SOLVED: The Lin Family Murders

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  • @user-xk9dq3xp9k
    @user-xk9dq3xp9k 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10792

    It’s shocking how so many police operators are so rude and uncooperative to people who are in shock and are traumatised... literally so many calls like this one

    • @noodlesauce2553
      @noodlesauce2553 4 ปีที่แล้ว +298

      I know! Somebody just went through something shocking and traumatic, have some fkng patience dude😠

    • @imguilty6688
      @imguilty6688 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

      You should see Susan Powell's case the operator, are worst than this case

    • @victoriaj9462
      @victoriaj9462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +151

      Brooo the way he was speaking to her was so fucking rude

    • @nicolemeneses3323
      @nicolemeneses3323 4 ปีที่แล้ว +117

      Yes! That infuriated me, if you cant treat scared people with respect and calm them down, FIND ANOTHER JOB

    • @akayriirose651
      @akayriirose651 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      He was so damn rude

  • @RaeaXo
    @RaeaXo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +13978

    I hope that operator got fired. That’s disgusting to treat someone like that

    • @novasummer7976
      @novasummer7976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +409

      i hope so too, if anyone has info on that let us know

    • @novasummer7976
      @novasummer7976 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      wowzer hold up.... who mentioned racism?? Tf

    • @kimberlyortiiz
      @kimberlyortiiz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +214

      wowzer being rude to someone who lost their family isn’t the same as racism.

    • @jasmine3288
      @jasmine3288 4 ปีที่แล้ว +226

      wowzer uhm...maybe by telling the woman to stop screaming and telling her to stop telling the police to come... even Bella said it’s rude.

    • @emmelinesb4698
      @emmelinesb4698 4 ปีที่แล้ว +244

      @@clubsnatcher he was impatient and curt with a woman clearly in shock.

  • @theglamdude1459
    @theglamdude1459 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3861

    The officer that took her call literally made me so angry. I get he has a job but that woman was distraught and the way he talked to her made me feel so helpless omg 😢😢

    • @zoerassati1943
      @zoerassati1943 4 ปีที่แล้ว +177

      I agree he had such an attitude, I get he was trying to information, but he was so disrespectful, she was traumatized and had every right to stumble on words or being distraught

    • @babycow9994
      @babycow9994 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      wowzer no❤️

    • @imaan9246
      @imaan9246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +100

      @@clubsnatcher Get lost. He was being rude

    • @imaan9246
      @imaan9246 4 ปีที่แล้ว +124

      @@clubsnatcher "We are driving there. Don't say quick" when she asks police to come quickly.
      This devasted woman who has discovered, at that point, four dead bodies. She has witnessed gruesome scenes and she is obviously beside herself. He did not attempt to calm her or console her or speak NICELY at all. He was a rude git and for what. I understand he needs to know what happened but there's a way to talk to people and I'm sure as an emergency line operator, he's been taught what to say and how to say it

    • @reaganmorris2154
      @reaganmorris2154 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      wowzer he was so rude good lord not a single bit of reassurance in his tone at all.

  • @laurakatharina5010
    @laurakatharina5010 4 ปีที่แล้ว +398

    As soon as she said that Robert usually sleeps in late but was awake that morning cleaning his garage he was my prime suspect.

    • @samorachannel2093
      @samorachannel2093 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      An then the fact that he straight away stated he would Adopt Brenda..

  • @Mclovin123878
    @Mclovin123878 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2348

    Spoiler: I knew it was Robert as soon as she said he left his wife at the scene.. smh.

    • @heatherbrookesanchez2046
      @heatherbrookesanchez2046 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

      Right!! I just knew it!

    • @virn4699
      @virn4699 4 ปีที่แล้ว +295

      I knew as soon as she said his restaurant failed.

    • @jennacampbell7759
      @jennacampbell7759 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

      When I heard that he was jealous of his brothers success , failed at his own work , lived so close and that he was up unusually early, I was like: that’s him. Robert fuckin killed them.

    • @Katie-pb1iq
      @Katie-pb1iq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      I knew when Bella said it was most likely a close family member and the shoe size.

    • @duminimahanama5066
      @duminimahanama5066 4 ปีที่แล้ว +26

      When she said he used to be an ENT in China. Usually a sense of very low self esteem overwhelms you when you suddenly lose your status.

  • @hemanshikumar2179
    @hemanshikumar2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3801

    I know Brenda through mutuals as she went to a school near me. This story is horrifying. She is doing well and has started her new life years ago. She has a beautiful dog and graduated 2 or so years ago. She is so so strong.

    • @freya1710
      @freya1710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +51

      wow really? has she got a boyfriend or kids??

    • @hemanshikumar2179
      @hemanshikumar2179 4 ปีที่แล้ว +148

      @@freya1710 Not sure, but i hope she is doing okay. I haven't seen her updates on any of her socials.

    • @freya1710
      @freya1710 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      @@hemanshikumar2179 okay thanks

    • @user-ri6rs5fk8i
      @user-ri6rs5fk8i 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      Hemanshi Kumar aww hope she’s doing good 🥺💕

    • @melanieresutek1403
      @melanieresutek1403 4 ปีที่แล้ว +115

      I am so happy to hear that she graduated despite everything she went through! You are right she is strong! Thank you for letting us know!

  • @anu480
    @anu480 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4604

    I absolutely CAN NOT believe that Cathy stood by her husband when he killed her own brother, sister, sister in law and nephews. Like woman ? What? Seriously ?

    • @emilychavez8674
      @emilychavez8674 4 ปีที่แล้ว +858

      Not to mention the sexual assault of her niece.. makes my blood boil

    • @caroverse3508
      @caroverse3508 4 ปีที่แล้ว +577

      and didn’t he kick her own parents out of their house that was given to them by their son. Wow, just wow. Absolutely sickening

    • @lal530
      @lal530 4 ปีที่แล้ว +403

      its very likely that cathy has been under his husbands abuse for years now. when your in it its very hard to realise what the abuser is doing to you and ure usually scared to even attempt getting out of it. imagine your sexual predator and killer of a husband having full control over your life and threatening your life if you dont follow along with him :( im not defending cathy defending the murderer but we rly should consider every scenario in these cases :((

    • @amarfakhredine591
      @amarfakhredine591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +78

      I feel like she has something to do with it.. I don't know but what kind of people is she??

