I never thought I'd be a less of a man than how I acted toward the only woman that demonstrated unconditional love and affection to me. May God bless you on your path and that you may find a better man that will reciprocate the same love to you. You deserve everything good in the world. God bless you for showing a stone hearted man how to open his heart and feel love.
This is such an amazing song! Speaks so much truth! After 20 years of wishing he was a better man..... im leaving. He has begged and begged, but i can't! I need a BETTER MAN!
I just had this sent to me by the only woman who not only loved me. But yet taught me to love. She was angelic, a lover, a partner, a soul mate, and an angel. She loved my three children far more than their own biological mother every could. And I fell so far from being a better man. I pray that you find a love that loves you back equally. You changed my life forever.
I am right with you! 30+ years... 28 years married.. and now I have to walk away. He just doesn't show me the love or even care that he should as a husband. 10 days on life support and he never came to the hospital. .. that kind of stuff. Told me he didn't love me anymore 2 days after my inheritance money was gone. No time to spend a single day with me in 2 years but plenty of time to drink with his buddies. I'm done. He isn't good enough for me anymore!
Some men are put in our lives for certain reasons ....if the shoe stops fitting yall, and you can't push anymore to make it work.. let it go..if you put in your 100 percent and they don't....let it go....when you love someone you have to let go. Because you'll just cause yourself so much more damage....we can only take so much and until we are pushed to our limit we will realize that.
"I can hear it now You're talking down to me like I'll always be around You push my love away like it's some kind of loaded gun" -I know that feeling all too well
This song brings back many memories for me. At the end of my last relationship we both became very toxic to each other, I projected my unhealed wounds onto her. A few months after the break up, I learned that I had to change and grow, so I changed my mindset, and eventually lost sixty pounds. During that time I really worked on myself, and did some self reflection, and healed my past wounds, and learned from my poor actions and decisions. As much as I feel like a better man today, I don't wish to get back with my ex, it wouldn't be beneficial or productive for either of us, however, I hope she does move on to find all of the happiness in the world.
Goddamn this is such a good song. Going through a recent breakup from the love of my life and just listening to this on repeat, wanting to say all of this to her. God I miss you Jen
an update if anyone cares, she ended everything on 2/17 and we didn't speak until she reached out to me on 5/30, the night before I adopted the most perfect "breakup puppy". We had the most amazing summer and fall, concerts, festivals, trips to the lake for SUP, she and her kids helped with my puppy. Over the last few weeks she has been distant and we are now not on speaking terms again. I am sure she is seeing someone else and has had her kids lie to me to cover. I had it all back again for a moment but back to where I was when I listened to this every night. At least I have my puppy to hold at night
I wish he was a better man. The words to this song are 109% RN for me. I loved our love our all. But word for word in this song GOD!!! I loved him SO SO MUCH I TRIED SO HARD!!! I loved that country G w all my soul 😔😭
Been married 9 years & I'm still waiting fr my husband to b a better man & show me he loves me .He has never had a real loving relationship so he has a hard time we got in a argument last night about it & he sent me this song just now saying he loves me .I just cryed because he's good at words in a text but not showing it .I love him so much & he just pushes me away .Good song
Love the words to this song. I feel like they express my heart. Funny thing i think we will always wish he could have been a better man so we could go back to that happy time that will never return.
I'm about to send this to my husband that's out chasing after another woman, halfway across the country ... while I'm sitting at home . It took me 17 years to come to my senses and realize he's always been a narcissist and probably always will be. I hope this breakup goes as smoothly as possible .... and that he isn't completely destroyed once he finds out that the scammer he's been chasing after (and that he's been sending all of the bill money to in gift cards) really isn't Anna Sawai. My heart breaks for what he's doing to himself, and to what was our 17 years together. 😢
This song hurts to the bottom of my soul. I was crazy in love and he threw it all away. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t ask why, why couldn’t he have been a better man 😭
Same. Didn’t even know who my father was until after my mother passed away in an accident. Hurt even more because growing up as a child my brother and sister always got to visit with their dad but I didn’t even know who mine was.
