You're loved. The internet is full of mean, mean people. There are people who appreciate your rawness and it kills me that you're getting bullied like this.
I don’t think you’ll regret taking space away from the internet. Sharing your story, difficult parts and all, has helped people. But now it’s time to look after you. I wish the world was good enough to deserve your authenticity. It isn’t yet. That’s what makes you so powerful - you’re sharing reality, which makes insecure people feel vulnerable. That’s no real comfort, I know. You deserve better. I hope you feel safe to be with yourself, in your body. If you don’t feel safe, I hope you feel comfortable reaching out to your support system, your crisis lines. I’m sending you my love. If there’s anything I can do to help, let me know.
It feels so trite to say, “if there’s anything I can do, let me know” to an internet stranger. But if I can help, I will. And if I can’t, I just want you to know, you deserve the good things that will come to you in your time away from TH-cam. And you deserve solace, love, and peace.
Fuck. That was heartbreaking to watch. I`m worreid about you and hope you´re as safe as you can be given the circumstances right now. Your videos have helped me a lot in understanding a bit more about DID, the british social security system and your daily struggles and kept me company while I was in the darkest of places. Thank you for all the time and energy you invested to try and make the world a more accepting place, thank you for being you. I will miss you, but also totally understand that you need to take a break or even stop entirely. Hugs, Tony
I hope y’all feel better sooner rather than later. Being disabled is so rough both online and irl. I know it seems silly but try to reach out. There ARE groups and individuals that will help you. Those who are cruel will always try to pull others down with them. Sending love from one disabled person to another
Oh my dear….i only just found you so I don’t know the whole story, but this video broke my heart. The internet can be a toxic place, even for people with good mental health, let alone for people with mental health conditions. Vulnerable people should be protected, not victimised (what is wrong with people, that they would do such harm?). I hope you have all the help you need. I hope you have a whole support system of friends, therapists and caregivers. I know that is sadly not always the case. Be strong. Know that you are a survivor. You are already a good-enough human. You are worth so much more than this. And you have a future. Beyond this, better than this. Wishing you love and solace, one human to another
As an patient with DID diagnosed, I can say you are real, I understand your struggles, just wish you don´t let those people hurt you with their affirmations, most of them doesn´t understand what it is to live a life that isn´t yours only and truly, most of them saw the "Systems" who aren´t real patients and now they say that everyone is fake. Because of this I never said I am a system , I always say I am a patient of DID. Now it´s really difficult for the real people who has DID. Because there is a lot of fakers around. I know you are not a faker. You are just another patient who needs help.
Imo you’re one of the most wholesome TH-camrs I’ve come across, and I’ll miss you and your videos, but ofc, your mental health comes first and you do what you need to do. I hope that you gain something helpful and positive from whatever you choose to do from (and) now onwards. ❤️
I'm sorry there are so many cruel people in the world. Take the time you need, even if you never come back. I hope you do, but understand if you don't. My SIL has DID and my late mother and aunt as well. It's an awful thing to have to live with. You and other channels have really helped me to empathize with them and how to interact with them, especially the littles. YOU ARE ENOUGH!!
Rule number 1 on the internet: don't feed the trolls. Don't react to people who are only here to annoy you or spread a bad mood. But always remain open to constructive criticism. I hope you get better soon.
@@JesusLightsYourPath Yes, I understand what you mean. But thank God she doesn't just get only bad ones, she also got lots of good ones. I estimate it's 60% good, 20% neutral, 10% critical (constructive but unfortunately also very harsh ones) and 10% hateful garbage. Unfortunately, people remember the bad ones the most. But in your example, 100 bad messages (10%) also mean 600 good :), 200 neutral and 100 critical. I always try to think positive, sometime it helps.
Uhhh i feel you 💔 I watched a couple of your videos the other day. They were comforting to me. You're very calming. I thought i would come watch you again. I just had a flashback, and something brought me here to you. It takes so much courage to put yourself out there and be open. Some people seem to be threatened by that. Keep being you 🩷 and thank you for sharing your experiences. The good and the bad. They all matter. You matter. I'm a skin picker/scratcher too. It really flares up when im stressed. The pain from trauma is very real. And we shouldn't have to hide it anymore. Or do this all alone. Bullies are like the abusers from the past. Its very triggering. But once i categorised them as such. I can take everything they say as BS. Who wants to break people down? Not a kind person. Thats for sure.
People are so fucked. It happens to me too girl there’s people out there who were born and nothing happened in their lives they stared at a beige wall or something and because of that they think other people haven’t had real life experiences so they call everything fake. They’re just miserable empty boring people please don’t let them get to you. There’s a reason they are trying to bring you down, they are already beneath you. I’m proud of you for making this video. People need to hear this. They really need to hear it.
@@WillowReborn Implying others are faking does not validate you. Your experience doesn't score points. You don't get respect or sympathy by putting others down. The complexities of feelings around diagnosis are YOUR responsibility to deal with, not something for you to project onto others.
