I don't even know if I meant to be single for the rest of my life. I'm 35 years old never married never had kids. I enjoy life If I am meant to find a spouse that would be great. If not I will enjoy my electronics I always dreamed of owning as a teenager money in the Bank Bill's paid off enjoy my hobbies praise God I'm blessed 😇
Oh girl your timing, wow. I’ve been talking to Him about my singleness lately and honestly if I stayed single forever I’m now ok with that because I know I have the love of Jesus and if that’s the only love I have for the rest of my life I am ok with that 💞
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m 17, going into my freshman year at college and I’ve never dated, had a boyfriend, or anything of the sort. I feel pressured because all of my friends are dating, some getting married.. and girl that fear creeps in!! I need to put my trust in God’s plan for me. He is #1 always. I’m joyful in this moment because I have Jesus in my heart. I know God will bring the right guy into my life at the right time and I don’t need to obsess or stress about it ❤️
Thank you!!!!!! I’m only a teen but I needed the reminder that Jesus IS ENOUGH FOR ME!!!! I sometimes believe the lie that if I mess up or sin, God is mad at me or something bad will happen. Thank you for your words and God bless you!!! God loves you whoever is reading this and don’t give up! JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON! (Could you guys pray for my family and friends? They need Jesus!)
I'm not single but even when you're in a relationship its important to remember that that person doesn't fulfill you!! Only Jesus can! Needed that reminder. Reading all the comments and it's amazing to see how God works. This reminds me of a story that my dad told me when I was hopelessly single and longing for a relationship... My (step) grandpa was single his whole life pretty much, dedicated to ministry work, but he wanted a wife so so so badly. He would start a relationship but find it didn't work out and he was left hopeless again, and the cycle continued. He did ministry, but for a while was a means to the end of finding a woman. My grandpa told my dad (when telling him this same story), that it wasn't until he fully surrendered himself to God and said "If it's God's will that I stay single and be dedicated full time to ministry, then that is God's will" that God brought my dad's mom into his life. Oftentimes, God wants to give you these good and precious gifts, but is waiting for you to surrender it to Him, to give your heart to Him first and foremost, above and before everything else. That doesn't mean God is counting your heart or that you are owed anything from God. But His plan is always perfect and He loves you!
please pray for me. i’m starting to feel hopeless about my faith, my walk with God, my loneliness, whether im even capable of having a godly marriage, a lot of things really. i know that all of this is being placed in my mind by the deceiver so i will not give into those lies but it’s been so hard lately and i feel horrible and only God can help me. god bless u guys
@@AmberDennis001 when you experience sex with the "special"guy you will realise that this moment don't last forever and that this moment is so holy and you give it at that some guy who doesn't respect you enough to marry you and doesn't love you as Jesus died for you at cross. He died for us Sister of Christ He died. No man on this earth has done that.
@@AmberDennis001 the Instagram life is fake. Everything this world gives you that will promises you happiness is nothing but smoke and mirrors. It’s all temporary: sex, money, status, power, fame, beauty etc. They can never ever fill the void in our hearts that *only* Christ can fill💕
ohh I’m sure I’ll enjoy this video ☺️ I mean, I already “know“ that I’m happy and fulfilled without a guy on my side (no one beats Jesus 😉), but sometimes it‘s hard to let that sink in right into your heart and it feels so good to hear it again (especially from someone I trust on these kind of topics lol!!)
I was dumped after 10 years back in February. I'm slowly getting back on my feet. I do feel scared every day that I will be on my own forever. But hopefully I will be OK
You may not need a relationship to be happy, but it sure wouldn't hurt! I recognize that we need to learn to be content in the Lord Jesus, but human feelings are so strong it's difficult to not struggle with them!
You are such an inspiration 🥰 Honestly I have been struggling with singleness for a while especially because I have this desire for marriage and family in my heart but yes I do also strongly believe that Gods timing is always perfect ... Thanks sister for your great advice and may God bless you and keep you through your good works 🙏
MUCH needed singleness talk! I've been struggling with wondering if I will ever get married and the list goes on. Praise God that He lead me to your video today to remind me that I need to put God first above everything else. Thank you!!
