professional pimps on the podcast circuit, where they have rountable discussions with women etc - They ALWAYS be checking even the slightest nasty attitude. They are brilliant at putting bad behavior in check. Very eye opening.
True. Some women try to see what they can get away with or when you'll draw the line. Also I think some women are use to treating men how they want unless he says otherwise. But then theres about 50 other men who will let her boss him around, answer her beck and call. When i notice the woman walking ahead of the guy i say damn. Especially when they have kids and he's just moving along with them following her. Smh. The littlest thing you can peep. Subtle ways of disrespect. Walking away or not giving attention to them is powerful. It shows you value yourself and wont accept disrespect. Even the littlest thing.
Respect is everything period some men will make every excuse about women and respect the main one she give bro or that’s just what women do no no no a man should never put up with disrespect
Rom is right as a shorter stature man i just drew the line lol You can be the smartest coolest dude and most charismatic person in the room and you could be conventionally handsome but they just devalue based of first glance im weary of approaching taller women they just look beneath you literally and figuratively and then they realize you are more masculine and determined then most men then they will try to give you a shot out of intriguie but i dont really entertain that but there has been women taller than me who have fawned over me so it isnt 100%
@@datguy9408 yeah hopefully it works out dont let them use your height or gaslight you with the inferior complex they made up in their heads that we have because we see through their vain bullshit lol
This is one topic that I realized to be true without hearing from other's testimony. Unfortunately....I learned this the hard way. There is NO exception,or in between regarding the "respect " dynamic. Once disrespect is apparent, it's over.
Absolutely unc but again alot of guys that go through hell with women live with them. In many states you can't just kick them out of your house especially if they have mail in their names coming to the house. If they have bills in their name you may have to literally evict them from your home. I went through this and the police will try to throw you out of your own home. These women can be vicious and if they use those crocodile tears the law can be on their side. Alot of married men or men with children have it the hardest because of the child support system and divorce court. But if it's just a relationship than you are absolutely right don't deal with those women. But at the same time alot of women don't show their true colors until it's too late.
Never be disrespected by nobody, including your family word hurts you have the power to walk away you don’t have to put up with that.
True
Cosign, some people don’t seem to understand the power of words and the damage harsh words can do to people, so always guard your mouth and words.
Big facts. I had my family members disrespect me where it even led to a physical fight where I had to hurt my own nephew. It’s to the point now where I don’t even speak to them. Now they looking crazy because I’m doing me and they gossip behind my back. It’s all well and good because nobody has the guts to speak to me face to face. It hurts because it’s your family. But it hurts a lot worse trying to make others happy who don’t give a shit about you. Be at peace and leave! ✌🏾
I just had to pop my baby sister in her mouth yesterday. We only 3-4 years apart however she still my younger sister she wonders why we dont respect each other is because shes never willing to concede her attitude and have proper respect for elders. My mother grew too old for her and now her mouths a riot. So I popped her in the mouth and our two elder brothers rushed me to beat me down as if I beat the living heck out of her. Idc whether its my mother, auntie, elder sister, younger sister, grandma, etc. I don’t respond kindly to being talked to like that. My father wasnt in my life a lot but there are some things I picked up from him despite his egregious behavior to my mothers side of the family #1 is you don’t let women speak ill in front of you. Let her blast you when you out of the vicinity and you don’t hear such utter filth. If she doesn’t listen the first time, get up and leave. My dad was too far in to “just leave” so he had no other way to garner respect from my mother so he got physical. The most I’ll do is use 5 fingers and a palm to swipe that nasty mouth off your face but I WILL NEVER ball my fists. It aint right but being spoken to like that is akin to pissing on a man’s leg.
Ex-family is thrown in the trash. Family is nothing but another F word to me...JESUS is my family nowadays!!
Big Facts! I got married. My wife said some wild shit to me on the second week. I was divorced by the third week. I left immediately. Want to know the warning sign I missed? Before we got married we went out to dinner, and her mother disrespected her step father. Where there is smoke, there is fire.
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Disrespect is almost always intentional - if it is truly on accident, most people feel a sense of guilt and/or embarrassment & sincerely apologize as quickly as possible.
