@jl_huang Thank you for your detailed explanation. By the way, would you view the baseball game of Asian sports game ? tonight (7th/Oct) is Tie-Wan v.s Korean fighting to who is champion ? Go, Go Tie - Wan 👍
A friend of mine, a Taiwanese marry an Australian, encountered the same situation as you a few years ago. After living in Taiwan for more than ten years, they decided to move to Australia with their children who were about to enter high school. They took a gap year and traveled for many months before relocating. Through the travel, children learned and were taught how to adapt to new environments and how to broaden their minds. What they did was very successful. Their children had no problems living in Australia from day one.
I don’t think you guys have to make any radical decisions in a hurry in regards to undertaking education and living in Taiwan. Maybe Amor and William would be interested to visit Taiwan and spend some time in the classroom to get a general feeling? Amor maybe still has impression of Taiwanese rigid learning methods hanging around? I am a Taiwanese living overseas for 20 years and I observe that ( education) has changed over time. My strict and rigid Taiwanese education background perhaps doesn’t give me a “ freethinker” or creativity but definitely makes me a disciplined and reserved person at work places. Everything has pros and cons. Good luck with your future plans 👍
William is so lucky to have parents like you two who love him so much and put him the top to consider… best wishes to you guys no matter what the final decision is, everything will go really well.
歡迎Amor回歸台灣,坦白說台灣的求學應該是沒啥壓力的(除非雙親有所期待),牛肉麵除了紅燒和清燉外,還有一種湯頭是番茄口味😄😄😄 Welcome Amor back to Taiwan. Frankly speaking, studying in Taiwan should not be stressful (unless your parents have expectations). In addition to braised and stewed beef noodles, there is also a tomato-flavored soup.
Amor you are an amazing mom! Taiwan actually has many different educational systems with a wide spectrum, I believe you can find one that suits your loved boy best (even in Hsinchu).
Although Amor and you are no longer husband and wife, but both of you are definitely amazing parents. I hope Amor and your son will live in Taiwan soon.
Dude your Mandarin is actually not bad at all!! Also I can tell you both love and care about your son a lot, it's really lovely to watch a video like this!
Amor and William should come visit you in Taiwan! As a parent I 100% agree and understand the struggles and worries about the education system. Awesome video and everything will work out how it’s supposed to! ❤️👍
@@lifeintaiwan We can't image how serious or dangerous outside Taiwan, we are super lucky living in Taiwan exceip risk from China Xi but don't worry too much about it as now a lots of countries focus on the safety of Taiwan
As a person raised by a single mom, without a father figure growing up, this video touched me deep down and I was tearing up though out the entire video 😭 Props to both of yous for being a good parent and consider the best interests of William. From personal experience and perspective I'd say move to Taiwan so that William get to spend more time with his dad! But either way I respect Amor's decision and I'm sure William will turn out to be great in Taiwan or South Africa 🥰
Amor so nice! I'm glad you two are still friends too. Because William seem doesn't speak mandarin(?), even if he comes to Taiwan, he must go to an international school. So maybe he can come back for a summer to test water before making any decision.
I love how this was a delicious Taiwanese food video but also a very intimate personal video about the potential for your boy to return to Taiwan 🇹🇼 and your ex is very comfortable on camera. 🎉😂❤
Interesting video, great to see Amor. If the result is your son has more contact with both parents then that is a win for your son and both of you. All the best.
I just watched a Hong Kong TH-camr’s video, he took his family, originally tending to immigrant to Taiwan for good. However, 2 years later they relocated to the UK, 3 months after that, they surprisingly returned to Hong Kong for good. Many people didn’t understand that, some mucked him, some have blamed him causing troubles and emotional damage to his wife and 2 kids. After few months he made a video interviewing his kids, they all says returning HK made they happy cuz they missed their families in HK, going back brought them sense of security, but they also think their time in TW and UK helps them grow into mush confident, experienced people and they have better abilities for life, social relationships, and adjustment. So maybe it is possible for William to have a different experience (living in Taiwan) And also, is there a plan B? If he moved to TW with his mother, it turned out he didn’t like it, could they still go back to South Africa? Spend summer break and winter break in TW with Dad? It’s always good to think about more options.