Recently got out of an amazing Christ centered relationship and it’s soo hard for me 😭😭he ended things because he wasn’t physically attracted to me anymore. I literally fast and pray constantly and the pain won’t go away. 😭
Sister don't worry it will go away pain goes away but know that Jesus NEVER goes away. HE STAYS HE REALLY DOES AND ONLY IF YOU WANT THAT HE STAYS HE STAYS. Ive been there and when you realise that a man will easily let go than let him. He doesn't deserve any minute with you.
I needed this right now. God should always first in every area in my life and should be enough and my best friend. I am going to apply and have trust and faith in Him more than myself. ❤❤
Dear God🙏♥️💕 in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness. I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin. You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved. Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.
I'm glad you said we shouldn't lower standards just cuz we think we're getting older and it seems like time is running out cuz I was just doing that recently. I was about to settle for less.
This video has come in such a perfect timing...for the past one week I have been praying on what to do about my relationship. I've kept going back to my boyfriend even after he as repeatedly hurt me and doesnt seem to make any effort in our relationship only because I'm afraid of being alone. Thankfully God has given me the strength to acknowledge that he has something better planned for me in the future and all I have to do is trust in him .
nastasia thank you ❤️ I found your TH-cam channel at the perfect time ! I was fresh in college and struggling with singleness. Your fruitful videos got me through some of the biggest challenges I faced. May God continue to bless you with your remarkable voice + platform. You are a light in this dark world .
Hello, This has already been said many times. But I really do think God used your video. I know that I should be content. And yet I still try to plan what guy is going to be best, even though I say to myself I know God's plan is perfect even if I'm single. This video made me realize I am trying to be content in hopes that the sooner I become content, the sooner I can get married. (As opposed to being content in God because he is enough for me.) After realizing this, I prayed that God would give me peace, contentedness, and full commitment to him. Not for my own gain, but for his glory. I desire God's will to be done so dearly. "For I am confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." Philippians 1:6 May the Lord God bless you. I agree with everything you said. Jesus IS the way, the truth, and the life.
I’m struggling with this. I just turned 27 and still single. Thank you for this video. I am struggling with lust and tempted to give it away to a random guy but at the same time don’t plan too. How can she relate at a young age? I wish I could be a wife and experience the gift of Intimacy with one man forever.
So true you don't have to leave your house .My battery in my car died and called roadside assistance and the guy was hinting around that he liked me lol .I think he was a little too young for me but I think it was a sign that you can meet someone without leaving your house lol .Thanks for this wonderful video btw
Thank you so much for this wonderful reminder! Last year around October, the lonliness and the fear that I was never going to find someone was at an all-time high and I still remember the pain I felt so vividly. I've been single all my life and even now have never had a boyfriend. So many of your videos were super helpful to me in that time and praise Jesus that I'm now at a point where I'm content with the Lord being enough. I say this to myself so often that if I'm meant to be married, God will work it out and if not, that's totally okay because God knows what's best. Thank you so much for your videos, Stas!
Thank you for this I’ve been struggling with being lonely, whilst everyone else has someone however thank you for reminding me that God is my number one .
Thank you so much for this Nastasia! Also, it's great to hear that you're managing reasonably well getting off antidepressants and detoxing. I pray things continue to progress well for you and your health.
I love how much wisdom you always share in these videos! One day we will all see how crazy it was that we ever spent so much time worrying about being in the right place at the right time. As my friend reminded me recently we serve the Author of Time.
