Narcissist expects you to act like a brainless emotional zombie

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  • @LittleLulubee
    @LittleLulubee วันที่ผ่านมา +43

    They want to have ZERO accountability! And they can be evasive about addressing their crimes. They know you caught them red-handed, but they still won’t admit it 🙄🙄

  • @IzabelaWaniek-i1x
    @IzabelaWaniek-i1x วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    It is true. The narcisist expected you to act like an object with no emotions and feelings and if you dare to call out their abusive behaviour they will blame you and call you difficult and a complainer . They don’t want to acknowledge that there is a causa and effect relationship, between abuse and complaints.

  • @MR-ly4xt
    @MR-ly4xt วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    True. He's always bringing up my past and expecting me not to react, but as soon as I do that with him he flies into a rage and says "that was in the past, we are in a different time now" or his favourite "the past is the past, we need to move on". Like when he broke my late mother's ornaments, which is all I had left to remember her by, he refused to apologise and told me not to ever bring it up in conversation again.

  • @kayodudu5190
    @kayodudu5190 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    Yes this what he expected me to be not questioning anything

  • @TransformativeParadigm
    @TransformativeParadigm วันที่ผ่านมา +33

    lol that’s so true. Him and his family tells me it’s a new day. And to forget how they treated me just yesterday.

    • @kumari6004
      @kumari6004 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      Totally disgusting.. yet they are the ones who hold on to things..

  • @therapeutic_music_for_sleep
    @therapeutic_music_for_sleep วันที่ผ่านมา +11

    This video literally saved my psyche from collapse! I was on the edge. Thank you so much!

  • @nancyjohnson5101
    @nancyjohnson5101 วันที่ผ่านมา +24

    Mine used to say, “ It’s in the past, let it go”

    • @bailujen8052
      @bailujen8052 วันที่ผ่านมา

      My mother's like that too

  • @PearlRose0405
    @PearlRose0405 วันที่ผ่านมา +22

    Oh.. They always remind us about our mistake, that's fine. But when we did the same, they will explode😂

    • @K.M.2324
      @K.M.2324 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

      🎯💯 So true!!!

    • @gracebe235
      @gracebe235 43 นาทีที่ผ่านมา

      Otherwise known as; “Rules for thee, but not for me!”

  • @annasvensson9782
    @annasvensson9782 วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    My relatives almost talked me into going to a funeral today, and, finally I felt I had to become a "brainless emotional zombie" to be able to go there. But then I saw the "signs" from spiritual world I should avoid going there, so now I'm at home. Peace

  • @76_Red_Pills
    @76_Red_Pills วันที่ผ่านมา +8

    This Channel is outstanding.

  • @hermosotino
    @hermosotino วันที่ผ่านมา +28

    Oh my goodness....they all follow the same play book! There must be a narc university out there most of us are not aware of🤷🏽

    • @SquishyGrayMatter
      @SquishyGrayMatter วันที่ผ่านมา +4

      Exactly!!! It’s eerie!

    • @pamelacave5515
      @pamelacave5515 วันที่ผ่านมา

      Yes! It's called Screwtape Letters by C S Lewis

  • @Zoya288z
    @Zoya288z วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Exactly true, and this is the same line i have said, if they take responsibility for their actions and also be honest, no need to complain and also nag, just harmony and talk like simple adults discussing things that are disagreed upon...

  • @notbextley6997
    @notbextley6997 วันที่ผ่านมา +9

    It's more abusive that way

  • @surv2239
    @surv2239 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Absolutely true, 22+ years with the last Narc.
    I started fighting back and he left, forcing me to Divorce him.

  • @SweetyJain-so2zr
    @SweetyJain-so2zr วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Mine used to say " don't repeat the past "

  • @harikakota9329
    @harikakota9329 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Whatever they do we need to accept it without raising a question

  • @jennifernelson9980
    @jennifernelson9980 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    So true!!! Also, when bring up thing or response in a way they don't like they will change the subject. Stand firm on your question(s). When they change the subject they have no answer. Plus they will turn around and attack you.

  • @roselipton2113
    @roselipton2113 วันที่ผ่านมา +7

    😱 OMG....thats literally happened...the lying part!!

