The eloquency and the way you're speaking about him speaks volumes about you. Theres a reason i watch your videos, you being so real with us makes me keep coming back because you make me realise that shit happens but that we have to allow the bad days to have the good ones too, thank you for being so consistently authentic gal, i truly appriciate you ♡
I remember my first ‘grown’ breakup, totally fine, no tears - 6 months later I met the man I’m marrying, the man for you is waiting for you out there x
Your reflection about the entire situation just shows how much you have built your resilience throughout your therapeutic journey and as a girl with her own traumas - it is such a blessing to see you allow space for your emotions and not punish yourself for whatever you feel in the moment. Sending all the love I possibly can to you , your vlogs are always a fave of mine!❤
Silent viewer here, but I have to comment on this. I went through a very similar break up a couple of years ago. He was dealing with the same thing and I tried my hardest to be there for him, but nothing worked. This year we got back together and we are stronger than we have ever been and that man is definitely my husband. I never recommend holding a flame for someone that is not in your life, but if he does come back and has worked on his issues take it one day at a time and see where it goes. I told everyone we would never get back together because I didn't want to hold hope for something that would not happen. Very thankful for the time apart we had and very thankful for where we are now.
Thankyou for this video. I’m down bad after a breakup of 8 years. This really helped me get up and get dressed and get some small things done today. You are so strong and your energy travels through the screen to your viewers and it hits different. I’ve watched you for years. Thankyou for being real and just a bad bitch ❤️💗🩷
Ohh girly 🥺 I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup. You talk about him with such grace & kindness. You just radiate warmth, authenticity & loveliness 🥹 you will get your happy ending, but until then, head up girl! 🫶🏻❤
Aww Emma I watch you every time you post but I haven’t for a few months as I’ve had a lot going on, this is the first video I’ve watched of you in a while and I’m so sorry you’re going through this 🥺 you seem to be coping with it really well which makes me happy. But you deserve ALL the happiness in the world you really do! I can feel your pain with everything you say about your breakup. over the last 6 months I’ve gone through my dad randomly dying (he was my best friend), a break up of 8 years and a house move so I’m now living on my own without the 2 most important men in my life. It’s so hard but all we can do is carry on and do our best. Proud of you 💕
Don’t loose hope Emma, a lot can happen in a year. Me and my now husband had been tg 3 years and broke up for the same reasons. We didn’t talk for a year and it was heartbreaking but the next year we started talking again and got married a year later and now we have two beautiful baby girls. We’ve been tg 10 years now. He’ll get there if he’s the one for u !
@@EmmaTamsinI also deep the healing you’re going through atm. Soz to make this comment about me when you’re going thru so much but still giving us content. Sending you lots of love and strength. Not that you need it❤
Emma you have got this ! My marriage broke up and I was done - went through every emotion possible TODAY - now - I am single and vibing my new life !!!!! You are young and the “right one” will come into your life gorg !!! ❤❤❤
@@EmmaTamsinmassive hugs ! Focus on your new home - don’t forget It’s ok to not be ok - you want to cry ? Cry ! I cried oceans- Anger - oh boy there was anger But present time I thank the F it all ended - things happen for a reason ❤❤
Your attitude towards your breakup is so mature and exactly what I needed to hear I’m in the same situation and feel broken I’m 55 and you think I’d know better you are a breath of fresh air I need to listen to you I swear ❤
Oh I needed this today. I’m going through my first breakup and hearing how you were before this guy is me rn, with the trauma coming up etc. I’m a shell like you say.. just nice to know I’m not the only one to think the way I am at life. I wish you literally all the strength, we will get there when our times right🥺🩷
i never comment (silent watcher) but emma ur amazing and full of good vibes and i love watching your content so KEEP IT GOING we like seeing the real u
I'm also going through a break up with very similar timings and situation to you and although it feels horrible that this happened and im so so sorry you are also going through this, but these kind of videos are so so comforting to watch, feels like we're in it together
In going to save this vlog and re listen to it when I feel doubt and question who I am and my strength. Because what you said about the break up really hit home to me and sometimes we all need to hear these things. You would make such a excellent counsellor or therapist. Thanks for this vlog ❤ and for keeping it real.
