I agree with the team; they are working very hard to make this couple's relationship succeed. However, the team is concerned about the impact of her online activities, as they appear to be attracting both positive and negative attention. On the positive side, this attention could open up opportunities, but on the downside, it presents potential risks, such as misunderstandings, privacy issues, or harmful interactions.
For what I have seen the girl was sold by her family for money. They don't want to refound the money so she is stuck in this unhappy marriage in a country she doesn't know anyone or speak the language. Now they want to silence her so she can't ask help if needed. May GOD protect her!
She needs to be told, like many young people do, social media had a dark side. There are jealous people who will stop at nothing to spread bs. Glad this is being explained.
This is a good advice from the ones who cares and loves you social media is really bad when it comes to destroying your image stay away from TikTok for now mwandi usawononge banja love you all ❤
Beautiful Young Lady 😍.. Whether you are aware or 🚫.. You have become a SENSATION and influencer of Africa and China . You have an elevated status now. A Role model and example to many. Your in a honorable position now and many are filled with resentment towards your success. Yes4, you are now thrown into stardom and China 🪭 isn't like your homeland. It's a structured society and holds everyone accountable. It may take some time to get use to but it is an achievable goal 🥍🥅. Being a good leader is sometimes filled with sacrifice and discipline. You are becoming the greatest version of yourself. Beautiful one You got this, your journey has just begun! Wishing you all the best and happiness ☺️🪅🎊🦸🏼♀️🧗🏼♀️🏋🏼♀️🏌🏼♀️👩❤️👨🤩😍🥳
What they’re saying makes sense. Let her get settled first in China and in her home. She can then go back to TikTok. It doesn’t mean they won’t post the couple anymore. We will see their life updates from the people around them
I agree... get off that damn phone. She has had that phone in her hand almost the whole time this has started. He life is not a movie. It is a real life! Learn Chinese, love your husband, and have a family. Her mother should have told her this. Maybe this is her wake up call that she really is now married on two countries. Maybe it is just hitting her that this is now her real life with this man. Time to grow up my dear.
Anita you are blessed and highly favored beloved. Listen to Brother Zhang child. Your future is bright. Social media is evil. Learn the language first Anita❤
You two live your lives don't let strangers tell you how to make your life happy they are trying to protect your safety learn the language your husband learn your language blending cultures is hard but doable best of luck to you both❤❤❤
Yes stay away from titok , you can watch but not showing yourself out there . They are not manipulating you, they just want good for you and your husband ❤❤❤
I understand exactly what they are trying to share with her. ANITA, you are a brand that they are trying to create based on happiness and a good marriage in China. Even if it’s not true the brand requires it. Anita, you are young, learn the language and save money to make brighter decisions for your future. I would focus on learning the language. These people will support you. If your husband is abusing you please SAY SOMETHING AND GET OUT OF THERE!
If you don't love yourself, and stay away from negative comments you will die of pressure , on social media offenses not everyone is happy with you, racism is everywhere people are manipulative and jealousy, they will ruin you , you have to be mature, and Smart don't respond to negativity, bad people are everywhere
@ndidiadinna560 people have to be mature, we are living in evils days seed of Satan and God , negative and positive Cain and Abel, the work of Cain was to kill Abel, nowadays Cain seed ruined us by offensive words
I wish she would try and find other foreign wives there to connect with if she needs to use social media in a positive manner. She can reach out or find foreign students who can help her connect with home away from home. I think China has Weibo which is a version of Facebook where she can choose friends to connect with on social media.
She honestly needs to first get to know the people in her current circle before she looks to outside people. She needs to learn Chinese, learn the culture, get settled and get to know her husband and the rest of her family. Language is the current barrier and cause if confusion that they have.
In the past two years, several famous celebrities killed themselves because of cruel netizens. Haruma Miura and Song Jae Rim were a couple. And they were famous celebs in their thirties. She really has to be careful. She's young and fame is dangerous. She must remember that she can be used , deceived, or hurt. I remember when Yiman said she wasn't going to go online a lot. Backlash can be sneaky and malicious... And racist. We've already seen that Angelina believes everything she sees online, especially DMs sent to her. Her critical thinking skills need to be more skeptical or she will be believing untruths about Jintao and herself. And she can't go getting angry with her husband because of things that strangers message her. If her husband tells her to be careful with Tiktok, she should believe him and not get defensive about her tiktok account.
Agree with you, especially the part that is mentioned about her critical thinking skills. It needs to be on a level where she can analysis comments. Also, if she is on social media she needs to have digital literacy skills to be able to detect misinformation from persons who means her no good.
MR HANG, YOU'RE VERY GOOD IN ADVISE. SO ENGIE MY DEAR, TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE, CLOCE EVERYTHING THAT CAN HARM YOU, YOUR HUSBAND OR YOUR MARRIAGE PLEASE WE LOVE YOU ,WE WANT YOU TO BE WITH YOUR OWN FAMILY, YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR IN LAWS. BE STRONG. GOD BLESS YOU
Anita, if someone is telling you something bad on TikTok, don't believe it. Ask yourself Anita, "AM I happy? Is anyone hurting me? Are the people here treating me badly " Believe your real life experience, not what people are saying. You are young, but you barely married. A marriage cannot be sustained by listening to people with bad intentions. Ficus on your marriage and not games on TikTok. You have to wean yourself away from games, and focus on making a strong life with your husband. We can't see everything. So you will get bad and good advice. The world is full of bad people everywhere, on TikTok and other social media platforms. Stay away from TikTok for a while. Get language books and language programs or a tutor. Learn you can learn how to cook, and do things you've learned academically, maybe. You use TikTok to play games. They use it to make money. You're not a baby, Anita. You are a young woman. You are bored, though, so use your time to benefit your life and finances. When you believe Tiktokers, you get upset. Why? Are they there with you at your house? They are messing with your head, Anita. Go by how you're actually being treated. Is it with love and kindness or the opposite? Not by what haters say.
I agree with him. When I came across her Douyin account which is the Chinese version of TikTok, for those who may not know I saw messages telling her to leave China, along with outright racist content, such as monkey emojis and other offensive remarks. The matchmaker is right; some Chinese people online can be incredibly ruthless. It’s probably best for Anita to avoid engaging with those types of individuals.
Yep you’re right. There was one where was wearing camisole and really teared her down saying Sheibu’s advertising herself because her husband can’t satisfy her or know how to sleep with her.
So agree with them on this. Anita you are still young and learning. You are new to everything around you from the country to the culture and language. Sadly we live in a day and time where people are very evil and mean. So for now, get adjusted to your new life, learn how the people are and language. Learn your husband and so you can be a good wife as your husband learns you and how to be a good husband. Keep in touch of course with your family and true friends back home. But for now, adjust, and in time you will be able to navigate the toxic people and their words from those that want good for you and your husbands life. ❤
This girl is in and abusive marriage and I know that I'm not the only one can see that this man isn't mentally stable. They set her up with hum knowing that he had a very bad temper. This is craze.
@@AiXin-t8fexactly, this is the second time they said it’s her , I have seen her many times when they doing things she pushing him . And he just walks off.
