The Rise Of ‘Female Loneliness’ (& How To Fix It) | Shoe0nHead React
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A huge part of men not approaching women is that they've legitimately been told that they look too ugly and if they look ugly, they will be accused of harassment for approaching women. You have no idea how widespread this is.
It’s either you’re attractive and can have a conversation or you’re getting called a creep and having the cops called lol
@@dumbbumsc5329 the cops?! wtf is this man
@@dishonorabledimensions1683 Talking whole-ass COD lobby on D-Day map type of insults gonna get flung your way if you fugly.
I’m high af lol
The thing is with most of these men, they would be 7's or 8's, the problem is they don't want to put the effort in to being good looking and they lack social skills, so they can't pull off funny either.
People live on the internet and have memed internet culture into the real world.
Also, nobody really talks about it, but as an adult there's no where to hang out and chill without spending money, and even then you can't "loiter" the only place I can chill with my friends for more than 2 hours is a bar
U could go to a arcade to bully kids. U would still have to spend money but i imagine its cheaper then a bar
The gym. Cost $20 a month, and you get healthy and meet decent people. It can still be a little difficult to approach people but there are opportunities
Wish they'd bring back barcades
@mattb6646 everyone has earphones in all the time. I never see people talking to each other, except if they arrive together in an existing group.
@@jgw9990 I go to the gym every single day, and yes everyone wears headphones, but you'd be surprised how many people will take them out to talk because like alot of people, people rarely talk to them in public and it makes them happy
Do you know who can cold approach others? Children, my kid just waltzs up to another kid at the playground and asks "wanna play?" and it works 99% of the time.
As adults, we are guarded, tired, and don't have much time to make new friends. Not even adding the social issues on top of that. I sadly have zero actual friends.
I do think without any other world things involved. At its core I think its that easy really ,
Children don't face the possibility of imprisonment for doing so.
A psychological study I read in college proves this is effective on adults. When asked "will you watch my bag while I use the toilet?" approximately 90% of a group of former convicts actually did
@@johnj.spurgin7037you never get grounded with no GameCube or game boy?
@@surfingraichu7594 maybe once? That was a rare occurrence of it ever happened.
It's important to remember that the 1 in 3 statistic of dudes not approaching women isn't just them not approaching women recent;y. It's them never approaching a woman EVER. As in they've never done it their entire life, not just after they left school.
That's a pretty massive problem.
Yep, I fall into that category. I've had a few female friends I've met in groups of people, but never approached a lady for romantic or sexual reasons. Why should I? I'm depressed and have a family track record of both sets of grandparents and parents divorcing. It'll just end in more depression.
@@taliclay please forget the track record, being aware about possible problems is already a large part of prevention. But not a reason to not date.
This, we're all gonna make it brah.
@@autohmae
I mean, as much as MeToo helped some people it hurt a lot more as it's just being abused now.
@@JT1698it’s hurting everyone, because now men are too afraid to approach women out of fear of getting their lives ruined, women who want to be approached have nothing, and actual victims don’t want to come out out of fear of being called fake, thanks to all the fake accusations
It’s late into the evening. Your wife’s funeral is fresh in your mind. How could this happen? She was your rock. Your everything, and now she’s gone. These thoughts swirl endlessly in your mind on repeat as you drift away distracted When suddenly there is a loud rumbling knock at the door. “Who could it be at this hour?” You think. You get up to find it’s a strange lady bearing what seems to be a hat box. Without a word, she shoves the box into your arms and looks away bashfully. Opening the box you find a charred apple pie and a toupee. “But I have a full head of hair” you think to yourself and before you can even look up to speak she’s already whispering in your ear, “wit dat dik doo” ~fin
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masterfully told. A real tear jerker.
Why?
Erm what the sigma
Absolute cinema
i've been told approaching a girl who is crying is a trap/land mine
Oh good advice, if you approach them in that moment they will say it's because of you they are in that " paste the situation", if you are ugly you are a "creep and situation become more bad.
Idk as a girl if anyone approached me crying just to ask if I was alright I'd think that was very considerate.
@@Rosiebellmoo The problem is that men don't know your response beforehand, so they probably won't risk playing russian roulette in order to be considerate to you. This man-fearing psychosis boomerangs back and ends up hurting women too.
