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  • Shwetabh Gangwar talks about what to do when you have toxic parents at home. How to get better and stronger economically, how to study hard and become successful in a tough home, and go to therapy to deal with your traumas.
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  • @ShwetabhGangwar1
    @ShwetabhGangwar1  ปีที่แล้ว +37

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    • @taman449
      @taman449 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai plzz DM dekh lo ab 2 weeks ho gye hai

    • @rahilamin2239
      @rahilamin2239 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Where do you live bhrata?

    • @uniquescience7047
      @uniquescience7047 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rahilamin2239 europe me bhrata

    • @rahilamin2239
      @rahilamin2239 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@uniquescience7047 Europe mein kaha bhrata?

    • @uniquescience7047
      @uniquescience7047 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@rahilamin2239 mere hisaab se austria me bhrata

  • @HeMannedUp
    @HeMannedUp ปีที่แล้ว +249

    “Apni zindagi ki dor apne haath mein lo “ A line of yours which have always kept me going through most of my problems!

    • @Skyeshwin.
      @Skyeshwin. ปีที่แล้ว

      Plz give me suggestion-
      Mere clg ke class me 20 log hai aur sab mujh par haste hai kyuki mai bahot patla hu.. Mai unhe hamesha respect deta hu lekin vo hamesha mujhse gali dekar bat krte hai what should I do now? 😢

    • @ayushrawat6767
      @ayushrawat6767 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Skyeshwin. what's your current age ?

    • @ayushrawat6767
      @ayushrawat6767 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Skyeshwin. ignore them and work on your body simultaneously it will take time but still bare with it or bhai suun ye log jo bhi hai jada nhi kuch saal ki baat hai uske baad ye log apne raste tu apne raste career mai nikal jayga apne pai focus karr specially studies pai

    • @Neha_44421_
      @Neha_44421_ ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@Skyeshwin. Firstly, Learn to accept the way u are. Embrace yourself. Tab andar ek confidence ayega, that I'm a absolutely ok the way I'm. Secondly, if they give u gaalis, just automatically think ki kitne gire log hai and that clearly shows their upbringing, narrow mindset and what others say about me is none of my business. I didn't come into this world to take anybody's opinion or validation about me. I love the way I'm . Also I was born alone and I'll be going alone. So log kya bolte hai,koi saath nhi de raha, yein sab ghanta farak nhi padne wala. That's it. If u bring this mindset, trust me you'll be having a different level of confidence. From experience speaking. Now if "YOU FEEL LIKE "you really gotta work on ur physic, kuch changes laane hai then workout karo and do whatever necessary but kisike gaali ya mazak udane se jaake matt karo. DO IT FOR YOURSELF. That's it

    • @tanishkhanna9900
      @tanishkhanna9900 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@Skyeshwin. "Eat More"

  • @kaushikd4777
    @kaushikd4777 ปีที่แล้ว +93

    You're a very underrated youtuber who actually gives solutions not just only discuss. Hats off to you.

    • @skttv4676
      @skttv4676 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Sometimes Discuss is the solution

  • @beinginsaaninfinity
    @beinginsaaninfinity ปีที่แล้ว +104

    21 year boy
    Started crying after watching this video
    So relatable😭
    5:39😭

    • @avishesingh6558
      @avishesingh6558 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      🤝

    • @RS-km1xf
      @RS-km1xf ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Welcome to spirituality 🎉

    • @Manpreet10421
      @Manpreet10421 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      And I m a 21 year girl.....and it's worst to deal with

    • @beinginsaaninfinity
      @beinginsaaninfinity ปีที่แล้ว +2

      ​@@Manpreet10421Don't worry
      Time will heal everything ❤

    • @Manpreet10421
      @Manpreet10421 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@beinginsaaninfinity yes I know but situations are becoming worse day by day....btw thank you for your reply

  • @yehmerakaryahai_
    @yehmerakaryahai_ ปีที่แล้ว +62

    "WO STRONG NI, WO CHUP HOGYA" 💔

  • @diyadutta49
    @diyadutta49 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    I'm watching this video but I'm so lucky to have my parents and brother in my life..they are very supportive....though they are not educated, they can't fit in so called cool parents catagory but I got immense support, morality,kindness from them.

    • @shortsparadiseaj5505
      @shortsparadiseaj5505 ปีที่แล้ว

      may god keep them healthy forever... i lost my dad 2 days ago and this has hitted me like a meteor...this is the worst feeling ever...please god keep everybody healthy

    • @wanderingnomad1
      @wanderingnomad1 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      You're lucky, parents being educated can cause family problems. Being educated isn't a guarantee of things going well. I can tell you from first hand experience.

    • @sharonlima8913
      @sharonlima8913 ปีที่แล้ว

      Keep going Diya :)

  • @jonathanjigglypuff1033
    @jonathanjigglypuff1033 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    therapy is one of the most expensive things in india, 15k a month for a good therapist
    that makes therapy a luxury even for a decent earning individual

    • @B-W.
      @B-W. ปีที่แล้ว +9

      OMG
      That sure is a lot.
      And things don't get resolved in a month, it takes a long time.

    • @imranhossain-fc3lt
      @imranhossain-fc3lt ปีที่แล้ว

      Occupational therapist are very good in this field .