Wow. So true. Never thought about it like that but that’s spot on. Everything is a power play and Everybody is playing games at all times. Fucking sad
The thing about disrespect is that it can be subtle- but the more you tolerate that subtle shit, the more it escalates-
The craziest thing is when a man takes a woman back after she's slept with another guy. I literally couldn't even imagine doing that personally
They are to be passed around
I know a guy like that. He lives a sad life so I see how its the only thing he has left😂 I don't feel bad for him because he's such a karmic person. He always treated everyone around him like shit when I was a kid and in return he got a shit life.
Main reason women like older men is that maturity thing. Lot of men after 30 don't deal with disrespect. They'll just walk away. You gotta be always learning always expanding. I know men who make less money than their wives, have been happily married for multiple years. And their wives respect them
Main thing is these men never got complacent spiritually, physically and mentally. Lot of men think they can just rest on their laurels. Theyre bringing in a paycheck so they deserve respect.
The 3 selfs-elf esteem, self love, and self respect.
Wow powerful informative comment thank you
amazing!!!
Pretty much nailed it
The moment a woman disrespect me, you won't hear from me especially if we both don't reside together. Just block that succubus and move on.
Once she raised her voice against you its over, don't loose your time, leave!
Once her respect for you is truly gone, the only way to get her respect back is to leave. Easier said than done-especially if she's gorgeous-but if you stay, you'll eventually lose all respect for yourself. That's a terrible feeling. No woman is worth that, no matter how good she looks.
I don't care how good no woman looks. Because I can always replace them. And the women in my life know that. So they treat me fine.
Gorgeous; I’ve seen crap in a Gucci bag 😂
Rule #1 is respect. That's why it's hard to promote marriage because it makes it harder to just walk away.
@@Baylorbetterthanbrown yessir
Absolute facts. My last ex before agreeing to be in a relationship with her I specifically told her "no guy friends", she agreed to the condition. After 6 months she gave her number to a guy at the gym right in front of me claiming "he seemed so nice with no bad intentions", I told her she was out of line and ignored her for 3 days after that. She pleaded, cried, kept apologizing so I gave her another chance.
Couple months go by and I find out she went out to lunch with a male co worker outside of work, that was the final straw for me. She was a dime man in looks and the bedroom but I refuse to be disrespected, I walked away from that relationship.
I know I made the right choice because she actually never put up a fight in keeping me when I walked, she instead blocked me and went right back on dating apps immediately.
Bro what the hell. That woman had zero respect for you in general. Giving out number infront if you ? Nah she settled for you
You did the right thing… a lot times when women are disrespectful, it’s usually in a passive way such as you described. Then, they’ll try to convince you that they wasn’t disrespectful even though they knew they were.. If she’s a dime like you say, then she’s going to be choosing until she’s way past her prime.. Dudes are a dime a dozen to them…females like her are the kind you just vibe with & never take serious. You have to have an abundance mind set with them cause they definitely have it with you…
@@Escobardiablo She had way too many options to settle for me, I think she used me for a relationship so she didn't feel like a 304 but deep down wanted to sleep around. I was her best option at the time cause I never simped for her which she really liked, but eventually got bored. When I first met her she was using several men for different things while I was the one smashing. Who knows bro but I caught on to her game and I was the one who walked, she's some beta male's problem now
Respect man. You made the right choice.
@@Michael-z1u She blocked me on socials it's not hard to notice since I didn't remove her. I only knew because I got curious and looked and that's when I noticed, who wouldn't get curious? I never once tried contacting her, if anything seeing that I was blocked confirmed my suspicions that she wasn't genuine
I've let a lot of shit slide with these women when I was younger, letting them talk to me any ol kind of way. I also used to argue with them. But those days are long gone. Once she out of pocket and disrespectful, that's it. No second chances.
yep, eff em! cuz they can literally argue all day!
At 27, I’m really starting to accept this. Respect is WAYYY more important than love. She any truly lust or love you if she don’t respect you.
Please explain that bro, I’m really tryna grasp what you mean.
@@mcfrisko834 she has to know & feel your strength. Not physical but If she does something, she has to know there’s a consequence. If she doesn’t, her respect is gone and attraction always follow right behind it.
@@kvon_rashad I see what you mean brother. My question really is about the last part tho. In my experience a woman’s lust is often increased by her respect for you. I’m probably misreading it but are you saying that she can only lust or love you because she does not have respect for you?
@@mcfrisko834 if she doesn’t respect you, then she’ll eventually lose attraction for you. That’s what I’m getting at.
