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Oh sweet girl!!! Please please be proud of your job, your accomplishments, your cleaning service and every single thing that you and Tyler have worked for. When I was your age I was in my first marriage with 2 kids and the struggle was REAL!!! It’s very refreshing to me to see people you and Tyler’s age making so much out of their lives!!!! I’m incredibly proud of you!!!! Enjoy your beautiful life and never ever let anyone make you feel ashamed for your accomplishments ❤❤❤❤
it’s incredible to see how gracefully you acknowledge your privilege. truuuust that it never seems like you’re bragging. someone’s negative reaction to something positive happening for you has nothing to do with you if you’re standing in integrity with your choices 🩵
It actually insults and proves her concerns calling it her "privilege". Her life and their accomplishments are not privileges, but the direct consequence to what they have completely earned and worked extremely hard for in creating and building their life and family. Privilege is not earned, and her life is fully earned and it disrespects all their hard work and choices to call it privilege.
@@betsybabf748 respectfully, i disagree. hard work reaps incredible privilege. it’s not meant with a negative connotation at all. and nowhere in my comment did i say she hasn’t worked hard. i admire her tenacity as she’s built this platform in the 6+ years i’ve been a subscriber.
@@betsybabf748 all career milestones come with privileges. i’m an actor, and in a union: which come with privileges - better pay, health insurance, etc. acknowledging them doesn’t mean i didn’t work incredibly hard. hope this helps!
@@kellianndecarlo I disagree with how your comment presents, and by the actual definition of the word 'privilege', you are using the term inaccurately.
I used to watch a ton of beauty influencers (Emily Noel, Rachh Loves, Allie Glines, Kathleen Lights etc.). I have nothing against those lovely ladies, but you have morphed and grown and changed your channel as my life has changed as well. I have continued following you all these years (I've been following since around the time you got engaged) because you are more relatable to me. I am a SAHM and wife, so I am not buying a ton of new makeup. I'm also being more intentional about what I do buy, so I dont purchase very often. I love your lifestyle and home content! I agree about the phones! As parents we have to protect our kiddos and teens when they don't have the capacity to understand the dangers and consequences themselves.
It’s so refreshing to hear another parent talk about not giving their kids a phone or social media. My kids are only toddlers too but I think about this a weird amount. Us “strict” parents need to stick together! 😂 but seriously protect your kids at all costs nobody else will do it if you don’t and when I heard that it really changed my perspective. No one cares about your kids the way you do.
Thank you for saying this. Wish more parents were on board. Just last week doctors got 2nd warning about how it rewires brains not developed yet. Our minds are not fully developed til 25. So as long as you hold off the better. Lots of children are experiencing depression and anxiety.
Same, my kids are only 6 but my husband and I have already decided no phones until at least 15/16. And I really don’t care what anyone has to say about it.
My sister didn’t give my niece a phone until she turned 13yo. At this age she was having more after school activities and it really helps my sister know when to pick her up by her calling. I remember having to use the pay phone to call my mom, but I don’t think they have those in school any more. My nephews are in elementary school and neither one will have a cell phone until, they are teens. I don’t have kids but I like parents wanting their children to be kids for as long as they can. Childhood is so fleeting and by having kids play with others is so much better for development than to be distanced by technology.
Your answer to the question about not showing your children is the reason I respect your content! I wish more people would understand what you and Tyler clearly get.
Jessica, I so relate to your chat. I grew up in a tumultuous home with very little money and that is putting it lightly. I also saw a lot of domestic abuse, drug addiction, and neglect.. I am now 41 living this incredibly fortunate life with great kids and a husband who works so hard and is my best friend. I struggle with all of this because of how differently I grew up. I feel guilty, flat out. It’s almost like I just will never identify myself as someone living a happy life who doesn’t struggle financially. My husband who also grew up like I did has a hard time with owning a successful business. Guilt, all the time. One of the only ways I have been able to mitigate this is by giving to others as much as we can, and realizing that God has allowed us to have the opportunity to bless others. We have to also own the fact that we have persevered, worked hard and hold gratitude in our hearts for all we have but also for all we have been through because that taught us so much. It has given me tremendous insight as a parent, and gave me a huge heart for children living in poverty and abusive situations. My own kids were raised to always be advocates for others, and to be grateful for how they live. And I pray they continue to live with a humble and grateful heart in this broken world. Much love..❤
Speaking as someone who is probably your mom's age, I think your parents can see how life is different for you than it was for them, and in the end all they want is for you to be happy. They know you have a good head on your shoulders! Siblings might experience some jealously, but surely they too just want you to have a great life.
As someone who grew up with my mom also doing all the cooking and cleaning, I have learned to shift my mindset that the keeping of the home is not just for the woman. My husband eats and uses dishes and wears clothes too. You are equals, partners and the tasks of the home should be shared because you both live there. Don’t feel guilty to letting your husband cook for you, especially if he enjoys it and it could be part of his love language. 😊 I really enjoyed this video.
My husband doesn’t do anything in the house ,doesn’t know how either. Married 49 years so I’m not fighting it now. His mom never taught him. I pay all the bills,do all cooking and housework. We ended up having 2 sons and boy they both can cook so darn well,wash clothes etc. I had them in the kitchen with him as soon as they were old enough to read directions with me etc. I taught them all of it !!
@@Raisin9502 that’s how my dad is. He treats my mom like she’s a maid. It’s so sad. I saw this growing up and made an intentional decision to find a man who would be able to cook and clean along side with me.
So true! I try to think about the fact that if a man was single, he would have to take care of himself anyway, in terms of cooking and cleaning. There’s nothing wrong with men helping out with household chores. ❤
About cleaning : we always had someone cleaning for us growing up. As a young mother. I would budget for a cleaning service. It gave me time to spend with my kids or some time on hobbies that I really enjoy. This promoted better mental health for me. You work hard an deserve some benefit for you
Girl, who cares what people don’t like! DO/BE YOU! We are here for you. We enjoy watching you on your journey of life. Beauty content, vlogs, trips, family etc! We are here to support you. I’ve been making beauty content for 6 years now, so I know the ups and downs of content creation
I loooove the content you do know , I’m definitely old enough to be your mom and never had a sister or a daughter so I’d be proud to be your mom. You are so genuine…keep doing YOU ❣️
I really really love the vulnerable chats, life can feel so lonely and isolating but when you see someone else dealing with the same things it’s less heavy. I hope you believe us when we say we don’t think you brag about anything. I love being happy for you! If someone has a negative reaction to what you share and the choices you make in your life, it’s a reflection of what they’re feeling about themselves. Some people are not ready to face their triggers and deal with the hard stuff within. That’s not something you should let stop you from celebrating yourself and the results of your hard work! Thank you for sharing with us 😊
you guys (and your editors) do such a good job keeping the girls presence minimal in vlogs! so happy that you made that decision. i really think it's for the best.
I dont know your parents personally obviously - but what i’ve seen of them I cannot imagine your parents wanting anything for you but BETTER than what they had when they were your age. I’m sure they would feel so happy for you that you’ve built the life you have because its different from what they had!
I am an "older" subscriber, I believe. (71) But I couldn't agree with you more about the "guilt". I have always felt that way - and was afraid to tell folks some things because it would sound like "bragging". Being brought up to think it sounded conceited to talk about good things about yourself has a lot to do with it. Not that being brought up that way was a bad thing - it's just how things were. Even now, when we plan a big trip I feel like even my kids (grown up) will think we are bragging about the fact that we are able to do this. Right now as a matter of fact we have a trip to Disney in September booked and I just booked a beach trip to Mexico in October and felt guilty telling my daughter (yesterday) about the Mexico trip! It's weird, but it's definitely a thing!! Love watching your videos and love your family!!
I’ve been a subscriber for YEARS and so enjoy how you opened up your content beyond just makeup. I love getting ready and chatting with my friend Jessie! ☀️☀️☀️
I really love your view on showing your children! I honestly don’t love seeing children on the internet because I know I wouldn’t have wanted to have that digital footprint growing up.