Omg I needed this video!! I had a dream last night that I was getting married to an unbeliever and it bothered me then this pops up😭 Thank you !! With love in Christ
The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💖💕💕💕💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
wow wow WOW!! So much truth in this video! Praying for God’s best for my life wether I’m single or not. So thankful for your videos and how you let your light shine for Jesus ❤️ SO inspirational!! Thank you for this!!
i love this video oh my goodness - im so fond of u and how the Holy Spirit uses you 🤍 keep doing this kinds of videos if its God's will much love for you natasia ❤️
I'm not fine with being single forever. It's the worst feeling in the world. Jesus is great but he can't hold me at night and excuse me for being graphic have sex with me. There's a piece of me that will ALWAYS be missing without my human male soulmate! 32 and STILL waiting!
6.50 That’s why I don’t pray for my future husband. There is no guarantee that I will be married. I would rather just pray to be close to Christ. I’ll pray for my future husband when I start dating someone. I wanted to be married by 25. About to be 26, just went through my first and only break up and feeling sad.
Why does any Christian get married? Everyone claims that they were so content and satisfied in Christ I don't understand why you would get married when you were so content being single?
If you don't have the gift of singleness you won't be happy without a relationship at some point. You can surrender your desire for a relationship for a season, but ultimately if you never develop that relationship you'll never be happy in the truest sense!
The obvious question would be, since you recently got married, why not choose a life of singleness if all you need is Jesus?? If it's a good for me but not for thee type of thing then it absolutely makes no sense in dispensing advice exhorting others to be single when you haven't exactly chosen that for yourself. You said that you didn't want to be alone, well that's most everyone else hun. Jesus is not the one and only thing that you need to live a balanced, integrated and whole life that includes, work, play, achievement, friends, and yes......a lover or partner because ALL these things add immeaurably to one's over-all existence. You are young but when you mature more you will see that to be true, to not unnecessarily shortchange yourself in all the things that define what a good life in terms of health, wholeness, and well-being can bring.
This video was seriously a sign from God that I needed 😳 His timing ♥️
Awww that's awesome!!
Same sis
@@NastasiaGrace 💕💕
Same for me... I have a friend struggling with this
Me too gal😳
I don't even know if I meant to be single for the rest of my life. I'm 35 years old never married never had kids. I enjoy life If I am meant to find a spouse that would be great. If not I will enjoy my electronics I always dreamed of owning as a teenager money in the Bank Bill's paid off enjoy my hobbies praise God I'm blessed 😇
Oh girl your timing, wow. I’ve been talking to Him about my singleness lately and honestly if I stayed single forever I’m now ok with that because I know I have the love of Jesus and if that’s the only love I have for the rest of my life I am ok with that 💞
The worldly people seem to have a really fun exciting life …they have lots of friends……I am a Christian I should not envy
The maturity that the Lord allows us to develop while we’re single is so paramount to a successful courtship, and future marriage!!!
Thank you so much for sharing this. I’m 17, going into my freshman year at college and I’ve never dated, had a boyfriend, or anything of the sort. I feel pressured because all of my friends are dating, some getting married.. and girl that fear creeps in!! I need to put my trust in God’s plan for me. He is #1 always. I’m joyful in this moment because I have Jesus in my heart. I know God will bring the right guy into my life at the right time and I don’t need to obsess or stress about it ❤️
Im having trouble believing that I could be happy without someone. I feel suicidal every day.
Thank you!!!!!! I’m only a teen but I needed the reminder that Jesus IS ENOUGH FOR ME!!!! I sometimes believe the lie that if I mess up or sin, God is mad at me or something bad will happen. Thank you for your words and God bless you!!! God loves you whoever is reading this and don’t give up! JESUS IS COMING BACK SOON! (Could you guys pray for my family and friends? They need Jesus!)
