Breaking generational trauma cycles is such a huge thing, you're incredibly strong to even attempt to take that on. About the finance situation- you're doing your best! You absolutely don't deserve to be shamed or belittled for asking for help, that's so backwards. I'm sorry you had to go through that. Much love ❤
We relate to everything both Bo and Texas are sharing.. I’m so sorry y’all are always let down by the people who should be supporting you. It’s 100% their fault and on their character, and you’re so strong for still fighting to protect yourself through that. We’re all sending love and understanding your way
I haven’t talked to my family in a little over two years and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Only with distance from them have I been able to reach a point in my life where I am still fundamentally fucked, but surrounded by people who actually care for me, and happier than I’ve ever been. I was able to realize I was a system and start to heal. I have to forgo food to pay for therapy a lot of the time, but I’ll do that for the rest of my life before I give my family the opportunity to mistreat me again. They had decades to make different choices, and they didn’t. The world is full of unloving mothers and we are conditioned by them to accept their crumbs of affection, and minimize their abuse. It’s painful giving up on your relationship with your mom because that means accepting you’re not going to get what you’re longing for (from her). But she literally cares more about a remodel than your basic well being. She’d rather think you’re fundamentally flawed and “messy” than acknowledge that her actions left you severely traumatized. I have the same kind of mother. It’s narcissistic abuse, period. Generational trauma be damned. Your family members have made a series of CHOICES in how they treat people. It doesn’t matter what they went through. When a serial abuser or mass shooter shows up on the news, isn’t it a faux pas to talk about what that person’s “suffering” was? For better or worse, we are all accountable for our actions no matter our intentions and experiences. When I was 25, I was still very sympathetic to all the generational suffering. But you know what? You’re suffering too. You’re making better choices. And you are not obligated to hold empathy for people who behave that way. I experienced a massive shift in my own capability to get what I needed, and the strength of my relationships outside of family, when I cut mine off. And I didn’t start healing in a big way until I did. And you know, ever since I stopped talking to them…I haven’t needed them. There’s always been another way. Funny how that works. Healing and improvement are exceptionally difficult if the source of the trauma is present, and repeating the same conditions, in the now. On some level, you might be stuck because you are still waiting for the people who were supposed to take care of you to do their job. And they aren’t going to. Not compassionately, if at all. Cut them off and leave room for something better to enter your life. You’re already struggling, why go through the wringer emotionally while you’re at it? Consider what your life would be like, what you might be able to do, if these kinds of interactions with your family just…weren’t there. You know your situation best. But I hope you think about it, and the moment your system is ready, you get these people OUT of your life. You’ll adapt. That’s what a system does. I hate seeing other people still suffering like this with their mothers, you deserve so much more.
Bo, get out of this toxic relationship!!!! Stop talking to her if she cant support you!! She is your mom and she needed to provide cuz as u said youre disabled and if she cant understand that than stop talking to her.. U dont need this. You need comprehension and love and feel safe and good. Hope everything will be alright and u deserve better.
going no contact with a parent is very hard... I don't know if you've done it, but I have, kind of... it's very low contact for me; like once or twice a year, but only if necessary... so I know from my own experience that the process of finally letting go of that last straw of hope that some day you could have a good relationship with a caring parent is so very painful...
@@Mitschki92 kind of... I started to talk to my father at 15 years old and stopped at 19 cuz he just cant understand me. And my mom that i still live with, doesnt understand me either.. Soon ill have my apartment and ill feel lonely but at least ill feel free as well.
Thanks for the video and props to Texas for stopping something that she doesn't like. We've struggled with putting one thing down for another just because we'd been doing it. We also appreciate the family comments, the parallels we can recognize help out what context we've been able to gather for our own life.
I see you both. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Being the one to break generational trauma cycles is a huge responsibility and a huge task. You’re so brave stepping up to it and talking about it. UC are cruel. I’m on ESA still so I’m doing to be in your position before long. My partner works in UC. Would you like me to ask him for some guidance?