It's so beautiful that you still know/feel he's an amazing man. Sending you both love and healing. It's clear you're growing in the best way; I hope he has that same experience.
I absolutely love your channel. Been watching for sometime. You seem to be a very kind hearted lovely young woman. I have 4 daughters myself. Don't be sad over your breakup. Continue to prosper and create wonderful content. Things always have a way of coming back around to where they should be. Happy Holidays to you and your family.
You put it into words so perfectly that I resonated with it so much and I cried alongside you Emma. I have been a watcher and a follower from the very first video and I dont think I have ever commented before, but today I felt the need to, because I could relate to how you felt and that made me emotional. It's been amazing watching you progress over the years, and how I myself have grown basically with you
Girl, what you said about the breakup, THIS EXACT same SITUATION, happend to me, recently. you will get through this. you're doing great, whatever will be, will be. youre an inspiration.
Not us going through the same type of break up at the same time… you validated every single way I have felt the last few weeks and I thank you massively for being so open about how you felt through it all. You’re smashing it girl ❤
Omg, I had nearly same breakup. Me and ex, it was like we were so perfect for each other, over moon and starts and everything align with each other. We were together for 2 years and I actually felt he was becoming more in love with me and then as if a switch he wanted to break up because he had these mental issues he couldn't get over or like a expectation he had for himself. It was hard, I felt blindsided but really, he was the best bf to me and probably my greatest love so far. We both haven't dated anyone since so over 2 years, we still see eachother now and then but for me he really made me feel like there is a love out there which is like the fairytale and he's just set the standard for men I would date in the future Sometimes love is not about possession, relationships teach you about loving yourself. Not many people can experience true love so its something to be grateful for even though it ended
Awww Emma 🥺 I feel for you, you are such an amazing person. As a long time watcher I can definitely see all the hard work you’ve done. Sending you love ❤
I was with my partner 3. 1/2 years and he just dumped me when I told him I was 6 weeks pregnant in October just gone - also due to unhealed mental health these men need to take more responsibility for their mental health most of them refuse counselling 🙄 hope you feel better xx
Umm just going to go left of field here but maybe he gas-lit you. Talking about marriage and kids and life together and then “suddenly” decided not mentally right… sounds like he gaslit you because my husband went through the same thing and felt the same thing but we got married had kids purchased a house worked on our careers and business. But before my husband I experienced with someone what you are going through and I realise that the previous guy sold me a dream and then dropped me like a sack of potatoes and blamed it on “other things” all while well knowing exactly what his intentions really were. I could be wrong but sounds like in the beginning he over promised you a dream whilst knowing he couldn’t deliver. You are an amazing person, you are right. I never comment but you truely are just a good hearted gal! You will get this house - it’s in the universe for you. ❤
This makes me feel so much better about my situation, I’m trying to apply for a post grad while also going through a break up and having to move back in with my mum but I’m looking forward to the freedoms and routine this will also bring and you’re showing it’s possible❤
Sending you lots of hugs and positive vibes for the future emma! You’ve got this! Also, the fact your dad knows so many different types of cheese is so impressive to me lol! I love the relationship you have with your parents! They seem like lovely people, as are you as well duh lol! 💕💕
Girl, the chat about the breakup really resonated with me. You’ve explained so many things I feel so eloquently. Thinking of you and you’re a fkin boss babe
Also, I had my “grown up” breakup a few years ago. I’ve been single since but exceeding life. I got my keys to my first house last month. Someone said to me that I’m now “too independent” and men need to feel like the have to look after you but I don’t give that energy. Good to know that there are people out there that could see past the materialistic achievements.