Hey, Allan maybe you should look into Wandorf education in Taiwan. It is the complete opposite of traditional Taiwanese education. I personally went to Waldorf School for many years and it was really nice there. They won't force you to be the same as everyone else, they let you be you. It's a great place for kids who want to develop their own interests and chart their own paths. Like me, I'm currently studying product design in Germany at my dream uni, chasing my dream to become a product designer. Just a little suggestion for ya :)
Amor come to tie-wan from willliam
Willlllllllliiiiiaaaaaammmmmmmmm!!!!! ❤ love you big boy!
@@lifeintaiwan Nice one!!
I have a issue try to figure out
what's different between tie-wan and Taiwan？
Thanks.
@@AndrewChen88 It's officially Taiwan, but the pronunciation is more like 'tie-wan' because of the tonal system.
@jl_huang Thank you for your detailed explanation.
By the way, would you view the baseball game of Asian sports game ? tonight (7th/Oct) is Tie-Wan v.s Korean fighting to who is champion ?
Go, Go Tie - Wan 👍
Amor 是一個非常了不起的媽媽與前妻，我知道帥倫有負擔兒子的生活教育費，但Amor 多年來獨自一人照顧William, 在他成長的過程中，儘管爸爸經常沒有就近陪伴，但Amor 仍然有辦法把William 教養成一個活潑開朗、落落大方、笑口常開的孩子，而她自己選擇與前夫保持良好的朋友關係更是對William 最好的身教，所以William 也才會對爸爸有滿滿的愛戀，想要更靠近爸爸一點。
所以我要說的是：Amor 小姐妳是一個讓我非常尊敬欽佩的女士，不管妳做出的決定是什麼，我們都尊重妳，當然！若妳與William願意來臺灣長住，我們都會張大雙臂歡迎你們，相信有了妳與William，帥倫在臺灣的生活會過得更快樂精彩。
Amor 已經說了她是100%可以馬上來台灣的 但是她是以兒子考慮為第一☝️的她不能也不想剝奪Willam 的決定，其實對一個媽媽而言，小孩需要適應更多的部分比大人多加上學校的同儕是小孩考慮的第一 ，所以Amor 是好媽媽👍 ，Willam目前只能在爸爸和同儕間做出一個決定，希望Amor & Willam 能來台灣🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉🎉
前妻:給他一個正常的童年，正常的上學時間，為了沒有壓力，我們希望威廉能夠更自由地成長，
英國叔叔:我想說的是我們做到了，這幾週我在這裡看到的就是這樣，"他現在已經完全擁有他自己的性格"
簡單的幾句話凸顯了東西方教育文化上很大的差異，
亞洲父母會希望自己的小孩跟大家一樣，而西方父母期盼且努力培養小孩擁有自己的特色性格
在台灣你這樣教小孩,老師說不定會建議你去給醫生評估
@@abbabbabbac7439結果有病的是我們台灣的教育體制
@@nelsonlin3457 是亞洲😂
老外都很會講啦，孩子還是要著母親
Amor is very nervous about comments so please be nice and supportive! ❤
She needs a moment. Wait for Amor. U 2 Will work it out.
威廉的臉基因 來自媽媽 好'像
William’s mother, welcome to Taiwan. Hsinchu is very close to Taichung. Taiwan’s safety and enthusiasm are very suitable for William’s teenage growth.
A friend of mine, a Taiwanese marry an Australian, encountered the same situation as you a few years ago. After living in Taiwan for more than ten years, they decided to move to Australia with their children who were about to enter high school. They took a gap year and traveled for many months before relocating. Through the travel, children learned and were taught how to adapt to new environments and how to broaden their minds. What they did was very successful. Their children had no problems living in Australia from day one.