I really really hope you'll feel better soon, and we appreciate so much the fact that you're sharing this to us, i can't do it on my own. We're here to support you, no matter what
I am 58 years old and because I didn't have enough for my property taxes last month I had to pay double this month. I am on disability too. That took over 470.00 off my check. So *I* had to ask my 87 yr.old Mum for money this month too. It's humiliating. My Mum didn't insult me or anything but still.... anyway, I get it
You don't need that toxic, abusive family! You're so strong and you can live the life breaking away from that chain. Your inner parent is nice and caring, listen to them, and don't wait for your external parents to come around. Life is too short, darling. Much love.
The good thing is that you've noticed this trauma has gone down the line, at least it stops with you so that if you do have your own children you have learned what your children will need from you to have a happy life. Keep positive.
I appreciate the video from the two of you. I hope that you two might be able to talk to each other about the whole family thing. Somehow. I wish you all good luck, till next time. ❤️
I had similar situations with my mother and now I've cut ties with her. I realised it was best to have nothing to do with her anymore. Maybe you'll be able to do that one day
its not ridiculous to want an intact family and to be loved and wanted. Its cruel and mean to behave like that to your own child especially if you need her the most. Im so sorry that she is not there for you... I`m sorry that you have to deal with it.
Reminds me of my relationship with my mum. Volatile. Poverty happens to so many people, it isn't anything to do with you as a person. It's not stupid to cry about it at all, she's being abusive. They all sound awful, I'm sorry you have family like that. You live your reality and its your truth, and it is their fault if they cannot accept that 💞
I know how u feel about generation trauma. I have a baby now, and everyday i try to do my best for her, i give everything i can so she can grow happy u know.. Somehow i was neglected and at my teens i suffered a lot with verbal violence.
2:07 A mother and/or parent will do anything for their child, and for them to have a good life. She doesn't seem like that at all. One day it'll hit her (hopefully), and realize how she's been towards you.
Aw bo im so sorry. We relate, its mothers day sometime soon here (maybe its already gone? I dont know) but we keep getting ads like. Spoil your mum this mothers day! Get something nice for her! Blah blah be nice to your mother its her special day and its like. When has she EVER done anything nice for me? When has she ever spoilt me? So many of our issues stem from her being selfish, things like kicking us out with like 2 weeks warning so she could move in with a guy she met 6 months ago? Seeing all the ads about giving back to the mother figure in your life when she hasnt given me shit except more mental problems, it feels really distressing. Im sorry i hope this didnt derail your point, im trying to say we understand wishing there was a more comforting and supportive parental/mother figure. We understand wishing someone would just take care of us for a while so we dont have to stress more while we try to get back on our feet. Im sorry its so tough right now for all of you. It sucks sometimes, im sending all my wishes that things start to get better for you guys soon 💕 Edit: I wanted to add. The body is 24, weve completely stopped talking to our birth mother about a year ago. It was a hard journey, every time a couple months would go by and i thought i was finally free of her, then she'd somehow get my number or address and send me something again and it would send me into a horrible spiral. Its been a really hard and difficult process to make the decision to cut her out of our life. Even to this day, i have moments of wishing i could have her back. Well, not her, because shes a cunt, but some kind of motherly presence. But even though things feel really hard, its the best decision i ever made to not let her keep making it harder for us. She wasnt providing support, either emotionally or financially, and was taking from me a lot of joy. Are things good now? Absolutely not its terrifying and painful. But its easier now that ive accepted shes not 'family', just another selfish prick that i have no expectations for. But i think for you guys, if you asses how beneficial your relationship with her is, it might be worth roughing it on your own as much as you can, not asking her for anything (even though its fully your right to ask and she absolutely shouldve helped, who the fuck cares more about their flooring than their daughter that pisses me off so much im so sorry youre going through it), but dont ask and gradually try to cut her off from hurting you any further if you can. It sounds like they wont change, they dont care enough to try to be better. Im proud of you for recognising the cycle and making an effort to break it ❤️ i truly hope whatever happens that it starts to seem better soon 💕
This video really hit hard for me. I know very well what it's like to constantly seek validation and wanting to be accepted and loved by people who are emotionally abusing you because they're family and you are stuck on a cycle of trying to get something they just are seemingly not capable of giving. As much as you know you should just cut your ties with those people from a cognitive point of view, emotionally you still keep wanting to go back to that relationship, and end up getting hurt and retraumatized. Letting go (especially of your own family) is really not as easy as people make it sound and, unfortunately, in my case I am still living with my abusers because I'm still financially dependent on them. I can also relate to the guilt of spending money trying to do something nice for yourself while at the same time beating yourself up because you were supposed to be saving money, not spending it. I'm sorry y'all have to go through this. I know this pain all too well and I wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy. I hope things start to get better for you guys. 🫂
if u tell U.C. your not fit to work you should get extra £350 month just explain to advisor u cant work or look for work cause ur illness its worth try i got it myself..
