Man regardless if that child is yours or not, what you speak on in the end and spill out from your soul is so authentic and true. You can hear the pain in your voice over it all.. full salute to you Joe T.. you're a solid man. ML&R.
IMO, that makes no sense as to why she said she didn’t tell you. Perhaps she was unsure who the child’s father really was and then she started seeing $$$ your success !?!? 🤔
Mane Joe T. That’s basically my life mane. I’m 24 (I’ll be 25 in October) and Ian meet my pops til I was 17-18 and I wish he was around when I was a baby man fr. I feel like it would’ve changed me and his life for the better. I feel like it’s even more significant for us as black men cause we already divided enough. Then I see how she played with you when she pulled up with the kids it’s just some stuff you don’t do as a person fr 💯.
Yea, my guy, im going through some BS right now too. I have been in my daughter life since birth. Even after I left her mama, I still supported and saw my child until this year came. Her mom decided she no longer wanted me to see her. Its just crazy I have to get a lawyer just to see my own child who wants to see me also. Hopefully, things will get better for both of us.
Glad you got a lawyer and are taking her to court instead of just saying she’s keeping the kids from you! I just seen a lady get 10 days in jail for refusing to let her kid see the father. Your bm better tighten up!
Thank you for trying yo best to not shit on the step daddies it takes a different type of man to learn something that don’t come from him and treat it as his own
My son 15 now. I’m glad he has my 🧬. The boy is intelligent. He knows his mom is sour & don’t want him in my life. I’m just blessed he’s able to tell me that he knows what’s going on . He seen me get put in handcuffs behind him just trying to see him. In Texas, the court system doesn’t care about these children. They only care about if you paying that child support they can continue to get their cut. I tell anyone going through this…. Don’t give up your child will see you not quitting on them & that’s what they need to see.
I'm 50 years old, and my father has never was consistent or took accountability for being absent in my life. In my thirties, I was over it. He doesn't know my children other than their names. He brags about me but never poured into me at all. I became the parent I always wanted. I hope u get a DNA, asap. U got this, I hope u show up like superman if u are his father.
I just had to go through something similar with my 4 year old daughter because her daddy didn’t show up to school for Father’s Day lunch. I didn’t bad mouth him, but she came off the school bus crying and sobbing poor girl. Once inside I just said “did that make you feel sad?” Which she said yes because he’s working all the time (he isn’t he just stopped communicating with her 3 years ago and somehow thinks he’s always working) so I asked if it would be okay for her grandpa to go to school for next Father’s Day lunch and she said yes please. She also had artwork she did for her father and I asked if it would make her happy to give it to grandpa etc and she said no to you, I want you to have it. I then said “wait, so does that mean you want me to be daddy and mommy? And she laughed and said yes. So she was happy after that and hasn’t mentioned her dad not showing up for Father’s Day at school. I don’t know if I did a good job trying to diffuse the situation and all that but I sure as hell tried to
You did. As an adult who understands her feelings … it’s a hurt you’ll have to fight with her for the rest of her life. I feel for her. ❤ She’ll wake up and want nothing to do with him on her own.
This made me cry. She basically stole from her child. He deserved to know you. You Deserved to know. 😢 I hope you can make him feel Loved all the way up to the most High. Happy Father's Day ❤️💎
The eyes are the windows to the soul. I see the pain! As an older woman who has raised sons by myself you are absolutely correct! The mother of the child is wrong for so many reasons.
I definitely agree. There are too many people in this world that long to have a father. she knew that and still waited to tell you about a potential son. She could have given you an opportunity to be involved, if it was determined that was your son. I'll never understand the logic in not giving fathers an opportunity to be involved in their kids lives. My daughter is 23 and has known her dad her entire life. I knew i would at least give her the right to know her dad becauses a 44 y/o adult, i still harbor some resentment towards my mom for denying me that opportunity with my dad.
