As a wife, I have been practising turning a blind eye in a lot of situations and I have seen a lot of difference and avoided many unwanted situation. I want to try to increase the quality of our relationship. With practise I hope to better control my feelings by doing so. My husband is better at practising gratitude. We have been married for only 5 months but may we reach 5 years. InshaAllah we get through everything, I’m very hopeful. This video is very beautifully articulated and wish to see the rest of Married Ever Chapter.
I hope things have gotten easier for you. I'm also newly married and I know how tough it can be at times. Sending you lots of love and prayers 💕 also if you have any tips in avoiding unnecessary arguments, please share!
May Allah reward your efforts, sheikh. I hope many more people discover this channel so they can benefit from the knowledge you share with us. JazaakaLlaahu khair
Do not let your small drops of sin become a flooding river of regret. Ask Allah to forgive you regularly and return to Him when you stray “Look closely. The beautiful may be small.” Remember to always keep your happiness to yourself, to never whisper it to others. People will evil eye you, even if they don’t mean it, even if they love you, even if they have beautiful souls. They can’t help the evil that resides in them, so protect yourself. Remain silent. “Time doesn’t heal anything, it just teaches you how to live with the pain.” Have patience with all things but firstly with yourself
I have seen so many men ungrateful towards their wives. Some of them say to their wives such things i was forced by my parents to marry, you don’t cook food like my mother even though the woman is working full time at the same taking care of her house . Or once the child is born , they say you are not as fit as you used to be. Without realizing that woman just give birth to a child and her body will never be the same. Or your parents didn’t give enough dowry. It is expected that woman will take care of inlaws but women sude relatives are not respected. A woman is expected to do both outside and inside work , but if man helps at home the inlaws dont like it. All these are cultural values. Prophet Muhammed pbuh used to do all his work by himself . He used to respect everyone. There was No joint family system. Our muslim woman also has gone far right . A very good example is they want to celebrate baby shower , plus aqeqa. With usually one person income this is not possible. Going by religion is the best way.
*ALLAH SWT WILL FORGIVE SINS WE DON'T REMEMBER with this Dua'a* Must say at last tashahud(sitting) in Salah /Prayer and can be said generally anytime 👇🏼 :) اللهم اغفر لي ما قدمت وما أخرت، وما أسررت وما أعلنت، وما أسرفت، وما أنت أعلم به مني، أنت المقدم، وأنت المؤخر، لا إله إلا أنت Allahum-maghfir li ma qaddamtu wa ma akh-khartu, wa ma asrartu, wa ma a'lantu, wa ma asraftu, wa ma Anta a'lamu bihi minni. Antal-Muqqadimu, wa Antal-Mu'akh-khiru. La ilaha illa Anta *Meaning* ‘O Allah! Forgive my former and latter sins, which I have done secretly and those which I have done openly, and that I have wronged others, and those defaults of mine about which You have better knowledge than I have. You Alone can send whomever You will to Jannah, and You Alone can send whomever You will to Hell-fire. None has the right to be worshipped but You
What would you say to men who refuse to recognize thst marriage needs work and daily input? Men who refuse to invest in their marriage? Bring wives in their world but continue to live like a bachelor? Do not take her into consideration? Small or big takes his own decision and doesn't want to inform her? Not about his whereabouts also? Does he not drive her insane? Turn her into a nagging woman? A woman who has to fight for the basics? You explained in the previous videos men need to take time to their wives? Do u fail to recognize the existence of such husbands? Who do not listen to a word of what she's been saying? Who doesn't honour her role and gives no importance to married life? Turns her into an insecure maniac for wanting only the basics?
*THE BEST DUA'A TO SEEK FORGIVENESS & GUARANTEED JANNAH* 💯💕 (Sayyid Ul Istigfaar) Prophet Muhammed SAWS said whoever says this Dua'a once in the morning and die before evening *S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH* and whoever says this Dua'a once in the evening sincerely and dies before Morning *S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH* Please make it a habit to recite everyday, once in the morning and once in the evening *Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 6306* The Dua'a اَللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي, لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ, خَلَقْتَنِي, وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ, وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ،, أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ, أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ, وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي, فَاغْفِرْ لِي; فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ اَلذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ Allahumma, Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa anta, khalaqtani wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu, a'udhu bika min sharri ma sana'tu, abuw'u laka bidhanbi, wa abuw'u laka bini'matika 'alayya faghfirli, fa innahu la yaghfirudh-dhunuba illa anta Meaning “O Allah! You are my Lord. None has the right to be worshipped except You. You created me and I am your servant and I abide by your covenant and promise as best I can. I seek refuge in you from the evil, which I have committed. I acknowledge your favor upon me and I acknowledge my sins, so forgive me, for verily none can forgive sin except you.” There are some conditions for repentance which we need to follow 1. Admit our mistake / sin to Allah SWT 2. Regret the sin we committed 3. Seek Allah's forgiveness and repent sincerely back to him (saying this Dua'a) 4. Make a promise to Allah that you'll do your best not to repeat this sin again In case you fail as human Good news once again 🌹 Sincerely follow the above steps and repent again *Allah SWT promised that he will always accept our repentance not matter how much times we repeat as long as we are sincere with our repentance* Spread this message with everyone and we'll get reward everyone someone practices these even after we leave this world 🪦
Q- what does one do when a husband is not grateful for his wife and only acknowledges things like money, gifts etc and finds that she brought nothing to the marriage?