If it's true love and your soulmate - you'll find each other again in the future and stay together. For now I'm happy you're able to take it maturely and see it from his point of view. Don't you for a second feel like it's because of something you did or didn't do or like you're not worthy of love. Right man recognizes good woman and chooses to stick around even at his lowest, because she is his strength and safe space! Wish you the best of luck in new year with everything you have going on!💞
Omg Emma I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years (my first everything but super unhealthy) and was feeling so alone! This was so so comforting for me thank you for being you ❤️
So much of what you said resonated. As plus size girls, falling in true, proper, validating 'your body is periphery to my feelings about you' love changes your mindset forever. It happened for me in my late 20s too so who knows if there's something in frontal lobe development and allowing yourself to be with people who love you wholly. But it changes your outlook permanently. I feel angry sometimes as a feminist that i needed a man to provide that safe space to explore my own inside out kind of confidence but c'est la vie, the streets are tough and we can only try to do what we can. So I'm happy for you that you found that and that it's shaping your outlook on this breakup. I do also feel quite heartbroken for you that the same person that showed you that love doesn't have the resources to keep doing so. I get it, but i'm also mad and sad for you. Just try not to step backwards and keep the memory of what that self-assuring kind of love looks like. Also i wanted to point out that you have had an incredibly successful, life fulfilling year: launching a new business, moving out, buying a new home. You've done a lot to be proud of and those sorts of achievements also make us fully rounded human beings and give us something to present to the world as who we are and what we have to offer, therefore the need to fall back on quick-fix self sabotage won't be as necessary before. wishing you lots of love, i think it sounds super complex and tricky. I do think though what you have gained through all of this year will be pushing you into the next beautiful chapter of your life x
I'm sorry to hear about this breakup. You are strong and mature in how you're dealing with this. However, him using "mental health" as the reason to break up sounds like a cop out. He shouldn't have pushed you away. He could work on himself whilst still being with you, and being in a loving relationship could help so much with mental health and wellbeing. Plus, how would he be like if you were married and had kids, and something huge happened? Healthy couples would work on coping through the issues together and support themselves and each other, not push each other away. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't just give up so easily like this. He would want to work on his issues and still do his best to make you happy. You never asked for a lot from him. Anyway, maybe it's good you're not with him anymore and you can find a man that will always be there for you and be able to grow as an individual as well, just as you are.
Emma, I needed this ❤️. I'm going through a breakup too (except mine was with a v toxic guy) and also moving. My lows are really low and I really needed to hear your wisdom right now. Thank you for being you! ☺️🙏🏽
The ‘chains’ in the housing market in the uk is ridiculous. In Australia you settle and have a move out date and that’s it, you have to be out and find a house, if not you have to rent or find alternative accommodation
I know its probably going to be a lot of annoying opinions on your break up from people who never experienced this type of love, but I just have to tell you how much hearing this from u meant to me. I feel so seen and heard. I was in shock listening to your story because it was a word from word what happened with me and my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It felt like I was listening to him speak while you were explaining his side, and its so so relatable. you just gave me strenght to go through it so thank you so much! we got this gurl❤❤🩹💞
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a hard time. You are so selfless in the way you speak on the situation & to be honest, he sounds incredibly selfish. He’s a grown man… the “I can’t give you what you deserve” is the oldest trick in the book and is so incredibly manipulative. Just say you don’t want to commit/want to keep your options open and keep it moving. I’m very doubtful the reasons he gave are genuine, but *if* they are - you don’t get into things with people if you’re not ready. That’s cruel and shouldn’t be worthy of sympathy. I’m sorry to comment on it, but you are so golden - I couldn’t hold my tongue. I’ve been with someone who said all the right things, love bombed soo much and then dipped. I think this type of person is truly evil. Sending love ❤️ ❤
actually f it ❤ I couldn't resist had to watch it now. I'm half way through I won't put any spoilers in my comments as to not give away too much to others viewing or have not yet viewed but I just want to send big hugs to you and to say how proud I am of you I have been watching you since day dot and you have achieved so much xx I'm looking at joining your app too ❤ peace and love from your Stockport girl Hanna 😊 ps you are a beautiful person inside and out xxx
@@Hannahsworld90 ah yes, there's not much to Stoke but those gardens are nice :) I always loved Stockport though for my daily trips and nb.could understand it. It just had a great vibe for me, and loved that beautiful church next to the market space. Hope to be back one day...
