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For Girls Who Struggle To Gain Weight
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 26 พ.ค. 2015
- You’re trying to GAIN weight?!
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I hate it when people laugh at me for trying to gain wait but then make me uncomfortable by constantly pointing out how skinny I am
People need to make up their minds.
I get this all the time too. one minute its "hey lucky you, you never have to worry about gaining weight" next minute its "OMG!! you're so skinny"
uughh!!
Same with me but it’s with trying to loose weight, ppl have the urge to call out my weight and on how big it is, and they always assume that your lazy and always eat so much. It’s stupid.
@@myheaditchesbutidontshavel3580 they don't know how hard it is to change your weight. It doesn't happen for an instant.
Snow Pearl exactly! People never think before they speak :(
You forgot the part where they call you a stick (happens constantly)
Bell Iron Fist I know right but I’m not even skinny I’m between a s and a m like bruh😂
In science when we learnt about solid,liquid,gas people are like oh Sofiya is not solid she is so light, she is gas
@@jevilstail have you ever been called a stick?? If you are skinny I think you would be called a stick not even once, millions of times
Yeah yesterday I was telling my friend how I felt so bloated because of my period and my friend said “shut up you’re so skinny!” It’s kind of annoying when people point it out.
dani yes! Like we can see.. we have eyes.. smfh
Moral of the story: get yourself a friend like Ashley
Im Ashley but I'm skinnyyy
@@kurtboy6126 mmmmmmm
🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I dont mean to be that guy but it's actually Ashly.
@@benbai1622 it’s spelled Ashley for most people :D
I hate the question “do you even eat” like no Karen I survive as human being without food.
Ikr like I am 12 and I am 24kg and people say do you even eat like bro how am I alive
@@sara-antoniabogdan939 lmao ikr?
@@sara-antoniabogdan939 Bruh, I'm 13 50kgs but I'm 5'5 and the weight DOES NOT show on me, I seriously don't know where all that weight is going, I get skinny shamed everyday by family and friends, calling me a stick, a pen or a bone and I'm so tired of it, I'm literally overweight and they're still not satisfied, they expect a 13yo about to turn 14 to be like the freaking Kardashians, I'm sick of them, literally cry everyday and I give them hints that they should stop but when I do they call me inappropriate for talking back at their ignorant behavior, I swear to God one day I'm just gonna explode at them
@@sara-antoniabogdan939 Idk, if theres people who are shorter or skinnier than you then maybe you look good and they're just jealous?
@@sara-antoniabogdan939 And yes, the weight probably doesn't show on me because I'm tall but I've seen girls my same height but with lesser weight and they still somehow look fuller than me
"You know it's funny, because often people try to lose weight."
WELL DOCTOR DOES IT LOOK LIKE I WANNA LOSE WEIGHT
jlolily Yes...
jlolily well I am trying to gain weight coz I'm really really really thin for my age but whenever I eat a lot I just become thin the next day so yeah it's harder than it seems for me
XxcatloverxX XxcatloverxX haha same now I'm eating like 5 times a day cos I hate being a bit skinny XD
jlolily right like😂
jlolily I
"Omg, you're so skinny, you should eat more."
"Omg, you're so fat, you should starve yourself."
OMG, can you just stop.
Good Lord do I hate that 😡.
drink water, get enough sleep and workout, don't starve yourself
I starve myself tho-
Sabrina Belt But it’s reality
StrawberryMxlk Please don’t starve yourself 🥺
My grandma would help
XD
Alex lol every grandma has the best snacks
lol mine too
*Abuela enters the chat*
Ikr. Lol🤣
"its must be so hard for you trying to gain weight"
me: *yes, yes it is*
ikr
I'm really skinny so I'm trying to gain weight
EXACTLY
For me it's the other way round even harder to lose
as someone with high metabolism, *yes*
Skinny-shaming is real.
Lol
Eh
Kyla Manuel same ＿φ(￣ー￣ )
ERV Nah fat shaming just happens more often
@@whotao-tf1gw then u probably dont notice it when it happens. Cuz it surely does a lot but most ppl just think they're being nice and helping the "skinny" ppl.
“Omg you’re so skinnyyyyyy”
*proceeds to wrap their hand around my wrist to compare*
I hate that omg 🥱
I literally wanna strangle them when they do that.
I hatee it when ppl say omggg you're soo big and then compare it and say ohhh mine is smaller like do you want to fly?
Omg that’s ridiculous of ppl to do that
Yeah people say at the most random times how skinny my wrists are too, like ok? I get it 🙄
“Have u tried just eating...like garbage foods?”
What kind of doctor advice is that?! 🤦♀️😂
Since her metabolism is fast, she can loose weight easily. Because garbage foods are high on carbohydrates, you can get more sugars if that make sense. Obviously, you need to take care while doing this because of high cholesterol and bad types of fat.
@@Grace-sz6hg What if she gets diabetes? Skinny people get diabetes too
@@Pink_pr1ncess That is why I said that you need to be careful. Skinny people can get diabetes, of course.