2 comments I’m so thrilled to hear you talk about. 1) Kids/youth with cell phones. I’ve seen what my phone has done to me and I want better for them. I think more & more people are waking up to this and the more we talk about it, the easier it will get. 2) I’m so glad to hear you got help around the house. Like you said, it may be just for a season. And as your kids get older and can help with chores around the house, that too will make it easier. Your & Tyler’s mental health is so important to the mental health of your whole house. You 2 are very busy and productive people. I think it’s good for the kids to also see you modeling asking/getting help so they can ask when they need help too. My Mom did everything growing up. She worked full time, did all the cooking, we kids helped with housework. But she was stretched so thin and we all saw what it did to her.
I just wanted to say, I am 21 weeks pregnant and have found a lot of youtubers I watched prior to pregnancy, now bring an odd sense of stress or anxiety to me. You are one of the few TH-camrs I still watch every video of during pregnancy, because you bring a sense of joy and calmness to me. I just wanted to say thank you and let you know how much of a positive impact your videos have brought me during this time
I encourage all my Disney people in many life to watch the Disney walk-through’s! The sights and sounds are so relaxing, it’s a special thing on the internet for sure. 🌞
My thought: I was a stay at home mom for 11 years and i used to get the “it must be nice” comment a lot! It actually bothered me only because its still A LOT of work! And people dont realize that. You never get to clock out and leave work there. So it got frustrating but on the other hand it WAS VERY nice! My husband and i got to a place and it worked well for our situation and everyone is different. At that, i would never let someone else’s opinions or jealousy change my appreciation of the life i lived (many things have changed since then so its not all the same now) so dont let snarky comments or even the fear of make you less open to be proud of where you have come in your life. It wasnt just handed to you, its taken a lot of work and planning and trust in Gods plan that has brought you here!!! Sending all my love to you and your family ❤️
☀️ I’ve contemplated hiring a cleaning company so many times but talk myself out it every time. I’m single with no kids and always feel so guilty that I can’t even keep on top of everything for just one person. You’ve made me want to finally just do it!
So worth it. I have fibromyalgia and cleaning can put me down for days! I pick up and do dishes and light keep up tasks everyday, but housekeeper does the heavy duty stuff. 😊
For me, the thought of “I dont live my life the way others around me do or modeled for me” is my form of perfectionism and I feel like I’m not meeting the standard. It’s really hard but I’m trying to unlearn it and be kinder to myself
36:13 waiiiiit!! I have a tip that has changed my freaking life about the hanging clothes thing. I keep empty hangers by the washer & dryer. As they come out, I hang them. The rest goes into the basket to fold. Seriously, this process has actually worked for me. Don’t know why, don’t care. It does the trick for my brain.
Saturday morning coffee and Jess?! Yes, please!! Jess- I tried the Tower 28 mascara on our trip to San Antonio last week- hot as balls and humid and OMG!!! I LOOOOVE it!! And I cannot believe how easy it is to remove.
Ironically, I’m starting work again tomorrow after maternity leave and was looking up videos on how to navigate mom guilt on TH-cam. I wasn’t coming up lucky so I gave up and thought, “I’ll just catch up on Jessica Braun.” Low and behold you talk about mom guilt and make me feel so much better
☀️ The guilt about doing things differently from how you were raised is very relatable! My mom was a stay at home. Mom and our house was always spotless. I work, and our house is very lived in. I have gotten over the guilt about not being a stay at home mom, and I am getting better about the house, not always being clean.
I’m there with you 110%. For example, my husband has a ridiculously successful business. I’m a RN and only work part-time, basically just to keep my clinical skills up. My mom retired four years ago and started cleaning on the side for extra money. We pay her to clean our house weekly when we truly don’t need it (because I’m here and our kids are older), but there’s no way she wouldn’t let us give her money. So, I always feel terrible for her to be here cleaning my house when we could easily give her money every month and I could clean the house. It’s just one of those terrible feeling things. A lot more conflict comes with privilege than most people think. Staying as humble as you are is key. You’re fabulous 💗
I recently hired a cleaning company solely so I could spend more time with my young son. I felt I was missing out on too much because of the time I spent cleaning. It took me a long time to realize the cost/benefit of such a service and I also felt guilt about it as someone who grew up in a very low income household. I didn’t want to tell my mom and when I did, her reaction was surprisingly that of pride - that we had come so far that we could afford it, that we realized we needed the help and sought it out, etc. As moms, we put these “shoulds” on ourselves that are unrealistic - i.e. we “should” be able to do it all. By hiring the cleaning service, you are making a choice that it is good for your family and you should take comfort in that decision! No judgment!
I just always appreciate how honest you are. You absolutely don’t have to share everything with your viewers but also what you do choose to share is done so well bc I feel like you’re my friend :) I listen to you while I’m working at home alone in the house and it’s so comforting.
I can totally relate and understand the feelings and thoughts u describe. Similar upbringings, similar “roles”seen in my life, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to realize some of this guilt we feel comes from the patriarchy and misogyny. Sometimes those two things happen inadvertently with the best of ppl in our lives, it’s not that our mother’s were abused necessarily , but watching them play that patriarchal role is in our raising and it leads to feelings like this. Also, if a woman makes more money then her husband, that’s another facet of those two issues. So, for me, I have to tell myself that how we choose to run our home and what works for us and the successes I have as a woman are perfectly normal. It’s okay to feel these things but don’t let them hold u back please, love ya Jess! ❤
I have so much respect for you and your boundaries that you have with your family. My husband and I have the same core values as you and Tyler do. I'm also extremely happy for you and all the success and freedom that's come your way. You deserve it, Jessica! Sending lots of love to you and your beautiful family.
🌞I've watched your family for a long time (for some reason I was subscribed to Tyler's channel for a long while and within the last couple years subbed to you.) You are spot on in your thinking about not having the girls on camera and your desire to not give them phones too early! Jessica you are a true blessing in my life. Thank you and Thank God.
Jessie girl you are so down to earth, please never feel guilty about your wealth or success, you deserve every last bit of it. You never come across as bragging or snooty. Regardless of lifestyle differences you are still extremely relatable. You are grateful. You are humble. Anyone of us would hire a house cleaner or travel often if we were in your position. When God has blessed you with abundance, accepting those blessings is being grateful to Him. And if God tests you with adversity, being patient in those times is being grateful to Him. Live your life unapologetically. Free your mind from what other people might think. You are yourself and thats why we love you. You aren’t fake. The other day I asked my husband what would be the first thing he would buy if we had unlimited means. He said a personal chef and I agreed, lol.
I agree with your great comment to Jessica. And you know what? She is helping contribute to another family by hiring someone to clean. We need more people like Jess in the world without a shadow of a doubt! 💛
Speaking for myself when you share those things and since I have watched you for so long I am thrilled and excited to see how successful you and Tyler have been! It has NEVER come across as boasting to me at all. But I completely understand that feeling and I definitely see why you would feel hesitant, I have felt the same way in my own life!
There is nothing better than cleaning service once a month. Try to enjoy it! My mom was a SAHM, and I don’t feel guilty working because there are positives and negatives to any of these decisions. I loved having my mom around when I was little, but as I grew up I wished I had her as a role model for what a career could look like for a mom. You win some you lose some- choose what you think is right for your family!
Can you do a video about your jewellery please? The ones you like. The ones you don’t. Al the Brands. All of it! I love love love your jewellery! You’re so cute Jess!
