Overcome Your Fear of Looking "Old" with Gray Hair

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  • @KatieGoesPlatinum
    @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Did the fear of looking older hold you back from going gray? Let me know!

  • @jenjen2824
    @jenjen2824 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +6

    Katie, you do great in live videos. You come off as relaxed, confidant, and supportive. I've turned to your videos time and time again for support and encouragement while growing out my silver hair. I'm now fully natural after 2 years of growing out my gray cold-turkey. You have been a blessing. 🥰

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Thank you, that is so nice to hear! I get so nervous doing these but they are actually fun at the same time. I’m going to still keep doing them and hopefully I’ll stop getting nervous. So glad you like them. Congratulations on being fully silver!

  • @ClaudiaHelmkeMiller
    @ClaudiaHelmkeMiller 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    I am one year three months into my transition from dyed blond/brown hair to grey. It’s been a good thing and people seem to like my look. I even had a young lady at Sephora tell me how much she liked my hair. Which now looks ombré, long and curly, and the grey mixes well with my blonde curls. I find watching your shows to help me a lot! I am also Irish, 56 , with green and gold ring eyes! You look great and beautiful by the way! Thank you for your inspiration and your support for all of us! 🍀🙏😀

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, Claudia! I'm so glad that you enjoy the videos and that you get positive reactions to your ombre hair - I love it! Thanks for the kind words - glad you are here with me!

    • @1ajtg
      @1ajtg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Thanks for that... I'm also dyed blonde/dark brown hair to grey . I'm going through a difficult stage, month 11. I've had two hair cuts this last 6 months. I'm told it'll be 2 and a half years before I'm rid of all dye. I'm exited and looking forward to first milestone of one year next month. Feels like a sister hood and grateful ❤️

  • @marylouisemillner523
    @marylouisemillner523 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +9

    I try to combat looking older by spending the hair dye money on good skin care ..seems to help😊

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      Yes, it does! Great point, Mary Louise!

    • @Madmarsha
      @Madmarsha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same!

  • @lisawanderess
    @lisawanderess 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +4

    I'm just starting to transition to my natural salt and pepper. I'm 55 and truly don't care about people thinking I look old as I'm not trying to find a mate and refuse to do botox or any cosmetic procedures as my mother spends a fortune trying to look younger but to me, women who go to those extremes just end up looking like older women who are trying to look younger! I've earned my wrinkles and grey hair so will wear them with pride.
    PS: Has anyone ever told you that you look a lot like one of my favourite saxophone players Candy Dulfer? Even your voice sounds like her (minus the Dutch accent)

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Hi, Lisa! I like what you said about wearing your wrinkles and gray hair with pride. I (obviously, lol) wear my gray hair with pride but I still struggle with the wrinkles. I hadn't heard of Candy Dulfer, but thank you - what a pretty lady!

  • @cynthiarozyckie5702
    @cynthiarozyckie5702 5 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    Oh my gosh, I was out for a morning walk in the apple orchards behind our house listening to this, and when you said "maybe I should put some gin and tonic in here.. but it's only 930" I let out the loudest gafaw! Just thankful no one but the apples heard me😂

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  5 หลายเดือนก่อน

      😂😂😂So glad you got a kick out of that!

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

    That part! Dating is weird with growing out my grey. When your married, it's no biggie. ❤

  • @jenniferhahn7806
    @jenniferhahn7806 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I had been doing a brown color that had some copper in it for about 5 years and I was kind of feeling that it wasn't quite right with my skin tone already. As I thought of going gray I decided I had to get as close as I could to what my natural brown was and went with a more ashy brown at the same level. I loved it so much I kept it up for another 8 months. I think getting away from a warm tone is a baby step before going gray because at least you have a cool tone with less brassy potential that won't have as much tonal contrast to your natural color assuming you have any left.

  • @cheryl63...
    @cheryl63... 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

    I went to my son's wedding and let my grey hair be... felt confident and pretty until I got the pictures from the wedding. I am calico at this time. Oh well, not going back to dying... I am 60 not 30 and that is that. I have a great personality and I am of Irish descent! started getting grey hair at 19 years old... Thank you Katie, I appreciate your videos.

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      You're welcome, Cheryl! I'm glad you're sticking with it - the freedom is amazing!

  • @1ajtg
    @1ajtg 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I love your videos Katie.I feel like you're a friend, you come across as real and just lovely. ❤️

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  4 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thank you! That is so nice to hear. Like a lot of us, sometimes I suffer from "imposter syndrome" so comments like this make my day!

  • @Madmarsha
    @Madmarsha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I put off going gray cos my bestie kept saying, Nooooo!!! You'll look old!!!! Now that I have, no one even said anything at first except when they think I specifically went platinum and love it!

