“See What General Overseer Is Doing” Abuja Pastor Throws Wife, 6 Children Out Of The House
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- เผยแพร่เมื่อ 25 ก.ย. 2024
- The incident, which has gained significant traction on social media, reportedly stems from an ongoing and contentious relationship that culminated in divorce. Chioma has publicly accused the pastor of multiple counts of infidelity and domestic violence, recounting the hardships she endured over their 18 to 19-year marriage.
In a video that went viral on Tuesday, Chioma is seen addressing the camera, accusing the pastor of evicting her and their children without prior notice. “See him, God will help me. This is a pastor. Look at him. He called the police and evicted me and the children out of the house,” she stated. “Look at me, look at my properties all outside unannounced. We were in the house this afternoon; he just came to the house with the police and threw my things away. He already packed his things out of the house for years, sleeping around.”
Chioma further alleged that the pastor had informed the court that he sold his property to prevent her from receiving any portion of his wealth in the divorce settlement. This revelation has sparked widespread public outrage and sympathy for Chioma and her children, highlighting significant issues of domestic abuse and the systemic challenges faced by women in similar situations.
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Thank you Nyma, there should be kindness even in divorce. Also, every parent is expected to provide support to the children even when there is divorce. You don't kick out your wife and children to live on the streets because you are divorced. This is why our men are against reasonable laws in the developed countries, they prefer the Nigerian laws that allow them to be monsters.
Yes o..They can't survive the western environment...
Patriarchy Promax
You can say that again!! They are the same ones who claim “the developed countries are made for women” 🙄
The most shameless part is the police aiding and abating in this illegality!!!!
My worry is the involvement of the police in the illegality of this eviction. Are they naive or compromised?
The police in Nigeria 🇳🇬 most Be curupt the Chalaton must of pay the police well
Everything in Nigeria is Always done upside-down. Rubbish
My heart bleeds seeing this as a Social Worker. No matter how or what, the man was totally wrong, he even brought Police to do his evil work make it more disheartening. Which man will evect his wife with 6 children, his own 6 children. Where was his heart and love for those children. This can never never happen in this part of the world that i live. It will never ever even cross the man's mind, not to talk of acting it, with government officials..hmmm
Nigeria system and law needs to do better in cases like this, honestly
Aunty Nyma I respect you so much. Well done.
This man can never do this aboard.
This is why I support women having a career and education before and within a marriage. Cannot put your life on one person, my grandmother once refused dowry for my cousin because she didn’t have a University qualification. Her excuse was, “I don’t want them to depend on a man, like I had to.”
Again,women should have the number of kids they know they can handle in case of eventualities like this in addition to having a career
@@estherifyikwumelu4113 Amen, Imagine 6 kids on your own. The bastard starting a new life with his side chick.
This can only take place in Nigeria, west Africa.
Nonsense
But some women will still not listen to sound advice and do the same mistake.
Look at the current stay at home girlfriend and wife trend, history is bound to repeat itself.
Exactly
This happened to a friend. Husband moved out, and sold the house with his wife and child still living in the house. They had to find life again.
In today’s world, we complain about feminism. Why do we think that this has become a trend? A man only earns his Lordship because his subjects or family in this case offer submission. To lead, you must have people who are willing to follow.
It’s always critical to ask, what will I say to my Maker if He asks me about this situation? If you cannot justify your actions, then do not do it.
Thank you!! Exactly what I have been saying about those people complaining about feminism. There is a reason it was started, those that came before us fought so hard to give us equality of right and only fools despise their efforts.
Why don't men pay child support in Nigeria?
This should be inputed into our constitution please
They don't pay child support because of the way the country is structured. The moslems in the north say they only submit to Islamic laws. So they have sharia courts. The southern christians in retaliation came up with customary courts. And customary courts favor the men with it's obnoxious laws.
Because most women don't know their right. The laws is there, but people are ignorant of them
Who married a pastor to begin with.
They have the most fraudulent ,unhappy and abusive marriages in Nigeria.
The women are miserable and keep smiling, pretending to be happy.
