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  • @DossFarm
    @DossFarm  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Little Brother’s New Channel! th-cam.com/video/FsqIG0GjMG8/w-d-xo.htmlsi=belw9I1n2xM9jt-U

  • @amandarippee3785
    @amandarippee3785 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +117

    Hey Chad, I am a marriage and family therapist that specializes in Christian counseling for those who have experienced severe trauma. I want you to know that your reaction is normal. I am sure you have heard that from others many times. But, wanted to be another to add to the validation. Trauma makes us do crazy things. We are all here praying for your healing and the rest of the family. It will not always feel this intense and at some point that hyper vigilance will decrease. Thank you for trusting all of us with what you and your family are going through!

    • @bettyhutcheson9318
      @bettyhutcheson9318 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      Takes a real man Chad to go for help. God Bless you and all the Doss families.

  • @alittlelessdisappointed.9689
    @alittlelessdisappointed.9689 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +221

    The danger was real! PTSD is real. Time and other help will be needed. I worry about all of you. Don't let Case fool you...Former behavioral therapist and mental health counselor. I am proud and concerned for all. There is NO shame! Heal as a family.

    • @lizzieturbeville4089
      @lizzieturbeville4089 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      And sometimes it takes a while before it surfaces. My sister was there when Dad had a stroke and it took a bit but I think what she had to see, she has some trauma from it, etc.

    • @dorisnelson9573
      @dorisnelson9573 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@lizzieturbeville4089m in

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +24

      ​@@cliff4695inappropriate and out of context.

    • @cremebrulee4759
      @cremebrulee4759 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      Absolutely. Thank you for giving professional advice.

    • @donnaelkins186
      @donnaelkins186 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤😊

  • @patriciap8323
    @patriciap8323 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +134

    Chad, you don’t owe an explanation for your feelings. What you lived through definitely qualifies for a diagnosis of PTSD. Remember the poem “Footprints in the Sand”. “When you saw only one set of footprints, it was then that I carried you”! The Lord is always present. God bless and prayers!!

    • @cathy_p637
      @cathy_p637 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

      I carry a "Footprints" card in my purse at all times. It's amazing to me the number of times I have been having rough days and I happen to see that card and am reminded that God is always there.

    • @maryjemisonMaryjay1936
      @maryjemisonMaryjay1936 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      @@cathy_p637Amen 🙏

  • @donnabasile829
    @donnabasile829 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Chad--What I know about surviving a trauma is that it gets hard wired in our bodies and triggers us to be hyper vigilant 24/7. What you are sharing makes perfect sense and I'm glad you have a therapist, the willingness to be vulnerable/real and share your experience
    with us! You are loved, appreciated, respected, and prayed for daily-as is your family:)Give yourself grace and be gentle with yourself!

  • @bettyflinchbaugh3731
    @bettyflinchbaugh3731 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +111

    Don't let some of these people get you down, everybody deals with hardships and grief in different ways. When you get back to a normal routine you won't wake up in middle of night or feel emotional anymore. Be patient with yourself and let yourself heal at your own pace. God Bless you and your family!

    • @shaztrip
      @shaztrip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Bless you too Betty, nice comment!

  • @deannazandi1797
    @deannazandi1797 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +69

    HELLO DOSS FAMILY, GOD LED ME TO YOUR PLATFORM. I WAS SO BLESSED TO FIND YOU. I'VE BEEN COVERING YOUR FAMILY, 2 LEGGED & 4 LEGGED. I LOVE HOW GOD LEADS US TO WHERE WE NEED TO BE. TAKE A DEEP BREATH KNOWING GODS PLANS FOR YA'LL WILL OVER RIDE THE DEVIIL. PRESS INTO GOD, HE IS THE ALPHA THE OMEGA, THE HEALER OF ALL. MAY GOD LEAD YOUR FAMILY BEYOND YOUR EXCEPTIONS. AMEN. 🙏😇🙏😇🙏😇🙏

  • @jennsenchantedforesthomestead
    @jennsenchantedforesthomestead 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +60