First thing my video game brainrotted headass thought of is The Witch from Left 4 Dead
I've been told that if you approach a crying girl you can get mugged by people using her as bait
That's the fun part you don't cold approach someone out of fear of a weird tiktok getting made about the creeps at Walmart and you get accused of being a deviant of some kind
You need to leave the internet for a while because your view of reality is warped those things are a miniscule % of things happening you got fucking brainwashed by the propaganda
"If she doesn't want to talk to me after that, at least I got to pet the dog" - 😂 that is good mindset. Dogs are nice.
I just gaslighting myself to accept loneliness as me being introverted
Plays a part
Sounds right.
there is nothing easier than to sell people their flaws as their identity and that they must love themselves.
What? you have depression and sabotage your friendships? Dont worry, you probably have bpd/npd/chronic depression and its your identity, they should know better.
Same, though after I realized that I decided to start going to church and stuff to have at least some old people to talk with.
Same.
About the "Take a class." Idea. Back in those days. Adult classes were hosted by people in the community, for a few bucks, or even free in community places like the ymca, libraries, and parks. The closest thing we have now is community groups.
Literally my first thought when I read adult classes was "sex ed, now with visual learner capability."
majority of the good advice is:
create a fake reason to talk to people.
maybe it's a dog, car trouble, a hat box, a bandage or a pie; it's all about starting a conversation (while also leaving your escape route open by approaching with a non-romantic reason)
Yeah thats a good point I agree ^^
“Hi! My dog got hit by a car attached with a hat by bandage while eating a pie!”
I hate that the best advice is to deliberately deceive women as to your intentions... Like... WTF?
@@SpecterVonBarenyeah it feels so fake but cause the games are expected I end up feeling creepy when I'm straightforward
Okay, Dennis.
I mean, in the past, work has always been a common place to meet people, but recently at work they made us watch a "Training Video" that was going through various scenarios and asking a co-worker out on a date was to be considered sexual harassment and grounds for termination.
It's partially because people are infantilized in work places. Sometimes, I want to ask my boss if the company policy is to hire people who aren't adults... Grow up. If someone asks you out and you aren't interested, just say "no" and move on. It's really not that hard. Also, that goes for the person being approached as well as the person doing the approaching.
At least at Walmart they say that it's okay to politely ask a coworker out once. That being said, have not seen anyone hook up working there. Only coworkers dating are ones that had their preexisting SO apply and get hired because Walmart hires anyone.
22:10- I still can't believe people can't figure this one out. It's normal to have standards. Standards are good. Being entitled to every little thing you want right is stupid. The female ideal is over six foot, makes six figures, and is in good physical condition. That's going to be less than half a percent of the population. The ideal will not be reached. My ideal was six foot tall red head, emerald green eyes, and sharp as a tack. I married a 5'6" woman with brown hair, blue eyes, and a wit and charm that always brings a smile to my face. Your perfect match will not be the perfect image in your head. Get used to it.
Society is progressing... Towards everyone being a lonely automaton working in a corporate job and coming home to a tiny, empty apartment ...
Hooray... Progress...
Eat ze bugs und live in ze pods!
They tried to warn us with Metropolis, 1984, Brave New World, etc.
“Enjoy your cats😂”. I can’t.
Well, to be fair. My grandparents on both sides where married for 60++ years. So they have to done something right. Same with most old people I know.
I honestly think people were less entitled back then. I think a lot of the reason people's marriages don't last, or never happen in the first place, is because people are like "I deserve the perfect woman/man, so I won't accept anything less than my perfect partner!". And then... Well, they never find them because perfection doesn't exist...
The 60's hadn't happened yet. That's the secret.
@@SpecterVonBaren 2060's?
@@BlooMonkiMan 1960's.....
@@SpecterVonBaren the fuck happened in the 1960's that made people shitty?
Honestly the food one would work. Food is awesome
Food is an easy social gateway
A co worker of mine bakes things for the workplace. It's nice. She made a lot of friends.
Rose. Getting involved with women is many things to a man. But all the things that made it worth it are pretty much gone for them at least in the west. The greatest expense a man will have in his life is a woman, when you consider everything you have to do to get one locked down. Then she can leave whenever and for whatever and you still have to pay for her. Getting involved with a woman is also, even if he's a law abiding citizen, the biggest legal, financial, social and cultural minefield he will ever walk into with ramifications for his freedom, his reputation, his money, his sanity, and most importantly his life. Many men are now starting to see that it just not worth it anymore to associate in that capacity or most capacities with women. It's not hatred, it's self preservation.
