Most Men BLOW the FIRST date with a FILIPINA - Filipina PsycHacks 601
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- Most men who come to the Philippines totally blow their first date with a Filipina. Don't be like them. You can do this! 👉 Hit LIKE and SUBSCRIBE for GOOD LUCK in the Philippines 😉 Thanks guys!
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To nice,to fast,to talkative .....sounds like a very lonely dude. You guys have to realize that you have the money and power...you are the meal ticket.....she has to impress you so sit back and relax and injoy the ride.
Hey if she takes offence at anything you do on a date just remember there are 100's of other Filipina out there that would love to date a foreigner, No reason to hook up with a westernized Filipina!
100,000s
I don't care where you live and what the nationality of the women is, women love to talk about themselves - so, shut up and let them.
If you want a hook up girl ok!
A average Philippina know that she has the power and decide to go with you or not no matter with how much money you want to impress her!
@@michaelo.5580Don't underestimate the power of the expat. The odds are far more in his favor. Like a 100 to 1. Now if the Filipina is in the USA the odds are far more in her favor. So what if a girl turns down an expat. There are PLENTY more available out there. My old boss never had a hard time getting a date. I asked what's your secret? I keep trying until a girl says yes. I don't care if it takes me asking 10 girls. Rejection to him just means the next one he asks might say YES! LOL
Thankfully, us men are waking up, and we realize that we are the prize.
Yep, I keep hearing from Filipina how they are the prize, just like western women. I think that western feminist mind virus has infected the Phil's. That's not a good sign! UGH
Sweetie - you are a modern woman and this advice is for a man looking for a modern woman Filipina. A traditional woman is not bored by a good man.
How one person feels when they're with another is quite important. (secure, happy, safe, etc.)
Oh, come on! A coffee, walk, or fun activity is better. That nice meal only comes once we like each other (so no on feels trapped or wastes money), and wish to spend more time getting to know each other. Princess treatment will be limited, and has to be earned. She's not a princess, and I'm not buying her. Saying the date is all about her is bs. Letting her do all of the talking is also bs. There are 2 adults on the date and both are equally valuable. If there is no give and take and sharing, I'm not interested. I'm not a walking bank, nor her therapist, nor one of her girlfriends. Don't tell guys to be simps. Girls aren't even attracted to that.
Bingo
😂😂😂 men all i hear is that we are the prize 🏆 don't play their games just walk away. The next one is around the corner
It's ok if we ruin it, many others available haha, just have fun is the best way to go.
no big deal. . . next
Exactly 👍
Rey, don’t give all the secrets away. Women watch this channel too.
She doesn't want to move too fast because after dinner she goes back to her husband or boyfriend 😂
Lol
I'm sure you know people like that yes? I have another question for you, can I ask?
Yes definitely what you said is true in 80% of cases here.
@@user-bw5fp3zp1l you can ask a question.
@@Rhandlezz hey, how many girls you know there play on the tango app? I used tango long before what it is today, I video called with many who told me a lot of things there, like what I just said, and many times the husband or boyfriend have there woman play on tango and say they are single for the diamonds they get for playing on video calls. I've also dated some here in the states.
Good advice
Treat her as your kid sister that always run slower! If you beat her in games you are home! 😂
If the first date blows blows any possibility than it wasn't meant to be
Be fun. Not scary. If you can make her laugh all the better..
Yes indeed ,laughter is universal in every country
@@thebigmann81 Laughter is universal, but the jokes aren't, many Filipina's don't get foreign humor.
Good video 🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
1. Nice meal = Jolibee's (for 90% of foreigner first dates, Jollibee's is either the fanciest, or better than the fanciest previous restaurant)
2. Special - "You're the first Philippines girl I've dated, outside of my 14 vacations to Angeles City." She will know that this time you're serious.
3. Fantasy - not all Pinays have a [CENSORED] as a fantasy. I learned this from rule #2, special.
4. Surprisingly enough, I did get that second date. She showed me how to open a coconut. She opened a coconut, and then all of her male relatives, dad, uncles, brothers, and "cousins" also showed their skill with a knife. I'm not sure what to do for a third date. Any suggestions?
I was hoping to see you today. Great advice.
Women universally are all the same. Be the man not the simp. If you're not sure bc you don't date much (or at all) then take yourself out to dinner and relax. Watch, listen and learn from ppl around you. Also, be sure about what you want and learn to conversate in general. Self growth will open up your external growth. Understand?