    • @chiragwadhwa4795
      @chiragwadhwa4795 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bro weekly appointment lete h roj nahi jana hota, 15k kyu lagenge?

  • @adwaitkulkarni
    @adwaitkulkarni ปีที่แล้ว +40

    Couldn't have been more relatable. Gonna see a therapist right after I start earning.

  • @prajwalkadam8580
    @prajwalkadam8580 ปีที่แล้ว +23

    This video is a gem. Thank you shwetabh bhai.

  • @sayak2961
    @sayak2961 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Thank you very much. i almost cried. i needed it. thank you. you are a gem Swetabh.
    take love brother.

  • @gauravarora8556
    @gauravarora8556 ปีที่แล้ว +27

    You talking about things other TH-camrs ignores 🙌 much respect for you💯

  • @wanderingnomad1
    @wanderingnomad1 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    Very straightforward and realistic solution to the problem. Great as always Shwetabh bhai.

  • @rishabhmondal6091
    @rishabhmondal6091 ปีที่แล้ว +73

    When swetabh bhai says "aur launde.. Kaam kar rahe ho ki nhi?" U feel accountable for your life's choices🔥

    • @Skyeshwin.
      @Skyeshwin. ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Plz give me suggestion-
      Mere clg ke class me 20 log hai aur sab mujh par haste hai kyuki mai bahot patla hu.. Mai unhe hamesha respect deta hu lekin vo hamesha mujhse gali dekar bat krte hai what should I do now? 😢

    • @dontstare2781
      @dontstare2781 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@Skyeshwin. 1st buy subtle art of not giving a F*ck book
      2. Don’t play victim card. If you’re fine by the fact that you are lean, embrace it and be proud of it. But if you don’t like being lean, try to change it. join the gym. But don’t act based on what others feel. because the moment you start doing so, there will be many more issues in future that will manipulate you to act as per others’ opinions

  • @FinFootwork
    @FinFootwork ปีที่แล้ว +27

    It really helped me bhiya this is the problem many people like us having.. nobody can understand it if it didn’t happened to them
    Just wanna say thankyou alot 🙏🏼

  • @indianpride8763
    @indianpride8763 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Same thing i used to face till 2017 my mom took decisions to apart me from the family from class 10th I used to cook my food and live alone currently I’m in my 3rd year of graduation away from hometown but I still feel sad for my mom and young sister because they are forced to face things which i was facing because of my dad (my dad is not a bad guy but he is habitual drinker and it is root of all toxicity in my family )

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      No root of main problem is society and marriage. who pressured people to marry to a completely unknown person.
      I'm also in same condition and I bowed that I like to kill by someone rather than marring.

  • @pranavagarwal4338
    @pranavagarwal4338 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Much needed to the 18-20 year old version of me.
    But there might be someone else in the same shoes right now. Just wanted to say to you everything will be fine soon , sooner than you imagine. So keep going on brother.
    Love to Shwetabh for address the issue which needs to be talked about. 😁

    • @Jonglavlogs
      @Jonglavlogs 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Thank you bhai

  • @prabishabharati
    @prabishabharati ปีที่แล้ว +12

    This is everything I am going through many years. I recently even bought your book and started reading one chapter a day ,I also make notes afterwards. You are the only person I can trust . I have avoided therapy until now cause I thinks its expensive but now I will find a way I can go even if its only for once a month. Somedays are just so hard . The anxiety and depression is on its peak. I havent been diagnosed yet though. Everyone who is going through family problems lets make it through. ❤

    • @RS-km1xf
      @RS-km1xf ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Welcome to spirituality🎉

  • @G74VX
    @G74VX ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Aaj 9 hrs pdha main
    Shi laga, normal pdhai hui..
    Aur bhi jyada evolve krunga
    God bless Y'll ❤️

    • @hiphop_listner
      @hiphop_listner ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai itna mt padh.. 5-6 hours bhot h

    • @harsh3145
      @harsh3145 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@hiphop_listner Abe🤣

  • @abhaytiwaricricket4356
    @abhaytiwaricricket4356 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    Same kind of problem I'm facing.... My dad is an alcoholic person so there are alot of things I've seen in past which is totally personal and that can't be express. These things are really hurt alot and no one can relate this problem because they doesn't experience it...
    These things really happened to me
    I fear to make any relationship.
    These things makes me an introvert I fear to socialize.
    I'm the most silent guy in my family nd even I don't know why I'm this type.....
    THANK YOU @shwetabhgangwar1 for taking this topic because previously there is no video on this topic and Thanks again for going deep on to the topic and giving your life changing words ❣️❣️

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Same as me.