I love all your stuff and it’s helped me alot in life and I wish I had a mentor like you through life I need it fr I’m going through it I need someone to talk to fr please help me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 please get in contact or tell me how to I’m from Huntsville Al please help
Joe T , I am pleasantly surprised that you are still alive and I'm not talking about the lifestyle or the prison sentence , but the women in your life. Hell has no furry like a woman scorned . The fact that you didn't get scalded with hot grease, grits, hot water or just tortured with a lit cigarette is amazing. You didn't get cut, stabbed, set up, beaten up,shot up or shot at , for goodness sake, you didn't even get an STD .It is a miracle that we get to hear your stories and testimony from you. This platform that you have now is exactly why God kept you here.
I’m a new follower and all I got to say is I’m proud of you so cool boom I really am u have no idea how proud I am of you it’s krazy no cap 🧢 no kizzy.** MA 🅱️🅾️🅰️
Absolutely not..not six years! Don’t know her motive but expedite that DNA! I was raised without my father and one thing I was never going to deny was my children’s relationship with their father!
All the right to be mad at ole girl. However entering their life at 7 is better than at 14. You’ve done this before Joe. You gotta be be one of the strongest on the net. Couldn’t imagine being away from my boy for 10 years
It's early in the video but I hope it's genuine and wants you in the kids life and not cause your blowing up and getting money on social media and wants parts of that cause if she's been watching joe t ain't giving away nothing lol he frugal lol all jokes aside brother I hope it all works out in the end brother
I got a girl that waited 13 years to tell me her daughter was mine, but got mad at me because I ask her why she wait so long, long story short she still don’t wanna do the DNA test because she found out I was married. I just wish I can find out if she my daughter or not.
Ok so boom let me get my ass up and go to work help me write my book I’m a correctional officer and man do I have some stories to tell how do I get started
Man I gotta son and a daughter my boy finna be 3 and my daughter finna be 2 I missed a couple months of their life cause my children mother said that same thing not seeing me working 2 jobs moving them in our first home at 19 years old I’m 23 now and she just told me how she sorry for not trusting me and she sorry for taking them away for them couple months we just gotta thug it out Fathers fr especially when you come up in a fatherless household we gotta fight thru it cause I see probably why my Dad gave up and I still don’t respect him cause I understand I needed him my son or daughter will never say their father wasn’t here remember I’m 23 years old I been thru any and everything if I can change y’all can too remember fast money not always good money
This entire situation is a fkd up shame!! I pray that it's not true. I hope the girl got it wrong and the test says 0.000% Only because that would mean that she robbed Joe T of experiancing all of his child's firsts. All of the mildtones of a child from the moment of birth. And it doesn't need to happen like that. He needs to experiance all those things in the correct way. And really get a chance to experiance raising a child of his own from birth. Especially since he missed out the first time. Whoever the hell this woman is, She should be ashammed of her damn self!! Smdh 😐😐
That’s a terrible excuse for not telling you that she’s pregnant and could be having your child. More than likely she thought the child was by someone else and found out it wasn’t.
Why is the song, "Must Be the Money" the Deon Sanders version, playing loudly in my mind? That is not right. Dang this is heartbreaking if it's true. Just wrong.
Most men want a son a mini them to mold and guide from day one and to be denied that for selfish reasons is crazy especially knowing your situation with your daughter but in any event if the child is yours I know you will make every minute count.
I just fell like I may be wrong that whe🎉n u got out that u was going to be on some bull..but when u got out and made something of yourself now it's like ok hold on let me see if u are his so I can see what I can get since u out here making money cause regardless she should of told u no matter what...cause a son or daughter always needs there father cause a father is so important I swear smh....
I don't accept that excuse that she gave you. 6 years you have show that her son did not need a father. 6 years you saying that you didn't need that child to know him. I think a DNA test needs to happen asap.
They wait to build that arrears up on the child support case. But plot twist: you can use a child from correctional officers as a lawsuit.. she made you lay down and you was scared not to…ijs
Man regardless if that child is yours or not, what you speak on in the end and spill out from your soul is so authentic and true. You can hear the pain in your voice over it all.. full salute to you Joe T.. you're a solid man. ML&R.
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IMO, that makes no sense as to why she said she didn’t tell you. Perhaps she was unsure who the child’s father really was and then she started seeing $$$ your success !?!? 🤔
If you ain't sure did you listen to the bleach story 😂 frfr Joe T is the best story teller ever!!!!