    When the piggies were running to Dad to tattletale on the goats stealing their food? Absolutely adorable! Not the stealing of course lol

  • @melanih2621
    @melanih2621 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +101

    UNTILL you been through something like they have, you wouldn’t be saying grow up you should say PRAYERS TO YOU AND FAMILY! 💜

    • @shaztrip
      @shaztrip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Yes.... compete 'Arse swipe'

  • @tracywilliams4907
    @tracywilliams4907 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +80

    Chad you have the right to feel the way you feel. No one has the right to tell you otherwise.❤

  • @lyndapattison5023
    @lyndapattison5023 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Chad the person who told you to grow up has never been through what you have, I had a neighbor who was a firefighter, breakdown when him and his family escaped from their burning house, it has been years since it happens and he still often breaks down. Keeping you and your family in my thoughts and prayers

  • @nursebetsy5205
    @nursebetsy5205 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +103

    PTSD is an disorder. Teams is real. Grown men need help sometimes. God Bell you and your family.

  • @marthasarbeck2770
    @marthasarbeck2770 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    HELLO CHAD AND FAMILY. I JUST WANT TO SAY IT TAKES A FULL GROWN MAN .TO RELIZE HOW BLESSED HE WAS THAT HIS ENTIRE FAMILY WAS SAVED (GLORY TO GOD) AND THERE IS NOT ANY SHAME IN SHOWING RAW EMOTIONS FOR KNOWING HOW GREAT FULL HE IS.YES THE LOSS IS HUGH BUT THE BLESSINGS ARE MANY .AND GOD HAS MANY MORE BLESSINGS FOR THIS FAMILY. ❤❤❤❤❤

    • @debrezo58
      @debrezo58 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Amen🙏

  • @michelemckellop8686
    @michelemckellop8686 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +155

    Keeping you all in my prayers, each day is a blessing, we all have from time to time a hikup or a test of our faith, I lost my spouse 12 days later my youngest brother to cancer in 3 years time I lost my mom, my oldest sister and my niece, , looking back I know it was God that got me though , you all are part of my family in Christ, God Bless and take each day as it comes

    • @sandydugenske299
      @sandydugenske299 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      I know exactly what you went thru. Within 7 yrs I also lost my entire family. My sister, then my dad, mom's fiance, my baby sister, her fiance, then my mom. Within that time I also lost my mother-in-law. Last yr I lost my father-in-law. When I was 1 yr old I lost my older sister. I'm still trying to deal with all the losses. Never thought I'd out live everyone.

    • @debrasimons5599
      @debrasimons5599 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +13

      I'm so sorry for what you have been through. I will be praying for you and your family 💞🙏🙏🙏🤗💖💞 You know when the Lord took my husband Home almost 10 years ago I got tired of saying that I lost my husband and I started thinking about it and I started thinking, I didn't lose him because I know exactly where he is. He is with our Savior Jesus Christ and with the Angels in heaven and there's no more pain. He is with his mom and dad and brothers and sisters and everyone who went before him. I felt the same way when the Lord took my mother Home also, yes I grieved, but I know that they are in a much better place. My husband had had 4 major strokes and the last 2 were a month apart and they brought on Parkinson's and Dementia and he had minor strokes also. He became locked inside a body that he could not move or speak or anything. But he still knew who his son and I was. In the end he was ready to go Home. I had told him that I know that we will be together again when the Lord is ready for me.
      I hope that this will help you some. I will definitely have you in my thoughts and prayers always.
      God Bless You and Your Family and Please ALWAYS REMEMBER TO ALWAYS RIDE WITH THE LORD EVERYONE.💞🙏🤗🙏💖💕

    • @sandydugenske299
      @sandydugenske299 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@debrasimons5599 that is so true. The way you say you didn't lose him. ..you know exactly where he is. That is a good way to look at it. Thank you

    • @dawnvoss2025
      @dawnvoss2025 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      AMEN!!!!! Chad God is good all the time!!!!

