Though she looks wonderful to have as a nanny I can't help watch this and think these are all the things that years from now as a parent you will remember the most yet a nanny is doing them and not a parent.
I see a few negative replies, and now that I own a small family child care, I have to agree that if your child is very young (like an infant), and you want them to have one on one attention while your working HIRE A NANNY. Don't expect your baby to be in a house full of 6 kids under age three, and get ALL the attention they need (or the best). Daycare is not evil, and it's also beneficial to children to be around others and learn to be polite to one another, and share and to learn they must wait their turn. But from what I've seen and what I know about child development, I think daycare is best on a part time basis and best after the child is more of a toddler. Once the child is in preschool, or even school age then I think they benefit greatly from daycare because they naturally are more social in this developmental stage...In my area schools have after school programs. Depending on the program the children may look forward to the more "play like" time with friends. I also have to agree that in a perfect world, every family would have a nanny, especially if the child is newborn, to have some help with the practical things like cooking and laundry, or to get a short break to be able to shower or do whatever other self care is needed. I think it's quite unhealthy for a mother to do it all 24/7. We are tribal by nature. And for goodness sake, if you're able and your heart's in it, stay home as long as you can after your child is born. They need you more than they need money and things.
@@bmbutler2 but traditionally we didn't need nannies because this was what neighbors did for each other. When the mother was having trouble or needed rest a friend from the community would step in. Foe the first few weeks after birth the community would happily help her prepare meals so she could get her strength back. Westernized life is nice but I think we need to get back that community spirit.
@@bmbutler2 If the mother has an important job, why not have a nanny? As long as you keep them long-term that's not going to hurt the child one bit, they have a primary caregiver that looks after them during the day and mothers don't lose really good job opportunities for the few years in their life a child actually needs full attention... It's also telling that you think that the primary caregiver for a child must automatically be a woman...
@@nicolataylor6011 She could be the main breadwinner of the family and a single mother. Unfortunately, for the baby to have a freaking life, mother needs to work.
I'm 43, I wish I was 5 again just so I could have one of these fun nannies. If I ever end up with step kids I hope we can afford one of these wonderful nannies because they go through insane training. Just knowing that if they get someone being aggressive they know how to handle themselves puts me at ease and I don't even have kids let alone a boyfriend with kids
This video is everything as to why I enjoy being a nanny/babysitter so much!!! It truly is such a rewarding job, and super special when the kids are happy to see you and when you get to see them learn and grow!!!
Her description of things sounds wonderful but I sort of wonder with all that she does what is left for the mom/ parents to do to really connect with their child
The students get the best trading at Norland college that covers all aspects of child care gives the students so many opportunities well done to all the students there and there tutors❤️
I'm a nanny and one day, if I'll be a mother, I will never ever leave my child in a daycare. I put all my efforts toward the child I'm raising to the point that I'm exausted in the evening. When I'll be a mother I will probably transition to childminding. Some mothers can't stay with their children because they get bored. I don't judge and I appreciate their honesty. A mother is a human being too.
I'm a mother and doing all the work that was described in the nanny video. I'm not trained in any special school or graduate from any college. I make so many mistakes and I learn from them. No one pays me a dollar or salary for looking after 4 children. There is no off day, no break, no MC, 24/7. I have been staying home for 12 years with my 2 boys and a set of twins girls. I look after them all by myself, with no other help. My husband helps out after his work daily. I realise this is my role and responsibility as a mother. This is the greatest job I can do. Good for those who can afford a nanny or extra help. It's really nice to have extra pairs of hands. It has been very very difficult for me. By the grace of God, we pull through the last 12 years. My 5th child is coming on the way.
God bless you. Please, I don’t know you, but don't feel like you can't ask friends for help with the odd shopping trip, meal for the freezer or to use sleepovers with trusted friends to ease the early months. Be as specific as you can in what you ask. You'll be blessed and allow others to feel useful!
Alfred Adler said if you have one person in your life who loves and cares for you your life will be greater. He worked with children after the war during his time who had lost everything. Having a nanny from Norland are the worlds best. And they love their Career. Not all mothers can stay home a care for their children.