This isn't always the case, but the chances are high enough to deter alot of men.
@@mattb6646True but statistically it's like playing Russian roulette with half the chambers full and you're the only one forced to play.
"i don't hate women but all women are bad." maybe try some self awareness?
Thank you for this reaction. Being alone is very different then being lonely. Being alone has been stigmatized and that creates anxiety and tension which, in turn, perpetuates loneliness. I find, as a middle-age heterosexual male, that just smiling and saying hello without overt intent seems to work well. I am single and prefer it that way. Put no expectations on any interaction and you should be okay. Be cautious by all means as their are some creepos out their.
It may seem a bit silly, but you can look up special interest clubs. Like join up to an adult's book club. You have a common interest you can rely on to start a conversation or fill in gaps.
Some of my best friends I met at a casual chess club. Just chatting while playing a game in person.
7.3 is a lot
thats what I'm saying !
If anything it's TOO big. Like you could go to half of that, and I'm sure anyone would be happy with it!
I believe it is easier to find a guy to have a friendship or relationship with than women believe it is, I mean sure you will have a big group of guys that are just interested in the sleeping around but also a somewhat big group of guys who actually want more, the problem with those guys is that they usually either don't get viewed as potential partners that often by women or that the spaces they inhabit are just extremely different than the spaces women inhabit.
Like, guys you meet at nightclubs etc. are there because they DON'T want a deep relationship. You will have more luck finding male friends and or partners you should take a course in community college for example or a shared hobby space, this will sound extremely stereotypical but honestly, go to a coding course in a community college, I swear to you 80% of guys there would be interested in a relationship instead of just a fuck and at least 25% of them don't have bad BO.
I did in fact once see a woman randomly crying outside in my apartment community one morning. She was also directly in my way.
However, I had to be at work in 15 minutes. I kept moving.
Real sigma moment #29
Real sigma shit.
stay focused king 👑
dodged a bullet
31:36 yeah I still remember one of the last compliments I got from an old friend. I was wearing a well fitting purple and white polo that I really liked and also was way out of my comfort zone as tend to wear mostly loose comfortable stuff. I'm a big guy but she randomly said she loves how it looks on me and I still remember it to this day. That was like 6 years ago. We don't get enough compliments at all unfortunately.
"I've seen a lot of "Vtubers" responding to my videos lately"
Thats the secret Shoe! Men turning to AI is a red herring! We've all just started watching vtubers! They deal with us every day.
Yeah the metoo thing got out of hand so now men don't really approach women anymore unless it is for some cringe fake tiktok bit.
It is to the point where men don't even stop to help women who are getting robbed because it just isn't worth the chance of accusation which might as well be a conviction
Might be a you thing
@@Keep3r1438
If only.
I won't help anyone getting robbed bro, that's their business not mine. If I got robbed I wouldn't expect anyone to help me, I'd be looking after my own well-being and expecting no one to save me. 'Bought time wiminz learned to do the same.
@@Keep3r1438 If it were a him thing, we wouldn't all be collectively talking about it.
I've been watching a few of your videos recently and now I can say you have a new subscriber. Keep up the great content!
Aw thank you! Am happy you like my content
Friendly reminder that "the past was a different world." A lot of the advice in this list was made *in the context of the 50s.* Also I suspect that the widower-poaching is probably the source of the "evil stepmother" stereotype. Imagine how it must have looked to a young girl to have a woman swoop in and seduce her father while the family was mourning her mother.
Man hearing about making friends as an adult not in school really hits so damn hard.
(Probably doesn't help I lost contact with most people outside of family 11 years or so)
"Read the obituaries to find eligible widowers." Nah. That's the actual forbidden rizz.
Paying 2 dollars to raise this cursed response is wild 😆 🤣
To be fair, it’s easy for a woman to find a person to have a serious relationship with. For a guy, you gotta go through so much bull it’s not worth it. You should read “self made man” by Norah Vincent. It’ll probably break your perceptions and world views
Yeah. The thing about "women could get any man they want" isn't just about sex. Literally, just be decent looking, don't be a man hater and you can find plenty of single men willing to try having a relationship.