  • @Faeriethorn
    @Faeriethorn วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    Oh my goodness! This describes my mum-in-law, her three daughters and one of her sons. Mum is dead but the three wicked sisters-in-laws are still has-lighting the rest of us. Just in these ways. What an eye-opener! Thank you.

    • @PatGusoff
      @PatGusoff วันที่ผ่านมา +1

      Yes, they curse you out in a minute and then want you to help them the next minute. What a person!

  • @KnightGeneral
    @KnightGeneral วันที่ผ่านมา +4

    In their head you're dumb and they want you to stay that way. Thats why heal and live your best life. In time, God will show them someday who you truly are, a brilliant beautiful person.

    • @taniahuete3016
      @taniahuete3016 23 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา +1

      Love this ❤

  • @effiemaccheyne9101
    @effiemaccheyne9101 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "That happened such a long time ago. Yooour problem is you don't forgive"
    I'd ask him "for what? What am I supposed to forgive you for? "
    No answer, just more deflection. They just can't admit it.

  • @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR
    @theREALESTrealistUNPOPULAR วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The past? He would do this about something he did yesterday

  • @RitikaRSharma
    @RitikaRSharma วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    I just had this experience last night and I actually accepted in a way it was me letting others get to me to be reason of my sadness but those things happened and no one took accountability that’s why I’m sad not because I let someone get to me but because they r someone I am close and supposed to take care of . I’m made to feel I’m not taking accountability but not even once anyone said it was my mistake or their family’s they always say it’s their nature , it’s my nature but why my nature needs to changed and theirs to accepted

  • @rajnibhatia6581
    @rajnibhatia6581 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Rightly said 🎯

  • @icy-hearted-angel
    @icy-hearted-angel วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Sometimes the nicest, most well-loved guy whom everyone seems to adore, has another side, obscured from his inner circle. He cuts his woman down by saying she's stupid, crazy & imagining things, delusional and pathetic. He will whittle away at her self confidence so she always second guesses herself to the point of paralyzing her from doing anything. If she mentions any disrespect received, she'll be dismissed with a hand palm and "Stop. You always complain. STOP." At the same time, any word or action from her that makes him even slightly uncomfortable is held against her forever, but regarding his own méchanceté, she will be told she imagined everything and it's in the past (even just yesterday) so lasse tomber, drop it and shut the mouth.

  • @karenzilverberg4699
    @karenzilverberg4699 วันที่ผ่านมา +2

    Thanks, Danish.

  • @tripleairgoddess
    @tripleairgoddess วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    the gas lightning and stonewalling. and I'm called a nag. sounds right

  • @earthelucidator
    @earthelucidator วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Amen

  • @williemaeboyd2966
    @williemaeboyd2966 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    Indeed

  • @harobedasenath
    @harobedasenath วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    That’s always what he said!

  • @zamazonke8254
    @zamazonke8254 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    He always tell me not to bring the past we are starting a new page

  • @TamekaBuckley-h8e
    @TamekaBuckley-h8e 19 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes Sir and it's so exhausting

  • @PoojaSoni-pu1mw
    @PoojaSoni-pu1mw วันที่ผ่านมา

    Omg so so true 5hrs back what hepp its a past for them & 5years ago what hepp they are taking nonstop revange I never knew before meeting them that these kind of evil also exist just worst met hope one day ll be free from this hell it's not easy as trapped very badly just hope & hope God bless Me 🙏 ❤️

  • @TurtleHillTx
    @TurtleHillTx 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Exactly!! So many times!

  • @Mailyfe
    @Mailyfe วันที่ผ่านมา

    Can’t help you. Bye! May God be with you ❤

  • @cer3812
    @cer3812 4 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I was and now going through therapy. God even are scared of them which is the saddest truth

  • @suzettedunlap6468
    @suzettedunlap6468 8 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Dealing with my narcissit mother whole life. Ugh

  • @PositiveenergyLB
    @PositiveenergyLB วันที่ผ่านมา

    💯The narcissist use to tell me..that was yesterday or that’s in the past! Dealing with them are the same as dealing with the devil

  • @mammadingo9165
    @mammadingo9165 วันที่ผ่านมา

    "Its always a fight with you " he says as i say please don't offer the kids pizza without talking to me first

  • @andihunter6908
    @andihunter6908 22 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    That is 110% true

  • @jnks456
    @jnks456 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So much happier now after getting rid of him😂

  • @bellesterbeatty3571
    @bellesterbeatty3571 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They are ALWAYS the victims!