    • @amarfakhredine591
      @amarfakhredine591 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@lajebenjamin8492 omg that makes a lot of sense!

  • @dulapeep420
    @dulapeep420 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4341

    I feel so bad for Brenda. She was sexually assaulted by the person who killed her entire family and she had to live with that same person while she was mourning the loss of her beloved family. I really can't imagine dealing with sth like that. I really hope she's doing okay and is somewhere safe.

    • @catb0ykyo
      @catb0ykyo 4 ปีที่แล้ว +45

      i know :( what she went through was horrifying

    • @chrissy3875
      @chrissy3875 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      yeah, I hope she’s doing well 🥺🥺

    • @SophieKaye1
      @SophieKaye1 4 ปีที่แล้ว +222

      and the fact that her aunt never took her side afterwords and backed her husband in saying he wasn't guilty...even though she knew he'd asaulted Brenda :(

    • @pixiehopper8
      @pixiehopper8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +22

      I know! It’s so sad and sick. I feel horrible for her.

    • @sindu3
      @sindu3 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@starr2870 don’t want to assume but she looks like she’s doing well. Curious as to why she doesn’t have a single family pic up though

  • @wahdae7655
    @wahdae7655 4 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    the fact that people are capable of these things is just mind blowing to me. i can’t believe he really bludgeoned them w. a hammer ... it’s just all sick.

    • @callmewaves1160
      @callmewaves1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +25

      Truly is. His own family. Over jealousy.

    • @MadMaddi21
      @MadMaddi21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Yup, and not even just one of them in a spur of the moment decision. It was calculated, he shut off the power, pre bought a weapon where there were no cameras, killed them all 1 by 1, even the children. Makes me feel so sick and sad

    • @mayabracamontes6904
      @mayabracamontes6904 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      especially the boys they were so young and had a long way to live. such a tragic story :( 💔

  • @abaig3855
    @abaig3855 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1510

    As a person from an immigrant family, the way he treats Kathy is not shocking, its normal. They always treat people with accents like that. This time it jus got recorded

    • @aztre
      @aztre 4 ปีที่แล้ว +86

      A Baig - Fucking racists. That’s so disgusting.

    • @annnguyen3960
      @annnguyen3960 4 ปีที่แล้ว +66

      A Baig they talk to us like a frustrated two year old

    • @tomiefilms
      @tomiefilms 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Violeta D that’s true! but smth white/white passing people don’t face is being immediately spoken to like a toddler in a condescending tone purely based off appearing ‘ethnic’ or ‘oriental’

    • @lisagentry2210
      @lisagentry2210 3 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      I have always tried to be extra sensitive to people with English as a 2nd language. Some people just suck. Fuck racists

    • @michellep1555
      @michellep1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      racistm is everywhere unfortunately. even if you have a perfect accent, but once they know you are not white that is when they treat u differently.

  • @ashleylamborghini
    @ashleylamborghini 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8303

    the real mystery: how her earrings went from vacuum cleaners to lamps

    • @wynona7372
      @wynona7372 4 ปีที่แล้ว +204

      3:01 in case anyone is wondering where they change 😂😭

    • @taraoldham3155
      @taraoldham3155 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

      Ashley Lamborghini yes I am glad I am not the only one to notice that

    • @IW21
      @IW21 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Yeah i was thinking the same

    • @natylights2394
      @natylights2394 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      LOL!!!!!

    • @marissathomas9327
      @marissathomas9327 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

      Right i was watching in the beginning. Then started cleaning and just listening to the video I turned around and she got another set on . I said I know damn well im not tripping lol

  • @AlexandraNavarro
    @AlexandraNavarro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5827

    I feel so bad for Brenda, she lived with the person who killed her family and she didn’t even know :(

    • @shaydouglas
      @shaydouglas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +407

      AND he molested her and she felt she couldn't do anything. Poor child.

    • @AlexandraNavarro
      @AlexandraNavarro 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

      Cheyenne Douglas yeah i feel so bad :(

    • @pixiehopper8
      @pixiehopper8 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

      Oh I know! Right when she said that he adopted her, I thought, “oh hell no!” Totally gave me chills.

    • @PoopeecacaValerota
      @PoopeecacaValerota 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      I SHOULDN'T HAVE LOOKED IN THE COMMENTS

    • @starr2870
      @starr2870 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

      i just saw her instagram and shes doing so well now :))

  • @ziefra555
    @ziefra555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1492

    „Someone killed my entire family!“
    „Why would you think that?“
    Why would you ask that? Is this a normal dispatcher‘s response on something like that?

    • @ziefra555
      @ziefra555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      Ga Xx What kind of person would joke about it?

    • @ziefra555
      @ziefra555 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      A B Sorry, we might see that differently because of different cultures. English is not my first language, so that could explain why that phrasing irritates me...

    • @theelolicious9302
      @theelolicious9302 4 ปีที่แล้ว +54

      @@ziefra555 it irritates me too and English is my main language. I was very frustrated by that man.

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

      Jang Xx i- no, even if it was “fake” you still remain professional. he shouldn’t be in a job like that if that’s the case.

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Jang Xx not even just professional but EMPATHETIC atleast.

  • @sm1i1thy47
    @sm1i1thy47 4 ปีที่แล้ว +542

    She obviously can’t see her brother if she’s saying “I’m not sure” 😤🤷‍♂️ frustrating stuff.

