I found the original Post and the op's comments and let me tell you this situation is even more WACK and CREEPIER not only do they want the dress from the mom's past marriage with the op's father every outfit op wears HAS to be approved by BOTH her stepfather and stepsister which always has baggie sweatshirts and loose jeans no matter the weather she's not allowed to wear shorts or skirts or anything even if the stepsister's wearing the exact same outfit because according to her step family she wears even normal clothes to provocatively IT'S CREEPY AS HELL OP SHOULD RUN
@@oonachestnut509 don't quite remember now ( it's been months) but I probably googled the title and went through all the links to reddit until I found the one that matched this video
Even her brother agrees his sister is being an ass for asking their stepsister of 1(!!) year for such an emotional item. Brad’s daughter is the spoiled one for even suggesting that and throwing a tantrum over not getting her way
She wants it because she knows it’s value to OP and wants to hurt OP by wearing the dress, step sister and step dad are emotionally and mentally abusive to OP
Me personally ive done someone close to this but with a painting... My grandmother made it gave to to me but my older cousin wanted it So i cut it up and put it in lockets trinkets and other things my grandmother gave me. My grandmother was proud when she found out because she hadn't died yet but was on her last days they were gonna get her looped up to give it to my cousin... She told me "im happy someone finally got my vindictive side" she and my parents were the only two who liked me mu aunts were entitled and my cousins only wanted the painting to sell it on etsy "because it can be worth soooo much"
God I hope there's an update. Because there's no way that that girl should wear that to her wedding when it's not her mother's dress. And for the stepfather to tell her that she's being selfish is ridiculous. That dress with your mother's first wedding dress and her father paid for it especially for her mother It means a lot to her and to her family. Why should somebody who does not understand the importance of it wear it. And just to save money? Why can't she wear the dress that the mom wore when she got remarried if it's that important to her she shouldn't be wearing her first wedding dress that she clearly intended for her actual daughter.
YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT in the Wrong I would definitely do the same thing if your mom was saving that dress for YOU no one is allowed to take that from you!!!!
no, the mother should have been consistent in her no, but she wasn't so you stepped in. it is the only thing left of your father and tessa has her father so she has no right to wear that dress.
STAND YOUR GROUND !!! she can get HER mother's dress or daddy dearest can buy her one. he himself and his daughter are being the spoiled brats. and your mother should be on your side not her step-daugthers.
Tessa's own brother says you're right. She and Brad can suck it. If you can, get your mom to come into your room and stand your ground while you are one on one with her. She was saving that dress for YOU, and it's all you have left of your dad. She needs to stand her ground and say no to her new husband and 26 year old step daughter. I said this on Part 1, but I think it's REALLY suspicious that Tessa wants the dress from when your father, a man she never met, married your mother, her stepmother. She's 26, 25 when her dad and your mom married. Plus OP stated that step dad paid for a custom wedding dress for your mom. So they're well off enough to get a dress for Tessa. Why the hell does she want the old one?! She has no connection to it!
Wow! Low move from the step sister. Sounds like a bad situation. If OP has a safe place to store the dress, go there. Out at 18 and no contact situation for sure. According to other comments, i'd call CPS or even the police, tell them someone is trying to steal your property
Why can’t she just wear the dress that your mom and Brad got married and wouldn’t that mean more to her instead of a dress that means the most to you because of your dad
Wedding dress is extremely special, and if it was promised to one person, you should not try to take it from another person. For example, my wedding dress I would love to keep for my daughter if she wants to wear it but no, I would not let anyone else wear it in the form of meaning to alter it if they can fit in it, and wear it, and they’re not doing anything that’s going to require it to need cleaning like a simple photo shoot and they’re not going far that would be fine but at the end of the day the next person gets to decide what happened to my wedding dress alterations or anything is my daughter
No just the fact they not litening to what u feel shows they dont care what they think of you id get a friend to keep it for you and tell them its gone
Turn it on them, demand something so special to her and then tell her she can just get another one or use a different one. Call a trusted family member for them to take the dress and keep it safe.
It’s was HER dad that had it hand made not Tessa’s dad like I can’t believe that would even be a question especially knowing who had it made and who it was being saved for
u SHOULD. u got the dress not only from ur mom but also from ur dad and if she really wants to not pay for the dress the SHE should have that other one. that one ur mom got when she was marrying brad. ur not an asshole for both rightfully standing ur ground and keeping whats left from ur dad and WAS intended for YOU. tho u probably should talk to ur mom about this alone .