Mane Joe T. That’s basically my life mane. I’m 24 (I’ll be 25 in October) and Ian meet my pops til I was 17-18 and I wish he was around when I was a baby man fr. I feel like it would’ve changed me and his life for the better. I feel like it’s even more significant for us as black men cause we already divided enough. Then I see how she played with you when she pulled up with the kids it’s just some stuff you don’t do as a person fr 💯.
Ain't no way she waited for my guy to blow up and bring up the child. She seen that 85 South interview and said hold up wait a minute now💀
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That part!
That’s crazy to me smh
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The man that was terrorizing his whole city said he felt like he was completely normal 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣
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Normal for this city! 😂😂
When the biological parent is absent in a child's life, it leaves a hole in the child's soul.
Yes! My 33yr old son is going through that right now...and I was married to his father before anybody says anything
Yea, my guy, im going through some BS right now too. I have been in my daughter life since birth. Even after I left her mama, I still supported and saw my child until this year came. Her mom decided she no longer wanted me to see her. Its just crazy I have to get a lawyer just to see my own child who wants to see me also. Hopefully, things will get better for both of us.
Glad you got a lawyer and are taking her to court instead of just saying she’s keeping the kids from you! I just seen a lady get 10 days in jail for refusing to let her kid see the father. Your bm better tighten up!
Thank you for trying yo best to not shit on the step daddies it takes a different type of man to learn something that don’t come from him and treat it as his own
My son 15 now. I’m glad he has my 🧬. The boy is intelligent. He knows his mom is sour & don’t want him in my life. I’m just blessed he’s able to tell me that he knows what’s going on . He seen me get put in handcuffs behind him just trying to see him. In Texas, the court system doesn’t care about these children. They only care about if you paying that child support they can continue to get their cut. I tell anyone going through this…. Don’t give up your child will see you not quitting on them & that’s what they need to see.
As a father, I felt this to the core. It's nothing better than being a father to my 2 daughters.
Happy Father's day Joe T! Father's day rules is in effect 😂
I'm 50 years old, and my father has never was consistent or took accountability for being absent in my life. In my thirties, I was over it. He doesn't know my children other than their names. He brags about me but never poured into me at all. I became the parent I always wanted. I hope u get a DNA, asap. U got this, I hope u show up like superman if u are his father.
I just had to go through something similar with my 4 year old daughter because her daddy didn’t show up to school for Father’s Day lunch. I didn’t bad mouth him, but she came off the school bus crying and sobbing poor girl. Once inside I just said “did that make you feel sad?” Which she said yes because he’s working all the time (he isn’t he just stopped communicating with her 3 years ago and somehow thinks he’s always working) so I asked if it would be okay for her grandpa to go to school for next Father’s Day lunch and she said yes please. She also had artwork she did for her father and I asked if it would make her happy to give it to grandpa etc and she said no to you, I want you to have it. I then said “wait, so does that mean you want me to be daddy and mommy? And she laughed and said yes. So she was happy after that and hasn’t mentioned her dad not showing up for Father’s Day at school. I don’t know if I did a good job trying to diffuse the situation and all that but I sure as hell tried to
You did. As an adult who understands her feelings … it’s a hurt you’ll have to fight with her for the rest of her life. I feel for her. ❤ She’ll wake up and want nothing to do with him on her own.
Bless this channel. I went to the county in 2007. Got sent up 2008.
I kno it’s been long time since I commented but luv you JT keep good work up
I pray for restoration if he’s yours. You seem genuine and every child need their father just as much if not more than they need a mother❤
This made me cry. She basically stole from her child. He deserved to know you. You Deserved to know. 😢 I hope you can make him feel Loved all the way up to the most High. Happy Father's Day ❤️💎
Your right Joe
Every child needs there parents in their lives
It is a different case when the parent is no longer living
She dead wrong for that. Get you a DNA test homie and make sure
The eyes are the windows to the soul. I see the pain! As an older woman who has raised sons by myself you are absolutely correct! The mother of the child is wrong for so many reasons.
Sounds like it could be an opportunistic decision for her to tell you now. If you’ve been home for 7 yrs, why now?