I haven't seen this behavior she's learning and it's a culture and communication shock 😲. Be patient and supportive of her. She's what 19 or so.. time is on her side 🎉. Good Luck 🍀🌠🌟🤞🏻🧧 Little Dove 🕊️🕊️🕊️
So, they want us to understand that she hits her husband because of bad comment on TikTok? So, she's the abuser?. Manipulation ! Now they want her to close her TikTok, because of bad comments. Why don't ask her to turn off the comments section and make only fun video? You are the one who started entertain her. Nobody know what Chinese people say about her. If jintao also read negative comments about her, what can be assure us that he will not hit her because of that? Close your TikTok too and let them build their mariage. For me this girl is not safe and we can see in her face that she's afraid. If Jintao think that he will receive the support of the group or Chinese people on media, by reversing the situation on her, he will bit her and she will not able to talk because she accepts stay away of social media. Give advice is good but pay attention to the consequence too.
‼️‼️‼️SHE has the right to do what she wants. She is young and social networks are part of her generation. They should advise her on the dangers of social networks and not ask her to stop. On the contrary, making her responsible by doing prevention is much smarter. He should also enroll her in Chinese language courses, so that she can communicate better with her husband. In a couple, communication is important, this would allow her to express herself better in depth with him, and make him understand if she is ok or not when things are not going well.‼️‼️‼️‼️
they are just newly weds. Their focus should be each other. Her husband can understand those comments and he said its putting him in a bad moood acording to youtube translate so it might affect their relationship. You know its not only her that is affected but him too
@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028 the translation of the videos sometimes is not very clear.. but I understand your point of view. the problem with this relationship is that it has been highlighted a lot on social networks, it would have been good if they had just the two of them gone on their honeymoon, with a portable translator to communicate and try to tame each other.
@@laliyahm.1970 I agree with you. This is not a time to isolate this young woman. Guidance and understanding are what is needed now. To close the account is not the answer to this volatile marriage with a young man who is seemingly not stable. Closing her away from the outside world is not the answer. It is isolation at a time when she has no family close by and her life is seemingly not yet settled in this environment. It is better for her to be able to communicate in whatever means she is comfortable and not allow anyone to manipulate her to post about her whenever they want and only on situations they want to put out. While on the other hand she is told not to have that outlet. But the problem is not having a Tik Tok channel. To me, it is how she uses it and what she posts and who she has contact with etc., and stop allowing her every minute of every day to be posted online - That is opening herself to bullying and criticism. This situation is hard to watch. I am sure that every one of these people get negative comments on their channels. .... and they still use their channels and Tik Tok....... just saying!
Montre que nous les africaines on respecte notre mariage , je t, aime fort ma jolie petite fille Angelina que notre vrai Dieu créateur lui-même veille beaucoup sur toi et ton mari
I agree with Brother Hang to close the TikTok for a while. The are people with bad intentions and they are right here on this platform. A two minutes video have most of you telling Anita to break up her marriage. As Brother Hang said someone will send a message that her husband will kill her. Jintoa said he and Anita doesn't care what people say. Live life Anita and Jintoa. Don't let social media break you and i know you will not .
Elle est pour rien c’est eux là qui l’ont forcé à fermer son compte TikTok. C’est comme si ils ont menacé pour qu’elle ne parle pas, comme si vous connaissez les chinois 😢😢
Did you watch the same video we just did. She was told it was ultimately her decision whether to close or not p. They just gave advice. And it is comments like yours that are keeping Anita from fully getting to know and trust the people in her current circle (husband, parents-in-law etc.).
Atina je t aime beaucoup mais ta belle famille a raison. écoute se que ils te dit. Ces pour ton bien .donc arrête impeur de leurs fatigue. Tu es déjà une femme mariée respect ton couple
Vraiment toi tu parle comme si an Afrique une femme mariée es libre de faire importe quoi. Ces pour son bien être .si elle était aussi malheureux pourquoi accepter le mariage.
It seems that beautiful Anita also has some mental challenges because she was in a relationship with a married man who was making x tapes of her to marrying to this with her family also pushing for this marriage, now this!
@@PanamaCity-y6e Does talking about someone's past fall under "supporting the help needed." 🤔If so, I'm very curious about what your friends think about you. I would keep a mile away from you. It looks like you belong to the group of people who have nothing to be ashamed of about their past.Lucky you🤫
@@D.K13960 Everyone is entitled to their opinion of the videos that have been posted by brother Hang, you cannot censor anyone. If you have an issue about it talk with brother Hang or Battle.
She has a choice to make. She can rely on strangers on the internet or take advice from family and friends right there in person who a vested interest in her marriage working out. Lots of people on the internet who have their personal issues and traumas giving opinions and advice from their own perspective with no consequences if their advice backfires. She has her family now to protect, she’s not single anymore. Her actions will impact more people than just her. They told her to decide for herself but they want her to have their advice so she can make an educated decision.
I agree, dream killers and haters are hanging out online to destroy your marriage. Anita this is a plus you still have family looking out for your best interest.
If Anji si hitting him I am sure it is self defense. To me this man is irritated very very soon and reacts with aggression. It seem to me that they try to portrait and aggressive woman. But I think that this Jin is not suit to marry any one due to his mental condition. We could see during the wedding that her husband is very very abusive even in public. That was a big big big red flag
Just because he is shy doesn’t mean he has a mental issues, you can’t assume it’s self defense, I have seen him pushed him several times , it’s always she hitting him .
@@lenjon7478 I think both are very physical Jing tao yes from the video of his wedding bad temper and with his cousin brother Zhan. Anita also not a soft spoken. Look at hubby face full of scratches. Both no better
@@brooksiel8150 He insulted his own cousin so badly he nearly washed his hands of him. His own parents admitted he has issues. So no. If she has to hit him she may have a reason. He has problems. He wouldn't even wash for three whole days. What adult man does that? days. Stop pretending he's pure. She's shown right away she has boundaries. She seems like the only person who doesn't let him have his way or ignore his bad behavior. He's already improved a lot since he met her. You can see that she looks after him at keeps him out of trouble by helping him act properly. Nobody has helped him before otherwise he wouldn't be so awkward.
This gal what is wrong with her her mother did not talk to her or teach her.what is your priority in this marriage,my advice settle down learn each other as you develop a bond together then you Tik tok will come after your root in your marriage is secured. Do not a embarress african women please.
many bad chinese who can envy you and your family, they can talk to you pretending to be Africans, using Africans or other nationalities, inciting hatred or fear in you. What bro Hang is trying to do here is he do not want Anita to be influenced, he is showing the reality. Bro Hang is such a good man the only thing maybe he should enrol in an English school and polish his English🎉❤😅😢
Dear lady, everything has its beginning and end. You are in a different fase of your live. You agreed yourself, to go to the next level, in becoming an adult. Cherish what you have always❣️❗️ Invest your energy, in getting to know your husband. Letting him know, your kind of affection. Also through communication. Learn the language, learn the culture. Think about your FUTURE and WORK on that. The outcome will give you allot of benefits❣️ In your frustrations, learn to express by talking with him, how you feel. Abuse is out of the question for both of you‼️ Please, start to realize your priorities. If you are feeling isolated. You two💝, connect with other couples. Learn from each other. Take good care of you your husband and vice versa ‼️ There is much more to life, then digital prs. China is such a beautiful country🥰. Yours too😍. Try to make China your home❣️ Allot of people do not have the opportunity to build a life with a kind and nice person‼️ Lots of blessings and love for both of you💝. Be a good example by learning and experiencing and learn to think, before you act❗️Consider other people's lifes. Who are genuine like you and care for you and making efforts❣️ DO not waist all of that. Because it is so precious💎. Listen not only to yourself and thinking of yourself. Listen to others and appreciate others. All of it is not easy for you. It is time starting making efforts ❗️💋
This is controling giys she's married not a prisoner what are you afraid of??she can still have a tiktok and be live streamed in your channel she's not a minor she can tell Good and Bad comments
That girl is very gentle but her husband is not easy to interact with and certainly when you are young and don’t understand certain kind of syndromes it is difficult to cope with someone dragging you around and shouting at you. . I have Chinese friends and they are normal.. and just like any country there are different cultures but abuse and aggression is not a culture thing but it si in the genes.