I'm so sorry I can't imagine 30+ years I'm in my 2nd year with a narcissist and with never dealing with one b4 in my 48years of life nor ever even knowing of or hearing the word narcissist I'm having a VERY hard time finding a reason to continue on..He has taking every ounce of my self worth, self respect,self love,self esteem with his degrading manipulation and cheating and belittling me and the grip he has on me is unbelievable and I know that he will continue to emotionally and mentally destroy me unless I get away but for whatever reason I can't find the strength in myself to run not walk but run away from him... I don't even know what to do anymore How do they live with themselves destroying good people to the point they could careless if the woke up the next day they are heartless selfish individuals that hate themselves so they inflict that hate towards their victim to feel better about themselves and feel powerful I truly hate myself for allowing this to happen and for not being strong enough to let his sorry ass go... So yes, this song really hits home unfortunately
@@tracy7937 I have been in it for 10 years and just recently figured out that he's a narcissist and at 67 years of age trying to find the strength when you need total knee reconstruction to get up pack a whole house full of things figure out how to financially do it it's a lot of the reason I think for people to just give up and stay but I'm not going to stay I don't want to stay my friends from my hometown said I was always the strongest person they knew I wouldn't want them to know me right now thanks again for the song find the strength ladies dig down deep
Exactly! So hard at times … you know you had to leave … not healthy. Just sometimes the magical moments linger and you wish they could have just been “ better” but then reality hits and you remember why you had to run
WHY is everyone concentrating on the fact that Taylor Swift wrote it? You don't do that with other songs. The song is kick ass in writing and in performance. Give Little Big Town some credit. They deserve it.
because the lyrics hit deep for the people who experienced it. this is why everyone is concentrating are concentrating on taylor. but i do agree little big town deserves credit too
I love this song so much. It’s my best friend. It happens every time. I went different this time. I’m with someone I don’t love because I know he can’t ever hurt me…beau e I for. Love him like that. But, he keep me 2:19 safe I’ve never felt more safe than I do now.
My daughter's are grown now but they had been in toxic relationships and finally got out. I listen to this song to remind me that many people, including myself have been in their position many times in their lives.
Dear Misty. I wish I could've been better. I won't ever forget you. Or try to be that man. I'll always try to be that man you wanted me to be I love you
😢 I loved him more than I loved myself!! He never loved me more than he loved himself!! He took parts of me ill never get back. Dreams I'll never dream again. He is my soul mate, the love of my life, but I wasn't that for him. Now I'm starting over. 28 years, 2 kids and 1 lincoln later. Here I go.......😢
I fell in love with her and I wasn't a good man but then I became a great man and she needed to be a better woman and she couldn't do it. Broke my heart
i love this song bc it is the best song if you are dating somone an the porson you are dating is not good and when it say better man it is the someone asking the porson that thay are dating to be a better porson
this is tough to listen to, man. when you're the one behind the wheel, it's tough to realize how impactful your actions and words can be. it's not until you experience the true loss of someone similar to woman singing, that you realize just how much you've lost. I'll never be the same, and I'll make sure to be the better man going forward, though it is YOU who I want to be the better man for and not anyone else. Fuck.
Yeah I know my grandparents had to go since god said that it is time to go on my. Birthday last year my grandmother died sadly I guess that was God's way to say you need to let go and accept that they can't live forever
To my father, who only came into my life after my mother passed away as a child. Going to see him during winter break and summer and him disappointing me 😔 Can see the permanent damage you did to me 😔
I made like six screenshots of this one song. I had four relationship that I lived with the guy that it was like this. And bad relationships and mistakes and regret. And a few other people in my life that I didn't live with. Like Italian man who didn't live in USA.
@@jenniferrathe7291 yeah I wish my crush would have liked me back 🔙 but unfortunately he didn't do i chased him in the gym and he said your scary I am in the 🌑 then I am in the daylight
This came on the radio tonight. I was driving my truck and it had me in tears
Only someone who has experienced this can truly relate.
This song is so exactly spot-on! I couldn’t have written better words for my situation myself! 🫢
I cry EVERY time I hear it
@@rebeccadriver549I wonder who Taylor Swift had in mind when she wrote it???
Amen
I never thought I'd be a less of a man than how I acted toward the only woman that demonstrated unconditional love and affection to me. May God bless you on your path and that you may find a better man that will reciprocate the same love to you. You deserve everything good in the world. God bless you for showing a stone hearted man how to open his heart and feel love.
This is such an amazing song! Speaks so much truth!
After 20 years of wishing he was a better man..... im leaving. He has begged and begged, but i can't! I need a BETTER MAN!
As a man this makes me cry, wish I was a better man back then too. Glad it's not too late to change.
We all make mistakes, I’ve made plenty, but over the years I’ve honestly have changed things I didn’t like about myself.
