@queenchiomaofficial absolutely cause some women think when your being nice your flirting with them, especially whrn.they find you attractive or think your a good guy
Its sad how mentally unstable people perceive certain situations in a totally different way than people who are mentally stable. I see both sides of the situation. Derek is trying to be understanding and sympathetic, as a boss should be with his employees. Whereas Lisa, who is not alright in the head, takes what he says way too deep and personal. When he clearly feels nothing for her. Of course, when things don't go her way, she acts impulsively.
He might just be being a boss who cares about his employees, you think she going to be able to work well in that state of mind I mean he could or worded some things little better but still
Your comment is the one that stuck out to be the most. I was thinking,"There was a Poster mentioning that Lisa and Derek shouldn't have been speaking about Lisa's personal romantic drama in an office break room." Your comment is my favorite comment on here. 😀
Boss, employee, or even just a work associate I feel like if any decent human being saw a young female crying at work it's completely OK to talk about it as long as it's OK with her. He even asked her "do you want to talk about it?" If she didn't want to share it she could've just said that. But yea he was just trying to be nice here and try and help her feel better. Little did he know she went coo coo for cocoa puffs after this.
Nah, he was just trying to be nice and comfort her. He could have done without the "If I was single..." comment, but again, I think he was just trying to make her feel better.
Massive difference between comforting someone and leading someone on. Comforting is like consoling the loss of relationship or the death of a loved one. Leading someone on would be dropping subtle hints of interest. Nobody should lead someone on when they’re in a state of sadness. Lisa used that perspective to act like the damsel in distress and Derek to act as the hero to save her.
@@prometheusvenom7189 I see your point, but he did not know her enough to having that kind of conversation. When you're at work you are not there to be a relationship advisor.
@@shawnlassiter5274 He was being empathetic besides this is a movie. Also you be surprised that sometimes your coworkers try to be supportive hell it’s happened to me and my fellow staff.
It was just him being a nice person to cheer her up! not him thinking nothing is wrong with her but clearly something was wrong with her you can’t say anything to women these days cause they will run with it😂💯
@@styletechnical4845 he said the wrong thing, he shouldn't have said he'd marry her "if....", because that gave her false hope..... Just a dirty husband would console a person like that, the right line would be "oh you'll him", or "he's out there", carefully that implying it's not him.
Most of you don't even realize, THERE WAS NEVER A BOYFRIEND IN THE FIRST DAMN PLACE!!! 😂😂😂 This was Lisa beginning her way to inch her way in!!!! Note how she tells Derek his wife "has everything" and Derek tells her that "nothing's perfect" - which was all he needed to say to her deluded self 💀😭
He said if he was single and he never said he wanted to be in a relationship with her. She lied about it and she should get in trouble for it. Everyone see how she turned out and how crazy she is.
Don’t start with if I was single, bro your married there’s no need to have that idea in your head or to tell someone that But I get it he was just being nice to her but really should have kept on minding his business
I always wondered if she was fishing here. Like she knew he was going to come in there and she played it off. I honestly don't think she had an issue with her boyfriend I think she made it up to get sympathy from him.
"Not every man who is nice to you is flirting with you. Some mothers raised their children to be a gentleman." - Michael B. Jordan
@@brianrose8772 😊amen
True and most normal people can take a hint!
As a married man, no statement should start with "If I was single..."
For real, for real!!
@0ijm3409fiwrekj 😊yea but aliarter is hot 🔥 butiful
“If I were single” right there hig mistake he put crazy idea in her little brain.
FACTS
Haha so weird isn’t it? Shows that men should be so careful of what they say.
@queenchiomaofficial absolutely cause some women think when your being nice your flirting with them, especially whrn.they find you attractive or think your a good guy
@@queenchiomaofficialThat’s why I keep my trap shut.
She was already crazy!!
He said if because he was being nice and complimentary. That's all it was. She misconstrued everything to be more than what it was; a compliment.
This is what got his ass in trouble. However he was telling the truth. If he was single,he would be on that and she knew it.
His mistake was even giving a damn🤦🏿♂️
That part!! 🤦♀️🤦♀️
True
😂😂😂😂
Its sad how mentally unstable people perceive certain situations in a totally different way than people who are mentally stable. I see both sides of the situation. Derek is trying to be understanding and sympathetic, as a boss should be with his employees. Whereas Lisa, who is not alright in the head, takes what he says way too deep and personal. When he clearly feels nothing for her. Of course, when things don't go her way, she acts impulsively.