@@SpecterVonBarenThey also have to subject themselves to date a "broke bum" that doesn't make 6 figures a year.
OP you shouldn't be recommending the female version of the Necronomicon to random Vtubers, this one seems ok, we don't want to drive her insane!
@@StarboyXL9I don't know what that book is, but I agree that this Vtuber is quickly growing on me since I saw her react to Asmon's reaction of her Asmon Lore video.
Meanwhile in divorce court:
Man: "That's not my kid. I'm infertile and here's the papers to prove it."
Judge: "This is not admissable evidence, now pay her 90% of your income."
Man i got so fucking lucky, this was almost me.
27:30 -27:50
"food works!" said the cow on anime.
Me when I give cookies with springles to my crush following the message from the cow of the anime and she throws them to the trash cuz she's on a diet and says "are you telling me that I'm fat?" and cancells me on Twitter afterwards (she doesn't even weights 60 kg what is she yapping about).
sounds to me like you dodged a bullet, she's a psycho. So in a way the food thing did work out in your favour
My grandpa when he wasn't dating would go to my grandma's house and she'd often bake him his favorite cake.
That's so sweet what ? Aw ☺️
Baked goods and dogs are both good ways to get into a mans heart. If your target isn't a potato when it comes to social skills. I'm a dude and I made a lot of friends with bringing a cake to work or other social gatherings, people just like random acts of kindness it seems.
35:57 To answer this question yes this absolutely is narcissism
She's putting one over Narcissus himself.
@@Chek94 😅 This comment of yours is a itty bit confusing. More context details as what you mean please
@@shypeoplearehawt8155 Marrying oneself -- an overdramatic interpretation of the act in question -- is arguably more self-loving than what Narcissus -- the mythological figure from whom narcissism derives -- did.
@@Chek94 🤔 So are you saying that this is even WORSE than typical narcissism to simplify things
@@Chek94 😅 like I'm not trying to be offensive however even when an individual has a scientific knowledge of something there's times that it definitely needs to be simplified for Most people to understand
man on the bake a pie segment, i've had more women tell me on a date that they will not cook at any point and i can cook and when it's her turn we can go out and eat. now i have to ask if a date knows how to cook, will she cook, is she even wiling to learn. i can cook because I'm an adult, i didn't think i would have to start asking this of another adult. but yeah if a date cooked me a dish or baked me something, she'd be on top of the list, so far just women who brag about how they will not learn since their mother tried desperately to pass on family recipes
That's fine. Not every women has to enjoy cooking. I don't.
That's always confused me, people seemingly proud of their ineptitude at what is a basic life task. You don't have to LIKE food prep, but I certainly would expect you to be able and willing to do it. If you're not, then I'd hope you're some 80lbs skeleton of a person, because otherwise you're throwing away thousands of dollars per year, if not tens of thousands. It's an INSANE expense, eating out every meal instead of just making it. Bacon and eggs and pancakes is about a dollar per plate, and that's a very nice filling meal, or you're dropping seven bucks on it going out. Your food budget is 5-10x higher than it should be.
They're proud of the fact that they can't do basic tasks to keep themselves alive. It's like being proud of not being able to dress yourself in the morning. Sure, there's some very nice people who can't, but they ARE problems, not pride points.
One thing that's not often discussed is the loss of so called 'third places'.
Your own house is your 'first place', your work is your 'second place', and 'third places' are things like bars, resaurants, that bowling alley that shut down 8 years ago, and that gamestore you used to go to and is now an empty husk in a dead place you don't want to be.
One of the big drivers, especially in the USA, seems to be the exclusive focus on personal cars as the only means of transporataion and euclidian zoning, but honestly I don't feel like going into that. It's a whole thing.
But the idea of a 'third place' and the loss of them seems a plausible explanation on the increase in loneliness and anti-social behaviour. At least something to think about
A cow themed vtuber who reacts to things. Yeah I'm subscribing
Aww thanks 😊 happy to have you
I wonder if she's Miilky's neice?
"Tell him you like his money, the honesty will intrigue him!... But also lie about your allergies and tell him you are adopted." ??????