    • @un-revealed
      @un-revealed ปีที่แล้ว +2

      I'm girl same...drunk father, fighting beating and abusing father

    • @SumitKumar-je9pr
      @SumitKumar-je9pr ปีที่แล้ว +3

      u are just like me :(

    • @jasleensingh9634
      @jasleensingh9634 6 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

      Same 🙂

    • @Jonglavlogs
      @Jonglavlogs 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      EVERYTHING WILL BE FINE

  • @mhtcet8864
    @mhtcet8864 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    It's a pain to have a alcoholic dad

    • @noobsumit9312
      @noobsumit9312 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same 😢😢

    • @rahjvr
      @rahjvr 2 วันที่ผ่านมา

      ​@@nesattabassum7216 stop being ignorant

  • @fangrider007
    @fangrider007 ปีที่แล้ว +25

    6:00 bhai even body me bhi changes aate hai jaab insan waqt se pehle hi bade logo jaise sochne lagta hai taab....
    I have this mom dad problem and money problem as well....
    My father is someone who runs away from his responsibilities towards the family so I TOOK THE RESPONSIBILITIES ON MY SHOULDER.....
    Maine career banane me puri jawani sacrifice Kari....
    Mereko Pata tha me kabhi teenage Wali faltugiri kaar hi nahi sakta kyu ki uske consequences Mera future jeopardize kaar Dene wale the.....
    Me hu 22 ka lekin Mera chehra aaisa dikhta hai jaise me 32 ka hu.....

    • @Asher23y
      @Asher23y ปีที่แล้ว +5

      you are handsome bro

    • @aaryankhairnar69
      @aaryankhairnar69 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      You are a Strong man bro

    • @shubham_M7777
      @shubham_M7777 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes. Me bhi bimari ki vajah se pehle se ganda dikh raha hoon :'(

    • @himeshmiyani3794
      @himeshmiyani3794 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@shubham_M7777 Same bro

    • @Jonglavlogs
      @Jonglavlogs 21 วันที่ผ่านมา

      BRO SAME BUT TIME CHANGE EVERYTHING

  • @bipashapalit159
    @bipashapalit159 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I am crying while watching this video. My parents give me life threats, they tell me girls are waste and baggage of father. I was always better academically than my brother. My father never supported me , he says he will kick me out to give entire property in my brother's name.
    Father's are so busy to write property for his son, ki unhe parwa hi nahi ladki mar bhi jae. Mein subha 3.30 baje ro ke yeh video dekh rahi. Job toh paisa deta hai, par family nahi deta.

    • @priyanshudodeja3452
      @priyanshudodeja3452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Try karo ki thora or financially stable ho jau or move out or ye to tho sochna bhi mat ki society kya sochegi log kya bolenge uhne kuch parvah nhi ha ki thumari zindagi mae kya chal rha ha tho phele move out kar lo fir bhaiya jese bol rhe wsa try karo

    • @aishwarya2130
      @aishwarya2130 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Soo sad yarrr 😢
      Prove them that they are wrong because being a women in this world is crime I feel , but we have to face it , u can move out if u are financially independent , of not then try to do it .....
      Lots of love ❤️

  • @omsankpal9216
    @omsankpal9216 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I love my parents and they just love me more than their lives. I have seen them doing sacrifices for me and my brother and I just want to make them feel proud about me. For all the guys having toxic parents i don't know how you feel but just wish all things get better in your life.

  • @ravisingh7604
    @ravisingh7604 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    Book is amazing bro❤️❤️❤️ following since so long when you started.
    Great to see you till now.🌼👌🏻❤️

  • @ruchijha6477
    @ruchijha6477 ปีที่แล้ว +26

    Jinke saath ho rha hai, unhe pata hai. Right

    • @rohitmahato3918
      @rohitmahato3918 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      right..jinke sath ye sab nhi hua h..unko kabhi aap smjha hi nhi paogi. ou log usi chiz ka mazak urane lagenge

    • @ruchijha6477
      @ruchijha6477 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@rohitmahato3918 hn itna space hi koi create ni kr paata ki kisi se share bhi kraa jaa ske.

    • @ashukashyap5643
      @ashukashyap5643 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Here's my problem-
      I'm quite shy and introvert plus thin due to which everyone is making mockery of me in clg hence I've stopped going clg... I don't know how to spend those 5 hours of clg especially in lunch I feel so alone 😔 Can anyone tell me what should I do now?

    • @ruchijha6477
      @ruchijha6477 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@ashukashyap5643 don't give up, keeping finding your people. Someone somewhere is there who will be your frnd. So just continue distancing yourself from those dumbfuks and keep talking to new PPL. As you are an introvert, so one person a time may be. Thora hi hello. Not everyone is the same. And till you are not getting good frns. Spend alone time, be happy with yourself. But never settle.

    • @shubham_M7777
      @shubham_M7777 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ruchijha6477 Yeah

  • @muditsingh5628
    @muditsingh5628 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Thanks bhai. Is video ki bahut jarurat thi

  • @totoro345
    @totoro345 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    Coming from a middle class family, alcoholic mother and father , having 6 brothers and sisters
    Having experienced and seen the struggle, I can definitely say I'm a lot more mentally strong and mature than most of the rich kids I've been around
    So i dont agree with ur statement on this one
    ''Yes we are strong ''

  • @explorer.samrat
    @explorer.samrat ปีที่แล้ว +12

    I can relate to this video.
    Thanks for sharing.