I feel for you Bo (and all of you/s). The Internet is full of evilness from people who are so empty inside they want to get their boots filled to make themselves feel better about their own sadness inside. Its awful. We've followed you guy's since 2019 since we bacame self-aware and then got diagnosed in 2021. We're 39 this year. You're very much like us, well like me anyway, in that you wear your heart on your sleeve and are honest about your feelings and emotions. Unfortunately in this world that leaves you open to attack from the nasty people out there intent on making others as miserable as possible. Dont let them. Take your time away and concentrate on YOU/S...and if you ever do return, you'll have one (that is more than one) fan here waiting with open arms. Love to you all. All@ chezvegassystem❤
the internet sucks so badly, with all the misinfo and bullying. your channel has ben inspiring me a lot, but im not sure I'll ever have your courage to start a youtube channel myself. I've expressed in previous comments how good it has been for me to watch your videos, and over the past few days it has not changed. You dont censor yourself for fear of harrassment, and you show a real side of life that many are able to ignore - dont see it, it doesnt exist - but this channel shows it regardless of people's lack of understanding, which I admire so much. Hope youre well
I'm sorry I didn't speak up earlier and tell you how appreciated you are, I understand though that the negative energy is overwhelming and you definitely deserve a break from it. Thank you for putting yourself out there as much as you did, wishing you all the best ❤❤❤
Oh Noooooo Bo my god I'm so sorry this has happened to you guys! I love your videos, All of Them! You made me feel like a better person for seeing you online struggling like we do. F@#k everyone who has Ever sent hate to this channel!!! It was my lifeline an you sick twisted bastards have bullied my Bobo to the point where she doesn't even want to go on with this ultra fuckin cool blog an I wish Full Karma on anyone who has hurt Bo or continues to hurt Bo or any other mentally and physically disabled HUMAN BEING!!! Bo I adore you, always have and always will. Please take care of yourselves and know that there are people out that care about you deeply and wish nothing but the best for you. You will be more than missed, you are irreplaceable and I hope (oh I hope 🙏) that we see your beautiful face back here real soon ✌️❤️
I'm sorry to hear that people have been so awful to you. It really sucks and you don't deserve it. I hope you feel better for leaving it behind and thank you for your authenticity and rawness cause it helps a lot of people. Wishing you the best
Thinking about you. You deserve all the love and acceptance in the worl. You are awesome. Your content is sincere, raw and just ... human. We love your channel and wish you all the best whatever you choose. But please know that you are awesome and we'll be happy to see more of your brilliant commentary on everything. P.S. They didn't win, they have all the money, stuff, popularity, but they don't have what really matters - being authentic, having intergrity. I know that doesn't pay your bills but it sure as hell fundamental for being happy and loving yourself. We love you Bobo&co!
I’m going to miss the hell out of you. But I get it on one tiny level. I’m not disabled enough for the government (my dad was the one who got me on SSI) and at the exact self same time I am both too disabled and not disabled enough for society.
Im so sorry your going through this. Im playing catch up as ive just found your channel so im 2 years behind on videos but couldn't not comment. Bullying is not right anywhere and especially with those with mental health or disabilities. Infact its the worst type of person who bullies those more fragile. Nobody has the right to hide behind a keyboard and comment about something they know nothing about. But its exactly that anonymity that gives them the confidence and place to be mean and spiteful. Please take care and get strong and healthy away from the negativity. You deserve so much to be at peace. Look after yourself xxx
we are so sorry people have been so unkind to you online. we have always really appreciated your honesty and felt comforted when we can relate to your experiences and we will miss you but it does sound like it is best you have some time away to jus focus on yourself. you shouldn't have to explain yourself to ignorant people in your comments section. we still would like to support you and continue being a member of your channel if you still get the money even if you're not posting? let us know if we can still support you this way. thinking of you and sending you love
Oh, I’m so sorry you’re going through this, love. I have watched your channel sporadically over the years since I first heard what DID was/is, and in my curiosity to learn more about the disorder, I found your channel (among others, but yours always stood out & was a favorite). Although I usually never comment much (on most channels I watch, in general, because I like to concentrate on the topic at hand & can’t listen as well whenever I’m typing out a thought), I wanted to comment on this video, and I hope you’re able to read through the comments when you feel well enough to again in the future. You will be greatly missed, but I completely understand why you need to take this time away for yourselves, and I truly hope you all are able to heal as much as you can from this. Please know that regardless of all of the BS that has followed you & the DID community over the years that you HAVE made a difference; You HAVE left your mark on this world; And you HAVE helped more people than you’ll ever realize. I, myself, do not have DID, but I do have trauma that stems from childhood issues, among other mental health issues from that, and you have helped me understand so much more about myself, why I am the way I am, and why I do some of the things I do, and I know you’ve don’t the same thing repeatedly for so many others as well. You ARE a beacon of light in such a dark world, and that is why there are some people trying to dim your light-they are perfectly happy & content in their own misery, and they think everyone else should be too. Some people don’t want to see some people get better or progress in any way, and constantly want to try & keep them down. Once they are down, they try to repeatedly keep kïçkïng them while already down so that they’ll stay down. But I have no doubt you will get back up again, and if you have to do so away from the Internet, then so be it. At the end of the day, your mental, emotional & physical health & well-being are more important. I wish nothing but the absolute best going forward, and I wish you the happiness & healing you so deserve. The people who know & see your true, authentic character will always be here if or when you ever decide to come back. 🖤