I don’t think you guys have to make any radical decisions in a hurry in regards to undertaking education and living in Taiwan. Maybe Amor and William would be interested to visit Taiwan and spend some time in the classroom to get a general feeling? Amor maybe still has impression of Taiwanese rigid learning methods hanging around? I am a Taiwanese living overseas for 20 years and I observe that ( education) has changed over time. My strict and rigid Taiwanese education background perhaps doesn’t give me a “ freethinker” or creativity but definitely makes me a disciplined and reserved person at work places. Everything has pros and cons. Good luck with your future plans 👍
英國叔叔加油，希望能實現自己的願望，讓自己所愛和喜歡的人在一起，也希望台灣能讓你們在這裡重新開始。
英國大叔確實有英國紳士的典範，對前妻與小孩都認真負責，祈願上帝能讓您與前妻有好結果
很喜歡你們對彼此的友誼很珍惜，這是很棒的一件事情，大部分的亞洲華人都還沒有辦法這麼的放得開，都覺得跟一個人結婚就要一輩子，很奇怪的一種想法；上次在台北路上好難得遇到酷跟英國叔叔超開心❤
It’s best for William to be friends, and she is pretty cool anyway!
跟自己的前任當好朋友真的也是不錯的❤
兩人都很愛威廉，為了孩子努力給他最好的生活，這樣的相處模式很好。😊
We try our best
❤️❤❤
記得另一個TH-camr 莎白，也是大概威廉現在這年紀時搬到台灣的，也許可以問她看看她的經驗，她曾說她一開始很抗拒，都不願意學中文，但現在愛上台灣，中文講的超好，還嫁給台灣人！
Yes I should talk to her
I messaged you 😂😂😂
So.. who approached first? 😅😅😅 haha
@@HiELIZABENNY
莎白是有順風耳嗎？
簡直是神召喚啊⋯⋯
@@HiELIZABENNY莎白妳是七逃YT的嗎？😂
我很喜歡英國叔叔和Amor的相處方式，結束婚姻不代表就不能做好朋友
在台灣有些家庭走到離婚時，就會互相仇視對方、把對方撕裂的體無完膚
都沒想到這樣的敵對、對孩子來說有多痛苦
我覺得她很愛孩子，
還是要看威廉是否願意來台灣了．．．
我個人是認為 或許對一個孩子而言別離朋友是一種難過的事，
但是你可以對威廉說：＂這是一個和爸爸在台灣相處的機會＂
Yeah it’s a balancing act to make a decision
昂
是阿 國中小學的朋友 長大後也會分開阿 除非一被子待在同一城市地點 你沒走別人也會離開阿 終究無不散的宴席 只有家人才會聚一輩子
非常優秀的父母欸
雙方雖然對孩子在哪裡受教成長有不同的想法，但是從言談中可以感受到都是為了盡可能為孩子爭取最佳的利益！最棒的是雖然離婚了還是以良性的溝通方式來面對👍🏻
太棒了美女前妻竟然也那麼愛台灣 真讓人感動呢 而且為了小孩才回南非 真是最棒的媽媽了 凡事以小孩第一優先 真的是第一名母親呢
既然兩人都想到台灣 且南非還要考慮搶匪或搶劫 日子· 膽顫心驚了 人在家中也無法放鬆 是台灣人無法想像的生活 所以建議讓小孩來看看 或許他會喜歡適應 再學會中文 也許就想在此讀書 雖然要離開好多親友 但想想每個人高中後 幾乎也都會遠離家鄉讀書工作 只是早晚而已 但來台若能習得中文 對小孩未來工作是相當有助益的 可以往其他亞州或歐美工作 無限可能喔
其實念書壓力這件事台灣有很多種學校可選，國際，森林，華德福等，不是每個學校壓力都大。但父親的缺席可能影響更大，這點真的要好好考慮。
Yes this is why we are talking now
@@lifeintaiwan可以參考高雄的美國學校
台中也有美國學校，只是價格不菲
威廉不用有壓力，回台灣把中文學好，之後工作機會就更多了🎉，只是回來前要對他進行心理輔導，國中會遇到的挫折可能只是分數不如人而已，但是學習有許多方式，異國生活也是很棒的學習😊，希望全家能和好如初❤
其實說實在的
你這段言論就是他們所擔心的壓力來源
@@user-iy7mw6wp8q 怎麼說呢.... 我小孩小六，他們班正好一對兄妹，不知是父母心臟大顆，還是小孩神經大條，從不補習，不安親，不上課後班，成積老是不及格低於60分。現在不補習或加強成績一定不及格，但我看他倆很快樂，經常出去遊玩。總之是心態問題，
國中會遇到的挫折 讀書時期的成績 也未必是最終的成就 會讀書也未必會賺錢 來台主要就把中文學好 就是最大的成就了 成績不好也沒關係 畢竟是外國人 應該沒人會取笑的 主要找到興趣 高中或大學再到國外讀也可
Amor is lovely! I'm glad that you're still friends. She's a great Mom and will do what's best for William.