  • @sudhanshusahu9259
    @sudhanshusahu9259 ปีที่แล้ว +13

    Make A Video On toxic dominating brother/sibling

    • @Skyeshwin.
      @Skyeshwin. ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Plz give me suggestion-
      Mere clg ke class me 20 log hai aur sab mujh par haste hai kyuki mai bahot patla hu.. Mai unhe hamesha respect deta hu lekin vo hamesha mujhse gali dekar bat krte hai what should I do now? 😢

    • @grannyboy8695
      @grannyboy8695 ปีที่แล้ว

      bro astrology is scam. mazaak uda rhe h to udane de tu apna kam kr 1-2 log honge jinko appearance se farak nhi pdhta, make them friends. agr itni problem h terko ptla rehne se to achi diet le aur gym ja aur koi respect deni ki need nhi h inhe tu bas clg me pdh wo apna time waste kr rhe h tujhpe haske

    • @sumitmore8453
      @sumitmore8453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@Skyeshwin. just say urself "ab kam ke hai aasu aur ye dard in hise banega Tu unstoppable"
      - dino james (nidar)
      Listen dino james nider on loop

  • @ChadErenYeager9392
    @ChadErenYeager9392 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bhai Sach kehta hoo Apke alawa Abhi tak aisa insaan dunia mein nahi dekha Jo Jindagi ko itne gehraai se Samajhta ho

  • @devanshudodiya
    @devanshudodiya ปีที่แล้ว +23

    Amazing video on a very needed topic.
    I'd like to point out something that shwetabh might have missed out because of some reasons.
    When a person grows up in an environment like this they often tend to be lonely and due to this they find refuge they seek shelter in things that make them feel good instantly can be p*rn can be smoking, drinking, video games You name it and to get back to normal and leaving the addiction that has essentially become a part of life feels like loosing a limb, so people just continue living with it but that is where the mistake is made, Because it's not only important but necessary to remove the corrupted limb from your body no matter how tough and how much time it takes, but the earlier you start the better.

    • @kyayaarmonuu
      @kyayaarmonuu ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Exactly.. Exactly ❤️

  • @suryanair4822
    @suryanair4822 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I had the same situation in my home couples of year ago.. But in 2020 my dad murdered my grandma in a fight for a property when he was drunk.. Now he's in prison the only problem right now is my financial condition.. that's why I have to do some work after my 12th, right now I'm just teaching some kids for money..

    • @utsabbhanja0193
      @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Hoping for the best 👍💯. Never give up bhai, sab theek ho jayega ❤

    • @suryanair4822
      @suryanair4822 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@utsabbhanja0193 i wish the same yaar

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@suryanair4822 bhai me smj skta hu tumpar kya beet rhi hogi aur kese situation handle kiya hoga. Bhai himmat rakho ye time bhi chala jayega aur ache khushi k din bhi aayenge.

    • @suryanair4822
      @suryanair4822 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manishjawadekar thanks bro i also hope for the best

    • @declasseasthete6085
      @declasseasthete6085 ปีที่แล้ว

      I know how you should be feeling, just stay strong and ignore all these problems and just focus on yourself and your financial freedom. Remember 'the more you are tested, the more you become'. Take care

  • @cupcakedoctor2889
    @cupcakedoctor2889 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Therapy is not a luxury it's a need.

  • @ArshadKhan-zg1ml
    @ArshadKhan-zg1ml ปีที่แล้ว +6

    Best motivation yahan Aur kahan ❤💖

  • @numariqnazir550
    @numariqnazir550 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Much needed 👍🏼

  • @avnisaxena3607
    @avnisaxena3607 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Each word us absolutely true .. 😢😢😢😢 and this yhings my parents doesn't understand.. isly mere andr ab kuch izzat nhi reh gyi hai unke liye ...
    Now they live seperately but kab vapas aa jaye no gaurantee..

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar 2 หลายเดือนก่อน

      Bro ijjat wali baat same. Ab kya situation hai?? Aur unse dur kb tk rehna hai? Aage life k decisions me unko involve kroge?? Jese shaddi??

  • @dailygym6415
    @dailygym6415 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    What's one problem
    you're thankful you don't have?
    Let today be a day of gratitude.

  • @ashukashyap5643
    @ashukashyap5643 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Here's my problem-
    I'm quite shy and introvert plus thin due to which everyone is making mockery of me in clg hence I've stopped going clg... I don't know how to spend those 5 hours of clg especially in lunch I feel so alone 😔 Can anyone tell me what should I do now?

    • @dontstare2781
      @dontstare2781 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      I have seen the exact same comment somewhere else on this video and I have replied the same over there:
      1st buy subtle art of not giving a F*ck book
      2. Don’t play victim card. If you’re fine by the fact that you are lean, embrace it and be proud of it. But if you don’t like being lean, try to change it. join the gym. But don’t act based on what others feel. because the moment you start doing so, there will be many more issues in future that will manipulate you to act as per others’ opinions.
      3. My comment will remain here for eternity, however it is you who needs to change yourself. Nobody‘s advice can physically help you to change. you have to take decisions by yourself, and it is you who have to hit the gym if you feel the need to.And ask yourself this question: by skipping colleges, whose life are you destroying?

    • @priyotosh1707
      @priyotosh1707 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Bhai college jaane ka worst situation soch aur best situation soch aur kis situation ka palla bhari hain yeh soch..
      Pros of going are more than cons.

    • @rahilamin2239
      @rahilamin2239 ปีที่แล้ว

      Gain some weight

    • @AbhishekThakur-iy9qg
      @AbhishekThakur-iy9qg ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Everyone would tell u just be yourself and be confident within yourself but trust me these poor self image issues can only be fully overcomed once you get rid of the root cause of your insecurity, in your case that's being skinny. So just start working towards gaining muscle that will definitely help to a great extent and you start feel more confident that'll significantly reduce your anxiety.