I pity any woman that falls into that trap
What an unwise statement. What did you use to mention it
Hmmmm
Yes, some of them
No woman in this world should marry those pretenders who called themselves pastors. These men run church business nothing but money worshippers
@@Evangelistjuliusomorogbe965 My sister lived with a pastor who beat his wife if she didn't get ready for church fast enough meanwhile, she also cared for 6 young kids with no help from him or domestic staff. But if you see them outside, you'll think she's the happiest woman in the world. Another pastor of my former church was sleeping with several female members, going abroad for vacations, while the wife and kids were struggling. The woman stayed there because God hates divorce until she caught and STD. I have other true life stories, but i don't want t to share them, because my comment will be too long. I will be very scared to marry a pastor because of what I have seen. God understands.
Constitution says 50/50. You share everything equal.
I believe what the lady said no man of GOD will do this..infidelity or not you think of the kids first.
We have been encouraged/blackmailed spiritually that some people are above reproach and don't necessarily need to be Christlike in their behaviour as long as they are "anointed" in Nigeria. So they are allowed to behave worse than Pagans at times since they are MOG.
Morayo why would he sell the house without finding some where else for them?
Some African men are wicked
Exactly
They both even own the house. We need to teach people the provisions of the law. Imagine the police aiding in illegality!!!
And some of his members call him Daddy G.O. Daddy G.O my ass.
The Oyinbo live an easy life here. They can just wake up one morning and say they are no longer interested in the marriage and that will be the end of it
. No drama.
Moray you need to learn from the Lawyer.
This is what I don't like to hear. Things cannot just happen now. The woman didn't say she did anything wrong. .please let's critically look at situations before judging
The fact that she alleged abuse should be discussed. The alleged victim should always be believed until proven otherwise. You cannot take one issue out of multiple issues. This is unfair! Well done Nyma, you’re speaking sense. Marriage under any religious concept is just ceremonial, what the law says can overwrite if the parties chooses to go their own way. We need to move away from these religious jargon and I am Christian and that’s my view. This is why people suffer and die in abusive marriages.
Sorry. They should be given some benefits of doubt but not automatically believed.
The sense that an accused is guilty until he or she prove his or her innocence is anti justice
Consider the children, he should consider himself
Tope please with all due respect don't say because he's a pastor, his human first ( let's not make him God)
This has nothing to do with that,
This is inhuman...SMH
It is so painful and very confusing for people who we are supposed to be looking at as God’s ambassadors to behave like this. As a human being, no one should be treated as this pastor's wife. People are just disgracing the name of God. Everyone wants to be a pastor without carrying their cross. Everyone should practice what they preach; may God forgive him and see his wife and children through 🙏🙏💔💔💔
Pastor this is not the way to handle this, even if she is committing adultery to throw your children away
I'll not be quick to call him an animal like the caller said
The real story isn't told yet.
That man didn't throw her things out
Lima God bless you richly
Morayo, what are you talking about ma?????
You know Morayo is very stupid and gullible. I wonder where she gets her brain from
Nyma ooo....Unconsent😂😂😂😂
This is why I don’t believe Nigeria is a country of family values. It never has been. If you want to know if a country supports family values, look at its laws. There is no place a man can throw out his wife and minor children out of her house. So offensive to the ears. In fact that single act is all a judge needs to decide if he is a fit father and if he was actually so controlling the woman could not work out if the home. That could basically mean that he will lose custody and not only pay child support but even spousal support for a while. I have even seen cases were the judge was just tired of the mother and fathers drama that the court threw both parents out of the home and the parents took turns staying in the home to care for the kids. This happened until an amicable conclusion was agreed upon. The children always come first. So like I said the only time there are no consequences for this types of behavior is in societies where the law does not protect the family. The man is not the family. The whole family includes the parents and the children.
Remember that we are still operating on our laws and constitutions, which are very old archaic and ancient. These laws, which were voted and put in place by men, have never been updated in the last hundred years. It was never put in place to favour the women and the children. That's why, in the majority of the African society, there is a lack of accountability and responsibility. The strength of the law is not applicable to most men
I didn't hear the lady say why her husband threw her out. She's not being sincere.