It seems to be a massive trend at the moment for people to fake claim people with disabilities or whatever experiences anyone is open about having online. I wish people would understand how much damage they do with this behaviour. Nobody knows what another person is experiencing in their life and there is so, so much that a short video once in a while won't show about the reality that person lives 24/7, but people make assumptions and put actions behind those assumptions that can ruin someone's life. It's unforgivable. I'm sorry for how much you have been hurt by these people Bo. I will miss seeing your videos and it worries me that I won't know if you're OK or not through seeing you post, but I think it may be the right decision unfortunately. I know that I wouldn't be able to put myself out there publicly because I'm too vulnerable to what people say too. The sad fact is that the Internet isn't a safe place for people like us - those who have anything that can be easily targeted or criticised or any medical conditions or difficult life circumstances. There are plenty of caring, supportive people, but unless you find a forum that polices members carefully then there's nothing to keep the space safe...and if you do find a forum that's members only, it will develop in-fighting and internal politics that will make it no longer safe for certain members sooner or later anyway, which can hurt even more. You know all this too well, and I'm sorry you do
Holy shit, I am so sorry you are being bullied. I understand and I am not angry that you're taking an indefinite break from content creation. I'm just sad that you've been bullied offline. I too have experienced the "looking at you, you're clearly not having THAT hard of a time" while no one knew it was masking. Being dismissed because whomever was fronting with the HCP was trying their best to prevent the body from breaking down and crying uncontrollably. I don't think anyone truly understand how hard medical stuff is with DID until they experience it themselves. When your doctors don't believe the pain you're in but then do scans and they're like "holy f*%ing crap! how are you not screaming?" and I'm like "yeah that's why I had the seizure and went unconscious. I was trying to hold the pain in without disturbing the whole ER." The mind body disconnect makes people not believe us and I hate the dismissal of my symptoms. Trying to balance keeping composure in a hospital but holding back terror and tears and the urge to crawl into a corner because of trauma you experienced in the hospital before. There are some alters who are better at ignoring pain than others, and that leads to problems with healthcare. This shit isn't fun. It's not fucking glamorous and honestly I hate that there are certain content creators that make a circus show out of alters. We didn't sign up to be an entertainer and we have actively chosen to not make public content out of fear of bullying. Your bravery to show what DID is like showing your face... is beyond words that I can express. I do not have the courage to be a public face of DID. Thank you for everything you've done and I hope people can develop some empathy and compassion and stop bullying you. Best wishes and all our love.
Idgi, I’ve not seen any bullying comments? Is it the advice that’s too much? Honestly this break is definitely a good thing. You need to stay off the internet and adjust to the real world so you can finance yourself and be happier ❤
Long time viewer, but never commented. Wanted to send a message of support. It's a real tragedy what the dissociated systems online space has become over the past few years. Sending massive vibes of comfort and support.
I'd suggest leaving this page as u promote the people that bully her!!! Go away!!!! Also if anyone sees this women on other channels don't engage she promotes bullying from tiktok and systems who have bullied bobo! You have a lot of nerve coming on here!!!!
We understand - at least some of it. There are so many shtty other people. They really didn't need you to say this to them, they don't deserve it. Protect yourself in the ways you can. We have followed you but not really been in a place ourselves to offer you much support. We're sorry for that. We hope you'll do a bit better taking this break, for as long as you need. 💜
You deserve so much happiness. I will always support you and you can always reach out if need too. Maybe they will find new targets not that they destroyed the community. But Bo, these are very targeted attacks on you. It's sickening. I will keep reporting all that I see.
People can be so fucked up. I'm glad you made this a stood up for yourself. We hope you're not gone long, but we completely understand if you need to step back for a bit.
This is the first video that I have sen of yours on 03-21-2024. Sorry that this is happening to you or happened to you. For me, I believe you and am sorry that this is happening to you. I don't know what to say, but I just want you to know that a lot of out here care. Most of the people who are troubling you, are probably very sad individuals. And, that's not how most people (who probably watch your channel) are, so please, just take a rest and come back. Just don't listen to them. There are some bad apples in the bunch, but most apples are tasty, soft, and delicious.
There are some miserable evil people out there. I’m so sorry Bo. I have seen these web trolls on all kinds of pages, they love to attack people. I know it’s hard but try not to take it personally it shows their truth, not yours. I wish you all the best.😊
I hear ya Bo. You were so brave to start this channel. But honestly, unless youve been there, people just dont get it. At all. This is why we've never done a channel. I couldn't cope with the rubbish from the majority of people
Will miss you and wish you the absolute best. You are very loved, more than you are hated by the idiots. They just hide behind their screens and enjoy giving people shit... when you are on your break don't think about them, they really aren't worth it. Don't give them free rent in your head. I do hope one day you'll be back. F*ck the haters. This is YOUR space and YOU can say what YOU like. Sending much lov and positivity.