Shes not gonna be eating salads is she to gain weight 🤦🏽♂️
I eat McDonald’s every day and I’m way too skinny eating a lot of trash and stuff doesn’t help me
I used to cry about being too skinny. Relatives were concerned. “Friends” would ask me omg you’re so skinny, you’re too thin, do you eat, are you bulimic” Looking back I should’ve told them they’re being assholes, but instead I went home to cry. I wouldn’t wear sleeveless. I would always layer up with a cardigan to cover my “ugly arms”.
I hope no girl/guy out there would ever have to feel how I felt. End of the day I found someone who loves me for who I am, and I learned to accept how I look and eat healthy be happy. And eventually gained weight. Everyone has their insecurities. Just be kind to one another, and be kind to yourself.
Good for you, some people just don’t understand that skinny-shaming is a real thing and that skinny people can have insecurities as well. I also feel insecure about my arms because they are just skinny and super long.
Yes I don’t wear sleeveless cause my arms are skinny as hell
U can wear all u want. AND EAT WHAT U WANT.thats the SKINNY power
@Icecream Conne A high metabolism is essentially a myth. The difference between a high and slow metabolism is around 300 calories. It really just boils down to overestimating your calories or how much you eat. Appetites are different for everyone.
Nobody said that to me but I feel like that...
"Real women have curves."
Hmmm.. I wonder why some women are going through extreme measures to gain weight.. Women come in all shapes and sizes! Please stop body shaming.
***** that quote is everywhere not sure where it first came from
WWE Divas I'd date a cute girl with no curves for sure.
YES. and curves don't mean fat. curves don't mean plus size. someone can be skinny and curvy. also, real women don't always have curves or a vagina. the whole thing is diverse, and the shaming is horrible.
WWE Divas you have no idea how important this is to me thank you so much
Fat bitches love to claim they are curvy like no bitch if you tripped you would roll I swear I hate jealous fat girls. Cute and petite any day.
I eat like a COW yet I'm severely underweight.
People are always like "you're trying to GAIN weight? lol"
The Potato Goddess my friend calls me "Skinny Cow" and I am like: You try being around thirty pounds underweight and you'll understand!
SAME
This literally happened to me i lost 5 pounds😣
Breepo 002 OMG I KNOWWWWWW PEOPLE R LIKE DO U HAVE A DISORDER? Or it must be sooo hard to gain weight!
yeah, I have high metabolism ;-;
I hate it when people point it out, i find it so rude, I dont say 'hey you are sooo fat!'
Other people: *tries to gain weight*
Me: *breaths*
Scale: *20 extra pounds*
Also me: HOW IN THE-
Dorky Potato BRUH I THOUGHT IT WAS ONLY MEEE
I breathe and lose 20 pounds. If only I could be inbetween lmao
Dorky Potato i wish
_sadgirl_ no you don’t, you probably just have no appetite so you think you eat a lot
_sadgirl_ can we switch-
I'm really thin and my sis is fat. Even though our appetite is exactly the same, but for her, it's hard to loose weight and for me it's hard to gain weight. I really hate some people say "Does your sister eats everything" like wth!? Being fat doesn't have anything to do with that.... And people think I exercise a lot when I'm just a couch person. *I hate this judgemental society*
Awwww sorry to hear that :(((
Get into weight lifting. Find out the amount of calories you need to maintain weight and make sure you eat a lot more than that number. Theres calorie calculators online based on height, weight, and age
Exactly...I am fat and my bro is thin😅
Same. Exept I'm the fat one and my sister is the skinny one.
We're in exactly the same situation
We all need a friend like Ashley
yasss
True
im just saying that i love your name :)
Ya *-*
Yup
Me: *has high metabolism*
People: “aRe yOu anOrExiC”
Other people: “wHy dO yoU nEveR EaT”
Me: “I eat all the time...”
•Kalia’s Productions • tbh I'm that one girl that's always hungry but never gains any weight.
Honey Lemon same
•Kalia’s Productions • SAMMMEEE people pick on me and say I’m anorexic
Yeah my friends take the p!ss out of me for being skinny and call me a "stick" and someone people say I'm anorexic
@@emilylew.s same twin
Someone: You are sooo skinny
Me: You are sooo fat
Someone: ThAtS bOdyShaMinG
Omg yes!! And the rest of the dialogue!
Me: What you did was bodyshaming too
Someone: No, it's okay, I was just saing facts outloud!
Me: So was I
Someone: 😳😤
@@annekearns9123 sometimes it isn't unfortunately 😔
@@annekearns9123 I say sometimes because other times it is a compliment, it's just they way people put it that make it a compliment or not.
@@annekearns9123 not all the time. is calling someone fat a compliment?
@@oxjulxo well if u call someone skinny as like if they were bullying no one says nothing but if u called someone fat then u get hate 🤦🏻♀️
I've been skinny shamed most of my life..I've been called broom stick.. tilapia fish.. walking toothpick and a lot more...it made me look for drugs to gain weight 😐
broomsticks and toothpicks are helpful, so you are helpful too! :)
Bein skinney is the best they just jealous of u trust me
niya reaction bruh im skinny myself but- stfu.