Nigerian women with serious attitudes, whenever I am on a short break there, I see them from lower carder work to so-called corporate ones with brains in another angle 🧠 .Tommy Sotomayor and Kevin Samuel are spot on about Blackwomen. Great loud mouths 😮
My dear she said he is sleeping around allegedly oo she said he got angry because she cought him sleeping with their house help. She said they are currently going through their divorce process. It's not nice at least because of the children. And the man hasn't come out to say something, anything at all.
The only reason a man will be excused for such callous behaviour is if he found hard evidence (DNA) that the those six children belong to another man.
Personally, I believe that divorce should be the last resort when a couple has irreconcilable differences. However, when children are involved, the process can be even more challenging. In such cases, it's crucial for the divorcing couple to agree on a transition process that prioritizes the children's well-being and maintains dignity for all parties. This includes ensuring a stable and loving environment for the children, as well as respectful co-parenting and communication. By doing so, we can minimize the negative impact of divorce on the family and promote a smoother transition for everyone involved.
Divorcing couple must prioritize the children's well-being, and maintaining dignity for all parties is essential in navigating the complexities of divorce. By encouraging a thoughtful and collaborative approach, think promoting a more compassionate and responsible way of handling the divorce process is very important to the parties.
If a man can do this to his children, divorce or not , this is crazy ...not to talk of a pastor. Its well o!
I suspect that provision for accommodation has been made for her and the children but she doesn't want what's on offer. I also think she had been given notice
Chai! Madam Nyma, the LAW!! My own in this matter is, even if the marriage is not working out anymore, can the 2 parties maturely just break up peacefully...like the way some white people do...they talk about it, each expresses their pain, and they just say 'this isn't working anymore, yeah..etc', and they separate. I hope Nigerians can grow to this level of civilization.
There's more to this.
I'm a feminist. But I need to understand what's going on, on both sides.
I am sure there's something bigger than this.
So she's a liar.
The house had been sold and she refused to leave the house.
Why was she not telling us the truth
If the new tenant or house owner rejects her, she shouldn't mislead the public
God is the judge but the husband should walk out of the house and leave the wife & children sheltered.
Where are the other Senior Pastors and the Police.?
What if thr mam found out that those children are not his
Is the two persons do this divorce or the law? How did the law arrives of putting the things out?
And people sit there,listening to teachings about Christ? No,that's not a pastor
What law were the police enforcing by forcefully evicting the woman and her children? It was the Nigerian Police that evicted the woman? Where is the court ruling for the eviction? The couple owns the house.
HOW? HOW can a man throw his CHN out of the home? His own chn, his blood, his seed? I know spouses have problems…but to put them out. And a pastor at that!!! It appears women and chn in Nigeria have no, or very minute rights. How can a man be advised or supported to do this to minor chn….WOW!!!
Could the house was used for security for a loan?
There's no law in Nigeria that's why the man can do what he like. DON'T SUFFER WITH A MAN IF HE IS BROKE LET HIM BE BROKE ALONE.
There are laws in Nigeria, only that people don't know how to use the law. If you can't marry a poor man, no one should marry a poor woman too.
As the Lord liveth, ENI BA JIYS JISE LORI OMO NI KI OLORUN JE KI O FI AYO, EMI GIGUN ATI OPOLOPO ALAFIA JEUN OMO DARADARA DI OJO ALE& pray for God sent partners for them.
Nigerian women are suffering sooo much in marriage
What do you mean strange wife? The law & church needs to get involved so we can get the whole story.
Besides, why will he throw the kids out? Who will care for them?
People will still attend the church sadly.
That’s what Justin Dean tells Korra
I don’t understand why moray is supporting this person is it because it’s a pastor because the comments make no sense
Sometimes I don't understand Morayo
It's morayo's job to stretch the conversation..make una no vex o😂
She is not supporting the man she asking un behave of people
She is making excuses for the man. The job of a moderator is not to do that.
@@josephineokuonghae6113Thank you
He cheated you move out. Why stay for 18yrs?
A pastor with 6 children? What is his profession or does he only surviving on abracadabra get rich quick visions full of lies? Madam, what is your profession too? Church members no get money again to finance your daily expenses as usual.