If you’d like me to do that, let me know and we can email. I’m pretty useless most of the time, but having a partner on the inside is a real bonus and this is something I can definitely do.
I’m not sure if this is helpful or just more words, but your Instagram account is messaging me trying to say they’re you. DMing me personally at this point.
You are both special and beautiful, you just dont know it yet..i will send some mind stuff towards you, to try and make the universe bring the things you need..best wishes..💪💪
simlar to my relitive uncle anything you do isnt good enogh instead of saying thanks u did this that for me he find something to moan about or something wrong with it he can nevr just be ok after while u cant take the negativaty but i have cut him off but i always go back as i feel guilty
Here is an idea, try setting up a Gofundme account and share it on your channel. Who knows, maybe if a 10th of your total subscribers donate $1 a month, you may be able to have enough to move out of that toxic environment and build a better life for yourself.
HI! Hope you are doing better now, sorry to hear it! I would like to help you obtain the account back, if it is not yours now! Please let me know, many of us here likes your posts and would really like to help! Hopefully it will be returned to you👌🏻
We love you Bo, from the bottom of our heart! 💜 You are a beautiful being! You deserve all the hugs and love in the world! #@$& that old hag! You don’t need her. We had to cut off our bio mom. Been two years ‘no contact’ now. The littlest often cry “mommy, where’s mommy.” And we have to explain to them over and over. Mommy didn’t love us, not because we didn’t deserve it, but because she is a narcissistic abuser and incapable of real human emotions like love. It’s heartbreaking and it gets a little. easier every year. We recommend Dr. Romani on TH-cam. She does a lot of videos about how to protect yourself from narcissists. You gotta try ‘grey wall’ or ‘stonewall’ a technique where you ignore the narcissist and act like a boring grey stone.
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 i saw earlier and I told who ever hacked it to stop hacking peoples accounts it happened to me but I was able to do something to get it back
Friendly reminder that buying and using dream catchers is culturally appropriating indigenous peoples cultures unless you are indigenous of given one by an elder
I totally support what you are saying, but I also think you have to understand that the Brits are not aware of all the history and issues around American Indigenous culture. I am sure she means no disrespect. She has probably never heard the words cultural appropriation.
@@Lara__ I was asking the commenter, not you, but I am glad to hear that you are and that you are not worried about it. As a white person, I want to be careful about cultural appropriation. I also believe that education, honor and respect are important and sometimes it is ok to honor something from another culture and have an object respectfully and for its purpose. Often that is not the case. I have had a dream catcher in my life. One was given to me with information about the origins, purpose and appropriate usage. I don't know if I merited it or should have been "allowed" to have it as a little white girl, but I treasured it and honored it the best I knew how. I had it until someone told me I shouldn't because I am white. It was another white person who told me that. I don't know what the right answer is. But, a blanket assumption of ignorance bothers me.
remember : you have one bodyguard he has no eyes though he sees he has no ears though he hears he remembers everything with the aid of mind and memory when he wishes to create a thing he just orders it to be and he comes into existence that's god , Allah he's my bodyguard , he's your bodyguard , he's the supreme .