Absolutely agree 👍🏼
Amor和William如果搬回臺灣，可以讓William 學習母語以外的語言及東方文化和社會制度。如果William 喜歡臺灣還可以留下來繼續發展，讓William 擁有更多選擇權。最重要的是他會有一個不同的家庭生活。Amor 真是一位偉大的母親！
會沒人格
Amor非常站在孩子的角度考慮是個好媽媽，非常期待歡迎回來台灣，台灣至少安全一點不敢說孩子讀書環境比較好，但是可以跟爸爸在一起，我相信對還是是最好的選擇。
台灣交通很危險吧。
@@玩皮家族-j1s好了啦
但在台灣教育成長的孩子不會比在南非的快樂🙂
如果不跟其他同學比成績的話，現在台灣學校的壓力也沒有那麼大，很多老師都鼓勵學生適性發展。
但是要重新學習一種新語言，開始會有很大的挫折感，至少會有一年的時間難以適應。威廉的意願才是要認真考慮的！
小朋友應該會願意跟父母一起 享受天倫 先來住看看吧 也許會發現台灣太好玩了 到處有山有水又安全 隨時可上山下海 也不用保護媽媽呢 真不喜歡就回去也行 又不是要綁他腳 即使長住台灣 每年或幾年想回去就回 也可以阿
這間餐廳的食物看起來就是很道地的台灣味~一家人能在一起生活真的是很棒的事...Amor真是個好媽媽~
The food was great!
支持這一位好爸爸
❤
無法說服以食物為出發來改變一個人的觀點，大人的適應力覺得比小孩子經歷更多，更能夠處理情緒上的問題，以討論及比較各地差異，也讓小孩表達想法，才會最主要的辦法，，像影片當中提到治安就可以帶著孩子一起了解差異，提供參考。
沒有在南非生活過，也相信南非也有好的地方，台灣也有不好的地方，出在兩地過的媽媽，更能夠區別兩者差異，在台灣的地方，我遇到的至少有不少願意釋出善意的人。
Thanks for commenting
在無語言隔閡的情況下，在台灣就讀國中、高中都非常辛苦高壓了，何況是還要適應新環境和語言的威廉。我個人覺得讓他讀國際學校、或美國學校之類的到高中畢業後，做交換學生去英國或那裡讀大學是個比較理想的選項，但前提是你有辦法負擔那些高額的學費和開銷。
International school is an option yes
William is so lucky to have parents like you two who love him so much and put him the top to consider… best wishes to you guys no matter what the final decision is, everything will go really well.
Thank you so much
4:06 04 按對國內教育的理解
特別是青少年期間要再度轉學到不熟悉的地方
對青少年來講要看他的個別接受度與抗壓力
但按照 allan跟 amor的經濟能力與教育思想
應該就算來
也會選擇實驗學校或是國際學校 甚至自學
所以應該 學校教育部分影響還有限
但生活條件 環境就真的需要考慮
最好的辦法就是讓威廉先嘗識來 識應三個月 當作遊學也好
這樣 讓大家都有嘗試識應的機會空間時間
所可以隨時做調整的幅度也比較大
開心見到您美麗的孩子媽媽❤👍👍
Perfect mum!
其實台灣學習壓力大跟家長的態度有比較大的關係，個人在台灣學校倒是過的滿愉快的，只是台灣的國中是比較複雜的時候，畢竟小朋友13-15歲的時候賀爾蒙旺盛😂總是有各種不同的叛逆與衝突，父母需要更多的溝通
I can feel that Amor is a wonderful and warm person and mother. Wish you and William the best no matter where you are.