I’m so sorry to hear about your break up. I will respect it by not pushing off any opinions I have. 🫂By the way, it was so cute the way you got so serious explaining your procedure of the cheesiest sandwich making to your dad😅😂😊🤍
Haha when u said “IVE HAD SOOO MANY PARCELS DELIVERED, IM GONNA HAVE TO…..” I would have bet money u were gonna say…I’m gonna have to…pull my head in and stop spending for a bit! 😊But haha u said…I’ve had sooo many parcels delivered lately I’m gonna have to…GO AND OPEN THEM!!😂😂😂HAHAAA iLOVE that!🎉
I feel like you two will definitely reconnect & rekindle in the future, what you once had. As you said, just a case of right person but wrong timing unfortunately ♥️
Emma you are such a beautiful soul I love your all your videos and I hope that your ex partner get the help he needs and maybe in time you will get back together because you deserve the best ❤❤❤❤❤
@@EmmaTamsinactually I couldn't resist had to watch it now. I'm half way through I won't put any spoilers in my comments as to not give away too much to others viewing or have not yet viewed but I just want to send big hugs to you and to say how proud I am of you I have been watching you since day dot and you have achieved so much xx I'm looking at joining your app too ❤ peace and love from your Stockport girl Hanna 😊 ps you are a beautiful person inside and out xxx
Emma, you have got some balls girlfriend full of praise for your ex loved one you have compassion sweetie 😘 I feel your hurting look after yourself but not alone 🎉. Loved your video fingers crossed on your house. God bless you 😍 🎉U.K love 😊
Everything is a lesson you need this experience to teach you that you are worthy of love. You opened your heart to love and trust again.❤ When you least expect it love will find you.❤❤❤
Spoiling is for Christmas I see😮 Deffo getting popcorn and saving for later but hearing how rough the week has been I wish you best sending all the love and all the hugs❤
Sounds like you’ve got your head screwed on Emma. Dealing with it maturely is how it should be done, good for you, it isn’t easy. Me ex ended our 8 year relationship as his ‘mental health was bad’ - he was on dating apps 3 days later 😂 I was absolutely devastated. I’m not married to the best man with a beautiful baby - love always finds a way ❤to
The eloquency and the way you're speaking about him speaks volumes about you. Theres a reason i watch your videos, you being so real with us makes me keep coming back because you make me realise that shit happens but that we have to allow the bad days to have the good ones too, thank you for being so consistently authentic gal, i truly appriciate you ♡
I remember my first ‘grown’ breakup, totally fine, no tears - 6 months later I met the man I’m marrying, the man for you is waiting for you out there x
Oh babe there’s been a lot of tears!! 🤣 but I know it will all work out how it’s meant to 🩷
Your reflection about the entire situation just shows how much you have built your resilience throughout your therapeutic journey and as a girl with her own traumas - it is such a blessing to see you allow space for your emotions and not punish yourself for whatever you feel in the moment. Sending all the love I possibly can to you , your vlogs are always a fave of mine!❤
Silent viewer here, but I have to comment on this. I went through a very similar break up a couple of years ago. He was dealing with the same thing and I tried my hardest to be there for him, but nothing worked. This year we got back together and we are stronger than we have ever been and that man is definitely my husband. I never recommend holding a flame for someone that is not in your life, but if he does come back and has worked on his issues take it one day at a time and see where it goes. I told everyone we would never get back together because I didn't want to hold hope for something that would not happen. Very thankful for the time apart we had and very thankful for where we are now.
Thankyou for this video. I’m down bad after a breakup of 8 years. This really helped me get up and get dressed and get some small things done today. You are so strong and your energy travels through the screen to your viewers and it hits different. I’ve watched you for years. Thankyou for being real and just a bad bitch ❤️💗🩷
Feel you on the ‘I’m not a simple girl’ 🥹 never dim your light! I’m so happy you was able to experience a pure love and you will again 🤍
Ohh girly 🥺 I’m so sorry to hear about your breakup. You talk about him with such grace & kindness. You just radiate warmth, authenticity & loveliness 🥹 you will get your happy ending, but until then, head up girl! 🫶🏻❤
Grief is the price we pay for love. I'm sorry that you're going through this.