Why are you guys controlling her. She isbold enough to make her own decisions. You all act like she is married to all of you. Is this a marriage or business transaction?
It’s a business transaction and she has to stay in line or else. After seeing that the xiobai and Messi story was FAKE 🤦♀️ and then yiweh completely disappeared all these controlled relationships are to make money and completely fool the audience . Disappointing to us falling into this trap
Putting your life on social media of course brings dangerous interaction on your door step. For that I give the man credit. But she is a free woman and you can advise her but she must take the decision to not be on social media her self.
ELLE a le droit de faire ce qu'elle veut. elle est jeune et les réseaux sociaux font partie de sa génération. ils devraient la conseiller sur les dangers des réseaux sociaux et ne pas lui demander d’arrêter. Au contraire la responsabiliser en lui fessant de la prévention est beaucoup plus intelligent. Il devrait également l’inscrire à des cours de langues chinois, afin qu’elle puisse mieux communiquer avec son mari. Dans un couple la communication est importante, cela lui permettrait de s’exprimer mieux en profondeur avec lui, et lui faire comprendre si elle est ok ou non quand ça ne vas pas. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
@@jocelynejoseph5738mais clairement !!! il fait genre c’est à toi de décider mais en même temps ont lui parle devant tout le monde, laisse tomber la pression psychologique
@@jocelynejoseph5738dans les commentaires il y aura toujours des haters mais parfois il y’a des personnes avec de bonne intentions qui assistons à des scènes d’abus, et qui aimerait lui apporter un soutiens morale et la conseiller
@@jocelynejoseph5738parfois je lis certains commentaires et je suis choqués de voir que parfois certaines femmes lui disent de supporter,c’est le mariage etc like wtf 🤦🏽♀️
She needs to first ficus on learning the language and most importantly adjusting to the new life of 2. Hitting him is just the beginning of what strangers are spewing into her mind. Learn to love and settle with your husband or if not for you leave and return to Zambia. These families embraced you and hitting their member portrays a bad image from the african side
To give advice it's a good thing but to broke her TikTok it's seems like to control her life by putting her under your cage that is not good for sure! 😢
She needs to grown up and knows why she's getting married otherwise social media can destroy your life forever. Learn language and try to communicate with them, see Massi knows Chinese language in two months, she can communicate, i don't compare with her, peoples minds are different but try to build your marriage if you want or quit go back to your mums house see how she is going to treat you when you fail in your marriage. Your neighbours will laugh at you. You're not marry tik tok , you can always used but don't give attention to it. Be smart girl
I was wrong they are asking her to protect her self and the whole family. Good advice. to use to roc with a lot of jealous and hateful people you have to be more adult to distinguish who is trying to just spew hate or ruin her life. HE is right: close it till she is stable in China and maybe then share only the nice things like a party nog your life.. I still don’t like Jintao as he seem instable but they choose to marry so try to make the best of this. I like the man explaining to her. he is right
Ângela, acho melhor você desligar-se das redes sociais como (tik tolk, Facebook, Instagram,...) por enquanto e dedicar-se ao teu casamento, (procurar conhecerem-se melhor com o teu marido, a família do teu marido, aprender a língua chinesa,...) depois de se adaptar-se melhor aí na China poderás aderir as redes sociais e até mesmo para ganhar dinheiro você e teu marido. Tens que ter muito cuidado com as redes sociais, porque há muitas pessoas que falam e escrevem mensagens só para te porem confusa e criar separação e destruir o teu lar. Eu africana e falo de Moçambique e te acompanho desde da Zâmbia. Desejo te muitas felicidades no teu casamento e sejas felizes como outras mulheres africanas casadas aí na China.❤❤❤❤❤
Most people are acting as if they didn’t hear the last part that Jintao said he got hit and are telling Angela to leave her home. She abused him too after the negative comments on TikTok. Both of them need to work on their temperaments and character
She hits him as hé is abusive and controlling to her. Don’t let this autistic Jintao fool you. he is just like a kid that hits his brother and then go running of crying and complaining of being hit. he sounds like a child .. as this man is trying to explain about danger of TikTok he does not say a thing except “ she hit me … she hit me “”.. CRAZY. I am sure if she hits him ( is she is really hitting him ) it is in self defense. I saw that video of him pulling her hand aggressively to correct her hand at the wedding and when she tries to do what he wants his aggression became worse ….very scary …to me …and he kept pulling her hand with that hate ( I don’t even know if it’s hate.. more like a teenager that is angry with his parents and go into a tantrum ) on his face. I am sure if this guy pulls that off in public … I am sure he is a person that may cause domestic violence. And I can understand that she wants him to understand that she will not put up with his abuse. I would do the same if my husband tries to a control me by aggression. But I would step out of the marriage but most women cannot leave their marriage due to circumstances. I hope Jintao will look fro professional help as I am sure HE HE is the problem
maybe he dealt with that but not on video as they have no way to explain what is going on without hurting Jin Tao or getting into a real fight on video as Jin Tao is not capable to have a communication or discussion without Jin Tao him acting up frustrated and irritated and he will launch at her and them on the World Wide Web . I am sure they are trying to communicate about that but it is almost impossible if one of the partners lack ability to communicate, real socialize . he doesn’t not make real eye contact. He looks away very quick at eye contact as he can not deal with that. I am surprised he can sit down and hear it all out but I suspect he can maintain “normal” behavior as long as they don’t talk to him directly and don’t ask him any thing. Notice they only talk to Anjina ( or Angelina still don’t know what her name is) . Brother Hang you are doing what you can but in this situation you cannot hold the world or that girl responsible for what is. happening ; so you are trying damage control . I am very curious if The couple can learn to cope with echt others “problem “ ( very young girl and a man with social disabilities )
I think Jintao is probably the issue. He may have said something online he should've. We already know he was so rude to his cousin that he nearly washed his hands of him. Meanwhile Anita seems to be able to be polite to everyone even without Chinese. Jintao's confidence has improved. He's less awkward. I don't think she's the issue. He couldn't even wash properly. @@lenjon7478
You are pretty girl. Use this opportunity to learn something in China. Do something go to school? Focus on yourself and how to make your marriage where women we are the one that always control the marriage so control this marriage
Who is this man and why do he have control of those couples …that’s not his business if she has tictok or not.Maybe the people send her message to tell her to open her eyes..he is just making money for matching couples…I don’t trust this man..the way he speaks to people sometimes is not nice..
She isn't happy this is the reason she isn't send videos Matchmaker. She send a cry for help Angela don't lie to try to make them look good. Tell them to send u back home. U are trying to make think that if we don't see her everyday we are saying something we'll u no the reason she isn't posting she has crazy husband and she is just a kid 15 and he is 36 what is wrong with u all. If u start covering up his abuse he will ead up killing her. DON'T LIE ANGELA!