    • @shaztrip
      @shaztrip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I know the feeling. I lost my one and only brother in 2017, he was the first born, he suffered from depression.
      Our father had a massive stroke in 2015, and after 12 months of serious rehab, ended up unable to walk, well his whole left hand side of his body was immobilized. He got himself an electric wheelchair and got around that way. Dad was put into a nursing home locally to me.
      My Mum took it very hard as they were so co-dependant, on a dairy farm all of their life until they retired, they did everthing together.
      Mum was diagnosed with dementia not too long after. I quit my job to take care of her until she too was moved into the nursing home with Dad. My sons at the time were 13 & 14 yr's old, my husband worked away alot, very stressful time.
      My Dad passed in May of 2021, 2 days after my younger sister's B'Day, Mum passed 23 days later on my B'Day. Then September last year, my older sister passed away (heart attack) a few days after our brothers birthdate. So now left is myself and younger sister! Everyone handles loss/grief differently, but with great support and time, it does get better.
      Very sad on festive occasions and birthdays, always remember your loved ones through great times and bad.
      XXOO

  • @cherylharrison6588
    @cherylharrison6588 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +43

    Congratulations on your new Clayton home. You are so right when you said “GOD is Good” and I can see why you said that your land is the place to go to for peace. I felt that way when I lived in Arkansas. My prayers will continue for you and your family. May GOD Bless You and Your Family.

  • @kayparks8382
    @kayparks8382 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +74

    Chad when I was in 5th grade many many moons ago we saw my uncles house burn. We were in town at a ballgame and the flames we high enough that everyone saw it. They lost everything!! That’s been over 50 years ago but we still talk about it. It was soooo traumatic for them. Talking about it is therapy for them. So don’t apologize for the PTSD or anything else you are going thru!! We are here for you and will listen!! And have been praying for y’all and will continue to do so.

    • @cherie623
      @cherie623 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Our house burned down many moons ago. It was in the middle of the night. My mom was at work. My older siblings made sure we all got out. The only good thing that came out of it was my parents got back together 😊

    • @PreppingAngel
      @PreppingAngel 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I totally understand. We lost our home in 2012. We lost everything including antiques from my mother and dad. We still haven't totally recovered and storms with lightening still really bother me. They freak me out bad.

  • @barbaradaugherty9626
    @barbaradaugherty9626 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +57

    Having a 6 foot window in front of the toilet may not seem bad in you situation, but it might not be too funny if one day one of donkeys or cows are standing there staring at you!

    • @DossFarm
      @DossFarm  10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

      Little Donk saying howdy through the window during my morning pee 😂

    • @patricklaroche7705
      @patricklaroche7705 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      Keep going I now what you going through

    • @patricklaroche7705
      @patricklaroche7705 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

      ❤❤❤❤❤❤

    • @Hennessey5150
      @Hennessey5150 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Lmao ❤

    • @joanlilley3123
      @joanlilley3123 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

      Having your home damaged by fire or hurricane is enough to give anyone PTSD. I have gone thru both so I can relate to your reaction! Going in the cabin, breathing in the smoke residue, will stay with you for awhile. See your doctor about that nasal congression.

  • @ReneeLewis-sv6xp
    @ReneeLewis-sv6xp 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I cry when you cry, Chad.
    It really says something for your TH-cam family, though, because you're comfortable enough with us to show your emotions.
    We truly do love your family.

  • @cherylmillard2067
    @cherylmillard2067 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +51

    Chad, hypervigilance IS part of the PTSD thing, I've been through it, the tapes from that experience will play over and over again, and again, and again, they will eventually and gradually fade. You will get through it, but you won't ever get over it, the trauma will lessen over time in years, events will set it off again and again. You will be ok. People who tell you to get over it or grow up have either no idea what PTSD entails or their experience has been entirely different.

    • @shaztrip
      @shaztrip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Exactly!

    • @dianesullivan1047
      @dianesullivan1047 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Or are totally buttheads

  • @lindaf1817
    @lindaf1817 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    My parents had a modular home. They built a crawl space under most of the house, but did a very small basement area to work as a storm shelter. Worked out great.