*niya reaction* reply**)) [🌻🐖*its easier to die from a disease if your skinny, before you die you start losing a bunch of weight. its healthy and safer to be a bit over weight then to be skinny*🌙]
sarcasticlay yes, we love telling people they can die easier if they are skinny
I think all skinny people will understand people looping there fingers around your wrist to see how skinny you are...😅
Anita Rama👏 YES 👏Still drives me insane.
@Tariq Baig You're probably just bottom heavy.
Lana riverr x can’t relate
RIGHT😂
That’s what people do to me.. but I think I need to loose my weight. A middle schooler shouldn’t have that in there mind should they?
I think more then 75% of my wardrobe is just waiting for me to gain weight.
Same
I can fit most of my 14 years old clothes. I'm 23 btw :v
@@misschocoholic2126 I still have clothes from when I was 14 lol my 9yr old boy weighs more then me.. I'll be 25 in a week :)
I felt this
Felt thissssssss
Whenever I tell people I’m trying to gain weight, they’re like Oh MuSt Be NiCe. The struggle you have with losing weight is the struggle we have with gaining weight!
exactly!
I think its really hard to find foods with lots of calories even tho im trying to lose weight rn I can feel the struggle
But being slim is good.
@@maryeverett2266 that’s a very toxic view, and not everyone thinks that way. Health at any size
This is literally, me. 🤦🏻♀️ I still have to shop in the kids section for clothes sometimes, it’s embarrassing
I fat into my little sisters shirt accidentally today ..... she’s 7 and I’m 18
It’s cheaper tho I’m wearing a kids shirt right now btw and I’m 14
I know right!!!! it’s so hard to find jeans that are affordable(stores like goodwill don’t even have an XS section), have belt loops(because most kids jeans are elastic) cute(again with kids clothes) etc. the majority of my pants I have to wear a belt with or they will fall of. It’s so annoying!
Same. I have to buy under garments, pajamas, and a lot of other clothes from the kids section..im almost 18 and its really embarrassing.
It’s so frustrating at times when I want to shop online and I get the clothes when ordered in the smallest size and it still is loose 💔
can I donate my fat?
Same lol
same😂
Donate it to me, I need it!!😂
I wish
LOL IF YOU CAN DONATE SOME TO ME XD!
*People bully others for being fat*
*People bully others for being skinny*
Me: *Omg can like yall stop bullying?*
Bullies really have to make up their mind lol
It’s really annoying we were throwing things at school and someone grabbed my wrists and said how are they not BROKEN??? it’s annoying
@@cams8662 ik, one girl said my legs were like that of a chickens...
Honestly in society, no matter what you do people will have some reason to bully you. It sucks, and we should all try to change that!
Remember to love yourself and those around you
blue
Fr
Poeple don’t get it when I say, “honestly I wanna gain more weight”. I live in an asian country where if you’re a bit more chubby, your gonna be more beautiful.
My family members keep saying I should gain more weight, so I would look “prettier”.
I live in the US but it’s the same for me my mom constantly says guys would like me if gained weight :(
What country is this- I need to know
@@hiryuma for children, if you’re more chubby you’re considered more beautiful. Im from the Philippines.
@@chickinfingers0069 brb
Moving to the Philippines
same, i’ve been told that all my life. a few days ago even a random old lady on the street told me that, she was a total stranger.....it was slightly rude 😑😑
Man, women just can't win. "Gain weight!" "Lose weight!" It's just an endless cycle of struggle. Cause there is always a new "ideal" body image.
It's not only women. Men do also experience fat shaming and skinny shaming and I can see that.
Me: breathes air
Me: steps on scale: you’ve gained 8lbs
wth???
-Bruh.-
not funny
glossy bella
nice opinion 👍
Oml this is so relatable 😂
I gain like 5 kilos from eating like a tomato 😂
Just breathing air? Wtf lol
Body shaming goes both ways.
"You're so fat, lose some weight"
"You're so skinny, gain some weight"
"Eat less"
"Eat more"
"Elephant"
"Stick"
Stop just stop. XXL or XXS you're still beautiful. Just eat healthy and exercise and make sure that you're not changing your body for anybody else but YOURSELF! take care of your body ;)
Aurora thank you for this comment I really needed it today❤
Aurora i needed this. Thanks
Aurora Thanks. I really need this. People always call me a fucking stick.
Aurora but I'm a girl I need the looks of a human not a skeleton
Aurora This words are so true!!!! It's like my life position. Doesn't matter how you look if you're strong and healthy
My “friend” at school putss her arm around my wrist saying “I can’t put my whole hand around you!”
Does she always do this kind of stuff?
That's low-key mean
@@Ricanxbxbyy sorry i’m like really late to this but back when she did it i didn’t notice it was wrong until quarantine. but she would kind of do it often
@@lenoralol9962 It's okay for you to respond late, although has she done anything else to you?
@@Ricanxbxbyy yes she was rlly toxic.. she like faked a heart issue in order to be popular. and she said the reason was to get attention away from me. and she would say i was anorexic and i had skinny problems when i didn’t.