She's so young for the role they all push her into, that saying nobody held a gun too her head and her parents and family approved, so unless she is ok with the negative comments, its time to grow up and become the woman she have to be for her husband, he claims ĥe doesn't sleep at nights because of the negative comments, girl time has to go and she needs to become a woman, go to school learn to speak the language learn the culture learn what your husband needs get ready for children, plenty to do besides tik tok
I think the advise is good. Lay low for a bit. Then come back all ready and matured. Learn the new culture, know your husband, build your home then in a bit you will be comfortable. Chinese netizens ( not all) are toxic..even some of our Zambians netizens are so toxic. Until you grow crocodile skin like our mwizukanji then you can start. Because of zambian toxic netizens she almost ki!!ed herself. My dear, I really concur with them.Work on your marriage, yes I for one will miss you..but right now Mr Hang and your brother in law are right. Listen. Social media is good and bad but if the bad outweighs the good then my dear you will not lose anything. Listen.
Damage control on us now?Please we only want that girl to be secure an d in peace where is xiabao and Messi what happen to them was it a scam or what??
I have watch the other videos of many that are interested in marriage and see how well they connect with their wives but this chap has been distance and shows no interest in her. Wish it will smooth out but....
Mr Hung thanks you are advising Angela wisely, you even managed to resolved her issues when boyfriend was posting X rated video she made with boyfriend and was full on Chinese Tik Tok. Anita step back a bit, lie low
There are Chinese and African people who don't want to see African women married to Chinese men. I see them on the comments section. Even on Erica and Ziheng 's channel they are there.
Angela is now married and should shift her priorities to building a home and learning chinese so she can better fit in the new country. She cannot always do what she likes
Anita ne le tape plus, et laisse le fumer, Jin Tao honore ta femme et ne lève jamais la main sur elle. Ce mariage sera le plus beau mariage, au nom de Jésus Christ.
The man explaining about TikTok is right; . but I cannot help to look at her husbands face expression and The mantra of Jintao is nowadays : she hit me””. If she hits him then she has Ben provoked and defend her self. You can see at her body language that she is not abusive or aggressive person but if she is really free ( and not a prisoner ) she will not settle for abuse from her husband. and she is right. Dear uncle Please don’t break the spirit of this young girl as no one should live in abusive relation. Maybe she cannot walk away. What bothers me is that she never defend her self when he is accusing her of hitting and scratching him… that is not a normal reaction for someone in a trustful environment. She for a reason I can only suspect don’t really feel safe to accuse him of bad behavior or abuse on social media . Don’t like that.
Brother Hang must know how social media work. Please don’t be angry and frustrated. You sent out videos with 15 minutes of their 48 hours and in that video there is aggression then you know people will react; some good and some bad and some just worried.
Petit conseil si elle aime les jolies ongles qu'elle les fassent plus court et arrondi ca évite les accidents de griffures. Ils doivent se concentrer sur leur construction de couple et devenir heureux et complice il s'agit de leur vie ils doivent être heureux pour eux même 😊😊😊
It’s about asking her permission to delete the account. Sit with her first, discuss the issue then with her consent stop the account. What was done is creating powerlessness in her. A form of manipulation. She has the right to self- determination! Not a good start.
I think she's good to him. She's taught him things other people neglected to. He's still more confident and happier. He's less socially awkward. He needs a strong wife to help him better himself and be proud of himself.
Angela he has told you make your choice He is not forcing you It's up to you Girl learn a skill instead keep ur self busy go out when you get the chance Get a translation app Learn the language You are now married Better your self in the school of exploits age is just a number About Erica we told her but she wanted to explore Think and think deeper
At least Erica is a college Graduate and she is now making an income on TH-cam I have checked her revenue she makes a decent amount especially for a new TH-camr
Anita didn't want to close you forced her to close this account, since when does Anita not look you in the eyes the matchmaker? Did you hold him under any pressure? Poor Anita, plus you're in foreign territory with no way to cry for help...
So she can use tictoc but without posting her self.. just for a while till they are stable. Now due to TH-cam and tiktok ANjina must feel afraid of her husband.but that is social media.
I agree with the team; they are working very hard to make this couple's relationship succeed. However, the team is concerned about the impact of her online activities, as they appear to be attracting both positive and negative attention. On the positive side, this attention could open up opportunities, but on the downside, it presents potential risks, such as misunderstandings, privacy issues, or harmful interactions.
Advise from Africa. Anita, you are now a married. woman. Stay away form Tik tok and focus on your marriage and your beautiful family in CHINA.
Agree
yes you are right ..😊she must stop this social media n focus on her marriage ..😮
Exactly right.
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For what I have seen the girl was sold by her family for money. They don't want to refound the money so she is stuck in this unhappy marriage in a country she doesn't know anyone or speak the language. Now they want to silence her so she can't ask help if needed. May GOD protect her!
I don’t think this is bully I think they are trying to protect her image and her new wedding
I agree.
The Chinese are not bad, they want to help Anita. I find that the matchmakers want to censor Anita by hiding behind Chinese Internet users.
@@kiminitodoke1992 No, Her comment section on Douyin is really toxic; many of the comments are racist toward her
@@kiminitodoke1992 her husband just said they are commentin things that he doesnt like
@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028 The members there were concerned by what they saw in the videos, just as we on TH-cam were worried too
She needs to be told, like many young people do, social media had a dark side. There are jealous people who will stop at nothing to spread bs. Glad this is being explained.
This is a good advice from the ones who cares and loves you social media is really bad when it comes to destroying your image stay away from TikTok for now mwandi usawononge banja love you all ❤
Beautiful Young Lady 😍.. Whether you are aware or 🚫.. You have become a SENSATION and influencer of Africa and China . You have an elevated status now. A Role model and example to many. Your in a honorable position now and many are filled with resentment towards your success. Yes4, you are now thrown into stardom and China 🪭 isn't like your homeland. It's a structured society and holds everyone accountable. It may take some time to get use to but it is an achievable goal 🥍🥅. Being a good leader is sometimes filled with sacrifice and discipline. You are becoming the greatest version of yourself. Beautiful one You got this, your journey has just begun! Wishing you all the best and happiness ☺️🪅🎊🦸🏼♀️🧗🏼♀️🏋🏼♀️🏌🏼♀️👩❤️👨🤩😍🥳
Good advice he is give her.
Angela, u must focus on ur marriage n put ur Trust on Brother Zhang n Brother Han.
They r both ur great Mentor 😊
What they’re saying makes sense. Let her get settled first in China and in her home. She can then go back to TikTok. It doesn’t mean they won’t post the couple anymore. We will see their life updates from the people around them
I agree... get off that damn phone.
She has had that phone in her hand almost the whole time this has started.
He life is not a movie.
It is a real life!
Learn Chinese, love your husband, and have a family.
Her mother should have told her this.
Maybe this is her wake up call that she really is now married on two countries.
Maybe it is just hitting her that this is now her real life with this man.
Time to grow up my dear.
Anita you are blessed and highly favored beloved. Listen to Brother Zhang child. Your future is bright. Social media is evil. Learn the language first Anita❤
Blessed highly favored 😮😮😮 you joking right
You two live your lives don't let strangers tell you how to make your life happy they are trying to protect your safety learn the language your husband learn your language blending cultures is hard but doable best of luck to you both❤❤❤
Too many cooks spoil the broth. So many unsolicited advices.
