Grief is weird. My mother in law passed away unexpectedly today. 🩷 hug your loved ones.

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  • @amyf.marshall5497
    @amyf.marshall5497 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +51

    Dr Grunch, I so happy to hold this space with you. You pour so much joy and knowledge into us. Sharing your grief is welcome. Blessing and condolences to your husband and all of your family members.

  • @lauraeaton5414
    @lauraeaton5414 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    I lost my Mom in law in 1991 right before. Mother's Day..she witnessed to me about Jesus right before she passed away. She had cancer. I made three promises to her. One that I would be Baptized by emersion, that o
    I wouldn't cry at her grave side. I kept all that she wanted me to do. My calico kitty conceived kittens that same day. I now go to the church I was Baptized in. Jesus has gotten me through so much including the loss of my parents. So sorry for your loss and prsyers for your family sent up.💔🙏😭

    • @ukmary1968
      @ukmary1968 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      I’m so sorry for your loss

  • @Jennifer-pi6ty
    @Jennifer-pi6ty 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +25

    Any loss is hard, a sudden loss is harder. May god bless you and your family during this difficult time.

  • @catherineb5066
    @catherineb5066 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Grief is seldom linear ..its individualized...its a tremendous amount of love💝with no where to go...its unchartered waters you must navigate together⛵️🙏💝

  • @cindymathieson6467
    @cindymathieson6467 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +15

    You are very brave to share your loss with us. Sincere condolences on the loss of your MIL, Riley and Bea's grandmother and of course Ray's mom.

  • @LisaT_
    @LisaT_ 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +27

    Deepest sympathy and condolences for this sad and unexpected loss. Nothing prepares you. Her energy lives on. ❤

  • @rainbowsparkles5304
    @rainbowsparkles5304 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Big hugs to you and yours, Dr. Grunch. Grief is weird, for sure. I lost my mom on leap day this year (my Dad in ‘21) . It’s been up & down. Yesterday, July 1st, would’ve been her 81st birthday. Sitting in my hospital bed, I sang “You Are My Sunshine” to her & hugged myself & sent it to her. 🕊️to you & yours

  • @Chelssums
    @Chelssums 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Betsy, a lot of people are so proud of you, your husband, and your family. Death is weird. The process is weird. Cleaning up someone’s things that were meant to be private and personal is weird. You ask yourself questions like, “Should I even be touching this secret bag of pebbles my loved one hid in her dresser?” It all feels so weird. You are not alone in that. It is also completely normal to hyper focus on things that you normally wouldn’t- duck shaped urns, weird photos on walls, etc. We’re happy to be your support system on social media. I am wishing you strength for you and your husband + family.

  • @good.vibes.only00
    @good.vibes.only00 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +18

    Bea is a spitting imagine of her Grandma! Sorry for your family’s loss.

  • @juliahouse7176
    @juliahouse7176 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    You will find the right words to share the news with your children. When my mother passed my daughter was inconsolable that night. What I didn't realize until later was how deep her grief was. Definitely be open to therapy for the kiddos.

  • @deborahdufel1664
    @deborahdufel1664 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. ❤

  • @adriannes294
    @adriannes294 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

    Dr. Grunch. We lost my father in law to a brain aneurism in January. Give yourself grace. Wishing you the best as you & your family walk through this journey ❤

  • @Hufflebear
    @Hufflebear 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    I'm very sorry, in the process of losing my dad to pancreatic cancer. Over one year , which is more than most people get with this deadly disease, and yet everyday it hurts. I really like ask a morticians videos on planing a funeral and burial cremation viewing etc options, it is done with a bit of humor but you can tell how much they care.❤

  • @btuller1772
    @btuller1772 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Lots of us have lost parents. Grief sucks and your journey with grief is like a finger print. No two grief journeys match and it is your own. Our hearts are crying with you tonight because we know it's hard. The one thing I took away from when my Dad passed was the comments and memories people shared. Stories I hadn't heard from people who knew him a long time. That and the gathering of family. Praying for you and your family during this time and for you and your husband as you tell your kids.