    • @B-W.
      @B-W. ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Bro
      मत जाओ कॉलेज, किसी का नुकसान नहीं होगा, लेकिन तुम्हारा बहुत होगा।
      अपने फायदे की सोचो और पढ़ाई करो।
      सब महान लोग अकेले ही होते हैं, क्युकी हर किसी को दूसरों की mediocre बातों में रस आए, जरूरी नहीं।
      I used to be bored to death in the company of other girls who had nothing useful to talk about other than boys and make up. I studied in Delhi, तो DTC की buses के पास मिलते थे बहुत cheap. अकेले पूरा दिल्ली घूमती थी, किसी पे डिपेंड नहीं।
      एक बार एक क्लासमेट ने कहा, नई सड़क जाना है, मैने कहा चल मैं ले चलूं।
      वहां से वापिस आ के उसने पूरी क्लास को बोला," हम जिसे अबला नारी समझते थे, वो महारानी लक्ष्मी बाई है।"
      वो क्या समझते हैं, कोई फरक नहीं पड़ता, तुम खुदको क्या सोचते हो, बहुत फरक पड़ता है।
      मैं आज भी लक्ष्मी बाई हूं, हां आज भी लोगों को लगता होगा अबला नारी है।

  • @arjuntk8606
    @arjuntk8606 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Mera same issue hai shwetabh bhai kuch kar nahi sakta paise nahi hai suicide karne ka bhi socha iss wajah see socialise kar hi nahi Paya akele hi life nikaal raha hu socha hu ekh lakshya banaya hu ki khudko ekh mukaam pe lejau economically taaki in sabh chizzo see Durr chala jau akele reh reh kar kaafi ajib trauma see guzar raha hu pata nahi kabhi kabhi sabh kuch chod Dene ka Mann karta hai mujhe

    • @utsabbhanja0193
      @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      You are not alone bro. Believe rakh, sha theek ho jaega, virtual hug bhai🙂

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@utsabbhanja0193 Inn sab ka main reason hain love, pyar, 7 janam ki relationships. Jo filmo main dikhate hain.
      In actual case marriage is the main cause of depression and poverty and freedom less life.

    • @utsabbhanja0193
      @utsabbhanja0193 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trueword4971 60% agreed bhai !

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว

      @@trueword4971 ye arrange marriage ka prblm hai. Jab 2 log ki nai banti starting se hi to aage poora ghar bache sab barbaad ho jate hai.

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manishjawadekar mere uncle ka love marriage tha woh abhi kyu de raha compensation har mahine divorce ke baad.
      Ye love attraction ye sab kuch hi saal tak rahte hain. Baad main husband wife eise ladte hain. Jesse ek dusre ka Jani dushman ho. Fir ek dusre se mahine mahine tak baat nhi karte. Ese baccho pe koi accha asar nhi padta

  • @apnizindgi8395
    @apnizindgi8395 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Mere two bacche hai . M unko wo pyar or trust dena chahti Hu lekin baccho k papa ne. Jindgi ko nark BNA Diya hai .
    Aap Sahi kh rhe ho violence ko justify krne ki aadat pd jati h hme

    • @sumitmore8453
      @sumitmore8453 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Major part of child is in mother's hand give them good knowledge and wisdom no matter what ur husband do they will always stood up for u in future
      God bless them best wishes✨

  • @jaimalviya03
    @jaimalviya03 12 วันที่ผ่านมา

    That's why I watch shwetabh bhaiya's videos this man is literally helping with every single problem a human can suffer with... kudos sir to bring this topic❤

  • @sk7246
    @sk7246 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    I feel the pain😥

  • @r.a.j324
    @r.a.j324 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    6 hours work done sir ji ( day 3rd f saying DC pe philosophical video banao bhai😭)

  • @mrarhanyt7180
    @mrarhanyt7180 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    I'm teenager lost childhood trying to be economically free

  • @devpalwar3394
    @devpalwar3394 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bhai mahine bhar se 6-7 ghante padhai kar raha hu but aaj PYQs dekhe toh hosh udd gaye ab demotivate rahunga agle 6-7 din lmao

  • @geekygirl225
    @geekygirl225 7 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I did same I survived in such toxic house for 24 years but kept studying and finally I got a job and fled. Since 2 years I am out and healing but still I feel I am heavy and holding too much , I am liking lonliness and till date I am not able to socialize and trust anyone. 😢

  • @MihulSinghRawat
    @MihulSinghRawat ปีที่แล้ว +17

    Bhai will you consider yourself a therapist (not by degree but by knowledge/experience) ??

    • @GangstaPerspectives
      @GangstaPerspectives ปีที่แล้ว +12

      training hoti hai therapist ki, aise koi nahi ban jata therapist

    • @shubham_M7777
      @shubham_M7777 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Problem solver

  • @AdityaKumar-ji8dk
    @AdityaKumar-ji8dk ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Kitne ghnte kam kiya ka answer=Studied for IIT JEE 9-11 hours today...and daily I study for 9 hours atleast..currently in class 11.