I'm right there with you man
I just had this sent to me by the only woman who not only loved me. But yet taught me to love. She was angelic, a lover, a partner, a soul mate, and an angel. She loved my three children far more than their own biological mother every could. And I fell so far from being a better man. I pray that you find a love that loves you back equally. You changed my life forever.
This absolutely relates to me as well
That so sad
That's good .however, it would be great if you told it to her.! Xoxo
I had to check your name 3 times to see that you weren't him.
I so want to send this to my jealous ex. who I housed while subjected to his oppression. That ship has sailed.
This song touches every fiber of my heart
I wish the only man I've ever loved was a better man. Makes me cry every time I hear it.
I am right with you! 30+ years... 28 years married.. and now I have to walk away. He just doesn't show me the love or even care that he should as a husband. 10 days on life support and he never came to the hospital. .. that kind of stuff. Told me he didn't love me anymore 2 days after my inheritance money was gone. No time to spend a single day with me in 2 years but plenty of time to drink with his buddies. I'm done. He isn't good enough for me anymore!
I relate to every word of this song..
Same
Same
Yea me too
@@jeannetteforbes6376 me too
C BBC rsYeah he was here let’s go get Fhcbvbc
Some men are put in our lives for certain reasons ....if the shoe stops fitting yall, and you can't push anymore to make it work.. let it go..if you put in your 100 percent and they don't....let it go....when you love someone you have to let go. Because you'll just cause yourself so much more damage....we can only take so much and until we are pushed to our limit we will realize that.
Damage runs deep
Lawrenceburg TN Pyramid Schemes 🥀😭🌹😭😭😭🌹😭😭😭🌹
This comment hits deep
"I can hear it now
You're talking down to me like I'll always be around
You push my love away like it's some kind of loaded gun" -I know that feeling all too well
Now that’s a slick move that only swifties will get!
Me too.
This song hits home in so many ways
yhaaa it dose
Same
Same
It’s literally almost 4am and I’m listening this song once again 😩💗
This song brings back many memories for me. At the end of my last relationship we both became very toxic to each other, I projected my unhealed wounds onto her. A few months after the break up, I learned that I had to change and grow, so I changed my mindset, and eventually lost sixty pounds. During that time I really worked on myself, and did some self reflection, and healed my past wounds, and learned from my poor actions and decisions. As much as I feel like a better man today, I don't wish to get back with my ex, it wouldn't be beneficial or productive for either of us, however, I hope she does move on to find all of the happiness in the world.
Goddamn this is such a good song. Going through a recent breakup from the love of my life and just listening to this on repeat, wanting to say all of this to her. God I miss you Jen
an update if anyone cares, she ended everything on 2/17 and we didn't speak until she reached out to me on 5/30, the night before I adopted the most perfect "breakup puppy". We had the most amazing summer and fall, concerts, festivals, trips to the lake for SUP, she and her kids helped with my puppy. Over the last few weeks she has been distant and we are now not on speaking terms again. I am sure she is seeing someone else and has had her kids lie to me to cover. I had it all back again for a moment but back to where I was when I listened to this every night. At least I have my puppy to hold at night
@@beerock803 I know the feeling man, our pets can bridge that gap when we're in the depths of hell. Hang in there brother, it'll get better
@@beerock803I'm so sorry for your heartache. Hang in there.
Narcissistic abuse. This was my “relationship” with my neglectful narcissist of an ex-husband.
I wish he was a better man. The words to this song are 109% RN for me.
I loved our love our all.
But word for word in this song GOD!!!
I loved him SO SO MUCH I TRIED SO HARD!!!
I loved that country G w all my soul
😔😭
This hits every heartbeat
Taylor Swift wrote it too 😊
Been married 9 years & I'm still waiting fr my husband to b a better man & show me he loves me .He has never had a real loving relationship so he has a hard time we got in a argument last night about it & he sent me this song just now saying he loves me .I just cryed because he's good at words in a text but not showing it .I love him so much & he just pushes me away .Good song
Love the words to this song. I feel like they express my heart. Funny thing i think we will always wish he could have been a better man so we could go back to that happy time that will never return.
I hear and feel deep down inside every word every phrase every meaning of this song and it still hurts damn him!!
I’m with You girl
A lot of us are trying to be a better man
Makes me cry. Was my 5 year relationship. All gone.