This is so sad he don’t care about the welfare of his children he is cold hearted what kind off man off god is this he is serving the devil even if he fall out off love with his wife think about your children this is so evil
The worst experience is when our men traveled home to go and bring wives as if there are no responsible ladies to marry where they are living. Their selfish intentions are to bring them as slaves to torture. Some of our men in diaspora will be the to dictate what profession to go to like Nursing. Why can’t they go to Nursing schools too instead of forcing their women to become nurses against their wishes. Highly abusive people just like their fathers tortured their mothers to deaths. Women work hard to raise your children not in abusive homes & don’t stop praying & counseling them from time to time.
I no this couples very well frm way bak, I even attended their church here in Abuja at some point. This woman is a nice lady and suffered with him. I really don’t no wat happened to their once loving relationship. Pastor Stanley am so disappointed in you. I don’t even no how she ended up havin 6kids for a man in this era. Women pls don’t give birth to much kids for ur own good. 2 or 3 kids is enuf pls. More kids more problems
Go get a job
Pls this is not a matter of pastor
I am disappointed in Tope today,you are making sense on this issue.What happened?l was expecting you to say the pastor was right,the wife should honour him as the head of the house.😅 Until Nigerians wake up to the truth that these imported religions is the devil worship,the blackrace will continue to struggle and suffer.Even in our political practices,corruption and mindset are all product of imported believe.Believe in the God that you are not someone else somewhere.The worship of a God different from yourself in what the bible mean by serving a foreign God.Anything that is not a part of your bady is foreign.Serving a god or and an entity different from you is serving a foreign god and idol worship.The root of the blackrace problems.Thank you.
That is the uselessness of Nigeria legal systems, my mum was treated this way too but God favord us to be able to carry her loads without complaining.
All these so called modern Pastors need psyche evaluations.
The title pastor/bishop can only be used by a select few simply because the criteria required can only be met by a handful of persons:
“A bishop then must be blameless, the husband of one wife, vigilant, sober, of good behaviour, given to hospitality, apt to teach; not given to wine, no striker, not greedy of filthy lucre; but patient, not a brawler, not covetous; one that ruleth well his own house, having his children in subjection with all gravity; (for if a man know not how to rule his own house, how shall he take care of the church of God?)”
1 Timothy 3:2-5 KJV
Morayo most times sound so insensitive and ask questions as if she is heartless. I know she is the host and want to balance the discussion but most times the arguments in favour of a bad situation are needless
Dr. Morayo are you still a believe?
Please you need the full story before you start discussing it.
Some women can respond like the devil when their husband divorced them
Ogbonna.😂😂😂
Most women can send a man insane, no body knows the level of emotional torture and abuse the man has sustained from the actions of the woman in those years marriage, Most women use children as a defence to behave rudely and confrontational in relationship with their husbands, however,children shouldn't be involved in the conflicts of their parents, they should be taken care of, by the way, should always be men paying provision of maintenance and support for the family in all marital disengagement, women, especially those feminist should learn to be financially independent.
what will the woman do to send his own children out of the house
Those children?.... but they are his children 😢😢, his flesh and blood.
The pastor story is pathetic and very typical of most African Family rift affairs . They should own the property together and the woman should not be ejected out of her house
I like that woman with the Islamic perspective.
Kindly read the Qur'an, Chapter Divorce, verse1-12.
People and conclusions, hear from the man first, what if the reason behind this is adultery.
Hmmmm
Thank you everyone is blaming the man .no one have question the woman
Sooooo
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What if he did DNA and d 6 kids are not his?
Thank you! Nigerians are self-styled 'authority ' on issues 🙄 The country is suffering from profound serious attitudes and problems from most women. There are appalling issues that need to be highlighted as a result of checking on DNA, which I needs attention. Imagine all the so-called called media panels deliberating on issues left, right and centre, they need to visit column of Kevin Samuel 😳???
we have no idea whether there was DNA or not but what is wrong is wrong you cannot throw out anybody with six children second of all you do not own the house by yourself if your wife has been married to you for that long, you are co-owners you cannot just sell the house without her consent
@dadakeshinro6749 kevin Samuels was a nasty so n so, so tey he died and people were jubilation. However i really am not partial to women who deceive men with kids that are not theirs even if d man was shooting blanks let him know. That's y we need d full story. But if it a case of DNA ha d man will not say anything oh.
Dr. Morayo are you still a believe?