Yep yep she’s supermum
歡迎Amor回歸台灣,坦白說台灣的求學應該是沒啥壓力的(除非雙親有所期待),牛肉麵除了紅燒和清燉外,還有一種湯頭是番茄口味😄😄😄
Welcome Amor back to Taiwan. Frankly speaking, studying in Taiwan should not be stressful (unless your parents have expectations). In addition to braised and stewed beef noodles, there is also a tomato-flavored soup.
Love to see Amor and William come to Taiwan.
Me too!
很開心🎉您們一起回到台灣，尋找更棒的新生活！11年過去了，看到您們更成熟更輕鬆的生活，真的很感動❤❤❤給William最大的力量就是一家人陪伴他成長！㊗️福您們！
你們為了教育威廉好用心！選擇真正對孩子好的環境！真的有別於東方的教育方式！
可以理解媽媽的想法，但其實孩子早點接受困難與挫折，以後心靈會更強大，基本上台灣的中文文化對一個人在未來找工作上會有幫助，還有威廉以後的世界觀會更大一點。
帥倫我在加拿大為你加油喔！希望前妻及William 有一天會回臺灣來學習中文並居住在一起，不管你們未來住台中或新竹，我們臺灣人永遠歡迎你們。😊😊
11年台灣也變化很多，歡迎Amor可以來重新認識～當然與威廉來有很多的挑戰及習慣要適應，但現在Allan叔叔已經不一樣了，可以幫忙到很多！
來台灣第一個察覺到的應該是東西變得有夠貴。
很棒的前夫妻，
為了孩子，共同努力！👍😂
Trying our best to
暖心的報導❤讚👍
Thanks Amor is so nervous about the comments!
威廉需要爸爸
威廉爸媽需要台灣
台灣也很歡迎你們家庭可以重組
Amor you are an amazing mom! Taiwan actually has many different educational systems with a wide spectrum, I believe you can find one that suits your loved boy best (even in Hsinchu).
可敬的母親和父親❤❤❤
Great video! I'm trying to think of something funny to say but I got nothing. Just hope Amor decides to come to Taiwan!
Cheers bro
Amor是一位好母親，我相信以Amor的智慧和人生經歷,會用最好的方式跟孩子 一起成長和學習。當然最重要的還有父親陪伴。台灣的教育雖然跟西方很大的不同,能多一些和認識一些東方文化是好事。若是真的搬到台灣,可以跟台灣學校的老師多溝通彼此的想法，將教育差異降到最低。
Yes we are going to try
台灣有些實驗學校，不是正規學校的系統，我想會更適合外國成長的孩子。我覺得往這方面尋找，會讓Amor更放下心帶威廉來台。
關鍵字：森林學校，華德福，外國僑民學校等等
我感覺你深愛前妻跟兒子.希望他們來台灣生话.我們非常歡迎他們來台湾生活.祝福你們都幸福,平安,健康
前夫妻的搭配有種神奇的魔力.
希望威廉會適應台灣.
The ex-spouse collaboration is absolutely magical.
I hope that William will enjoy Taiwan as much as his dad.
Although Amor and you are no longer husband and wife, but both of you are definitely amazing parents. I hope Amor and your son will live in Taiwan soon.
Thank you so much!
剛剛是不是好像有說YT章魚不是還國人...
Dude your Mandarin is actually not bad at all!! Also I can tell you both love and care about your son a lot, it's really lovely to watch a video like this!
好喜歡你們給孩子這樣的生活模式，絕對是亞洲家庭要好好學習的❤
真的是很為孩子著想的母親，希望能幫威廉找到美式教學的環境，否則以一般台灣的教育制度，通常都是給孩子帶來壓力～
歡迎三位回家。
感覺兩個人好適合在一起在一起～～
Good friends… for William!
Amor and William should come visit you in Taiwan! As a parent I 100% agree and understand the struggles and worries about the education system. Awesome video and everything will work out how it’s supposed to! ❤️👍
I hope so too! Thanks Brittany
恭喜英國🇬🇧叔叔全家一起團聚。 趕快回來唷！❤台灣溫暖。
Amor是一個令人敬佩的媽媽，說得對!這個抉擇可能需要跟William好好談談。
加油希望你能成功順利一家團聚在一起生活。
We are trying to
Welcome William and William’s mother to come to Taiwan as soon as possible to meet with Allan😊
I hope so too!