  • @wandagetz966
    @wandagetz966 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +73

    Im a trauma specialist. I work in addictions. Of course what you experienced was traumatic. Please process your trauma, grieve your home, the life you thought you were going to have in that home. Allow your feelings, allow your process. Forgive yourself, because you have nothing to feel guilty about,❤️. ,

  • @barbaraholzimmer3291
    @barbaraholzimmer3291 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +44

    I love how the troops all come when you call! Tipsy sure knows how to wield her horns!

  • @caroldepaul2497
    @caroldepaul2497 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Chad , since the morning of the fire my grandma heart has been pounding! I thank God that the roof on you & Rae’s building was wrong ! I’ve been so grateful that you were all together & not separated! Case would of been alone or with the younger boys ! God was watching over your beautiful family ! The outcome could of been tragic ! You will all be fine & another living situation found ! God bless you all ! Give your worries to the Lord @ thank him for holding your hands thru this !

  • @zandrawostel5868
    @zandrawostel5868 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +174

    You can't have something like a house fire not affect you and have mental repercussions. What all of you are going through is a natural response to a traumatic event. I'm new to your channel but have started following your story. Thank you for putting it out for those that are following along.

    • @venidamcdaniel1913
      @venidamcdaniel1913 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

      @@bobbydee1187they won’t say other than there was a reason.

    • @nancybladsacker5357
      @nancybladsacker5357 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +33

      It’s none of our business if they want us to know they will tell us. Just keep it them in your prayers and support them.

    • @sweetleaf9668
      @sweetleaf9668 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

      Well said and true.

    • @bobbydee1187
      @bobbydee1187 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

      @@venidamcdaniel1913 If we knew, It might Save someone’s life. That’s what I’m thinking.
      Oh well. I have a good idea anyway. Thank you for your response.

    • @venidamcdaniel1913
      @venidamcdaniel1913 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

      @@bobbydee1187 👍

  • @sun.wolf19
    @sun.wolf19 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    Put it in God's hands, he will help to guide you in your good times and in your troubling times. Prayers from Western New York

  • @chuckyknarf3849
    @chuckyknarf3849 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +25

    PTSD is a very real thing, I suffer from it myself. I can’t wait to see your new home. With your round bales make sure you don’t leave them on their side as they can roll on smaller animals and crush them. Omg the puppies are so adorable ❤

  • @loisarrowood9733
    @loisarrowood9733 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +35

    Hello Doss Family. Continued prayers for you.

  • @lorishaw4923
    @lorishaw4923 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +22

    Chad talking about what happened is very healthy and a way of healing whether it be a death or a loss of someone or something . Holding it in is not healthy so please continue to share with us .

  • @anitafunk5214
    @anitafunk5214 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +27

    You are doing really well considering what you've been through. It takes time, and people who don't understand can get lost. You and your family are all that matter

    • @shaztrip
      @shaztrip 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Good comment!

  • @sandangels73
    @sandangels73 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    PTSD is very real. I've been living with a severe case of it since I was 14. I'm 50 now. I know some people can recover pretty well, but for some, like me, it is a lifelong debilitating illness. Give yourself what you need to recover. Don't try to be a hero and ignore your needs, we're all just human and we all need help sometimes, even if it's just self-help.

  • @Arleen1010
    @Arleen1010 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +20

    Awesome news that they are able to speed up the process. Puppies are so cute. Continued prayers for your beautiful family.