As a man, don't laugh at my jokes if they are not funny. I "like" it when you laugh at my jokes but I'm not entitled to your laughs. However I do feel I'm entitled to know how you truly feel about me so tell me like it is if it wasn't good. Don't "order your steak rare around him" or "wear high heels" if you don't want to. If you do some things a specific way on principle, let him know.
The "don't whine" sounds really sexist, but also, some girls can be really scary and intimidating when they are angry. Obviously don't fake happiness when you are not happy but like maybe don't overshare on your third date or like try to talk about things other than what made you angry recently.
I like the apple pie method but my anti-delulu systems would kick in to make me think "she's not really into me".
I've been fat all my life. The friend of my first kiss asked my first kiss "Where did you find the teddy bear?" She didn't say that to me. I heard it second hand. The day was Sunday, February 25, 1990. University of Buffalo, north campus. It was memorable because I felt that she saw my size as a positive. Pay people compliments. It will make not only their day but their life.
For the compliment thing, as a guy I'm used to not getting them but they are nice on the rare occasion it happens. How nice depends on what I'm getting complimented on though. If someone compliments something like my hair, how I'm dressed, that'll make my day. If someone compliments something like my gaming setup, my gunpla, or how good my bbq is, that'll make my week.
And that's also the thing is things cost more like so it's hard for grown adults to go do things outside that are hobbies even and then find people who have similar hobbies and interests to date or just be buds with so the only place to make friends would be the internet right but then it gets into almost culty territory with the clinically always online weirdos
Yep I agree with you entirely
The woman from the 50s giving dating advice cannot imagine not being in a relationship, the modern woman giving advice cannot imagine being in a relationship.
At the beginning of 1981, my mother saw my dad in a bar. My mom loves to dance.
She walked up to my father and said, " Hello, I think you are handsome, dance with me."
My father said no. So my mom took his hands and pulled him up, and they danced. On December 30th, 1981, I was born.
As a guy... romance would be nice, but I just want real friends.
Am I the only one?
why not both
You only really need one, true, good friend and maybe a friend group and that's really it.
Flats are nice on the other hand to because they can make a guy on the shorter side feel more confident if your 4 inch heel makes you go from eye level to him staring into your throat
I just like comfortable shoes and heels never were comfortable lol
29:50 Agreed, but from the other side. No idea what the ratio of men who like / dislike heels is, but I for one have always assumed that the person wearing them must have an overall mindset of being as impractical and unreasonable as the shoes themselves.
I only have a couple approaches and I am ready to make friends with it.
My go to is making cookies and going around my neighborhood using it as an excuse to meet people. Non-committal, easy to accept without consequences and it starts communicating. Even if they have allergies that don’t let them eat, you get a conversation starter.
Idk if that’s creepy to someone but it has worked for me.
What kind of cookies do you usually make for a social conversation
Ah my parents used to do that every year ..and others brought us things as well after it. It was like.. a holiday excuse for random neighbors to say hi haha.
@@roadmaster9777 I usually go with chocolate chip. You can just buy premade dough if you want. It’s more the thought of it that matters instead of the quality. If you have holidays coming up, there’s usually themed cookies in the grocery stores too.
@@mariothane8754 nice i used to use nestle toll house chocolate cookie dough tub and make slightly larger cookies though that was for me
yeah we don't have any social meetups besides drinking here or church 💀
dating apps are not just badly made for finding someone long term, they're also full of the worst people... here where i live culturally, noone approaches anyone outdoors either and we have one of the smallest populations in eu
I tried even finding girls who share my interest in anime etc on "dating servers" but... it was mostly bots, scammers and very few serious people
"worst she can say is no", yet i got "nah you look like you are the type of guy who dms a lot of girls" 💀
gotta go more outside ig, but what's the point? I don't like most people here, I don't drink
it's so over
Jesus in the morning alcoholism in the evening lol 😆
Why does the girl need to be into anime? She's not your bro, she's your love interest. Also, girls adapt their interests very easily to those of their partners.
@Arcessitor If your partner isn't your friend, you've made a mistake.
19:55, I think the woman trying to get you a man no matter what is still better than the woman keeping you alone forever, because although it's a bit morbid to snatch a man up while his wife's corpse is still warm, but in that scenario neither you nor your new man are lonely anymore.