南非治安真的那麼嚴重嗎～
台灣也有很多問題，沒有一個國家是完美的，到陌生環境生活對William 會是個很大的挑戰，你們真的是很棒的父母，辛苦了😊
Quite serious yes … we are trying our best
@@lifeintaiwan We can't image how serious or dangerous outside Taiwan, we are super lucky living in Taiwan exceip risk from China Xi but don't worry too much about it as now a lots of countries focus on the safety of Taiwan
南非治安非常差
太多在地朋友分享被劫持的經驗😂
祝福大家都平安
Welcome Amor and William back to Taiwan,. I like both of your smile & enjoy face in this Video !
Thank you! 😃
我真的很佩服你們兩位能夠這樣對話，我覺得非常了不起，真的，很棒❤❤❤
威廉的媽媽獨自在南非撫養他成長，辛苦她了！他是位了不起的媽媽！👍❤️💐
哇！好知性，好思想的女性，，，
你要加油了，除了給道理道理道理，還要讓她感動。
As a person raised by a single mom, without a father figure growing up, this video touched me deep down and I was tearing up though out the entire video 😭
Props to both of yous for being a good parent and consider the best interests of William. From personal experience and perspective I'd say move to Taiwan so that William get to spend more time with his dad! But either way I respect Amor's decision and I'm sure William will turn out to be great in Taiwan or South Africa 🥰
非常為你們一家三人感到開心🎉❤
以青少年發展時期，不建議回來台灣念書，因為青少年很敏感、很困惑、他們開始發展自我、找尋自我，改變環境的壓力，課業的壓力、同儕的壓力、自我心理的成長，屆時也有很多問題，不如還是在澳洲唸書比較好，寒暑假可以來台灣玩
Good info thanks
很佩服你們願意做朋友
而且都很愛孩子 把孩子排在前面很棒
這樣討論好棒
不論決定是什麼 你們都超級棒的
會考慮台灣的國際學校嗎
我小時候的朋友也是離開台灣
確實離開成長的地方是壓力 感覺也跟朋友離別
但也是另一種成長
後來他英文很好 受教育的彈性更大 也念了很好的美國學校
因為他去非常多國家 思想也更國際化與多元 而不像只待在台灣單一
我跟我朋友從他小學出國一直聯絡到三十歲
他姐姐都婚禮也有小學同學參加
並不是離開就一定會與朋友斷連
每個決定都有優缺點
如果影片中招待威廉南非朋友假期一起來台灣玩 我們也會很想收看😊
很愛孩子的父母 你們超棒的❤
前妻還願意入鏡，光是這點，就覺得很不容易了！威廉個性很大方熱情，顯然媽媽教育的很好👍，我覺得威廉來台灣，尤其台中的步調又比較慢的！艾倫大叔可能是因為在補習班經驗，那是和學校截然不同, 父母花錢很想要成果，其實一般學校早就不是這樣了
笑死！找前妻來助陣😂😂😂👍💕 祝 Ellen 上發燒 😘⚘
She was nervous to be on camera but happy to help!
@@lifeintaiwan Tell her, No worries, she looks absolutely beautiful in front of the camera.😍❤🌹
Amor so nice! I'm glad you two are still friends too.
Because William seem doesn't speak mandarin(?), even if he comes to Taiwan, he must go to an international school.
So maybe he can come back for a summer to test water before making any decision.
I love how this was a delicious Taiwanese food video but also a very intimate personal video about the potential for your boy to return to Taiwan 🇹🇼 and your ex is very comfortable on camera. 🎉😂❤
I totally agree!
She looks gorgeous and absolutely brings positive energy to Taiwan
Agree
為了孩子你們用心超多，最了解對方的朋友，絕對會讓孩子選擇最適合他的❤
媽媽辛苦了，我也是自己帶著孩子，也很努力跟前夫當朋友，希望孩子不要對父母有太多失落的情緒，但帶孩子那一方真的很辛苦⋯尤其在他們還小的時候
Welcome to Taiwan, William will be fine,no worry, especially father and mother's love that's the most happiness time ❤❤❤❤❤❤🎉
Love indeed
難得你跟前妻 有很好相處
希望 Amor William 會回到台灣
我很喜歡英國大叔的紳士風度！
Amor判斷是對的!!感受到她非常愛小孩，希望小孩快樂成長
祈求天主，祝福你們全家都能順利圓滿回來台灣。❤
Thank you
家人永遠是最幸福的，不要輕言放棄!