"OMG YOU'RE SO SKINNY"
**picks me up and spins around**
"SEE"
dude, you don't need to prove it, I have mirrors and a weighing scale at home... I KNOW
Ashley was a great friend to tailor the dress to her friends size
Lily Somerset If there were more people like that in real life, I’d actually feel not so frigging suicidal. :’(
T T are you okay?
T T that escalated quick
T T you good?
Just a lot of body shame goes both ways.
Me:drinks water
Me steps on scale: you’ve gained 5lbs
Like wtf
Me: eats 3 burgers and a pizza
Me: steps on scale: you’ve gained 10 pounds
Me: yessssss
Sits for 10 min on coach watching tv
Steps on scale: lost 5 pounds
Me: for what?? Breathing??
Me:eats 10 burgers and 10 packs of large fry’s
Gains:1,1
Me:WTF?!?!?! I AM TRYING TO GAIN WEIGHT YOU STUPID GENES
You have a slow metabolism
But did u drink 5 lbs of water 🕵🏼♀️🤨
Ikr
Weight gain is as legitimate problem as weight loss. I've been called too thin by oh so many people. And honestly the question "haha do u even eat" follows me errrrrrwhere. I can't believe someone actually made a video about this. Gosh I'm so happy I feel heard. Lots of love to the entire team🖤
Ps: I LOVE my body. I can jump around like crazy... run so fast....I just love being thin in general. But I hate the shaming doe. Who can relate?! ♡
I can and That's what made me want to work with underweight women as
1:30 annoys me so much when people do that, that one really pissed me off
Same omg it sounds so rude
It's just a skit bruh
@@mustard7024 but it still happens in the real world
@@poppyseed5113 Ye I know but dont just and get pissed of just for a skit bruh
I really want to punch people that think they can express their opinions so rudely.
I find it so annoying when people are like, "Dude, you're so skinny!! You need to gain some weight." Like, yeah, I've been trying that for the past 4 years now. Or when people say, "You're so skinny! I wish I were like you." Trust me, no you don't.
I feel the same. I'm like, no... no you don't wish you were this skinny. It's so hard to find something to wear that doesn't show every bone in my body.. :(
I wouldn't know what you mean cuz all I do is try to loose weight but why wouldn't I want to be like that?
omg i can sooooo relate to that all my friends are like ur sooo skinny eat a pie, and im like do you not see me eat?? i eat heaps but still not gain weight and also people think its a chice to be skinny but its not i hate it i get called chicken legs all the time and i hate it. Im just glad there's other people i can relate to.
omg same im so happy right now that theres actually other people like this
I get what you mean I am very skinny, my metabolism is crazy high and for the last 3 years I was on my school's girls rugby team. It's a surprise I didn't break anything. Nobody gets just how hard it is to gain weight but at the same time I know its hard for them to lose weight. In a perfect world everybody would have the same average body size and nobody would have to gain or lose weight.
When everyone asks you where all the food goes 🙄🙄😭
My family asks me that too. Soo annoying.
@@episodevirgo4988 I can relate 🤦♀️😂
This is the most annoying thing in the world is swear! I feel uuu
I just say i poop it out😂😂😂💩💩
@@ema2959 yeah same. I told them I poop a lot.
When you're trying to gain weight but you have a small stomach😭
Skinny shaming is real hate being called skinny a stick
I couldn't join the air force because I was under the minimum weight requirement. I have irregular periods and in the future I will most likely struggle to have a healthy pregnancy. I'm self-conscious about my cup size. My own mother accuses me of being anorexic. I'm an adult woman who is very underweight, not because I chose to be, but because that's how my body is. If I could gain ten pounds to put myself at a healthy weight, I damn well would. All these people in the comments saying that skinny girls should be happy, that we've been blessed and need to stop whining, I'd like to ask you if you have to worry about these things everyday.
Thank youuu! I totally understand😔
omg yes so true
oh bulshitt
Preach it. I live this every day, and it's about so much more than just fitting into a dress. You do NOT want these health problems, and you do NOT want the ridicule that comes with it.
Lol ppl who can't gain weight bulshitt .the only way u can't gain weight is by not eating and if u complain about not gaining weight ur fucking ridiculous and ungrateful
"Oh, it must be so hard for you, trying to gain weight!!" Ugggh that's the worst. So rude.
+Kaitlin Flower ikr
They do the same thing to fat people it must be so hard for you to lose weight it is hard both ways it really just depends on your body type if your healthy be skinny if your healthy be fat because fat or skinny doesnt always mean unhealthy
yea i hate that girl
+Kaitlin Flower that made me so mad
I totally agree but at least you get to eat whatever foods you want
People don’t realize that it’s not everyone’s dream to be soooo skinny. Some people just want to gain weight and it’s really none of anyone else’s business. Gaining weight is just as hard as losing weight
Me: A girl who struggles to LOSE weight...
Wait... so *why am I even here?*
@MrSy LMAO😂
The *"It must be soo hard for u to gain weight"* coment got me so annoyed for some people it really is a struggle. And people saying only dogs like bones and that real men like curves IT DOESNT HELP
I agree
Exactly. I eat 5 medium size meals a day, pushing my limits, doing everything to gain weight and it’s impossible. People always tell me to “eat more.” It’s not that simple.