I'm not single but even when you're in a relationship its important to remember that that person doesn't fulfill you!! Only Jesus can! Needed that reminder. Reading all the comments and it's amazing to see how God works. This reminds me of a story that my dad told me when I was hopelessly single and longing for a relationship... My (step) grandpa was single his whole life pretty much, dedicated to ministry work, but he wanted a wife so so so badly. He would start a relationship but find it didn't work out and he was left hopeless again, and the cycle continued. He did ministry, but for a while was a means to the end of finding a woman. My grandpa told my dad (when telling him this same story), that it wasn't until he fully surrendered himself to God and said "If it's God's will that I stay single and be dedicated full time to ministry, then that is God's will" that God brought my dad's mom into his life. Oftentimes, God wants to give you these good and precious gifts, but is waiting for you to surrender it to Him, to give your heart to Him first and foremost, above and before everything else. That doesn't mean God is counting your heart or that you are owed anything from God. But His plan is always perfect and He loves you!
But I know of some people who did all of those things and still never found a spouse! Sometimes his will is for perpetual singleness!
please pray for me. i’m starting to feel hopeless about my faith, my walk with God, my loneliness, whether im even capable of having a godly marriage, a lot of things really. i know that all of this is being placed in my mind by the deceiver so i will not give into those lies but it’s been so hard lately and i feel horrible and only God can help me. god bless u guys
If I'm single FOR REST OF MY LIFE I'm fine with that ☺️❤️🙏
I would not be but do what makes you happy. I hope to experience sex with that special guy but everyone should live their life as they please
@@AmberDennis001 when you experience sex with the "special"guy you will realise that this moment don't last forever and that this moment is so holy and you give it at that some guy who doesn't respect you enough to marry you and doesn't love you as Jesus died for you at cross. He died for us Sister of Christ He died. No man on this earth has done that.
@@anarogic7839 I want to be that girl in a few years with a career, good husband, and a pregnancy announcement on Instagram
@@AmberDennis001 I want too believe me but life goes on even if I don't have somebody near me. I have Jesus.
@@AmberDennis001 the Instagram life is fake. Everything this world gives you that will promises you happiness is nothing but smoke and mirrors. It’s all temporary: sex, money, status, power, fame, beauty etc. They can never ever fill the void in our hearts that *only* Christ can fill💕
ohh I’m sure I’ll enjoy this video ☺️
I mean, I already “know“ that I’m happy and fulfilled without a guy on my side (no one beats Jesus 😉), but sometimes it‘s hard to let that sink in right into your heart and it feels so good to hear it again (especially from someone I trust on these kind of topics lol!!)
I totally understand! Thank you so much!
I was dumped after 10 years back in February. I'm slowly getting back on my feet. I do feel scared every day that I will be on my own forever. But hopefully I will be OK
You may not need a relationship to be happy, but it sure wouldn't hurt! I recognize that we need to learn to be content in the Lord Jesus, but human feelings are so strong it's difficult to not struggle with them!
“You are safe as child of God, with your father.” 🥺❤️
You are such an inspiration 🥰
Honestly I have been struggling with singleness for a while especially because I have this desire for marriage and family in my heart but yes I do also strongly believe that Gods timing is always perfect ...
Thanks sister for your great advice and may God bless you and keep you through your good works 🙏
MUCH needed singleness talk! I've been struggling with wondering if I will ever get married and the list goes on. Praise God that He lead me to your video today to remind me that I need to put God first above everything else. Thank you!!
Recently got out of an amazing Christ centered relationship and it’s soo hard for me 😭😭he ended things because he wasn’t physically attracted to me anymore. I literally fast and pray constantly and the pain won’t go away. 😭
Sister don't worry it will go away pain goes away but know that Jesus NEVER goes away. HE STAYS HE REALLY DOES AND ONLY IF YOU WANT THAT HE STAYS HE STAYS. Ive been there and when you realise that a man will easily let go than let him. He doesn't deserve any minute with you.
You are so well spoken, sis💕 raw and uncut
I needed this right now. God should always first in every area in my life and should be enough and my best friend. I am going to apply and have trust and faith in Him more than myself. ❤❤
Dear God🙏♥️💕 in heaven, I come to you in the name of Jesus. I acknowledge to You that I am a sinner, and I am sorry for my sins and the life that I have lived; I need your forgiveness.