    • @sumitmore8453
      @sumitmore8453 ปีที่แล้ว

      Just a tip- make short notes every day (whole chapter in 2-3 pages)

  • @Uvraj.....1
    @Uvraj.....1 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    Its very difficult to live in this type of environment. I have seen 22 years of life in hell

  • @siddhanttripathi7943
    @siddhanttripathi7943 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Mere liye completely opposite hua, Gharpr itne Negativity hai ke i seek validation and love elsewhere

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว

      In sab ki jadd hain marriage

  • @buttercup3883
    @buttercup3883 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    Watching this while my parents are screaming at each other 😭

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Self esteem ka kya haal hota hai?? Aur mind me ye nai aata dono k ki neighbour kya sochege??

    • @buttercup3883
      @buttercup3883 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@manishjawadekar mere self esteem ki toh dhaajiya udd rakhi hai , and haa they don't care of neighbours sunle, infact neighbours ko pta hai kis baat ki ladai chalti hai ghar me

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว +3

      @@buttercup3883 i can understand bro ki kesa feel hota hoga, confidence level low rehta hoga, bahar jaane ka mann nai krta hoga, itni sari insecurities aati hai dimag me 24hrs bss yhi chalta hai ki samne wala mere bare me kya soch rha hai. Jo acha insaan bnna tha aur acha environment create krne ka purpose humne jo bnaya tha hamare around vhi nai hone diya gaya. Subconscious mind me bss chize chalti hi rehti hai. Kese samjaye parents ko ki ghar me acha environment kitna jruri hai. Muje to self doubt hone lga hai.

    • @buttercup3883
      @buttercup3883 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manishjawadekar tumhare bhi parents ladte hai?

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@buttercup3883 give me ur insta id!!! muje questions puchne hai isse related.

  • @kartikeymishra1774
    @kartikeymishra1774 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    I can't define my situation in words. 😭😭💔

  • @knowabhimishra
    @knowabhimishra ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Blacked. 🖤

  • @jayrathod2995
    @jayrathod2995 ปีที่แล้ว +86

    Bhagwan ki daya se sabkuch he, phone dene wale papa, gf accept Karne wali mummy aur kya Chahiye 🙂🙂

    • @rahilamin2239
      @rahilamin2239 ปีที่แล้ว +33

      Bro is living my dream life

    • @knowabhimishra
      @knowabhimishra ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Og bro ...

    • @ashukashyap5643
      @ashukashyap5643 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Here's my problem-
      I'm quite shy and introvert plus thin due to which everyone is making mockery of me in clg hence I've stopped going clg... I don't know how to spend those 5 hours of clg especially in lunch I feel so alone 😔 Can anyone tell me what should I do now?

    • @freedom4813
      @freedom4813 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      @@ashukashyap5643 school time may Mera bhi friend nhi tha may canteen may jakar samosa,vda pav,chilli potato khata tha or paani pita tha,ager koi baat karta hai toh sahi ager na kare toh uske hone na hone se bhi mere jindgi may kya fark pad jayega,vaise bhi may apne paise se uss place pe aa raha hoon or apni marzi se kha raha hoon

    • @jayrathod2995
      @jayrathod2995 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@ashukashyap5643 naah man fuck that, I weight around 47 now(gaining slowly tho), I get teased too like I used to and my relatives still do!! But I stopped caring anymore cause it's all to your confidence man, ever seen a gangster type slimmy ass boy pumping up with his boys to scare others? That's confidence over himself

  • @uniquescience7047
    @uniquescience7047 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    shwetab bhai, please do the analysis on “My mister” Korean series, from the director of misaeng. As you have already watched "hospital playlist, reply 1988, you will really like this one. A mature story accurate to the real world. The acting and writing is top tier. The main actor was in the movie "parasite”. It's plot were still in my mind for a week after I finished watching it.

    • @bob18_002
      @bob18_002 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai ji Hindi me available h ky

    • @uniquescience7047
      @uniquescience7047 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bob18_002 nhi yr but subtitles k saath dekho maze aayenge , bas subtitles na padne k chakkar me bahut zyaada bdiya art miss krrhe ho

    • @bob18_002
      @bob18_002 ปีที่แล้ว

      Okk bhai thankyou

    • @bob18_002
      @bob18_002 ปีที่แล้ว

      Bese dekhne ke liye available kha h bhai ye

    • @uniquescience7047
      @uniquescience7047 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@bob18_002 netflix pe bhi h shayad

  • @sujjan1752
    @sujjan1752 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Present sir 🙏

  • @dominatorarya
    @dominatorarya ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Bhai BLACKED Se kuch aur hi. Yaad Aaa Jaata Hai.

  • @bingshologins3780
    @bingshologins3780 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Thanks i needed this very much.

  • @utkarsh__vr
    @utkarsh__vr ปีที่แล้ว +5

    How can a Teenager be economically independent?
    So that He is not dependent on his toxic parents for Money.

  • @heathen3278
    @heathen3278 ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Whenever I have watch this kind of videos it's just made me angry on my father, i just stop talking with him

  • @Jenos7
    @Jenos7 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    When he says- jitne bhi Damages hai mai smjh skta hu.I was about to cry, 27 saal ka hu pehli baar kisi ne ye cheez boli ki smjh skta hu. THANK YOU BROTHER 💕

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว

      Bhai kya problems aa rhi hai tuje thoda detail me btayega pls?? Stress, bp, depression, relationship problem ye sab ho rha hai kya??