Anne Vanderlaan.I don't thing Alfred Adler said 'greater'...wasn't it more to the effect that a kid can make it thru nearly anything if he has even just One person in the world who cares and is There for him...?
I wish this place was in Australia...I totally would have thought of going after leaving school if it had been here. Sounds amazing. Weird Q...I really like the style of the uniform, any tips on getting similar pieces for the public?
Pink Magic Ali - You could buy similar clothing, though a bit more glam from Vivian of Holloway, (their tea dresses are very similar) Heyday and Seamstress of Bloomsbury. And for cheaper more modern mixes with retro - Lindy bop and Collectif.
This is the most fascinating awesome college I must say I watched the documentary on it and I never knew it existed and I think even parents should have schools like this 🤓
@Jason and Julie Smith first off I do agree in today's society expectations of mothers to be the perfect mom and to be able to work is extremely difficult. I also understand that having a nanny is there to help. However whether intended or not the duties of which these nannies undertake make the nanny to become a surrogate mother to the child. Between the household chores such as washing the child's laundry to cooking, waking the child up to making the childs dinner, to spending most of its time teaching and playing with one specific adult; that essentially causes the nanny to assume the mothering role. In a larger setting such as a nursery there is not primary caregiver to one child and there no one become a mother to any of the children. Moreover as you mentioned history, historically within the poorer classes of history a child would be working with its mother's either in the fields or later earning money in factories. A child was considered to be there to help improve the economy of it family. The middle classes and upper classes did employ nannies however it was to the assumption that children were be seen but not heard. Of course there is a historical debate of whether children prior to last century were a product of duty or affection and I can send you some authors to read if choose to. Lastly you can be invested in your childs life without assigning the role to another yes parents need to work to support there children but there is difference between becoming a substitute mother to these children and a caregiver who looks after a child in there absence. A balance which does not appear to be adhered to here.
@Jason and Julie Smith first I am not insecure or bitter about motherhood. Secondly I made one comment of which I said the roles of which these nannies were to basically to become like mothers and to assume that role from both this video as well as another video I had watched which was the two hour documentary which showed the institution and training of these nannies. You say I am judgemental, uneducated and insecure because of this but you are the one who feels the need to not only aggressively try analyse me and therefore judge me as bitter and insecure but also write exceeding long speeches that are supposedly not jugemental? The roles of these women are to effectively to become the parents and caregiver to the child while the actual parent is absent. That is the duty of a nanny. The success and attachment of this between the child nanny and the parents and is dependant upon the dynamics each individual family. I used the term mother as those who were vastly attending the institution were women not because I believe that men are incapable of chores or that it is not there place. Now judging by the response in which you have wrote I think personally you need to see someone about your anger issues as I worry about how you react if anyone personally challenge your view. I personally believe when a child is surrounded by other children is a similar environment boundaries are not crossed nor is there a confusion in the roles for the child. Moreover when a child no longer cries when being dropped off nursery is a moment of pride for the child is growing not sorrow although it is perfectly normal to have a MOMENT of sadness that you no longer essential in that role. I wish you luck in future and hope that you realise that just because someone has a different opinion to you does not make it necessary for you be derogatory towards them. I hope that if you are in the position of looking after children that you are better than that. Best wishes.
@Jason and Julie Smith what I take as hostile behaviour is you simply insulting me because I have a different opinion to you. I understand why you believe that in YOUR opinion having a personalised nanny is better for the child. I understand that it can in some respects create stability in the home and the additional help can be beneficial to child. I also understand that the bond formed between parent and child and nanny are different depending upon the situations. What I dislike about the arrangement is that depending on the level of involvement of the nanny in the child's life this can create confusion for the child. Of course this also depends upon the parents of the child as well. In addition if the child spends the majority of there time with one adult who fulfills a parental role then in some respects they become akin to parents. I also acknowledge that the benefits between having a personalised nanny or sending a child to daycare is widely debated both between parents and academics. Moreover both family and friends who are fully trained nursery staff who are trained to look after children from a 1 day old till 18 including children with special needs. We had debates between ourselves of what we thought was better for a child's development and despite different qualified members having differing opinions not once did we feel it necessary to insult one another for having that difference of opinion. Lasly I strongly suggest you speak to someone about your insecurities with someone simply having a difference of opinion to you as throughout this whole discussion you have insulted and patronised me simply because I did not agree with you. Despite this not once have I suggested you should not have kids or named called against you. I am personally worried if you are looking after kids by not only your aggressive behaviour but also by how you respond to being disagreed with. By the way I have a degree and a master's I am not uneducated nor am I a victim i simply differ in opinion to you. I hope you get the support you need.