As a second women work and provide for their own children. Sometimes a husband will use maintenance if he doesn’t feel he is getting his rights. Is that correct?
As a Christian, I find these principles very sound. I enjoy and profit from these lectures. From usa with respect.
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Please give the Holy Quran a read it is The greatest justice you can do to yourself
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As a wife, I have been practising turning a blind eye in a lot of situations and I have seen a lot of difference and avoided many unwanted situation. I want to try to increase the quality of our relationship. With practise I hope to better control my feelings by doing so. My husband is better at practising gratitude. We have been married for only 5 months but may we reach 5 years. InshaAllah we get through everything, I’m very hopeful. This video is very beautifully articulated and wish to see the rest of Married Ever Chapter.
Not just a leader but also a companion friend and a source of comfort in dunya and hereafter IA
I hope things have gotten easier for you. I'm also newly married and I know how tough it can be at times. Sending you lots of love and prayers 💕 also if you have any tips in avoiding unnecessary arguments, please share!
May Allah reward your efforts, sheikh. I hope many more people discover this channel so they can benefit from the knowledge you share with us. JazaakaLlaahu khair
One of the best lectures I have ever heard on marriage. Brother Ali Hammud has such a balanced approach. Allah humma barik.
Do not let your small drops of sin become a flooding river of regret. Ask Allah to forgive you regularly and return to Him when you stray
“Look closely. The beautiful may be small.”
Remember to always keep your happiness to yourself, to never whisper it to others. People will evil eye you, even if they don’t mean it, even if they love you, even if they have beautiful souls. They can’t help the evil that resides in them, so protect yourself. Remain silent.
“Time doesn’t heal anything, it just teaches you how to live with the pain.”
Have patience with all things but firstly with yourself
Alhamdulillah masha Allah let's read the Quran everyday and put it in practice 🙏 Amin
These lectures are absolutely amazing. Baarak Allahu feekum !
Brilliant. Can't wait. These talks r very educational. Allahumma barik! Keep going inshAllah
Thank you very much appreciated and much needed
Allahu Akbar, Our Lord has blessed sheikh and blessed us with him . JazakAllahu kheir for this series , Alhamdulilah
ماشاالله this sheikh is amazing ماشاالله
Married Ever After playlist th-cam.com/play/PL9OPVukugS7zpgJ8Unee_FvS3xgqnwFPe.html
I loved u r lectures on this💥
Viewing from Montserrat, British West Indies.
Alhamdulillaah for the information.
Jazallaah khair Sheikh.
Mashallah very inspiring even for the unmarried!
Jazakallah Khair. So profound.
I have seen so many men ungrateful towards their wives. Some of them say to their wives such things i was forced by my parents to marry, you don’t cook food like my mother even though the woman is working full time at the same taking care of her house .
Or once the child is born , they say you are not as fit as you used to be. Without realizing that woman just give birth to a child and her body will never be the same.
Or your parents didn’t give enough dowry.
It is expected that woman will take care of inlaws but women sude relatives are not respected.
A woman is expected to do both outside and inside work , but if man helps at home the inlaws dont like it. All these are cultural values. Prophet Muhammed pbuh used to do all his work by himself .
He used to respect everyone.
There was No joint family system.
Our muslim woman also has gone far right . A very good example is they want to celebrate baby shower , plus aqeqa. With usually one person income this is not possible. Going by religion is the best way.
Dowry from parents?
Comes from the man, you confused?