Haha this isn't the type of conversation you should be having with the boss in the corporate break room anyway
He might just be being a boss who cares about his employees, you think she going to be able to work well in that state of mind I mean he could or worded some things little better but still
Your comment is the one that stuck out to be the most. I was thinking,"There was a Poster mentioning that Lisa and Derek shouldn't have been speaking about Lisa's personal romantic drama in an office break room." Your comment is my favorite comment on here. 😀
Boss, employee, or even just a work associate I feel like if any decent human being saw a young female crying at work it's completely OK to talk about it as long as it's OK with her. He even asked her "do you want to talk about it?" If she didn't want to share it she could've just said that. But yea he was just trying to be nice here and try and help her feel better. Little did he know she went coo coo for cocoa puffs after this.
a powerful lesson: leave well enough alone
Facts 💯
Facts!!!! 💯
Always keep boundaries never allow a third person in
What’s crazy is that stuff like this happens with stalkers
I usedntombe one
100% it crossed his mind
dont even pretend it didnt
Why do I feel like there WAS no man that broke her heart? Like she was just crying to get his attention just to talk to him
He should have kept it professional and walked out the break room. He did lead her on.
Nah, he was just trying to be nice and comfort her. He could have done without the "If I was single..." comment, but again, I think he was just trying to make her feel better.
@@TalyaT922yeah all that plus he wanted to smash 😂
Massive difference between comforting someone and leading someone on. Comforting is like consoling the loss of relationship or the death of a loved one. Leading someone on would be dropping subtle hints of interest. Nobody should lead someone on when they’re in a state of sadness. Lisa used that perspective to act like the damsel in distress and Derek to act as the hero to save her.
@@prometheusvenom7189 I see your point, but he did not know her enough to having that kind of conversation. When you're at work you are not there to be a relationship advisor.
@@shawnlassiter5274 He was being empathetic besides this is a movie. Also you be surprised that sometimes your coworkers try to be supportive hell it’s happened to me and my fellow staff.
Moral of the story : Married man, mind your own business.
Happy Birthday Virgo King Idris Elba!!❤❤❤❤
she’s right tho , why would he say if he were single?
To cheer her up yes. but when u do say that to the woman gets the completely wrong idea
It was just him being a nice person to cheer her up! not him thinking nothing is wrong with her but clearly something was wrong with her you can’t say anything to women these days cause they will run with it😂💯
@@KP43-08 my point exactly
@@styletechnical4845 he said the wrong thing, he shouldn't have said he'd marry her "if....", because that gave her false hope..... Just a dirty husband would console a person like that, the right line would be "oh you'll him", or "he's out there", carefully that implying it's not him.
@@princemakaida9515 people don't know what kindness means
and his willpower throughout the movie proves hes not a dirty husband
Well his friend was right, she had him in her crosshairs
What kinda hairs we talkin?😂
@@BlackBusyBody coochie hairs
😂😂😂😂
His one mistake was the comment " if i was single" that flipped her switch
She was crying over an
imaginary boyfriend 😆
😅
I think so, too. She may have been pretending to having been ditched by some guy to catch Derek's attention. That's part of manipulation
That's facts!!! I didn't think of that 😅🤔
Not imaginary but married and with a kid
She knew what she was doing though
He made a mistake by saying that but honestly he was trying to be nice...... And felt bad.... So he was trying to be nice.
1:20 "Except you aint got an ass" its cool though lol
Jerry O’Connell so cute! 🔥🩵
This movie is funny in sorry. It's just like the perfect assistant on lifetime
She is clearly crazy right from the start.
Good movie
The black men look so attractive 😍
Most of you don't even realize, THERE WAS NEVER A BOYFRIEND IN THE FIRST DAMN PLACE!!! 😂😂😂 This was Lisa beginning her way to inch her way in!!!! Note how she tells Derek his wife "has everything" and Derek tells her that "nothing's perfect" - which was all he needed to say to her deluded self 💀😭
..his sleezy and silly friend Ben though...🤦🤦
The survivor of Flight 180 is so attractive ❤️
He said if he was single and he never said he wanted to be in a relationship with her. She lied about it and she should get in trouble for it. Everyone see how she turned out and how crazy she is.
If this movie taught me anything, it's to just not be nice -
You can just be very aware who you talk to
I'm Idris Elba, Idris Elba, Idris Elba, Idris Elba
She planned that.
Wow
His wife would've killed him.
The moment she said "I'm allergic to men," He should've acknowledged it, encouraged her to see an allergy doctor, and left the room.
If the genders had been reserved, would the situation be seen differently?
Frumoasa Gagiica
She couldn't figure out what a rundown is
Don’t start with if I was single, bro your married there’s no need to have that idea in your head or to tell someone that
But I get it he was just being nice to her but really should have kept on minding his business
😢😢
I've been there and done that. You should try it with a Borderline!!
I have Borderline. Never ever harassed a man.
I always wondered if she was fishing here. Like she knew he was going to come in there and she played it off. I honestly don't think she had an issue with her boyfriend I think she made it up to get sympathy from him.
This is where it all went wrong
He should not have crossed that boundary with her. Her personal life is none of his business. Ought have kept it professional and sent her arse to HR
Lisa is more beautiful than sharon
Certainly.
Said no one with a working brain
@@Hi.Shadow, no way. Many would say it. Blondes always have an advantage.
Nope
@@ameerbahar2366, many gentlemen prefer blondes.
Good movie