@@kvon_rashad I agree bro. Salute fam 💯
I agree 💯, the moment I notice disrespect from a woman it's a instant turn off. Disrespect is a perfect recipe for her to be dismissed, no matter what she looks like or who she is.
If you have to tell a woman something more than once, thats a sign of her not showing respect. If a woman is not behaving how shes supposed to, she definitely has to go.
This is a fact for any young men out there thinking about getting married. If she does it ONCE consider the degree of the disrespect as a serious warning flag. If you want, you can observe, and give her one more try but do not communicate to her that you are observing for another incident. If it happens again regardless of the degree of the disrespect end the relationship IMMEDIATELY and do not communicate the reason why. JUST END IT
Real rap.
She already kno why too which is why yeen gotta say nun just wastin ur breath tryna xplain
When it comes to women. Respect > love
When it comes to woman respect=love because they don’t love men for real.
That's right...no matter how many years you invested....LEAVE
Also sometimes you can have a woman that respects you but. Some people around her might disrespect you. You have to see how that woman reacts to someone disrespecting you
100% agree that a woman should NEVER disrespect you but the right woman would never do that. If she does then…she’s not the right woman and she has to go. That should never be tolerated. PERIOD!
This is vital advice! So many men are putting up with disrespect and losing themselves in the process... Salute General Wills 💯
I know I've hit on something when Cousin T Taw comments. Salute!
This is the #1 reason I'll never marry again (at least not to a bw). One disrespectful action and it's OVER. So why even set myself up?
Not just women, men also. It's over for family, friends and coworkers
This is facts, I went on a brunch date with this girl and we ended up getting into a pretty heated argument.
She started to get very disrespectful and I just walked away.
She had tried texting and calling but I refused to respond. That was the only time I’ve “ghosted” someone. Don’t ever allow someone to disrespect you.
Never argue with a woman. Just leave her.
@SN yn, I'm proud of you
You handled it right! She had to go and you made it so..NEXT!
OG said, " Hold up, she aint treating me right" 😂😂
You are 100 percent correct. I tried telling a guy this: Once a woman disrespects you, and you stay with her, she is going to continue to disrespect you. It doesn't matter how much she begs for your forgiveness and to not leave. A woman will boo-hoo and grin inside when she knows that he has fallen for the manipulation. So, once a woman disrespects a man, he might as well end the relationship because he will NEVER regain her respect by staying in the relationship. You're only showing her that she can make a fool of you.
Exactly! A bunch of FAKE boo-hoo-hoo-HOOS... Until one of the two walks out ONCE AND FOR ALL
My father said to me ..(you have to talk plain to a fool) ...my words to my own sons are (when people tell you who they are ...believe them) ...when we catch up ( talk ) they say thank you Dad ..you were right. ..as I thanked my Dad . ...younger men keep benefitting from OG's calming wisdom ..like Rom !
I had to learn the hard way but, I understand now completely. Disrespect is absolutely not tolerated. No talking I'm walking away.
We Are The Prize 🏆..These Chicks are Lost in the Sauce...304's.
That's why I dont go around putting these women on a pedestal...There's already enough simps out there in the world doing that...
ALL MEN need to hear this message
You were right it reveals the woman’s character in the end, no matter what happens, but the truth always comes out. What kind of person you were dating is. Was.
The hardest part about walking away is for me is confronting my own fears and attachments, but it is very empowering when we do it for the right reasons IMHO. I need to continue to get better at this, not just with respect to women. Some times when we say no to others, we say yes to ourselves!
A man attachment should also be to GOD not woman love that woman and treat her nice and protect her. But never get too attached to humans or material things
This is why knowing yourself is very important before you get into the game so she cant knock you off of who you are cause they will try so much.
Best advice ever! Walk away at least, and they might never tell you, but deep down inside, they will respect you, and your integrity will be intact. Rom, keep it up. You're back in the saddle God bless
There is a difference between a woman liking you and a woman respecting you. -Alan Roger Currie. Hearing those words for the first was mind blowing to me.
If she likes you and respect you. You have a decent woman but you still have to stay grounded and be ready for whatever
Real talk. He shared many gems. Shoutout to Da Legend unc Alan Roger Currie
Damn unc that's ruthless. That passport bro story was hilarious 😂 😂😂😂
Facts. Goes for everyone. Family, friends, job, etc.