Yes stay away from titok , you can watch but not showing yourself out there . They are not manipulating you, they just want good for you and your husband ❤❤❤
I understand exactly what they are trying to share with her. ANITA, you are a brand that they are trying to create based on happiness and a good marriage in China. Even if it’s not true the brand requires it.
Anita, you are young, learn the language and save money to make brighter decisions for your future. I would focus on learning the language. These people will support you. If your husband is abusing you please SAY SOMETHING AND GET OUT OF THERE!
The Team are concern her online activities are attracting both good and not so good attention 🧐
My advice focus on your marriage and relationship, otherwise your marriage wont have a happy end.
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If you don't love yourself, and stay away from negative comments you will die of pressure , on social media offenses not everyone is happy with you, racism is everywhere people are manipulative and jealousy, they will ruin you , you have to be mature, and Smart don't respond to negativity, bad people are everywhere
I agree with you
@ndidiadinna560 people have to be mature, we are living in evils days seed of Satan and God , negative and positive Cain and Abel, the work of Cain was to kill Abel, nowadays Cain seed ruined us by offensive words
I wish she would try and find other foreign wives there to connect with if she needs to use social media in a positive manner. She can reach out or find foreign students who can help her connect with home away from home. I think China has Weibo which is a version of Facebook where she can choose friends to connect with on social media.
She honestly needs to first get to know the people in her current circle before she looks to outside people. She needs to learn Chinese, learn the culture, get settled and get to know her husband and the rest of her family. Language is the current barrier and cause if confusion that they have.
In the past two years, several famous celebrities killed themselves because of cruel netizens. Haruma Miura and Song Jae Rim were a couple. And they were famous celebs in their thirties. She really has to be careful. She's young and fame is dangerous. She must remember that she can be used , deceived, or hurt. I remember when Yiman said she wasn't going to go online a lot. Backlash can be sneaky and malicious... And racist. We've already seen that Angelina believes everything she sees online, especially DMs sent to her. Her critical thinking skills need to be more skeptical or she will be believing untruths about Jintao and herself. And she can't go getting angry with her husband because of things that strangers message her. If her husband tells her to be careful with Tiktok, she should believe him and not get defensive about her tiktok account.
Agree with you, especially the part that is mentioned about her critical thinking skills. It needs to be on a level where she can analysis comments. Also, if she is on social media she needs to have digital literacy skills to be able to detect misinformation from persons who means her no good.
MR HANG, YOU'RE VERY GOOD IN ADVISE. SO ENGIE MY DEAR, TO SAVE YOUR MARRIAGE, CLOCE EVERYTHING THAT CAN HARM YOU, YOUR HUSBAND OR YOUR MARRIAGE PLEASE WE LOVE YOU ,WE WANT YOU TO BE WITH YOUR OWN FAMILY, YOUR HUSBAND, YOUR IN LAWS. BE STRONG. GOD BLESS YOU
Anita, if someone is telling you something bad on TikTok, don't believe it. Ask yourself Anita, "AM I happy? Is anyone hurting me? Are the people here treating me badly " Believe your real life experience, not what people are saying. You are young, but you barely married. A marriage cannot be sustained by listening to people with bad intentions. Ficus on your marriage and not games on TikTok. You have to wean yourself away from games, and focus on making a strong life with your husband. We can't see everything. So you will get bad and good advice. The world is full of bad people everywhere, on TikTok and other social media platforms. Stay away from TikTok for a while. Get language books and language programs or a tutor. Learn you can learn how to cook, and do things you've learned academically, maybe. You use TikTok to play games. They use it to make money. You're not a baby, Anita. You are a young woman. You are bored, though, so use your time to benefit your life and finances. When you believe Tiktokers, you get upset. Why? Are they there with you at your house? They are messing with your head, Anita. Go by how you're actually being treated. Is it with love and kindness or the opposite? Not by what haters say.
There is no privacy in this marriage.. everything is just being exposed on social media .. let them start their life please
This also created problem with another couple, erica and ZIHENG
Yep, I’m glad they still held on to each other.
What happen?
@@smorris2353
People were very nasty about Erica but they've kept their relationship away from them.
@superodalisque Thanks.
I agree with him. When I came across her Douyin account which is the Chinese version of TikTok, for those who may not know I saw messages telling her to leave China, along with outright racist content, such as monkey emojis and other offensive remarks. The matchmaker is right; some Chinese people online can be incredibly ruthless. It’s probably best for Anita to avoid engaging with those types of individuals.
how do you gget it outside of China
You can't, you have to have a China tele#.@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028
Yep you’re right. There was one where was wearing camisole and really teared her down saying Sheibu’s advertising herself because her husband can’t satisfy her or know how to sleep with her.
@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028
You can still view it without joining Douyin
Not just on Chinese Social Media, also on TH-cam, she has been called names and has been judged unfairly
So agree with them on this. Anita you are still young and learning. You are new to everything around you from the country to the culture and language. Sadly we live in a day and time where people are very evil and mean. So for now, get adjusted to your new life, learn how the people are and language. Learn your husband and so you can be a good wife as your husband learns you and how to be a good husband. Keep in touch of course with your family and true friends back home. But for now, adjust, and in time you will be able to navigate the toxic people and their words from those that want good for you and your husbands life. ❤
She seems uncomfortable and not happy and doesn’t have love for him maybe she should go back home
This girl is in and abusive marriage and I know that I'm not the only one can see that this man isn't mentally stable. They set her up with hum knowing that he had a very bad temper. This is craze.
But the hubby said Anita is the one who hit him?
@@AiXin-t8f wait what?
@@AiXin-t8fexactly, this is the second time they said it’s her , I have seen her many times when they doing things she pushing him . And he just walks off.
At the beginning of this video the husband said she hit him in the face after listening to people on TikTok
I haven't seen this behavior she's learning and it's a culture and communication shock 😲. Be patient and supportive of her. She's what 19 or so.. time is on her side 🎉. Good Luck 🍀🌠🌟🤞🏻🧧 Little Dove 🕊️🕊️🕊️
So, they want us to understand that she hits her husband because of bad comment on TikTok? So, she's the abuser?. Manipulation ! Now they want her to close her TikTok, because of bad comments. Why don't ask her to turn off the comments section and make only fun video?
You are the one who started entertain her. Nobody know what Chinese people say about her. If jintao also read negative comments about her, what can be assure us that he will not hit her because of that? Close your TikTok too and let them build their mariage.
For me this girl is not safe and we can see in her face that she's afraid. If Jintao think that he will receive the support of the group or Chinese people on media, by reversing the situation on her, he will bit her and she will not able to talk because she accepts stay away of social media.
Give advice is good but pay attention to the consequence too.
Good advice she got to work out her life for herself.
‼️‼️‼️SHE has the right to do what she wants. She is young and social networks are part of her generation. They should advise her on the dangers of social networks and not ask her to stop. On the contrary, making her responsible by doing prevention is much smarter. He should also enroll her in Chinese language courses, so that she can communicate better with her husband. In a couple, communication is important, this would allow her to express herself better in depth with him, and make him understand if she is ok or not when things are not going well.‼️‼️‼️‼️
Bro Hang said the choice is hers, he is not forcing her, do you really care??? He tried his best to explain the evils in socmed, do you understand???