We are so very sorry. We made our own channel to give some voice to people like us, but because we don't put up a colorful freak show nobody is interested. We wanted to be authentic and talk about how it really is, but it is not needed. All people care is dramatic switches, make up and exaggerated show. You were always so authentic and real. We are so sorry you got so much hate, but know you were also loved. Please, don't forget you were also LOVED. There are people, systems included, who will miss you terribly, who would want to be your true friend, who long for someone like you in their lives. You felt like a safe space for so many, but you also have every right to do whatever you like. Just, please, don't take off your videos. They can still help somebody. Or if you feel you need to, delete them and forget about internet altogether. We will miss your content terribly, but you are the most important in all of this. Please, take care. And remember - there are countless people who would want you as a friend, who always supported you, who will miss you. You matter to so many.
To Bo&Co: I hope y'all can take the time you need to heal from all this. I hope you can become stronger in your resilience to all the negativity on the internet. I hope you can come back in a better mindset and talk only to the people that love and care for you all. A thing I learned years ago is that everyone online is just a stranger. That's it. They only know what you put out and anyone who claims otherwise isn't worth giving attention to. And by quitting you only prove that they won. You let them win. So don't. Don't let those people drag you down because they don't know shit about you and don't have that right to speak about you in that way. So ignore those. Block them, report them, don't give them any response. Those who get you and are here for you will stick by you. To those that aided in the bullying and accusations: people that pray on the disabled and less fortunate are the poorest excuse for a human and a waste of oxygen. Touch grass, get therapy and be a better person. Also get out of this community because we don't have ANY room for hate as we're too full up from trying to heal from being ABUSED. Let us heal. Let us share our journey don't be a fucking prick about it. That's all. Have a great day everyone 😊❤ happy healing.
I'm so, so sorry that you have been mistreated. I just wanted to say that I loved watching your videos, it helped me understand DID a lot more ad how it affects people. I hope you stay safe, bye!
I just cannot deal with this. There's so much love, so much support, yet evil people won. I cannot take this. I keep coming back hoping love and support had won, and there's a lot of it, Bobo & Co is so loved, yet evil has won. I don't know why I take this so hard. Our channel is not cool as this one, so why would we care? It would never happen to us. But I just keep thinking about evil people winning over love. I am devastated. I shouldn't take this personally, but this is like a symbol of world. Evil people win. They do, no matter how much love and support others offer.
She has diagnosed BPD (not DID), this is a symptomatic reaction because she feels rejected. She needs help for her diagnosis instead of being convinced of this DID stuff by social media.
Bit obsessive and ohh look nothing on education or understand or even a subscriber! Also screenshot ur comment to show others what a drama queen you are. I dont take lightly to bully. I'd suggest retracting your negative comment to someone who cares!
@@BoboCoOfficialmake sure to screen shot everyone's hateful comments and get ahold of me I'd love to show the impact these people have done and why! This has to stop! When you feel better, And stay strong!
Bo, I completely understand you wanting to not make any content or stepping back. And you need to do what's best for you, but I just want you to know that I have been a long time viewer and that I've always seen you as a little sister because you're the same age as one of my younger sisters and I also have my own mental health issues that I deal with, not as serious as yours. But I do struggle with my own mental health. And I just want to let you know that you are important and that you are a spark in the darkness now. That spark will always be a light for someone who can't find their way out. Know that you matter and don't let these ugly disgusting people online bring you down. And if what you need to do is take a step back for however, long, even if it's indefinitely, you go ahead and do what's best for you, but I just want to let you know that you are loved and appreciated with how you shared your experiences with your mental health, and your struggles. So keep your head up. And I hope that you gain the peace and stability that you absolutely deserve.
You're loved. The internet is full of mean, mean people. There are people who appreciate your rawness and it kills me that you're getting bullied like this.
I don’t think you’ll regret taking space away from the internet. Sharing your story, difficult parts and all, has helped people. But now it’s time to look after you.
I wish the world was good enough to deserve your authenticity. It isn’t yet. That’s what makes you so powerful - you’re sharing reality, which makes insecure people feel vulnerable. That’s no real comfort, I know. You deserve better.
I hope you feel safe to be with yourself, in your body. If you don’t feel safe, I hope you feel comfortable reaching out to your support system, your crisis lines. I’m sending you my love. If there’s anything I can do to help, let me know.
It feels so trite to say, “if there’s anything I can do, let me know” to an internet stranger. But if I can help, I will. And if I can’t, I just want you to know, you deserve the good things that will come to you in your time away from TH-cam. And you deserve solace, love, and peace.
You will be missed. Please take care of yourself and know that some of us love you. ❤
Fuck. That was heartbreaking to watch.
I`m worreid about you and hope you´re as safe as you can be given the circumstances right now.
Your videos have helped me a lot in understanding a bit more about DID, the british social security system and your daily struggles and kept me company while I was in the darkest of places.