I understand
shout out to the people who hear this song and think of someone in their family:/
I'm about to send this to my husband that's out chasing after another woman, halfway across the country ... while I'm sitting at home . It took me 17 years to come to my senses and realize he's always been a narcissist and probably always will be. I hope this breakup goes as smoothly as possible .... and that he isn't completely destroyed once he finds out that the scammer he's been chasing after (and that he's been sending all of the bill money to in gift cards) really isn't Anna Sawai. My heart breaks for what he's doing to himself, and to what was our 17 years together. 😢
This song reminds me of my dad...
am with you but this reminds me of my ex boyfrend bc he was not the best boyfrend and he has never changd
one bitt
Same.
I been avoiding this song..........
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
Taylor Swift 💗💗💗
She is write this song what a queen 👑👑👑👑
Definitely The 🐐
Love this song!!
This song hurts to the bottom of my soul.
I was crazy in love and he threw it all away. There’s not a day that goes by that I don’t ask why, why couldn’t he have been a better man 😭
Love this song..
me too
Ohhhhhh yes my son chase love this song lol
The reality is every word in this song, the experience is to real.
To my dad,who was there but never really there cheers
Same. Didn’t even know who my father was until after my mother passed away in an accident. Hurt even more because growing up as a child my brother and sister always got to visit with their dad but I didn’t even know who mine was.
30+ years relationship with a Narcissist Personality Disorder spouse 💃 Surviver👊🏻
Going through that now
I'm so sorry
I can't imagine 30+ years I'm in my 2nd year with a narcissist and with never dealing with one b4 in my 48years of life nor ever even knowing of or hearing the word narcissist I'm having a VERY hard time finding a reason to continue on..He has taking every ounce of my self worth, self respect,self love,self esteem with his degrading manipulation and cheating and belittling me and the grip he has on me is unbelievable and I know that he will continue to emotionally and mentally destroy me unless I get away but for whatever reason I can't find the strength in myself to run not walk but run away from him... I don't even know what to do anymore
How do they live with themselves destroying good people to the point they could careless if the woke up the next day they are heartless selfish individuals that hate themselves so they inflict that hate towards their victim to feel better about themselves and feel powerful
I truly hate myself for allowing this to happen and for not being strong enough to let his sorry ass go...
So yes, this song really hits home unfortunately
@@tracy7937 I have been in it for 10 years and just recently figured out that he's a narcissist and at 67 years of age trying to find the strength when you need total knee reconstruction to get up pack a whole house full of things figure out how to financially do it it's a lot of the reason I think for people to just give up and stay but I'm not going to stay I don't want to stay my friends from my hometown said I was always the strongest person they knew I wouldn't want them to know me right now thanks again for the song find the strength ladies dig down deep
Exactly! So hard at times … you know you had to leave … not healthy. Just sometimes the magical moments linger and you wish they could have just been “ better” but then reality hits and you remember why you had to run
Not a big tayler swift fan but she nailed this song to a T and touched nu every heart string
Is this her song???
@@liberalbias4462she wrote it
@@liberalbias4462yes she wrote it and said it would sound better with them singing it. Great choice.
@@hollysintes1142ya
You don’t have to be a fan to appreciate an amazing song.
I love this song 🎵❤
WHY is everyone concentrating on the fact that Taylor Swift wrote it? You don't do that with other songs. The song is kick ass in writing and in performance. Give Little Big Town some credit. They deserve it.
There’s only a few comments about Taylor lmao, stop getting offended over everything
@@captainayaaya28 You don't know what offends me. Mind your own business 😔 LMAO
because the lyrics hit deep for the people who experienced it. this is why everyone is concentrating are concentrating on taylor. but i do agree little big town deserves credit too
Story of my life. It's no wonder why I'm single at 53
I am loving this song, super beautiful, super sweet, and a little bit of kindness😊❤❤❤ good afternoon
Thx for making this
I love this song so much. It’s my best friend. It happens every time. I went different this time. I’m with someone I don’t love because I know he can’t ever hurt me…beau e I for. Love him like that. But, he keep me 2:19 safe I’ve never felt more safe than I do now.
This song has been written by Taylor Swift:))
Really I didn't know that
prolly not.
Definitely was@@Giana-horsegirl
@@joanneoliver89 mmmm idk
Yup it was, she actually writes quite a few songs that are sung by other artists. @Giana-horsegirl
Hits home. I wish I was a better man.
That song was written by Taylor Swift. I don't think she gets near the credit she deserves as a song writer.