Aww Emma I watch you every time you post but I haven’t for a few months as I’ve had a lot going on, this is the first video I’ve watched of you in a while and I’m so sorry you’re going through this 🥺 you seem to be coping with it really well which makes me happy. But you deserve ALL the happiness in the world you really do! I can feel your pain with everything you say about your breakup. over the last 6 months I’ve gone through my dad randomly dying (he was my best friend), a break up of 8 years and a house move so I’m now living on my own without the 2 most important men in my life. It’s so hard but all we can do is carry on and do our best. Proud of you 💕
Don’t loose hope Emma, a lot can happen in a year. Me and my now husband had been tg 3 years and broke up for the same reasons. We didn’t talk for a year and it was heartbreaking but the next year we started talking again and got married a year later and now we have two beautiful baby girls. We’ve been tg 10 years now. He’ll get there if he’s the one for u !
The universe knew I needed an Emma Tamsin weekly vlog thankqqqq
Exactlyyyyyy🤪
@ you are so real and I fckn lov u. Thank god you have a platform xo
@@EmmaTamsinI also deep the healing you’re going through atm.
Soz to make this comment about me when you’re going thru so much but still giving us content. Sending you lots of love and strength. Not that you need it❤
Emma you have got this ! My marriage broke up and I was done - went through every emotion possible TODAY - now - I am single and vibing my new life !!!!!
You are young and the “right one” will come into your life gorg !!! ❤❤❤
Thank you darling🩷🫂
@@EmmaTamsinmassive hugs ! Focus on your new home - don’t forget
It’s ok to not be ok - you want to cry ? Cry ! I cried oceans-
Anger - oh boy there was anger
But present time I thank the F it all ended - things happen for a reason ❤❤
Your attitude towards your breakup is so mature and exactly what I needed to hear I’m in the same situation and feel broken I’m 55 and you think I’d know better you are a breath of fresh air I need to listen to you I swear ❤
Oh I needed this today. I’m going through my first breakup and hearing how you were before this guy is me rn, with the trauma coming up etc. I’m a shell like you say.. just nice to know I’m not the only one to think the way I am at life.
I wish you literally all the strength, we will get there when our times right🥺🩷
Heavy on ying and yang. The good within the bad as well as acknowledging the bad within the good. You got this girl ❤️
i never comment (silent watcher) but emma ur amazing and full of good vibes and i love watching your content so KEEP IT GOING we like seeing the real u
I'm also going through a break up with very similar timings and situation to you and although it feels horrible that this happened and im so so sorry you are also going through this, but these kind of videos are so so comforting to watch, feels like we're in it together
A whole one hour vlog from my fave TH-camr my day is made 🤪 xx
🥹🥰 get ready for 3 more this month angel x
@ I can't wait 🥹❤️x
You truly are one in a million, the sweetest, wearing your heart on your sleeve, i just want to give you a big hug x
You feel like the friend that I needed right this minute 🙏 thank you for being you and keeping it real ❤
In going to save this vlog and re listen to it when I feel doubt and question who I am and my strength. Because what you said about the break up really hit home to me and sometimes we all need to hear these things. You would make such a excellent counsellor or therapist. Thanks for this vlog ❤ and for keeping it real.
It's so beautiful that you still know/feel he's an amazing man. Sending you both love and healing. It's clear you're growing in the best way; I hope he has that same experience.
I absolutely love your channel. Been watching for sometime. You seem to be a very kind hearted lovely young woman. I have 4 daughters myself. Don't be sad over your breakup. Continue to prosper and create wonderful content. Things always have a way of coming back around to where they should be. Happy Holidays to you and your family.
You put it into words so perfectly that I resonated with it so much and I cried alongside you Emma. I have been a watcher and a follower from the very first video and I dont think I have ever commented before, but today I felt the need to, because I could relate to how you felt and that made me emotional. It's been amazing watching you progress over the years, and how I myself have grown basically with you
Emma you are helping so many people right now , 🙏
Proud of you for healing through the breakup and letting him heal too
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Girl, what you said about the breakup, THIS EXACT same SITUATION, happend to me, recently. you will get through this. you're doing great, whatever will be, will be. youre an inspiration.