Hi, because this video is where you put the warning that your instagram was hacked, I will say this here: I got a message from you on instagram a few days ago and then just now and I'm not sure if its you or if it's someone else using your account. So I will say here that yes, I saw the post, and if that really is you that posted it and messaged me, then you can let me know and I will be super, super happy for you! But if it wasn't you, then I will know not to respond to it, and this comment can let us both know whether the post and the messages are really from you or not from you. (And if they aren't from you I'm not sure what to do about it - how do I report things without getting your real account in trouble along with the hacker?)
@@BoboCoOfficial ok, thank you for letting me know! I hope this gets fixed soon. Please mention it when it does so I know for sure its you again once it is you.
Breaking generational trauma cycles is such a huge thing, you're incredibly strong to even attempt to take that on.
About the finance situation- you're doing your best! You absolutely don't deserve to be shamed or belittled for asking for help, that's so backwards. I'm sorry you had to go through that.
Much love ❤
We relate to everything both Bo and Texas are sharing.. I’m so sorry y’all are always let down by the people who should be supporting you. It’s 100% their fault and on their character, and you’re so strong for still fighting to protect yourself through that. We’re all sending love and understanding your way
I haven’t talked to my family in a little over two years and it was one of the best decisions I ever made. Only with distance from them have I been able to reach a point in my life where I am still fundamentally fucked, but surrounded by people who actually care for me, and happier than I’ve ever been. I was able to realize I was a system and start to heal. I have to forgo food to pay for therapy a lot of the time, but I’ll do that for the rest of my life before I give my family the opportunity to mistreat me again. They had decades to make different choices, and they didn’t.
The world is full of unloving mothers and we are conditioned by them to accept their crumbs of affection, and minimize their abuse. It’s painful giving up on your relationship with your mom because that means accepting you’re not going to get what you’re longing for (from her). But she literally cares more about a remodel than your basic well being. She’d rather think you’re fundamentally flawed and “messy” than acknowledge that her actions left you severely traumatized. I have the same kind of mother. It’s narcissistic abuse, period.
Generational trauma be damned. Your family members have made a series of CHOICES in how they treat people. It doesn’t matter what they went through. When a serial abuser or mass shooter shows up on the news, isn’t it a faux pas to talk about what that person’s “suffering” was? For better or worse, we are all accountable for our actions no matter our intentions and experiences. When I was 25, I was still very sympathetic to all the generational suffering. But you know what? You’re suffering too. You’re making better choices. And you are not obligated to hold empathy for people who behave that way.
I experienced a massive shift in my own capability to get what I needed, and the strength of my relationships outside of family, when I cut mine off. And I didn’t start healing in a big way until I did. And you know, ever since I stopped talking to them…I haven’t needed them. There’s always been another way. Funny how that works.
Healing and improvement are exceptionally difficult if the source of the trauma is present, and repeating the same conditions, in the now. On some level, you might be stuck because you are still waiting for the people who were supposed to take care of you to do their job. And they aren’t going to. Not compassionately, if at all. Cut them off and leave room for something better to enter your life. You’re already struggling, why go through the wringer emotionally while you’re at it? Consider what your life would be like, what you might be able to do, if these kinds of interactions with your family just…weren’t there.
You know your situation best. But I hope you think about it, and the moment your system is ready, you get these people OUT of your life. You’ll adapt. That’s what a system does. I hate seeing other people still suffering like this with their mothers, you deserve so much more.
Bo, get out of this toxic relationship!!!! Stop talking to her if she cant support you!! She is your mom and she needed to provide cuz as u said youre disabled and if she cant understand that than stop talking to her.. U dont need this. You need comprehension and love and feel safe and good.
Hope everything will be alright and u deserve better.
going no contact with a parent is very hard... I don't know if you've done it, but I have, kind of... it's very low contact for me; like once or twice a year, but only if necessary... so I know from my own experience that the process of finally letting go of that last straw of hope that some day you could have a good relationship with a caring parent is so very painful...
