This is such an insightful and rarely addressed topic. Every time it comes up on sm, it’s always biased arguments here and there laced with trauma. It’s a major reason some people aren’t married yet because somehow, they believe that once they get married, they would have to bear more than they can carry and put everything else in the burner. Some don’t even believe that it can and should be discussed. Most importantly, I love that it’s coming from people who are living the reality and I hope more people get to see it. Thank you for always, PT and Lady O❤️🙏🏻
Insightful video Honey and Tea 😁 (loved the intro). Concerning gender roles in my home, these questions are pertinent - Who can do it better? Who is available to do it? Who enjoys doing it most? And truly, the roles can change at any time. The koko is that we are a team playing to our strengths.
I agree that it's going to take a whole lot of unlearning and relearning, even on the part of the women. Growing up, I never saw my Dad take part in any domestic roles; it was always my mom. So, it's already ingrained into my mind that housekeeping is the woman's job, and the man can just sit around and do nothing, and this is really eye-opening because there are things I don't like to do. I love to wash plates, wash the toilet, cook, arrange, but you see that sweeping and mopping??😭 I detest it greatly. It's an extreme sport for me. Like you said, these roles should be based on preference and what each partner has to offer. Thanks again for the video. ❤
This is such an insightful and rarely addressed topic. Every time it comes up on sm, it’s always biased arguments here and there laced with trauma. It’s a major reason some people aren’t married yet because somehow, they believe that once they get married, they would have to bear more than they can carry and put everything else in the burner. Some don’t even believe that it can and should be discussed.
Most importantly, I love that it’s coming from people who are living the reality and I hope more people get to see it.
Thank you for always, PT and Lady O❤️🙏🏻
T and Honey ❤️❤️Love itttt
Thank you so much The Oludapos ❤Been a blessing ❤❤
Thank you for sharing. This opened my eyes 👀 to what is obtainable. Absolutely an enlightening one.
Thank you PT and lady O, it’s the hard rice for me😂😂
Insightful video Honey and Tea 😁 (loved the intro). Concerning gender roles in my home, these questions are pertinent - Who can do it better? Who is available to do it? Who enjoys doing it most?
And truly, the roles can change at any time. The koko is that we are a team playing to our strengths.
I love your summary
I can’t be the only one that loves your setup 😍
If all the men can watch this video,it would have been nice for me
Very educative and understanding conversation.
Compassion should spur you to action. Absolutely agree with this
This was very insightful and fun to watch 😂🥰. Thank you, PT and Lady O, for always ❤️ ❤
Thank you so much PT and Lady O.
Gbam Gbam Gbam 🎉🎉.
Thank you!.
Thank you, PT and Lady O! This enlightened me and made me a lot wiser! ❤️
I needed this video. I've been battling this is my mind for a while, because i don't want to seem selfish.
Thank you PT and Lady O. I could relate with some parts of this video and also learnt a lot❤
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The cutest 😂😂😂❤
Thank you💜
Thank you PT and Lady O
This video is spot on!!!
Thank you for this. Learnt a lot
A very insightful video, Thank you PT and Lady O ❤
Thank you PT and Lady O 🤭❤️
Wise thoughts, thanks for sharing! ❤
I love that these videos are just coming at the perfect time
This is a wonderful discussion ❤
I agree that it's going to take a whole lot of unlearning and relearning, even on the part of the women.
Growing up, I never saw my Dad take part in any domestic roles; it was always my mom. So, it's already ingrained into my mind that housekeeping is the woman's job, and the man can just sit around and do nothing, and this is really eye-opening because there are things I don't like to do. I love to wash plates, wash the toilet, cook, arrange, but you see that sweeping and mopping??😭
I detest it greatly. It's an extreme sport for me. Like you said, these roles should be based on preference and what each partner has to offer. Thanks again for the video. ❤
I don't like washing plate, clothes or toilet but I can sweep and mop the floor 😅 Are you thinking what I'm thinking
@@samuelfowowe5451 😂😂😂 that depends on what I exactly you're thinking.
Thank you for this😊
PT!!! Undone rice😝😝🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
I absolutely love this set design❤
One one = Undone. Let me write it down 🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Gender roles is rooted in cultural bias and traditions. We need to unlearn a lot of the bias that’s been drilled into our subconscious
One one rice for the win please ❤😂😂😂
I have learn't so so much
I don’t know the mental shift that will happen to make start to enjoy cooking 🌚
I hope my "her" doesn't get to watch this video 😂
I will wash clothes tire 😂😂😂
This is an amazing video, I love the light gotten from it!
#riceundone
So you will lie about it?😂😂😂
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My Parent's marriage is not my marriage.
Thank you for this 😊