Your Family Denied Me For 41 Years | KARAMO
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 9 ม.ค. 2023
- Rutha and Shawn were just teenagers when Hadassah was born and were instantly pitted against each other. 41 years later, Hadassah is trying to heal from the tension between them but also wants to confirm that Shawn is really her biological father. Can Karamo give this hurting family the tools to build their own happy ending?
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The daughter is such a perfect blend of both parents.🥰
I like the way Karamo calmed Hadassah down when she was crying backstage. Great job.
She wasn’t even dropping a tear. The momma and daughter was fighting over who was the bigger victim….
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@@thesun-N-moon8885shutup dummy
I knew she was his, she looks just like her daddy!!
Big Facts
Yeah she do❤
Exactly
Exactly!! I don’t understand if we can tell they look alike, they can’t? I’m glad she knows now though.
@@photogenic305the mama knew he was the father. It was him and his family who had questions or just maybe his family and not him because he was 14. But after he got grown, he should have gotten the DNA especially just to proove it earlier to his daughter. But maybe he just accepted her as his and didn’t want a DNA but the daughter still wanted it.
To know that his family made up that vicious lie about his bro and kept it alive is beyond vicious
I honestly couldn’t tell all. I only had a few minutes. Shit happens. And it wasn’t from only my my family that she heard about my brother. Her aunts on her mother’s side was the one that brought it to the head
@@shawntrapp1114 at least you know you can only focus on your daughter kinfolk💪🏾🙌🏾
@@shawntrapp1114this is called an excuse. Nothing to do with your daughter. You were being a deadbeat.
His family was dirty and he knows he cosigned. I don't blame Mama for being upset. Denied her when she looks just like them🙄
She's been the carrier of both her mother and father's pain. That's too much for a child to bear. This is the beginning of all of their healing. Peace be unto them.
Seeing the father hug the mother, brought tears to my eyes. Darn you KARAMO strikes again!! I don't know where these people come from but they are so authentic this is not like a average talk show these people are really going through it and you can tell by the reactions on their face and the pureness of their answers and questions. Dang I love Karamo
Yes I rarely end a episode without tears.
Yea you and his husband. Smmfh. GDP
@@labrea654 😂😂😂hater for what ?
the man is a much nicer person..he tired...the yellow canary is a piece of work.
I feel so happy for her you can see her smile again
Hadassah is so beautiful and so sweet and pure. I applaud Karamo for giving these families the necessary tools for healing.
My heart is with the mother walking around with guilt and shame. What a beautiful woman.
My heart is with the daughter who missed out of family on his side. No grans, aunts, uncles, cousins,... sad & most importantly NO DAD FOR 41 YRS.
He was scared that he might not be "you don't need to open it, I will always be your father"
My first cousin had never denied her. I never told her. I won’t lie to her mother I did say that. Because she would see me somewhere with a another girl my second daughter mother and always try starting something
I would had taking the test years before. I knew 110% she was mines. Me and her mother were like rabbits always together unless I was at work. She pick me up from jr. high every day
@@shawntrapp1114 momma was trying so hard to prove she was/is still a victim. She to old for that. Her and daughter were fighting for the spotlight
As a therapist seeing Karamo use grounding techniques makes me so happy 😊 😌
I would love to thank everyone for their comments. Being 15 with to kids and having being raised by a woman of eight without a father and male role model was a experience I wish on no one
I definitely saw your heart! Great job dad ❤
Getting deadbeat vibes. No more excuses and putting blame on others. Your brother got nothing to do with you taking care of your kids. C’mon man smh.
Well I'm glad her tears turned into a smile🥲 him hugging the mother appeared endearing.❤️🩹
This is why it’s so important for parents to talk to their kids about sex. Talk to them about the truths about raising a child and the importance of birth control. Also for parents to be open to abortion if daughters do not want to have a baby. Trauma needs to be healed before bring babies into the world.
I declare healing for this family
In the Name of Jesus!!
Amen
Same!
Yes she was a 16 Yr old girl but HE was a 14 Yr old boy! They both needed support and help not judgement. Glad for the outcome 👏
Thank you
Ik it’s only 2yrs but it’s not sitting right with me like even if it was flipped it would still be weird 😬🤧
@@hashtagslimwhat’s weard about 2 teens having sex. 14 , 16 they are minors (teens)and boys are a little quicker to get started than girls.
Aww man u never know what people are going through. I know her we sang in a choir together. She is one of the sweetest people u will meet. I'm so sorry she had to go through this!!!! Prays up!!! Just know she has a great life and is a wonderful mother and wife!!!
Then you heard her talk about me. During this arc I was around
What choir?
@@JayWilliamsTP youth united for christ
The daughter, my heart breaks for her regardless. Im sorry that her parents were troubled abused children, i hope they all find healing
That dear sweet mother hurt beyond words by thus cruel heartless man who deserves nothing...