Omg going to a non family holiday party alone sounds depressing as fuck
This comes with the caveat that I haven't done this for a few years because I'm very much an introvert and being on a first name basis with four people at work is already more social interaction than I like, but the easiest way to meet friends IRL is to look around for local meetups for hobbies. Exactly how you look will depend on a variety of things, such as what hobby you're looking into, but you can easily find book clubs, HEMA/Boffer groups, community centers, hobby shops, libraries, firing ranges etc. Malls often have community driven stores if you're willing to look around in them. The best thing about those places is that they tend to have people who are really passionate about whatever subject it is and if you stand around looking lost for a few minutes their radar will activate and home them in on someone that they can explain everything to.
I actually made a lot of friends by picking up Pokémon GO. I joined some groups, met a lot a lot of cool people in person, and now sometimes I recognize people when I'm downtown.
I'm currently not trying to date, however, because I don’t have my career yet, and I haven’t dated in six years. It always surprises people when it comes up, especially older people, because I'm not socially awkward, I'm decent looking, and I workout five days a week. I'm just too broke to date.
I would love if women approached us men more. Since the points you make and her video makes. Approaching women is really hard because of many reasons now. But if we switch whom approaches whom, it would be a lot easier. Men don´t have the stigma of the past when it comes to being approached by the opposite sex, so it would be easier for women to approach men imo.
I think it could work well. But idunno. I would LOVE if people could just be happier tbh.
I'll be real I just don't approach people to interact in general much anymore. Most of them nowadays are just trashy about friendships/relationships overall and it is draining to deal with the toxicity of society.
I resonate with this a lot. Im sorry it's happening for you
Thanks for being understanding of it Rosie. And you don't need to apologize. You've done no wrong to me. Though, the care you show I greatly appreciate. Not enough of that going around these days anymore.@@Rosiebellmoo
"I hope the cool lady sees me." So adorable.
While I agree it's better that women aren't being pushed into marrying and having kids right out of highschool or fear being an outcast, I think we've gone too far. Clearly this need that was being met before isn't now, that's why the average single woman overspends trying to fill that lonely void with trips and excessive shopping etcetc, but also by replacing having kids by getting pets that they treat like children. I swear, the amount of people I've witnessed in person rolling their dogs and even the occasional cat around in a stroller is absurd.
Tbf I don't think I'd want that lady with a child though 🤔 haha . But yes I agree
It's true that not all women are pushing the crap that leads to cat ladies. But... The women who aren't doing that aren't pushing back against the ones who are. They're fake agreeing with them or staying silent about it. Which does nothing to help the problem. And complaining about men not approaching them doesn't help either. Men and those women can be allies in regards to this issue yet both groups alienate each other.
10:12 as an older millennial I feel obligated to give some advice to the youngin’s here. This advice cones from the before times…before the internet infected everything.
The trick to cold approaches is to keep them low stakes. Don’t try and get the number or let alone the date. Just initiate the conversation and get a name. If you are in the same social circles then you’ll see her again and women are MASSIVELY more likely to say yes to somebody they know IRL.
The real problem is that the internet and these damned phones have made any interaction high stakes. The worst outcome of an awkward conversation isn’t just some embarrassment any more. If you approach the wrong sociopath with a live camera, an awkward joke can easily get a Twitter mob sending you death threats/trying to get you fired.
It’s not a shock that guys don’t want to approach when the stakes are potentially existential.
1950's dating pro tip: pay attention to the news and search for big accidents to find many widowers.
Counterpoint:
Not wanting kids is NOT a good thing. When a certain percentage of the population doesn’t have kids, this is a bad thing. This means that you have less people entering the workforce than you have aging out, leading to shortages in all areas. What happens when we don’t have enough electricians, construction workers, plumbers, maintainers, firemen, and policemen? China is experiencing this exact problem because of their one child policy finally starting to show its effects after all this time, and Japan is starting to fall into it as well. When birth rates reach a certain percentage, the economy tanks and society starts cracking. Society is a finely tuned thing, and when you mess with it, that will have huge and far reaching consequences, not just for society at large, but for the individual as well.
Japan just needs to let in more working immigrants and actually give a shit about language accommodations.
@@Verasoul
No, they just need to fix the horrific work life balance they’ve hoisted onto their people.
Japan is not America. You cannot fix the problems of a country by just letting more people into the country.