    • @luciedonze7368
      @luciedonze7368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +40

      Or can't identify him, so probably a pretty shocking scene is going on

    • @MadMaddi21
      @MadMaddi21 3 ปีที่แล้ว +14

      Yeah I mean, if I walked in on a scene like that, I wouldn't be poking around every single room to make sure every body was there, one look would have been enough to make my stomach turn. I think "I don't know" is a very fair response to have, like considering she saw the rest of the family she can probably assume that he would have been dead there too, but because she didnt see him she said idk. That operator was so rude. Like I get that "idk" is a vague response, but he could have gotten the information he wanted with a better question rather than just repeating the same one and being rude about not getting a yes or no answer. Like ask instead, "did you see his body?", that way she could say no, but it would still leave the possibility that his body was there and she just didnt see it

    • @MsPuckerupButtercup
      @MsPuckerupButtercup 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      @@MadMaddi21 I agree. At first I was confused by the “I’m not sure” but it totally makes sense she obviously is in no condition to go and examine all the bodies to identify if he is there. Poor woman. I just wish she had not defended her husband so much but in case he was freed she probably didn’t want him to go after her for not supporting him %100. Idk.

    • @udontunderstandthebeautyof4033
      @udontunderstandthebeautyof4033 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      From what I’ve heard u couldn’t even recognise them that’s how bad it was. The operator didn’t even let that girl breath.

    • @aromaladyellie
      @aromaladyellie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      I think it kind of speaks to the goriness of the scene that she wasn't sure.

  • @iCOOLIE
    @iCOOLIE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +347

    My partner was in jail for a few years, and his cell mate was originally cellmates with Robert Xie for a while, and apparently he still maintains his innocence and convinced Cathy that he was wrongly convicted.
    Deserves to be locked up forever since he shows absolutely no remorse.

    • @user-qb4ke6gm5b
      @user-qb4ke6gm5b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      Omg!

    • @chowfurnowmeow
      @chowfurnowmeow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Good. But then again if he gets out the immigration would have sent his ass bk to China anyway.

    • @nejonmcbride-stubbs2218
      @nejonmcbride-stubbs2218 3 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Honestly, he has 5 life counts. He’ll be in there for awhile, go ahead and just admit it

  • @Hanniekinz
    @Hanniekinz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1349

    It was definitely a mistake having Brenda move into Robert’s home so quickly. And when they started to suspect him as being involved, the police didn’t take Brenda out of the house right away, they set up cameras. Wtf so much trauma could have been prevented...

    • @saharmahmud5214
      @saharmahmud5214 4 ปีที่แล้ว +55

      I agree!!!! Such a careless move on the detectives part

    • @alejandrab1989
      @alejandrab1989 4 ปีที่แล้ว +80

      They legit used her ...poor child she must have been traumatized

    • @2scorpionzzz182
      @2scorpionzzz182 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Are they vaccum cleanears ? 😂

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +10

      Yeah, they definitely should not have let her stay with him while he was a suspect. Could have prevented so much sexual abuse.

    • @michellep1555
      @michellep1555 3 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      if they set up cameras, don't they have evidence of her sexual assault, shouldn't they also charge that too or at least let the inmate knows so he can get proper punishment inside

  • @anjo2672
    @anjo2672 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7324

    ngl, the operator seemed very racist t me. he could clearly tell she was of an asian background cause of her accent and so there is a language barrier. there's a certain way racists talk to people who don't have the best English; in a very condescending and patronising manner. then there's the addition of him just being rude all together cause she's clearly in shock.

    • @SapphireCookie
      @SapphireCookie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +519

      i know exactly what you mean and i totally agree with you

    • @ju-qw8nd
      @ju-qw8nd 4 ปีที่แล้ว +338

      @@b.5795 it was literally just an opinion and the vibe that the original commenter picked up. Personally, I also picked up that energy from the operator. He wasn't taking her very seriously and was very hostile to her despite the clear state of shock/trauma. There is definitely a specific way that racists talk or interact with people which feels degrading. His tone was exactly the same tone that I hear when direct racist attacks/comments are made.

    • @zeinabadam958
      @zeinabadam958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +139

      I defo agree that's why so many of us who can put on a "white voice" just standard English basically

    • @zeinabadam958
      @zeinabadam958 4 ปีที่แล้ว +165

      Summer Brooks you don't understand our various experiences of racism so just listen instead of being bitchy and judgemental, listen, understand that's it. If we say it might be true it probably is. You'll never know that's privilege

    • @maddyschaper4536
      @maddyschaper4536 4 ปีที่แล้ว +114

      I thought the same thing because of the way he was being so patronising! I can't see any other reason why he would be so rude to someone in distress.

  • @CoralBlueNmbrFive
    @CoralBlueNmbrFive 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1430

    Excuse me? Excuse ME?? FOUR TRIALS AND EVENTUALLY A BAIL? This is disgusting. The fact that he killed his own FAMILY is disgusting. I am so sad for the Lin family. They seemed like they were really good people.

    • @amya5369
      @amya5369 4 ปีที่แล้ว +76

      I went to primary school with them and they really were so lovely and sweet to everyone. It made my blood boil that justice wasn’t being served and we were all so sad and frustrated. We were just relieved when it finally was.

    • @lilybrown5388
      @lilybrown5388 4 ปีที่แล้ว +43

      It's better they go through 4 trials and successfully convict him. If they don't follow all rules and procedures he might be acquitted on a technicality

    • @ethanqian8492
      @ethanqian8492 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      he was sentenced to 5 life sentences at the end, bail means that you're released until your next trial date not that you get off scot-free.

    • @kattttt9585
      @kattttt9585 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Ethan Qian yeah but it stills means he was released for a time where he could possibly sexually assault brenda again

    • @lila7735
      @lila7735 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@amya5369 i went too the same primary school as you then!