Let's get this straight my sister was never abused it was the trapp family lying about dada the hold time I lived it he did not want anything to do with her
@@lorettawsllace4185 I respect your words. zooming out from your family, abuse doesn't have to mean physical abuse, there's always a reason behind why children have sex and why they are having babies.
Sometimes some children grow up in environments that enable and element of motional neglect in some way and never receive therapy for it. Some of those children can end up being effected and looking for affection in the wrong places as teens, neglect is a form of abuse and also children having sex together is abusive and for most against the law (depending on where you are). I didn't mean any direspect and Im not attacking anyone.
@@lorettawsllace4185and I truly believe it. My hearts goes out to your sister and your niece.
Please don't cancel this show Karamo is the best show I've seen in a long time 👏👏👏👍❤️
i’m was a teen mother i was only 14 teen having a baby and it’s hard when the father running around acting a fool and u telling the truth on him everyone looking at you crazy, your child is fatherless growing up makes your child empty
Karamo saying “do you feel like you got what you needed?” to each person, shows that he is truly there to help these people, and not just for the clout 🙌🏽❤️
This was the best episode of Karamo! 🌟 My heart was crying for all 3 of them! I think all of them need individual counseling, and family counseling.
I no what and where I done wrong. But I just you are right because I have to find a way to forgive my friend which is very hard for me
Aww my heart goes out to the daughter, seeing her so upset broke tears to my eyes. She deserves the truth so she can start healing. I wanted to give her hugs. Her mum and dad need to put there hate for each a side and be there for there daughter. This should of be sorted out a long time ago and dad shouldn't fight more for his daughter.
The beginning of this episode troubled me. To see a 41 year old overly emotional when her parents bickered…troubling. The ending was strong. Everyone got the answer.
Hmmmmm I was surprised by the daughters reaction she’s 41 with children. Strange
@@charls5834 I think the girl in her was crying.
That's what happens when your parents argued in a way that made you feel deeply unsafe and insignificant in your chidhood. It triggers the child in you and takes you right back to that place of extreme fear and it feels like life or death. It also triggers extreme abandonment because you realize, even after all the years, your tears, your rage, your fear, your pain- none of it matters enough to get them to acknowledge how their behavior affects you and it rips that childhood wound open all over again. Hadassah is so clearly a parentified child that was supposed to moderate and manage her parents emotions when they didn't know how and pressure like that can cause lasting effects and nervous breakdowns even as an adult if re triggered.
He's definitely the pappy. They look alike! So sad it took this long for clarity and acceptance. Poor daughter having to go through this for 41 years!
Not The Pappy
Wow this was a very emotional and explosive episode but it was necessary to began the healing 😢 ❤ so sorry it took 4 decades of hurt and pain glad they all are still on earth to even experience this moment
That's why if family can't respect boundaries they need to be loved from a distance
This one took me out Karamo. Whew child got me in tears. I pray nothing but healing for this family.
The mother needed that validation from him.
Karamo you are magical !!! I love how you calmed her down and to focus on breathing when she was crying 💗✨
Same 💫
I am glad they found some clarity. The daughter really needed that.
The mother has a ton of healing she needs to do in order to even be present in the conversation. She came out ready to fight. He simply said she talked to the brother...not slept with. She could not even hear that for her own fighting.
Typical hood 🐀 behaviour.
It was implied. Duh...😮 are you sure madam?
It was said about her tho for 30 something years she’s been said it’s not the so having it implied hurt
He was spread trash about her to deny his child. He probably paid $30.00 a month child support.
I thought for sure he said "messing with"... That means sexual...
Karamo is 1 of the Best talk show hosts ever! Great job 👏🏾 Karamo
I'm addicted to his show and him. He is so amazing and I love his soul and unconditional love for all
You people get fooled by anything. He's a frigging 617 for crying out loud.
Im over here crying like a baby 😭🙏🏽🙌🏽❤️
Me too 😭😭😭😭
I swear Karamo is the best, I love his show, I love that he is soo genuine and that he truly cares for these people that come on his show.
I love her name. Her Dad is wrong. They look just alike. People need to stop this none sense of abandoning their kids.
I know people who have took care of kids that wasn't their. Dna
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If you paid attention I never heard me denying her never
Yes mother, I feel your pain, it's a 16 yrs old pain that will never go away. I just over mine couple yrs ago after I saw the progress of mine and he apologized and ashame God made it that she is the one and only child for him. He even spend thousands of dollars the have baby with his wife but God says no but his family always supports me even take my daughter so i can make something of my life. So young girl hold your head up and aim for the sky. Let he and his family regret everything they said now is your time to shine.
Karamo I really love all the healing you are bringing to so many families !! Keep up the great work
This was awesome! Go ‘head, Karamo!!! So heartwarming. 🥰
Karamo i love your show. I think you are doing so much healing for the black community and I hope more people can watch your show so we can all learn to understand each other !!