No, bringing a bunch of new mouths we can't afford to feed will NOT make people happier.
@@BlooMonkiMan
That’s not my argument. Happiness is both fleeting and subjective. The overwhelming majority of humanity has been born in poverty, and yet we have made great things.
The excuse of “we can’t afford kids” for the overwhelming majority of those living in a first world nation just doesn’t work. You CAN afford kids, you just don’t WANT to because then you’d have to make sacrifices.
On the heels thing, my sister made the same complain once about heels, my mom was like "well duh, look at the size you are wearing", and so, my sis got herself the lowest heels and went front there, so the lesson is, heels will hurt you, if you pick tall ones when you are not used to heels.
Are you going into anaphylactic shock or are you just happy to see me?
😆 hahahaha
I've thought about hosting community events for subjects I'm interested in, but I haven't really gone any farther than just having the idea, I'm sure there's a lot of prep that goes into making a decent event and I need to do some research to make sure I get it right.
The problem is a lot, if not most women expect a rom-com, fairy tale relationship with guys who are not interested. They're looking for 9's and 10's but may let themselves settle for a high 8(and many take that as a loss and will be unhappy). Most people, men and women are 4's-7's, most of whom are lonely because, no offense, women today have insane standards and men are terrified to approach for fear of being cancelled or called a creep. It's good to value yourself but you've got offer more than one thing when you want a life partner, men and women and be realistic about yourself. Got a straight male best friend in the friend zone? Take another look. Same for us guys with women... if you're straight. There are plenty of amazing partners out there and you probably don't even have to look that hard.
Taking a class isn't the worst way to meet someone. I am sure there are various workshops, or clubs where people could meet people with similar interests as well. At the very least its a way to potentially make friends with people that you have something in common with.
25:50 My coworker came to work one day without toes. And it didn't even occur to me to ask what happened. So, I really don't care about one band-aid.
The worst bit of dating advice I ever received was from nearly everybody close to me: "just wait". I understand the idea of not chasing people who have different values, but the advice of telling young men especially to "just wait" is actively destructive. Go out, and look. DO NOT just wait. Now I'm thirty and have been in one relationship that lasted about 2 months when I was 28, all because I took destructive advice from well-meaning people.
🤣😂 Finding this content creator to be quite hilarious on this channel I hope that she reacted to ShoeOnHead other 3 Videos the one Called "male loneliness epidemic" Then the other one called "proving her right men deserve to be lonely" then the other one called "Why women like posting their own L's"
Hey! I read all my comments ! I reacted to the male loneliness one..but not the other ! You can also suggest videos in my discord if you want ! I'm really happy you like my content ❤
@@Rosiebellmoo Oh hi thanks for the reply I'll the Discord a look. Also look forward to more engaging entertaining reaction or gameplay content from you. Wishing you, your loved ones & good people out there Awesome!🌃Nites & days 🏙Wherever y'all live in the🌏World same with all kinds of live long in prosper
good health/continuous success throughout your endeavors. My apologies if my comment is quite long
I tried the whole approaching random woman thing they said yes and seemed enthusiastic about it then they ghosted me I aint gonna try again
Congrats on 3% females
Probably half of them are trans
Trying my best over here lol
@Rosiebellmoo that's all you can do. Hopefully good efforts will give you good results.
@@Rosiebellmoo spoiler: they're all lesbians!
34:01 I know in New York back in 2013-14 when I took criminal justice I got curious about the age of consent since I was dating someone a year below me. My anxious brain got concerned with whether or not we'd have to take a break so I wasn't breaking the law when I turned 17/18. At that point when reading the penal code, and mind you this was my dumb teenage interpretation of it, it basically had laws on minors being counted as 16 and below and non-minors as 18 and above. So by that logic. 17 was the golden year where you can date anyone from either side without consequence. Of course no one gave two shits about an 18 year old dating a soon to be 17 year old, De Jure De Facto and all that. Such a dumb thing to freak out about in hindsight.
As an animal lover the best way for anyone to meet me is the dog thing
👍😊Ya'know why not I just had to subscribe to this channel after watching & listening to this video you just earned yourself a subscriber
"NO MAN is WORTH becoming A FED.."
I think the widowers thing was less 'oh god yeah widowers lets do it on your wifes grave' and more that they were vetted and presumably remained faithful up till the end. Its not perfect but it probably helps.