Thank you for all the time and energy you invested to try and make the world a more accepting place, thank you for being you.
I will miss you, but also totally understand that you need to take a break or even stop entirely.
Hugs, Tony
Thinking of you all. Take the time to look after yourselves. You don't deserve any of this shit x
I hope y’all feel better sooner rather than later. Being disabled is so rough both online and irl. I know it seems silly but try to reach out. There ARE groups and individuals that will help you. Those who are cruel will always try to pull others down with them.
Sending love from one disabled person to another
Oh my dear….i only just found you so I don’t know the whole story, but this video broke my heart. The internet can be a toxic place, even for people with good mental health, let alone for people with mental health conditions. Vulnerable people should be protected, not victimised (what is wrong with people, that they would do such harm?). I hope you have all the help you need. I hope you have a whole support system of friends, therapists and caregivers. I know that is sadly not always the case.
Be strong. Know that you are a survivor. You are already a good-enough human. You are worth so much more than this. And you have a future. Beyond this, better than this.
Wishing you love and solace, one human to another
As an patient with DID diagnosed, I can say you are real, I understand your struggles, just wish you don´t let those people hurt you with their affirmations, most of them doesn´t understand what it is to live a life that isn´t yours only and truly, most of them saw the "Systems" who aren´t real patients and now they say that everyone is fake. Because of this I never said I am a system , I always say I am a patient of DID. Now it´s really difficult for the real people who has DID. Because there is a lot of fakers around. I know you are not a faker. You are just another patient who needs help.
Clearly we didnt make iy known big enough that WE ARE diagnosed! They changed our janky ass dx to "DID" over a year ago..
I’m sorry you’ve gone through so much of this crap. I hope that stepping away gives you the peace you are hoping for. Much love!
Imo you’re one of the most wholesome TH-camrs I’ve come across, and I’ll miss you and your videos, but ofc, your mental health comes first and you do what you need to do.
I hope that you gain something helpful and positive from whatever you choose to do from (and) now onwards. ❤️
I'm sorry there are so many cruel people in the world. Take the time you need, even if you never come back. I hope you do, but understand if you don't. My SIL has DID and my late mother and aunt as well. It's an awful thing to have to live with. You and other channels have really helped me to empathize with them and how to interact with them, especially the littles. YOU ARE ENOUGH!!
You are loved. Please take a break as long as you need. If you choose to return we all will be waiting for you.
Rule number 1 on the internet: don't feed the trolls. Don't react to people who are only here to annoy you or spread a bad mood. But always remain open to constructive criticism. I hope you get better soon.
It's easy to say but imagine reading 100s of hateful messages everyday. It would make you think that everyone feels that way.
@@JesusLightsYourPath Yes, I understand what you mean. But thank God she doesn't just get only bad ones, she also got lots of good ones. I estimate it's 60% good, 20% neutral, 10% critical (constructive but unfortunately also very harsh ones) and 10% hateful garbage. Unfortunately, people remember the bad ones the most. But in your example, 100 bad messages (10%) also mean 600 good :), 200 neutral and 100 critical. I always try to think positive, sometime it helps.
Uhhh i feel you 💔 I watched a couple of your videos the other day. They were comforting to me. You're very calming. I thought i would come watch you again. I just had a flashback, and something brought me here to you. It takes so much courage to put yourself out there and be open. Some people seem to be threatened by that. Keep being you 🩷 and thank you for sharing your experiences. The good and the bad. They all matter. You matter.
I'm a skin picker/scratcher too. It really flares up when im stressed.
The pain from trauma is very real. And we shouldn't have to hide it anymore. Or do this all alone. Bullies are like the abusers from the past. Its very triggering. But once i categorised them as such. I can take everything they say as BS. Who wants to break people down? Not a kind person. Thats for sure.
❤️ please take care of yourself and we’ll miss you. Your realness is why we’re here but your own health is so much more important
People are so fucked. It happens to me too girl there’s people out there who were born and nothing happened in their lives they stared at a beige wall or something and because of that they think other people haven’t had real life experiences so they call everything fake. They’re just miserable empty boring people please don’t let them get to you. There’s a reason they are trying to bring you down, they are already beneath you. I’m proud of you for making this video. People need to hear this. They really need to hear it.
You are one of my favorite people to watch, I will miss you.
Same
Take care of yourself. I do wish you came back some day, but you do what is best for you. For the time being, we have your old videos to watch.
You don't deserve abuse. I'm sorry this has happened. Wishing you peace and safety
@@WillowReborn Implying others are faking does not validate you. Your experience doesn't score points. You don't get respect or sympathy by putting others down. The complexities of feelings around diagnosis are YOUR responsibility to deal with, not something for you to project onto others.