  • @vergodagoat
    @vergodagoat 3 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    As someone who’s parent had a heavy japanese accent, that was absolutely aggravating when that operator was asking her stupid questions when she was clearly in shock and scared. “Is there a body” isn’t the most important question when there’s clearly no one left alive in the house

    • @atesah
      @atesah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ikr my mum's Filipina and I feel the same

    • @bulgogibongs
      @bulgogibongs 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Me too, my mother has a strong Korean accent and it enraged me simply. The amount of times she’s been yelled at and told to “go back” just because of her accent, history, and birth place.

    • @nicksmith3746
      @nicksmith3746 ปีที่แล้ว

      Nah, the operator was trying to ascertain a situation, and she didn't make sense. It was made worse though because at that time she couldn't see her brother's body.

  • @MysteryAvalanche
    @MysteryAvalanche 4 ปีที่แล้ว +373

    Poor Brenda! Why the hell was the murder all over social media before the police got in contact with her? That's so beyond horrible.

  • @inken2113
    @inken2113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +518

    I really hope the operator was fired immediately, this call made me sooo angry.

  • @ms.dreavus2446
    @ms.dreavus2446 4 ปีที่แล้ว +263

    I have never had such a visceral reaction to an emergency call, oh my gosh. My whole face got hot with anger. That was truly atrocious. As someone who has had to call 9-1-1 before, I would have been absolutely horrified if the operator responded to my situation in that way. I was already traumatized and shaking and upset. I'm so glad there was someone kind and empathetic on the other end.

    • @rachelw9462
      @rachelw9462 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Yes! Agree completely. I’m reading these comments hoping to see someone posted an update that he had been fired.

    • @MissBelle127
      @MissBelle127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      CaseyandRachel house W thank god!! What a piece of shit. So unprofessional and terribly condescending!!

    • @saraa1741
      @saraa1741 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @@rachelw9462 yes, someone posted an update. If I find it I'll link it. He was indeed fired.

    • @luckylucifer
      @luckylucifer 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      We don’t ring 911 here in Australia we ring 000

  • @caramonoxide4026
    @caramonoxide4026 4 ปีที่แล้ว +444

    that operator was SO RUDE like isn’t the whole point of the job being able to extract information out of someone in shock?? not just be nasty to them when they’ve found their family dead

    • @MissBelle127
      @MissBelle127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +19

      Exactly, it makes me sick how impatient and rude he was. She literally just saw 4 family members in such a horrific and violently murdered!! It’s so disappointing! I hope he was fired from his job bc he was not taking her seriously and was very condescending

  • @mollyfoxxx
    @mollyfoxxx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +737

    God, he did not just say “don’t say quick” after she said please come quick😡

    • @MissBelle127
      @MissBelle127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      I hope he is fired because I’d sue him for unnecessary emotional trauma and unprofessionalism!!!

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      MissBelle127 he was fired i believe, rightfully so.

    • @cecilewong5765
      @cecilewong5765 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Shame on him.

    • @atesah
      @atesah 2 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Racist Aussie white dude. We have too many here, the way he spoke to here was so familiar to me as Filipino Australian

    • @leensalocin
      @leensalocin 2 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Racist Australians. What do u expect

  • @min.h1142
    @min.h1142 4 ปีที่แล้ว +287

    How could the police operator keep yelling "YES OR NO" at a traumatized perosn

  • @ishitasharma4000
    @ishitasharma4000 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3452

    Can we just take a moment to appreciate Bella’s earrings?😌

    • @adrianalonso7357
      @adrianalonso7357 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

      she never fails to pop off

    • @Faith-pb8rw
      @Faith-pb8rw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +48

      I know right, their always so interesting 😂

    • @joyboy4
      @joyboy4 4 ปีที่แล้ว +62

      She has the most iconic earrings

    • @cb8199
      @cb8199 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Lmao😂

    • @grneyez2005
      @grneyez2005 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

      What the heck are they? Looks like vacuum cleaners😃

  • @andreaarchaeology
    @andreaarchaeology 4 ปีที่แล้ว +221

    I had to skip the emergency call cuz as soon as I heard that operator's tone, I was so upset. How DARE you talk like that to someone who just found their family murdered. 🤬🤬🤬🤬

  • @taylorlivengood341
    @taylorlivengood341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +145

    I love my nieces and nephews like they’re my own children & I could never in a million years hurt them, so seeing a man who viciously murdered BOTH of his nephews just to sexually abuse his niece makes me sick. What a heartless, heartless man & his wife is just as bad for lying for him.

    • @taylorlivengood341
      @taylorlivengood341 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Kmartgirl26 that really doesn’t matter. My husband’s brother has a little boy & I’m not his bio aunt, but I still love him just as much as my sisters kids. He still murdered his nephews and abused his niece, bio or not.

  • @patriciap.5587
    @patriciap.5587 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1467

    ~*°Spoiler°*~
    the moment I heard that robert had a failed business and min had this successful business I knew that that he was the killer

    • @danielleowens6443
      @danielleowens6443 4 ปีที่แล้ว +83

      Jealousy kills are becoming too reoccurring. People are sick.

    • @pickles4742
      @pickles4742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      Instantly I thought the same and then as SOON as i heard he left his distraught wife at the scene i was 100% certain

    • @MissNatssySunshine
      @MissNatssySunshine 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Yes this and the photos shown of them! Definitely looked like outside of court photos which wouldn’t have been taken of them unless he had something to do with it

    • @goku9791
      @goku9791 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Honey Wilson same!!! i was like??? why would you leave your wife at the murder scene alone balling her eyes out?? and to get her parents? you couldn’t have called?? knew it was fishy

    • @5h3lby52
      @5h3lby52 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      dude can you like,,,, put a spoiler warning please

  • @user-kq2hn3zo4f
    @user-kq2hn3zo4f 4 ปีที่แล้ว +166

    “Don’t say quick” ughhh the audacity of that operator!! Disgusting attitude

  • @jesss4234
    @jesss4234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +417

    Bella I HIGHLY RECOMMEND looking into the West Memphis 3 case that happened in Arkansas in 1993. I don’t want to spoil what happened but it is really interesting and technically unsolved. I’ve been looking into it a lot, the case is about the murder of three 8 year old boys and it is so frustrating!! Love your videos!❤️

    • @constanzacabello7241
      @constanzacabello7241 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      OMG yesss i've been investigating about the case as well!!