Need to heal his gd self
I can’t imagine what it’s like not to know who your dad is. These shows make me cry like a baby.
That smile at 10:10 was the little girl in her ❤️
10:00
I’m addicted to karamo Omggg …karamo you are awesome! ❤❤
This was very beautiful
I hope they stop fighting for real it pains her so much but I’m glad she got her clarity. I’m happy that can she start her healing process
This was so sad to watch 😭 I am happy that there was a happy ending💙
Amazing people they were so open to do the work that was the major breakthrough!!Wish them all the best 🍀🍀🍀
I understand that this was about the daughter but I have to be honest I think this was more about the lady mother for me. Why I said that is because I can only imagine what the mother had to go through alone raising a child by herself I know that was some hard shit endure . I witnessed my mother struggling to make sure we had everything we needed as kids it was 4 of us and none of our fathers played a part in our life so when I saw the lady mother crying I felt my mother's pain and I started to cry with her. I believe when the daughter received the DNA results she should have given her mother a big hug because our parents are human they won't always get it right but as long as we have breath in our body we can always fix the past. Karamo I love your show but I don't like how this show makes me cry I'm too grown for that but good show ❤️
3:35 the mom in the back was in disbelief of them answers 😅. I loveeee these episodes ! So glad you popped on my cup of TikTok KAM! Now I’m addicted
I have seen a lot done on this show before but, Karamo...... WOW !!!
So far this is the most passionate realist episode so far …whew chile
Their daughter is beautiful
Thank you Karamo, for creating a space of healing and hope on your platform!
He is killing this show, love it how are the ratings
I’m crying, over joyed for them all
They were both kids and as usual the mom stayed and bared it all. He decided to be a dad once she no longer needed to be raised and paid for. He is a deadbeat dad period. Mom screaming for help. Father in denial and child suffering
also: she looks just like him.
Karamo if you need a bodyguard, just call 911, keep up the good work!
This was really amazing I wish them well in the healing and moving forward as family
Wow!! Those "Parents" 😡 I pray Hadassah finds Peace! Sometimes parents and family can be very Toxic. That's when we finds our own family thru the people we meet.
Hadassah reminds me so much of myself. When she shut down like that, I understood. The way she carried the pain of those around her, I understood. The way she is so quiet and calm and pleasent, I understand that. I pray for healing for her and all the girls like us who feel broken but still break cycles. Don't give up ladiess. Healing is always possible. Peace is possible.
Just started watching Karamo and in every episode so far, appreciate the respect and sincere "lovin on" his guests. Also always on point with his empathetic comments! 🙏🏽❤
WELL DONE Karamo!! ❤You did an AWESOME job counseling this family, who were in such deep pain, especially the daughter!! I’m so happy she got closure. When they all embraced each other, that was a beautiful moment!🙏🏾❤️
You are a godsend Karamo!! Love your show!❤
I'm crying n i don't know these ppl. Loosing my mom 3 years ago is still hard until now.
Out of all episodes..this one is by far the best one...thank you 🖤🖤
He made mistakes but he seems to be a good guy. Blessings to them
I believe he is a good guy . I just think him being so young he didn’t know what to do. And by the time he slowed up and became older he didn’t need a test because he accepted the fact she was his regardless if she really was or not. I just wish for the daughter it would have been done sooner to spare her some pain. I’m happy she knows now.
Karamo is like a Therapist to all that's some time true in all of us, he's like a Free Therapist
I watch you at least once a day❤ I swear you are the best the level of empathy patience and understanding that you give to your guest is so rare. I can feel you sometimes and some of your shows hit home for you smh you still manage to keep your emotions in tact and focus on helping them…I admire you. Yep my new talk show 💪❤️
Just tears 😭😭😭. Awesome moment KARAMO. Thank you for being there though 🙏 from Suriname
I’m early btw I love the show and this shows how much parents arguing can really affect the child I really hope they can recover full! 👏
KAROMA IS SO GENUINE I LOVE YOU !!!! SENDING YOU LOVE FROM JAMAICA I LOVE YOUR SHOW ❤🤗AND I LOVE YOU
Karamo! You're Really Awesome at what you do!! I love you & your Show!❤❤❤💯
KARAMO!!! I am so glad I found your channel I have been subscribe to your channel for 2 months now and I am addicted lol you are truly an inspiration to others god bless ♥️🙏
Great show 👏🏽. Love the resolution.
I love Karamo ❤. He is an amazing healer and communicator.
Karamo you're Amazing at what you do, for all of these broken families ❣️ I love you too, keep up the great work Sir❣️
I love you Karamo!!❤ For helping so many people.