I feel for you Bo (and all of you/s). The Internet is full of evilness from people who are so empty inside they want to get their boots filled to make themselves feel better about their own sadness inside. Its awful. We've followed you guy's since 2019 since we bacame self-aware and then got diagnosed in 2021. We're 39 this year. You're very much like us, well like me anyway, in that you wear your heart on your sleeve and are honest about your feelings and emotions. Unfortunately in this world that leaves you open to attack from the nasty people out there intent on making others as miserable as possible. Dont let them. Take your time away and concentrate on YOU/S...and if you ever do return, you'll have one (that is more than one) fan here waiting with open arms. Love to you all. All@ chezvegassystem❤
the internet sucks so badly, with all the misinfo and bullying. your channel has ben inspiring me a lot, but im not sure I'll ever have your courage to start a youtube channel myself. I've expressed in previous comments how good it has been for me to watch your videos, and over the past few days it has not changed. You dont censor yourself for fear of harrassment, and you show a real side of life that many are able to ignore - dont see it, it doesnt exist - but this channel shows it regardless of people's lack of understanding, which I admire so much. Hope youre well
I'm sorry I didn't speak up earlier and tell you how appreciated you are, I understand though that the negative energy is overwhelming and you definitely deserve a break from it.
Thank you for putting yourself out there as much as you did, wishing you all the best ❤❤❤
Oh Noooooo Bo my god I'm so sorry this has happened to you guys! I love your videos, All of Them! You made me feel like a better person for seeing you online struggling like we do. F@#k everyone who has Ever sent hate to this channel!!! It was my lifeline an you sick twisted bastards have bullied my Bobo to the point where she doesn't even want to go on with this ultra fuckin cool blog an I wish Full Karma on anyone who has hurt Bo or continues to hurt Bo or any other mentally and physically disabled HUMAN BEING!!!
Bo I adore you, always have and always will. Please take care of yourselves and know that there are people out that care about you deeply and wish nothing but the best for you. You will be more than missed, you are irreplaceable and I hope (oh I hope 🙏) that we see your beautiful face back here real soon ✌️❤️
I'm sorry to hear that people have been so awful to you. It really sucks and you don't deserve it. I hope you feel better for leaving it behind and thank you for your authenticity and rawness cause it helps a lot of people. Wishing you the best
Thinking about you. You deserve all the love and acceptance in the worl. You are awesome. Your content is sincere, raw and just ... human. We love your channel and wish you all the best whatever you choose. But please know that you are awesome and we'll be happy to see more of your brilliant commentary on everything. P.S. They didn't win, they have all the money, stuff, popularity, but they don't have what really matters - being authentic, having intergrity. I know that doesn't pay your bills but it sure as hell fundamental for being happy and loving yourself. We love you Bobo&co!
I’m going to miss the hell out of you. But I get it on one tiny level. I’m not disabled enough for the government (my dad was the one who got me on SSI) and at the exact self same time I am both too disabled and not disabled enough for society.
I’m so sorry that you’ve been put through this. Do what you need to do ❤
You deserved a better behavior.
Please keep taking care of yourself away from the negativity. Wishing you the best
Im so sorry your going through this. Im playing catch up as ive just found your channel so im 2 years behind on videos but couldn't not comment.
Bullying is not right anywhere and especially with those with mental health or disabilities. Infact its the worst type of person who bullies those more fragile.
Nobody has the right to hide behind a keyboard and comment about something they know nothing about. But its exactly that anonymity that gives them the confidence and place to be mean and spiteful.
Please take care and get strong and healthy away from the negativity. You deserve so much to be at peace. Look after yourself xxx
we are so sorry people have been so unkind to you online. we have always really appreciated your honesty and felt comforted when we can relate to your experiences and we will miss you but it does sound like it is best you have some time away to jus focus on yourself. you shouldn't have to explain yourself to ignorant people in your comments section. we still would like to support you and continue being a member of your channel if you still get the money even if you're not posting? let us know if we can still support you this way. thinking of you and sending you love
Thankyou so much for being a member 😭 we appreciate you 🩷🩷
Oh, I’m so sorry you’re going through this, love. I have watched your channel sporadically over the years since I first heard what DID was/is, and in my curiosity to learn more about the disorder, I found your channel (among others, but yours always stood out & was a favorite). Although I usually never comment much (on most channels I watch, in general, because I like to concentrate on the topic at hand & can’t listen as well whenever I’m typing out a thought), I wanted to comment on this video, and I hope you’re able to read through the comments when you feel well enough to again in the future. You will be greatly missed, but I completely understand why you need to take this time away for yourselves, and I truly hope you all are able to heal as much as you can from this. Please know that regardless of all of the BS that has followed you & the DID community over the years that you HAVE made a difference; You HAVE left your mark on this world; And you HAVE helped more people than you’ll ever realize. I, myself, do not have DID, but I do have trauma that stems from childhood issues, among other mental health issues from that, and you have helped me understand so much more about myself, why I am the way I am, and why I do some of the things I do, and I know you’ve don’t the same thing repeatedly for so many others as well. You ARE a beacon of light in such a dark world, and that is why there are some people trying to dim your light-they are perfectly happy & content in their own misery, and they think everyone else should be too. Some people don’t want to see some people get better or progress in any way, and constantly want to try & keep them down. Once they are down, they try to repeatedly keep kïçkïng them while already down so that they’ll stay down. But I have no doubt you will get back up again, and if you have to do so away from the Internet, then so be it. At the end of the day, your mental, emotional & physical health & well-being are more important. I wish nothing but the absolute best going forward, and I wish you the happiness & healing you so deserve. The people who know & see your true, authentic character will always be here if or when you ever decide to come back. 🖤
I will miss hearing from you. I hope you take care of yourself as best you can. Hugs
It seems to be a massive trend at the moment for people to fake claim people with disabilities or whatever experiences anyone is open about having online. I wish people would understand how much damage they do with this behaviour. Nobody knows what another person is experiencing in their life and there is so, so much that a short video once in a while won't show about the reality that person lives 24/7, but people make assumptions and put actions behind those assumptions that can ruin someone's life. It's unforgivable.