Disney walk throughs get me through the work day!! Watching ride throughs, shows, listening to park music… definitely mood booster!! If you get it, you get it and I certainly get it 😂
I totally relate with the guilt aspect of not doing things the way we saw it done growing up! My mother is an AMAZING cook, and even with a full time job all of the cooking/cleaning/household management was left to her. I also love to cook. I used to cook some delicious, unique supper for about an hour every evening, but last year our lives got super busy. When everything came to a head I realized I had to let go of some beliefs like "I am loved if I do all the cooking and make an incredible meal every night." I started meal prepping, allowing my husband to cook his own food when I'm too busy (I used to be genuinely offended if he cooked his own food.) Now we both eat what we want, prepping a little at a time, and life is sooooo much easier. Dinner is no longer this big stressful to-do looming over me each day. Also, I am a house cleaner, PLEASE do not feel guilty for using a cleaning service! You are supplying people with a job. And I love what I do! If I've learned anything being a housecleaner, it's that most people are way too busy to keep their house clean! If you are blessed enough to afford it, take advantage of that! You don't deserve to feel shame for it.
Also, I serve clients from all walks of life and income brackets. It's really not something only millionaires can afford. More people use house cleaners than you might think.
I was the comment of the all day morning sickness and got so freaking excited to see it made the cut for this video. Everything you said about mentally trying to survive, I have been telling myself but hearing you say it made me cry and just feel so much better. ❤❤❤
☀️ ☀️ ☀️ I have watched you for years and you are definitely not braggy! You are one of the most humble people I know(I use the term loosely). You should be proud of your accomplishments. You deserve them! You have worked hard.
Jessica, sweet Jessica! Whoever says, "must be nice..." in order to guilt you about your life, I don't care what it is... that person is not worth worrying over. Anyone who is worth worrying over will say we are so proud of you and happy for you and love to see your family thriving and making precious memories. Because that's the honest truth! The kind of talk that makes you feel guilty is just jealousy. "Your people" will be the ones who turn that jealousy into happiness for you and your family. That's just what it is. Please do not feel like you have to guilt yourself over anything because it is a different day and age. Two income households were not as typical as they are now, and those jobs all look very different. Grow, adapt, and support the people you love. That's what it's all about. 💖
Girl same on the guilt. I work from home 3 days a week and still can’t stay on top of everything and it gets me down to admit I can’t do it all. Mom shame/ guilt is such a theft of our joy in all the things we’re doing well. Good for you to be able to have help! I’d take it but totally understand the guilt. I don’t think that goes away but it’s a good endeavor to try to balance it all and keep a positive perspective. Love you guys ❤
☀️ you’re a ray of sunshine!! Just have to say I really enjoy watching your videos. I’m also a mother and she’s 18months old mom guilt is no joke but remembering to continue to give yourself grace and do your best. You’re absolutely blessed ✨ there aren’t too many people who are able to work from home and make a decent living or even courageous enough to make content like you. Anyone that has negative energy towards you for all the hard work you give to be here shame on them. Thanks for being authentically you! Keep your head up always ❤️ Love you Jess and Braun family xo
I Love watching Disney walkthroughs! Especially on Telework Days. They are so calming. Love to see what people wear but it’s crazy some of the snippets of conversations you hear🤣
Thank you for sharing about your guilt and your upbringing! I was brought up similarly, and I’m now the only divorced person in my entire family. I’m a single mom who does everything: cooking, cleaning, working full-time, yardwork etc. Sometimes we just need help! You seem like you have a wonderful family like I do. Nobody judges any of that.
I think a story you may have thought about in regards to money might have sounded like, “I’m not supposed to spend lavishly on myself.” “I can spend on certain things but nothing over the top.” “I shouldn’t talk about the things money has afforded me.” You could baby step these limiting money beliefs so they feel positive and empowering. Something like “I’m beginning to see I can enjoy my money to provide a loving home for me and my family.”
Rubbermaid Brilliance food storage is amazing for keeping food good for much longer, especially produce. I bought everyone I know sets for Christmas, and now all are hooked. You can get plastic or glass versions, and they come in all sizes. I prep all produce in them now, and nothing goes bad. My kids pushed a large container with strawberries behind things so they were forgotten. Over two weeks later, they were still as fresh as when I first bought them, and strawberries never last well. I now prep all lettuces and store in them, and have not had lettuce go bad since. With what I have saved in not throwing away food has paid for them many times over.
I am so grateful for you to have the cleaning service once a month or however many times you choose! Giving yourself that lil break to use that time in many different ways. I am so stinking proud for you and Tyler having the success you are. Whoever said that is not "your ppl" their opinions do not matter. The ppl who matter are you, Tyler and the girls. ❤
I have a 9 year old and he’s at that age where his friends have phones and play video games that are rated above their age and there are times where I feel bad for him but then something will happen where I catch his friends doing something they aren’t supposed to or completely being unsocial because they are glued to their phones and in the moment I realize the amount of good I am doing for my child. I wish more parents would stick together to keep our kids away from the phones. Even parents who I know were against it have caved way early than I thought. I know as an adult the damage/addiction technology can have on us and teaching our kids early on to have a healthy and moderate relationship with it is so important! I’m proud of your decision!
I love that you have diversity on your channel. I love makeup but get bored with the same old makeup videos. Keep up your style it’s great and I admire 30:19 how down to earth you are it’s easy to relate to. Love your channel. Keep it up !
Jessica you are not flaunting your life. You have worked hard and continue to work hard to be and have what you have. This platform is open to anyone who wants to use it and start a channel. You do you boo.
On the guilt segment…please read How to Keep a House While Drowning by KC Davis. She has a podcast too called Struggle Care. Anyone having this battle of feelings, KC’s resources are profoundly helpful.
Thank you! I think your honest chats are one of the many things we appreciate about you. And it makes you even more relatable because we realize we’re not alone with similar struggles, like guilt, perfectionism etc. On a total random side note, after you wash berries, if you put a piece of paper towel in the container you’re going to store them in, it helps absorb extra moisture and they last way longer on the fridge without going mouldy :) I also always put a piece of paper towel inside those boxed lettuce - like mixed greens or arugula… keeps it fresh and lasts way longer!
I use the Bubble moisturizer and love it. I am 73 with dry skin. This works on making my skin very soft and smooth. I also love how it dispenses the product. Genius! I can also take it when I travel.
I appreciate how genuine you are. When people watch you, they assume you have this amazing life with no worries. To know that you struggle with the same things that” normal moms” do is encouraging. We’re supposed to build each other up and not tear each other down whether it’s a mom with a new baby through to the moms who’s children are adults. We all struggle supposed to encourage each other.
I would assume I am around your parents age and like you I grew up with a mom who was a traditional homemaker. I cannot tell you how happy I am that you got a cleaning service. It is a gift to you and that gift gives back to you being able to spend more time with your kids, with Tyler, And most importantly giving back to you! When I would treat myself to a full housecleaning, I never told anyone because I knew the comments that I would get and I just find that so sad. Proud of you girl! ☀️
🌞🌞 Definitely look forward to these type of vlogs. it is so refreshing to hear someone talk about every day struggles that we all go through and the way we all feel, but may not express it. Please continue! I could listen to them every single day. Bless you, dear Jessica!❤
It’s so funny when you were talking about how you were raised vs now regarding travel habits, I feel similar but in a different way. I also grew up in a family where we really didn’t travel, it was financial mainly but also just not our habit. We did a couple trips throughout my childhood but it was a rarity. Now that I’m an adult, I’m single but I’m just NOT a solo travel person, and I find that trying to coordinate travel with people you don’t live with is next to impossible! Plus it is a big expense, which I could manage on occasion but because of the aforementioned reasons I basically don’t travel even now as an adult. But it seems like everyone where I’m from travels frequently, at least one trip a year or more, and when people inevitably ask “oh got any trips planned this year?” I feel kind of weirdly self conscious being like umm nope. None. 😂 I don’t know why I would but everyone seems to react like it’s so strange I’m not travelling.