  • @BNewfoundland
    @BNewfoundland 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Hey Chad: grieve is real and necessary to travel through. I’ve been there. Sometimes it takes longer or shorter depending on the trauma. God will see you, Rae and the boys through this. Everyone given the same circumstances will react in their own way. We stand along side of you during this time. I say again Blessings. ♥️
    It’s actually wonderful to see animals run across the field at your call. It will be a joyous occasion when your home is placed on your land. ❤❤Blessings

  • @janetstevens5990
    @janetstevens5990 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +31

    I loved when Adler used to say Welcome to Howdy at the other property

  • @jennbama
    @jennbama 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    I am so happy for you guys. God's got you no matter what

  • @kellyfarrell8180
    @kellyfarrell8180 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +17

    Your more of a man than half of these people your an awesome father son husband and friend I can keep going and it takes a lot to show your true self to anyone let alone to the world it shows what a beautiful soul God Gave you God Bless you and your Beautiful Family always ❤️

  • @janiefox3458
    @janiefox3458 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +19

    Although not a Clayton, my son and family have had their doublewide for 27 years - raised 3 kids to adulthood - they are only now having to do major maintenance. New roof, new furnace and they are installing solar on the roof. I think you will be beyond happy in your new home.

  • @barbthequietwatcher7069
    @barbthequietwatcher7069 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    Hi Chad. They say real men can wear pink and know how to cry. Bad things happen to all of us. We all react differently. Some people don't cry and have heart failure at a younger age. I believe having a heart means having the ability to show emotions. Rae and the boys seem to love you just the way you are. Most of us feel that way too. I'm glad you're there to love and protect your family. ❤❤❤😊 The animals seem to like you too. 👍😉

  • @donnaalford9880
    @donnaalford9880 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    We bought a Clayton home 40 years ago, my ex still lives in it and there has never been a problem ❤

  • @charlotteforrester3118
    @charlotteforrester3118 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    God bless y’all! The blessings are coming! Congratulations on finding a new home! So excited for y’all. ❤❤❤❤

  • @GinaSmith-Vaeretti
    @GinaSmith-Vaeretti 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Pain shared is halved & joy shared is doubled. I commend your bravery. Being brave to survive a home fire, being brave to share the personal and hard moments like ptsd is brave and I commend you. I agree, lots of us could use therapy, and I do come to your channel to relax, laugh and learn and I am 68! I've survived through a house fire, a boat fire, and a tornado while camping on the mighty Columbia River, it took me 6 months to be able to look up at a tree and see those leaves moving in the breeze and not feel a panic well up inside. Sending prayers your way.

  • @d.m.1628
    @d.m.1628 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +21

    God will get you threw this and prayers for you all .❤❤

  • @elainejohnson7493
    @elainejohnson7493 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Its ok to talk about you feelings, it is better than holding it all in. Things are going to get better, and life will go on. I pray that you can all put it behind you and and move on. I am so happy that that all you lost is your home, and not any one of those blessed Boys and your lovely wife. I will continue to pray for you all and that everything goes well. Sending love and prayers. Elaine 🙏

  • @maryloumarasco5464
    @maryloumarasco5464 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    With time it will get better. What you went through was tragic, but God has your back and he is guiding you still. Your family and animals are safe. And I know they will stay safe in your faith, care and guidance. Keep your eyes on Jesus he will not let you down❤

  • @pameladanford7401
    @pameladanford7401 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Howdy from Ashford AL, so sorry y'all are having problems. I hope everything works out for y'all.

  • @kathleenmoore4097
    @kathleenmoore4097 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    A very wise priest told me many years ago…..give our problems to God. He’s up all night anyway. I know that sometimes it’s hard to do that, but it works🙏❣️🙏

  • @CoastieCastaways
    @CoastieCastaways 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +12

    My cousin bought a Clayton home with a crawl space at the first of the year out of OKC. She was treated awesome and they were great

  • @carlszydlowski9828
    @carlszydlowski9828 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +16

    Praying for your entire family from Bowling Green Kentucky

  • @tammyh9933
    @tammyh9933 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    You’re doing awesome! “One day at a time”- and some days it’s an hour at a time! Life is not a contest where anyone is timed in a race-please pace yourself, your family needs you healthy! 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

  • @deneeblstmama1128
    @deneeblstmama1128 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Real grown ups are smart enough to know that crying is healing. Stuffing feelings makes us angry. 🤗🙏🏼

  • @barrystepniak8222
    @barrystepniak8222 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Chad , it just burns me to here how cruel some of your subscribers can be. You and your family have just gone through a life altering event. to which I don't think I could have handled it as well as you and Ray have. God be with you all.