This is true but that’s why you need to talk to her and have enough conversation with her discuss certain things and already have it in the air before the first date.So when you do take her out on the first date it won’t be so awkward.Sometimes it’s best to discuss things before u actually meet up in person.So both of you will kinda know each others intentions,and you will also have an idea of the reasons behind what is said and done.
I have never dated a Filipina, but if I ever do, I will probably end up having to join Date-Blowers Anonymous.
🌴 only fools rush into a relationship. It takes time to get to know each other. Tell her you wanna buy her a nice dinner her favorite restaurant be a good listener, if she’s interested, she will go out on a second date nice women want to be treated with respect 🌴 have a nice day 🌴 💕
I couldn't agree more. We really took our time and decided to get married three days after we met. He was my first boyfriend.
When he asked me out, I was just a teen and had never been on a date before. I told him to speak with my father. So he called my parents, talked with them and my brother. I texted them and said they were going to speak with my husband, lol. He didn't object.
We went to a pizza place and the waitress asked how long we had been married. We told her to guess. She said two and a half years. That kept happening to us. He's 30 years older. Sixteen years married now. Two kids.
I never do a nice meal on the first date. For a first date, I prefer to do something fun and inexpensive, followed by cheap food. After a couple dates when I know we enjoy each other's company, I'll pay for a nice meal.
Next !
Is jolly bees special?
no 7-11 is
Imagine if you reversed the title of her video.😊
Obviously that's a must do in Angeles city.
@@user-bf5fi4ss2q Nifty's
Women are all different when it comes to first dates. Some want just a coffee, some a meal, some talk and some want you to talk, some want physical contact and some don’t. The list goes on……All I do is listen, observe and deal with it according to my best judgement . And if I don’t like her, then I just do enough to keep it pleasant until I can escape.
She wants to feel special so is NOT a good idea to invite all 4 girls you like to the same dinner date :)
If she truly wanted to feel special, she wouldn't invite all her friends and family on the date either.
@@ejtaylor73 I understand and accept she would want to bring a friend for first date or two ,, combination of first meetings worry about keeping conversation going and perhaps a little lack of confidence with English
You talk a lot because you produce videos. Most dates (universally) require the 80/20 rule. Women are lazy, you need to lead the conversation and hit a hook point where she starts meaningfully contributing.
The being too nice is 100% right.
Every video I see from your channel I love it more. Salamat for all of your hard work and keep making these excellent videos. 😃
She already took over. AceSIMP is just mumbling a bunch of nothing on his videos now.
@@RhandlezzPretty sure she's just Ace's new mouthpiece.
@MrSpacegrass1973 yea, obviously. She has better content and with much more substance and variety. AceSIMP repeats himself non stop about the same shit over and over.
It's a write-off if you don't get blown on the first date.
Don't tell them you have had a vasectomy. Even if she tells you she doesn't want kids or more kids, she is lying. And yes, this is personal experience. 😂
If you think its cool to lie or mislead a poor young girl then you deserve all the shit that ever happens to you in the future because of it.
Sounds like good advice for aceSIMP. 😂😂
So when you ask him to buy you and your families Jollibee and he said no that's ok? Or when you ask him to buy your make-up 😂😂
Oo don't blow on the first date
The philipino, don't realise I'm testing them. 95% of the time, they fail the test.
Rhain your a good therapist keep it up ok just be yourself ❤
Reine.
Therapist? You mean making lonely desperate men feel like they're getting attention? Because the information she provides is worthless.
@@ejtaylor73 If you think it’s “worthless,” why are you taking time to comment on multiple videos from this channel?
@@Sniper.424 To maybe help at least one person realize they shouldn't be heeding this advice and save them from the stress, drama, and MONEY following this advice will bring them.
Make a more realistic video titled “How Filipina’s can blow the first date with a Foreigner” 😎
Just like this video, that one would blow too. She hasn't taken the time to learn anything about foreigners needs/wants, so how can she advise them.
She wants, she wants, she wants... jadajada... Crap!
So ..on a foriegner dating app in Manila...once it recognized that your in Manila...you'll get 10 to 20 hits a day
When a girl is into you she will allow you to mess up more. If she has better options you will be on probation from the start.
Why stay on probation when the foreigner has MILLIONS of other options to get out of jail free.
So just don’t talk and pay the bill
Well I have heard the Filipina wants a nice meal for her and any friends or family she brings to the date. If she does that I won't be asking her out on anymore dates! It's the same way In the USA, the girls also want it to be all about them and their needs. One thing I keep hearing from expats on TH-cam. After one year of dating the expat will know everything about his Filipina, but she will no nothing about him. You might know a lot about her life, but don't expect her to know anything about your life, expect maybe the size of our wallet. LOL
So basically don't treat her like Puff Daddy on the first date.