☀️ We all have sides we fear people may judge, but at the end of the day we only have one person we really have to worry about. I like the new sharing. 🙂
As par of the course, I am watching your video for the third time today! I always get more out of them when I watch them additional times. Something you said brought back a memory of last weekend. We had to take my dad to the emergency room while I was there visiting and my mom and I were having a chat while waiting, she was saying how proud she was of my sister and myself and how we have raised our own families and have wonderful jobs teaching and good marriages. I told her I needed to be honest with her and let her know that even at 53 years old, I hesitate telling them things out of fear that they will be disappointed in me or question my judgment. We also grew up in a household filled with love, but not a lot of money and did not get to purchase things that my friends did because my parents did not feel that they were necessities. When I go shopping or make a big purchase, I just have this feeling that I am letting them down. She assured me this is not the case.Perhaps it just proves the love our parents had for us and their desire to give us a firm foundation to grow upon with the knowledge that money cannot buy happiness or contentment. ❤ Regarding your girls having phones and social media when they get older, I was one of those who waited until my children were in middle school to let them have a phone and they had to share one. They only had it because I got home about an hour after they did and wanted them to be able to contact me if there was an emergency. Once we allowed them to have Facebook, it was under the stipulation that the first three people they had to send friend request to or myself, my husband,and our minister!😂 God is always watching, but so was Pastor Bill!!😂
It makes me so happy to see people making decisions that are best for their own family unit!!! A few years ago we transitioned into me (wife/mom) working full time while my husband transitioned into a day at home dad. At the same time we moved to a VERY traditional area where that is NOT accepted lol it’s been hard to connect with people but it has been the absolute BEST for our family unit. I had to get very comfortable saying that we’re doing what’s best for us in this season, things may change in the future, but it’s working for now…and it has been sooo freeing!
You are so relatable Jess and this is why I keep coming back to you and your content!! I can totally relate to the weird generational guilt of my mom did it a certain way and now what i am doing is different which is then personally inerpreted as "wong". My mom had dinner on the table at 5:30 every night and coming to terms that not being my lifestyle has been hard!
Regarding the growth of vlogs, I live for your vlogs. Years ago when I was watching beauty videos only, I could search by products or reviews.. searching for vlog content seems so much more vague. It’s hard to find someone with content you connect with. I love when my fave TH-camrs recommend other channels. That’s how I have found so many others to follow. You connected me with Amy sattler and I enjoy her videos so much. I think getting each other out there is a great way to grow your audience ❤️
Just be reassured that no matter what you share (and we respect that you feel comfortable doing that), there will always be a chunk of us who have lived through it ourselves. It’s a different world than when our roles were pretty well defined. One of our dons has always worked in the area he studied in college, but the other has gone in a completely, unexpected direction and is loving it. You used the word “blessed” and it’s refreshing to hear when someone acknowledges their blessings.
not sure if anyone commented this. But that plant is a purple shamrock plant. and they are so cool! they open up during the day and close their leaves at night!. I have one I repotted and thought I killed, but it is coming back to life basically from almost nothing! I love it!
I totally agree about the phones & social media! I have a toddler so it’s far off, but I truly hope it’s more popular to wait to give personal devices to kids…
☀️ ☀️☀️ Wow! The honest chat about your job and not wanting to have someone come across a certain way like you’re bragging really resonates with me. I have a very similar personality with being shy and introverted. Over the years I’ve heard the “must be nice” comments from people over the smallest things. I grew up with very little and have worked extremely hard for the life I have now and I’m proud of that. But people really have a way of making others feel bad for what they don’t have themselves. Anyway, you are the first YT channel I ever watched, probably 6 years ago, and I’m here to stay. I love that you’ve included much more than makeup.
I've been struggling with getting a cleaner or not for that exact same reason! So THANK YOU for giving me additional permission to do something that is going to HELP me and my family, regardless of a stigma I or my perceived idea of others' thoughts, may say. ❤🎉😊
🌞 Your vlogs are just my favourite thing on TH-cam. I always save them for when I have the time to watch them fully without pausing 😅 I get your guilt over your success. Just know there are sooo many people that are thrilled to see you and your family thrive. You and Tyler are very good at what you do, and you are good people, you deserve all the success you're getting ❤ thank you for sharing your thoughts with us
☀️ I feel the same way about sharing positive things with family and friends knowing I’m in a better situation. I tell myself it’s silly and that they love me and are happy for me, but I don’t like sharing and feeling braggy! Thanks for putting words to it!
you have worked very hard to get where you are today. so don't listen to those people who are jealous. listen to the positive people in your life. i have learned that through the years. i'm 72 and haven't listened to negative people for a long time. love your content. and don't forget what a good mother and wife you are.
I love these long chatty videos! ☀️ you, Tyler and the podcast are some of my videos that I just put on and clean or relax or whatever! Been watching you guys for so long and I’ll watch any types of videos you put out.
☀️ a few days later but I’m with you on the holding off on social media and cell phones for as long as possible. Also, while I’m sad to not see Gigi and Lissy I completely understand and appreciate you being able to protect them as much as possible! Especially with all the crazy and scary stuff the internet can be.
As an empty nester, I can share that my husband and I have hired housekeeping service twice in our marriage. First, when our only daughter was an infant/toddler. I worked full time and when I was home with her, I was there...not cleaning the toilet! Second, is now. I live with fibromyalgia and chronic migraines and deep cleaning can put me down for days. We babysit our only granddaughter ALOT and that means so much more to me than scrubbing the tub. I don't feel guilty about it. I literally know my limitations and make decisions that live within those boundaries. Girl, you do you! You and Tyler work HARD! What a great decision to farm out the insignificant to be there for the necessary...like hands on parenting. PS I love your channel so much and it brings me joy to virtually share in your life. Also, not having the girls as a main focus of your videos is such a smart, vigilant decision. Much respect.❤🌞
Jess, I just need to say I LOVE that you mentioned your countertops. I feel guilty because I often do the same thing and always feel so guilty! I just love how genuine you are. 💕 You didn't ask, haha but my current favorite reset item is taking a stroll through my garden or doing something with my plants. 🌞🌞🌞
I used to watch a few people who do the Vlogs, and I'll be honest, I did think "oh it must be nice, blah blah blah", BUT I realized I felt like that because they were so arrogant and high and mighty, and enjoyed shoving all their free stuff, brand trips and whatnot in our faces. YOU are the only one I watch now. You are a breath of fresh air. I love watching you and would never think you were that way. You're special. You are funny, kind and quite frankly refreshing! I love your honesty. Keep it coming. I do so enjoy watching you and look forward to your next post.
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Jessica, do you have a link for your blouse? The color and puffy sleeves is just so cute!
@@ashlanthomas7743 I agree! I was gonna ask the same question. ❤️❤️❤️
@@FighterGirlChunLi great minds… 😆
@@ashlanthomas7743 I agree! 😄 And hopefully Jessica sees the question about the blouse and can tell us. 🥺❤️
Came here to see if she linked it lol!
Who agrees she should have a million subscriber's??
Me absolutely ❤️❤️❤️
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She will!
Absolutely!! ❤❤
Oh sweet girl!!! Please please be proud of your job, your accomplishments, your cleaning service and every single thing that you and Tyler have worked for. When I was your age I was in my first marriage with 2 kids and the struggle was REAL!!! It’s very refreshing to me to see people you and Tyler’s age making so much out of their lives!!!! I’m incredibly proud of you!!!! Enjoy your beautiful life and never ever let anyone make you feel ashamed for your accomplishments ❤❤❤❤
it’s incredible to see how gracefully you acknowledge your privilege. truuuust that it never seems like you’re bragging. someone’s negative reaction to something positive happening for you has nothing to do with you if you’re standing in integrity with your choices 🩵
It actually insults and proves her concerns calling it her "privilege". Her life and their accomplishments are not privileges, but the direct consequence to what they have completely earned and worked extremely hard for in creating and building their life and family. Privilege is not earned, and her life is fully earned and it disrespects all their hard work and choices to call it privilege.
@@betsybabf748 respectfully, i disagree. hard work reaps incredible privilege. it’s not meant with a negative connotation at all. and nowhere in my comment did i say she hasn’t worked hard. i admire her tenacity as she’s built this platform in the 6+ years i’ve been a subscriber.