  • @loriwagner2766
    @loriwagner2766 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Hi Katie -
    I’m only 5 minutes in and everything you have said is spot on.
    Side note: Love your frames so cute on you.

  • @LouistheKat
    @LouistheKat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Thank you for this video! Your channel has been helping me. I started growing out my grey in October 2023. I’m excited to see how it will look when it’s all grown out but I don’t really feel like myself with it yet. It’s very white around my face but still mostly dark on the rest of my head. But I don’t want to use dye anymore so that motivates me to hang in there.

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      I'm so glad you liked it and that the channel helps you! Thanks for letting me know. If you can’t make it to the end goal (being fully gray), I bet you’ll be happy! It’s SO nice not to dye anymore. It feels great!

    • @LouistheKat
      @LouistheKat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @@KatieGoesPlatinum Thanks so much for your reply and the encouragement! I agree! It is so freeing not to dye anymore! I always worried what the ingredients were doing to my body and the build up of toxins. Thank you for the inspiration--your hair is beautiful!

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Thanks!

    • @Madmarsha
      @Madmarsha 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +2

      It's mos def a process. Probably the biggest thing for me that kept me going was being really curious what I REALLY had going on under the dye. I also focused on getting my hair as healthy as possible (using Olaplex No. 3, not shampooing daily like I used to, microfiber hair towels and sleeping on a satin pillowcase to prevent breakage, using leave-in conditioner and hair oil, heat protectant when I blow dry without fail) because I also wanted to increase the length.

    • @LouistheKat
      @LouistheKat 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      @Madmarsha Thank you for your comment! Good to know. Exactly, it is motivating to see what’s been under the dye!

  • @susanh1205
    @susanh1205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    I’m Irish American but I and both my parents went gray late. We have a lot of red, my father was full on redhead and still had a reddish brown color mixed with gray in his 70s. I’m 61 and my reddish brown hair has faded into ash brown. It’s dyed now as of 2 weeks ago but I think I made a mistake. I regretted it before I had even washed it out!

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I’m sorry to hear that happened to you!

  • @susanh1205
    @susanh1205 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    This is a great video and so helpful for me, thanks!

  • @Heavenwalk55
    @Heavenwalk55 5 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Great chat. You have a cute sense of humor

  • @Healinglove
    @Healinglove 7 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    You're doing a really nice job, anxiety is very real.
    And please stop worrying about your teeth, they're pretty! ❤

  • @Robot_Cajun
    @Robot_Cajun 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Thanks for this video. I’m sorry that you find it so stressful to do them. But if a stranger’s opinion matters at all, you come across as being comfortable on camera and as a reassuring presence…even when you mention your anxiety you still seem fine. As a fellow fast talker, fast-talking doesn’t necessarily mean ‘nervous’ in my world, so that wouldn’t have clued me in to your ordeal either. 😂

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน

      I'm so glad to hear my nerves don't show through! My nerves were much more under control this time so I think it will get easier each time :-)

  • @junedube1810
    @junedube1810 4 หลายเดือนก่อน

    It’s funny to me that there are so many people out there who die their hair, silver or gray to have that beautiful color even though they still have their natural pigmented hair color. I am on my gray hair Journey I love all the different tones that are coming in, I am still trying to work on letting the parts that I have colored do their thing. But yes, I completely agree with you that gray or silver hair has absolutely nothing to do with your age your ability to be part of this life - mostly I see the negativity from women that do color their hair And it’s sad because it comes from other women and us women are supposed to be supporting each other and being there for each other and you just don’t see that very often. With men most definitely you see that so I hope that in today’s society that it is starting toshow other women that being natural is so beautiful. And some of the beautiful tones that I have seen on silver and gray hair are just amazing. My question is why do women dye their hair super platinum almost white in society says oh that’s great. That’s beautiful. That’s just what we want to see. Instead of judging choices and how nature works I really wish women would support women.

  • @sharonscott200
    @sharonscott200 7 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Does your hair
    come out even when your grey?

    • @KatieGoesPlatinum
      @KatieGoesPlatinum  7 หลายเดือนก่อน +3

      Everyone’s different. Try looking at your relatives who are gray to get an idea of how your gray will probably grow in. Although it’s also kind of a crapshoot - my gray hair grew in almost completely on the top layer, and my dark natural hair color is underneath. Other people end up with gray hair only on the sides of their face - and some people end up with more gray in the back than the front or vice versa..

  • @tamimoncrief2264
    @tamimoncrief2264 6 หลายเดือนก่อน

    Who cares? It doesnt matter others opinions. Silver hair makes people look very good anyway