  • @deborahhenness1607
    @deborahhenness1607 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Chad we understand what you are feeling. Keep talking about your feelings it helps alot. The fear you feel is real. It will get better. God is with you all the time. Your faith is strong. God bless you all. My Clayton home came from Georgia and it was cheaply built. Hopefully this one where you are. They just made a bunch of them for this mobile home lots here in Florida. Maybe that why they were built for cheap.

  • @MuttieRo
    @MuttieRo 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +29

    Chad many of us understand about PTSD....ignore the ignorance of those who try to put you down, for they will always put others down (they need the counseling)

  • @robyngus
    @robyngus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    So happy the news was much better than what we expected from the quick snippets you gave. God Bless you all!

  • @kmuno1783
    @kmuno1783 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I can totally relate Chad, one day at a time,one minute at a time. It’s all still super fresh, do what you need to do and leave what you can’t. It will be there later

  • @kimberkelley4756
    @kimberkelley4756 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Lots and lots of self care for all of you….you’ve been through something horrible, our house burned when I was young and it still bothers me. It’s normal and talking about it is what you really should do. Stuffing things down inside is toxic. Much love to the fam!!

  • @devonnep.7126
    @devonnep.7126 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +32

    Everything will work out. Just keep your faith and keep on moving on!

  • @jeanbanks5242
    @jeanbanks5242 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +10

    Hope all goes well for you guys. You don't deserve anymore bad news. God Bless you all 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

  • @ItsMe-mk7pt
    @ItsMe-mk7pt 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Hubby and I almost bought a Clayton home when we first got married until the bank told us these homes depreciate instead of appreciate. The bank's lawyer got us out of the contract because they had lied to us and told us because they were placed on a permanent foundation they were as good as a built home and would not depreciate. They were forced to give us back our deposit. Just FYI. The bank knew because they work with loaning on houses all day every day and knows what appreciates and what depreciates. That was over 30 years ago so who knows now but you can check with the Better Business Bureau or call some banks and ask to be sure.

  • @robyngus
    @robyngus 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +34

    Tell the person that said to grow up to go pound sand. You are a very strong man that went through a very scary experience. You have every right to feel all the feels. My heart goes out to you and your family!!! ❤❤❤

  • @karennicholas9404
    @karennicholas9404 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    I'm very happy for you!! Don't let rude people get you down. You may have to pray for some people. It's called forgiveness.

  • @denisesanders7560
    @denisesanders7560 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chad it’s ok to cry, I seen my daddy cry a lot and it was over tragedy in our family, he lost our home by a fire when I was 3 years old, he lost a great grandson he was 16 months old, to a accident, he lost a granddaughter to a car accident, it didn’t make him less of a man, he was my hero, he passed away 2021, he was a Veteran that served in the army for many years. You are not a weak man, just shows your have a heart, hold your head up high❤❤❤

    • @pattylee2111
      @pattylee2111 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I love your energy, sense of humor and tenderness, Chad. Cry as much as you can. Tears are God’s diamonds with which he graces us.

  • @johnbond506
    @johnbond506 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My parents house burned down a week before Christmas 2021. A lady that lived across the street had a rent trailer which she let my parents stay in rent free. She had a restaurant where she feed them. They had to deal with the insurance which took a couple of months. Allstate insurance . I worked for Lowe's at the time. Lowe's main office gave my parents a check for $2000 , The store I worked at gave them another check for $1000 and the employees took up another $500. Then the manager told me to give them my employee discount card and everything they needed for the building of the new house they got my discount plus another 10% discount and the delivery was free. And every time they came into the store the store manager would go around with them. And he took them to lunch a few times.

  • @lalalafevers
    @lalalafevers 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Seeing all their heads pop up when you “Wooo-0ooo’d” was the best🥰

  • @rodcain4947
    @rodcain4947 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Your one of the most level headed and insightful people I know.thats comming from an old retired leo marine.you got this and us praying men and women are doing just that for you......keep venting and sharing my friend,you are educating people.