    • @jesss4234
      @jesss4234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Cons Cabello IKR?! It’s so crazy!

    • @angiescott9692
      @angiescott9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      I remember when this went down, the Satanic Panic here in America at the time was rediculous. Evangelicals are killing America and its freedoms

    • @jesss4234
      @jesss4234 4 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Angie Scott totally agree! The case is so unbelievable!

    • @kenziiefaith
      @kenziiefaith 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      i’m from arkansas! about 45 minutes from where this happened. i’ve always been so curious about what really happened!

  • @karinatt
    @karinatt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +127

    This is absolutely terrible.... while I do feel super super awful for Brenda and can’t even FATHOM what she’s gone through, one of her little brothers put up a struggle before he was killed and this really hit me so hard like damn.

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Haniyya Ejaz social media doesn’t tell you everything, im sure there’s a lot of trauma there.

  • @d_rami444
    @d_rami444 4 ปีที่แล้ว +90

    I can't imagine someone belittling me after finding out my brothers family has been brutally murdered. I hope whoever that operator was realized how messed up that was

  • @RascalHooligan
    @RascalHooligan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +190

    Wtf lol they really thought to themselves "ionno if hes the murderer yet, but theres like a 90% chance he wont kill Brenda, so ya, lets just stick'er there for now. See how that goes." Jesus.

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Agreed, but it’s possible they thought that moving Brenda would aggravate him and cause him to kill more family members.

    • @RascalHooligan
      @RascalHooligan 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@time2livelife more family members? They were all already dead, no?

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @@RascalHooligan the grandparents were still alive

    • @RascalHooligan
      @RascalHooligan 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      @@time2livelife sorry its been awhile and i dont remember any details. It just seems like an odd sense of rationale, to risk a childs life so directly for a more indirect reason of trying to save the grandparents? Wouldve made more sense to just keep Brenda away and to protect them all with police officers.

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@RascalHooligan Agreed

  • @mariaj2756
    @mariaj2756 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    As soon as she started talking about the way Robert left his wife so easily after seeing what they did I instantly got the feeling that it was him. literally so disgusting how could someone do that to a family.

  • @caro8463
    @caro8463 4 ปีที่แล้ว +400

    I literally don't understand how he felt "he was an embarrassment for them" so he thought killing the whole family would make it better 😐👀 liiiiike.... really??????

    • @time2livelife
      @time2livelife 3 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      Unfortunately, you can’t apply logic to crazy people.

    • @chowfurnowmeow
      @chowfurnowmeow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      Na. It's just an excuse for him to say that. Obviously a sh*tty one.

  • @ariannavillarreal810
    @ariannavillarreal810 4 ปีที่แล้ว +110

    I love her vacuum earrings they are so cute
    Love how she had vacuum earrings on then changed them to lamps

  • @elliesharp401
    @elliesharp401 4 ปีที่แล้ว +134

    That call taker is very unsympathetic and rude. He could be more compassionate, she’s clearly distressed. He definitely went the wrong way about it!

  • @nimrodgrrrl
    @nimrodgrrrl 4 ปีที่แล้ว +187

    I’m sorry- but the risk assessment? saying that he poses no threat to her? Imagine the psychological trauma of living with the person who butchered your entire family. That’s insane!

  • @hannahr4007
    @hannahr4007 4 ปีที่แล้ว +58

    I literally cannot BELIEVE the nerve of the 000 operator. "Don't say quick" - are you kidding me?! Imagine being panicked and begging 000 to come quickly to help and being told this!! I hope the operator lost his job or at the bare minimum was incredibly reprimanded. So disgusting and not something you can just blame on being frustrated or "having a long day". You are in a profession dedicated to directly assisting people in their most vulnerable moments of panic.

  • @TB-jg2oq
    @TB-jg2oq 4 ปีที่แล้ว +333

    I’m surprised she stood by him even after Brenda shared what he did.

    • @MissBelle127
      @MissBelle127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +27

      She looks like she is scared of him tbh

    • @karenskinner9529
      @karenskinner9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      In denial

    • @chowfurnowmeow
      @chowfurnowmeow 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      It depends. I am thinking that she is either financially tied up so had no choice to pretend to be on his side. Or she hasn't got her PR or Australian Citizenship - yet - being his wife (since it's the husband getting citizenship through his brother) she can have that chance, she might be sent bk to China if she divorces him w/o citizenship status.

    • @mingramagoti2409
      @mingramagoti2409 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@chowfurnowmeow but she was Min's sister he was the one that was the brother in law🤔

  • @SelBsful
    @SelBsful 4 ปีที่แล้ว +290

    I believe the main reason was jealousy. His brother-in-law had everything he always wanted wich was success. The whole family moved to another country but only Min succeded. His frustration and jealousy drove him mad.
    I feel terrible for Brenda she even had to live with her family's murderer who was also a sexual abuser.

    • @audreyc8225
      @audreyc8225 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Rumor said that Kathy was actually aiming for the property of Min’s agency. And also he wanted Brenda. Or else, he could’ve just go back to China to become successful.

    • @nicksmith3746
      @nicksmith3746 ปีที่แล้ว

      A jealous person is always dangerous

  • @DemiDonnelly
    @DemiDonnelly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +435

    Them earrings! Wow I love them. Can’t wait for this video

    • @IANONYMOUSLYI
      @IANONYMOUSLYI 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

      So the most intriguing thing you heard or saw in the video was earrings 🤖☠️

    • @jordangraybill1374
      @jordangraybill1374 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      @Augustine isn’t that not what they are

    • @cheyennetamou182
      @cheyennetamou182 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Omg it's Henry!!