The true glue to a relationship is respect , without it there is no relationship to speak of.
one of the positive things about having a rotation is typically these women treat you with respect. so when looking for a relationship, you can always use these women, or that one fwb as a guideline to say, if these women treat me with respect and we’re just fwb, why in the HELL would i put up with a woman who wants so much more out of me and talks to me sideways? bump that i’ll just keep having fun with these ladies while they buy me wingstop and we watch netflix; not worth the drama nor stress.
Real talk
Gotta have the options sort of in front of her face to get some respect with some!
@@CharlesBukowski-m1o all she needs to know is that she isn’t the only one. if putting them in her face makes her act right, she ain’t right for you. she’d create a stressful triangulation situation and you will lose both. cut the toxic female out, keep the good one.
If there is no respect there is no point
I don’t tolerate disrespect from a woman. Peace and blessings, Uncle Rom!
People disrespect you. Its a part of life. Look at them with pity. Theyl get whats coming. Sometimes it will take a long time and you may never see it yourself. But everyone has a date with the most high.
we all must meet our moment of truth-gang Starr
Allow absolutely no one to make disrespecting you be ok...ever!!! Consequences must always be laid out for anyone or any entity that does.
I'm glad you mentioned that walk infront of the man, Unc. I always pay attention to that. I will even slow my pace to see where the woman is gonna walk. And I'm talking all the women I deal with, work, church etc.
I agree w this. This applies to all friendships w women also.
I usually quickly move on from any woman that disrespects me
Good advice indeed. Once the disrespect starts to happen end the relationship instantly and walk away
Hell yeahhhhh, because it's just gonna get worse, i had to learn the hard way ,it's better to just end the relationship
I feel like I've been preaching this to the homies all week going through separations. They only do what you keep allowing. And lookin good Rom! 💪💪
Thx from a young brotha from south central I needed that
If you give someone an inch they will take a mile. Don’t allow yourself to be disrespected it’ll only get worse.
1000%
Deep facts.
I agree brother. That works both ways too. You let it slide even once they now believe they can do whatever they want to you
Thank you for saying this
Dating is one thing…It’s different if you take a vow…once you’re married, it’s a contract …you have to be the man and the man is the stronger vessel according to thousands of years of wisdom of the past and of course scripture. Can’t let anyone …even her get you down. Disrespect is a weakness. A real man will endure precisely because he loves himself , who he is, and is strong and knows he can rise above not run away. Integrity is the key. If you’re married give her space to be weak…if you’re dating …then get the heck out like he says here, however you must know that nobody is perfect and we all are pretty stupid most of the time so lighten up and be forgiving. Ego is a con! Ego will lead you to ruin. We are all just minor creatures in the spectrum of time so don’t take yourself or others so seriously! But if a spouse cheats…you can leave with a clean conscience that is biblical. Thanks for the vid
The woman is still to *RESPECT* her husband. That is a Biblical command to wives. --> Ephesians 5:33 ~ *_"...the wife MUST RESPECT her husband."_*
-- So stop making allowances and excuses for wives to disrespect their husbands, and falsely implying that a husband is not a "real man" unless he accepts the wife's disrespect. - Your comment is simply part of the problem.
@@VAIO294 you misunderstand…a man has to be strong and see that disrespect by her is simply weakness…unless of course the man is a sloth a scumbag or a tyrant in which case he is not worthy of respect and deserves such a treatment…otherwise she needs forgiveness and help to see her folly…a man does not have to accept any persons actions but rather always strive to improve while looking to be positive and a leader by example and to endure but not accept…Check out the story of Job if your into the Bible. He shows us how to endure…Disrespect comes from the weak minded so just smile and endure with a heart of strength and joy…let the fools be fools. Show me a man with a big ego and I show you a fool ! Letting a woman’s disrespect ruffle his precious little feathers 😂 weak sauce…weak man he
This is decent advice, but I've found that the other half of the puzzle is to look inward and reflect on why she's disrespecting you. Otherwise you carry the same problems into your next relationship and the same thing is going to happen.
I’ve known men who have tolerated being disrespected their entire lives
my step mom badmouthed by dads best friend in front of everyone. she thinks its ok to buy a new car after not working for years. imo shes worn out her usefulness.