  • @birdie9250
    @birdie9250 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    I still dread leaving my apartment and my dog in that apartment ever since the fire next door to me they just got the apartment repaired and going to have someone move into it soon. I have very mixed emotions because I almost lost my home my dog and my memories. It's been a year and a half and I still have trouble.

  • @angelaprovencher7150
    @angelaprovencher7150 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Since you are tall and expecting the boys to be tall , did y'all ask for the shower heads to be higher than a normal one?

  • @lorettacox9013
    @lorettacox9013 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +7

    Continuing to send prayers for y’all. You’ll be in your new house before you know it.

  • @vickiehorton6267
    @vickiehorton6267 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +15

    Praying for the entire family

  • @carolrowell2491
    @carolrowell2491 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +8

    Praying for your wonderful family. Things will work out God is with you

  • @suecollins5174
    @suecollins5174 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Chad I hope you feel better soon. I just laughed out loud at your herd, Tipsy and June were so funny! Love your channel!

  • @elliekennedy2952
    @elliekennedy2952 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    You should get one of those used street sweeper brushes and make a scratching post for Tipsy she was loving the hay to rub her neck on. The dog has lost a lot of weight, looks good.

  • @deannecanterbury6802
    @deannecanterbury6802 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    So happy for you and your family on finally getting a home ya’ll have been waiting for. God takes care of his own and I feel everything happened for a reason. God Bless you, Rae, and your son’s. Love & Prayers ❤️🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @janicewilliams5587
    @janicewilliams5587 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Such good animals, family and friends you all have.
    Glad to be apart of your family's journeys.
    Jan from CA

  • @MelissaM83
    @MelissaM83 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    My extended family lost 2 little ones to a fire, with others severely burned trying to get them out, PTSD IS REAL MY FRIENDS, and I commend you for speaking on it and dealing with it however, ........H.O.W.E.V.E.R. YOU SEE FIT!!! it's no one's place to say how you move through this traumatic event as a family, it's YOUR FAMILY!! One day at a time friend ......❤

  • @gwenvice8753
    @gwenvice8753 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    You have 72 hours to cancel, I think

  • @gordonsims929
    @gordonsims929 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Just a thought, are you going to have them run CAT6a cabling to the rooms? Especially for Case's room? Also, to help with future proof, I've found that having a 2" conduit running from the crawl space to the attic put helps so you can run additional ethernet/fiber to where you need in the future for like AP's or other IoT devices. Good luck with the build guys, can't wait to see what you accomplish.

  • @carolraether
    @carolraether 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Prayers that things get better for you 🙏❤

  • @jangrahame4891
    @jangrahame4891 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    It's not your first go-round with disaster trauma. Problem is, the fire ripped off the soul scabs from your tornado trauma. Your body and mind are going thru a compounded experience now. Give yourself plenty of grace and let it out as needed. As Red Green would say, "We're pullin' for ya!"

  • @jackiemallon6601
    @jackiemallon6601 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    My son was beat up and almost killed when he was a senior in high school, which was as over 30 years ago. He was finally diagnosed with PTSD.

  • @WyLadyK
    @WyLadyK 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Chad, some people are cruel and selfish, willing to say anything to belittle your decisions. Your experiences are yours and your family’s and no one has any right to even question your reactions or decisions. Just because you have put yourself out there doesn’t change your right to live your life. You know this. You trust in God for leadership, and He will never fail you. I say all this because in 72 years I’ve learned all this. I must admit to doubts and fears. On Feb 14 my eldest 22:01 son died. Not from illness or even accident, but because he let himself be led by be led by his wife and others, into getting a particular injection and consequently this supremely healthy suddenly developed an embolism in his lung which killed him in two days. At times my grief makes me doubt everything, but please Chad, ignore those who try to make you doubt. No matter how well meaning, no one knows better than you what is best for you and yours. God bless you

  • @Martha-ho7jw
    @Martha-ho7jw 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Y'all are blessed! These times if trials will pass. I love to see what a wonderful rancher you are. Your animals are so beautiful, healthy and happy! God bless you are your wonderful family.