@@Mitschki92 kind of... I started to talk to my father at 15 years old and stopped at 19 cuz he just cant understand me. And my mom that i still live with, doesnt understand me either.. Soon ill have my apartment and ill feel lonely but at least ill feel free as well.
You cancel that generational curse girl!! Love you. Every part of you.
Thanks for the video and props to Texas for stopping something that she doesn't like. We've struggled with putting one thing down for another just because we'd been doing it.
We also appreciate the family comments, the parallels we can recognize help out what context we've been able to gather for our own life.
Sorry your insta was hacked, that really sucks. Can really empathise with your struggles
Is there a new account yet?
Came here to see if that's what happened 😅🥲
I don’t know yet, new acc yet Bo? X
I see you both. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Being the one to break generational trauma cycles is a huge responsibility and a huge task. You’re so brave stepping up to it and talking about it. UC are cruel. I’m on ESA still so I’m doing to be in your position before long.
My partner works in UC. Would you like me to ask him for some guidance?
I really really hope you'll feel better soon, and we appreciate so much the fact that you're sharing this to us, i can't do it on my own. We're here to support you, no matter what
I am 58 years old and because I didn't have enough for my property taxes last month I had to pay double this month. I am on disability too. That took over 470.00 off my check. So *I* had to ask my 87 yr.old Mum for money this month too. It's humiliating. My Mum didn't insult me or anything but still.... anyway, I get it
You don't need that toxic, abusive family! You're so strong and you can live the life breaking away from that chain. Your inner parent is nice and caring, listen to them, and don't wait for your external parents to come around. Life is too short, darling. Much love.
Listen to Tune Yards "We all have doubts." It's become my anthem. I hear you 💜
The good thing is that you've noticed this trauma has gone down the line, at least it stops with you so that if you do have your own children you have learned what your children will need from you to have a happy life. Keep positive.
I appreciate the video from the two of you. I hope that you two might be able to talk to each other about the whole family thing. Somehow. I wish you all good luck, till next time. ❤️
I had similar situations with my mother and now I've cut ties with her. I realised it was best to have nothing to do with her anymore. Maybe you'll be able to do that one day
We care about you guys 🥺 I relate alot to what you're saying here. Sending love ❤️
You're not the one at fault. It's absolutely 100% on them and the fault on them. I'm so sorry you have to go through this
its not ridiculous to want an intact family and to be loved and wanted. Its cruel and mean to behave like that to your own child especially if you need her the most. Im so sorry that she is not there for you... I`m sorry that you have to deal with it.
Reminds me of my relationship with my mum. Volatile. Poverty happens to so many people, it isn't anything to do with you as a person. It's not stupid to cry about it at all, she's being abusive. They all sound awful, I'm sorry you have family like that. You live your reality and its your truth, and it is their fault if they cannot accept that 💞
daaaaamn! if my children needed money in desperate times, I'd help them. no questions asked. I hope it gets better for u ❤
I know how u feel about generation trauma.
I have a baby now, and everyday i try to do my best for her, i give everything i can so she can grow happy u know..
Somehow i was neglected and at my teens i suffered a lot with verbal violence.
It’s not stupid to be wanted. It’s human.
Thank you so much for this.
2:07 A mother and/or parent will do anything for their child, and for them to have a good life. She doesn't seem like that at all. One day it'll hit her (hopefully), and realize how she's been towards you.
Aw bo im so sorry. We relate, its mothers day sometime soon here (maybe its already gone? I dont know) but we keep getting ads like. Spoil your mum this mothers day! Get something nice for her! Blah blah be nice to your mother its her special day and its like. When has she EVER done anything nice for me? When has she ever spoilt me? So many of our issues stem from her being selfish, things like kicking us out with like 2 weeks warning so she could move in with a guy she met 6 months ago? Seeing all the ads about giving back to the mother figure in your life when she hasnt given me shit except more mental problems, it feels really distressing.