I believe that your only begotten Son Jesus Christ shed His precious blood on the cross at Calvary and died for my sins, and I am now willing to turn from my sin.
You said in the bible that if we confess the Lord our God and believe in our hearts that God raised Jesus from the dead, we shall be saved.
Right now I confess Jesus as my Lord. With my heart, I believe that God raised Jesus from the dead. This very moment I accept Jesus Christ as my own personal Savior and according to His Word, right now I am saved. Amen.
I'm glad you said we shouldn't lower standards just cuz we think we're getting older and it seems like time is running out cuz I was just doing that recently. I was about to settle for less.
This video has come in such a perfect timing...for the past one week I have been praying on what to do about my relationship. I've kept going back to my boyfriend even after he as repeatedly hurt me and doesnt seem to make any effort in our relationship only because I'm afraid of being alone. Thankfully God has given me the strength to acknowledge that he has something better planned for me in the future and all I have to do is trust in him .
nastasia thank you ❤️
I found your TH-cam channel at the perfect time ! I was fresh in college and struggling with singleness. Your fruitful videos got me through some of the biggest challenges I faced. May God continue to bless you with your remarkable voice + platform. You are a light in this dark world .
Awww thank you so so much!
Hello, This has already been said many times. But I really do think God used your video. I know that I should be content. And yet I still try to plan what guy is going to be best, even though I say to myself I know God's plan is perfect even if I'm single. This video made me realize I am trying to be content in hopes that the sooner I become content, the sooner I can get married. (As opposed to being content in God because he is enough for me.)
After realizing this, I prayed that God would give me peace, contentedness, and full commitment to him. Not for my own gain, but for his glory. I desire God's will to be done so dearly.
"For I am confident of this very thing, that he who began a good work in you will perfect it until the day of Christ Jesus." Philippians 1:6
May the Lord God bless you.
I agree with everything you said.
Jesus IS the way, the truth, and the life.
I’m struggling with this. I just turned 27 and still single. Thank you for this video. I am struggling with lust and tempted to give it away to a random guy but at the same time don’t plan too. How can she relate at a young age? I wish I could be a wife and experience the gift of Intimacy with one man forever.
She’s 26
You do know that the average age for women to marry is 27? Men 29. You right on track.
Says the one in a relationship..
But I see where you are coming from
I’m with Jesus and that’s all the matters 🙏
I’m ok with being single forever!! I got Jesus and W.W.J.D. Bracelets to give.
Girl the timing…God is always working
I love all the points you made!! and I really liked how you laid out the video too, I always love hearing how God has answered prayers 💗
Your channel inspired to make christian videos too! Thank you so much for being bold
So true you don't have to leave your house .My battery in my car died and called roadside assistance and the guy was hinting around that he liked me lol .I think he was a little too young for me but I think it was a sign that you can meet someone without leaving your house lol .Thanks for this wonderful video btw
Nastasia's husband is also a bit younger than her!
@@conniek1039 😊
God knew I neeededd to hear this 🙏🏾. Thank you for speaking truth over the lies of the enemy
you're so right 🥺 this is overwhelming to know.... Jesus IS indeed enough): 🤍
Thank you so much for this wonderful reminder! Last year around October, the lonliness and the fear that I was never going to find someone was at an all-time high and I still remember the pain I felt so vividly. I've been single all my life and even now have never had a boyfriend. So many of your videos were super helpful to me in that time and praise Jesus that I'm now at a point where I'm content with the Lord being enough. I say this to myself so often that if I'm meant to be married, God will work it out and if not, that's totally okay because God knows what's best. Thank you so much for your videos, Stas!
Thank you, Nas. This video came in perfect timing. ❤️ God is always working.
“Which coffee shop do I need to go to” 🤣 girl isn’t this the truth! I have tried to manipulate things so much, it’s pathetic!
Thank you for this I’ve been struggling with being lonely, whilst everyone else has someone however thank you for reminding me that God is my number one .