I definitely agree. There are too many people in this world that long to have a father. she knew that and still waited to tell you about a potential son. She could have given you an opportunity to be involved, if it was determined that was your son. I'll never understand the logic in not giving fathers an opportunity to be involved in their kids lives. My daughter is 23 and has known her dad her entire life. I knew i would at least give her the right to know her dad becauses a 44 y/o adult, i still harbor some resentment towards my mom for denying me that opportunity with my dad.
Official new member, I love your message!!❤💪🏽🔥
She was wrong for that!
Man I ran over here to hear this story 😂because she wrong for not telling you that’s not fair
Appreciate you putting this on TH-cam...
Happy Father's Day Joe T, STRONG MESSAGE !!!!
Happy Father's Day Joe T. Keep doing your thing bro.
Wassup my guy happy Father’s Day 🫡
Joe T bro your videos are A+ bro you can really relate to you the gang stuff I relate to I don’t like listening to someone and this one hit fr fr
💪🏾 big ups to ya Joe I love my 3 girls wouldn’t trade it for nothin
I found I had an 11 yr old wen I got out in 21... Wen the DNA came back she's mine I instantly stepped up and 3 yrs later we locked all the way in 🤞🏾
Happy Fathers Day Joe T💪🏽💙💯
She did what she thought was best Joe T she ain’t know
😂😂the fact that’s asking …shows u are careless cuz u should wrap it up .Talking about laying down …how romantic & responsible is that’s ?
I love all your stuff and it’s helped me alot in life and I wish I had a mentor like you through life I need it fr I’m going through it I need someone to talk to fr please help me 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾 please get in contact or tell me how to I’m from Huntsville Al please help
That end part real shit
Bless this Cell 🤝🏿 pops day is 24/7 365 no days off
Joe T , I am pleasantly surprised that you are still alive and I'm not talking about the lifestyle or the prison sentence , but the women in your life. Hell has no furry like a woman scorned . The fact that you didn't get scalded with hot grease, grits, hot water or just tortured with a lit cigarette is amazing. You didn't get cut, stabbed, set up, beaten up,shot up or shot at , for goodness sake, you didn't even get an STD .It is a miracle that we get to hear your stories and testimony from you. This platform that you have now is exactly why God kept you here.
Are you the pappy of the baby?😂😂
Not 7 1/2 different cheeses 😂😂😂
Happy Father's Joe!!! Pls, tell your dad I said, Happy fathers as well ❤
I’m a new follower and all I got to say is I’m proud of you so cool boom I really am u have no idea how proud I am of you it’s krazy no cap 🧢 no kizzy.** MA 🅱️🅾️🅰️
Now Ik this comment is late but Atleast I wrote a comment 🅱️🅾️🅰️‼️💯💯
Thank you
It took her 7 years to realize,REALLY OKKK
Appreciate this sir
That blood father is irreplaceable I agree brother kids need their father and mother I have 2 sons and will go to the end of the world for them 💙
Yall pulled up on Bell with it 💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾💪🏾
Yea I know I will never be a corrections officer ever 😂😂😂
I think she was trying not to burden you and wasn't sure you would do the right thing.
Right my absent deadbeat baby daddy should hear this and my absent deadbeat father to
Slick look like you though can’t even 🧢
Happy Father's Day Boo!!! ❤❤❤
Hope it all works out ❤
Absolutely not..not six years! Don’t know her motive but expedite that DNA! I was raised without my father and one thing I was never going to deny was my children’s relationship with their father!
FACTS
All the right to be mad at ole girl. However entering their life at 7 is better than at 14. You’ve done this before Joe. You gotta be be one of the strongest on the net. Couldn’t imagine being away from my boy for 10 years
Hey Joe, how can I get an autographed book?
You sir are beautiful and I am so glad I happened upon you on FB!❤❤❤
JOE T....... U R A VERY HANDSOME man🥰🥰 I pray U received a GOOD wife to compliment you. 🙏🏾🥰🙏🏾🙏🏾😘👍🏾🥰👍🏾
Grilled ham and cheese be hittin
I want to hear more about the Heather Lane story please and thank you.