  • @elletristan
    @elletristan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +34

    The fact he evicted the grandparents, which forced Brenda to live with him sends the worst shivers down my spine. That’s so creepy and disgusting

  • @youboring4219
    @youboring4219 4 ปีที่แล้ว +830

    I swear the emergency operator is racist or something. He should have lost his job. It’s not some customer service line it’s an EMERGENCY LINE

    • @kelceebreanne4807
      @kelceebreanne4807 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      PERIOD.

    • @lisad5177
      @lisad5177 4 ปีที่แล้ว +21

      It was so frustrating to listen to

    • @rhyan19
      @rhyan19 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      I saw another comment saying he was fired but I’m not sure how true that is

    • @aromaladyellie
      @aromaladyellie 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      Customer service lines have more manners than this.

  • @saram7358
    @saram7358 4 ปีที่แล้ว +144

    The second I heard he left Cathy alone after finding the bodies I had such a bad feeling about him

  • @amberreid1059
    @amberreid1059 4 ปีที่แล้ว +101

    Brenda saying she didn’t reveal the info on the assaults because she thought Robert was innocent of the murders...I’m so sad. Was she thinking it would bring more negative attention to him? Was she groomed in some way? There are so many ways to break that little bit down.

  • @cindynguyen8982
    @cindynguyen8982 4 ปีที่แล้ว +46

    a lot of robert’s off guard photos shows him staring straight into the camera and it just creeped me out... boy what jealousy could do to a person. pure evil

  • @juliacatone9038
    @juliacatone9038 3 ปีที่แล้ว +37

    That wedding photo is gorgeous what a hard working beautiful family :(

  • @shaydouglas
    @shaydouglas 4 ปีที่แล้ว +105

    Poor poor Brenda, I can't imagine the horror of what she went through. Her uncle is a creep and I feel so sorry for her

  • @daniwarr
    @daniwarr 4 ปีที่แล้ว +180

    I love watching these but after I’m scared for my life👁👄👁

    • @aryyy4136
      @aryyy4136 4 ปีที่แล้ว +12

      Legit i'm so stupid when i watch just before going to sleep. Dont do it😂

    • @mdz7229
      @mdz7229 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      So did i can’t go to sleep 😟

    • @annabelvillarreal2322
      @annabelvillarreal2322 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      Yea... it’s 3:50am in Texas and I just woke up by accident and I’m not going back to sleep

    • @carolbaskin1857
      @carolbaskin1857 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Same

  • @ferishak17
    @ferishak17 4 ปีที่แล้ว +199

    11 minutes in...the killer has to be Robert . How can you leave your wife in the house where her entire family was just murdered? Couldn’t he have called the parents?

    • @julieng794
      @julieng794 3 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      right! like why would his first thought was to bring the old folks to the murder scene. Sick.

    • @bobdabuilder7650
      @bobdabuilder7650 3 ปีที่แล้ว

      Tbh I thought it was the person that lost the badminton match until she said about the shoe prints guy like they have to know the family, they know Brenda is away, AND is very likely to be a tall man and from the photos he looks tall

  • @angiescott9692
    @angiescott9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +467

    That operator should have been fired and maybe even fined. What a nasty human being. He was obviously racist against her, he knew she was an immigrant. Shame on him.

    • @b.5795
      @b.5795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Literally what proof do you have that he was racist? He was rude but there was no indication of racism?

    • @ella-gl3gi
      @ella-gl3gi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +99

      Summer Brooks he could probably tell she was of asian background. he talked in a very patronising way towards her, as if she was a child and didn’t understand. it’s more common than you think especially toward ppl of asian descent and in aussie

    • @angiescott9692
      @angiescott9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

      @@ella-gl3gi truth

    • @angiescott9692
      @angiescott9692 4 ปีที่แล้ว +59

      @@b.5795 she clearly did not have an Australian accent, he 100% knew she was Asian and had zero empathy for her. Please dont be so naive

    • @b.5795
      @b.5795 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

      ella but my point is how do you know he doesn’t talk to everyone like that? You’re the one pointing out that she’s Asian and saying he’s being rude because of her race so how does that make you any better? I still stand by my point, you can’t just *assume* someone is racist without proof, you add to the problem when you do that.

  • @deannacampillo798
    @deannacampillo798 4 ปีที่แล้ว +163

    Just a curious question - why do they wear those old-fashioned wigs in Australian courts?

    • @abbiejones262
      @abbiejones262 4 ปีที่แล้ว +50

      Doesn’t make much sense, but they wear them in the UK too and it’s supposed to make the judge or lawyers more ‘anonymous’ and distance the personal involvement. Very weird but just another old bizarre tradition 🤣

    • @shreyanand9368
      @shreyanand9368 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Not sure about NSW but in Victoria, there has been reform in the supreme court (?) that wigs would be abolished in order to allow for the parties to feel comfortable while in court pursuing their case.

    • @thanyachavez6300
      @thanyachavez6300 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

      They look like sheep 🐑 😂

    • @user-qb4ke6gm5b
      @user-qb4ke6gm5b 4 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      I just scrolled over your comment when i saw the picture haha

    • @ommmeke4797
      @ommmeke4797 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      이하나 same

  • @leahryd8309
    @leahryd8309 4 ปีที่แล้ว +120

    I think Cathys husband maybe forced her to stand by him. He could have threatened her to stick with him or she would be killed as well.

    • @MissBelle127
      @MissBelle127 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

      I think so too

    • @jillianjansson4098
      @jillianjansson4098 4 ปีที่แล้ว +11

      also when you are abused it look so different. you think she would of wised up but it is not that easy when you are being emotionally manipulated and possibly mentally and physically abused.