Im sorry i hope this didnt derail your point, im trying to say we understand wishing there was a more comforting and supportive parental/mother figure. We understand wishing someone would just take care of us for a while so we dont have to stress more while we try to get back on our feet. Im sorry its so tough right now for all of you. It sucks sometimes, im sending all my wishes that things start to get better for you guys soon 💕
Edit: I wanted to add. The body is 24, weve completely stopped talking to our birth mother about a year ago. It was a hard journey, every time a couple months would go by and i thought i was finally free of her, then she'd somehow get my number or address and send me something again and it would send me into a horrible spiral. Its been a really hard and difficult process to make the decision to cut her out of our life. Even to this day, i have moments of wishing i could have her back. Well, not her, because shes a cunt, but some kind of motherly presence. But even though things feel really hard, its the best decision i ever made to not let her keep making it harder for us. She wasnt providing support, either emotionally or financially, and was taking from me a lot of joy. Are things good now? Absolutely not its terrifying and painful. But its easier now that ive accepted shes not 'family', just another selfish prick that i have no expectations for.
But i think for you guys, if you asses how beneficial your relationship with her is, it might be worth roughing it on your own as much as you can, not asking her for anything (even though its fully your right to ask and she absolutely shouldve helped, who the fuck cares more about their flooring than their daughter that pisses me off so much im so sorry youre going through it), but dont ask and gradually try to cut her off from hurting you any further if you can. It sounds like they wont change, they dont care enough to try to be better.
Im proud of you for recognising the cycle and making an effort to break it ❤️ i truly hope whatever happens that it starts to seem better soon 💕
I'm sorry things are hard right now. I hope it gets better.
Hearts pulled when Bo talked about Wanda....
This video really hit hard for me. I know very well what it's like to constantly seek validation and wanting to be accepted and loved by people who are emotionally abusing you because they're family and you are stuck on a cycle of trying to get something they just are seemingly not capable of giving. As much as you know you should just cut your ties with those people from a cognitive point of view, emotionally you still keep wanting to go back to that relationship, and end up getting hurt and retraumatized. Letting go (especially of your own family) is really not as easy as people make it sound and, unfortunately, in my case I am still living with my abusers because I'm still financially dependent on them. I can also relate to the guilt of spending money trying to do something nice for yourself while at the same time beating yourself up because you were supposed to be saving money, not spending it. I'm sorry y'all have to go through this. I know this pain all too well and I wouldn't wish it on my worse enemy. I hope things start to get better for you guys. 🫂
So sorry to both of you
I just know that, one day, you and your alters are going to be terrific parents!! ❤️❤️
We all care about you ❤️
Hello my lovely birthday twin, hopefully the money I sent over helps xxx
if u tell U.C. your not fit to work you should get extra £350 month just explain to advisor u cant work or look for work cause ur illness its worth try i got it myself..
If you’d like me to do that, let me know and we can email. I’m pretty useless most of the time, but having a partner on the inside is a real bonus and this is something I can definitely do.
Sent a tenner ($10 USD) over.
I’m not sure if this is helpful or just more words, but your Instagram account is messaging me trying to say they’re you. DMing me personally at this point.
That wasnt us! Please dont respond!! We want to keep you all safe from this!
How can we help you with your instagram? Should we block your insta? Do you have a new one yet?
You are both special and beautiful, you just dont know it yet..i will send some mind stuff towards you, to try and make the universe bring the things you need..best wishes..💪💪
Hey Bo, just wanted to let you know you're Instagram was hacked and wanted to offer good thoughts and whatnot
simlar to my relitive uncle anything you do isnt good enogh instead of saying thanks u did this that for me he find something to moan about or something wrong with it he can nevr just be ok after while u cant take the negativaty but i have cut him off but i always go back as i feel guilty
Your Instagram has been hacked btw. Got a weird message from you.
Someone has hacked your Instagram Bo, I’ve reported it. They keep changing your username and messaging me
Is kc still in your lives
Here is an idea, try setting up a Gofundme account and share it on your channel. Who knows, maybe if a 10th of your total subscribers donate $1 a month, you may be able to have enough to move out of that toxic environment and build a better life for yourself.
Is your ig hacked ? We get bitcoin shit from your account all the time and it makes us think your account is hacked!!!