    • @Jenos7
      @Jenos7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manishjawadekar bhai hr ek problem hai lekin ab handle krne sikh gya hu to ab ekdm theek hu

    • @Jenos7
      @Jenos7 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@manishjawadekar dating life k lie ek time bna lo bhai GF se baat kro ki hm itne time hi bs baat krenge
      Uske baad kaam pr focus kro kyuki bhai
      Paisa sbse important hai aap uss ladki k lie paida nhi hue ho aapki apni life hai apna career hai

  • @SidharthMishra99
    @SidharthMishra99 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Ekdam sidhi si baat yesha jaruri nahi ki jo maa baap he toh hamesha har situation me sahi ho unse koi galti ho hi nahi sakti.Ye ekdam wrong theory he.Mey state level me class 1 Gazetted post me kaam katne wala lekin family pressure me Railway me ek Non gazetted post me kaam karta hun.

  • @sumitaggarwal6653
    @sumitaggarwal6653 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Shwetabh bhai, please review 'Sahebs' documentary film. It is full of amazing facts & information 🧐🧐🙏👍

  • @UshalDancer2.0
    @UshalDancer2.0 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Mera bap bhi 1number shrabi Hai..

  • @universeheals
    @universeheals ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Shwetabh sir, I love u a lot n respect you a lot. When most of the people are making vlogs n selling their content. You are the only person who emphasizes to enhance skill sets, to become accountable for ur time and always motivate people to achieve higher goals in their lives.

  • @sanjanasahni291
    @sanjanasahni291 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mujhe ye sb lonely or kisi pe trust n karna life me kuch achieve nhi kr pana , jitna padhai pe focus krna chahiye utna nhi kr pana jiske karan results nhi hota, fir depressed feel krna. Ye sb hota h or therapist k pas jane k lie paise nhi h
    Legal help v nhi le sakte h jo apne video me bataya. Economical conditions thik karne k lie sochu to fir study me distraction hogi.

  • @Survive34
    @Survive34 6 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sirf 2 ghante thoda phass gyi hun pr cheeze control krne ki khosish kr rhi

  • @priyanshudodeja3452
    @priyanshudodeja3452 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Here comes my man who address real problem with pratical solution ❤🎉

  • @Harry_7272
    @Harry_7272 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    3:30 the reason I am introvert

    • @KRISHNA-OG
      @KRISHNA-OG ปีที่แล้ว

      Sahi mai bro , ek baar ke liye muze laga mere baare mei hi baat ho rhi hai , but naa mai legal complaint kar skta hu , aur naa hi therapy 😓😓I am just 18 years old

  • @puneetmaheshwari
    @puneetmaheshwari ปีที่แล้ว +2

    mere ko ek online mili hai ladki vo bata rahi thi uss ke sath thodha thoda aaisa hota hai mein uss ko ye video bhej raha hu (there some red flags in her story, par agar real hui toh uss ki madad ho jayegi)

  • @Thefeministslayer
    @Thefeministslayer ปีที่แล้ว +3

    Mere life me bhi family ke karan bahut pareshani hai, aur relatives ke karan bhi pehale financially independent ho jau fir mai gurkul me padhne jane wala hu

  • @aakash1570
    @aakash1570 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    My father he's in love with his ex who was his past gf 25yrs back .....

    • @trueword4971
      @trueword4971 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Ye sab dekhke aab mujhe bhi shaddi se man uth gaya. Akela khaunga akela marunga. Kisi ko haath nhi felaunga

    • @Fritz413
      @Fritz413 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@trueword4971being a girl, I agree with you bruh!

  • @TheOne0_0
    @TheOne0_0 11 หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    I cried throughout the video😭

  • @prakrutmoon
    @prakrutmoon ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Namaste bhaiya...💛🤠

  • @BitSaaArt
    @BitSaaArt ปีที่แล้ว +2

    12:11😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭
    बोहोत लेट वीडियो बनाए भाई🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻🙏🏻

  • @mrarhanyt7180
    @mrarhanyt7180 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    One person talked ! Same story never shared with anyone

  • @reginageorgetownuni
    @reginageorgetownuni หลายเดือนก่อน +1

    ⚠️Trauma dumping ahead⚠️
    Not parents but my bada bhai is alcoholic and has wrecked havoc in our family life. Looking back, both my parents have history of psychiatric conditions in their families and my brother probably has borderline personality because of it. My sincere request to people is not to have biological children if you have such family history of depression, schizo, etc. It's difficult to handle a mentally ill child with a personality disorder. I have suffered from anxiety, loneliness, depression because of my brother and the trauma from his behavior i endured as a teenager and also my dad's reaction to it as a child. Learning to parent myself again as a 25 year old.