I agree but it’s also difficult when I gain weight when I barely eat in a day
Overweight people have it worse than people who aren't even under weight just very skinny so... And the bullying is much worse in so many ways if I listed them all it would take hours. I would much rather be healthy but not like how how I look than be unhealthy and not like how I look.
WHY DOES EVERYONE FUCKIN WANT TO GAIN WEIGHT THE SKINNIER YOU ARE THE PRETTIER YOU ARE IF YOU GAIN YOU WILL JUST LOOK LIKE A UGLY FAT PIG YOU ARE LICKY YOU ARE SKINNY
I'm not trying to brag but I love that I can eat whatever (to a certain extent) and still be thin
+Kayla Selenator comment somewhere else
+Naomi Smith actually she's in the right place
I love it too and the best part is other people can pick me up
Same
i have a fast metabolism
I've never seen a video about being underweight- this is insanely relatable and a true struggle
I’m 23 been the same weight since high school 120 & I’m tall 5’7😩 I will reach my goal of 140 one day 🤞🏾🔥
I get so frustrated when my friends say they are fat and wanna be skinny like me NO YOUR BEAUTIFUL AND PERFECT YOU CAN FIT INTO NORMAL ADULT CLOTHING I CAN’T
Merp_its_Amanda Rodriguez Same
Friend: omg, I'm fat, I wish I was skinny like you.
Me: * doesn't respond *
same!!
Merp_its_Amanda Rodriguez fucken OATH they don’t understand how annoying it is
I hate that sm.
SERIOUSLY like do u really wanna see ur ribs everyday or sweat to death bcuz there’s no way in hell you’ll take ur sweater off
People: do you even eat???
...no I just survive off the sun like a flower 😒
😂
I just survive off *hope* like a *flower*
I do literally say that to people!
Leah Adkins I actually eat very little, I SWEAR it's not an eating disorder.
LOL
"Your too skinny go eat a burger"
"Your too fat go to the gym"
"Your too short go eat some more"
"Your too flat go on a diet"
Wow.....our society is very judgemental....... This is why people aren't comfortable in their own skin...💔😞😔😭
wait if ur flat how is a diet going to help- pretty sure u cant change a flat body
‘do u ever eat?’
well rebecca, i have a condition where i can live without eating anything at all- but still function without struggle.
"it must sooo hard to gain weight" it really is
Yh people are just ignorant and all they think about is people who want to lose wait. Really damn annoying if u ask me.
+Unica Muni lol i meant to write weight not wait
Yadana Nang THEY DONT FUCKING UNDERSTAND US
Yadana Nang Ikr!!, It's SO hard to gain weight....
They just don't understand.
Body image is so fucking important in this world and I fucking HATE it. It's dumb that we judge people based off of what they look like.
Lacey Cutaneo I think the girl just wants to fit into the outfit. I don't see any body image issues or judgement in the video.
po1s0ned When she says that she "doesn't feel like an adult woman," and when the other chick said, "oh, it must be so hard for you."
***** well adult means fully grown/developed. I wouldn't say having a small physique LOOKS fully grown but you definitely can be in terms of personality and behavior.
Lacey Cutaneo If i want to look good is not because of low self steem or anything like that is just i want to look fit like in shape, i don't like running and getting tired just in a block you know what i mean?
Super Sand A fucking kid told you that, the don't fucking understand.
I wish ppl just took it seriously. I hate it that no one cares when I get skinny shamed. I remember crying like an insane girl when I was called ugly and insulted when I was like 9 or something
There is a TH-cam channel called "Maa ki Advise". They have given some natural home remedies for gaining weight. Watch that. I am sure it will help. It has English subtitles.
@@rajat3776 Hey thanks this could actually be really useful. I really appreciate it
As a bigger woman I didn’t realize that for some people gaining weight is about the same battle as loosing it. 💔
I'm eating loads and not gaining anything but there's people complaining they're eating nothing and gaining everything. Girl, you just can't win. 😂
Hi babe, I was once like you. My weight was 35kg from when I was 16 to 20 years old, and I’m five feet tall. I started exercising bout a year ago (just body weight) like doing squats and lunges, made sure I ate 3 meals a day (doesn’t matter what I eat). I gained 5 kg within 1-2 months. I started to use myfitnesspal app to really track what I eat and count my calories, making sure I hit the right amount daily. I would really suggest you start exercising, at the same time Ensure you eat enough calories. Pigging out but not eatin the proper foods or hitting your calories will not help you gain weight so quickly. The app can help you determine how much calories to eat daily according to your goals. By exercising and doing some weight training, you can gain muscle weight too. :) Also, if you feel really full and can’t eat much, try getting mass gainers. One scoop is around 600 calories already depending on the kinds you buy. I gained 8 kg within a year, I’m 43kg now. I hope you can too!
Minnie It's fine I'm only 11 and I am gaining wait now. Thanks anyway and well done. You go girl!! :) xxx
@@Hannah-pg2gb I'm 12 and ill eat anything for me to gain weight
@@karalapse im 11 and i'm the opposite. no caps coz im rushing soz
weight*
Me :Eat fast food all week. barely exercises:
Doctor: You lost weight!