Not us going through the same type of break up at the same time… you validated every single way I have felt the last few weeks and I thank you massively for being so open about how you felt through it all. You’re smashing it girl ❤
Omg, I had nearly same breakup. Me and ex, it was like we were so perfect for each other, over moon and starts and everything align with each other. We were together for 2 years and I actually felt he was becoming more in love with me and then as if a switch he wanted to break up because he had these mental issues he couldn't get over or like a expectation he had for himself. It was hard, I felt blindsided but really, he was the best bf to me and probably my greatest love so far. We both haven't dated anyone since so over 2 years, we still see eachother now and then but for me he really made me feel like there is a love out there which is like the fairytale and he's just set the standard for men I would date in the future
Sometimes love is not about possession, relationships teach you about loving yourself. Not many people can experience true love so its something to be grateful for even though it ended
Awww Emma 🥺 I feel for you, you are such an amazing person. As a long time watcher I can definitely see all the hard work you’ve done. Sending you love ❤
I was with my partner 3. 1/2 years and he just dumped me when I told him I was 6 weeks pregnant in October just gone - also due to unhealed mental health these men need to take more responsibility for their mental health most of them refuse counselling 🙄 hope you feel better xx
Umm just going to go left of field here but maybe he gas-lit you. Talking about marriage and kids and life together and then “suddenly” decided not mentally right… sounds like he gaslit you because my husband went through the same thing and felt the same thing but we got married had kids purchased a house worked on our careers and business. But before my husband I experienced with someone what you are going through and I realise that the previous guy sold me a dream and then dropped me like a sack of potatoes and blamed it on “other things” all while well knowing exactly what his intentions really were. I could be wrong but sounds like in the beginning he over promised you a dream whilst knowing he couldn’t deliver.
You are an amazing person, you are right. I never comment but you truely are just a good hearted gal! You will get this house - it’s in the universe for you. ❤
Awww, Petal. Loved the vlog, despite the news. Good vibes sent!
Thank you darling 🩷
This makes me feel so much better about my situation, I’m trying to apply for a post grad while also going through a break up and having to move back in with my mum but I’m looking forward to the freedoms and routine this will also bring and you’re showing it’s possible❤
Sending you hugs and lots of love 🥺❤️❤️❤️❤️
Sending you lots of hugs and positive vibes for the future emma! You’ve got this! Also, the fact your dad knows so many different types of cheese is so impressive to me lol! I love the relationship you have with your parents! They seem like lovely people, as are you as well duh lol! 💕💕
I'm so proud of you, Emma.
Oh Emma. Praying that during this difficult time you’ll feel Gods peace radiate through you. That you remember just how worthy you are
Girl, You will rock this. Be positive and move on. Do you and trust me the best will come to you. xxx
We loveee the hour long vlogs miss gurlllll 🫶🏻
My fave time of the year for your vids! I always look forward to them
Girl, the chat about the breakup really resonated with me. You’ve explained so many things I feel so eloquently. Thinking of you and you’re a fkin boss babe
Also, I had my “grown up” breakup a few years ago. I’ve been single since but exceeding life. I got my keys to my first house last month. Someone said to me that I’m now “too independent” and men need to feel like the have to look after you but I don’t give that energy. Good to know that there are people out there that could see past the materialistic achievements.
If it's true love and your soulmate - you'll find each other again in the future and stay together. For now I'm happy you're able to take it maturely and see it from his point of view. Don't you for a second feel like it's because of something you did or didn't do or like you're not worthy of love. Right man recognizes good woman and chooses to stick around even at his lowest, because she is his strength and safe space!