    • @karenskinner9529
      @karenskinner9529 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      Yes I think she's completely and utterly in denial

  • @vanessavaldez28
    @vanessavaldez28 4 ปีที่แล้ว +60

    This is just devastating! the two little ones, breaks my heart 😓

  • @Michellecrossan
    @Michellecrossan 4 ปีที่แล้ว +123

    HENRY HOOVER EARRINGS?!!!! Legendary❤️🤣

  • @mads4449
    @mads4449 4 ปีที่แล้ว +319

    Your earnings girl 😂 I didn’t realise what they were at first I was like cuuuuuute....oh.....but still cuuuute 😂

    • @ristixli
      @ristixli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      It's little vacuums right? Lol

    • @shanr0berts0n
      @shanr0berts0n 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Brittany Rodrigues Henry hoovers!!!

    • @ristixli
      @ristixli 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      Now they are little lamps lol

    • @helloiamtiredallthetime.631
      @helloiamtiredallthetime.631 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      Brittany Rodrigues
      I- I thought it was like a watering pot and there was water coming out of it

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      Hello! I am tired does sound like smth bella would still wear tho

  • @emmadionne264
    @emmadionne264 4 ปีที่แล้ว +20

    I watch true crime frequently and for some reason this one hits rly hard. Im crying this seemed like such a happy family. They deserved the best

  • @s3nfl0wer11
    @s3nfl0wer11 4 ปีที่แล้ว +36

    The 911 operator was literally so insensitive and it made me so mad like if I found my whole entire family dead of course I would be screaming I wouldn’t even be able to form a sentence.

  • @jhasmines1208
    @jhasmines1208 4 ปีที่แล้ว +89

    As soon as you said his restaurant failed I automatically suspected Robert. In comparison to Min he jus seemed like a failure, so I thought it could be possible and would you look at it it was a possible motive. Even tho they are family jealousy can really make people switch up on you which is really disgusting and a sad reality. I also feel like Cathy was manipulated in some way which is why she defended Robert but it could’ve also been done out of love who knows. Great video tho!!

  • @AR-sv2fz
    @AR-sv2fz 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    One of the pictures you showed had a caption saying that Robert said to Kathy "don't look" before entering the crime scene!! That is insane to me!! How would he know to say that if he weren't guilty? It's undeniable.

  • @NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE
    @NataliaPessoaXOXOMAKE 4 ปีที่แล้ว +79

    This one was shocking. And the wife not believing is so frustrating 😵

  • @jadeantoine4239
    @jadeantoine4239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +224

    bruh the racism in that operating call. 🤷🏽‍♀️

    • @jodifoster9820
      @jodifoster9820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

      Y’all think anything is racist

    • @ayybibi
      @ayybibi 4 ปีที่แล้ว +47

      Mya Holmes it literally is, there’s a certain tone that racists use against poc or immigrants. onviously you would know nothing about it so (:

    • @jodifoster9820
      @jodifoster9820 4 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      taz bibi lmfaoo a “certain” tone, explain the tone

    • @mia-lo3zj
      @mia-lo3zj 4 ปีที่แล้ว +18

      Kmartgirl26 lol she never said white people cant be immigrants. She said, "against poc OR immigrants.”

    • @jodifoster9820
      @jodifoster9820 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

      @Anjali Thapa Magar no y’all just sensitive

  • @TootieFruutie
    @TootieFruutie 4 ปีที่แล้ว +30

    this video should be retitled: Robert applying for bail but getting denied for 33 minutes and 35 seconds

  • @oliviawilliams-ur3ju
    @oliviawilliams-ur3ju 4 ปีที่แล้ว +63

    You should talk about the April Jones case it happened in Wales and it’s completely heartbreaking. I remember watching it on the news when I was like 7 it was just so sad.

    • @rhoslapworth8720
      @rhoslapworth8720 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      I live in Wales. I remember hearing about the April Jones case, broke my heart

  • @TheGrandy123
    @TheGrandy123 4 ปีที่แล้ว +112

    I totally agree the operator was insensitive and rude 😡 what a shame!!!

    • @dimik7488
      @dimik7488 4 ปีที่แล้ว +5

      What a complete and utter dick! No compassion whatsoever.

  • @Faith-pb8rw
    @Faith-pb8rw 4 ปีที่แล้ว +32

    That call is so- ugg! That operator needs to be fired honestly 😐

  • @10103e
    @10103e 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    this happened when I was in primary school... the kids went to my school and lived in my suburb... this was such a hard time for everyone around our town and especially their close friends. seeing this video pop up brought back very unpleasant memories... bless them, they really were amazing people.

  • @jacqueline4203
    @jacqueline4203 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    This story is incredibly tragic and heartbreaking. Such a beautiful family. May the Lin family Rest In Peace ❤️

  • @sophiaamezcua3525
    @sophiaamezcua3525 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    I feel terrible for Brenda she went a trip that was supposed to be enjoyable and she comes home and her parents aunty and two baby brothers were murdered I can’t imaging what she went through

  • @madig9152
    @madig9152 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    I can't imagine the hatred that brenda probably feels for her Uncle!!! What a sick man!!

  • @bea-xq3uu
    @bea-xq3uu 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    as soon as you mentioned robert and showed his picture i knew it was him...

  • @oonaghomalley9052
    @oonaghomalley9052 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

    that emergency call is an absolute disgrace. the whole job description is to handle and take care of traumatised people and victims and if you can't do that then you shouldn't be in that job.

  • @missylizt
    @missylizt 4 ปีที่แล้ว +14

    I met Brenda at uni a few years ago. She is such a strong and brave girl 💕

    • @blackiemwe1481
      @blackiemwe1481 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

      Why do people do this?? Pretend to know the surviors.

    • @muls9571
      @muls9571 3 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      @@blackiemwe1481 why do you think she's pretending to know her?

  • @KatArriaza
    @KatArriaza 4 ปีที่แล้ว +70

    28:39 when you said it was bc of jealously, I felt like that was 99% the motive because most asians are extremely jealous of someone else’s success. They would only want them and their own family to be on them. Even if someone in their extended family is better than them at something, they will still want to try and take them down. It’s like a competition. If someone is lower than them, then they make fun of them or push them down even more. If someone is higher than them, then jealously happens and a hatred forms. I speak about this from experience of my own family and asian coworkers. This is very real.