DAFUQ?!
SAME!!!!!
BloomingPets me! I was 88 now I'm 77 I lose ten pounds and I didn't do anything I just randomly lost 10 pounds
11 pounds
BloomingPets me :eat healthy food all week exercises all week doctor 👨🏾⚕️:you've gained weight. Whattttttt 😶😧
BloomingPets wish that was me...... I have an idea! Anyone want my belly fat?
Omg!!! Thank you so much for this video.💗The struggle is real. Currently on a weight gain journey! Wish me luck!😊
Quinta needs one of those bars from Mean girls
OK that ending warmed my heart
I need an Ashley in my life 💗
+Kate McCune same
Right??
+Kate McCune my best friend is named ashley😂 she's amazing
My grandma would drink a ton of milkshakes to gain weight when she was young and then she had a kid, and mother nature just said "Okay all that gained weight that burned away is going to your breasts. Have fun getting breast reduction surgery. Twice."
Holy shit, TWICE?! Jesus, was her back still good?!
Ximena Briones Idk about now, but yeah it was a pain for her. The gene passed from her mother and went down our family tree.
God isn't that just exciting?!
Nicki Messer Aw man, I know that feel. Boobs are only good when they're on other people, or like within that range of "big enough to be nice and can still find cute comfy bras" . I've been considering reduction surgery, but I don't think I will until if I decide to have kids or not.
Jacklin Carter Mine haven't hit that point yet. I've considered that when I'm older, maybe I'll adopt. Some doctors are developing a medicine so that a nonpregnant woman can breast feed, so maybe I'll use it. So far, most women haven't been able to make much milk, if any at all. Maybe when the time comes you can choose how much milk to make.
Nicki Messer
Like it'd be cool to breastfeed, but I have to get over the thought of a living organism inside of me first. XD And then also having to deal with all that birthing pain and taking care of said organism for forever after. I'm not a baby person, even though I'm still a kid on the inside.
Was skinny and tried everything to gain weight, and ended up with type 2 diabetes, and now I am having trouble losing it. At the end of the day we have to live ourselves. Health is more important than risking it to get the body we want.
Not being able to gain weight is a real thing... I can't ever figure it out no matter how much I try... It's been like 6 years and all I can show for it is a skinny super ripped athletic body... I just wanna muscle up a bit....
Dat moment when ur mom is yelling at u for being too skinny, and at the same time, yelling at ur sister for being too fat. Like, WTF DO YOU WANT FROM MEEEE???!!!!
Ikr when I'm skinny my mom was just like omg you have to gain weight so skinny....now I'm a bit fat my mom was just like omg you're so fat lose some weight you're on a diet ! ....and I was just like WHAT DO YOU WANT FROM ME WOMAN ?!?'
+Soniya Subedi (Lolvids101) my mom yells t me for being too skinny xD but i have a slowmetabolism
This is me. This is TOTALLY ME LOLL
STORY OF MY LIFE OMG SHE TELLS ME TO EAT MORE BUT EATS LESS THAN HALF OF WHAT I EAT
+Vitica Ranga Though biologically the older you get (past a certain age) the less amount of food you actually need to eat to be healthy. In the past, when food was much more scarce all the time is was a biological advantage to not need as much food when you were older because it meant that you had more food to give to your kids.
I nearly screamed when I saw this video. Thank you so much for making this Buzzfeed. Yes this is a real problem and yes people like this exist, please don't disrespect body types or people's body image goals!
Kasumi Suzuki Me: Yasss! And it's with Quinta!
Kasumi Suzuki Bullshizzle.
Omg I never thought I'd see so many people with this same problem, it's good to know I'm not alone :)
Poptart020 PlaysMC
You mean so many LIARS **Frog-marches you all into McDonalds** Now stay here and eat until you puke, then we'll talk.
I know me too 😊
This sketch is INCREDIBLE! I loved it. Thanks so much.
Ik this struggle so badly!!!! I’m 5’6 and graduated high school weighing 115lbs. I didnt like being so skinny and people knew that. Then now at 22 I’m finally my goal weight of 145lbs. I’m someone who’s a stress starter so it can be really hard. To add to that I have a fast metabolism and I had to take Adderall for several years. For those of you who don’t know Adderall and Concerta make people lose their appetite extremely then when the medicine wears off we have a habit of binge eating. Now add all three of these things together for years doesn’t help. But now that my stress level has gone down and I’m no longer taking Adderall and after going to a Italy 🇮🇹 we’re all they eat is carbs finally got to my healthy body weight
I have a high metabolism and I have this problem and I eat a lot of junk food and so I'm like "I really need to eat healthier" and then people are like "WHAT?? Ur so skinny tho!" And I'm like just bc I'm skinny doesn't mean I'm healthy
Veronica Waid YES, some people dont understand the struggle smh
Veronica Waid ikr
Veronica Waid Same
Veronica Waid Thats so true!!!