@@betsybabf748 all career milestones come with privileges. i’m an actor, and in a union: which come with privileges - better pay, health insurance, etc. acknowledging them doesn’t mean i didn’t work incredibly hard. hope this helps!
@@kellianndecarlo I disagree with how your comment presents, and by the actual definition of the word 'privilege', you are using the term inaccurately.
@@betsybabf748 have a nice day. 🩵
I used to watch a ton of beauty influencers (Emily Noel, Rachh Loves, Allie Glines, Kathleen Lights etc.). I have nothing against those lovely ladies, but you have morphed and grown and changed your channel as my life has changed as well. I have continued following you all these years (I've been following since around the time you got engaged) because you are more relatable to me. I am a SAHM and wife, so I am not buying a ton of new makeup. I'm also being more intentional about what I do buy, so I dont purchase very often. I love your lifestyle and home content!
I agree about the phones! As parents we have to protect our kiddos and teens when they don't have the capacity to understand the dangers and consequences themselves.
It’s so refreshing to hear another parent talk about not giving their kids a phone or social media. My kids are only toddlers too but I think about this a weird amount. Us “strict” parents need to stick together! 😂 but seriously protect your kids at all costs nobody else will do it if you don’t and when I heard that it really changed my perspective. No one cares about your kids the way you do.
100% agree! We aren’t alone in this haha
Thank you for saying this. Wish more parents were on board. Just last week doctors got 2nd warning about how it rewires brains not developed yet. Our minds are not fully developed til 25. So as long as you hold off the better. Lots of children are experiencing depression and anxiety.
Same, my kids are only 6 but my husband and I have already decided no phones until at least 15/16. And I really don’t care what anyone has to say about it.
My sister didn’t give my niece a phone until she turned 13yo. At this age she was having more after school activities and it really helps my sister know when to pick her up by her calling. I remember having to use the pay phone to call my mom, but I don’t think they have those in school any more. My nephews are in elementary school and neither one will have a cell phone until, they are teens. I don’t have kids but I like parents wanting their children to be kids for as long as they can. Childhood is so fleeting and by having kids play with others is so much better for development than to be distanced by technology.
Your answer to the question about not showing your children is the reason I respect your content! I wish more people would understand what you and Tyler clearly get.
Jessica, I so relate to your chat. I grew up in a tumultuous home with very little money and that is putting it lightly. I also saw a lot of domestic abuse, drug addiction, and neglect.. I am now 41 living this incredibly fortunate life with great kids and a husband who works so hard and is my best friend. I struggle with all of this because of how differently I grew up. I feel guilty, flat out. It’s almost like I just will never identify myself as someone living a happy life who doesn’t struggle financially. My husband who also grew up like I did has a hard time with owning a successful business. Guilt, all the time. One of the only ways I have been able to mitigate this is by giving to others as much as we can, and realizing that God has allowed us to have the opportunity to bless others. We have to also own the fact that we have persevered, worked hard and hold gratitude in our hearts for all we have but also for all we have been through because that taught us so much. It has given me tremendous insight as a parent, and gave me a huge heart for children living in poverty and abusive situations. My own kids were raised to always be advocates for others, and to be grateful for how they live. And I pray they continue to live with a humble and grateful heart in this broken world. Much love..❤
Your "doggie voices" and Pinocchio are just 2 of the reasons that I love your channels ❤️
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People are always going to talk no matter what you do, especially on the internet. I appreciate you being honest and sharing what your days are like.
Speaking as someone who is probably your mom's age, I think your parents can see how life is different for you than it was for them, and in the end all they want is for you to be happy. They know you have a good head on your shoulders! Siblings might experience some jealously, but surely they too just want you to have a great life.
As someone who grew up with my mom also doing all the cooking and cleaning, I have learned to shift my mindset that the keeping of the home is not just for the woman. My husband eats and uses dishes and wears clothes too. You are equals, partners and the tasks of the home should be shared because you both live there. Don’t feel guilty to letting your husband cook for you, especially if he enjoys it and it could be part of his love language. 😊 I really enjoyed this video.
My husband doesn’t do anything in the house ,doesn’t know how either. Married 49 years so I’m not fighting it now. His mom never taught him. I pay all the bills,do all cooking and housework. We ended up having 2 sons and boy they both can cook so darn well,wash clothes etc. I had them in the kitchen with him as soon as they were old enough to read directions with me etc. I taught them all of it !!
@@Raisin9502 that’s how my dad is. He treats my mom like she’s a maid. It’s so sad. I saw this growing up and made an intentional decision to find a man who would be able to cook and clean along side with me.
So true! I try to think about the fact that if a man was single, he would have to take care of himself anyway, in terms of cooking and cleaning. There’s nothing wrong with men helping out with household chores. ❤
About cleaning : we always had someone cleaning for us growing up. As a young mother. I would budget for a cleaning service. It gave me time to spend with my kids or some time on hobbies that I really enjoy. This promoted better mental health for me. You work hard an deserve some benefit for you
Girl, who cares what people don’t like! DO/BE YOU! We are here for you. We enjoy watching you on your journey of life. Beauty content, vlogs, trips, family etc! We are here to support you. I’ve been making beauty content for 6 years now, so I know the ups and downs of content creation
Thank you so much!! 😊 ❤️
I loooove the content you do know , I’m definitely old enough to be your mom and never had a sister or a daughter so I’d be proud to be your mom. You are so genuine…keep doing YOU ❣️
I think your heart posture of humility about your lifestyle is really what matters in the long run ☺️
I really really love the vulnerable chats, life can feel so lonely and isolating but when you see someone else dealing with the same things it’s less heavy.
I hope you believe us when we say we don’t think you brag about anything. I love being happy for you! If someone has a negative reaction to what you share and the choices you make in your life, it’s a reflection of what they’re feeling about themselves. Some people are not ready to face their triggers and deal with the hard stuff within. That’s not something you should let stop you from celebrating yourself and the results of your hard work! Thank you for sharing with us 😊
you guys (and your editors) do such a good job keeping the girls presence minimal in vlogs! so happy that you made that decision. i really think it's for the best.
I dont know your parents personally obviously - but what i’ve seen of them I cannot imagine your parents wanting anything for you but BETTER than what they had when they were your age. I’m sure they would feel so happy for you that you’ve built the life you have because its different from what they had!
Can we get a Folding Laundry with Jess! Video once a month. My favorite part of the vlogs. Can't explain it I just love the comradery.
I am an "older" subscriber, I believe. (71) But I couldn't agree with you more about the "guilt". I have always felt that way - and was afraid to tell folks some things because it would sound like "bragging". Being brought up to think it sounded conceited to talk about good things about yourself has a lot to do with it. Not that being brought up that way was a bad thing - it's just how things were. Even now, when we plan a big trip I feel like even my kids (grown up) will think we are bragging about the fact that we are able to do this. Right now as a matter of fact we have a trip to Disney in September booked and I just booked a beach trip to Mexico in October and felt guilty telling my daughter (yesterday) about the Mexico trip! It's weird, but it's definitely a thing!! Love watching your videos and love your family!!
I love the term “protected weekend”. I am actually busy that weekend…doing nothing so leave me alone 😂
I’ve been a subscriber for YEARS and so enjoy how you opened up your content beyond just makeup. I love getting ready and chatting with my friend Jessie! ☀️☀️☀️
I really love your view on showing your children! I honestly don’t love seeing children on the internet because I know I wouldn’t have wanted to have that digital footprint growing up.
2 comments I’m so thrilled to hear you talk about.
1) Kids/youth with cell phones. I’ve seen what my phone has done to me and I want better for them. I think more & more people are waking up to this and the more we talk about it, the easier it will get.