@ I understood very well! My message is not negative, on the contrary it is motivation to move in the right direction
they are just newly weds. Their focus should be each other. Her husband can understand those comments and he said its putting him in a bad moood acording to youtube translate so it might affect their relationship. You know its not only her that is affected but him too
@@mylifemyjourneylincy6028 the translation of the videos sometimes is not very clear.. but I understand your point of view. the problem with this relationship is that it has been highlighted a lot on social networks, it would have been good if they had just the two of them gone on their honeymoon, with a portable translator to communicate and try to tame each other.
@@laliyahm.1970 I agree with you. This is not a time to isolate this young woman. Guidance and understanding are what is needed now.
To close the account is not the answer to this volatile marriage with a young man who is seemingly not stable. Closing her away from the outside world is not the answer. It is isolation at a time when she has no family close by and her life is seemingly not yet settled in this environment. It is better for her to be able to communicate in whatever means she is comfortable and not allow anyone to manipulate her to post about her whenever they want and only on situations they want to put out. While on the other hand she is told not to have that outlet. But the problem is not having a Tik Tok channel. To me, it is how she uses it and what she posts and who she has contact with etc., and stop allowing her every minute of every day to be posted online - That is opening herself to bullying and criticism. This situation is hard to watch.
I am sure that every one of these people get negative comments on their channels. .... and they still use their channels and Tik Tok....... just saying!
Montre que nous les africaines on respecte notre mariage , je t, aime fort ma jolie petite fille Angelina que notre vrai Dieu créateur lui-même veille beaucoup sur toi et ton mari
She don’t know what you mean by ulterior motives. Explain it to her.
I agree with Brother Hang to close the TikTok for a while. The are people with bad intentions and they are right here on this platform. A two minutes video have most of you telling Anita to break up her marriage. As Brother Hang said someone will send a message that her husband will kill her. Jintoa said he and Anita doesn't care what people say. Live life Anita and Jintoa. Don't let social media break you and i know you will not .
She must feel so alone
Even anita own brother sent messages mr hung, to stopped play TikTok.
Anita don't close your tiktok account if you close your tiktok and stop posting how will we know if you are ok or not? Don't be fooled.
Elle est pour rien c’est eux là qui l’ont forcé à fermer son compte TikTok. C’est comme si ils ont menacé pour qu’elle ne parle pas, comme si vous connaissez les chinois 😢😢
Shes using Douyin.Chinese tik tok
Did you watch the same video we just did. She was told it was ultimately her decision whether to close or not p. They just gave advice. And it is comments like yours that are keeping Anita from fully getting to know and trust the people in her current circle (husband, parents-in-law etc.).
Atina je t aime beaucoup mais ta belle famille a raison. écoute se que ils te dit. Ces pour ton bien .donc arrête impeur de leurs fatigue. Tu es déjà une femme mariée respect ton couple
Come back home, Anita.....I m not happy with ur hubby....Its like water and oil
Vraiment toi tu parle comme si an Afrique une femme mariée es libre de faire importe quoi. Ces pour son bien être .si elle était aussi malheureux pourquoi accepter le mariage.
Ces sont des personnes mal intentionné comme toi comça. Onts dirait que atina es aussi parfaite
when she comes back when will u marry her
It seems that beautiful Anita also has some mental challenges because she was in a relationship with a married man who was making x tapes of her to marrying to this with her family also pushing for this marriage, now this!
You must be very relieved, now that you have vented your gossip heart!
@D.K13960 you can't gaslight all the people. We are supporting the help needed.
@@PanamaCity-y6e Does talking about someone's past fall under "supporting the help needed." 🤔If so, I'm very curious about what your friends think about you. I would keep a mile away from you. It looks like you belong to the group of people who have nothing to be ashamed of about their past.Lucky you🤫
@@D.K13960Same for you. Everyone here is entitled to their opinion from the videos that have been posted.
@@D.K13960 Everyone is entitled to their opinion of the videos that have been posted
by brother Hang, you cannot censor anyone. If you have an issue about it talk with brother Hang or Battle.
They're starting now, first manupilate,then control her. This marriage 💔.
She has a choice to make. She can rely on strangers on the internet or take advice from family and friends right there in person who a vested interest in her marriage working out. Lots of people on the internet who have their personal issues and traumas giving opinions and advice from their own perspective with no consequences if their advice backfires. She has her family now to protect, she’s not single anymore. Her actions will impact more people than just her. They told her to decide for herself but they want her to have their advice so she can make an educated decision.
I agree, dream killers and haters are hanging out online to destroy your marriage. Anita this is a plus you still have family looking out for your best interest.
If Anji si hitting him I am sure it is self defense. To me this man is irritated very very soon and reacts with aggression. It seem to me that they try to portrait and aggressive woman. But I think that this Jin is not suit to marry any one due to his mental condition. We could see during the wedding that her husband is very very abusive even in public. That was a big big big red flag
Just because he is shy doesn’t mean he has a mental issues, you can’t assume it’s self defense, I have seen him pushed him several times , it’s always she hitting him .
@@lenjon7478 I think both are very physical
Jing tao yes from the video of his wedding bad temper and with his cousin brother Zhan. Anita also not a soft spoken. Look at hubby face full of scratches. Both no better
She better be careful hitting a Chinese citizen! Jail is no joke in China especially to foreigners!
@@brooksiel8150
He insulted his own cousin so badly he nearly washed his hands of him. His own parents admitted he has issues.
So no. If she has to hit him she may have a reason. He has problems. He wouldn't even wash for three whole days. What adult man does that? days.
Stop pretending he's pure. She's shown right away she has boundaries. She seems like the only person who doesn't let him have his way or ignore his bad behavior.
He's already improved a lot since he met her. You can see that she looks after him at keeps him out of trouble by helping him act properly. Nobody has helped him before otherwise he wouldn't be so awkward.
This gal what is wrong with her her mother did not talk to her or teach her.what is your priority in this marriage,my advice settle down learn each other as you develop a bond together then you Tik tok will come after your root in your marriage is secured. Do not a embarress african women please.
many bad chinese who can envy you and your family, they can talk to you pretending to be Africans, using Africans or other nationalities, inciting hatred or fear in you. What bro Hang is trying to do here is he do not want Anita to be influenced, he is showing the reality. Bro Hang is such a good man the only thing maybe he should enrol in an English school and polish his English🎉❤😅😢
Dear lady, everything has its beginning and end.
You are in a different fase of your live. You agreed yourself, to go to the next level, in becoming an adult.
Cherish what you have always❣️❗️
Invest your energy, in getting to know your husband. Letting him know, your kind of affection. Also through communication. Learn the language, learn the culture. Think about your FUTURE and WORK on that. The outcome will give you allot of benefits❣️
In your frustrations, learn to express by talking with him, how you feel. Abuse is out of the question for both of you‼️
Please, start to realize your priorities. If you are feeling isolated. You two💝, connect with other couples. Learn from each other.
Take good care of you your husband and vice versa ‼️
There is much more to life, then digital prs. China is such a beautiful country🥰. Yours too😍. Try to make China your home❣️
Allot of people do not have the opportunity to build a life with a kind and nice person‼️
Lots of blessings and love for both of you💝. Be a good example by learning and experiencing and learn to think, before you act❗️Consider other people's lifes. Who are genuine like you and care for you and making efforts❣️ DO not waist all of that. Because it is so precious💎. Listen not only to yourself and thinking of yourself. Listen to others and appreciate others.