  • @barbaraholzimmer3291
    @barbaraholzimmer3291 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    You don't need to defend yourself from negative nellies. One TH-camr said he welcomes negative comments because any responses are welcome because of how TH-cam monetizes interactions-he just skips over the negative ones and laughs because those negative comments work toward his subscriber interactions. Hope that helps take the stinger out of the nasty ones.

  • @donnaangel7582
    @donnaangel7582 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +11

    Prayers for you.

  • @BackingTheAudit
    @BackingTheAudit 8 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    GM, I recently saw ur channel and subscribed. I enjoy the country atmosphere and ur Faith.
    Wanted to wish you the best on ur Clayton Home. I owned a Clayton a few years ago. I had the home around 15 or so years. The only thing I got to say is you are right it depends solely on the dealer. Clayton was great to deal with the factory but I had a terrible dealer. Just remember, you can always get additional help from the factory, if you ever need it. GOD Bless you and your family

  • @jennsenchantedforesthomestead
    @jennsenchantedforesthomestead 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +5

    Many continued prayers for long term healing for all of you

  • @1962MsLaurie
    @1962MsLaurie 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I thought of you yesterday and I thought of you today, and you know tomorrow lasts forever. I love you both, forever and always ❤💯♥️💯♥️💯♥️

  • @peekaboocockatiel6514
    @peekaboocockatiel6514 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Congrats on your new home. It doesn’t matter what others think. As long as you and your family are comfortable and feel safe, that is what matters.

  • @anniebourne7143
    @anniebourne7143 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You don't owe us anything. We are lucky you share all you do. Your feelings are real. Everything in our daily lives trigger past memories good, bad and awful. Anyone that says grow up, get over it ect needs to shush it up. We see a second of for life, that you graciously share.
    I'm grateful all of you are ok. The mind takes its own time to process & heal. May Many blessing to showered onto you

  • @paulajohnson5256
    @paulajohnson5256 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Congrats on getting it tho. And yes PTSD is real!!prayers for you and the family.

  • @paulabratz261
    @paulabratz261 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    That ain't no "Grow up, get over it thing". Thats your family you need to protect. Good on you dude. And we're proud of you for putting family first. Thats what a man does. Thats our role in life..

  • @debramurphy4295
    @debramurphy4295 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Is the insurance going to make you tear down your home that burned.

  • @timothychristians4353
    @timothychristians4353 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Trust in him at all times; ye people,pour out your heart before him: God is a refuge for us. Selah (. What about it)😅😢😂😊

  • @lisabeebe1863
    @lisabeebe1863 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Hello from Bear Delaware 😊 We almost bought a Double Wide from Clayton Homes here in DE! Glad we didn't!

  • @keithhughes2936
    @keithhughes2936 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    One thing I highly suggest is to get plywood subfloor instead of osb subfloor. Kids will get or soak the floors or a leaking water heater or faucet or water line like happened when I had mine. Plywood floors don't disintegrate like osb will.

  • @ljmike5519
    @ljmike5519 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    Howdy from Washington State. Prayers for you and your family. Just trust you are rocking it dad, protector, provider, husband. God is good all the time. Blessings.

  • @ruthsmiley6050
    @ruthsmiley6050 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Please make sure to ask for plywood NOT particle wood floors. Saying from experience.

  • @katekate2451
    @katekate2451 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    You are such a good man. May all your dreams for you and your family be fulfilled. God has you in the palm of his hand and the rest of us are keeping you in our thoughts and prayers 🙏🏻🙏🏻❤️❤️

  • @BeBlessedToday
    @BeBlessedToday 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Consider NO OSB in your build. If you can swing it, it is worth it! Spoken 35 years later in the PNW!

  • @rebathornton1137
    @rebathornton1137 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    Glad for you guys. I know it can’t be quick enough.

  • @billbradley2480
    @billbradley2480 10 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I still haven’t heard what started the fire. Didn’t someone say it was caused by a product? I’m curious to know what to avoid.