I sent this song to my soul mate that I will love to the end of my life. Even if we aren't together.
I was surprised to learn this song was written by Taylor Swift. Guess she has some redeeming qualities after all.
Yeah…such a perfect song.
The best thing about it is that you could reverse the lyrics to apply to a woman…either way, it’s FANTASTIC…🤷♀️
My daughter's are grown now but they had been in toxic relationships and finally got out. I listen to this song to remind me that many people, including myself have been in their position many times in their lives.
This song is very truth in so many ways
This song took a story from my life 💔
Dear Misty. I wish I could've been better. I won't ever forget you. Or try to be that man. I'll always try to be that man you wanted me to be I love you
we all have that one person....
this is written by taylor swift btw:)
Dear Rebekah, I wish I was a better man
😢 I loved him more than I loved myself!! He never loved me more than he loved himself!! He took parts of me ill never get back. Dreams I'll never dream again. He is my soul mate, the love of my life, but I wasn't that for him. Now I'm starting over. 28 years, 2 kids and 1 lincoln later. Here I go.......😢
Beautiful ❤️
and your voys is so good and i love to sing too
and also it has a lot of powerfull words in it
Fun fact: this song was written by Taylor Swift :)
She didn't think I'd walk away, wish you would have taken me seriously 😭
I fell in love with her and I wasn't a good man but then I became a great man and she needed to be a better woman and she couldn't do it. Broke my heart
Same.
“ always on your terms … “
So True ❤
i love this song bc it is the best song if you are dating somone an the porson you are dating is not good and when it say better man it is the someone asking the porson that thay are dating to be a better porson
There is a dude that likes me and I like him but he is a bad influence and I need to stop talking to him but he is also my bestie
@@zbd20 as long as you understand right from wrong and stand on it no one can influence you.
@@jamescadotte2310 we stopped talking cause he started being rude and blaming me for stuff I didn’t do so I got out of that
this is tough to listen to, man. when you're the one behind the wheel, it's tough to realize how impactful your actions and words can be. it's not until you experience the true loss of someone similar to woman singing, that you realize just how much you've lost. I'll never be the same, and I'll make sure to be the better man going forward, though it is YOU who I want to be the better man for and not anyone else. Fuck.
This song is meaningless unless u can relate. And if you do man, it hits home hard....
Finding this song again today after finding out my fiancée is already married. There isn't a more perfect way to word the emotions of shear heartache
who else came here after red tv
Yk in kodachrome jason told elizabeth that guys never change and if they do its mostly when it’s too late..I feel that’s actually true
I just left an abusive marriage...this is so true
I truly can relate to this 😢
Damn him....
I can relate the lyrics
Yeah I know my grandparents had to go since god said that it is time to go on my. Birthday last year my grandmother died sadly I guess that was God's way to say you need to let go and accept that they can't live forever
I love that song 🎵 good evening 🌆 I love you too very much hi my najah
To my father, who only came into my life after my mother passed away as a child. Going to see him during winter break and summer and him disappointing me 😔
Can see the permanent damage you did to me 😔
What it is like to love a narcissist
This describes an extremely special friend in my life. God it's painful to listen to
😢 I wish
I can relate
I made like six screenshots of this one song. I had four relationship that I lived with the guy that it was like this. And bad relationships and mistakes and regret. And a few other people in my life that I didn't live with. Like Italian man who didn't live in USA.
i hope you find someone how cars abut you and is not shelfish
@@colleenking220 thank you so much. I appreciate it. I hope so. At Least a better future ahead. For me and you. Have a great day.
@@jenniferrathe7291 yeah I wish my crush would have liked me back 🔙 but unfortunately he didn't do i chased him in the gym and he said your scary I am in the 🌑 then I am in the daylight
Anybody know a good app that allows one to run this music over a different video with good sound quality?
Yes. This exactly says it all
My new theme song ...
T swift wrote this!
💯
Sucks being the guy that's wasn't good enough.
😢❤
To all the people who love this song...😌
Taylor Swift wrote it...😊
Every word…
It hurts doesn't it?
Yes
Me too
Three years ago I left my ex fiancè never again will I let a man walk all over me
Good song and Taylor Swift wrote it
Makes me think of my ex.
I’m so sorry V…
💔
Why couldn't you be?
If you can relate to this song, please go read about Narcissistic Personality Disorder immediately and thank me later.
TAYLOR SWIFT WROTE THIS SONG !!!
So do i
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