All of it is not easy for you. It is time starting making efforts ❗️💋
Always try to be positive do not let nothing negative get in your way of being happy love yourself and love your husband be happy
I don’t understand is this a team marriage? Why isn’t this a conversation between her and husband I find this intimidating 😢
She’s the one who reached out to them by text so they invited them to come to respond to her in person and in front of her husband.
This is controling giys she's married not a prisoner what are you afraid of??she can still have a tiktok and be live streamed in your channel she's not a minor she can tell Good and Bad comments
That girl is very gentle but her husband is not easy to interact with and certainly when you are young and don’t understand certain kind of syndromes it is difficult to cope with someone dragging you around and shouting at you. . I have Chinese friends and they are normal.. and just like any country there are different cultures but abuse and aggression is not a culture thing but it si in the genes.
That's a very good idea she needs to focus on her marriage
Why are you guys controlling her. She isbold enough to make her own decisions. You all act like she is married to all of you. Is this a marriage or business transaction?
When you married a Chinese the family gets involved , this girl is not happy with the man she married
It’s a business transaction and she has to stay in line or else. After seeing that the xiobai and Messi story was FAKE 🤦♀️ and then yiweh completely disappeared all these controlled relationships are to make money and completely fool the audience . Disappointing to us falling into this trap
They control her as that is how they live and maybe they paid her family and sh is just a prisoner of the family
Putting your life on social media of course brings dangerous interaction on your door step. For that I give the man credit. But she is a free woman and you can advise her but she must take the decision to not be on social media her self.
@@gracesibley2641 i thought as much it’s all about deception and making money. Do you know if Messi returned home? It ended so abruptly
ELLE a le droit de faire ce qu'elle veut. elle est jeune et les réseaux sociaux font partie de sa génération. ils devraient la conseiller sur les dangers des réseaux sociaux et ne pas lui demander d’arrêter. Au contraire la responsabiliser en lui fessant de la prévention est beaucoup plus intelligent. Il devrait également l’inscrire à des cours de langues chinois, afin qu’elle puisse mieux communiquer avec son mari. Dans un couple la communication est importante, cela lui permettrait de s’exprimer mieux en profondeur avec lui, et lui faire comprendre si elle est ok ou non quand ça ne vas pas. 👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽
À tord ou à raison, ils veulent l'isoler. Le bonheur ne s'achète pas. Bien triste.
Sans réseaux sociaux, dans un pays étranger. 😢😢😢😢
@@jocelynejoseph5738mais clairement !!! il fait genre c’est à toi de décider mais en même temps ont lui parle devant tout le monde, laisse tomber la pression psychologique
@@jocelynejoseph5738dans les commentaires il y aura toujours des haters mais parfois il y’a des personnes avec de bonne intentions qui assistons à des scènes d’abus, et qui aimerait lui apporter un soutiens morale et la conseiller
@@jocelynejoseph5738parfois je lis certains commentaires et je suis choqués de voir que parfois certaines femmes lui disent de supporter,c’est le mariage etc like wtf 🤦🏽♀️
Vraiment !!!!😳😳😳@@laliyahm.1970
She needs to first ficus on learning the language and most importantly adjusting to the new life of 2. Hitting him is just the beginning of what strangers are spewing into her mind. Learn to love and settle with your husband or if not for you leave and return to Zambia. These families embraced you and hitting their member portrays a bad image from the african side
To give advice it's a good thing but to broke her TikTok it's seems like to control her life by putting her under your cage that is not good for sure! 😢
She needs to grown up and knows why she's getting married otherwise social media can destroy your life forever. Learn language and try to communicate with them, see Massi knows Chinese language in two months, she can communicate, i don't compare with her, peoples minds are different but try to build your marriage if you want or quit go back to your mums house see how she is going to treat you when you fail in your marriage. Your neighbours will laugh at you. You're not marry tik tok , you can always used but don't give attention to it. Be smart girl
I was wrong they are asking her to protect her self and the whole family. Good advice. to use to roc with a lot of jealous and hateful people you have to be more adult to distinguish who is trying to just spew hate or ruin her life. HE is right: close it till she is stable in China and maybe then share only the nice things like a party nog your life.. I still don’t like Jintao as he seem instable but they choose to marry so try to make the best of this. I like the man explaining to her. he is right
Ângela, acho melhor você desligar-se das redes sociais como (tik tolk, Facebook, Instagram,...) por enquanto e dedicar-se ao teu casamento, (procurar conhecerem-se melhor com o teu marido, a família do teu marido, aprender a língua chinesa,...) depois de se adaptar-se melhor aí na China poderás aderir as redes sociais e até mesmo para ganhar dinheiro você e teu marido.
Tens que ter muito cuidado com as redes sociais, porque há muitas pessoas que falam e escrevem mensagens só para te porem confusa e criar separação e destruir o teu lar.
Eu africana e falo de Moçambique e te acompanho desde da Zâmbia.
Desejo te muitas felicidades no teu casamento e sejas felizes como outras mulheres africanas casadas aí na China.❤❤❤❤❤
Agreed with you. She's still young lot to learn in married life.
Je valide vos propos
Exactement
The transparency is good 👍🏽😊
Send her to school to learn chinese. She needs to be busy doing something useful for herself since she is married and stuck in China.
Most people are acting as if they didn’t hear the last part that Jintao said he got hit and are telling Angela to leave her home. She abused him too after the negative comments on TikTok. Both of them need to work on their temperaments and character
She hits him as hé is abusive and controlling to her. Don’t let this autistic Jintao fool you. he is just like a kid that hits his brother and then go running of crying and complaining of being hit. he sounds like a child .. as this man is trying to explain about danger of TikTok he does not say a thing except “ she hit me … she hit me “”.. CRAZY. I am sure if she hits him ( is she is really hitting him ) it is in self defense. I saw that video of him pulling her hand aggressively to correct her hand at the wedding and when she tries to do what he wants his aggression became worse ….very scary …to me …and he kept pulling her hand with that hate ( I don’t even know if it’s hate.. more like a teenager that is angry with his parents and go into a tantrum ) on his face. I am sure if this guy pulls that off in public … I am sure he is a person that may cause domestic violence. And I can understand that she wants him to understand that she will not put up with his abuse. I would do the same if my husband tries to a control me by aggression. But I would step out of the marriage but most women cannot leave their marriage due to circumstances. I hope Jintao will look fro professional help as I am sure HE HE is the problem
Why is he not dealing with the temper problem with her husband or asking him to ask him to apologize.
maybe he dealt with that but not on video as they have no way to explain what is going on without hurting Jin Tao or getting into a real fight on video as Jin Tao is not capable to have a communication or discussion without Jin Tao him acting up frustrated and irritated and he will launch at her and them on the World Wide Web . I am sure they are trying to communicate about that but it is almost impossible if one of the partners lack ability to communicate, real socialize . he doesn’t not make real eye contact. He looks away very quick at eye contact as he can not deal with that. I am surprised he can sit down and hear it all out but I suspect he can maintain “normal” behavior as long as they don’t talk to him directly and don’t ask him any thing. Notice they only talk to Anjina ( or Angelina still don’t know what her name is) . Brother Hang you are doing what you can but in this situation you cannot hold the world or that girl responsible for what is. happening ; so you are trying damage control . I am very curious if The couple can learn to cope with echt others “problem “ ( very young girl and a man with social disabilities )
I think Jintao is probably the issue. He may have said something online he should've.