2) I’m so glad to hear you got help around the house. Like you said, it may be just for a season. And as your kids get older and can help with chores around the house, that too will make it easier. Your & Tyler’s mental health is so important to the mental health of your whole house. You 2 are very busy and productive people. I think it’s good for the kids to also see you modeling asking/getting help so they can ask when they need help too. My Mom did everything growing up. She worked full time, did all the cooking, we kids helped with housework. But she was stretched so thin and we all saw what it did to her.
I just wanted to say, I am 21 weeks pregnant and have found a lot of youtubers I watched prior to pregnancy, now bring an odd sense of stress or anxiety to me. You are one of the few TH-camrs I still watch every video of during pregnancy, because you bring a sense of joy and calmness to me. I just wanted to say thank you and let you know how much of a positive impact your videos have brought me during this time
I encourage all my Disney people in many life to watch the Disney walk-through’s! The sights and sounds are so relaxing, it’s a special thing on the internet for sure. 🌞
My thought:
I was a stay at home mom for 11 years and i used to get the “it must be nice” comment a lot! It actually bothered me only because its still A LOT of work! And people dont realize that. You never get to clock out and leave work there. So it got frustrating but on the other hand it WAS VERY nice! My husband and i got to a place and it worked well for our situation and everyone is different. At that, i would never let someone else’s opinions or jealousy change my appreciation of the life i lived (many things have changed since then so its not all the same now) so dont let snarky comments or even the fear of make you less open to be proud of where you have come in your life. It wasnt just handed to you, its taken a lot of work and planning and trust in Gods plan that has brought you here!!! Sending all my love to you and your family ❤️
☀️ I’ve contemplated hiring a cleaning company so many times but talk myself out it every time. I’m single with no kids and always feel so guilty that I can’t even keep on top of everything for just one person. You’ve made me want to finally just do it!
Do it! You deserve to spend your free time doing things you enjoy, not constantly cleaning. If you can afford it, do it! You won’t regret it 😊
So worth it. I have fibromyalgia and cleaning can put me down for days! I pick up and do dishes and light keep up tasks everyday, but housekeeper does the heavy duty stuff. 😊
Same here!!
Something about birds chirping on a sunny day makes me instantly feel better.
For me, the thought of “I dont live my life the way others around me do or modeled for me” is my form of perfectionism and I feel like I’m not meeting the standard. It’s really hard but I’m trying to unlearn it and be kinder to myself
No guilt about having a cleaner! It’s freakin’ GLORIOUS!
The perfect Saturday morning with Jess! ☀️
36:13 waiiiiit!! I have a tip that has changed my freaking life about the hanging clothes thing. I keep empty hangers by the washer & dryer. As they come out, I hang them. The rest goes into the basket to fold. Seriously, this process has actually worked for me. Don’t know why, don’t care. It does the trick for my brain.
Saturday morning coffee and Jess?! Yes, please!!
Jess- I tried the Tower 28 mascara on our trip to San Antonio last week- hot as balls and humid and OMG!!! I LOOOOVE it!! And I cannot believe how easy it is to remove.
YAY!!!!! that mascara is my favoriteeeeee
Just had to give you a high five for the use of one of my favorite terms..."as balls". It emphasizes every adjective so hilariously.
@@lyndseycadoo8133 😂😂😂😂 High five back at cha!
Ironically, I’m starting work again tomorrow after maternity leave and was looking up videos on how to navigate mom guilt on TH-cam. I wasn’t coming up lucky so I gave up and thought, “I’ll just catch up on Jessica Braun.” Low and behold you talk about mom guilt and make me feel so much better
☀️ The guilt about doing things differently from how you were raised is very relatable! My mom was a stay at home. Mom and our house was always spotless. I work, and our house is very lived in. I have gotten over the guilt about not being a stay at home mom, and I am getting better about the house, not always being clean.
I’m there with you 110%. For example, my husband has a ridiculously successful business. I’m a RN and only work part-time, basically just to keep my clinical skills up. My mom retired four years ago and started cleaning on the side for extra money. We pay her to clean our house weekly when we truly don’t need it (because I’m here and our kids are older), but there’s no way she wouldn’t let us give her money. So, I always feel terrible for her to be here cleaning my house when we could easily give her money every month and I could clean the house. It’s just one of those terrible feeling things. A lot more conflict comes with privilege than most people think. Staying as humble as you are is key. You’re fabulous 💗
I recently hired a cleaning company solely so I could spend more time with my young son. I felt I was missing out on too much because of the time I spent cleaning. It took me a long time to realize the cost/benefit of such a service and I also felt guilt about it as someone who grew up in a very low income household. I didn’t want to tell my mom and when I did, her reaction was surprisingly that of pride - that we had come so far that we could afford it, that we realized we needed the help and sought it out, etc.
As moms, we put these “shoulds” on ourselves that are unrealistic - i.e. we “should” be able to do it all. By hiring the cleaning service, you are making a choice that it is good for your family and you should take comfort in that decision! No judgment!
I just always appreciate how honest you are. You absolutely don’t have to share everything with your viewers but also what you do choose to share is done so well bc I feel like you’re my friend :) I listen to you while I’m working at home alone in the house and it’s so comforting.
40 min vlog?? What a treat!! ☺️ Hope you’re having a great weekend, Jess!
I can totally relate and understand the feelings and thoughts u describe. Similar upbringings, similar “roles”seen in my life, as I’ve gotten older, I’ve come to realize some of this guilt we feel comes from the patriarchy and misogyny. Sometimes those two things happen inadvertently with the best of ppl in our lives, it’s not that our mother’s were abused necessarily , but watching them play that patriarchal role is in our raising and it leads to feelings like this. Also, if a woman makes more money then her husband, that’s another facet of those two issues. So, for me, I have to tell myself that how we choose to run our home and what works for us and the successes I have as a woman are perfectly normal. It’s okay to feel these things but don’t let them hold u back please, love ya Jess! ❤
My husband and I are struggling through a 103 degree fever sickness. Your vlog cheered me up! ☀️
Get well soon🌷😊🦋💛
Feel better 🙏
I have so much respect for you and your boundaries that you have with your family. My husband and I have the same core values as you and Tyler do. I'm also extremely happy for you and all the success and freedom that's come your way. You deserve it, Jessica! Sending lots of love to you and your beautiful family.
🌞I've watched your family for a long time (for some reason I was subscribed to Tyler's channel for a long while and within the last couple years subbed to you.) You are spot on in your thinking about not having the girls on camera and your desire to not give them phones too early! Jessica you are a true blessing in my life. Thank you and Thank God.
Jessie girl you are so down to earth, please never feel guilty about your wealth or success, you deserve every last bit of it. You never come across as bragging or snooty. Regardless of lifestyle differences you are still extremely relatable. You are grateful. You are humble. Anyone of us would hire a house cleaner or travel often if we were in your position. When God has blessed you with abundance, accepting those blessings is being grateful to Him. And if God tests you with adversity, being patient in those times is being grateful to Him. Live your life unapologetically. Free your mind from what other people might think. You are yourself and thats why we love you. You aren’t fake. The other day I asked my husband what would be the first thing he would buy if we had unlimited means. He said a personal chef and I agreed, lol.
I agree with your great comment to Jessica. And you know what? She is helping contribute to another family by hiring someone to clean. We need more people like Jess in the world without a shadow of a doubt! 💛
Speaking for myself when you share those things and since I have watched you for so long I am thrilled and excited to see how successful you and Tyler have been! It has NEVER come across as boasting to me at all. But I completely understand that feeling and I definitely see why you would feel hesitant, I have felt the same way in my own life!
Agree 100%!!! Anyone who watches these two can see how hard they work, even if it happens to be on a flexible schedule.
There is nothing better than cleaning service once a month. Try to enjoy it! My mom was a SAHM, and I don’t feel guilty working because there are positives and negatives to any of these decisions. I loved having my mom around when I was little, but as I grew up I wished I had her as a role model for what a career could look like for a mom. You win some you lose some- choose what you think is right for your family!
