Redefining Gender Roles in Marriage

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  • @deolaronipede372
    @deolaronipede372 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This is such an insightful and rarely addressed topic. Every time it comes up on sm, it’s always biased arguments here and there laced with trauma. It’s a major reason some people aren’t married yet because somehow, they believe that once they get married, they would have to bear more than they can carry and put everything else in the burner. Some don’t even believe that it can and should be discussed.
    Most importantly, I love that it’s coming from people who are living the reality and I hope more people get to see it.
    Thank you for always, PT and Lady O❤️🙏🏻

  • @foyinsolamidaniels397
    @foyinsolamidaniels397 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    T and Honey ❤️❤️Love itttt

  • @otarosimisola5191
    @otarosimisola5191 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you so much The Oludapos ❤Been a blessing ❤❤

  • @PhilipThrives
    @PhilipThrives ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you for sharing. This opened my eyes 👀 to what is obtainable. Absolutely an enlightening one.

  • @iroegbufavour1317
    @iroegbufavour1317 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thank you PT and lady O, it’s the hard rice for me😂😂

  • @Jayeoba.Faanubomi
    @Jayeoba.Faanubomi ปีที่แล้ว +12

    Insightful video Honey and Tea 😁 (loved the intro). Concerning gender roles in my home, these questions are pertinent - Who can do it better? Who is available to do it? Who enjoys doing it most?
    And truly, the roles can change at any time. The koko is that we are a team playing to our strengths.

  • @DeborahWarmate
    @DeborahWarmate ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I can’t be the only one that loves your setup 😍

  • @Daughterofmosthigh08
    @Daughterofmosthigh08 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    If all the men can watch this video,it would have been nice for me
    Very educative and understanding conversation.

  • @Llolia
    @Llolia ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Compassion should spur you to action. Absolutely agree with this

  • @oluwadamilolafatiloro
    @oluwadamilolafatiloro ปีที่แล้ว +4

    This was very insightful and fun to watch 😂🥰. Thank you, PT and Lady O, for always ❤️ ❤

  • @theSandraUche
    @theSandraUche 11 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you so much PT and Lady O.

  • @TheTomilobaAremu
    @TheTomilobaAremu ปีที่แล้ว

    Gbam Gbam Gbam 🎉🎉.
    Thank you!.

  • @TheLordsEnvoy
    @TheLordsEnvoy ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Thank you, PT and Lady O! This enlightened me and made me a lot wiser! ❤️

  • @faithdada5990
    @faithdada5990 9 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I needed this video. I've been battling this is my mind for a while, because i don't want to seem selfish.

  • @tryde_d
    @tryde_d ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you PT and Lady O. I could relate with some parts of this video and also learnt a lot❤

  • @똑바로말해-b7m
    @똑바로말해-b7m ปีที่แล้ว +1

    18:58
    The cutest 😂😂😂❤

  • @Thesthervictor
    @Thesthervictor 10 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thank you💜

  • @theUbongUmoh
    @theUbongUmoh ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you PT and Lady O

  • @Beeinpurpose
    @Beeinpurpose ปีที่แล้ว +2

    This video is spot on!!!

  • @oluwafunmitooyewo810
    @oluwafunmitooyewo810 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this. Learnt a lot

  • @chinenyeuzor5936
    @chinenyeuzor5936 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    A very insightful video, Thank you PT and Lady O ❤

  • @OloladeOyewole-yl7cd
    @OloladeOyewole-yl7cd ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you PT and Lady O 🤭❤️

  • @praisetar
    @praisetar ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Wise thoughts, thanks for sharing! ❤

  • @theconfidentdesigner
    @theconfidentdesigner ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I love that these videos are just coming at the perfect time

  • @adedejiopeyemi4859
    @adedejiopeyemi4859 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    This is a wonderful discussion ❤

  • @TheLordsEnvoy
    @TheLordsEnvoy ปีที่แล้ว +8

    I agree that it's going to take a whole lot of unlearning and relearning, even on the part of the women.
    Growing up, I never saw my Dad take part in any domestic roles; it was always my mom. So, it's already ingrained into my mind that housekeeping is the woman's job, and the man can just sit around and do nothing, and this is really eye-opening because there are things I don't like to do. I love to wash plates, wash the toilet, cook, arrange, but you see that sweeping and mopping??😭
    I detest it greatly. It's an extreme sport for me. Like you said, these roles should be based on preference and what each partner has to offer. Thanks again for the video. ❤

    • @samuelfowowe5451
      @samuelfowowe5451 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I don't like washing plate, clothes or toilet but I can sweep and mop the floor 😅 Are you thinking what I'm thinking

    • @TheLordsEnvoy
      @TheLordsEnvoy ปีที่แล้ว

      @@samuelfowowe5451 😂😂😂 that depends on what I exactly you're thinking.

  • @AderonkeAdebowaleAlabi
    @AderonkeAdebowaleAlabi ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this😊

  • @melodyayokunnu6155
    @melodyayokunnu6155 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    PT!!! Undone rice😝😝🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @myrrhemenyi
    @myrrhemenyi ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I absolutely love this set design❤

  • @theconfidentdesigner
    @theconfidentdesigner ปีที่แล้ว +4

    One one = Undone. Let me write it down 🤣🤣🤣🤣

  • @Beingempresspearl
    @Beingempresspearl ปีที่แล้ว +1

    😊

  • @Lamieakins
    @Lamieakins ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Gender roles is rooted in cultural bias and traditions. We need to unlearn a lot of the bias that’s been drilled into our subconscious

  • @Sophia_Asoro
    @Sophia_Asoro ปีที่แล้ว

    One one rice for the win please ❤😂😂😂

  • @theUbongUmoh
    @theUbongUmoh ปีที่แล้ว

    I have learn't so so much

  • @Lamieakins
    @Lamieakins ปีที่แล้ว +1

    I don’t know the mental shift that will happen to make start to enjoy cooking 🌚

  • @dukofafrica
    @dukofafrica ปีที่แล้ว +3

    I hope my "her" doesn't get to watch this video 😂
    I will wash clothes tire 😂😂😂
    This is an amazing video, I love the light gotten from it!
    #riceundone

  • @onomeebe
    @onomeebe ปีที่แล้ว

    ❤🎉

  • @id_cohen
    @id_cohen ปีที่แล้ว +1

    My Parent's marriage is not my marriage.

  • @chikesurumwoha-akwu7609
    @chikesurumwoha-akwu7609 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Thank you for this 😊