I'm sorry for how much you have been hurt by these people Bo. I will miss seeing your videos and it worries me that I won't know if you're OK or not through seeing you post, but I think it may be the right decision unfortunately. I know that I wouldn't be able to put myself out there publicly because I'm too vulnerable to what people say too. The sad fact is that the Internet isn't a safe place for people like us - those who have anything that can be easily targeted or criticised or any medical conditions or difficult life circumstances. There are plenty of caring, supportive people, but unless you find a forum that polices members carefully then there's nothing to keep the space safe...and if you do find a forum that's members only, it will develop in-fighting and internal politics that will make it no longer safe for certain members sooner or later anyway, which can hurt even more. You know all this too well, and I'm sorry you do
Holy shit, I am so sorry you are being bullied. I understand and I am not angry that you're taking an indefinite break from content creation. I'm just sad that you've been bullied offline. I too have experienced the "looking at you, you're clearly not having THAT hard of a time" while no one knew it was masking. Being dismissed because whomever was fronting with the HCP was trying their best to prevent the body from breaking down and crying uncontrollably.
I don't think anyone truly understand how hard medical stuff is with DID until they experience it themselves. When your doctors don't believe the pain you're in but then do scans and they're like "holy f*%ing crap! how are you not screaming?" and I'm like "yeah that's why I had the seizure and went unconscious. I was trying to hold the pain in without disturbing the whole ER." The mind body disconnect makes people not believe us and I hate the dismissal of my symptoms. Trying to balance keeping composure in a hospital but holding back terror and tears and the urge to crawl into a corner because of trauma you experienced in the hospital before. There are some alters who are better at ignoring pain than others, and that leads to problems with healthcare.
This shit isn't fun. It's not fucking glamorous and honestly I hate that there are certain content creators that make a circus show out of alters. We didn't sign up to be an entertainer and we have actively chosen to not make public content out of fear of bullying. Your bravery to show what DID is like showing your face... is beyond words that I can express. I do not have the courage to be a public face of DID.
Thank you for everything you've done and I hope people can develop some empathy and compassion and stop bullying you. Best wishes and all our love.
Idgi, I’ve not seen any bullying comments? Is it the advice that’s too much? Honestly this break is definitely a good thing. You need to stay off the internet and adjust to the real world so you can finance yourself and be happier ❤
Theyve all been reported and removed.
Long time viewer, but never commented. Wanted to send a message of support. It's a real tragedy what the dissociated systems online space has become over the past few years. Sending massive vibes of comfort and support.
I'd suggest leaving this page as u promote the people that bully her!!! Go away!!!! Also if anyone sees this women on other channels don't engage she promotes bullying from tiktok and systems who have bullied bobo! You have a lot of nerve coming on here!!!!
We understand - at least some of it. There are so many shtty other people. They really didn't need you to say this to them, they don't deserve it. Protect yourself in the ways you can. We have followed you but not really been in a place ourselves to offer you much support. We're sorry for that. We hope you'll do a bit better taking this break, for as long as you need. 💜
I'm sorry you've faced such negativity online :( Take care ♡
You deserve so much happiness. I will always support you and you can always reach out if need too.
Maybe they will find new targets not that they destroyed the community.
But Bo, these are very targeted attacks on you. It's sickening. I will keep reporting all that I see.
Why the fuck in modern society should people feel like this, this young lady among other people deserve help. This country is a fucking joke
Im so sorry people have made you feel this way 😢
People can be so fucked up. I'm glad you made this a stood up for yourself. We hope you're not gone long, but we completely understand if you need to step back for a bit.
This is the first video that I have sen of yours on 03-21-2024. Sorry that this is happening to you or happened to you. For me, I believe you and am sorry that this is happening to you. I don't know what to say, but I just want you to know that a lot of out here care. Most of the people who are troubling you, are probably very sad individuals. And, that's not how most people (who probably watch your channel) are, so please, just take a rest and come back. Just don't listen to them. There are some bad apples in the bunch, but most apples are tasty, soft, and delicious.
Please stay safe. You are loved and cared for.
There are some miserable evil people out there. I’m so sorry Bo. I have seen these web trolls on all kinds of pages, they love to attack people. I know it’s hard but try not to take it personally it shows their truth, not yours. I wish you all the best.😊
I hear ya Bo. You were so brave to start this channel. But honestly, unless youve been there, people just dont get it. At all.