Can you do a video about your jewellery please? The ones you like. The ones you don’t. Al the Brands. All of it! I love love love your jewellery! You’re so cute Jess!
Disney walk throughs get me through the work day!! Watching ride throughs, shows, listening to park music… definitely mood booster!! If you get it, you get it and I certainly get it 😂
You are a good mom!! Hold off as long as you can on the phone. ❤
I totally relate with the guilt aspect of not doing things the way we saw it done growing up! My mother is an AMAZING cook, and even with a full time job all of the cooking/cleaning/household management was left to her.
I also love to cook. I used to cook some delicious, unique supper for about an hour every evening, but last year our lives got super busy. When everything came to a head I realized I had to let go of some beliefs like "I am loved if I do all the cooking and make an incredible meal every night."
I started meal prepping, allowing my husband to cook his own food when I'm too busy (I used to be genuinely offended if he cooked his own food.) Now we both eat what we want, prepping a little at a time, and life is sooooo much easier. Dinner is no longer this big stressful to-do looming over me each day.
Also, I am a house cleaner, PLEASE do not feel guilty for using a cleaning service! You are supplying people with a job. And I love what I do! If I've learned anything being a housecleaner, it's that most people are way too busy to keep their house clean! If you are blessed enough to afford it, take advantage of that! You don't deserve to feel shame for it.
Also, I serve clients from all walks of life and income brackets. It's really not something only millionaires can afford. More people use house cleaners than you might think.
The plant is called oxalis! So beautiful!
I was the comment of the all day morning sickness and got so freaking excited to see it made the cut for this video. Everything you said about mentally trying to survive, I have been telling myself but hearing you say it made me cry and just feel so much better. ❤❤❤
CVS sponsorship?!?! Dang girl!!!!! That’s awesome
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I have watched you for years and you are definitely not braggy! You are one of the most humble people I know(I use the term loosely). You should be proud of your accomplishments. You deserve them! You have worked hard.
I LOVE RALPH!!! Such a pretty floofenheimer!!!
I’m 10000% in support of y’all getting a second pupper!! ❤😂
On the treadmill and I Needed a Jess video!💜
Go you!!!
Agreed! 😊
you have a good heart. I can feel you. Not loving sharing your good life is because you have empathy for people who are struggling. You are kind
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Jessica, sweet Jessica! Whoever says, "must be nice..." in order to guilt you about your life, I don't care what it is... that person is not worth worrying over. Anyone who is worth worrying over will say we are so proud of you and happy for you and love to see your family thriving and making precious memories. Because that's the honest truth! The kind of talk that makes you feel guilty is just jealousy. "Your people" will be the ones who turn that jealousy into happiness for you and your family. That's just what it is. Please do not feel like you have to guilt yourself over anything because it is a different day and age. Two income households were not as typical as they are now, and those jobs all look very different. Grow, adapt, and support the people you love. That's what it's all about. 💖
Girl same on the guilt. I work from home 3 days a week and still can’t stay on top of everything and it gets me down to admit I can’t do it all. Mom shame/ guilt is such a theft of our joy in all the things we’re doing well. Good for you to be able to have help! I’d take it but totally understand the guilt. I don’t think that goes away but it’s a good endeavor to try to balance it all and keep a positive perspective. Love you guys ❤
We have no kids, yet our house is cleaned monthly by a service. No shame!
☀️ you’re a ray of sunshine!! Just have to say I really enjoy watching your videos. I’m also a mother and she’s 18months old mom guilt is no joke but remembering to continue to give yourself grace and do your best. You’re absolutely blessed ✨ there aren’t too many people who are able to work from home and make a decent living or even courageous enough to make content like you. Anyone that has negative energy towards you for all the hard work you give to be here shame on them. Thanks for being authentically you! Keep your head up always ❤️ Love you Jess and Braun family xo
I Love watching Disney walkthroughs! Especially on Telework Days. They are so calming. Love to see what people wear but it’s crazy some of the snippets of conversations you hear🤣
Thank you for sharing about your guilt and your upbringing! I was brought up similarly, and I’m now the only divorced person in my entire family. I’m a single mom who does everything: cooking, cleaning, working full-time, yardwork etc. Sometimes we just need help! You seem like you have a wonderful family like I do. Nobody judges any of that.
I think a story you may have thought about in regards to money might have sounded like, “I’m not supposed to spend lavishly on myself.” “I can spend on certain things but nothing over the top.” “I shouldn’t talk about the things money has afforded me.”
You could baby step these limiting money beliefs so they feel positive and empowering. Something like “I’m beginning to see I can enjoy my money to provide a loving home for me and my family.”
Rubbermaid Brilliance food storage is amazing for keeping food good for much longer, especially produce. I bought everyone I know sets for Christmas, and now all are hooked. You can get plastic or glass versions, and they come in all sizes. I prep all produce in them now, and nothing goes bad. My kids pushed a large container with strawberries behind things so they were forgotten. Over two weeks later, they were still as fresh as when I first bought them, and strawberries never last well. I now prep all lettuces and store in them, and have not had lettuce go bad since. With what I have saved in not throwing away food has paid for them many times over.
I am so grateful for you to have the cleaning service once a month or however many times you choose! Giving yourself that lil break to use that time in many different ways. I am so stinking proud for you and Tyler having the success you are. Whoever said that is not "your ppl" their opinions do not matter. The ppl who matter are you, Tyler and the girls. ❤
I love Disneyland walkthroughs. Especially through fantasyland 😊 it reminds me of my childhood ❤
I have a 9 year old and he’s at that age where his friends have phones and play video games that are rated above their age and there are times where I feel bad for him but then something will happen where I catch his friends doing something they aren’t supposed to or completely being unsocial because they are glued to their phones and in the moment I realize the amount of good I am doing for my child. I wish more parents would stick together to keep our kids away from the phones. Even parents who I know were against it have caved way early than I thought. I know as an adult the damage/addiction technology can have on us and teaching our kids early on to have a healthy and moderate relationship with it is so important! I’m proud of your decision!
I love that you have diversity on your channel. I love makeup but get bored with the same old makeup videos. Keep up your style it’s great and I admire 30:19 how down to earth you are it’s easy to relate to. Love your channel. Keep it up !
Jessica you are not flaunting your life. You have worked hard and continue to work hard to be and have what you have. This platform is open to anyone who wants to use it and start a channel. You do you boo.
On the guilt segment…please read How to Keep a House While Drowning by KC Davis. She has a podcast too called Struggle Care. Anyone having this battle of feelings, KC’s resources are profoundly helpful.
You deserve your success, Jessica - you're not taking it away from anyone, it is yours. Love you ❤
Thank you! I think your honest chats are one of the many things we appreciate about you. And it makes you even more relatable because we realize we’re not alone with similar struggles, like guilt, perfectionism etc. On a total random side note, after you wash berries, if you put a piece of paper towel in the container you’re going to store them in, it helps absorb extra moisture and they last way longer on the fridge without going mouldy :) I also always put a piece of paper towel inside those boxed lettuce - like mixed greens or arugula… keeps it fresh and lasts way longer!
I use the Bubble moisturizer and love it. I am 73 with dry skin. This works on making my skin very soft and smooth. I also love how it dispenses the product. Genius! I can also take it when I travel.
I appreciate how genuine you are. When people watch you, they assume you have this amazing life with no worries. To know that you struggle with the same things that” normal moms” do is encouraging. We’re supposed to build each other up and not tear each other down whether it’s a mom with a new baby through to the moms who’s children are adults. We all struggle supposed to encourage each other.