This is what I want to do. What exactly does anybody recommend (GCSEs and A-levels, childcare courses for example) to get into the college with my age in mind (13). Would baby sitting courses be useful?
As long as you have 5 GCSE's or equivalent qualifications/ie level 2's (with at least a grade 4 in English and Maths), and 96 UCAS points then you can send them an application, so don't worry about what course exactly to do! Although they do expect you to have *some* experience looking after children it doesn't need to be a huge amount so don't worry x
I am interested in going into childcare or even becoming a therapist for children. Could Norland College help me do this, or does it only train nannies?
Hi Fleur, our graduates have many amazing career opportunities working with children and families. Have a look through some of our case studies here: www.norland.ac.uk/college/careers
Hi Isabella, no they don't and that's a common misconception. Students are required to wear their formal uniform during degree lectures and a practical uniform during diploma classes and during placements. They are not expected to wear either uniform once they've become a Norland Nanny.
Norland College great thank you for getting back, I am coming to the open day in November so will look forward to learning more about Norland College:)
Ist der kleine Junge immer nur mit seiner Nanny zusammen oder besucht er auch einen Kindergarten ? Kinder brauchen Kinder für ihre Entwicklung. Das können Erwachsene nicht leisten bzw. ersetzen, auch wenn ihre Ausbildung noch so fundiert und erstklassig ist. Mein Mann und ich waren immer berufstätig ( Vollzeitjob in der Sozialarbeit im kirchlichen Dienst ) und haben 2 Söhne groß gezogen. Beide Jungen sind in den Kindergarten gegangen und erzählen noch heute gern von dieser Zeit. Im Haushalt haben alle mit angefasst. Auch die Kinder hatten, als sie dazu in der Lage waren, ihre Aufgaben. Dadurch hatten wir tägliche gemeinsame Stunden zum Spielen und Kuscheln.
If professional parents give up their careers, then what? Well, it could mean complete loss of position within their profession - eg law, medicine, plus many other implications. I feel sure Norland practitioners who are highly trained in all aspects of childcare provide the very best care and education, safely within the boundaries and knowledge that the children are NOT theirs. Trustees of the parents’ most valuable assets
Such a shame that mums must work these days to pay for life and childcare. The baby/child loses and so does the mum when society insists that we must be working mothers just to pay for a basic life. Sad. RESPECT to ALL MOTHERS who make the best choices they can for their beloved children.
You need to work very hard and get good exam results. Get as much experience as you can with working with children. Girlguiding, Scouts, private nurseries, school nurseries and early years education are all areas that would benefit you. Get yourself out there and build a portfolio of experience. You don’t need years of experience but you need to show a keen interest and be a cut above the other applicants. Standards are high and they are looking for future representatives of Norland. I wish you every success.
No doubt that this young woman is great at her job. But with regards to psychology and the development of symbiose between the mother and child, it does not make sense. There is a reason we bond with the mother completely for about a year, and then the bond is slowly broken in a way that is safe for a child. Nothing can replace that. Then the nanny would be the mommy. And the mother would feel that and have ambivalent feelings towards the woman caring for her child. I would consider a nanny, if I had the dosh, but only around 2 years of age and up. Otherwise - if the child is younger- house help and the occasional help with feeding, changing and so forth. I know it is faux pas to say this- and women are constantly being told what to do and what not to do. But this is based on many types of research in child development. There are also differences- huge- in the said mother and child. Some women hate staying home so much- usually if they have a great job waiting for them. It can lonely and exhausting o be alone with a child.
@@stoneroses3493 you are trolling a bit of misinformation. they are also the children of celebrities. Most politicians want their children to be seen to show they are family-oriented “family values.”