HI! Hope you are doing better now, sorry to hear it! I would like to help you obtain the account back, if it is not yours now! Please let me know, many of us here likes your posts and would really like to help!
Hopefully it will be returned to you👌🏻
Not much but hopefully a little can help 💷💸
Just ❤️💕
We love you Bo, from the bottom of our heart! 💜 You are a beautiful being! You deserve all the hugs and love in the world! #@$& that old hag! You don’t need her. We had to cut off our bio mom. Been two years ‘no contact’ now. The littlest often cry “mommy, where’s mommy.” And we have to explain to them over and over. Mommy didn’t love us, not because we didn’t deserve it, but because she is a narcissistic abuser and incapable of real human emotions like love. It’s heartbreaking and it gets a little. easier every year. We recommend Dr. Romani on TH-cam. She does a lot of videos about how to protect yourself from narcissists. You gotta try ‘grey wall’ or ‘stonewall’ a technique where you ignore the narcissist and act like a boring grey stone.
❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️
Your insta has been hacked
Hey I wanted to know if your IG was hacked or is it really you saying that about the Bitcoin?
She says on Twitter it is not her. Hacked.
@@Phoenix_cataclysm_in_2040 i saw earlier and I told who ever hacked it to stop hacking peoples accounts it happened to me but I was able to do something to get it back
I COULD be your Canadian Mum but I have no money sorry
I'm sorry but the sound quality on this video is so bad that I can't make out what you're saying at all.
It's fine for me
the captions are pretty accurate
Bo is naturally pretty quiet anyway. I could hear it fine on headphones and as someone else said, the captions are pretty good.
I could hear fine. She’s naturally soft spoken, you could turn up volume + captions if you can’t understand still.
@@legendofjenni The captions were unavailable and I turned up the volume considerably.
Friendly reminder that buying and using dream catchers is culturally appropriating indigenous peoples cultures unless you are indigenous of given one by an elder
I think one of their alters is indigenous so should be ok
Are you indigenous?
100% loud and proud!
I totally support what you are saying, but I also think you have to understand that the Brits are not aware of all the history and issues around American Indigenous culture. I am sure she means no disrespect. She has probably never heard the words cultural appropriation.
@@Lara__ I was asking the commenter, not you, but I am glad to hear that you are and that you are not worried about it. As a white person, I want to be careful about cultural appropriation. I also believe that education, honor and respect are important and sometimes it is ok to honor something from another culture and have an object respectfully and for its purpose. Often that is not the case.
I have had a dream catcher in my life. One was given to me with information about the origins, purpose and appropriate usage. I don't know if I merited it or should have been "allowed" to have it as a little white girl, but I treasured it and honored it the best I knew how. I had it until someone told me I shouldn't because I am white. It was another white person who told me that.
I don't know what the right answer is. But, a blanket assumption of ignorance bothers me.
remember : you have one bodyguard
he has no eyes though he sees
he has no ears though he hears
he remembers everything with the aid of mind and memory when he wishes to create a thing he just orders it to be and he comes into existence
that's god , Allah
he's my bodyguard , he's your bodyguard , he's the supreme .
Thats not really helpful dude
@@loveme_or_not5295 well ... what can I say ? i did know what I say because of that I wrote these words.
Hi, because this video is where you put the warning that your instagram was hacked, I will say this here: I got a message from you on instagram a few days ago and then just now and I'm not sure if its you or if it's someone else using your account. So I will say here that yes, I saw the post, and if that really is you that posted it and messaged me, then you can let me know and I will be super, super happy for you! But if it wasn't you, then I will know not to respond to it, and this comment can let us both know whether the post and the messages are really from you or not from you. (And if they aren't from you I'm not sure what to do about it - how do I report things without getting your real account in trouble along with the hacker?)
This only happened yesterday! Any messages before then was definitely us! Anything after then was not us! Please ignore anything they send you :(
@@BoboCoOfficial ok, thank you for letting me know! I hope this gets fixed soon. Please mention it when it does so I know for sure its you again once it is you.