Naw frfr
Ain't no fuccN way unc. I watched all the reels on Instagram just ta come over here on part 6 and it's the whole damn story
It's early in the video but I hope it's genuine and wants you in the kids life and not cause your blowing up and getting money on social media and wants parts of that cause if she's been watching joe t ain't giving away nothing lol he frugal lol all jokes aside brother I hope it all works out in the end brother
I got a girl that waited 13 years to tell me her daughter was mine, but got mad at me because I ask her why she wait so long, long story short she still don’t wanna do the DNA test because she found out I was married. I just wish I can find out if she my daughter or not.
You can go to court and force it.
@@stillwaters9087 see don’t live here no more I just know she still in the state but don’t know where at
Happy father’s day G 12!
How small is this town?…cause everybody has messed with everybody!! Dang!
Ok so boom let me get my ass up and go to work help me write my book I’m a correctional officer and man do I have some stories to tell how do I get started
"OKAY SO BOOM, HAPPY FATHERS DAY"
Big truths
Man I gotta son and a daughter my boy finna be 3 and my daughter finna be 2 I missed a couple months of their life cause my children mother said that same thing not seeing me working 2 jobs moving them in our first home at 19 years old I’m 23 now and she just told me how she sorry for not trusting me and she sorry for taking them away for them couple months we just gotta thug it out Fathers fr especially when you come up in a fatherless household we gotta fight thru it cause I see probably why my Dad gave up and I still don’t respect him cause I understand I needed him my son or daughter will never say their father wasn’t here remember I’m 23 years old I been thru any and everything if I can change y’all can too remember fast money not always good money
This entire situation is a fkd up shame!! I pray that it's not true. I hope the girl got it wrong and the test says 0.000% Only because that would mean that she robbed Joe T of experiancing all of his child's firsts. All of the mildtones of a child from the moment of birth. And it doesn't need to happen like that. He needs to experiance all those things in the correct way. And really get a chance to experiance raising a child of his own from birth. Especially since he missed out the first time. Whoever the hell this woman is, She should be ashammed of her damn self!! Smdh 😐😐
Happy Father's Day.
DNA don’t lie JoeT just call and set up the play and find out
Ain't nobody said that😂😂😂
On a serious note just take her on Maury.
Happy Father’s Day 🎉 !!!!!
That’s a terrible excuse for not telling you that she’s pregnant and could be having your child. More than likely she thought the child was by someone else and found out it wasn’t.
little Joe T running around out here?
Bookmark I wanna hear the story about therapist
Happy Father's day
Why is the song, "Must Be the Money" the Deon Sanders version, playing loudly in my mind? That is not right. Dang this is heartbreaking if it's true. Just wrong.
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Most men want a son a mini them to mold and guide from day one and to be denied that for selfish reasons is crazy especially knowing your situation with your daughter but in any event if the child is yours I know you will make every minute count.
What ever she say just get a DNA test. To have proof
Ok so Boom 💥
Joe do you have add or something, because you all over the place with this story. Us Add people have to rehearse our stories first.😂😂😂😂😂
Literally thought the same thing! Lol
Thats crazy!!!!!!
I only have one question out the whole thing
Is he your son or not ?
I know you should have been able to see his first steps and everything
I just fell like I may be wrong that whe🎉n u got out that u was going to be on some bull..but when u got out and made something of yourself now it's like ok hold on let me see if u are his so I can see what I can get since u out here making money cause regardless she should of told u no matter what...cause a son or daughter always needs there father cause a father is so important I swear smh....
I have the same weakness on the neck
Happy Father's Day
She only told you because you successful but successful or not the child needs to know who their father is especially a male.
Ion know bout that one
I don't accept that excuse that she gave you. 6 years you have show that her son did not need a father. 6 years you saying that you didn't need that child to know him. I think a DNA test needs to happen asap.
Happy Father’s Day
I hope you get a maternity test that sounds crazy to me🤔
Talmbout da Indian junt?
Not even Father's Day?
So wait... that is his son?
Why was you rawing random security guards
Cause he was in prison fighting a murder charge and thought he was never going to be home again
@ryder6710 so he didn't care about nothing I get it not even that House In Virginia
They wait to build that arrears up on the child support case. But plot twist: you can use a child from correctional officers as a lawsuit.. she made you lay down and you was scared not to…ijs
Got notifications and shit figured out now