They’re there on weekends or in evenings. Many parents have jobs that require them to be away. You use doctors don’t you? And I’m sure you’d like doctors to continue having babies so that there’s enough smart people who can continue to be doctors. Other professions also require long hours - lawyers, bankers, traders, etc. Not everyone can have flexibility in their job unfortunately. And it’s best not to shame them as I’m sure you’ll find that you need these people from time to time, so you have an interest in them doing their job.
No they go to the Collage to learn how to become a professional Nannie but some will take care of children with special needs it just depends what families they end up working with.
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Though she looks wonderful to have as a nanny I can't help watch this and think these are all the things that years from now as a parent you will remember the most yet a nanny is doing them and not a parent.
True but it's what happens when parents need to work long hours.
@@kaitlyncleary3424 these nannies are payed such high salaries no way in the world do 2 parents need to work at all...
Agreed like it is incredible how the parents should be doing this
@@kaitlyncleary3424 then that wouldn't be a nanny that would be a babysitter. A nanny is definitely a term that replaces a parent
Really Weird to have kids then give up the nicest years to a stranger! From 11 or 12 years...now that makes sense.
I see a few negative replies, and now that I own a small family child care, I have to agree that if your child is very young (like an infant), and you want them to have one on one attention while your working HIRE A NANNY.
Don't expect your baby to be in a house full of 6 kids under age three, and get ALL the attention they need (or the best).
Daycare is not evil, and it's also beneficial to children to be around others and learn to be polite to one another, and share and to learn they must wait their turn. But from what I've seen and what I know about child development, I think daycare is best on a part time basis and best after the child is more of a toddler.
Once the child is in preschool, or even school age then I think they benefit greatly from daycare because they naturally are more social in this developmental stage...In my area schools have after school programs. Depending on the program the children may look forward to the more "play like" time with friends.
I also have to agree that in a perfect world, every family would have a nanny, especially if the child is newborn, to have some help with the practical things like cooking and laundry, or to get a short break to be able to shower or do whatever other self care is needed. I think it's quite unhealthy for a mother to do it all 24/7. We are tribal by nature.
And for goodness sake, if you're able and your heart's in it, stay home as long as you can after your child is born. They need you more than they need money and things.
But then you could solve all the problems by the mother doing her job
@@bmbutler2 but traditionally we didn't need nannies because this was what neighbors did for each other. When the mother was having trouble or needed rest a friend from the community would step in. Foe the first few weeks after birth the community would happily help her prepare meals so she could get her strength back. Westernized life is nice but I think we need to get back that community spirit.
@@bmbutler2 If the mother has an important job, why not have a nanny? As long as you keep them long-term that's not going to hurt the child one bit, they have a primary caregiver that looks after them during the day and mothers don't lose really good job opportunities for the few years in their life a child actually needs full attention... It's also telling that you think that the primary caregiver for a child must automatically be a woman...
@@kathrinlindern2697 No job on earth that is more important than being a mother
@@nicolataylor6011 She could be the main breadwinner of the family and a single mother. Unfortunately, for the baby to have a freaking life, mother needs to work.
She basically raises him.
I’ve researched this college quite a bit, and if they accepted non-EU students I would be applying! Such an awesome program.
Norland accepts international students
I honestly have had some wavering interest in going to Norland college...but it really sounds wonderful...maybe I'll have a look!
That's great! You can order a prospectus here: www.norland.ac.uk/college/prospectus
I'm 43, I wish I was 5 again just so I could have one of these fun nannies. If I ever end up with step kids I hope we can afford one of these wonderful nannies because they go through insane training. Just knowing that if they get someone being aggressive they know how to handle themselves puts me at ease and I don't even have kids let alone a boyfriend with kids
This video is everything as to why I enjoy being a nanny/babysitter so much!!! It truly is such a rewarding job, and super special when the kids are happy to see you and when you get to see them learn and grow!!!
All the best Chloe you are doing a wonderful job!
Her description of things sounds wonderful but I sort of wonder with all that she does what is left for the mom/ parents to do to really connect with their child
The students get the best trading at Norland college that covers all aspects of child care gives the students so many opportunities well done to all the students there and there tutors❤️
I remember seeing a short doco on it, they also teach martial arts and how to defend charges, right?