  • @susquahallasmiley3262
    @susquahallasmiley3262 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Over time, may the memory of her love ease your grief at the loss. Hugs to your whole sweet family.

  • @Prettygirllife21
    @Prettygirllife21 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Dr Grunch I also am going through the same thing with grief. I recently lost my father on 6/12 and I miss him dearly. He also had some health issues but his death still was unexpected. Thank you for sharing your story and life with us. Makes me feel not alone. My condolences to you and your family. ❤

  • @richardmarzano7298
    @richardmarzano7298 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry for your family’s loss. My husband’s mother passed very suddenly in 1974 of a ruptured cerebral aneurysm so I understand the significance of the sudden loss. Cling to each other and treasure the many memories you shared with her. Words are inadequate…

  • @UGH2500
    @UGH2500 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    🙏May God ❤ watch over you and comfort your family in the coming weeks. ✝️
    I deal with Death on a daily basis for work and it NEVER gets easy especially when loved ones were not afforded the ability to say Goodbye in person. I am so sorry.

  • @estherrossnewman4261
    @estherrossnewman4261 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +13

    I'm so sad for the family sending a big hug!!!

  • @TheresaRichard
    @TheresaRichard 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Loss is hard not matter who you are…I’m so sorry for your family loss. Hugs. 🤗

  • @debrapochie520
    @debrapochie520 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    I send all the love in the world to your family 🫂 Amazon & Walmart online has all the things you listed plus caskets that are beautiful and much more affordable for families. ❤

  • @patealabazajian3820
    @patealabazajian3820 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +6

    So very sorry for yalls loss ❤️🫶🏼

  • @marielouise3187
    @marielouise3187 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry for you and your family! And mourning your mother-in-law maybe means sharing your grief. Talking about her is also honoring her !
    My sincere condolences.💚

  • @jeannegrutchfield5943
    @jeannegrutchfield5943 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    There are no words, so deeply sorry. Echoing what others have said - you can see her light and beauty in your children.

  • @deborahhornback3617
    @deborahhornback3617 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Losing a mom either yours or your husband's is very hard!!! I have lost both and it hurts!!!! Will be praying for your family!!!😢

  • @Whatsyourpointfacts
    @Whatsyourpointfacts 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I will keep you in my prayers 😢🙌🙌🙌🙏🙏🙏

  • @SamMeredith1987
    @SamMeredith1987 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. So sorry for your loss. 😢

  • @MadiMoo-jm7pd
    @MadiMoo-jm7pd วันที่ผ่านมา

    I lost my dad when I was 17, I say this to say grief is truly such an odd thing. The waves of emotions are truly that, praying for you and your family❤

  • @JonathanSmith-jp4sh
    @JonathanSmith-jp4sh 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    So much support my dad just died from GBM brain cancer its hard but we getting thought it but I pray for you...

  • @petitecherie501
    @petitecherie501 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    My heart Grieves with yours. I see even the pooches will be missing her .

  • @jackiemontogmery125
    @jackiemontogmery125 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for you family's loss. Praying for all of you. I also have had unexpected loss with my 27 yr old daughter many yrs ago. So hard. Grammy from Texas

  • @fionamckinnon
    @fionamckinnon 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sorry for your loss. It really hurts. I truly understand. It's almost a year since my Dad passed and it still hurts and doesn't feel real.You are not alone. Thinking of you all.

  • @mama_keikei8081
    @mama_keikei8081 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thank you so much for feeling safe to tell us! You’re such a great woman and your mother in law was probably very proud to have you. ❤

  • @samanthap.879
    @samanthap.879 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Your baby girl has her exact smile. I am feeling so sad for you and sending love your way.