*ALLAH SWT WILL FORGIVE SINS WE DON'T REMEMBER with this Dua'a*
Must say at last tashahud(sitting) in Salah /Prayer and can be said generally anytime 👇🏼 :)
اللهم اغفر لي ما قدمت وما أخرت، وما أسررت وما أعلنت، وما أسرفت، وما أنت أعلم به مني، أنت المقدم، وأنت المؤخر، لا إله إلا أنت
Allahum-maghfir li ma qaddamtu wa ma akh-khartu, wa ma asrartu, wa ma a'lantu, wa ma asraftu, wa ma Anta a'lamu bihi minni. Antal-Muqqadimu, wa Antal-Mu'akh-khiru. La ilaha illa Anta
*Meaning*
‘O Allah! Forgive my former and latter sins, which I have done secretly and those which I have done openly, and that I have wronged others, and those defaults of mine about which You have better knowledge than I have. You Alone can send whomever You will to Jannah, and You Alone can send whomever You will to Hell-fire. None has the right to be worshipped but You
Assalamoualaikum. Could you post the source/reference for this?
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وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته 💐
Sahih Bukhari 6398
Jazakhallahu khayran Sheikh 🤲❤️
hamdulillah. i hope allah will give me a second chance one day. inshallah.
33:20... inner nobility...
JazakaAllah khair for amazing lectures. May Allah reward you for passsing the knowledge to mankind.
ما شاء الله تبارك الله ♥ very very beneficial sheikh
Subhanallah ❤
Hiqma and guidance in this lectures 🎉
ماشاءاللّٰه 💐
Mashallah
Can't get no tickets to the Bradford event all sold out only found out yesterday 😞
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subhanAllah
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Marriage only last when two people work hard to keep it going, these tips are helpful for sure however that’s the bottom line
What would you say to men who refuse to recognize thst marriage needs work and daily input? Men who refuse to invest in their marriage? Bring wives in their world but continue to live like a bachelor? Do not take her into consideration? Small or big takes his own decision and doesn't want to inform her? Not about his whereabouts also? Does he not drive her insane? Turn her into a nagging woman? A woman who has to fight for the basics? You explained in the previous videos men need to take time to their wives? Do u fail to recognize the existence of such husbands? Who do not listen to a word of what she's been saying? Who doesn't honour her role and gives no importance to married life? Turns her into an insecure maniac for wanting only the basics?
Is there any group for reverts?
*THE BEST DUA'A TO SEEK FORGIVENESS & GUARANTEED JANNAH* 💯💕 (Sayyid Ul Istigfaar)
Prophet Muhammed SAWS said whoever says this Dua'a once in the morning and die before evening *S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH* and whoever says this Dua'a once in the evening sincerely and dies before Morning *S/he is GUARANTEED JANNAH*
Please make it a habit to recite everyday, once in the morning and once in the evening
*Reference : Sahih al-Bukhari 6306*
The Dua'a
اَللَّهُمَّ أَنْتَ رَبِّي, لَا إِلَهَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ, خَلَقْتَنِي, وَأَنَا عَبْدُكَ, وَأَنَا عَلَى عَهْدِكَ وَوَعْدِكَ مَا اسْتَطَعْتُ،, أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ شَرِّ مَا صَنَعْتُ, أَبُوءُ لَكَ بِنِعْمَتِكَ عَلَيَّ, وَأَبُوءُ لَكَ بِذَنْبِي, فَاغْفِرْ لِي; فَإِنَّهُ لَا يَغْفِرُ اَلذُّنُوبَ إِلَّا أَنْتَ
Allahumma, Anta Rabbi, la ilaha illa anta, khalaqtani wa ana 'abduka, wa ana 'ala 'ahdika wa wa'dika mastata'tu, a'udhu bika min sharri ma sana'tu, abuw'u laka bidhanbi, wa abuw'u laka bini'matika 'alayya faghfirli, fa innahu la yaghfirudh-dhunuba illa anta
Meaning
“O Allah! You are my Lord. None has the right to be worshipped except You. You created me and I am your servant and I abide by your covenant and promise as best I can. I seek refuge in you from the evil, which I have committed. I acknowledge your favor upon me and I acknowledge my sins, so forgive me, for verily none can forgive sin except you.”
There are some conditions for repentance which we need to follow
1. Admit our mistake / sin to Allah SWT
2. Regret the sin we committed
3. Seek Allah's forgiveness and repent sincerely back to him (saying this Dua'a)
4. Make a promise to Allah that you'll do your best not to repeat this sin again
In case you fail as human
Good news once again 🌹
Sincerely follow the above steps and repent again
*Allah SWT promised that he will always accept our repentance not matter how much times we repeat as long as we are sincere with our repentance*
Spread this message with everyone and we'll get reward everyone someone practices these even after we leave this world 🪦
Q- what does one do when a husband is not grateful for his wife and only acknowledges things like money, gifts etc and finds that she brought nothing to the marriage?
As a second women work and provide for their own children. Sometimes a husband will use maintenance if he doesn’t feel he is getting his rights. Is that correct?
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