Take your dress to a trusted friends place and have them hold onto it; tell NO ONE!! Not even your Mom, I know you love her, but the stepdad is going to work on her and she’s going to give in .do not give that spoiled stepsister your dress that was handmade for your mom and supposed to be for you. Stepbeast can wear the new dress.
It's absolutely confusing to me because why can't she wear what HER DAD bought for her because her dad left her mom that dress and she gave it to her daughter and it could be a family tradition
F ing divorce him. If he’s the one making decisions, you should leave him. It’s your wedding dress not his that’s your stepdaughter not your biological daughter. She has no right to wear it whenever she physically and verbally said that this will be from my biological daughters wedding not my step kids
She can wear the dress your mom wore to marry her dad. But its weird she even wanted to wear the dress your mom wore to marry someone other than her dad
Bueno al final si la mamá se lo quiere dar a la hijastra, tirarlo o demás ya es cosa de la mamá, dice que su mamá la llama así que la mamá quiere eso no se porque prro bueno
no not the ass what's the one thing you have from your mom and dad's wedding you're your mother's daughter I know the other girls are stepdaughter but however the stress is always meant for you so you shouldn't have to share it like you stated let her get her mother's dress her grandmother's dress or buy her own dress I don't think you're being spoiled at all to want something that was safe specially for you to stay that way
Her mother already made the decision, that her own bio daughter will wear it on her own wedding day. The step daughter has no say what so ever, neither does the step dad.
u SHOULD. u got the dress not only from ur mom but also from ur dad and if she really wants to not pay for the dress the SHE should have that other one. that one ur mom got when she was marrying brad. ur not an asshole for both rightfully standing ur ground and keeping whats left from ur dad and WAS intended for YOU. tho u probably should talk to ur mom about this alone .
You are NOT in the wrong! Mom said no they kept going, she’s been saving that dress for your wedding have the stepsister wear the new dress
Your right they so annoying
That’s what I am saying
Then tell her to wear the dress she wore to marry HER dad brad ..this is something sentimental between you your mom and birth father
DAMNNNN even tessas BROTHER thinks that shes in the wrong. thats a new low for someone i swear
Girl it’s YOUR inheritance! Don’t let her have your dress!
I found the original Post and the op's comments and let me tell you this situation is even more WACK and CREEPIER not only do they want the dress from the mom's past marriage with the op's father every outfit op wears HAS to be approved by BOTH her stepfather and stepsister which always has baggie sweatshirts and loose jeans no matter the weather she's not allowed to wear shorts or skirts or anything even if the stepsister's wearing the exact same outfit because according to her step family she wears even normal clothes to provocatively IT'S CREEPY AS HELL OP SHOULD RUN
That’s so horrible
wtf thankfully the brother is normal atleast 😭
Thanks for this! I have to add, this was a little hard to read, punctuations are important 😊
Where did you find it? I would like to read it.
@@oonachestnut509 don't quite remember now ( it's been months) but I probably googled the title and went through all the links to reddit until I found the one that matched this video
Even her brother agrees his sister is being an ass for asking their stepsister of 1(!!) year for such an emotional item. Brad’s daughter is the spoiled one for even suggesting that and throwing a tantrum over not getting her way
Bro its not like it has any sentimental value to the stepsister and she probably wouldnt even take care of it she is the brat not u sweetie
No ur not its your dress and all you hawe of your father. She just wants it bc moneyy
Even your stepbrother disagrees with them
WHY CANT SHE ASK FOR THE NEW DRESS??????
Why.....does she want to wear the dress that her step mom wore to a wedding to someone else?
She wants it because she knows it’s value to OP and wants to hurt OP by wearing the dress, step sister and step dad are emotionally and mentally abusive to OP
I literally have no idea. I'm so confused.
I would guess because it’s pretty? That is the only reason I can think of.
@@Heihei246 Or because she just doesn't want op to have it. She sounds spoiled.
KEEP IT!!
Me personally ive done someone close to this but with a painting...
My grandmother made it gave to to me but my older cousin wanted it
So i cut it up and put it in lockets trinkets and other things my grandmother gave me. My grandmother was proud when she found out because she hadn't died yet but was on her last days they were gonna get her looped up to give it to my cousin...