Wish you the best of luck in new year with everything you have going on!💞
Omg Emma I just broke up with my boyfriend of 5 years (my first everything but super unhealthy) and was feeling so alone! This was so so comforting for me thank you for being you ❤️
I love your channel Emma. You're an inspiration, thank you for your positive nature. Thank you for being you. Lorraine from Ireland
You’re just an amazing person! ❤❤❤
So much of what you said resonated. As plus size girls, falling in true, proper, validating 'your body is periphery to my feelings about you' love changes your mindset forever. It happened for me in my late 20s too so who knows if there's something in frontal lobe development and allowing yourself to be with people who love you wholly. But it changes your outlook permanently. I feel angry sometimes as a feminist that i needed a man to provide that safe space to explore my own inside out kind of confidence but c'est la vie, the streets are tough and we can only try to do what we can. So I'm happy for you that you found that and that it's shaping your outlook on this breakup. I do also feel quite heartbroken for you that the same person that showed you that love doesn't have the resources to keep doing so. I get it, but i'm also mad and sad for you. Just try not to step backwards and keep the memory of what that self-assuring kind of love looks like. Also i wanted to point out that you have had an incredibly successful, life fulfilling year: launching a new business, moving out, buying a new home. You've done a lot to be proud of and those sorts of achievements also make us fully rounded human beings and give us something to present to the world as who we are and what we have to offer, therefore the need to fall back on quick-fix self sabotage won't be as necessary before. wishing you lots of love, i think it sounds super complex and tricky. I do think though what you have gained through all of this year will be pushing you into the next beautiful chapter of your life x
Was so excited seeing a 1 hour vlog yesssss🎉🎉
I'm sorry to hear about this breakup. You are strong and mature in how you're dealing with this. However, him using "mental health" as the reason to break up sounds like a cop out. He shouldn't have pushed you away. He could work on himself whilst still being with you, and being in a loving relationship could help so much with mental health and wellbeing. Plus, how would he be like if you were married and had kids, and something huge happened? Healthy couples would work on coping through the issues together and support themselves and each other, not push each other away. If he truly loved you, he wouldn't just give up so easily like this. He would want to work on his issues and still do his best to make you happy. You never asked for a lot from him. Anyway, maybe it's good you're not with him anymore and you can find a man that will always be there for you and be able to grow as an individual as well, just as you are.
Emma, I needed this ❤️. I'm going through a breakup too (except mine was with a v toxic guy) and also moving. My lows are really low and I really needed to hear your wisdom right now. Thank you for being you! ☺️🙏🏽
Absolutely great seeing you at Kompnd, you’re so lovely. Sending love ❤️
The ‘chains’ in the housing market in the uk is ridiculous. In Australia you settle and have a move out date and that’s it, you have to be out and find a house, if not you have to rent or find alternative accommodation
Sending love and healing to you and him. If its meant to be you will come together again 🖤💜
Keep the long vlogs coming 🥰🥰
And that’s on growth !! Xxx
You such a vibe🥰❤
I’m sorry to hear about your breakup. You are being incredibly strong. Trust God’s plan for you. What is meant to be yours will be ❤
Best 23rd birthday present 🥺🥰
Girl same, legit just got broken up with today after a 1 year 3 month relationship. Love that for me
I know its probably going to be a lot of annoying opinions on your break up from people who never experienced this type of love, but I just have to tell you how much hearing this from u meant to me. I feel so seen and heard. I was in shock listening to your story because it was a word from word what happened with me and my boyfriend 2 weeks ago. It felt like I was listening to him speak while you were explaining his side, and its so so relatable. you just gave me strenght to go through it so thank you so much! we got this gurl❤❤🩹💞
I’m sorry to hear you’re going through a hard time.
You are so selfless in the way you speak on the situation & to be honest, he sounds incredibly selfish. He’s a grown man… the “I can’t give you what you deserve” is the oldest trick in the book and is so incredibly manipulative. Just say you don’t want to commit/want to keep your options open and keep it moving. I’m very doubtful the reasons he gave are genuine, but *if* they are - you don’t get into things with people if you’re not ready. That’s cruel and shouldn’t be worthy of sympathy.
I’m sorry to comment on it, but you are so golden - I couldn’t hold my tongue. I’ve been with someone who said all the right things, love bombed soo much and then dipped. I think this type of person is truly evil.
Sending love ❤️ ❤
Sorry to hear about your breakup but glad you are coping well with it 😊❤xx
I remember my first experience, and then a few months later I met my husband- and we married after six months!🥰
Uuugh I needed this video 😫🫶🏽
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i love your vlogs🎉
EMMA, so sorry about your breakup...sending you love and healing
I'm here for the cheese chats
stop it i JUST finished your last vlog and you've already uploaded ahhh!!