Veronica Waid preach
I have a really good friend who is just naturally tiny she was trying to gain weight and it seemed almost as difficult as it is for me to lose weight everyone has their own struggles
Btw nice pic of Taekwoon ^^
Alexis Wiggins Thanks😊
He's also my bias hehe
Alexis Wiggins I wish, I live in Missouri so it's too far but I saw Vixx in Dallas in 2013 and Chicago last year Leo looks even more handsome in real life
I went to their NY concert last year. I'm going to see them for kcon too. I live in NC.
Okay, like.. Am I the only skinny person who likes being called skinny? 😂😂😂
Same here
same I don't mind when people say it like a compliment but it pisses me off when they say "do you even eat?"
I wish I was you…
Being called skinny is usually a compliment because most people want to be skinny
I would take it as a compliment too if I was skinny which i will be cus im still on my weight loss journey
I’ve delt with “do u even eat?” All my life and “where does it go?”
Finally the world will see that skinny girls struggle too.
Or Guys :/
***** Yea them too. I got a brother that wants to gain muscles but can't.
Leslie Telles I dont have it with muscles but that kinda sucks.
***** guys do have issues too with weight gain. but its okay, I mean think about it:
did you know that Tom Hiddleston, that actor all those girls swoon over, *had trouble* gaining muscle? He tried to beef up to audition to play Thor, but instead got Loki because of his slim physique. He even admitted that the way his body is built it was extremely challenging to put on weight.
you're perfect no matter what you look like. there's beauty in everyone and everything you only have to look
sarah rhoads, queen of jotunheim
;)
It's weird, I literally searched up how to gain weight and I see millions of sites of saying how to lose weight kudhiuheihueiud
Christineerr same
ikr!
People come at me like "do you even eat?" AT school
What is lunch for?
Thx so much! Finally a video who talk about. My everyday problem. Yessssss
I'm skinny af, people ask if I starve myself. I'm like 😒
Edit: Kay guys, I'm 13 and my height is exactly 5 foot.
Aqua & Cookie yes I weigh 60 pounds and I’m 11 and I do not starve myself I just don’t gain any weight
@@sunnyhazedd5590 yee, I'm like 27 kg and I'm 12
Ikr its like i eat more than you guys wth?
Even a nurse whispered to me that do I starve myself to look pretty. We're both Asian so maybe she's thinking I was trying to aim for the Asian beauty standard. But this was a shock to me, I thought nurses aren't judgmental.
I’m 58 kg but I’m really tall so I’m pretty skinny and it’s uncomfortable to go clothes shopping because nothing fits
People need to understand that gaining weight is actually really hard for some people. Fat shaming is real. Skinny shaming is real. Shaming is real.
EDIT: hey guys! thank you so much for the likes
Preach it sis...it's not at all easy to gain weight😓
Sonia Thomas It is... they literally make 250ml drinks with hundreds of calories in them.
Adore You everybody is different it can be easy for you but it can be difficult for others who aren’t happy with their weight. I’m actually having a hard time gaining weight and it’s not fun. I’m always never hungry and my parents force me to eat because that’s suppose to be “normal” and I sometimes end up throwing it up. I always think, “what’s wrong with me?” Or, “people are struggling with obesity and I’m here complaining about not gaining weight?”. At the end even if it’s harder you shouldn’t overlook a problem thats bothering you just because others have it “worse”.
Period
@@blehblehbleh2714 that's literally my life,guess our parents just care about us alot
My friends started joking about how skinny I am and if I eat food, I just laughed it off and went home and started crying thankfully only one person was their who supported me he is overweight and always get joked about too I'm always their for him!
Person: *fat*
Humanity: ew!
Person: *skinny*
Humanity: you need to eat more lol
I eat like a pig and only gain fat on my belly. Nowhere else! It really bugs me because i look like a fucking stick with a lump in the middle
Same here.
+Jenz Wooz Know what you're talking about, most likely it is because you are eating more food so your stomach has stretched as opposed to actual fat on your belly. Your body will get used to the extra food and your stomach will go back to normal with time :)
Edd 96 You mean the guts?
The stomach is near the area of the heart.
omg me too so I can not wear tight shirts or everyone will think your pregnent
+LydiaHollow me too, i look like a lollypop
“do you even eat?” is the same as asking “do you really eat that much?”
*doesn’t matter if it’s skinny or fat, body shaming is body shaming.*
U forget: are u sick, what happen??
@@jewel5826 are you anorexic? Are you okay
@@jewel5826 Nooo I am saying that, thats what people say to me
@@user-ko1vn8lu2v ah yeah i get it now!!😊😊.
So How do u manage it?
I think people don't understand what we (skinny) feel . It's very sad !!!!
I'm hella proud bc of it and take advantage of all the food there is
Ugh story of my lifeeee!!! I eat SO MUCH and still haven't ever reached 100lbs..and people say oh your body is perfect you don't need to gain weight but I WANT TO! I want to feel good in the clothes that I wear. I want to gain weight for me..not for anyone else. I've tried protein, birth control, and I've been pregnant twice..still thin. It is, indeed, a struggle.
1:12 that guy was so rude lol. Imagine if she was just eating it for enjoyment🤣
You all have that one friend that is stick thin, but eats like an elephant. (Btw, me )
That's my brother actually! It's so bogus.