  • @barbaragonzales5944
    @barbaragonzales5944 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    What's with the creepy demon face before the video begins?

  • @drcynidejaffri3573
    @drcynidejaffri3573 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Reminds me of my PhD supervisor

  • @yvonnebasson8652
    @yvonnebasson8652 วันที่ผ่านมา +1

    The always tell you, you are brainless

  • @Amanda-ev3lg
    @Amanda-ev3lg วันที่ผ่านมา

    "I didnt say that" lalala *with fingers in ears*...lol sound familiar?

  • @stephenhogue5567
    @stephenhogue5567 วันที่ผ่านมา

    They are toxic and evil!

  • @drakshishrimali11
    @drakshishrimali11 วันที่ผ่านมา

    So true😢

  • @mikerawn3960
    @mikerawn3960 21 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    I was told that they actually show diminished brain density in certain areas?

  • @Mailyfe
    @Mailyfe วันที่ผ่านมา

    They’ll tell you it’s the past but they’ll tell you the their past 😂 what?!? Idk 👋🏼

  • @ЛизаАдамс-э1я
    @ЛизаАдамс-э1я 3 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Yes

  • @jangunning1676
    @jangunning1676 วันที่ผ่านมา +3

    Hi Danish......🙋🤗🕯️ ...., your video info is great, helpful and absolutely true. I thank you for each and every one! 👏👏
    However, I really did NOT like the red and Satanic beginning, nor did I like the depiction of using yourself to look evil!! I think that was too much! It made me feel uncomfortable and distracted momentarily from what you were saying. Plus to be honest, I'm feeling some anger because before when I heard your voice I saw the image in my mind of what I have seen in you for months and months of watching your videos. That vision is of light. You have a beautiful glow in your eyes, face and smile and your humbleness, sincerity and empathy as well as respect for God and show that on a very high level. Now that has been affected by this opposite vision from this video beginning. Granted, it was a short duration, and thank goodness for that ! However, I am very much a visual learner and I'm sure I'm not the only one. So because I am a visual learner, an impact of a few seconds can still be very powerful!
    I dont want THIS image in my mind for another reason: dreams and/or nightmares. I have very vivid dreams and get intense vivid nightmares! My mind is like a magnet both unconsciously and consciously so now that's a concern.
    My other reason is on a spiritual level. As I said, although it is a brief depiction of Satan, it was powerful and made me feel uncomfortable! It also made me feel concern ......for you. Yes, concern Danish....for you. Be careful when you expose evil because that gets the demons to have even more attention on you, so I hope you have prayed for God's protection!
    Lastly, I really dont think you were comfortable with that image of yourself either! Those of us that are warriors for God......light, truth and love wouldn't, shouldn't and couldn't! Be careful what you do Danish and I say that out of concern and respect. You are a very intelligent, wise and educated warrior for truth and good. It's VERY important to stay focused on being a light bearer even while briefly stepping into the shadows for education teaching purposes. The enemy is a master manipulator and liar who gets his kicks by causing confusion in every and any way possible! So be careful when you step into enemy territory.
    Thank you for reading this and stay safe everyone! May we all warrior on! 🙏🙏✝️🙏🙏🫂🕯️🫂🕯️🫂🕯️🫂🕯️💪❤️

  • @katherinedownover7927
    @katherinedownover7927 วันที่ผ่านมา

    Jesus saved me from a Very evil narc
    Thank you Jesus and I do for give him and pray he finds JESUS as well

  • @LeonaPayton
    @LeonaPayton 20 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Like nothing happened

  • @createa.googleaccount713
    @createa.googleaccount713 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ✔️ ✅️ ☑️✔️✅️☑️✔️

  • @Psychicblonde67
    @Psychicblonde67 10 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Will also call you a crisis junkie. Honey Badger don't care.

  • @aleksandrakettner905
    @aleksandrakettner905 วันที่ผ่านมา

    ☘️

  • @sharonmeyler-bloomer9849
    @sharonmeyler-bloomer9849 17 ชั่วโมงที่ผ่านมา

    Who cares