Thank you so much for this Nastasia! Also, it's great to hear that you're managing reasonably well getting off antidepressants and detoxing. I pray things continue to progress well for you and your health.
I love how much wisdom you always share in these videos! One day we will all see how crazy it was that we ever spent so much time worrying about being in the right place at the right time. As my friend reminded me recently we serve the Author of Time.
Omg I needed this video!! I had a dream last night that I was getting married to an unbeliever and it bothered me then this pops up😭 Thank you !!
With love in Christ
The Gospel of salvation of our souls: 💜💕💜💖💖💕💕💕💞💜💕For what I received I passed on to you as of [first importance]: that Christ died for our sins according to the Scriptures, that he was buried, that he was raised on the third day according to the Scriptures, and that he appeared to Peter, and then to the Twelve. After that, he appeared to more than five hundred of the brothers and sisters at the same time,
Preach it, sister!
A no makeup cutieee 🥺 I love your inspiration for singles vids 💕
I liked this vídeo!! I felt like we were good friends talking. Hahah
wow wow WOW!! So much truth in this video! Praying for God’s best for my life wether I’m single or not. So thankful for your videos and how you let your light shine for Jesus ❤️ SO inspirational!! Thank you for this!!
I thank GOD for you be blessed!!!
I don't really need this, but still, it was good to watch.
Thankyou, your videos are really helpful and encouraging ❤️
watched the promo ofcc
Great video
Nastasia your honesty is so valued by us all. Thank you for this much needed pep talk! Also - your hair always looks good ;)
i love this video oh my goodness - im so fond of u and how the Holy Spirit uses you 🤍 keep doing this kinds of videos if its God's will
much love for you natasia ❤️
Thank you.
A new video!!!! Yayyyyy😘y!!!!!!!!
Your videos are so relatable and helpful ❤
Such great advice Nastasia!!
I really needed this!
Exactly what I needed to hear
thank you for this!!
Thanks Natasia for sharing.
I needed this video. Thank you 🙏🌹❤
I bought the beef liver because of your review, hope it works🙏
yay!!! i love it so much!!
Thank you Nastasia 😊.
This video is soo good! Thank you for the advice :)
Thank you for this
Definately
I'm not fine with being single forever. It's the worst feeling in the world. Jesus is great but he can't hold me at night and excuse me for being graphic have sex with me. There's a piece of me that will ALWAYS be missing without my human male soulmate! 32 and STILL waiting!
Amen. I love your comment. The realest comment I've read. I want my female soulmate.
THIS🎉 Also add children to the mix
6.50 That’s why I don’t pray for my future husband. There is no guarantee that I will be married. I would rather just pray to be close to Christ. I’ll pray for my future husband when I start dating someone.
I wanted to be married by 25. About to be 26, just went through my first and only break up and feeling sad.
Why does any Christian get married? Everyone claims that they were so content and satisfied in Christ I don't understand why you would get married when you were so content being single?
You can’t have sex, kids, or live with someone of the opposite gender if single.
I want a future family
If you don't have the gift of singleness you won't be happy without a relationship at some point. You can surrender your desire for a relationship for a season, but ultimately if you never develop that relationship you'll never be happy in the truest sense!
💓💓💓
All I can say is 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
So pretty
The obvious question would be, since you recently got married, why not choose a life of singleness if all you need is Jesus?? If it's a good for me but not for thee type of thing then it absolutely makes no sense in dispensing advice exhorting others to be single when you haven't exactly chosen that for yourself. You said that you didn't want to be alone, well that's most everyone else hun. Jesus is not the one and only thing that you need to live a balanced, integrated and whole life that includes, work, play, achievement, friends, and yes......a lover or partner because ALL these things add immeaurably to one's over-all existence. You are young but when you mature more you will see that to be true, to not unnecessarily shortchange yourself in all the things that define what a good life in terms of health, wholeness, and well-being can bring.
They always do this. " Being single is great!.... BUT not for me, yall be safe" 😂😂😂😂