I LoVE U Karamo , this episode got me all in tears 😢 they definitely going to be alright im happy she knows thats her father after being rejected from his family for 41 years thank u GOD 🙏🏾
Beautiful moment ❤🙏🏾🙌🏾
This Family Here, Monmouth County!!!! I’m So Proud If This, Can’t To See Ya’ll In Passing ❤️❤️❤️❤️ Healing Is Beautiful!!!
I’d definitely like an update on this episode 😍😍😍
I’m crying with Hadasah!!! 6:54
So glad I found you, been watching the other guy and wondered how u were. So glad I found you. I have been binging out on the shows. Very good you do good work and have a keen eye.
Grandma is projecting her feelings for her daughter on this child. Grandma is stuck in her ways. She doesn't know how to properly communicate her feelings. I give her props for taking on those kids though. I have 3 daughters, and I know those teenage years were challenging but you have to keep a level of respect. I pray they work it out
Karamo, you are the best!!!!
BEAUTIFUL! ❤🙏🏼👆🏾🙌🏼
Great job Karamo 👏🏽
KARMOIS THE TRUTH
THANK YOU FOR THE GIFT OF HEALING SOooo MANY FAMILIES
THANK YOU 🙌❤️
Why not nominate him for president and Ellen Degeneres for vice president. That's a sure win.
This was so emotional 🖤
Karamo did an extremely awesome job with this family. I'm glad Hadassah received clarity!
You can tell he love her he is hurt in sorry that you wasn't not there for her growing up but your there now make the best of it Daddy
Karamoni love watching your show. I feel you are a Blessing to many
KARAMO, you were placed here to help people like these and you are doing a great job, when the mom came out and started attacking, I had to look to see if it was the Jerry Springer show, they were both young and the father running the streets, he did not have any real guidance from his adult relatives, the mom has to get real counseling, she did not even go over to her daughter through all that, the dad he wants to be there, he has to step back a bit, but he loves his daughter and she loves him when she was out back crying, she said this is what her mother do all the time if she wants the relationship to work between the two of them she has to forgive herself first. I love the ending, she features her dad, hope that healing will start from here.
This episode had me in tears!
I just watched this episode again.
I WAS FURIOUS WATCHING THE MOTHER BLAMING THE FATHER FOR HER PAIN AND GUILT!!!
NOT WANTING HER DAUGHTER TO HAVE A GOOD RELATIONSHIP WITH HER FATHER BECAUSE THEY'RE NOT A COUPLE!!!
THE MOTHER IS RESPONSIBLE FOR HER DAUGHTER'S PAIN!!!
I CAN'T STAND MOTHERS LIKE HER!!!
AS PARENTS WE'RE SUPPOSED TO MAKE OUR CHILDREN'S LIVES BETTER!!!
YES, I CAN RELATE. I WAS A TEENAGE MOTHER AND SEPARATED FROM THEIR FATHER!!!
BUT, NEVER MADE MY CHILDREN FEEL THEY HAD TO CHOOSE BETWEEN US. AND, HE HAD GIRLFRIENDS!!!
MY MOTHER WAS MY ROLE MODEL AND I AM SO THANKFUL FOR THAT!!!
SHE KEPT THE TWO RELATIONSHIP SEPARATE.
NEVER ONCE DID SHE SAY ANYTHING NEGATIVE ABOUT OUR FATHER TO US!!
HOW YOU'RE TAUGHT TO DEAL WITH YOUR PARENTS YOU TAKE OUT INTO THE WORLD!!!
I AM FOREVER THANKFUL FOR MY MOTHER TEACHING AND SHOWING ME HOW TO RESPECT ALL ADULTS BY RESPECTING MY LESS THAN PERFECT FATHER!
The daughter is literally the perfect blend
Real man kar,mr k where were u all these years,we need more men like u,you doit again wow big up ya love ur style💯💯💯💯up up up all the time peace.
loved loved this episode🩷
Its gonna be alright some counseling and a lot of Jesus and love❤❤❤
Didn't need a DNA test, because she looks just like him!
The mama irritated for a smooth minute with her wanna be dramatics 💆🏾♀️ I knew that was her pappy they have the same damn nose they look just alike lol . 🎉❤
My first thought at least the father chased after her 💯 the mom came out like this was Maury or something💯
You are so right it’s more of the mama than the dad smh I will hush now 😅 mannn that mama nvm
@@DhamaniAlexis I am so glad I was not the only person who saw the mother and her drama, she came out like she wanted to fight, he was just 14yrs old, the father came out and held the girl and she came out and did not even go to her daughter, she just started, she tired of him and will not shut up even after seeing her daughter breaking down.
The mother was upset at the lies the man was spewing about her as a 16 year old girl. You can tell he's dishonest and putting on a front for the audience.
Good job and great show
I wish we had more black positive shows,but he has a very interesting show, he had a good personality,karamo
I love karamo he really needs an award for his show