Yasssssss omg 😂✔️
Queen Nala me in one sentence
That's me
That's me
*And here I am, magically gain 5 pounds from watching this video* 😑
I literally eat one chip and gain like 5 pounds
Damn y’all ladies need to chill lol, everybody is beautiful the way they are.
nick sings its hard to chill when you can hardly fit in anything and people are constantly judging you
Must be nice
Ariana Asing same
THE END WAS SO CUTE !
And this is relatable af
Ooh and I love this comment section, everybody is super positive !
Ashley who tailored the dress at the end was actually touching because all through out the video there's just this people around her who sort of shame her for trying to gain weight and at the end it's just like Ashley reminded her that she love her no matter what and that made her forget her insecurity.
smh why are people saying things like "why would you want to gain weight thats bad" etc like pls stop enforcing the idea that being skinny is the ideal
It is
Donna B would you rather have huge thighs that jiggle when walking and running, or that perfect flat stomach?
would you rather have a double chin or a long, thin neck?
seriously.
Stylebreed LOL :))
Donna B It is the ideal. Fat shaming is real, and thin shaming doesn't even entirely address 'body shaming' in my opinion. You cannot oppress a culture or a trend that is dominant. I'm not saying skinny people are in no right to voice their issues, because I do believe there's bigotry against them. But you can't say that being skinny isn't the ideal that's just BS. People are more disgusted and phobic about fat than the lack thereof.
No aint true. When ingo to a swimming pool i hear to me they say about 20 times youre skinny and 0 times to my fat friend youre fat. So fat is more normal than skinny.
Why am i watching this, I would never relate to it
xxxBlue diamondxxx same
Miss Naboni I wish I was you. 😢 I hate people thinking have an eating disorder. Only small children's bracelets fit me.
Julie DeCourcey same everyone's always are you anorexic. and i'm like actually no
😊
be glad you don't. what i would give to gain weight...
I miss her & Ashly. The old Buzzfeed videos were so much better than the new stuff
This makes me cry 😭 I try to be curvy and I try to eat (not junk food)just more portions than I usually do but it ends up hurting me because if I overeat I vomit everything 😭 It took me a long time to appreciate my body and not be too concerned about people telling I'm too skinny, that I can't wear tight fitting clothing or skinny jeans or else I would look like a stick. Now I could care less about it and I enjoy life 🥰
When people ask you if you ever eat....
When people call you a stick...
When people constantly point out how 'skinny' you are but say it in an offensive way...
Then expect you not to be offended...
RIGHT?!
Omg so relatable.
After the insult I go into my bed and cry.
@Kiwii OwO 😂 Relatable
@@exhaustedciel Don't cry! You shouldn't let it get to you.
i think losing weight is just as hard as gaining weight
Maira Siddeque No, loosing weight is very easy you just need to try...
Miguel Perez 😊
Miguel Perez to gain you just have to eat
Money Niku it's really not that simple. I could eat about 5 Big Macs and still only have a the smallest food bump in my belly. It's actually very hard to eat for me as I get hungry- but I just ignore it so I don't eat. And when I do eat- it doesnt make a difference to my weight. I'm 14 and I've only gained about 10 stone since I was 7 and probably lost some of it too
Sidonay Sartorius ok i apologise
Cue Golden Girls theme. Thank you for being a friendddd!
"You know at the end of the day, nothing is wrong with your size. You're healthy, that's the important thing."
I feel like not enough people understand just how hard it can be to gain weight for people with high metabolism. I am 18 years old and I am very skinny and people always tell me I'm "skin and bones" or a "twig" that's seriously not a compliment. It would be the same as if I said you looked like a hot dog based on your body size. So to the British chick, yes it is so hard to gain weight for people like us.
yes!! i feel you. I am 14 and weigh 79 pounds. ( JV variety cross country runner) but i can eat anything
+Shaza m 79 pounds? are u sure that's healthy?
my dad's side of the family is really skinny (we are from Africa) My doctor say's it is healthy for me considering that i will be underweight from my age group. Also I love to run I will be the only freshman on the varsity team on cross-country. -sorry it is long
Shaza m oh OK I was just shocked omg
I understand ...I hate when people tell me.."omg your so skinny".. It's hard for me to gain wait
This is literally my biggest problem. I have just started to accept the fact that my body is going to be skinny and if I eat more grease, thats only gonna affect my acnes!!!!
Female world problems?
Galan L Yup!!
Marrisa plays I'm kinda a male and male world problems are their private parts in pain when wearing tight jeans. kinda like a period. No offense
Galan L Oh….. as I'm a Female, I cannot in anyway judge that but, I'm sure both the genders go through a lots of things throughout their life……..
Marrisa plays meh
“Why are you eating so much?” 😂
1:31 I relate to. People need to stop body shaming and assuming that others have it easy because of their size. It doesn't matter what size your are as long as u r confident in your own skin if u want to change your wieght to feel more confident dont let anyone make u feel bad or guilty for wanting to change. As long as u r comfortable in your own skin dont let anyone make u feel different.