Lovely sweet boy and his nanny
I'm a nanny and one day, if I'll be a mother, I will never ever leave my child in a daycare. I put all my efforts toward the child I'm raising to the point that I'm exausted in the evening. When I'll be a mother I will probably transition to childminding. Some mothers can't stay with their children because they get bored. I don't judge and I appreciate their honesty. A mother is a human being too.
Being a stay at home mother that is quite exhausted in the evenings, I love your comment. My children are aged 7,4,2 and twin babies.
the boy, such a sweetheart
I was a nanny and have many happy memories of the children I cared for. I loved the freedom of flexibility with schedule and etc.
God Almighty bless kind nannies . I loved Norland training video on TH-cam
I'm a mother and doing all the work that was described in the nanny video. I'm not trained in any special school or graduate from any college. I make so many mistakes and I learn from them. No one pays me a dollar or salary for looking after 4 children. There is no off day, no break, no MC, 24/7. I have been staying home for 12 years with my 2 boys and a set of twins girls. I look after them all by myself, with no other help. My husband helps out after his work daily. I realise this is my role and responsibility as a mother. This is the greatest job I can do. Good for those who can afford a nanny or extra help. It's really nice to have extra pairs of hands. It has been very very difficult for me. By the grace of God, we pull through the last 12 years. My 5th child is coming on the way.
God bless you. Please, I don’t know you, but don't feel like you can't ask friends for help with the odd shopping trip, meal for the freezer or to use sleepovers with trusted friends to ease the early months. Be as specific as you can in what you ask. You'll be blessed and allow others to feel useful!
well does your partner or husband help?
@@electraheart7745 They provide the food and the house
After watching this video I’m looking into applying after college!
That's great! Have you been to an Open Day yet? www.norland.ac.uk/college/visit/
Alfred Adler said if you have one person in your life who loves and cares for you your life will be greater. He worked with children after the war during his time who had lost everything. Having a nanny from Norland are the worlds best. And they love their Career. Not all mothers can stay home a care for their children.
Anne Vanderlaan.I don't thing Alfred Adler said 'greater'...wasn't it more to the effect that a kid can make it thru nearly anything if he has even just One person in the world who cares and is There for him...?
I wish this place was in Australia...I totally would have thought of going after leaving school if it had been here. Sounds amazing.
Weird Q...I really like the style of the uniform, any tips on getting similar pieces for the public?
Pink Magic Ali - You could buy similar clothing, though a bit more glam from Vivian of Holloway, (their tea dresses are very similar) Heyday and Seamstress of Bloomsbury. And for cheaper more modern mixes with retro - Lindy bop and Collectif.
You can only go to the Norland nanny college if you have British or EU citizenship.
@@hannahtomlinson4408 Hence the word *if*
I think the mother missed a lot of important things.
This is the most fascinating awesome college I must say I watched the documentary on it and I never knew it existed and I think even parents should have schools like this 🤓
Cheers CONGRATS
So they basically become mother's to child
@Jason and Julie Smith first off I do agree in today's society expectations of mothers to be the perfect mom and to be able to work is extremely difficult. I also understand that having a nanny is there to help. However whether intended or not the duties of which these nannies undertake make the nanny to become a surrogate mother to the child. Between the household chores such as washing the child's laundry to cooking, waking the child up to making the childs dinner, to spending most of its time teaching and playing with one specific adult; that essentially causes the nanny to assume the mothering role. In a larger setting such as a nursery there is not primary caregiver to one child and there no one become a mother to any of the children. Moreover as you mentioned history, historically within the poorer classes of history a child would be working with its mother's either in the fields or later earning money in factories. A child was considered to be there to help improve the economy of it family. The middle classes and upper classes did employ nannies however it was to the assumption that children were be seen but not heard. Of course there is a historical debate of whether children prior to last century were a product of duty or affection and I can send you some authors to read if choose to. Lastly you can be invested in your childs life without assigning the role to another yes parents need to work to support there children but there is difference between becoming a substitute mother to these children and a caregiver who looks after a child in there absence. A balance which does not appear to be adhered to here.