We already know he was so rude to his cousin that he nearly washed his hands of him.
Meanwhile Anita seems to be able to be polite to everyone even without Chinese. Jintao's confidence has improved. He's less awkward. I don't think she's the issue. He couldn't even wash properly.
@@lenjon7478
You are pretty girl. Use this opportunity to learn something in China. Do something go to school? Focus on yourself and how to make your marriage where women we are the one that always control the marriage so control this marriage
Who is this man and why do he have control of those couples …that’s not his business if she has tictok or not.Maybe the people send her message to tell her to open her eyes..he is just making money for matching couples…I don’t trust this man..the way he speaks to people sometimes is not nice..
This lady should stop forcing issues and come back home.
It's okay for a woman to enforce her boundaries
All I can think is wow!!
Il a tout à fait raison c une bonne décision sage👍
說得對！取近門就是我們的人．要好好教她．她年青．來到中國社會．不懂社會環境的險惡。看起來丈夫英語能力較差．太太中文也還不熟悉。要非常小心。否則會壞了好事。。
She isn't happy this is the reason she isn't send videos Matchmaker. She send a cry for help Angela don't lie to try to make them look good. Tell them to send u back home. U are trying to make think that if we don't see her everyday we are saying something we'll u no the reason she isn't posting she has crazy husband and she is just a kid 15 and he is 36 what is wrong with u all. If u start covering up his abuse he will ead up killing her. DON'T LIE ANGELA!
15 , you think 15 are allowed to married in Africa 😱😱😱, she is 20, yrs old .
Bonjour ma très jolie fille sois beaucoup bénie .
Small girl come back home..our family there are waithing for you.
Hmmmm thi is another story🤔🤔🤔let's wait and see the out come
Un mariage fragile
She's so young for the role they all push her into, that saying nobody held a gun too her head and her parents and family approved, so unless she is ok with the negative comments, its time to grow up and become the woman she have to be for her husband, he claims ĥe doesn't sleep at nights because of the negative comments, girl time has to go and she needs to become a woman, go to school learn to speak the language learn the culture learn what your husband needs get ready for children, plenty to do besides tik tok
Why her husband don't use that translate to communicate to his wife at home with her in-law
Oh my God she can't understand what they are saying😮😮she is all alone and her mother is back to Zambia. Wah.
I think her mother wouldn't have left her if she didn't feel it was safe..
I think the advise is good. Lay low for a bit. Then come back all ready and matured. Learn the new culture, know your husband, build your home then in a bit you will be comfortable. Chinese netizens ( not all) are toxic..even some of our Zambians netizens are so toxic. Until you grow crocodile skin like our mwizukanji then you can start. Because of zambian toxic netizens she almost ki!!ed herself. My dear, I really concur with them.Work on your marriage, yes I for one will miss you..but right now Mr Hang and your brother in law are right. Listen. Social media is good and bad but if the bad outweighs the good then my dear you will not lose anything. Listen.
Damage control on us now?Please we only want that girl to be secure an d in peace where is xiabao and Messi what happen to them was it a scam or what??
I have watch the other videos of many that are interested in marriage and see how well they connect with their wives but this chap has been distance and shows no interest in her. Wish it will smooth out but....
Anita c'est un bon conseil qu'il te donne, reste loin de Tic Toc et concentre toi sur ton mariage.. c'est mieux.
Anita rentre a la maison avant qu'il soit trop tard
Elle est une femme mariée, il faut prier pour eux, pour qu'ils réussissent dans leur vie de couple.
@@louisjeansherlande263n'importe quoi, parcequ'elle est mariée, donc, elle doit souffrir. De toutes les façons, je le sentais venir .
Mr Hung thanks you are advising Angela wisely, you even managed to resolved her issues when boyfriend was posting X rated video she made with boyfriend and was full on Chinese Tik Tok. Anita step back a bit, lie low
Put everything on the table
Just send Anita back n take back everythings that they hv spent alots of money on her. Than every things settled
Les gars ça ne fonctionne pas !!!!!! Ça ne fonctionne pas 😳
There are Chinese and African people who don't want to see African women married to Chinese men. I see them on the comments section. Even on Erica and Ziheng 's channel they are there.
stay away from Tik tok. it will break your marriage.
Anita want to stay on TikTok can she stand the criticism dat comes from sadists? Has she forgotten what happened in Zambia?
Angela is now married and should shift her priorities to building a home and learning chinese so she can better fit in the new country. She cannot always do what she likes
Anita ne le tape plus, et laisse le fumer, Jin Tao honore ta femme et ne lève jamais la main sur elle. Ce mariage sera le plus beau mariage, au nom de Jésus Christ.
The man explaining about TikTok is right; . but I cannot help to look at her husbands face expression and The mantra of Jintao is nowadays : she hit me””. If she hits him then she has Ben provoked and defend her self. You can see at her body language that she is not abusive or aggressive person but if she is really free ( and not a prisoner ) she will not settle for abuse from her husband. and she is right. Dear uncle Please don’t break the spirit of this young girl as no one should live in abusive relation. Maybe she cannot walk away. What bothers me is that she never defend her self when he is accusing her of hitting and scratching him… that is not a normal reaction for someone in a trustful environment. She for a reason I can only suspect don’t really feel safe to accuse him of bad behavior or abuse on social media . Don’t like that.
I think she is defending her self but is afraid to tell on him ( on social media)
Advice from Zambia Anita avoid til Tik tok you are married now.
Brother Hang must know how social media work. Please don’t be angry and frustrated. You sent out videos with 15 minutes of their 48 hours and in that video there is aggression then you know people will react; some good and some bad and some just worried.
Petit conseil si elle aime les jolies ongles qu'elle les fassent plus court et arrondi ca évite les accidents de griffures.
Ils doivent se concentrer sur leur construction de couple et devenir heureux et complice il s'agit de leur vie ils doivent être heureux pour eux même 😊😊😊
Concordo o tiktok influência muito a mente das pessoas
Let her player tiktok but she should turn off The comments
Whats the interest of all those men surrounding ber?
They use her for commercial tiktok. And she made fun tiktok herself. And Chinese audience react not positive towards her.
Yes, marriage is between two people this one involves quite a few players, strange.
Anita grow up and concentrate on your marriage leave that phone alone
It’s about asking her permission to delete the account. Sit with her first, discuss the issue then with her consent stop the account. What was done is creating powerlessness in her. A form of manipulation. She has the right to self- determination! Not a good start.
Jin Tao always wanted a wife who looked good, not acted good. Enjoy!
I think she's good to him. She's taught him things other people neglected to. He's still more confident and happier. He's less socially awkward. He needs a strong wife to help him better himself and be proud of himself.
Angela he has told you make your choice
He is not forcing you
It's up to you
Girl learn a skill instead keep ur self busy go out when you get the chance
Get a translation app
Learn the language
You are now married
Better your self in the school of exploits age is just a number
About Erica we told her but she wanted to explore
Think and think deeper
At least Erica is a college Graduate and she is now making an income on TH-cam I have checked her revenue she makes a decent amount especially for a new TH-camr
Anita didn't want to close you forced her to close this account, since when does Anita not look you in the eyes the matchmaker? Did you hold him under any pressure? Poor Anita, plus you're in foreign territory with no way to cry for help...
So she can use tictoc but without posting her self.. just for a while till they are stable. Now due to TH-cam and tiktok ANjina must feel afraid of her husband.but that is social media.