  • @trishnickles2236
    @trishnickles2236 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Dr. Grunch,
    I'm so very sorry about the loss of your Mother in Law.
    Sending you and your family blessings of comfort and strength during this very difficult time. ❤❤🙏

  • @brittanyrowland6534
    @brittanyrowland6534 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    So sorry for your loss 😢

  • @ruralgirl_007
    @ruralgirl_007 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I'm sorry this happened to you and your family, Dr. Betsy. My condolences to each one of you. 🥀🙏❤️

  • @jennifercree4347
    @jennifercree4347 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Praying for your family 🙏 thank you for sharing. And the roll tide joke was great ❤

  • @jessicacornelius132
    @jessicacornelius132 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My mom passed a year ago from bladder cancer, she opted out of a funeral because of the way funeral homes made her feel. So sorry for your loss, hug those Littles extra tight tonight.❤

  • @cherifigueroa3378
    @cherifigueroa3378 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I’m so sorry, wishing you and your family well ❤

  • @tans6207
    @tans6207 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Very sorry for the sudden loss of your mum in law Dr Betsy especially for your hubby and father in law , yourself , the kids and all . 🇦🇺🦘 best prayers and bless her in heaven .

  • @ukmary1968
    @ukmary1968 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My daddy had fallen on a Thursday. He had lupus and diabetic neuropathy. The squad came and he refused the ED. The next night his blood glucose dropped. The squad came again he refused the ED. Saturday he got up, got dressed and sat in his recliner. Around 11 am his breathing changed. I was called by my stepmother for help. I told her to call 911. They started compressions and intubated him in the driveway. Hours later they pronounced. His potassium was 9 due to lupus nephritis that was undetected by his physicians. This is why he couldn’t keep a rhythm. It will 4 years August 1st. A feels like forever and yesterday at the same time. I’m very sorry for your loss. I’ll be thinking of your family in this difficult time. Wishing you peace

  • @Blopez383
    @Blopez383 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Dr. Grinch and family, we send our condolences to your family. What a shock! So sorry, take care of each other❤. Our prayers to all.

  • @Digitalhunny
    @Digitalhunny 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Omg, your whole family needs support right now! Please, take a few days off if you can. Such a devastating loss of a strong, beloved matriarch. Sending you lots of love & healing vibes to comfort your family during this massive loss. ❤❤❤😢❤❤❤❤

  • @darrenandcarolynoneill2399
    @darrenandcarolynoneill2399 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My deepest condolences to you and your family. Please take the time to heal.

  • @tonyachavis977
    @tonyachavis977 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    May her memory be a blessing

  • @ypmama4747
    @ypmama4747 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Prayers to you and your family. Lost my dad this past Wednesday and my mom a year ago. Not easy. 💔

  • @bamamomof4551
    @bamamomof4551 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Praying for you and your family!

  • @sailboatrn7372
    @sailboatrn7372 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so deeply sorry for your and your family’s loss.

  • @mrs.tomcollins2424
    @mrs.tomcollins2424 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Our most sincere condolences to you and your family Dr. Grunch. You’ll all be in my thoughts and prayers. 🙏

  • @MV-ew6ty
    @MV-ew6ty 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss Dr And for your husbands loss and the entire family. Very sad. Praying for you guys and your children. 😢🙏🏻Lord rest her soul.

  • @poodleloo391
    @poodleloo391 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry for your loss ❤

  • @julieraper1251
    @julieraper1251 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My deepest sympathy to you and your family.

  • @MsFionalisa
    @MsFionalisa วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry to hear it Dr. Grunch. Please give my condolences to your husband. My mother in law was my very good friend and when I lost her it was so hard. Bless you and your family.

  • @jemelajiminez1736
    @jemelajiminez1736 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Prayers going up for you and the family.

  • @Redman9250
    @Redman9250 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry for your loss. 🙏

  • @rosanntaylor5100
    @rosanntaylor5100 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Hugs to you all ❤️ x

  • @h2oelephant
    @h2oelephant 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Love to your family.

  • @par4par72
    @par4par72 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    My deepest sympathy for your loss.

  • @ashlieleavelle
    @ashlieleavelle 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss.

  • @nikiac9904
    @nikiac9904 วันที่ผ่านมา

    🙏 for your family. So sorry for your loss.

  • @Joanmorris337
    @Joanmorris337 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My condolences to you and Ray. Prayers going up 🙏🏿

  • @zoilatapanes3746
    @zoilatapanes3746 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sorry for your loss 😢🙏

  • @jennugent3957
    @jennugent3957 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry, grief is hard. Be kind to yourselves. It can be sneaky and pop up when not expecting it, I'd a tear come to my eye yesterday for a parent gone nearly 25 years.