Very good advice from a Filipina that knows the nitty gritty. You have developed a very nice and interesting Channel dear friend. please tell Daisy I have fallen in love with her
Do not treat a filipina girl like a western girl. Be confident in yourself and get to know each other. Patients and communication.
And tell Filipinas don't treat Western men like an walking ATM 😂so it goes both ways but you wouldnt know that because your one of those simp’s
😂 ok then
so easy to date and got to hotel the first night, we are the prze
Blow the first date with a filipino ? They is nothing to blow when you negotiate a fee .
Every woman is available it just may cost more.
You could hire out as a ride along dating coach where when you witness things going awry you could blast them with your air horn and bring the date to a halt. You could then share your monster dating wisdom. I think it would make for a fun video.
Took me.over 5 to lose her
Folks just be yourself don't be fake. Never be to flashy otherwise you going to get the wrong kind of Filipina
Lead with your wallet and that's all you will ever be seen as.
Don't be creepy and weird? This might be a challenge for some reason
Are you a Brit? lol.
Don't be weird or Cring
Be mean and treat her like shit and shell love u
Well we not that not true men do all the talking. But let's just say that's true. Asian women yall don't talk at all your to shy or scared to talk.
Haha...not the ones I've met. The one I'm with now won't shut up...😅
U contradict yourself on everything.
Yes I don’t.
Please... She wants to be in the US. Easy.
Some do, most don't. Most would rather be near their family in the Philippines and not have to worry about money - still easy.
Hey ,Your name is Rain or Reen ?By the way are you a tour guide? I want to hire someone when i'm there.
Hi, it's Reine. You should find a Starter Girlfriend when you arrive. She will help you and it may turn into something more: th-cam.com/video/w01V3IGGWt4/w-d-xo.htmlsi=g_cXHAGoUeYHgmfQ
@@SmartGirlPhilippines Thanks Reine! Do you guys have email?What about you ?are you a tour guide? i prefer to have you as the starter girl!
Same rules as USA.
Wow....This is really sad. This is exactly how the cancer of dating culture started in the West. And it has finally made its way to the Philippines 🇵🇭. Ladies.....This is the path that you all dont want to go down.
I like the girl talking in video. She's nice. But, first problem is men getting dating advice from a girl that young. Not good, but to each their own. I'm sure she can give aceSIMP plenty of advice, but that's a different story.
@@Rhandlezz You know this is his channel and he's coaching her. He realized he wasn't cutting it so went out and found a pretty face to do it for him. I just want to know what cut he is getting.
@ejtaylor73
Yeah I know. She's doing a good job. But this so called advice is geared towards a certain class of Filipina and the simpy men that chase them lol
@Rhandlezz
Agree. Way too much advice for simps
You are trying to move too fast.....LOL...that's the Filipina not the man who is smart. She wants you and you are shopping. Let her sell herself but be a confident gentleman about it. Open doors for her and seat her in her chair. Be polite but only small talk unless she asks you a question.
Yeah, Mofo, stop talking about your narcissistic self so much. Lol
LMAO ITS NOT ABOUT YOU....
ITS ABOUT THEM!!!!
YOU BLEW IT AS A FILIPINA
Well done 👍
Now you are talking like a friend to me, and you are not yelling.
Your points are good advice.
BUT, I ask myself how a girl at your age has so much experience in dating... Or are you just listening to your friends? 😏
And here is my advice for the lonely man: Do not treat every woman as a bargirl.
Her advice is worthless because she doesn't know what she's talking about because she doesn't have experience and hasn't taken any time to learn about foreigners to be able to advise them.
Boring girl
Boring guy
You will never get the chance to know sweetheart
Omg this channel is embarrassing
Who cares plenty of them out there
Reina your the best 💖 Mr Don Australia 🦘
As I said many times to people iam no sheep
Yet people want me to become one
Iam who I am because of my life's
Experiences
love conversations yet I don't want a young girl that hasn't the ability to make a conversation
Your people are very intelligent, very beautiful, and wellcoming as I found out
Family oriented ❤
Sadly I don't believe in sacrifice
Not even Family the economics of any country makes people do what they Need to do
Money as a Australian 🇦🇺🦘
It drives people
I believe in conversation respect sulutions
A queen is a queen 👸 and a king is a king
My dream is to visit your country
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