Women take vetting very seriously. If someone is taken by another women, their brains think “Well if she chose him, then maybe he’s a good choice.” Some women act on it, a lot don’t, but that is the subconscious thought process.
I mean, the problem is saddening but super easy to understand as to why guys don't approach. I've walked up to somebody because they dropped their phone and that got them to recoil. Women are on guard because they honestly probably have to be most of the time.
*My Tinder profile:* "If your ex boyfriend rearanged your organs, i can aranged them back. 😉"
I heard of the widow stuff for modern day women a few years ago
That's so creepy fhdhskaolz
@@Rosiebellmoo I think it was for gold digger type advice if my memory serves me right
It is spring so there will be events going on plus trails will be opening. Idk what events go on in more urban areas but there is nothing stopping you from meeting people at a state fair or on a rail trail. Both of these things are usually free or only have like a sub $25 entry fee (fairs use them to pay for clean up)
11:28 😅 Was just talking about this with my cousin the other day she started to realize that ♀️ are very catty even with each other
the triangle of needs is as close to science as the zodiac
Well then id like to propose adding video games to it . I think 🤔
Those 50's advice are actually the manospher but for woman in the 50's it's actually mostly the same advice
Well at the beginning at least, damn those later ones are crazy
No way, the femosphere is real
Sometimes their opinions diverge completely and sometimes they say the exact same thing one after the other
Less breeding cows and more gaming cows. LET'S GO GIRLS!
Why not both?
Also, your channel seems to have vids that range from 500 to 14K views, I'm curious how the YT algorithm works.
Random viewer btw, I just found your video by watching another Vtuber that reacted to Shoes' video.
As she stated there are multiple Vtubers reacting to her vids and it seems to be working well in terms of views.
Or they see an opportunity
Yeah. Idk haha. 🤷♂️ everyone's videos do that . I just watch videos I like .I also used to not post often . Now I do daily so It gets more traction too
Relationships are exhausting so even if you succeed did you really win? I'm not sure, but I go the easy way and don't even try to get a relationship. No approaching women outside. No dating apps. Nothing.
I think its like this on both sides as well. But it's less acceptable for men to express it openly ...insecurity or loneliness. And I think that should change
My understanding is that it’s better now that women aren’t as expected to have families and are able to be single and have jobs. It’s worse that it’s so much harder for women who do want families or relationships to have them
You asked a question. Have I dated someone I don't find actactive but once I got to know her. Yes, I've done that! Smart and cool goes a long way.
None of this would work considering physical touch is even too subtle for me to notice until it's too late, and I'm talking stuff like neck biting and other things
You don't pick up on neck biting??? If you've never had a crush yourself, I think you might be aromantic/asexual
31:32 This reminds me of a time when I opened a door for a group of friends and one of them was like "Your hair is luscious." I was perplexed because it's not a very common word and also I'm a guy who although has longer hair, doesn't really do anything fancy with it. Keep in mind this was at college so I don't know if they were intoxicated in some regard, but I took the compliment nonetheless.
No man can resist a lovely hatbox.
In regards to the heels. Even if you take them off and carry them. Guy notice. It shows you up in effort. Guys like that.
1950: "Become a nurse so that you can get married to a doctor."
2018: "No, don't do that. You don't need to marry a doctor when you can become one yourself."
... As dated as the original list may be, and as much as I love a strong, independent woman, I feel like the person who tried to correct it has somehow misunderstood the assignment.
The old and new extremists are just a different flavor of idiot sandwich
Not all women wanted HR world, but enough did.
29:15 Is it revealing too much of my sad life that the first thing that came to mind was Pippa?
Yeah! I want a woman with finger-toes like Pippa.
These journo notes are impressive. They would be considered 'toxic' in the moanosphere for crying out loud!
35:57 😅 imagine trying to have a conversation with Anyone you ask them if they're married?
They say yes then they asked to who? But then they say to themselves... So basically single not married to anyone at all heck even the government doesn't have to recognize something as ridiculous as that as being Desperate single all alone
If a girl gives me a present, food, or doesn't look like she wants to murder me or call the manager, I'm usually ok. But I don't want to approach without her at least showing some sort of interest so I don't end up on the internet as "creepy guy who stalked me" even though I just said "hi"