Never give up… just find a way to
Welcome you family come to Taiwan
Thanks! 😃
請一起來台灣吧，如果覺得台灣的教育體系不夠好，其實也能在家自學的，唐鳳也是在家自學，也能這麼優秀，其次是台灣的安全是世界排名前幾名的，不用教導孩子如何面對搶劫，這是台灣的優點之一，而且是非常小的優點，台灣是可以讓威廉更能享受美好童年的地方❤
應該要先學面對台灣的交通 哈哈
加油！艾倫
Interesting video, great to see Amor.
If the result is your son has more contact with both parents then that is a win for your son and both of you. All the best.
That's true!
希望你們能一起做出對你們最好的選擇!
不管如何，有你們威廉就很幸福~
Glad to see you having happy time in Taiwan
Yes, thank you
威廉有很愛他的父母
真好～羨慕～～
祝福艾倫一家人能早日在台灣相聚，這樣你與威廉就能有更多相處的時間。也祝福他們來台灣生活適應過程都很愉快。
I just watched a Hong Kong TH-camr’s video, he took his family, originally tending to immigrant to Taiwan for good. However, 2 years later they relocated to the UK, 3 months after that, they surprisingly returned to Hong Kong for good. Many people didn’t understand that, some mucked him, some have blamed him causing troubles and emotional damage to his wife and 2 kids. After few months he made a video interviewing his kids, they all says returning HK made they happy cuz they missed their families in HK, going back brought them sense of security, but they also think their time in TW and UK helps them grow into mush confident, experienced people and they have better abilities for life, social relationships, and adjustment. So maybe it is possible for William to have a different experience (living in Taiwan) And also, is there a plan B? If he moved to TW with his mother, it turned out he didn’t like it, could they still go back to South Africa? Spend summer break and winter break in TW with Dad? It’s always good to think about more options.
無論如何，你們都是很好的父母。如果真的願意來台灣，台灣歡迎你們！
加油，有責任感的雙親是最幸福的靠山。
Hey, Allan maybe you should look into Wandorf education in Taiwan. It is the complete opposite of traditional Taiwanese education. I personally went to Waldorf School for many years and it was really nice there. They won't force you to be the same as everyone else, they let you be you. It's a great place for kids who want to develop their own interests and chart their own paths. Like me, I'm currently studying product design in Germany at my dream uni, chasing my dream to become a product designer. Just a little suggestion for ya :)
Hello Allan,if you're still in Pretoria,you can go and enjoy the jacaranda flowers as the flower season has begun
I just missed it! But yes they are beautiful
真巧，這家店我們最近也去吃過，算是在南非滿道地的台灣餐廳了~~~想不到英國叔叔也來南非了~
AMOR非常理性是一個會周詳考慮的好媽媽
好期待Allan 和Ku 環台吃牛肉麵的視頻，也期待前妻和兒子一起來台生活❤❤❤❤
威廉的意見最重要 畢竟是他要改變他的生活模式 人 事 物都是
但如果你們想要他還是維持無壓力的成長 那麼我覺得你們不該到亞洲 甚至台灣
Maybe when he’s a bit older he can have more choice
有心最棒 也祝福妳們從心開始 也從新開始...
祝福！
在每一個你們所做的抉擇。
Amor, you are such a great mother. If you can come to Taiwan, that would be a good news for Allan and us.
🤞
台灣很多東西很好,但是最不好的東西真的就是教育系統
以我而言我不會希望我以後的小孩在台灣接收教育
而且這裡的課業與國外比較,真的是比較有難度
但是Willliam的意願還是最重要
Amor跟你是很好的父母, 祝你們能達成共識
給Willliam好的生活環境 加油!
I know quite a few people from ZA. Some moved to Canada, some moved to America, some moved to Australia. These all happened many years ago.
Taiwan has many international schools, students in the school can also appy to the colleges in eaurope or North America, but they are expensive.