  • @DemiDonnelly
    @DemiDonnelly 4 ปีที่แล้ว +173

    Oh my god the earrings changed I died

    • @Wynter_Heat
      @Wynter_Heat 4 ปีที่แล้ว

      OMG ME TOOOO!!
      I saw your comment and thought you were trippin. So I apologize lol.
      ::faints::

  • @LisaBabe85
    @LisaBabe85 4 ปีที่แล้ว +35

    I can't believe how rude that operator was!!!

  • @nikitakaay4518
    @nikitakaay4518 4 ปีที่แล้ว +7

    This happened just a suburb over from me, and I’d been in that news agency more times than I can remember. I still get chills thinking about the whole case now. Absolutely devastating

  • @emmya113
    @emmya113 4 ปีที่แล้ว +71

    HE NEEDS TO STOP APPLYING FOR BAIL!!!

  • @gizemerkan90
    @gizemerkan90 4 ปีที่แล้ว +29

    Dude Imagine someone moving into that House... I could never ever after knowing this.

  • @emilyfrancis8243
    @emilyfrancis8243 4 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    There could be an entire series on 911 calls that could make your blood boil, it's so awful how many I've heard.

  • @amberm1841
    @amberm1841 4 ปีที่แล้ว +33

    Was literally just watching old Bella vids and this one popped up

  • @sabrinamcgrath9641
    @sabrinamcgrath9641 4 ปีที่แล้ว +8

    Dude...the instant you said that Robert was (basically) a failure in comparison to Min and that Robert had been "cleaning" the garage in the early hours of the morning after the murder, I KNEW that he did it.

  • @Zenithanderson
    @Zenithanderson 3 ปีที่แล้ว +15

    When Bella said that He automatically wanted to adopt Brenda I just felt like it was foreshadowing something

  • @hoody2311XXXx
    @hoody2311XXXx 4 ปีที่แล้ว +28

    Omg Henry they hoover earrings that’s so cute!!

  • @sfietomlinson8534
    @sfietomlinson8534 4 ปีที่แล้ว +91

    I feel like the brother in law is guilty of the murders 100%

  • @stevenjames3455
    @stevenjames3455 4 ปีที่แล้ว +42

    *advertises phone cases* “ok so let’s go ahead and get into today’s case” she did that on purpose x x

  • @chelseebarber894
    @chelseebarber894 4 ปีที่แล้ว +24

    I sure hope the dispatcher was immediately fired. I understand he was trying to get her answer important questions she wasn’t giving a proper answer to, but he handled it very unprofessionally.

  • @natashawebb8153
    @natashawebb8153 4 ปีที่แล้ว +135

    Robert was a successful ENT so he decided to try and open up a restaurant

    • @callmewaves1160
      @callmewaves1160 4 ปีที่แล้ว +16

      This is my thoughts exactly! Why wouldn't he try for a specialist centre or hospital?? He set himself up for disaster.

    • @mhastings6578
      @mhastings6578 4 ปีที่แล้ว +23

      @@callmewaves1160 I don't think his qualifications from China allow him to work as a doctor in Australia.

    • @Lisasanti1
      @Lisasanti1 3 ปีที่แล้ว +4

      @@mhastings6578You’re right, they don’t.

    • @kottonkandy0962
      @kottonkandy0962 2 ปีที่แล้ว +1

      ​@@mhastings6578 - still, i wonder why he didn't try to earn his australian certification instead of going into a field he has no experience operating

  • @cassidysoller
    @cassidysoller 4 ปีที่แล้ว +39

    the first responder that answered the calll should be fired. he's fired.

  • @emelincruz4516
    @emelincruz4516 4 ปีที่แล้ว +17

    I thought the fact that he was all ready to adopt Brenda just like that was suspicious already. I don’t know how someone can do this to a family.

  • @mary419
    @mary419 4 ปีที่แล้ว +65

    this is the earliest i’ve ever been!

  • @cissy9742
    @cissy9742 4 ปีที่แล้ว +10

    the operator needs to be fired :/ “is your brother in the house” “I’m not sure” is a perfectly fine response??? he was being so rude for what? he could probably tell immediately that she is foreign, and should have been more patient and understanding with her. the fact that he was raising his voice just makes me so angry because we can all tell how panicked she sounded

  • @luce9470
    @luce9470 4 ปีที่แล้ว +57

    I understand that dispatchers have a hard job but that is no excuse for being a revolting prick especially towards someone who is clearly traumatised and frazzled.

  • @angehokay
    @angehokay 4 ปีที่แล้ว +9

    i started to cry when the part about brenda finding out came up i couldnt imagine finding out like that

  • @cookiemonster1871
    @cookiemonster1871 4 ปีที่แล้ว +84

    To the people reading this: have a good day/night and stay safe during these hard times

  • @vivitrumanto
    @vivitrumanto 3 ปีที่แล้ว +3

    After finished watching this, I feel so grateful that I had a really good childhood, despite some ups and downs in my family, but definitely not something horrible like this. I also did not know what kind of person I would become if I had to go through such a painful and horrifying experience like her. I just wanna say how brave she is and her case would always remind me to be grateful and to be a kind person. I would like to give her a big hug!

  • @pterocardio
    @pterocardio 3 ปีที่แล้ว +2

    btw brenda studied criminology for her masters, and if her linkedin is updated, she's a research assistant that researches on criminology, crime prevention, criminal and youth justice. what happened to her was really tragic, but it's good to know that she's directing her energy towards improving the justice and crime prevention system in her country.

  • @misswinters9239
    @misswinters9239 4 ปีที่แล้ว +6

    This absolutely breaks my heart, it’s hard for even me to watch. Absolutely sickening, may the family Rest In Peace and Brenda live her best life with all the support she needs