@Jason and Julie Smith first I am not insecure or bitter about motherhood. Secondly I made one comment of which I said the roles of which these nannies were to basically to become like mothers and to assume that role from both this video as well as another video I had watched which was the two hour documentary which showed the institution and training of these nannies. You say I am judgemental, uneducated and insecure because of this but you are the one who feels the need to not only aggressively try analyse me and therefore judge me as bitter and insecure but also write exceeding long speeches that are supposedly not jugemental? The roles of these women are to effectively to become the parents and caregiver to the child while the actual parent is absent. That is the duty of a nanny. The success and attachment of this between the child nanny and the parents and is dependant upon the dynamics each individual family. I used the term mother as those who were vastly attending the institution were women not because I believe that men are incapable of chores or that it is not there place. Now judging by the response in which you have wrote I think personally you need to see someone about your anger issues as I worry about how you react if anyone personally challenge your view. I personally believe when a child is surrounded by other children is a similar environment boundaries are not crossed nor is there a confusion in the roles for the child. Moreover when a child no longer cries when being dropped off nursery is a moment of pride for the child is growing not sorrow although it is perfectly normal to have a MOMENT of sadness that you no longer essential in that role. I wish you luck in future and hope that you realise that just because someone has a different opinion to you does not make it necessary for you be derogatory towards them. I hope that if you are in the position of looking after children that you are better than that. Best wishes.
@Jason and Julie Smith what I take as hostile behaviour is you simply insulting me because I have a different opinion to you. I understand why you believe that in YOUR opinion having a personalised nanny is better for the child. I understand that it can in some respects create stability in the home and the additional help can be beneficial to child. I also understand that the bond formed between parent and child and nanny are different depending upon the situations. What I dislike about the arrangement is that depending on the level of involvement of the nanny in the child's life this can create confusion for the child. Of course this also depends upon the parents of the child as well. In addition if the child spends the majority of there time with one adult who fulfills a parental role then in some respects they become akin to parents. I also acknowledge that the benefits between having a personalised nanny or sending a child to daycare is widely debated both between parents and academics. Moreover both family and friends who are fully trained nursery staff who are trained to look after children from a 1 day old till 18 including children with special needs. We had debates between ourselves of what we thought was better for a child's development and despite different qualified members having differing opinions not once did we feel it necessary to insult one another for having that difference of opinion. Lasly I strongly suggest you speak to someone about your insecurities with someone simply having a difference of opinion to you as throughout this whole discussion you have insulted and patronised me simply because I did not agree with you. Despite this not once have I suggested you should not have kids or named called against you. I am personally worried if you are looking after kids by not only your aggressive behaviour but also by how you respond to being disagreed with. By the way I have a degree and a master's I am not uneducated nor am I a victim i simply differ in opinion to you. I hope you get the support you need.
Yes, sadly. I'm at least glad they are so well trained and love him.
@@missrunbunnyrun so a successful woman should do EVERYTHING 🙄
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So she is basically his mother. What does mom do?
Work lol these are the children of the surgeons and leaders of the world
Anna Galati.Moms very busy at work earning the money to pay for the nanny.Whats to not understand? 🤣
This is what I want to do. What exactly does anybody recommend (GCSEs and A-levels, childcare courses for example) to get into the college with my age in mind (13). Would baby sitting courses be useful?
As long as you have 5 GCSE's or equivalent qualifications/ie level 2's (with at least a grade 4 in English and Maths), and 96 UCAS points then you can send them an application, so don't worry about what course exactly to do! Although they do expect you to have *some* experience looking after children it doesn't need to be a huge amount so don't worry x
Is it safe to hire a nanny from the north?
I can’t imagine having someone else just take care of my child.
Do they not continue to wear their uniform in their placements
I am interested in going into childcare or even becoming a therapist for children. Could Norland College help me do this, or does it only train nannies?
Hi Fleur, our graduates have many amazing career opportunities working with children and families. Have a look through some of our case studies here: www.norland.ac.uk/college/careers
Can I apply to Norlad even though I don´t live in Europe?
You need citizenship to an EU land to apply, quite a stupid rule in my opinion.
@@hannahtomlinson4408 I have a German Reisepass, does that count?
@@Soofi1906 if that means you have German citizenship, then yes
Do Norland nanny’s have to wear the uniform once they leave college?