This is why we've never done a channel. I couldn't cope with the rubbish from the majority of people
Will miss you and wish you the absolute best. You are very loved, more than you are hated by the idiots. They just hide behind their screens and enjoy giving people shit... when you are on your break don't think about them, they really aren't worth it. Don't give them free rent in your head. I do hope one day you'll be back. F*ck the haters. This is YOUR space and YOU can say what YOU like. Sending much lov and positivity.
We are so very sorry. We made our own channel to give some voice to people like us, but because we don't put up a colorful freak show nobody is interested. We wanted to be authentic and talk about how it really is, but it is not needed. All people care is dramatic switches, make up and exaggerated show. You were always so authentic and real. We are so sorry you got so much hate, but know you were also loved. Please, don't forget you were also LOVED. There are people, systems included, who will miss you terribly, who would want to be your true friend, who long for someone like you in their lives. You felt like a safe space for so many, but you also have every right to do whatever you like. Just, please, don't take off your videos. They can still help somebody. Or if you feel you need to, delete them and forget about internet altogether. We will miss your content terribly, but you are the most important in all of this. Please, take care.
And remember - there are countless people who would want you as a friend, who always supported you, who will miss you. You matter to so many.
❤❤❤❤❤
To Bo&Co: I hope y'all can take the time you need to heal from all this. I hope you can become stronger in your resilience to all the negativity on the internet. I hope you can come back in a better mindset and talk only to the people that love and care for you all. A thing I learned years ago is that everyone online is just a stranger. That's it. They only know what you put out and anyone who claims otherwise isn't worth giving attention to. And by quitting you only prove that they won. You let them win. So don't. Don't let those people drag you down because they don't know shit about you and don't have that right to speak about you in that way. So ignore those. Block them, report them, don't give them any response. Those who get you and are here for you will stick by you.
To those that aided in the bullying and accusations: people that pray on the disabled and less fortunate are the poorest excuse for a human and a waste of oxygen. Touch grass, get therapy and be a better person. Also get out of this community because we don't have ANY room for hate as we're too full up from trying to heal from being ABUSED. Let us heal. Let us share our journey don't be a fucking prick about it. That's all. Have a great day everyone 😊❤ happy healing.
Sending you love, I'm hoping you find your way
Hugs.
Your health, mental and physical is more important than any channel. I'll be here if/ when you return.
I hope one day you can come back and a lot of people are too ignorant to try to understand please to take care of yourselves.
I'm so, so sorry that you have been mistreated. I just wanted to say that I loved watching your videos, it helped me understand DID a lot more ad how it affects people. I hope you stay safe, bye!
Please don't go...
❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤ You are strong. You will rise. ❤❤❤❤❤❤❤❤
No public forum is a safe place
The point just went over your head
Thats not an excuse to be abusive or an arsehole to anyone
@@allie54774 never said it was
@@francineleahy nah. I'm allowed to reply to just one small point, while still comprehending the greater message.
@@Elizabeth-qh9lp Is your message 'get over it.' Because that's how it comes across. As 'life isn't fair.' And you shouldn't talk it people like that.
Much love
I went you to stay 0:59
I just cannot deal with this. There's so much love, so much support, yet evil people won. I cannot take this. I keep coming back hoping love and support had won, and there's a lot of it, Bobo & Co is so loved, yet evil has won. I don't know why I take this so hard. Our channel is not cool as this one, so why would we care? It would never happen to us. But I just keep thinking about evil people winning over love. I am devastated. I shouldn't take this personally, but this is like a symbol of world. Evil people win. They do, no matter how much love and support others offer.
Bit dramatic
She has diagnosed BPD (not DID), this is a symptomatic reaction because she feels rejected. She needs help for her diagnosis instead of being convinced of this DID stuff by social media.
I have been diagnosed with DID
Bit obsessive and ohh look nothing on education or understand or even a subscriber! Also screenshot ur comment to show others what a drama queen you are. I dont take lightly to bully. I'd suggest retracting your negative comment to someone who cares!
@@BoboCoOfficialmake sure to screen shot everyone's hateful comments and get ahold of me I'd love to show the impact these people have done and why! This has to stop! When you feel better, And stay strong!
Bo, I completely understand you wanting to not make any content or stepping back. And you need to do what's best for you, but I just want you to know that I have been a long time viewer and that I've always seen you as a little sister because you're the same age as one of my younger sisters and I also have my own mental health issues that I deal with, not as serious as yours. But I do struggle with my own mental health. And I just want to let you know that you are important and that you are a spark in the darkness now. That spark will always be a light for someone who can't find their way out. Know that you matter and don't let these ugly disgusting people online bring you down. And if what you need to do is take a step back for however, long, even if it's indefinitely, you go ahead and do what's best for you, but I just want to let you know that you are loved and appreciated with how you shared your experiences with your mental health, and your struggles. So keep your head up. And I hope that you gain the peace and stability that you absolutely deserve.