She told me "im happy someone finally got my vindictive side" she and my parents were the only two who liked me mu aunts were entitled and my cousins only wanted the painting to sell it on etsy "because it can be worth soooo much"
I'm glad you decided to leave it to you not for your cousin
that's one entitled cousin
Cool
God I hope there's an update. Because there's no way that that girl should wear that to her wedding when it's not her mother's dress. And for the stepfather to tell her that she's being selfish is ridiculous. That dress with your mother's first wedding dress and her father paid for it especially for her mother It means a lot to her and to her family. Why should somebody who does not understand the importance of it wear it. And just to save money? Why can't she wear the dress that the mom wore when she got remarried if it's that important to her she shouldn't be wearing her first wedding dress that she clearly intended for her actual daughter.
Tessa is the brat! Why cant she wear the 2nd wedding dress?
Stand your ground!
Jesus christ the freaking audacity of people leaves me speachless sometimes
Nope.. hold your ground.
She can wear the dress from the second wedding if she is so insistent
YOU ARE DEFINITELY NOT in the Wrong I would definitely do the same thing if your mom was saving that dress for YOU no one is allowed to take that from you!!!!
no, the mother should have been consistent in her no, but she wasn't so you stepped in. it is the only thing left of your father and tessa has her father so she has no right to wear that dress.
U are right
Your mom really needs to learn to stand up to her husband.
You are totally in the right. Keep that dress safe.
Stand your ground and your mom is in the wrong for even trying to give it to the step kid she has no right to your dress.
CAN’T TESSA JUST WEAR THE OTHER DRESS THAT THEY WANTED THE OP TO WEAR?!
They are not in New Jersey of that wedding dress.
Can we just acknowledge the fact that the brother is and absolute LAD oh and her friends like- LEGENDS, LADS, TRUE/REAL ONES
When even her brother takes side with stepsister you know Tess is just a spoiled princess that gets everything she wants from Daddy.
STAND YOUR GROUND !!! she can get HER mother's dress or daddy dearest can buy her one. he himself and his daughter are being the spoiled brats. and your mother should be on your side not her step-daugthers.
Tessa's own brother says you're right. She and Brad can suck it.
If you can, get your mom to come into your room and stand your ground while you are one on one with her.
She was saving that dress for YOU, and it's all you have left of your dad. She needs to stand her ground and say no to her new husband and 26 year old step daughter.
I said this on Part 1, but I think it's REALLY suspicious that Tessa wants the dress from when your father, a man she never met, married your mother, her stepmother. She's 26, 25 when her dad and your mom married. Plus OP stated that step dad paid for a custom wedding dress for your mom. So they're well off enough to get a dress for Tessa. Why the hell does she want the old one?! She has no connection to it!
NOOOOOOO U R IN THE RIGHT
Nope...you are right, your step sister doesn't deserve it.
You're not wrong! Why cant she wear the dress that the mom married the step dad in?
even the stepdad is in the wrong like it's not his place to tell him daughter she can wear it and to give it to her
Wow! Low move from the step sister. Sounds like a bad situation. If OP has a safe place to store the dress, go there. Out at 18 and no contact situation for sure. According to other comments, i'd call CPS or even the police, tell them someone is trying to steal your property
That dress symbolizes the love your mom had for your father it would be wrong for her to wear it she didn't even know him.
Why can’t she just wear the dress that your mom and Brad got married and wouldn’t that mean more to her instead of a dress that means the most to you because of your dad
He had no right to take it out of storage and hand it to her
She is 100% right
Wedding dress is extremely special, and if it was promised to one person, you should not try to take it from another person. For example, my wedding dress I would love to keep for my daughter if she wants to wear it but no, I would not let anyone else wear it in the form of meaning to alter it if they can fit in it, and wear it, and they’re not doing anything that’s going to require it to need cleaning like a simple photo shoot and they’re not going far that would be fine but at the end of the day the next person gets to decide what happened to my wedding dress alterations or anything is my daughter
No just the fact they not litening to what u feel shows they dont care what they think of you id get a friend to keep it for you and tell them its gone
How the hell did the stepdad thinks he had the right to just take the dress and give it to his daughter? Mom said no. That's a whole sentence.