Hi Isabella, no they don't and that's a common misconception. Students are required to wear their formal uniform during degree lectures and a practical uniform during diploma classes and during placements. They are not expected to wear either uniform once they've become a Norland Nanny.
Norland College great thank you for getting back, I am coming to the open day in November so will look forward to learning more about Norland College:)
Great! We look forward to seeing you there!
Emma Nelson no,it’s just for the school
I'm very curious, did you choose to attend there?
Where is the mother? If I had a child I would want to teach him about life myself
Ist der kleine Junge immer nur mit seiner Nanny zusammen oder besucht er auch einen Kindergarten ?
Kinder brauchen Kinder für ihre Entwicklung. Das können Erwachsene nicht leisten bzw. ersetzen, auch wenn ihre Ausbildung noch so fundiert und erstklassig ist.
Mein Mann und ich waren immer berufstätig ( Vollzeitjob in der Sozialarbeit im kirchlichen Dienst ) und haben 2 Söhne groß gezogen.
Beide Jungen sind in den Kindergarten gegangen und erzählen noch heute gern von dieser Zeit.
Im Haushalt haben alle mit angefasst. Auch die Kinder hatten, als sie dazu in der Lage waren, ihre Aufgaben. Dadurch hatten wir tägliche gemeinsame Stunden zum Spielen und Kuscheln.
If professional parents give up their careers, then what?
Well, it could mean complete loss of position within their profession - eg law, medicine, plus many other implications. I feel sure
Norland practitioners who are highly trained in all aspects of childcare provide the very best care and education, safely within the boundaries and knowledge that the children are NOT theirs. Trustees of the parents’ most valuable assets
Oh no don't stuck your thumb kiddo!
Weres her uniform 🤔
Such a shame that mums must work these days to pay for life and childcare. The baby/child loses and so does the mum when society insists that we must be working mothers just to pay for a basic life. Sad. RESPECT to ALL MOTHERS who make the best choices they can for their beloved children.
You need to work very hard and get good exam results. Get as much experience as you can with working with children. Girlguiding, Scouts, private nurseries, school nurseries and early years education are all areas that would benefit you. Get yourself out there and build a portfolio of experience. You don’t need years of experience but you need to show a keen interest and be a cut above the other applicants. Standards are high and they are looking for future representatives of Norland. I wish you every success.
Do you accept students who use wheelchairs?
No doubt that this young woman is great at her job. But with regards to psychology and the development of symbiose between the mother and child, it does not make sense. There is a reason we bond with the mother completely for about a year, and then the bond is slowly broken in a way that is safe for a child. Nothing can replace that. Then the nanny would be the mommy. And the mother would feel that and have ambivalent feelings towards the woman caring for her child. I would consider a nanny, if I had the dosh, but only around 2 years of age and up. Otherwise - if the child is younger- house help and the occasional help with feeding, changing and so forth. I know it is faux pas to say this- and women are constantly being told what to do and what not to do. But this is based on many types of research in child development. There are also differences- huge- in the said mother and child. Some women hate staying home so much- usually if they have a great job waiting for them. It can lonely and exhausting o be alone with a child.
So wtf do the parents do
Aussie Girl work
Nothing
Work. These are children of the neurosurgeons, politicians & barristers of the world.
@@stoneroses3493 you are trolling a bit of misinformation.
they are also the children of celebrities.
Most politicians want their children to be seen to show they are family-oriented “family values.”
They’re there on weekends or in evenings. Many parents have jobs that require them to be away. You use doctors don’t you? And I’m sure you’d like doctors to continue having babies so that there’s enough smart people who can continue to be doctors. Other professions also require long hours - lawyers, bankers, traders, etc. Not everyone can have flexibility in their job unfortunately. And it’s best not to shame them as I’m sure you’ll find that you need these people from time to time, so you have an interest in them doing their job.
So rich ppl wanna have kids but that's it.
Are these nannies trained in taking care of special needs kids?
Yes. During placements they get the chance to work with children with special needs along with different age groups.
No they go to the Collage to learn how to become a professional Nannie but some will take care of children with special needs it just depends what families they end up working with.
Let's have a child and pay someone else to raise him. I find this rather disgusting