2:00 "When a woman walks in front of a man, she disrespects him!" To make things worse, she tried speeding up ahead ahead of me. I made the mistake of sporadically date her 6 months afterwards.
Listen to this dude... He is completely right on this one!
One thing I noticed from studying alot of these professional pimps on the podcast circuit, where they have rountable discussions with women etc - They ALWAYS be checking even the slightest nasty attitude. They are brilliant at putting bad behavior in check. Very eye opening.
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You need to walk away and maybe let her come back and re-establish new boundaries.if those boundaries are broken,you need to let her go ASAP.
What if a guy gets with a woman who becomes disrespectful but they have a kid. Should he still walk away?
I havent been on your channel for a few years now Rom.. youre looking great man getting better with age.. keep up
The good gym work 💪🏽
True. Some women try to see what they can get away with or when you'll draw the line. Also I think some women are use to treating men how they want unless he says otherwise. But then theres about 50 other men who will let her boss him around, answer her beck and call. When i notice the woman walking ahead of the guy i say damn. Especially when they have kids and he's just moving along with them following her. Smh. The littlest thing you can peep. Subtle ways of disrespect. Walking away or not giving attention to them is powerful. It shows you value yourself and wont accept disrespect. Even the littlest thing.
💯💯💯🎯🎯🎯🎯 that’s it just observe see how they move, it will tell you everything you need to know to make an informed decision.
I'm not alone
Rom looking good. Looking 100%
Can someone answer this for me ,she knocks on the door when I'm in the shower trying to talk ????
She’s interested
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Thumbnail on point. Salute
This is true
Very true, great video
Looking way better Rom,glad to see you thriving. I’ve learned so much from your videos & the topics you speak on. Keep on speaking the truth!
I don't let nobody finna treat me any kinda way 💯💯
Truer words were never spoken !!!!!!
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Thanks for your support.
@@RomWills I grateful for your wisdom. 🙏🏿🙏🏿
🤣🤣🤣you are better off by yourself fasho💯
I hear you brother rom peace and blessings to you ✌🏾🙏🏾
Respect is everything period some men will make every excuse about women and respect the main one she give bro or that’s just what women do no no no a man should never put up with disrespect
Rom is right as a shorter stature man i just drew the line lol You can be the smartest coolest dude and most charismatic person in the room and you could be conventionally handsome but they just devalue based of first glance im weary of approaching taller women they just look beneath you literally and figuratively and then they realize you are more masculine and determined then most men then they will try to give you a shot out of intriguie but i dont really entertain that but there has been women taller than me who have fawned over me so it isnt 100%
Correct!
It’s true lmaooo, basically the girl I’m talking to atm.
@@datguy9408 yeah hopefully it works out dont let them use your height or gaslight you with the inferior complex they made up in their heads that we have because we see through their vain bullshit lol
Big facts 💯
This is one topic that I realized to be true without hearing from other's testimony. Unfortunately....I learned this the hard way. There is NO exception,or in between regarding the "respect " dynamic. Once disrespect is apparent, it's over.
Absolutely unc but again alot of guys that go through hell with women live with them. In many states you can't just kick them out of your house especially if they have mail in their names coming to the house. If they have bills in their name you may have to literally evict them from your home. I went through this and the police will try to throw you out of your own home. These women can be vicious and if they use those crocodile tears the law can be on their side. Alot of married men or men with children have it the hardest because of the child support system and divorce court. But if it's just a relationship than you are absolutely right don't deal with those women. But at the same time alot of women don't show their true colors until it's too late.
if a woman laughs at my weakness, is that on me or on her?
The thumbnail took me out 😂😂😂
Rom Wills, that's facts brother.
I totally agree.
Words of wisdom and inspiration as always 🏆
Facts! 🫡
🔥 content Rom 💯
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You look at lot better now Rom
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What if you’re married to her with 3 kids? Do you walk away?
You're to set boundaries and enforce those boundaries. - Let HER walk away and then divorce her for adultery when she gets with another man.
DATS GOOD GAME OG A TON OF DUDES GETTN DISRESPECTED RYTE NOW AND IGNORE IT FOR YEARS THIS NEEDS TO BE HERD 💯
Agreed that’s anyone
Absolutely true Rom💯
100 PERCENT FACT$
Thank you Rom!
You can’t have love without respect… that’s like cake without yeast
Desire wants a man that has self-respect for himself.