I would assume I am around your parents age and like you I grew up with a mom who was a traditional homemaker. I cannot tell you how happy I am that you got a cleaning service. It is a gift to you and that gift gives back to you being able to spend more time with your kids, with Tyler, And most importantly giving back to you! When I would treat myself to a full housecleaning, I never told anyone because I knew the comments that I would get and I just find that so sad. Proud of you girl! ☀️
🌞🌞 Definitely look forward to these type of vlogs. it is so refreshing to hear someone talk about every day struggles that we all go through and the way we all feel, but may not express it. Please continue! I could listen to them every single day. Bless you, dear Jessica!❤
It’s so funny when you were talking about how you were raised vs now regarding travel habits, I feel similar but in a different way. I also grew up in a family where we really didn’t travel, it was financial mainly but also just not our habit. We did a couple trips throughout my childhood but it was a rarity. Now that I’m an adult, I’m single but I’m just NOT a solo travel person, and I find that trying to coordinate travel with people you don’t live with is next to impossible! Plus it is a big expense, which I could manage on occasion but because of the aforementioned reasons I basically don’t travel even now as an adult. But it seems like everyone where I’m from travels frequently, at least one trip a year or more, and when people inevitably ask “oh got any trips planned this year?” I feel kind of weirdly self conscious being like umm nope. None. 😂 I don’t know why I would but everyone seems to react like it’s so strange I’m not travelling.
☀️ We all have sides we fear people may judge, but at the end of the day we only have one person we really have to worry about. I like the new sharing. 🙂
As par of the course, I am watching your video for the third time today! I always get more out of them when I watch them additional times. Something you said brought back a memory of last weekend. We had to take my dad to the emergency room while I was there visiting and my mom and I were having a chat while waiting, she was saying how proud she was of my sister and myself and how we have raised our own families and have wonderful jobs teaching and good marriages. I told her I needed to be honest with her and let her know that even at 53 years old, I hesitate telling them things out of fear that they will be disappointed in me or question my judgment. We also grew up in a household filled with love, but not a lot of money and did not get to purchase things that my friends did because my parents did not feel that they were necessities. When I go shopping or make a big purchase, I just have this feeling that I am letting them down. She assured me this is not the case.Perhaps it just proves the love our parents had for us and their desire to give us a firm foundation to grow upon with the knowledge that money cannot buy happiness or contentment. ❤ Regarding your girls having phones and social media when they get older, I was one of those who waited until my children were in middle school to let them have a phone and they had to share one. They only had it because I got home about an hour after they did and wanted them to be able to contact me if there was an emergency. Once we allowed them to have Facebook, it was under the stipulation that the first three people they had to send friend request to or myself, my husband,and our minister!😂 God is always watching, but so was Pastor Bill!!😂
It makes me so happy to see people making decisions that are best for their own family unit!!! A few years ago we transitioned into me (wife/mom) working full time while my husband transitioned into a day at home dad. At the same time we moved to a VERY traditional area where that is NOT accepted lol it’s been hard to connect with people but it has been the absolute BEST for our family unit. I had to get very comfortable saying that we’re doing what’s best for us in this season, things may change in the future, but it’s working for now…and it has been sooo freeing!
You are so relatable Jess and this is why I keep coming back to you and your content!! I can totally relate to the weird generational guilt of my mom did it a certain way and now what i am doing is different which is then personally inerpreted as "wong". My mom had dinner on the table at 5:30 every night and coming to terms that not being my lifestyle has been hard!
Regarding the growth of vlogs, I live for your vlogs. Years ago when I was watching beauty videos only, I could search by products or reviews.. searching for vlog content seems so much more vague. It’s hard to find someone with content you connect with. I love when my fave TH-camrs recommend other channels. That’s how I have found so many others to follow. You connected me with Amy sattler and I enjoy her videos so much. I think getting each other out there is a great way to grow your audience ❤️
Just be reassured that no matter what you share (and we respect that you feel comfortable doing that), there will always be a chunk of us who have lived through it ourselves. It’s a different world than when our roles were pretty well defined. One of our dons has always worked in the area he studied in college, but the other has gone in a completely, unexpected direction and is loving it. You used the word “blessed” and it’s refreshing to hear when someone acknowledges their blessings.
not sure if anyone commented this. But that plant is a purple shamrock plant. and they are so cool! they open up during the day and close their leaves at night!. I have one I repotted and thought I killed, but it is coming back to life basically from almost nothing! I love it!
I totally agree about the phones & social media! I have a toddler so it’s far off, but I truly hope it’s more popular to wait to give personal devices to kids…
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Wow! The honest chat about your job and not wanting to have someone come across a certain way like you’re bragging really resonates with me. I have a very similar personality with being shy and introverted. Over the years I’ve heard the “must be nice” comments from people over the smallest things. I grew up with very little and have worked extremely hard for the life I have now and I’m proud of that. But people really have a way of making others feel bad for what they don’t have themselves. Anyway, you are the first YT channel I ever watched, probably 6 years ago, and I’m here to stay. I love that you’ve included much more than makeup.
I've been struggling with getting a cleaner or not for that exact same reason! So THANK YOU for giving me additional permission to do something that is going to HELP me and my family, regardless of a stigma I or my perceived idea of others' thoughts, may say. ❤🎉😊
I’m folding laundry while watching you fold laundry! It’s a great motivator! ☀️☀️
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Your vlogs are just my favourite thing on TH-cam. I always save them for when I have the time to watch them fully without pausing 😅
I get your guilt over your success.
Just know there are sooo many people that are thrilled to see you and your family thrive. You and Tyler are very good at what you do, and you are good people, you deserve all the success you're getting ❤ thank you for sharing your thoughts with us
☀️ I feel the same way about sharing positive things with family and friends knowing I’m in a better situation. I tell myself it’s silly and that they love me and are happy for me, but I don’t like sharing and feeling braggy! Thanks for putting words to it!
you have worked very hard to get where you are today. so don't listen to those people who are jealous. listen to the positive people in your life. i have learned that through the years. i'm 72 and haven't listened to negative people for a long time. love your content. and don't forget what a good mother and wife you are.
I LOVE that I'm not alone with "the chair" same thing with my husband saying I hope you don't put stuff on the chair. 🌞
Jessica, thank you for bringing some sunshine 🌞 and positive light into my day! So happy you're all feeling better! Xo ❤
I love these long chatty videos! ☀️ you, Tyler and the podcast are some of my videos that I just put on and clean or relax or whatever! Been watching you guys for so long and I’ll watch any types of videos you put out.
☀️ a few days later but I’m with you on the holding off on social media and cell phones for as long as possible. Also, while I’m sad to not see Gigi and Lissy I completely understand and appreciate you being able to protect them as much as possible! Especially with all the crazy and scary stuff the internet can be.
As an empty nester, I can share that my husband and I have hired housekeeping service twice in our marriage.
First, when our only daughter was an infant/toddler. I worked full time and when I was home with her, I was there...not cleaning the toilet!
Second, is now. I live with fibromyalgia and chronic migraines and deep cleaning can put me down for days. We babysit our only granddaughter ALOT and that means so much more to me than scrubbing the tub.
I don't feel guilty about it. I literally know my limitations and make decisions that live within those boundaries.
Girl, you do you! You and Tyler work HARD! What a great decision to farm out the insignificant to be there for the necessary...like hands on parenting.
PS I love your channel so much and it brings me joy to virtually share in your life. Also, not having the girls as a main focus of your videos is such a smart, vigilant decision. Much respect.❤🌞
Jess, I just need to say I LOVE that you mentioned your countertops. I feel guilty because I often do the same thing and always feel so guilty! I just love how genuine you are. 💕
You didn't ask, haha but my current favorite reset item is taking a stroll through my garden or doing something with my plants. 🌞🌞🌞
I used to watch a few people who do the Vlogs, and I'll be honest, I did think "oh it must be nice, blah blah blah", BUT I realized I felt like that because they were so arrogant and high and mighty, and enjoyed shoving all their free stuff, brand trips and whatnot in our faces. YOU are the only one I watch now. You are a breath of fresh air. I love watching you and would never think you were that way. You're special. You are funny, kind and quite frankly refreshing! I love your honesty. Keep it coming. I do so enjoy watching you and look forward to your next post.