  • @loganstark1742
    @loganstark1742 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Hi sir, please make a video on how to handle road rage and random Street bullies

  • @rituulu
    @rituulu ปีที่แล้ว +3

    namaste 5 hours

  • @priyanshjain9746
    @priyanshjain9746 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Bus beththa toh roj 5 gante ho lakin padta hu 30 min only or ek programming guestation krkr kush ho jta hu

  • @devbhardwaj9284
    @devbhardwaj9284 ปีที่แล้ว +5

    Bhaiya 2 mahibe se kuch nhi Hora Mera drop year h neet ka 🥺😭

  • @Insomani1277
    @Insomani1277 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    True💯

  • @happyyadav7985
    @happyyadav7985 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Shwetabh bhai please jee mains k live 75% criteria wale topic p baat karo
    10 lakh students k sath galat huya h 😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

  • @deeptichanana
    @deeptichanana ปีที่แล้ว +7

    So, financially thoda stable hoke therapy mein fir jana chahiye ya pehle therapy is must?

  • @aryanpatel464
    @aryanpatel464 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    Bhai mere papa sharab pi ke aate he ghar me or unko cough ki problem hai or jab wo khaste he tab pata nhi mere heart beat tej ho jati he bahut pain hota he bhai plz give solution raat ko nind bhi nhi aati
    Aesa lagta he jese kisi ne unghli ne suui ghusa di ho
    Plz solution 😞

    • @manishjawadekar
      @manishjawadekar ปีที่แล้ว

      Apne relatives se help lo bhai unko bulao ghar me rehne k liye vo unhi ki baat sunenge. Phir bhi nai sun rhe to jaane do jo khud destroy kar rha hai apne aap ko to hum kya hi kar skte hai. Kismat kharab hai bhai jo aise parents mile hai aisa smj lo.

  • @abirroy7161
    @abirroy7161 ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you Bhai ❤️ ... Thank you so much ... Main kaam krunga ispe ...

  • @aiimsdelhi226
    @aiimsdelhi226 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Thankew

  • @preetbaranwal2503
    @preetbaranwal2503 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Actually in this society the son is always seen down by society but there are plenty of son who have been through alot have seen domestic violence have been beaten have been left to a point from where he have no option beleive me for all families are not same wake up if anyone facing domestic violence or seeing there mother's beaten up wake up and go against your father because women's are meant to be worshipped and not beaten

    • @Nareshb_97
      @Nareshb_97 27 วันที่ผ่านมา

      What about mothers? Don't you know that mother are super toxic they are real enemies of their sons

  • @zudio812
    @zudio812 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Mere saath ye sab ho raha hai.i am 18 year old girl nobody understand my pain. Pata nahi life me aage kya hoga but i am prepared for worst phase of my life.i am preparing for jee and mujhe phodna hai jee and 6 -7month baad yaha se dur Jana hai and college ke first year se hi me job karungi financially independent bnugi and apni mom ko le jungi apne saath.per ab me life me apni mom and bhai ke alava kisi pe trust nhi kar paungi abhi mujhe padhna chahiye but meri mental situation asi hai ki I can't control my thoughts koi immediate solution hai apne thoughts ko cantrol karne ka??

    • @zudio812
      @zudio812 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @Good-feel-ni Jo tumhare cantrol me hai tum vo sab Karo . Kai baar life me hamare paas do hi choice hoti hai accept the situation or change the situation

  • @himanshumakwana4971
    @himanshumakwana4971 ปีที่แล้ว

    Man ,each and every video is just lit 🔥
    Damn u are creating a kinda superb mentality in new gen ,no one in the yt can connect at that level 🙌 guiding like a big brother

  • @Prapti.p
    @Prapti.p ปีที่แล้ว +4

    Such a quality content

  • @swetateotia04
    @swetateotia04 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    RelateableX1000000
    Funfact:- i just witnessed these thingss belive me

  • @RS-km1xf
    @RS-km1xf ปีที่แล้ว

    Thank you for talking about this issue 🙏

  • @devidasonkar5621
    @devidasonkar5621 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    6 ghante kaam kiya ,chalta rahega

  • @VikashPrajapati-iz7nl
    @VikashPrajapati-iz7nl 13 วันที่ผ่านมา

    I feel so sorry for these children man, especially for girls

  • @phychoyt1527
    @phychoyt1527 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    I think he talking about me

  • @dharmaempire6974
    @dharmaempire6974 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    Maja aa gya bhai video dekh kar

  • @hardcoreblt9409
    @hardcoreblt9409 ปีที่แล้ว +1

    Exactly 5:05 🥲🥲🥲
    5:12 exactly 🥲🥲🥲

  • @myrasingh8645
    @myrasingh8645 3 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Tho i am a teenager 17 y/o but due to all this whenever I try to think of getting into any kind of relationship even friendship feels like threat to me and even if I accept after a year and slowly starts trying to build trust but whenever something minor also happens in my house I isolate myself from everyone and automatically it comes in my mind no one is mine or something they all care about themselves (even friend even if they care...like in back of mind it comes but due to fear or something I start thinking no one really cares they might just pretend)....i did started watching self help videos etc and ik now that I have anxious avoidant attachment style....i sometimes realise that this kind of behaviour does hurt many PPL especially my friends but I can't help it...even if I try to express my self like what's disturbing me etc and start talking within a min I feel what if they judge me or something since i also have inferiority complex which I am trying to fight since a year but still it's like whenever something even small happens I break down and every feeling of hurt which I was trying to ignore comes on the surface

  • @swapnilsharma3727
    @swapnilsharma3727 ปีที่แล้ว

    Absolute banger ❤️