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actually f it ❤ I couldn't resist had to watch it now. I'm half way through I won't put any spoilers in my comments as to not give away too much to others viewing or have not yet viewed but I just want to send big hugs to you and to say how proud I am of you I have been watching you since day dot and you have achieved so much xx I'm looking at joining your app too ❤ peace and love from your Stockport girl Hanna 😊 ps you are a beautiful person inside and out xxx
Love Stockport! Greetings from Prague girl (who used to live in Stoke on Trent..) ❤
Hey Hun wow Prague never visited looks beautiful though . I have been to stoke which I love to Trenton gardens was a nice place xx ❤️@@Amalthea11
@@Hannahsworld90 ah yes, there's not much to Stoke but those gardens are nice :) I always loved Stockport though for my daily trips and nb.could understand it. It just had a great vibe for me, and loved that beautiful church next to the market space. Hope to be back one day...
I’m so sorry to hear about your break up. I will respect it by not pushing off any opinions I have. 🫂By the way, it was so cute the way you got so serious explaining your procedure of the cheesiest sandwich making to your dad😅😂😊🤍
I love your videos. I've been a subscriber for a few years now. Love from Ireland 🌸🤍
Thank you so much 🥰
Feel like I’ve missed a chapter! Girl hope you’re okay
Haha when u said “IVE HAD SOOO MANY PARCELS DELIVERED, IM GONNA HAVE TO…..” I would have bet money u were gonna say…I’m gonna have to…pull my head in and stop spending for a bit! 😊But haha u said…I’ve had sooo many parcels delivered lately I’m gonna have to…GO AND OPEN THEM!!😂😂😂HAHAAA iLOVE that!🎉
I think you will get back together in the future ,love always finds a way Emma xx .
So sorry that ur relationship ended… listen to Butterfly 🦋 by Mariah Carey it’s a beautiful song ❤❤❤
Seriously thinking to make myself a grilled cheese when the man goes out for his work christmas do...
An hour longggggg?????
Yk what? Hell yeah
I feel like you two will definitely reconnect & rekindle in the future, what you once had. As you said, just a case of right person but wrong timing unfortunately ♥️
Omg yaaaaaay ❤❤
🎉 u can do it ❤
Thanks love😘
Emma you are such a beautiful soul I love your all your videos and I hope that your ex partner get the help he needs and maybe in time you will get back together because you deserve the best ❤❤❤❤❤
Emma are you seriously playing the jug at 43:39 🤣🤣🤣
What happened ❤😅 you look so much fresher and happier
Okay now i know^^
Miss you 🤍
I know what vid I will be watching tomorrow ❤xxx
I got you girl🩷
@@EmmaTamsinactually I couldn't resist had to watch it now. I'm half way through I won't put any spoilers in my comments as to not give away too much to others viewing or have not yet viewed but I just want to send big hugs to you and to say how proud I am of you I have been watching you since day dot and you have achieved so much xx I'm looking at joining your app too ❤ peace and love from your Stockport girl Hanna 😊 ps you are a beautiful person inside and out xxx
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i’m sorry but you eating chai wala??? day made ahah
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Emma, you have got some balls girlfriend full of praise for your ex loved one you have compassion sweetie 😘 I feel your hurting look after yourself but not alone 🎉. Loved your video fingers crossed on your house. God bless you 😍 🎉U.K love 😊
Love the talk u could be my friend ♡🥹
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Everything is a lesson you need this experience to teach you that you are worthy of love. You opened your heart to love and trust again.❤ When you least expect it love will find you.❤❤❤
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Spoiling is for Christmas I see😮 Deffo getting popcorn and saving for later but hearing how rough the week has been I wish you best sending all the love and all the hugs❤
Thanks darling 🩷
Hunny the men don’t know what they have ! You need a good woman 💅
I prefer shorter vlogs, to be honest , but you should do what’s best for you ❤️
I’ll do a bit of both in the new year 😘
Sounds like you’ve got your head screwed on Emma. Dealing with it maturely is how it should be done, good for you, it isn’t easy. Me ex ended our 8 year relationship as his ‘mental health was bad’ - he was on dating apps 3 days later 😂 I was absolutely devastated. I’m not married to the best man with a beautiful baby - love always finds a way ❤to
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