Turn it on them, demand something so special to her and then tell her she can just get another one or use a different one.
Call a trusted family member for them to take the dress and keep it safe.
If it's yours, you are not bad. You are good and I'll take you should give it up❤
You are not in the wrong
Absolutely not wrong! She is spoiled brat who gets whatever she wants. Keep your ground.
It’s was HER dad that had it hand made not Tessa’s dad like I can’t believe that would even be a question especially knowing who had it made and who it was being saved for
I hope TEARFUL TESSA READS THIS POST.
u SHOULD. u got the dress not only from ur mom but also from ur dad and if she really wants to not pay for the dress the SHE should have that other one. that one ur mom got when she was marrying brad. ur not an asshole for both rightfully standing ur ground and keeping whats left from ur dad and WAS intended for YOU. tho u probably should talk to ur mom about this alone .
Take your dress to a trusted friends place and have them hold onto it; tell NO ONE!! Not even your Mom, I know you love her, but the stepdad is going to work on her and she’s going to give in .do not give that spoiled stepsister your dress that was handmade for your mom and supposed to be for you. Stepbeast can wear the new dress.
No, she's not in the wrong, but she does need to explain herself.
Just hearing the question, NO. Step sister does not get to wear your mother's dress.
Tell her to wear the new dress
No
She just wants to save money but want you to buy a new dress? No, nta.
It's absolutely confusing to me because why can't she wear what HER DAD bought for her because her dad left her mom that dress and she gave it to her daughter and it could be a family tradition
F ing divorce him. If he’s the one making decisions, you should leave him. It’s your wedding dress not his that’s your stepdaughter not your biological daughter. She has no right to wear it whenever she physically and verbally said that this will be from my biological daughters wedding not my step kids
She can wear the dress your mom wore to marry her dad. But its weird she even wanted to wear the dress your mom wore to marry someone other than her dad
No, you did the right thing
Stand your ground, there’s nothing stopping her from wearing the dress your mother wore to get married to brad
Nope not the AH why can't she go get her own dress. Sounds like both the stepdad and stepsister are both bullies
If that’s the only thing you have a left of your dad it’s yours. Your mom is giving it to you for your wedding not your sisters OK
If that’s the only thing you have, your dad left in your stepsister wants to wear your dad‘s dress that’s wrong really wrong
NTA 😢❤
Stand yuh ground
Tell her to wear the other dress the one that HER DAD got married to your mom in not yours
That’s your Mom’s dress! She can get her Mom’s dress
no you are NOT !
If everyone agrees with you except for the people who benefit if your wrong, your most likely in the right
Your mum was saving that 4 u and only u it doesn't mean anything to Tessa she just wants to get a dress and not have to pay for it
No your not
Bueno al final si la mamá se lo quiere dar a la hijastra, tirarlo o demás ya es cosa de la mamá, dice que su mamá la llama así que la mamá quiere eso no se porque prro bueno
no not the ass what's the one thing you have from your mom and dad's wedding you're your mother's daughter I know the other girls are stepdaughter but however the stress is always meant for you so you shouldn't have to share it like you stated let her get her mother's dress her grandmother's dress or buy her own dress I don't think you're being spoiled at all to want something that was safe specially for you to stay that way
YOUR NOT IT WAS T EVEN. RAFS DRESS TO GIVE TO HIS DAUGHTER
She can where the other one that one was made for your mom by your dad
Not wrong beet that
Fuck no
You are not
Not in the wrong ur mom needs to get a new husband (sorry bad grammar)
Yes. You both are in the wrong. It is a piece of fabric.
You are in the wrong. Your mother is the one who needs to make the decision, not you. You don't own it
Her mother already made the decision, that her own bio daughter will wear it on her own wedding day. The step daughter has no say what so ever, neither does the step dad.
@@darklight1611 and the bio daughter still can use it. It's not hers tho. She doesn't own it. The mother does. They can both wear it.
You're not in the wrong. Stepsister overstepping mark
u SHOULD. u got the dress not only from ur mom but also from ur dad and if she really wants to not pay for the dress the SHE should have that other one. that one ur mom got when she was marrying brad. ur not an asshole for both rightfully standing ur ground and keeping whats left from ur dad and WAS intended for YOU. tho u probably should talk to ur mom about this alone .
No
No