  • @Memaw1868
    @Memaw1868 13 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    April 7th was 2 years since my mother in-law passed. I miss her so much. I really loved and still love her. My husband and I had the honor of taking care of her the last couple months of her life.

  • @Platizza
    @Platizza วันที่ผ่านมา

    It was a peaceful way to go for her. But such a shock 😢. I'm so sorry🙏🏼

  • @judydenio3179
    @judydenio3179 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Saddened to hear of y’all’s loss. 🙏

  • @sarab2624
    @sarab2624 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry for your loss!

  • @user-tk8hu5pr7o
    @user-tk8hu5pr7o วันที่ผ่านมา

    I'm so sorry for your loss.

  • @donnabrock8861
    @donnabrock8861 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss

  • @priscillacatania6340
    @priscillacatania6340 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    💞💔💞keeping you and your family in my prayers.

  • @michellekositzke8647
    @michellekositzke8647 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss. 😢❤

  • @jopogorzelski126
    @jopogorzelski126 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss 🙏🏻

  • @lisaharvey4196
    @lisaharvey4196 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry for your loss. Praying for you and your family.

  • @juliej5917
    @juliej5917 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry (for all of you) losing your MIL, Mother, and Grandma. I will say that passing in one’s sleep seems like the best route to heaven. Thankful she didn’t suffer. 🩵💙💜

  • @KLNM888
    @KLNM888 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Ty for your heart …. ❤️

  • @kellysims676
    @kellysims676 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    My thoughts & prayers are with you & your family. ❤

  • @splovelace
    @splovelace 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry for your loss. Your emotions are definitely palpable.
    Blessed are they who grieve, for they shall be comforted.

  • @mackenzikassens8829
    @mackenzikassens8829 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    We are here for you and yours, Doc. 🖤

  • @graciehp
    @graciehp วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your family’s loss.

  • @Brighteyes0131
    @Brighteyes0131 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So sorry for your loss 💔💔

  • @khuddle731
    @khuddle731 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry for your family’s loss.

  • @sarahkingston7421
    @sarahkingston7421 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ❤️❤️ Love and prayers to you and your family.

  • @Capt_Duzer
    @Capt_Duzer 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sincere condolences, doc 💐 💔

  • @sashahill8690
    @sashahill8690 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry your family’s loss. You all are in my thoughts and prayers ❤

  • @squeak6417
    @squeak6417 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending condolences and prayers to your family.

  • @kimberlyfoulkrod2229
    @kimberlyfoulkrod2229 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very sorry for your family’s loss.

  • @SENSEISHYPEMAN
    @SENSEISHYPEMAN 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Mr & Mrs.Grunch I’m so sorry… I’ll be praying for comfort and peace.😣🌸💕

  • @kathleengreen9660
    @kathleengreen9660 2 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    I am so sorry for your loss! My heart cries for you and your family❤

  • @Familylawgroup
    @Familylawgroup 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am sooo sorry for your loss.

  • @nancymedeiros5268
    @nancymedeiros5268 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    May you find peace. Sorry for your loss. Never easy

  • @ginatyra8451
    @ginatyra8451 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sending hugs, love and prayers to you all.

  • @donna779
    @donna779 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Sorry for your family's loss

  • @shalimarvogues3898
    @shalimarvogues3898 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So sorry for your loss. I send my condolences ❤❤

  • @brc9064
    @brc9064 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Deepest condolences to you and your family

  • @kathyreid3488
    @kathyreid3488 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So very sorry for your loss. Will keep your family in my prayers.

  • @codename495
    @codename495 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry Miss. I wish you all comfort.

  • @MsProsandcons
    @MsProsandcons วันที่ผ่านมา

    I am so incredibly sad for all of you. Losing a parent is like losing an era. You're forced to start a new one. Empty and emotionally torn. Hugging all of you across these cold air waves.🤗

  • @leahbreiter
    @leahbreiter 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m sorry for your loss. Sending love to your family ❤

  • @jmtrs79
    @jmtrs79 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I’m so sorry for your loss 🙏